It’s the boyfriend!! He’s on his phone, posing for the camera, ignoring all the instruction. Only engages when attention is directed at him. Kudos to Cesar for his diplomacy.
Definitely for him telling that he works with dogs damn this guy seems like he hates life and animals over all... maybe I’m wrong but shit actions can speak louder than word in so many ways...
This is such a great example of how a real man is also a calm man. A man who can’t control his anger is a man who needs a lot of work. Very cool to see this.
@@LaneyandherGermanShepherds a showing of alpha attitude ! I was laughing as soon as he met the Llama 😂 From "silver back gorilla" to "no, Sir, Thank you, Sir." Lorenzo :"at ease, human."
why's he a classic macho bro, cause he looks better than you and has tattoos? maybe he was uncomfortable in front of a camera, this comment section is insane
Yeah but didn’t you watch his reason why he was off tv ?? The company took everything from him he was flat broke he had to work again to get to where he is .. so I’m pretty sure he will only do that if he gets complete control over everything.. and on UA-cam he can already do that without a need of a million people wanting their cut
Denise I’m pretty sure he does but doesn’t want to be “owned” it’s very rare in entertainment for the “talent” to build their own brand and call the shots and Keep most of the money ... the only person who comes to mind was Ray Charles .. maybe he is even “black listed”
Observing when Cesar says “That it was your llama, this is my llama” in other words says my llama, my pack, my territory, my rules, and here we respect each other. I really love that, shows a genuine Alpha
Lol then he blames the llama for another incident nonrelated. But yes cudos to Cesar for having all those well trained creatures there. I know llamas love to spit in your face when irritated or just for the hell of it. I saw this at never land ranch once shit was funny but nasty.
The dude is a douche, but humans are just like animals and sometimes it seems Cesar disregards that. If a dog had been previously kicked by a horse, it would not trust horses. It would lead ir to think horses are aggressive.
Which although that may seem dumb, its actually an evolutionary commonality between really any animal with any intelligence. Its what keeps u alive in the wild when. U have to learn on ur own what will and won't hurt u. We are the only animals that can try to overcome that. But it is a reasonable instinct.
Agreed! And yet the narcissist can be kind to Lorenzo. So sad. The fool has a chance to learn and be better. But his tuff guy attitude won’t accept it.
You can tell the boyfriend was getting pissed that cesar was having success. He kept making excuses for everything instead of, appreciating the knowledge he was receiving from a real dog trainer. Cesar is the man!
Dude I hate excuses. Just say yes I understand and will correct it in the future. If you truly wanna improve yourself don’t say I’m sorry or “because”. Just say I’ll do better next time.
That guy is actually very fearful and tries to hide it with dominance posturing and aggression. The dog may be terrified of him but he's terrified of the dog as well.
If I was this dog I would also bite this jerk He was obviously bullied badly as a child and has now invested all his energy as an adult into gym and tattoos to try compensate and to portray himself as Mr Tough Guy. He is actually Mr Short D1ck Man - Zero manners. And walks up to the table all muscle bound and intimidating to get water right next to Ceaser in the middle of the excercise.
If this is how the boyfriend is when the camera is on him what is he like at home! He clearly isn’t an animal lover. He doesn’t want to be there. Great work Cesar
i think that the mental diarrhoea that must wanting to be cesar milan and to actually see him in real life at the same time as we proben constantly a faliure to 'guie' a dog, is trully a master piece of incomodity
He made me as a viewer tense. I could almost see his ears lay back when the llama walked up and splay out in the "I-feel-cornered-in-the-open-field" freeze that the chihuahua did in the previous ceasar video I watched. It's amazong that Lorentzos effect on the boyfriend is so much more pronounced than on the dog. Boyfriend is simply dishing out the energy he insists that he isn't. I don't fault him, though. It's weird watching yourself on video. Many times you are not displaying what you think you are displaying. It's amazing watching how well Cesar is at finding a strategy to educate the people. I've been looking for Cesars program on netflix/hbo/prime just so he can teach me more about handling people. He knows, but he keeps it to himself until he find the correct way to introduce it to the person.
@@carlinetorweihe4246 That's funny. 280 people agree with the statement and you come up with "Psychiatrist on the loose?" Doesn't take a psychiatrist to be observant.
Wow, this guy with permanent rounded shoulders & his shades has his eyes glued to the ground 24-7. His anxiety, impatience, aggressiveness and lack of real confidence comes through the screen loudly. Well done training this man Ceasar!
@@seanmatthewking lol pretty sure I did not say I wanted to make him feel small, it’s watching from the outside where you can see who the bigger person is. Cesar literally says he trains people more than the dogs 😹
Cesar is such a gentleman. A Gentleman with a lot of strength. He is being extra gracious for the pup’s sake. This guy… It’s all about himself. “I”did a dog rescue , what “I’m” used to , the way ”I”do it . “Myyy” llamas spit, WAAAAA😭👶 The dog likes it’s owner better than “MEEEEE” WAAAAA! Ok, I take it back about Caesar’s graciousness only being this for the dogs sake. Cesar is so intelligent and so intuitive and caring that he knows if this guy can pick up any of the wisdom he’s trying to teach him… It will help the guys life all around. I apologize for lacking so much, Grace, but I’ve had this type of alpha male in my life and watched him destroy so many relationships with people and pets because it was always about him and what made him happy and what made him angry. To this day, his almost grown children are still afraid of him.
@@dbabini1100%. I saw it the moment he started talking. And he kept his glasses on the whole time. Another sign of weakness. Big tuff guy. Yet so weak he can’t accept the help. Yes. Cesar is going overboard being polite to the simple fact that fool shouldn’t be around dogs. Sorry. I have zero respect or sympathy for asshats like him.
@@soundmind6477 and what way was he judged I see no judgment here just a person feeling nervous cause the way a person acted and a person Stating that they can't imagine what a dog went through you need to stop being dumb freind
I feel like more functional alpha behavior includes more openness (Cesar). Many males will try to force stuff and ignore the sensitive bi-play of interaction. Like Cesar just said, "patient, gentle."
The dude has a lot of hate in him especially with animals. If her dog was having bowel movements in his presence that is a sign of abuse. People like Nathan need to receive a visit from karma to understand how it feels. Hoping she gave him the boot and found a man who can love more than himself.
Cesar knew the problem was that guy and asked him indirectly: What do you think I'm doing different than what you are doing right now? He is so polite and classy.
@@misskat8548 No one's a lost cause. It just takes guidance to see what we can't see for ourselves. Cesar knows that about dogs, and he knows that about men.
Ya, he has something not quite right with him...sure doesn't seem like a rescue kind of guy...like it seems like he gets bit a lot...I mess with rotts...I don't get dog bit. It hurt way to much..
