What i've noticed is that doing the right things in regards to attracting women FEELS weird for most men, but they are the things that work. I noticed that when I pull back or take my time in responding i feel weird and unnatural, but that's because i've conditioned myself that way. But slowly it will become normal with practice.
True story what happened to me with a woman: she pulled back for eight (!) months, I didn’t go angry and went on with my life and posting my daily things. She came back after eight months and I acted like nothing happened. Now we are ‘friends’ with benefits and she values my time.
@@Frebleify I actually didn't watch the video, just saw the thumbnail (for only god knows what reason this came to my front page) and that was my first thought
doodo535 bro things have gotten way better I didn’t back contact her until she eventually did and I admit it was hard at times I missed her but she did come back and she apologized for her behavior and things have been great. How are you doing with your relationship if you have one?
@@cadxt9444 how long did it take for your girl to come back? I was thinking about breaking no contact today but your message have me a bit of hope. Its been a couple days since ive reached out but nothing from her so far
Yeah You Stated Some Great Point's Sir and Tbh If Women Pull Away From Me I Just Let Them Go Move On Forward Hold My Head Up High and Keep Walking Tall. 💯
@@felisac8228 How is he wrong? The whole point of no contact is focusing on yourself. If they come back, cool, if they don't, you still have your dignity and you can move on.
Sean Donahue so you think every girl gonna jump on you because you’re a ceo? No contact is all about self improvement, enjoying your own company, learning not to be so reliant on others.
I think when a girl likes you she's not gonna leave you no matter what... there's ups and downs but you have to freeze your soul and resolve that which is affecting you guys... I guess... or just dump her and find another woman... she's just using you...
brother, I applied what you said 100% and it worked perfectly. I hate that it did and I wish my partner was as straighforward as me but I cant argue with the results
Thank you Chris canwell, I will always be grateful to you for the advices. I have become needy and responsive and started getting frustrated when she doesn’t listen to me or doesn’t give me time.
Its called the final move you try for the last time you do that and if they don't respond you forget about them until they reach out for you and if they don't fuck em you need to move on , and you can't just wait for their response you need to focus on something during that period of time so you keep yourself busy all the time and you go on date with others too
I got the text from my ex after 11. hrs I responded just texted Hi I said hloo Then she said sup? I replied nathing She said r u angry I said no Then she didn't texted me for 3 days till now Nither I texted her Will she be back or I backout
Chris, would you do a video when the woman you been dating gets mad because you were cold, and now she's cold more difficult to communicate with. Like how to handle when you did something wrong.
also it depends on the woman and her life stage, I dated a woman who was 35 , I did not force anything, we dated once a week, no validation from me, took things slow as I had come out of a long LTR prior, and she said ended up loosing interest exactly 3 months later shes been married and divorced and is 35 so I think I dodged a bullet here
My girl pulled away because our love came to fast to heavy to much after her long bad marriage.now she wants some time alone and needs space and she started to doubt i f whe were meant for each other because of different styles in living our live.but she really thinks highly of me. Does the no contact rule works here too? Wat can i do to get her back
Axl vino same situation I dated a girl 4 yrs ago , left her , apologized , talked to her on and off while she was with this other dude for last 2.5 yrs. finally she left his ass, my dumbass over watered the plant expecting her to jump in a relationship with me right away. I fucked up ,pressured, over spended,(she didnt ask for nothing) , actin all needy , fuck that im in no contact mode now.. shes knows what i can bring to the table as far as achieving future goals and dreams. That needy clingy shit is for weak hearted men. Im done begging and forcing
My girlfriend pulled away from me and its been like that almost 1 month and I tried talking about it with her but it didnt help. What should I do instead, trying to reattract her? Or even break up at this point since she treated me badly since she started to pull away? Do I need to stand up for myself or just focus on reattracting her? Im confused I need advice =(
Simple. The advice is copied from another video which I responded to another person who had a similar question: Just walk away until she gets back to you. Don't text her again. In the meantime, start flirting with other women. Don't let her affect you. The storm will always come just like the calm will too. Stay strong my friend! If you handle things the right way, *they always come back.* Remember: Attraction grows in space. Go no contact immediately. This sends a message to her that is very attractive. Listen, the more you try to resolve things with women, the more distant they become. Trust me on this. This is the twisted female logic us guys have to deal with today.
