What To Do When She Pulls Away From You

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  • Опубліковано 28 січ 2018
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    It doesn’t matter if you’re the sexiest man on earth, whether you’re rich or good-looking, or even if you have a perfect relationship-a woman, at some point, will pull away from you. The severity and duration of this withdrawal, however, is up to you. When your girlfriend pulls away, you first need to understand . . . why does she do this?
    Is it because your girlfriend has had enough of your company? Is it because she’s a woman and it’s all part of her emotional ups and downs? Or is it simply because she’s trying to test you?
    Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 166

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 4 роки тому +197

    What i've noticed is that doing the right things in regards to attracting women FEELS weird for most men, but they are the things that work. I noticed that when I pull back or take my time in responding i feel weird and unnatural, but that's because i've conditioned myself that way. But slowly it will become normal with practice.

  • @v-lighdra4566
    @v-lighdra4566 4 роки тому +79

    He tells you that you're desperate and the proof is you're checking out his videos , this guy is a savage

  • @EJayyDreadHead
    @EJayyDreadHead 4 роки тому +125

    Dude you changed my life my girl friend has high interest she dose 80% of the texting and calling. I follow all your steps

    • @DJ-sOmA
      @DJ-sOmA 3 роки тому

      Did it really work ?

    • @user-zo5xg5hh5f
      @user-zo5xg5hh5f 3 роки тому

      @@DJ-sOmA You should give it a try ;)

    • @herrklamm1454
      @herrklamm1454 3 роки тому +11

      @@DJ-sOmA it does. Do your own thing and you’ll just be an attractive person in general. People will come to you.

  • @jilokizito1705
    @jilokizito1705 3 роки тому +161

    The moment she pulls away, I always replace. By the time she comes back, she must accept to be a side kick.

    • @saintmearl8518
      @saintmearl8518 2 роки тому +9

      🤣🤣💔💔 that's the way

    • @tenuem974
      @tenuem974 2 роки тому +1

      Ooohh

    • @shanethenorsegod
      @shanethenorsegod 2 роки тому

      Noice

    • @Alien_civilizations
      @Alien_civilizations 2 роки тому +15

      I sense "tryna be a tough guy Vybes" haha.

    • @barneyrubble8839
      @barneyrubble8839 Рік тому +3

      Pmsl 😂 mate you were replaced anyway, the reason they push you away is because there is someone else in the background, you are her side kick 😂

  • @filippavlakovic4478
    @filippavlakovic4478 4 роки тому +99

    "ah good, she finally left me alone"

    • @mudassirqureshi6404
      @mudassirqureshi6404 3 роки тому +2

      Same Here Br0..!!!

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 3 роки тому +2

      Great comment

    • @manopablogo8983
      @manopablogo8983 3 роки тому +2

      Lol, wish I could be like you

    • @Frebleify
      @Frebleify 3 роки тому

      If that was the case, you would’nt be here

    • @filippavlakovic4478
      @filippavlakovic4478 3 роки тому

      @@Frebleify I actually didn't watch the video, just saw the thumbnail (for only god knows what reason this came to my front page) and that was my first thought

  • @i5betunow
    @i5betunow 2 роки тому +16

    True story what happened to me with a woman: she pulled back for eight (!) months, I didn’t go angry and went on with my life and posting my daily things. She came back after eight months and I acted like nothing happened. Now we are ‘friends’ with benefits and she values my time.

  • @10314347
    @10314347 6 років тому +107

    This man is 100% spot on!!

    • @thrasos1990
      @thrasos1990 5 років тому +7

      Yeah you 're right. He' s very right!!!

  • @MrGameified
    @MrGameified 6 років тому +58

    You explain things very well straight to the point

  • @reggiemccoy3265
    @reggiemccoy3265 4 роки тому +8

    Yeah You Stated Some Great Point's Sir and Tbh If Women Pull Away From Me I Just Let Them Go Move On Forward Hold My Head Up High and Keep Walking Tall. 💯

  • @thrasos1990
    @thrasos1990 5 років тому +21

    Chris u are awsom. I have seen all your videos and you are one of the few guys Who tells right things. Keep the good work!!!

  • @danielsday9279
    @danielsday9279 6 років тому +16

    This was the hard truth I needed, thank you.

  • @TacticalxRecon
    @TacticalxRecon 6 років тому +30

    It's good to see your channel growing chris!

  • @elmo319
    @elmo319 8 місяців тому

    It’s amazing how you’ve got so many videos all saying the same thing, Kudos!

  • @DJ-lk4fi
    @DJ-lk4fi 6 років тому +5

    Great video Mr. Canwell!