I honestly feel like he was fed up with working with the dog for so long the best way he knew how and not getting any results. It's gotta hurt when all you wanna do is help and love a dog and the dog isn't responding, or because what you're doing isn't good enough for that particular dog. I think the boyfriend might've just been exhausted with the entire situation and didn't know what else he could do. If I had a rescue dog and I was trying to get them to a place where they felt comfortable around me and in their home with me, and it wasn't working no matter what method I tried, I'm sure I would feel awful like I failed the dog.
Please remember Cesar can fill the energy, of the insecure guy. The guy knows Ceasars energy is stronger. The crossed arms, protecting his heart. His body language is showing intimidation. Testosterone at work. "THIS IS MY LLAMA" Gave Cesar a excellent opportunity to expose his energy over the guy. PERFECTION.
I agree, maybe he has so much anger from the dog bitting him 😮he’s not thrilled by any remarkable steps this pup achieved. And that’s sad. He got his own dog!!!! Hmmm
He's very negative, and projects a real tough guy. The dog feels his energy and seems to be protecting her. I believe he's the one that needs to be trained.
I’ve just read a handful of the comments and I’m laughing at how spot on everyone is about this guy. I think he’s afraid of the dog & that’s why he’s puffing himself up n acting like an army boss. Definitely agree with everyone’s comments. When Lorenzo moved in I felt like he was saying ‘hey you, wass your problem, tone down that energy, unless you wanna deal with me!’ Animals are great! Caesar you scored an A for diplomacy! Great video! 💙
Dogs can sense a human's energy. This dog was perfectly fine. She was just reacting to the negative energy from the boyfriend. The boyfriend needs to change, not the dog.
@@sondralureebernerthies9329 oh comon stop judging him. one reason people work out is bc they are insecure abt themselves, which this guy clearly was. its tough bc when u see a bug muscle dude its easy to discriminate or think ill of them, but they are really the same as you or I, but they have just spent many hours by themselves at the gym lifting weights. being muscular doesnt make u cocky or confident
There’s nothing wrong with the dog, it just doesn’t buy into the boyfriend’s false confidence and exaggerated bravado - it sees him for what he really is.
Chill out lmao. Of course there was something wrong with the dog, it needed to be trained properly by an experienced trainer. The dog is not innately flawed, it probably had a horrible experience with men and doesn't trust them. Yeah, the guy is a tool, but your comment is pretty stupid insinuating that the dog has some sort of special powers to read the guys true human nature, or whatever.
I love how Cesar tries to work around the guys' insecurity. Even catering to his sensibilities by referring to navy seals and "brotherhood". He is just as patient with him as he is with the dog. Cesar is the best.
Too bad Nathan's not ex-military. He's just acting like one. Almost all servicemen love dogs. Maybe that guy is hiding something. He might be an ex-man.
She was totally picking up on his aggression. Poor girl! I can just imagine what his internal dialogue was, when Cesar was first addressing his outward appearance. I’m glad he finally started to be more receptive to Cesar’s guidance on how to behave around a terrified dog!
Right. Cesar spends 10 minutes being calm and relaxed and then he walks up folds his arms and just stares angrily at this terrified dog like "why don't you just love me already"
I'm watching these in order to get my dog back out on walks again but I need to get my anxiety in check as well I'm going to take her out next week when the kids are at school and I'll have to put my elder dog in the kitchen and then hopefully can take both out without being pulled and worried about her growling at other dogs
@ totally … if you don’t keep yourself I. Check they will definitely react, thinking they’re protecting you and that’s the reason you’re on edge. If the one dog isn’t a good influence on the one who has anxiety issues, it’s best to just deal with the one dog. Distraction is also a good technique (i.e., treats) but the timing has to be a lot on, as to what behaviour you’re pairing it up to. Hope it works out!
that dude wasn't even listening. u can see him literally on his phone, looking away, completely unengaged. meanwhile this SWEET ASS GIRL is internalizing every little piece of information. liiiike... sis leave him
Hey, give the guy some slack. He's there, he's trying; that must be love to be ready get bitten and not leave. He must be nervous after been bitten, playing with his phone might just be to calm and/or hide his nervousness. Toughness is just a shield to try to hide ones insecurities in most cases.
@@sakkel.7357 you think Cesar has time for people like him? There are plenty of owners who love their pets and would do anything to have some time with Cesar. This guy doesn’t seem to care even knowing that it’s for a tv show. Mmm byeeee!
@@anaimyc.1147 Perhaps Cesar saw this as a textbook example of how many cases are about. And a chance to show all the terminators out there, what's wrong with their attitude that is causing the problem.
@@Mellowcatden it's so weird to see people act like all dogs can change and then when a human does something wrong they're like oh he is never going to change. humans are pack animals just like dogs and we experience trauma, nervousness and anxiety just like dogs. He is obviously using the phone to hide his nervousness. the guy has been bit over and over and it's obviously tense around the dog. Little by little they need to trust eachother. him being the smartest one needs to be the one guiding the dog.
Lorenzo was protecting Cesar. He was just chilling in the back corner of the enclosure until the boyfriend walked around the woman and toward Cesar. Lorenzo didn't like his energy and immediately moved in. That guy has some real problems. Did you notice how much trouble he had with eye contact? He never looked at the camera during the interview and he never looked Cesar in the eye when Cesar was talking to him. Very sketchy guy!
@@janejay8119 man im glad i wasnt the only one who caught that , and then how hes arguing about it makes it clear who the issue is here , i woukldnt doubt if hes gotten agressive with the dog
The boyfriend is acting like he is in a warzone. Defensive posture, arms crossed, legs wide, muscles tense, ready to attack. No dog would want to be close to that. Dude, if your dog shits itself near you, you should really rethink if the problem is the dog or you. Clearly, the dog is fine with the girl who is just super calm and gentle.
I can’t agree with you too more. He is very defensive with body language, & has to humble himself to admit HE can do better, not the poor, terrified dog. Ceasar is so patient....I might have told that guy to stop being a douche.
It’s so interesting to see that the dog is not really the one that needed the training. I think the guy with the glasses would have been very surprised but also a bit embarrassed by this. Just raise your energy and vibe man, she is sensing your vibe and she’s terrified by it.
The guy is not rehabilitated. He wants to dominate, he is tense like a rock. The dog is scared when he touches her. It is not ok. I feel so sorry for this dog.
And the girl too, can only imagine what a handful this guy must be at home, being so disinterested and rude in public is a worrying sign. His body langauge is so aggressive. Hope he's not abusive... She is absolutely beautiful as is the pup.
The bf and the dog are the same: both tense and aggressive due to fear. There is no way to watch his interaction with Lorenzo without seeing his fear and his overwhelming drive toward self-protection. We all get like this when we have been hurt in the past. Or “spit in the face.” His exterior isn’t “tough” it’s hard. And hard things are often really fragile. I feel for the guy. And understand him. The most important thing Cesar did was provide a model to show there’s a different way of being strong. There’s a way to be calm that isn’t passive or weak. This was a hard episode to watch but ultimately incredibly instructive and moving. Thank you, Cesar.