Well you right and all that but I already showed signs of weakness like showing that Im hurt by her and also she seems like more open to talking to other guys. Do you think she will come back regardless if I stop messaging her now or do I need to say something like "I break up with you" to her? The way I see it she is only stringing me along until she finds another guy she can replace me with and only comes back if she cant find a better guy or misses me.
First I highly recommend getting his action plan and Atomic Attraction. The danger is not her looking for someone while you are pulling back, the danger is her finding some while you are *not* pulling back. If you tell her "I break up with you" you are showing weakness because you are telling her that you are scared she will break up with you first. It does not matter if you acted weak in the past, just start projecting high value now. Be strong. Don't focus on her because this will turn her off. The only way to get her attention is to completely remove yours. Just go no contact without saying anything (essentially walk away) until she gets back to you and believe me, *she will come back to you if you handle things the right way.* Don't be scared, focus on your goals and ambitions and this will work out just fine. In the case that she doesn't come back (highly unlikely if you pull back and display strength), you will get someone better. Take care of yourself and trust yourself on this process.
You should not love women anyway. They are nothing but sources of pleasure. Their beauty is an antropomorphic vessel that nature lends them for a few years. Women are hot-blooded mammals who desire to be dominated, that's their nature.
7th time she pulls away and i think it was becasue i couldnt respond less than a hour to respond now when she responds i will let her text me 80% of the time but i havent been able to because she has kept on disappearing
Shit that’s what’s happening to me. Gf became upset with me so like a fool I started chasing her always calling. So I decided to just leave her alone. Been almost a week haven’t heard from her
Chris, what do i do when my girl is so good to me but it happened that she visited her ex boyfriend due to a group of friends meet then the ex kissed her. Should i move on? She told me it was a mistake and it won't happen again. But i need advice from you who is a pro. Thanks
A woman who pulls away may be because the man is no longer responsive. She will think that it is no longer worthwhile to invest her time in that unresponsive guy and goes to the one who pays more attraction to her.
@Maureen Kam from a guys perspective that means you have just dodged a bullet. If she moves on to someone else that just means she did not value your friendship/ relationship and was only after the attention. Why would you want to continue a friendship/ relationship with someone like that?
is this what “love” consists of? A woman will lose interest if a man treats her too well. What t hell is even that. I understand the laws but I don’t like them.
I feel like my girlfriend doesn’t want to hang out with me but she hangs out with her friends at P.E. and lunch and I only have after school to be with her can anyone please help me I just want to cry and I miss her so much
KOSTAS MPOUSTOKSIDIDS thanks, good that she said it to you ;) But yes i am sure. I can fell the tense way how she ignores me. I am still some cause and she still some effect...
Dude you changed my life my girl friend has high interest she dose 80% of the texting and calling. I follow all your steps
Did it really work ?
@@DJ-sOmA You should give it a try ;)
@@DJ-sOmA it does. Do your own thing and you’ll just be an attractive person in general. People will come to you.
What i've noticed is that doing the right things in regards to attracting women FEELS weird for most men, but they are the things that work. I noticed that when I pull back or take my time in responding i feel weird and unnatural, but that's because i've conditioned myself that way. But slowly it will become normal with practice.
new leaf88 big facts bruh
It's a counter-intuitive process.
He tells you that you're desperate and the proof is you're checking out his videos , this guy is a savage
True story what happened to me with a woman: she pulled back for eight (!) months, I didn’t go angry and went on with my life and posting my daily things. She came back after eight months and I acted like nothing happened. Now we are ‘friends’ with benefits and she values my time.