  • @MustafaKhan-bq2xi
    @MustafaKhan-bq2xi 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Chris canwell, I will always be grateful to you for the advices. I have become needy and responsive and started getting frustrated when she doesn’t listen to me or doesn’t give me time.

  • @cbshin9483
    @cbshin9483 3 роки тому +3

    The best of best advice! Thank you.

  • @c-jayjames7316
    @c-jayjames7316 5 років тому +79

    If you got NO value in her eyes or very low attraction from her perspective, no contact or walking away WILL mean youll never hear from her

    • @felisac8228
      @felisac8228 5 років тому +5

      Agree. This guy's advice is all wrong

    • @professorcartmenez8507
      @professorcartmenez8507 5 років тому +83

      @@felisac8228 How is he wrong? The whole point of no contact is focusing on yourself. If they come back, cool, if they don't, you still have your dignity and you can move on.

    • @seandonahue1092
      @seandonahue1092 4 роки тому +1

      What if you walkaway and your a CEO

    • @kingfargo9578
      @kingfargo9578 4 роки тому +5

      Sean Donahue so you think every girl gonna jump on you because you’re a ceo? No contact is all about self improvement, enjoying your own company, learning not to be so reliant on others.

    • @gentlebabarian
      @gentlebabarian 4 роки тому +1

      For sure. But that's why you gotta work on yourself and not on a girl. There a waste of time.

  • @becker2278
    @becker2278 4 роки тому +3

    👍👍 He goes & gets straight to the point. 😃

  • @richydmz515
    @richydmz515 5 років тому +16

    I think when a girl likes you she's not gonna leave you no matter what... there's ups and downs but you have to freeze your soul and resolve that which is affecting you guys... I guess... or just dump her and find another woman... she's just using you...

  • @patsantos8866
    @patsantos8866 5 років тому +21

    This work on everyone friend too

  • @patriodiames9715
    @patriodiames9715 4 роки тому

    Love this dude!

  • @paradiseisland3352
    @paradiseisland3352 5 років тому +16

    Men this guy is the best no gimmicks, knows what he’s saying

  • @troytroy4191
    @troytroy4191 3 роки тому

    Great information..

  • @karabomarata1795
    @karabomarata1795 2 роки тому +7

    When she pulls away you look for another girlfriend to move on with.

  • @cadxt9444
    @cadxt9444 4 роки тому +11

    Video came at the right time, was to break and talk to my girl while she asks for space, lifesaver thanks bro

    • @doodo535
      @doodo535 4 роки тому

      Update?

    • @cadxt9444
      @cadxt9444 4 роки тому +4

      doodo535 bro things have gotten way better I didn’t back contact her until she eventually did and I admit it was hard at times I missed her but she did come back and she apologized for her behavior and things have been great. How are you doing with your relationship if you have one?

    • @nilabhanand7225
      @nilabhanand7225 4 роки тому

      @@cadxt9444 how long did it take for your girl to come back? I was thinking about breaking no contact today but your message have me a bit of hope. Its been a couple days since ive reached out but nothing from her so far

  • @MyVlogs694
    @MyVlogs694 6 років тому +6

    What if she play pulling away for pulling away?

  • @arushkumartera_future_husb488
    @arushkumartera_future_husb488 3 роки тому

    😆😆😆😆 really just today she msg me after 1 month nd i used your words thanks bro 👍

  • @sharansivakumar6691
    @sharansivakumar6691 Рік тому

    What to do if my gf pulls away from me after we had a fight since she was speaking with her ex boyfriend

  • @davidresch390
    @davidresch390 7 місяців тому

    Great video…..”Thirsty men never get to drink!”🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @HAPPYPANDA53
    @HAPPYPANDA53 4 роки тому +6

    I once jokingly compared her to a cat. She told me, I'm not a cat. I then said, Oh yes you are darlin', yes you are.

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 3 роки тому +1

    True true. I oriced it some h

  • @TheXeliminatorX
    @TheXeliminatorX 6 років тому

    Should we contact after a month to build rapport?

  • @PostNutClarity-qu4ws
    @PostNutClarity-qu4ws 6 років тому +9

    Chris, would you do a video when the woman you been dating gets mad because you were cold, and now she's cold more difficult to communicate with. Like how to handle when you did something wrong.

  • @shubhmalhotraa3963
    @shubhmalhotraa3963 6 років тому +11

    I got the text from my ex after 11. hrs I responded just texted
    Hi
    I said hloo
    Then she said sup?
    I replied nathing
    She said r u angry
    I said no
    Then she didn't texted me for 3 days till now Nither I texted her
    Will she be back or I backout

  • @bassfishingw9973
    @bassfishingw9973 6 років тому +12

    I like this girl a lot, but I took your advice and I’ve pull back until she texts me back or call me...I have to make her chase me lol

  • @noelio67
    @noelio67 5 років тому +1

    Great analogy with the cat

  • @beelyaminusabo946
    @beelyaminusabo946 5 років тому

    How can get the book....