You're a 100% correct, he's not only giving bad vibes to the dog, but also to the people around him even me who's just watching this. The boyfriend needs a guy whisperer. lol
BF is far too egotistical, errogant, and controlling. You can tell by his body language. And why does he keep checking his cell phone? So rude. He probably wants Caesar to make the dog docile so that he can further abuse his girlfriend.
In the end, he came out with a better understanding. Maybe you missed that. Both dog and human had success. Maybe you don't care about dogs and hate humans coz they both were behaving badly. Who knows. Cesar is a good man. The dog attacked him too. Maybe let's get rid of the dog. Why fix. Maybe you know how to diagnose narcissism.
YES!!!!!! who wants to be with him? ill bite him that stupid ass again again cause i hate his energy!! i even hate that dude even by watching him !!!!!!!!! he does not know to be around with dogs
Y'all Judge Too Much, he figured it out in the end. That wouldn't have happened unless he was trying. Don't discount somebody just because they're damaged I need to learn a better way. Doesn't mean it's not possible...
@Agree Or Keep Scrolling at first when I heard him talk I was thinking "this guy 😒", but then I saw how he starting listening to Cesar, and how well he did with the dog! I would definitely not go out with someone like that, but I celebrate their improvement! I hope he stays calm and patient and loving towards the dog. I'm with you, I think everybody is judging him without taking in all the information.
I love how Cesar handled this. Instead of criticizing the boyfriend for his bad energy, he figured out how to get through to him and change his energy. Bravo Cesar! Once again you trained the people instead of the dog.
Ceasar's genius also lies in his ability to read a situation and then try different scenarios to see what how the people and animals will react in order to get a connection with them and find a way to best help them.
This has to be my favourite session yet!! The difference is in the close up work. It's finally so clear to see how to achieve this with our own dogs and having Cesar's input about how the dog thinks and the little suggestions he makes to fine tune the dog's and partner's reactions. It's gorgeous and gives me such a buzz!
I feel like he does want to learn, but he was disappointed he couldn't make progress with her on his own. It looked to me like he felt neglected by her and needed to get over that. Good of him for taking on the challenge! She's not neglecting him, just the energy he was sending wasn't right for her.
It's very hard to admit you made a mistake and learn. It's normal to be defensive. Cesar was general with him, and he was humble enough to not react defensively, but to learn
The boyfriends vibe is the problem.. he barely even pet the llama he is not an animal person at all and the animals respond to that.. the boyfriend needs the rehab
Dang! You guys all nailed the body posture of the man. Macho, unstable energy, too forceful, but lack of confident, calm energy. Cesar is a "Human Whisperer" too. Just love Cesar so much. ❤️❤️❤️
The girlfriend is so engaged in the rehabilitation of her dog and so encouraging and joyful. The boyfriend can't even smile or make eye contact. In the middle of training when he goes on his phone as if he isn't paying attention. He was mad because he thought he knew everything there was about dog training aggressive dogs. And then Cesar is like this case requires a master teacher lol.
Lol exactly. He seems like he resents the dog's progress because it forces him to realize there's plenty of room for growth within himself. He seems very prideful and his ego was hurt.
@@pinay-dane-missioneri It looks like they’re still together on her instagram and they rehomed their dog so hopefully she has a better life with someone who can actually be gentle and calm with her
I don't want to say anything more about the boyfriend. Enough has been said about him in the comments but the way the lady's face lit up after her dog touched Caesar and he touched her back.stroking her. Girl! Your smile was beautiful and showed genuine happiness. That you had to take a pic. It spoke volumes. Keep showing your dog your joy and happiness.
If my boyfriend ever said about a human or a dog that he "has to force her to be with him", I would RUN. Girl, I'm sorry but that guy is just bad vibes all around.
The dude all freaking out about the approaching llama, but then his girl goes in for a kiss from it. Lmao, that should tell you everything right there.
There's thousands of comments about the boyfriend and it's unbelievable because you guys are judging him, calling him "insecure". Plus ceaser is inconsiderate about the lama, I would've turned my head to!!! Tf I'm supposed to do? Kiss the lama!!! I cannot believe you guys are judging a guy for absolutely no reason.
@@Imfrommars444 He kind of is the problem, he even admitted it. “I don’t have the patience with her because she doesn’t wanna do any thing with me.” Like, no wonder that dog hates you 🙄✋
Notice how Cesar, even when correcting the man, looks at the girl from time to time. That's because he wants her to understand, the man is the problem and he knows the man isn't listening. The man has been gaslighting her to think the dog is the problem.
Some people believe that they the boss so dog just suppose to like them n do what they want..they don't understand that dogs have feelings n fears etc..
He is so resentfull and unhappy and keeps on complainig and on opening his legs in that strange "I'm the man" stance which just transmits wannabe energy
I love how Cesar neither judged the dog, NOR the guy. He gave both what they needed: gentle teaching & guidance. I love how the guy went from guards up to vulnerable willingness to be gentle and adapt. Actually probs to him, too! ❤
@ssiebold1 I disagree. I think they were all there to learn as a unit and strengthen the bond of their pack. I'm sure him training solo would have worked too but it seemed like this guy wasn't fully into it and wasn't taking in what cesar was telling him to do. I think the gf can remind him how to embrace calmness whenever he's not gentle with the dog.
@ssiebold1 I see what you're saying and there's a lot of truth to it but I honestly think the guy was dragged in there by his gf and cesar probably thought he shouldn't train the dog to listen to any human that in all honestly doesn't respect her.
@ssiebold1 he's always said he rehabilitated humans not dogs. He always says that it's never the dog's fault. The dog may listen when cesar is there too & without cesar probably not. This man needs to congratulate the dog when she hits a milestone but he did not do that for her. It is 100% the man's fault and not Cesar's
I don't think he can really change the way he is, I feel like he's been like this his whole life so you can't blame him when he's doing it unconsciously
Thanks boyfriend to offer yourself as an opportunity to teach so many of human beings who doesn't know how to react, face, interact with dogs. It is easy to criticize others but, do we look the faults on ourselves? Are we able to control our thoughts, our emotions, our reactions? That's why we come here in this world. To learn so we can pass to our next level on self development. Thanks Cesar❤
Cesar saw the boyfriends issues plain as day, as we all did.. but his infinite wisdom and compassion was to try to show him how to be better… I’ve got so much respect for Mr Milan ❤
@@bubblesdelightYou can't mean that seriously, of course he's tired at some point after trying for 5 months. Not everyone knows how to do it instead of abonding him, he still goes to an expert to get along with the dog. Don't pretend you know the guy privately and stopjing. How can you please judge your complete personality because of a 20 min video. Imagine someone posts a 20 min video of you and then you see on the internet how people judge your whole personality. Get a life.