The moment she pulls away, I always replace. By the time she comes back, she must accept to be a side kick.
🤣🤣💔💔 that's the way
Ooohh
Noice
I sense "tryna be a tough guy Vybes" haha.
Pmsl 😂 mate you were replaced anyway, the reason they push you away is because there is someone else in the background, you are her side kick 😂
This man is 100% spot on!!
Yeah you 're right. He' s very right!!!
You explain things very well straight to the point
"ah good, she finally left me alone"
Same Here Br0..!!!
Great comment
Lol, wish I could be like you
If that was the case, you would’nt be here
@@Frebleify I actually didn't watch the video, just saw the thumbnail (for only god knows what reason this came to my front page) and that was my first thought
It's good to see your channel growing chris!
Video came at the right time, was to break and talk to my girl while she asks for space, lifesaver thanks bro
Update?
doodo535 bro things have gotten way better I didn’t back contact her until she eventually did and I admit it was hard at times I missed her but she did come back and she apologized for her behavior and things have been great. How are you doing with your relationship if you have one?
@@cadxt9444 how long did it take for your girl to come back? I was thinking about breaking no contact today but your message have me a bit of hope. Its been a couple days since ive reached out but nothing from her so far
This work on everyone friend too
This was the hard truth I needed, thank you.
Men this guy is the best no gimmicks, knows what he’s saying
Yeah You Stated Some Great Point's Sir and Tbh If Women Pull Away From Me I Just Let Them Go Move On Forward Hold My Head Up High and Keep Walking Tall. 💯
Chris u are awsom. I have seen all your videos and you are one of the few guys Who tells right things. Keep the good work!!!
If you got NO value in her eyes or very low attraction from her perspective, no contact or walking away WILL mean youll never hear from her
Agree. This guy's advice is all wrong
@@felisac8228 How is he wrong? The whole point of no contact is focusing on yourself. If they come back, cool, if they don't, you still have your dignity and you can move on.
What if you walkaway and your a CEO
Sean Donahue so you think every girl gonna jump on you because you’re a ceo? No contact is all about self improvement, enjoying your own company, learning not to be so reliant on others.
For sure. But that's why you gotta work on yourself and not on a girl. There a waste of time.
I think when a girl likes you she's not gonna leave you no matter what... there's ups and downs but you have to freeze your soul and resolve that which is affecting you guys... I guess... or just dump her and find another woman... she's just using you...
brother, I applied what you said 100% and it worked perfectly. I hate that it did and I wish my partner was as straighforward as me but I cant argue with the results
Great video Mr. Canwell!
👍👍 He goes & gets straight to the point. 😃
When she pulls away you look for another girlfriend to move on with.
The best of best advice! Thank you.
I like this girl a lot, but I took your advice and I’ve pull back until she texts me back or call me...I have to make her chase me lol
are you still alive
Great video…..”Thirsty men never get to drink!”🙂🙂🙂🙂
Thank you Chris canwell, I will always be grateful to you for the advices. I have become needy and responsive and started getting frustrated when she doesn’t listen to me or doesn’t give me time.
I once jokingly compared her to a cat. She told me, I'm not a cat. I then said, Oh yes you are darlin', yes you are.
is there a time where you should reach out to them if they haven't contacted you?
Its called the final move you try for the last time you do that and if they don't respond you forget about them until they reach out for you and if they don't fuck em you need to move on , and you can't just wait for their response you need to focus on something during that period of time so you keep yourself busy all the time and you go on date with others too
Just give her space
I got the text from my ex after 11. hrs I responded just texted
Hi
I said hloo
Then she said sup?
I replied nathing
She said r u angry
I said no
Then she didn't texted me for 3 days till now Nither I texted her
Will she be back or I backout
Chris, would you do a video when the woman you been dating gets mad because you were cold, and now she's cold more difficult to communicate with. Like how to handle when you did something wrong.