  • @eddieambrose1757
    @eddieambrose1757 6 років тому +1

    I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend most times go cold on me,I give her much of my time.please what can I do?

  • @denismelvin222
    @denismelvin222 3 роки тому

    Just like Monty Roberts " Join Up"

  • @noelio67
    @noelio67 4 роки тому

    'Claw your face off'......I'm in fuckin stitches laughing.......bad old puddycat

  • @egeerdem8272
    @egeerdem8272 8 місяців тому

    brother, I applied what you said 100% and it worked perfectly. I hate that it did and I wish my partner was as straighforward as me but I cant argue with the results

  • @thedailyvibes4033
    @thedailyvibes4033 2 роки тому +1

    Wish you were my best friend Chris! 👍

  • @urbantraxx3756
    @urbantraxx3756 3 роки тому +7

    In other words mirror her emotions

  • @BockchoiBoi
    @BockchoiBoi 3 роки тому

    Ok I'll let you know how it goes this is already my second day no contact ✊

  • @hrsey71
    @hrsey71 5 років тому +12

    is there a time where you should reach out to them if they haven't contacted you?

    • @slimshady4875
      @slimshady4875 4 роки тому +18

      Its called the final move you try for the last time you do that and if they don't respond you forget about them until they reach out for you and if they don't fuck em you need to move on , and you can't just wait for their response you need to focus on something during that period of time so you keep yourself busy all the time and you go on date with others too

  • @knite2005
    @knite2005 3 роки тому

    How long will she pull away for?

  • @genesischibueze5167
    @genesischibueze5167 2 роки тому +2

    Focusing on women is completely a waste of time. Men go out make money be happy and you see them looking for a way to come to you.

  • @nicksoloroblox6865
    @nicksoloroblox6865 4 роки тому +5

    Just give her space

  • @duxsy3240
    @duxsy3240 Рік тому

    7th time she pulls away and i think it was becasue i couldnt respond less than a hour to respond now when she responds i will let her text me 80% of the time but i havent been able to because she has kept on disappearing

  • @axlVino
    @axlVino 6 років тому +3

    My girl pulled away because our love came to fast to heavy to much after her long bad marriage.now she wants some time alone and needs space and she started to doubt i f whe were meant for each other because of different styles in living our live.but she really thinks highly of me. Does the no contact rule works here too? Wat can i do to get her back

    • @s2h995
      @s2h995 5 років тому

      Axl vino same situation I dated a girl 4 yrs ago , left her , apologized , talked to her on and off while she was with this other dude for last 2.5 yrs. finally she left his ass, my dumbass over watered the plant expecting her to jump in a relationship with me right away. I fucked up ,pressured, over spended,(she didnt ask for nothing) , actin all needy , fuck that im in no contact mode now.. shes knows what i can bring to the table as far as achieving future goals and dreams. That needy clingy shit is for weak hearted men. Im done begging and forcing

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 2 роки тому +1

    also it depends on the woman and her life stage, I dated a woman who was 35 , I did not force anything, we dated once a week, no validation from me, took things slow as I had come out of a long LTR prior, and she said ended up loosing interest exactly 3 months later
    shes been married and divorced and is 35 so I think I dodged a bullet here

    • @JuanPablo-mu6tc
      @JuanPablo-mu6tc 2 роки тому

      ±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

  • @koda236
    @koda236 5 років тому

    my gf pulled away but my girlfriend has bad depression and i dont want her to think i dont love her and then she leaves me

  • @CheLios412
    @CheLios412 6 років тому +82

    I dont think i would ever understand women because i dont like cats lol

    • @shodak9445
      @shodak9445 5 років тому

      superSnakeStang you have to adapt

    • @shodak9445
      @shodak9445 5 років тому

      And stop complaining

    • @nicksoloroblox6865
      @nicksoloroblox6865 4 роки тому

      Hehe

    • @ianhill4585
      @ianhill4585 3 роки тому +1

      Yes they're strange, irrational, spiteful, and demanding creatures, and cats are just the same.

    • @blackdesertcat
      @blackdesertcat 3 роки тому

      Death to cat-haters. Cats are the perfect reflection of women. Why their called felines.