Interestingly, i was thinking the same thing...She is a very frightened and nervous dog, but just a little time, she was willing to work with Ceaser which means she din have human aggression problem. But sometimes, dogs just feel. Especially GSDs
Not really. He said he works with mostly shelter dogs/abused dogs and men are usually the ones who abuse dogs the most so a scared dog will bite. I've been bitten plenty of times myself.
@@ghaniali6569 That's probably not true. My guess is more likely he has some insecurity or had some bad experience/trauma in life. This has made him think people/things/animals will be against him. As a result of this energy then people do turn against him.
Can’t imagine how he acts at home with the dog and the girlfriend. He’s like I’m Rambo and I can do it all great, it’s not my fault, it’s the dog. And Cesar just showed him how it really is and his ego is killing him.
Yeah you could see it when Cesar got there. He was insecure. His attitude and the way he was tryna talk himself up. How many dogs he’s worked and how many times he’s bitten.
I see it too. He had his hands folded and his legs wide. And you’re right, he was talking himself up like “I DO rescue dogs. I’m not an amateur!” But... the proof is in the pudding. 🤷♀️ Glad Cesar has patience for everyone 👏👏👏
Glasses and hat aren’t helping either. My most relaxed dog gets anxious familiar people wearing a hat. We just tell them to turn it around and it works.
Sometimes people are naturally sensitive, sometimes people can be naturally tough. Lessons like these help to remind me, you can show a soft side, and showing that softer side doesn't mean you're weak. In fact it is the opposite. Sometimes when life is tough on you and that 'worked' for u, you think the same thing applied to others will work out well too. But sometimes tough love isn't always the key, and hopefully he learned how to be more soft and sensitive. I have a feeling, even though he was acting macho and wearing sunglasses, towards the end he was feeling emotional about the progress, but hiding it. I wish them well on their journey.
As a man. I'm so use to fake tough guys like this.. His energy makes even me want to tense up and hit him or test his aggression.. He would never make it in prison with real tough guys.. It's his energy
This is one of those rare videos where I am truly frustrated with the man who is handling the dog. Normally I can understand that people are emotional and get attached to the dog but this guy is whole another level of negative energy
This dude just doesn’t want to learn from Caesar. He has such a bad attitude! Kudos to Caesar who has so much class and grace to slam a nasty attitude dude. I am learning so much from you Caesar! Thanks so much!
Lorenzo was like wtf, I don’t like this guys energy haha. Idk when the guy said he had to “force” the dog to be near him, that was just a red flag if there ever was one. Why would have ever want to force an animal to be near you, that’s just going to lead to disaster. Just sit with an animal with love and in time they will come to you. I’ve rehabilitated many animals, all it takes it time and love. That’s the secret recipe and nothing else
Exactly my thoughts. I felt quite sick watching him with that sweet, scared dog. So glad this was filmed. Cesar is AMAZING!!!! He knows this guy is not 100% committed....
My dog was a rescue, he used to bite me & everyone near. I just kept petting him with love even if he snaps at me. Pretty quickly he got that I just love him unconditionally & never bit me again. I feel like her bf just want to dominate the dog. Even when he pets him he’s a pansy. There’s no love. He’s not trying to pet his head, just the back..
He seemed jealous and bitter that the dog bonded with her and that his previous experiences weren't helping him. People view all aggression as the same, but when the core emotions aren't identified you don't know the right techniques. He may have been used to aggressive bully dogs who need to be put into their place and learn to calm down. Their dog was afraid of him, and he probably used the same techniques and made her go from afraid to terrified thus defending herself and running from him. It's hard sometimes to bond when we dont feel loved by pets, but we have to be the ones to stay calm and work through our emotions before they can learn to work through theirs! Hope he chills out more and reduces his angry alpha energy
***goes immediately to comments to see everyone roast the boyfriend***
Lol same! I hope she’s reads them all. Boyfriend is a creep!
If only people were as understanding and thoughtful to people as they are to dogs 😒
Same!
Hahahahahaha
Completely! I mean Cesar is showing them what to do, and he is on his phone doing his own business... What an idiot
The guy doesn’t even realise Caesar is coaching him about his own aggressiveness as well.
That is how much of a brute and brainless this guy is.
Great insight ! 👍🌈 You’re a woman “in the know” 😬
Just keeps chewing his gum, staring somewhere else...
Correct, this was less about training the pup. This was Cesar training that d-bag boyfriend
sadly they rehomed the dog smh.
It’s the boyfriend!! He’s on his phone, posing for the camera, ignoring all the instruction. Only engages when attention is directed at him. Kudos to Cesar for his diplomacy.
Beth Kemp Cesar needed more love and patience with the boyfriend than he needed with the dog.
Yeah the dog is fine, the boyfriend needs training.😒
Very weird vibe
Yea exactly! The boyfriend only cares about being in every single camera frame and obviously thrives on attention. What a joke!
@@aj9530 narcissistic
His body posture tells volumes about this guy. It's important to learn to put your ego in your pocket when working with animals.
The dog seemed to know exactly what kind of person to hate.
This guy has serious issues. Look how he stands there.
Hes abusive as fuck. He hurts that dog when they're jot around.
There isn't a pocket big enough.
correct.
*Lol the llama is so freaking adorable, it comes in like "want me to spit on this dood Cesar, just give the word"*
🤣😂
U are so frkn RIGHT 😂🤣
Hahahahahaha accurate comment 😂😂
💀 😂
Omg, great comment!!😂😂😂
Cesar wasn’t about to sit there and let that man disrespect his llama 🦙
And with Cesar's calm response he shot down all the peacocking that douchey boyfriend is doing thinking he's more manly than Cesar.
Cesar said that was your llama...this is MY LLAMA😂
Definitely for him telling that he works with dogs damn this guy seems like he hates life and animals over all... maybe I’m wrong but shit actions can speak louder than word in so many ways...
@@40Lizlm - And not just any old llama- that's Lorenzo!!!
Lol
The bf think he's an alpha male until Cesar walk in.
His body language shows his insecurities towards Cesar
@@mabelasdua to me it feels like he might have beat that dog when he's alone "training it"
The guy thinks he's the shit! Someone needs to put him in his place to make him humble himself. He maybe on steroids.
😂😂💯
Yeah whats up with his leg stance talking to cesar 😂
This is such a great example of how a real man is also a calm man. A man who can’t control his anger is a man who needs a lot of work. Very cool to see this.
That dude hits bitchs
Bullies can never be leaders
@ no one is talking about a bully
You can tell Cesar was uncomfortable and disliking this guy’s energy and attitude.
Absolutely! I liked it when Cesar said... "BUT THAT'S MY LLAMA!!! "
This guy is attitude of an alpha male he's probably insecure himself
So was the dog lol
@@LaneyandherGermanShepherds a showing of alpha attitude ! I was laughing as soon as he met the Llama 😂
From "silver back gorilla" to "no, Sir, Thank you, Sir."