I’m wondering the same
also it depends on the woman and her life stage, I dated a woman who was 35 , I did not force anything, we dated once a week, no validation from me, took things slow as I had come out of a long LTR prior, and she said ended up loosing interest exactly 3 months later
shes been married and divorced and is 35 so I think I dodged a bullet here
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
What if she play pulling away for pulling away?
Love this dude!
I dont think i would ever understand women because i dont like cats lol
superSnakeStang you have to adapt
And stop complaining
Hehe
Yes they're strange, irrational, spiteful, and demanding creatures, and cats are just the same.
Death to cat-haters. Cats are the perfect reflection of women. Why their called felines.
In other words mirror her emotions
put your book on the play store and I buy it
Repeataarrr agreed
Wish you were my best friend Chris! 👍
she just msg me after 6 weeks of no contact and now she is chasing me like crazyyyyyyyy
What she say to you?
Great information..
My girl pulled away because our love came to fast to heavy to much after her long bad marriage.now she wants some time alone and needs space and she started to doubt i f whe were meant for each other because of different styles in living our live.but she really thinks highly of me. Does the no contact rule works here too? Wat can i do to get her back
Axl vino same situation I dated a girl 4 yrs ago , left her , apologized , talked to her on and off while she was with this other dude for last 2.5 yrs. finally she left his ass, my dumbass over watered the plant expecting her to jump in a relationship with me right away. I fucked up ,pressured, over spended,(she didnt ask for nothing) , actin all needy , fuck that im in no contact mode now.. shes knows what i can bring to the table as far as achieving future goals and dreams. That needy clingy shit is for weak hearted men. Im done begging and forcing
Focusing on women is completely a waste of time. Men go out make money be happy and you see them looking for a way to come to you.
'Claw your face off'......I'm in fuckin stitches laughing.......bad old puddycat
What to do if my gf pulls away from me after we had a fight since she was speaking with her ex boyfriend
My girlfriend pulled away from me and its been like that almost 1 month and I tried talking about it with her but it didnt help. What should I do instead, trying to reattract her? Or even break up at this point since she treated me badly since she started to pull away? Do I need to stand up for myself or just focus on reattracting her? Im confused I need advice =(
Simple. The advice is copied from another video which I responded to another person who had a similar question:
Just walk away until she gets back to you. Don't text her again. In the meantime, start flirting with other women. Don't let her affect you. The storm will always come just like the calm will too. Stay strong my friend! If you handle things the right way, *they always come back.*
Remember: Attraction grows in space. Go no contact immediately. This sends a message to her that is very attractive.
Listen, the more you try to resolve things with women, the more distant they become. Trust me on this. This is the twisted female logic us guys have to deal with today.
Well you right and all that but I already showed signs of weakness like showing that Im hurt by her and also she seems like more open to talking to other guys. Do you think she will come back regardless if I stop messaging her now or do I need to say something like "I break up with you" to her? The way I see it she is only stringing me along until she finds another guy she can replace me with and only comes back if she cant find a better guy or misses me.
First I highly recommend getting his action plan and Atomic Attraction.
The danger is not her looking for someone while you are pulling back, the danger is her finding some while you are *not* pulling back. If you tell her "I break up with you" you are showing weakness because you are telling her that you are scared she will break up with you first. It does not matter if you acted weak in the past, just start projecting high value now. Be strong. Don't focus on her because this will turn her off. The only way to get her attention is to completely remove yours. Just go no contact without saying anything (essentially walk away) until she gets back to you and believe me, *she will come back to you if you handle things the right way.* Don't be scared, focus on your goals and ambitions and this will work out just fine. In the case that she doesn't come back (highly unlikely if you pull back and display strength), you will get someone better. Take care of yourself and trust yourself on this process.
Anima Libera they always come back
You should not love women anyway. They are nothing but sources of pleasure. Their beauty is an antropomorphic vessel that nature lends them for a few years. Women are hot-blooded mammals who desire to be dominated, that's their nature.