  • @lolsucks3599
    @lolsucks3599 6 років тому +14

    My girlfriend pulled away from me and its been like that almost 1 month and I tried talking about it with her but it didnt help. What should I do instead, trying to reattract her? Or even break up at this point since she treated me badly since she started to pull away? Do I need to stand up for myself or just focus on reattracting her? Im confused I need advice =(

    • @TacticalxRecon
      @TacticalxRecon 6 років тому +43

      Simple. The advice is copied from another video which I responded to another person who had a similar question:
      Just walk away until she gets back to you. Don't text her again. In the meantime, start flirting with other women. Don't let her affect you. The storm will always come just like the calm will too. Stay strong my friend! If you handle things the right way, *they always come back.*
      Remember: Attraction grows in space. Go no contact immediately. This sends a message to her that is very attractive.
      Listen, the more you try to resolve things with women, the more distant they become. Trust me on this. This is the twisted female logic us guys have to deal with today.

    • @lolsucks3599
      @lolsucks3599 6 років тому +5

      Well you right and all that but I already showed signs of weakness like showing that Im hurt by her and also she seems like more open to talking to other guys. Do you think she will come back regardless if I stop messaging her now or do I need to say something like "I break up with you" to her? The way I see it she is only stringing me along until she finds another guy she can replace me with and only comes back if she cant find a better guy or misses me.

    • @TacticalxRecon
      @TacticalxRecon 6 років тому +30

      First I highly recommend getting his action plan and Atomic Attraction.
      The danger is not her looking for someone while you are pulling back, the danger is her finding some while you are *not* pulling back. If you tell her "I break up with you" you are showing weakness because you are telling her that you are scared she will break up with you first. It does not matter if you acted weak in the past, just start projecting high value now. Be strong. Don't focus on her because this will turn her off. The only way to get her attention is to completely remove yours. Just go no contact without saying anything (essentially walk away) until she gets back to you and believe me, *she will come back to you if you handle things the right way.* Don't be scared, focus on your goals and ambitions and this will work out just fine. In the case that she doesn't come back (highly unlikely if you pull back and display strength), you will get someone better. Take care of yourself and trust yourself on this process.

    • @Rizzy_K
      @Rizzy_K 6 років тому +6

      Anima Libera they always come back

    • @adishankaracharya4988
      @adishankaracharya4988 6 років тому +14

      You should not love women anyway. They are nothing but sources of pleasure. Their beauty is an antropomorphic vessel that nature lends them for a few years. Women are hot-blooded mammals who desire to be dominated, that's their nature.

  • @davidpersson250
    @davidpersson250 11 місяців тому

    Loving pulling away myself from whiminz for eternity myself 😀

  • @enricogomez3380
    @enricogomez3380 2 роки тому +1

    is this what “love” consists of? A woman will lose interest if a man treats her too well. What t hell is even that. I understand the laws but I don’t like them.

  • @Uday.chavan
    @Uday.chavan 6 років тому

    Hey. Sir make video on how to BREAKUP easily... something is painfull for girls.

  • @Repeataarrr
    @Repeataarrr 6 років тому +16

    put your book on the play store and I buy it

    • @Don-pk2uy
      @Don-pk2uy 6 років тому +2

      Repeataarrr agreed

  • @hernstv
    @hernstv 6 років тому +8

    2:20 a nugget.

  • @Johnykeys
    @Johnykeys 4 роки тому +2

    Chris, what do i do when my girl is so good to me but it happened that she visited her ex boyfriend due to a group of friends meet then the ex kissed her.
    Should i move on?
    She told me it was a mistake and it won't happen again. But i need advice from you who is a pro.
    Thanks

    • @divyeshparab9471
      @divyeshparab9471 4 роки тому +3

      Move on broo

    • @xolanikunene291
      @xolanikunene291 3 роки тому +1

      Move on bro, because she will do it again and again and again... You'll be left there broken into pieces

    • @Johnykeys
      @Johnykeys 3 роки тому +1

      @@xolanikunene291 i have lready

    • @xolanikunene291
      @xolanikunene291 3 роки тому

      You handled the situation well Bru🏃🏃

  • @shodak9445
    @shodak9445 5 років тому

    How long should I push them

    • @rajeshrajput7813
      @rajeshrajput7813 4 роки тому

      Shoda Katsura アイスミルク until they reach out to you

  • @yusufarafat8540
    @yusufarafat8540 4 роки тому +2

    Why you never smile?