Lorenzo :"at ease, human."
Who is this clown baby? Hope he doesn't have a job anymore
He’s a classic macho bro, always has to appear dominant, even struggles to smile. Just bad vibes all around him.
sounds like my ex 🤷🏻♀️
I feel bad for the girl bruh she too good for em
That guy doesn't impress me. I bet he is so insecure hence try to be macho
Exactly !!!
why's he a classic macho bro, cause he looks better than you and has tattoos? maybe he was uncomfortable in front of a camera, this comment section is insane
I really wish Caesar would come back to tv. Everyone loves Caesar.
Yaaaas you've got the idea
Yeah but didn’t you watch his reason why he was off tv ?? The company took everything from him he was flat broke he had to work again to get to where he is .. so I’m pretty sure he will only do that if he gets complete control over everything.. and on UA-cam he can already do that without a need of a million people wanting their cut
Richard Alfaro as popular as he is, I don’t know why they are t banging down his doors with offers.
Denise I’m pretty sure he does but doesn’t want to be “owned” it’s very rare in entertainment for the “talent” to build their own brand and call the shots and Keep most of the money ... the only person who comes to mind was Ray Charles .. maybe he is even “black listed”
INDEED ❤❤❤❤❤
Observing when Cesar says “That it was your llama, this is my llama” in other words says my llama, my pack, my territory, my rules, and here we respect each other. I really love that, shows a genuine Alpha
"Can you smile a little bit? "😂
Ceasar nailed it
Same opinion
Seriously tho. Dude had the stankest of faces
💯
LMAO!! I like how the Llama walks up to the boyfriend, gets all up in his face, and is like "you ain't shit."
Animal's Kno A Bad Person
😂😂😂
Lol then he blames the llama for another incident nonrelated. But yes cudos to Cesar for having all those well trained creatures there. I know llamas love to spit in your face when irritated or just for the hell of it. I saw this at never land ranch once shit was funny but nasty.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Man: “My llama used to spit in my face.”
Cesar: “That was your llama, this is MY lama.”
Yes, Cesar.
The dude is a douche, but humans are just like animals and sometimes it seems Cesar disregards that. If a dog had been previously kicked by a horse, it would not trust horses. It would lead ir to think horses are aggressive.
Which although that may seem dumb, its actually an evolutionary commonality between really any animal with any intelligence. Its what keeps u alive in the wild when. U have to learn on ur own what will and won't hurt u. We are the only animals that can try to overcome that. But it is a reasonable instinct.
Lorenzo is the man
@@drewhempwood2113 Are you that lazy you can't type you or yours or are you you just slow?
@@mattjonathan2645 Is that the best you got. This is the internet comment section not a mid-term.
Lorenzo casually walks into the convo and says “so whatcha talking about”?? 👀🤣🤣
I LOVE Lorenzo! 🩷🤭🤣
Lorenzo is the cutest
Agreed! And yet the narcissist can be kind to Lorenzo. So sad. The fool has a chance to learn and be better. But his tuff guy attitude won’t accept it.
He definitely didn’t like that guy tho
Lorenzo is a King 😊
You can tell the boyfriend was getting pissed that cesar was having success. He kept making excuses for everything instead of, appreciating the knowledge he was receiving from a real dog trainer. Cesar is the man!
@@Ryaninsanity Not when their intentions are pure
Ryan Hou yeah but he went to ceasar for help so he’s just ignorant.
Dude I hate excuses. Just say yes I understand and will correct it in the future. If you truly wanna improve yourself don’t say I’m sorry or “because”. Just say I’ll do better next time.
I saw that too
Fax. People need to realize that Dog trainers doesn't actually train dogs. They train their owners how to treat their dogs.
That guy is actually very fearful and tries to hide it with dominance posturing and aggression. The dog may be terrified of him but he's terrified of the dog as well.
the guy needs healing too.
@@mmmjayjay5571 That's why he met that dog, they need each other to heal :)
@@mmmjayjay5571 right, both have bad experience, but both can be healed.
Also scared of Cesar taking "his" girl.
The energy of the guy speaks a lot....Also annoyed me seeing him on the phone while Cesar was explaining the process.
I thought i was the only one watch this jerk text in the back ground.
If I was this dog I would also bite this jerk He was obviously bullied badly as a child and has now invested all his energy as an adult into gym and tattoos to try compensate and to portray himself as Mr Tough Guy. He is actually Mr Short D1ck Man - Zero manners. And walks up to the table all muscle bound and intimidating to get water right next to Ceaser in the middle of the excercise.
What if he is a firefighter?
@@TheAbrantino he isn't
@@TheAbrantino LOL
Lorenzo had me rolling 😂 he’s like “I calls em like I see em boss, and this one’s off…”
The way Lorenzo looked him up and down
🤣😂🤣exactly like that!
Lorenzo 10,000% called his bs tough guy postering bluff, immediately.
If this is how the boyfriend is when the camera is on him what is he like at home! He clearly isn’t an animal lover. He doesn’t want to be there. Great work Cesar
The boyfriend is the problem here not the dog. The dog I think she is sweet.
Sometimes it is the dog sta b or sh oot that mfkr and eat him yum yum
@ shut up
He seems jealous of the girlfriends dog. Dude is a prick!
@@goead ill ki ll a dog today don't worry
The boyfriend “thinks” he’s Cesar Milan, his bad energy makes the dog tense, makes total sense. Cesar is awesome 👏🏽
i think that the mental diarrhoea that must wanting to be cesar milan and to actually see him in real life at the same time as we proben constantly a faliure to 'guie' a dog, is trully a master piece of incomodity
Agree 100%
He made me as a viewer tense.
I could almost see his ears lay back when the llama walked up and splay out in the "I-feel-cornered-in-the-open-field" freeze that the chihuahua did in the previous ceasar video I watched.
It's amazong that Lorentzos effect on the boyfriend is so much more pronounced than on the dog. Boyfriend is simply dishing out the energy he insists that he isn't. I don't fault him, though. It's weird watching yourself on video. Many times you are not displaying what you think you are displaying.
It's amazing watching how well Cesar is at finding a strategy to educate the people. I've been looking for Cesars program on netflix/hbo/prime just so he can teach me more about handling people. He knows, but he keeps it to himself until he find the correct way to introduce it to the person.
😂😂
EXACTLY, Dude gave me the creeps asap. Like waving RED FLAGS, RUN!
"That was your Llama. This is MY Llama." Cesar getting defensive about his Llama is the greatest thing.
No talking shit bout his Llama
That was a PERFECT comment. "Boyfriends" llamas spit at him because he's a jackass. Animals -- all of them -- get energy and his is negative BIGTIME.