😆😆😆😆 really just today she msg me after 1 month nd i used your words thanks bro 👍
True true. I oriced it some h
7th time she pulls away and i think it was becasue i couldnt respond less than a hour to respond now when she responds i will let her text me 80% of the time but i havent been able to because she has kept on disappearing
Just like Monty Roberts " Join Up"
Ok I'll let you know how it goes this is already my second day no contact ✊
I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend most times go cold on me,I give her much of my time.please what can I do?
Shit that’s what’s happening to me. Gf became upset with me so like a fool I started chasing her always calling. So I decided to just leave her alone. Been almost a week haven’t heard from her
Did she ever reach out?
@@JihadBunnydick she did actually. It’s been 2 years and we’re still together even had twin girls together
@@jesseturner4607
Congrats!
My gf pulled away, and she acted like nothing happened and texted me after 1 week. Crazy@@
@@jesseturner4607 how long u did no contact until she reach out?
@@Zeosth about a month. She called me out of nowhere. Stay strong bro
Loving pulling away myself from whiminz for eternity myself 😀
Chris, what do i do when my girl is so good to me but it happened that she visited her ex boyfriend due to a group of friends meet then the ex kissed her.
Should i move on?
She told me it was a mistake and it won't happen again. But i need advice from you who is a pro.
Thanks
Move on broo
Move on bro, because she will do it again and again and again... You'll be left there broken into pieces
@@xolanikunene291 i have lready
You handled the situation well Bru🏃🏃
How can get the book....
How long will she pull away for?
A woman who pulls away may be because the man is no longer responsive. She will think that it is no longer worthwhile to invest her time in that unresponsive guy and goes to the one who pays more attraction to her.
Maureen Kam that's why we should do 'push and pull technique'
Maureen Kam true
Yup...totally agree.
Do not ever listen to a woman about how to handle a woman. What they say vs. how they act are totally opposite.
@Maureen Kam from a guys perspective that means you have just dodged a bullet. If she moves on to someone else that just means she did not value your friendship/ relationship and was only after the attention. Why would you want to continue a friendship/ relationship with someone like that?
Great analogy with the cat
Should we contact after a month to build rapport?
is this what “love” consists of? A woman will lose interest if a man treats her too well. What t hell is even that. I understand the laws but I don’t like them.
so women are like cats .so i have to give my ex milk to lure her back from me.
Yes that’s right!
Why you never smile?
Is the same advice with men?
Stacey Swope yes it drives us crazy lol!
I'm sure it is,I'm mid 40s I'm just exhausted with all this...but hate 2 say it, he's absolutely spot on...tear drop
2:20 a nugget.
How long should I push them
Shoda Katsura アイスミルク until they reach out to you
If she pulls from you let her,l never welcome her again 😁
what if she have lots guy friends..
Mohamed Hassan all these videos are saying focus on yourself. Never prioritize women.
Hey. Sir make video on how to BREAKUP easily... something is painfull for girls.
Player to player. Pimp to pimp
I feel like my girlfriend doesn’t want to hang out with me but she hangs out with her friends at P.E. and lunch and I only have after school to be with her can anyone please help me I just want to cry and I miss her so much
Don't be a needy ass simp bro.
May i wish her may i give a gift her on her birthday while on no contact rule... I need hlp plz rly me
No
But the shit cat is not coming for 6 months!!!!
She Will Come back but not the time you want!
KOSTAS MPOUSTOKSIDIDS thanks, good that she said it to you ;) But yes i am sure. I can fell the tense way how she ignores me. I am still some cause and she still some effect...
Better: i dont give even oportunity too be clearly ignored. Ambiguity is everything in seduction, even after showing the fellings . >Kierkegaard
I agree.. When u believe in something so much there is a reason. Trust your instict!!!
KOSTAS MPOUSTOKSIDIDS kalaa ta kaka
What if she meets a new man?
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
How can we have a healthy sexual relationship when my girlfriend keeps pulling away like this?
Go MGTOW