  • @ketanmeshram83
    @ketanmeshram83 3 роки тому

    If she pulls from you let her,l never welcome her again 😁

  • @lucifergamingzone1000
    @lucifergamingzone1000 3 роки тому +1

    she just msg me after 6 weeks of no contact and now she is chasing me like crazyyyyyyyy

  • @allensplay7447
    @allensplay7447 5 років тому

    May i wish her may i give a gift her on her birthday while on no contact rule... I need hlp plz rly me

  • @jesseturner4607
    @jesseturner4607 5 років тому +6

    Shit that’s what’s happening to me. Gf became upset with me so like a fool I started chasing her always calling. So I decided to just leave her alone. Been almost a week haven’t heard from her

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 3 роки тому

      Did she ever reach out?

    • @jesseturner4607
      @jesseturner4607 3 роки тому +11

      @@JihadBunnydick she did actually. It’s been 2 years and we’re still together even had twin girls together

    • @1120tiknuhc
      @1120tiknuhc 3 роки тому +2

      @@jesseturner4607
      Congrats!
      My gf pulled away, and she acted like nothing happened and texted me after 1 week. Crazy@@

    • @Zeosth
      @Zeosth 2 роки тому

      @@jesseturner4607 how long u did no contact until she reach out?

    • @jesseturner4607
      @jesseturner4607 2 роки тому +2

      @@Zeosth about a month. She called me out of nowhere. Stay strong bro

  • @maureenkam9212
    @maureenkam9212 6 років тому +20

    A woman who pulls away may be because the man is no longer responsive. She will think that it is no longer worthwhile to invest her time in that unresponsive guy and goes to the one who pays more attraction to her.

    • @aryapavan4819
      @aryapavan4819 6 років тому +9

      Maureen Kam that's why we should do 'push and pull technique'

    • @Exxon300
      @Exxon300 5 років тому +1

      Maureen Kam true

    • @felisac8228
      @felisac8228 5 років тому +1

      Yup...totally agree.

    • @andychops
      @andychops 5 років тому +30

      Do not ever listen to a woman about how to handle a woman. What they say vs. how they act are totally opposite.

    • @thepaxbisonica4742
      @thepaxbisonica4742 4 роки тому +9

      @Maureen Kam from a guys perspective that means you have just dodged a bullet. If she moves on to someone else that just means she did not value your friendship/ relationship and was only after the attention. Why would you want to continue a friendship/ relationship with someone like that?

  • @vegetathe4th376
    @vegetathe4th376 4 роки тому +9

    so women are like cats .so i have to give my ex milk to lure her back from me.

  • @shayanandibra2840
    @shayanandibra2840 3 роки тому +1

    Player to player. Pimp to pimp

  • @staceyswope3438
    @staceyswope3438 6 років тому +6

    Is the same advice with men?

    • @brettkoch8514
      @brettkoch8514 6 років тому +3

      Stacey Swope yes it drives us crazy lol!

    • @deweycouto6922
      @deweycouto6922 6 років тому

      I'm sure it is,I'm mid 40s I'm just exhausted with all this...but hate 2 say it, he's absolutely spot on...tear drop

  • @Pursuit-twentythree
    @Pursuit-twentythree 5 років тому +2

    what if she have lots guy friends..

    • @oliverallen5324
      @oliverallen5324 5 років тому +8

      Mohamed Hassan all these videos are saying focus on yourself. Never prioritize women.

  • @w9st6d
    @w9st6d 6 років тому +1

    I feel like my girlfriend doesn’t want to hang out with me but she hangs out with her friends at P.E. and lunch and I only have after school to be with her can anyone please help me I just want to cry and I miss her so much

    • @rxcckyy
      @rxcckyy 3 роки тому +3

      Don't be a needy ass simp bro.

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому +5

    But the shit cat is not coming for 6 months!!!!

    • @thrasos1990
      @thrasos1990 5 років тому +1

      She Will Come back but not the time you want!

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому +1

      KOSTAS MPOUSTOKSIDIDS thanks, good that she said it to you ;) But yes i am sure. I can fell the tense way how she ignores me. I am still some cause and she still some effect...

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому +1

      Better: i dont give even oportunity too be clearly ignored. Ambiguity is everything in seduction, even after showing the fellings . >Kierkegaard

    • @thrasos1990
      @thrasos1990 5 років тому

      I agree.. When u believe in something so much there is a reason. Trust your instict!!!

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому

      KOSTAS MPOUSTOKSIDIDS kalaa ta kaka

  • @kennethyujin841
    @kennethyujin841 2 роки тому

    What if she meets a new man?

    • @JuanPablo-mu6tc
      @JuanPablo-mu6tc 2 роки тому

      ±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.

  • @ronfarrell776
    @ronfarrell776 5 років тому +4

    Go MGTOW

  • @kicksalot9943
    @kicksalot9943 3 роки тому

    How can we have a healthy sexual relationship when my girlfriend keeps pulling away like this?