@joesph
That wasn't his point, you missed it completely. Keep watching it you will see what i mean.
He was simply bringing to light that the 'dude' was projecting his past experience. We all do this. A great lesson to observe!
I think the boyfriend needs to go.... too insecure. And that leads to very bad things. Caesar is like an all around counselor...❤
If he is willing to change he is fine.
I agree with the people who are making comments. Hopefully, He will see this,And get some help😮😢
And you can see here the difference between a true alpha and one that has lived his life trying to be alpha
I love how uncomfortable Cesar makes him. He's a Chihuahua in a Dobermans body.
Facts
@@jesseashmore8426 damn your comment was golden 👏👏👏
@Jesse Ashmore, "Chihuahua in a Dobermans body."
This all day long
The boyfriends body language speaks volumes about who he really is. He’s the problem
He reminds me of dudes that women are afraid to leave, even though they should.
Agree
😂
Who stands like that? He’s awkward AF.
He is an egomaniac
You see how confidence is displayed by the way these 2 men are standing.
One is natural.
The other, a display.
I noticed that as well.
Psychiatrist on the loose?
Well said!! I thought the same thing. Even his stance with his legs spread apart???? He is all ego and the dog could sense it.
@@carlinetorweihe4246 That's funny. 280 people agree with the statement and you come up with "Psychiatrist on the loose?" Doesn't take a psychiatrist to be observant.
The way that man stands with his leg spread wide apart. What a dominator.
Yeah and he did say he 'forces' her to be with him
I doubt he’ll honestly get past his tuff guy arrogance.
that stand 😂
@@royerhart4002Agreed. He’s a bully. Scratch the surface of a bully and you find a coward.
@@tundrawomansays694 I wouldn’t put past him that he beat the crap of of her going home after that. Just so he can feel like a big boy again.
Wow, this guy with permanent rounded shoulders & his shades has his eyes glued to the ground 24-7. His anxiety, impatience, aggressiveness and lack of real confidence comes through the screen loudly. Well done training this man Ceasar!
Well said
Absolutely!
was literally waiting for Cesar to say take your glasses off so she can see your eyes!
So in this case the Cesar was here to help the man not the dog lol.
My thoughts too 😕!
He's definitely a dangerous person
I love watching Cesar make “tough guys” seem small. This man needs to be humbled
Totally agree. That is smart as
I don’t think it should be the goal to make anyone feel small
@@seanmatthewking lol pretty sure I did not say I wanted to make him feel small, it’s watching from the outside where you can see who the bigger person is. Cesar literally says he trains people more than the dogs 😹
@@seanmatthewking it’s clear this guy didn’t want to go to cesar, being a trainer himself he felt bad, but that’s not a proper attitude
No wonder he gets spit by llamas and shit, bitten by dogs
Cesar guiding the dog is of course impressive, but what is REALLY IMPRESSIVE is how Cesar can deal with people like that dude
Yeah lifegoal on the patience.......I think he holds his great respectful attitude because he knows thats the ONLY way that he can help the dog
Yes, I think the same !
Maybe dude isn’t a narcissist cuz he learned a little!
@@jessicaoppegard6578 yeah.....but they got rid of the dog and the boyfriend stayed.....
@@zinazina6367 WOW!
Cesar is such a gentleman. A Gentleman with a lot of strength. He is being extra gracious for the pup’s sake. This guy… It’s all about himself. “I”did a dog rescue , what “I’m” used to , the way ”I”do it . “Myyy” llamas spit, WAAAAA😭👶 The dog likes it’s owner better than “MEEEEE” WAAAAA!
Ok, I take it back about Caesar’s graciousness only being this for the dogs sake. Cesar is so intelligent and so intuitive and caring that he knows if this guy can pick up any of the wisdom he’s trying to teach him… It will help the guys life all around. I apologize for lacking so much, Grace, but I’ve had this type of alpha male in my life and watched him destroy so many relationships with people and pets because it was always about him and what made him happy and what made him angry. To this day, his almost grown children are still afraid of him.
They are better known as Narcissists
@@dbabini1100%. I saw it the moment he started talking. And he kept his glasses on the whole time. Another sign of weakness. Big tuff guy. Yet so weak he can’t accept the help. Yes. Cesar is going overboard being polite to the simple fact that fool shouldn’t be around dogs. Sorry. I have zero respect or sympathy for asshats like him.
“But that was your llama, this is my llama”😂😂
I was searching for this comment... Caesar's like we r not the same bro...
I came here to comment that I too was looking for this comment hahah
Lol I was like “huh, what do you mean” and I just went past that part, so hilarious!
The sasss 😄💀
Lorenzo looking at dude like why tf am I gonna spit in your face!?!
Never seen a guy that screams more "i'm macho man with full of insecurities" than this dude.
That's why he needs build muscle to hide his insecurity.
yea...i felt that too.
Ever heard of #danbilzerian?
@@livinglife5463 lmao 🤦♂️
Intolerant. IMAGINE yourself on this show with people ripping into you. Hiding behind the anonymity of a pseudonym.
"She feels when I walk in the room" "I've been bitten by so many dogs" "All my llamas spit at me"
The animals know exactly who this dude is.
Seriously
Lorenzo even went up to him and was like hmm....
EXACTLY!!? LOL!
@@cptmuska 😂😂😂
Only two opinions matter in life , who’s you may ask?? A child’s and an animals they can sense a shitty person from a mile away.
I’m not a dog but I can smell his negativity, his tension and arrogance, even through the t.v. screen !
The dog is sooooo loving ❤😊
Start your own UA-cam program, because you KNOW!
@@carlinetorweihe4246 If it's your son, you failed to raise him.
@@SkyTigra America gone NUTS.
@@SkyTigra You've been reported.
This dude's vibe is what's causing this dog so much problems. Hell, I get uptight just watching him.
Thank You I feel the same. The mother of that girl needs to get this guy out of her life. He's a creeper.
Yesss. I felt the same way watching this *Narcissitic* *creepy @$$hole* . He gave me anxiety which confirms that he's the problem not the dog.
Agree!! Boyfriend let’s hope is gone by now and the dog is rehabbed if he’s gone
I felt that way too..
this dude is sh**"in his panties... that's what he's doing
Let’s just take a moment to recognize how awesome Lorenzo is! 🦙
Absolutely! But also frak that beefcake and his terrible energy.
Ong that boy a beast 😂😂
Lorenzo just a pure soul... major contrast to that young man you mention
Lorenzo was like. Sup bruh!
For sure the world’s best llama ☺️
That boyfriend was making me nervous and anxious just by watching his body language. I can’t imagine what the poor dog has to go through.
And I can’t imagine what the boyfriend has gone through in his life. Stop judging people.
@@soundmind6477 and what way was he judged I see no judgment here just a person feeling nervous cause the way a person acted and a person Stating that they can't imagine what a dog went through you need to stop being dumb freind
I feel like more functional alpha behavior includes more openness (Cesar). Many males will try to force stuff and ignore the sensitive bi-play of interaction.
Like Cesar just said, "patient, gentle."
@@soundmind6477 oh good grief what is that supposed to mean . He looks shady as hell , he has lamas ,haha he is not an animal lover that’s for sure .🧐
6:53 Cesar: what do you think I'm doing different than you?
bf: [long story about his trials and tribulations]
I bet this dude for once must've thought in his head "don't teach me bro I've been a trainer too" looking at his attitude.
I hope he relaxes and takes off the ridiculous posture shades hat that all cover his own fears ... before he becomes a parent
The fact that Cesar had to say “can you smile a little bit?”
I bet the boyfriend is usually the one that tells women to smile. Only Cesar could get away with telling a dude to smile 😂
he is insecure, so overly displaying dominance, taking up more space, becoming bigger. this guy has serious issues
@@xiaxiefrank3479 Truer words have never been spoken
I mean I'm the same kind of way.. he Is kinda dramatic tho. Lmfao he acts so hurt.
Her bf looks so mean
I laughed my ass off when Caesar was so stoked that the dog layer down beside the guy and was like, “can you smile..a little bit?” Lmao
He legit went 😐 😎 😐
He clearly doesn’t like the dog, she can sense it, and he’s also clearly jealous of the dog. You can see it all over him.
The boyfriend just oozes negative energy. He's the goddamn problem.
The dude has a lot of hate in him especially with animals. If her dog was having bowel movements in his presence that is a sign of abuse. People like Nathan need to receive a visit from karma to understand how it feels. Hoping she gave him the boot and found a man who can love more than himself.
👏🙌
And also, I was reading your comment at the time the lama went up to him 😂 noone likes him
@@masonoutdoors8716 lol 😂
your birth control pills make you feel threatened by masculanity
Can see that even Lorenzo can feel this dude’s energy. Like he moves in to tell him « Relax dude! Just chill »
Cesar knew the problem was that guy and asked him indirectly: What do you think I'm doing different than what you are doing right now? He is so polite and classy.
Ya and the dumbass went Into why the dog was bad. Smh the guy is the lost cause the dog is not.
@@misskat8548 No one's a lost cause. It just takes guidance to see what we can't see for ourselves. Cesar knows that about dogs, and he knows that about men.
@@smileychess , maybe you are right. But such persons should not have a dog
he didnt get the question...cus hes not paying attention
@@smileychess if someone refuses to take the guidance being given, can they then qualify as a lost cause? 🙃
The boyfriend seems like a jerk and animals pick up on that
Ya, he has something not quite right with him...sure doesn't seem like a rescue kind of guy...like it seems like he gets bit a lot...I mess with rotts...I don't get dog bit. It hurt way to much..
Worse than a jerk.. Boyfriend seems like just wanted to dominate the gf's dog right away without giving love and affection on gf's dog. 🙄
Seems like you guys are the a-holes always bagging on humans, who are also learning and growing. He's just a normal person who doesn't like to be bit
I honestly feel like he was fed up with working with the dog for so long the best way he knew how and not getting any results. It's gotta hurt when all you wanna do is help and love a dog and the dog isn't responding, or because what you're doing isn't good enough for that particular dog. I think the boyfriend might've just been exhausted with the entire situation and didn't know what else he could do. If I had a rescue dog and I was trying to get them to a place where they felt comfortable around me and in their home with me, and it wasn't working no matter what method I tried, I'm sure I would feel awful like I failed the dog.
@G
And ceasers just proved that's a normal dog who doesn't like the sh!t scared out of it.
”That was your llama, not my llama,” YOU TELL HIM CESAR!!😂
Please remember Cesar can fill the energy, of the insecure guy. The guy knows Ceasars energy is stronger. The crossed arms, protecting his heart. His body language is showing intimidation. Testosterone at work. "THIS IS MY LLAMA" Gave Cesar a excellent opportunity to expose his energy over the guy. PERFECTION.
I can feel the boyfriends bad energy through my screen...Glad Cesar was there to help!
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Get rid of the boyfriend!
I agree, maybe he has so much anger from the dog bitting him 😮he’s not thrilled by any remarkable steps this pup achieved. And that’s sad. He got his own dog!!!! Hmmm
Honestly same. This guy is bad news
Cesar handled him well. it was so obvious the problem was his energy and attitude.
He's very negative, and projects a real tough guy. The dog feels his energy and seems to be protecting her. I believe he's the one that needs to be trained.
Absolutely and I'd be willing to bet big money seriously, that Cesar knew this guy was the biggest problem 30 seconds into meeting them.
This is it ! The guys a jerk
Felt the same
@@tomkee4479 yes he trained the guy not the poor dog
Guy was chewing gum and playing with his phone instead of learning. What a fool...
Man, it takes so much patience to train this human...
😂😂😂Same thought
I know how you feel man.
Spot on.
I’m a dog trainer. And I’ll tell you. Working the animals is the easy part. It’s the humans that are the hardest to reprogram
You can see that guy is filled with massive insecurities
I’ve just read a handful of the comments and I’m laughing at how spot on everyone is about this guy. I think he’s afraid of the dog & that’s why he’s puffing himself up n acting like an army boss. Definitely agree with everyone’s comments. When Lorenzo moved in I felt like he was saying ‘hey you, wass your problem, tone down that energy, unless you wanna deal with me!’ Animals are great! Caesar you scored an A for diplomacy! Great video! 💙
Dogs can sense a human's energy. This dog was perfectly fine. She was just reacting to the negative energy from the boyfriend. The boyfriend needs to change, not the dog.
He’s a total narcissist. I worry about the girlfriend. She and Ara need to RUN for their lives.
All the me, me, me statements from him. He makes it about what she can do for HIM, not what he should do for Ara. I can’t stand this guy!
Her bf is an idiot. He don't even look happy Cesar is making progress.
@@sondralureebernerthies9329 oh comon stop judging him. one reason people work out is bc they are insecure abt themselves, which this guy clearly was. its tough bc when u see a bug muscle dude its easy to discriminate or think ill of them, but they are really the same as you or I, but they have just spent many hours by themselves at the gym lifting weights. being muscular doesnt make u cocky or confident
Totally agree
There’s nothing wrong with the dog, it just doesn’t buy into the boyfriend’s false confidence and exaggerated bravado - it sees him for what he really is.
Bingo
Spot on .
Spot on
This is too true!
Chill out lmao. Of course there was something wrong with the dog, it needed to be trained properly by an experienced trainer. The dog is not innately flawed, it probably had a horrible experience with men and doesn't trust them. Yeah, the guy is a tool, but your comment is pretty stupid insinuating that the dog has some sort of special powers to read the guys true human nature, or whatever.
I love how Cesar tries to work around the guys' insecurity. Even catering to his sensibilities by referring to navy seals and "brotherhood". He is just as patient with him as he is with the dog. Cesar is the best.
There is nothing wrong with the dog, it's the owner. It seems to always be the case
I noticed this too!
19:14 Yeah, and even here, he's explaining to "her" what "she" should feel. Cesar the teacher.
Too bad Nathan's not ex-military. He's just acting like one. Almost all servicemen love dogs. Maybe that guy is hiding something.
He might be an ex-man.
@Shion Bingo. “I rehabilitate dogs; I train people.” -Caesar
She was totally picking up on his aggression. Poor girl! I can just imagine what his internal dialogue was, when Cesar was first addressing his outward appearance. I’m glad he finally started to be more receptive to Cesar’s guidance on how to behave around a terrified dog!
Right. Cesar spends 10 minutes being calm and relaxed and then he walks up folds his arms and just stares angrily at this terrified dog like "why don't you just love me already"
I'm watching these in order to get my dog back out on walks again but I need to get my anxiety in check as well I'm going to take her out next week when the kids are at school and I'll have to put my elder dog in the kitchen and then hopefully can take both out without being pulled and worried about her growling at other dogs
@ totally … if you don’t keep yourself I. Check they will definitely react, thinking they’re protecting you and that’s the reason you’re on edge. If the one dog isn’t a good influence on the one who has anxiety issues, it’s best to just deal with the one dog. Distraction is also a good technique (i.e., treats) but the timing has to be a lot on, as to what behaviour you’re pairing it up to. Hope it works out!
that dude wasn't even listening. u can see him literally on his phone, looking away, completely unengaged. meanwhile this SWEET ASS GIRL is internalizing every little piece of information. liiiike... sis leave him
Preach it sistaa!
Hey, give the guy some slack. He's there, he's trying; that must be love to be ready get bitten and not leave. He must be nervous after been bitten, playing with his phone might just be to calm and/or hide his nervousness. Toughness is just a shield to try to hide ones insecurities in most cases.
@@sakkel.7357 you think Cesar has time for people like him? There are plenty of owners who love their pets and would do anything to have some time with Cesar. This guy doesn’t seem to care even knowing that it’s for a tv show. Mmm byeeee!
@@anaimyc.1147 Perhaps Cesar saw this as a textbook example of how many cases are about. And a chance to show all the terminators out there, what's wrong with their attitude that is causing the problem.
@@Mellowcatden it's so weird to see people act like all dogs can change and then when a human does something wrong they're like oh he is never going to change. humans are pack animals just like dogs and we experience trauma, nervousness and anxiety just like dogs. He is obviously using the phone to hide his nervousness. the guy has been bit over and over and it's obviously tense around the dog. Little by little they need to trust eachother. him being the smartest one needs to be the one guiding the dog.
The way Lorenzo got in the boyfriends face but was completely ok with his girl friend kissing his nose tells the whole story. Lorenzo tells all!
I thought I was the only person that noticed Lorenzo 🤣. He got up in his face like, "Talk bad about me & I'll spit in your face!"🤣
Lorenzo was protecting Cesar. He was just chilling in the back corner of the enclosure until the boyfriend walked around the woman and toward Cesar. Lorenzo didn't like his energy and immediately moved in. That guy has some real problems. Did you notice how much trouble he had with eye contact? He never looked at the camera during the interview and he never looked Cesar in the eye when Cesar was talking to him. Very sketchy guy!
@@janejay8119 VERY sketchy.
Lol 'Lorenzo tells all ' 😭😭😭😭😭💯
@@janejay8119 man im glad i wasnt the only one who caught that , and then how hes arguing about it makes it clear who the issue is here , i woukldnt doubt if hes gotten agressive with the dog
The boyfriend is acting like he is in a warzone. Defensive posture, arms crossed, legs wide, muscles tense, ready to attack. No dog would want to be close to that. Dude, if your dog shits itself near you, you should really rethink if the problem is the dog or you. Clearly, the dog is fine with the girl who is just super calm and gentle.
Yep, as soon as you saw that wide legged stance, you know he is the problem. Hope he can humble himself and get help.
I can’t agree with you too more. He is very defensive with body language, & has to humble himself to admit HE can do better, not the poor, terrified dog. Ceasar is so patient....I might have told that guy to stop being a douche.
He NEVER looks at the camera or person he's talking to. I don't trust people who won't look me in the eye
Cause he is not a confident man. He has some complexity with his behavior
Yah, he looks like he is ready to spring up at any moment.
It’s so interesting to see that the dog is not really the one that needed the training. I think the guy with the glasses would have been very surprised but also a bit embarrassed by this. Just raise your energy and vibe man, she is sensing your vibe and she’s terrified by it.
The guy is not rehabilitated. He wants to dominate, he is tense like a rock. The dog is scared when he touches her.
It is not ok. I feel so sorry for this dog.
Stop judging the dude, he just never faced a challenge like this you idiots.
And the girl too, can only imagine what a handful this guy must be at home, being so disinterested and rude in public is a worrying sign. His body langauge is so aggressive. Hope he's not abusive... She is absolutely beautiful as is the pup.
@@skullsaintdead I believe he is abusive with her.
@@skullsaintdead Stupidest comment award goes to you
@@sorinapavel1321 Let's judge people based on a short UA-cam clip
I knew at 5 minutes when I saw the boyfriend stand like that , Cesar was going to call him out, lol. Such a negative energy he puts off.
I'm suspecting he has a 'small d complex'
Wow, Caesar! You are so patient with this guy! He won’t even celebrate the success!
The bf and the dog are the same: both tense and aggressive due to fear. There is no way to watch his interaction with Lorenzo without seeing his fear and his overwhelming drive toward self-protection. We all get like this when we have been hurt in the past. Or “spit in the face.” His exterior isn’t “tough” it’s hard. And hard things are often really fragile. I feel for the guy. And understand him. The most important thing Cesar did was provide a model to show there’s a different way of being strong. There’s a way to be calm that isn’t passive or weak. This was a hard episode to watch but ultimately incredibly instructive and moving. Thank you, Cesar.
The boyfriend definitely gives off bad vibes. And animals can feel it.
The body language is rather negative.
Within the first minute or two that’s what I felt.
You're a 100% correct, he's not only giving bad vibes to the dog, but also to the people around him even me who's just watching this. The boyfriend needs a guy whisperer. lol
BF is far too egotistical, errogant, and controlling. You can tell by his body language. And why does he keep checking his cell phone? So rude. He probably wants Caesar to make the dog docile so that he can further abuse his girlfriend.
I agree
The boyfriend looks and acts like a raging narcissist. Get rid of him.
Wats wrong wit that.
In the end, he came out with a better understanding. Maybe you missed that. Both dog and human had success. Maybe you don't care about dogs and hate humans coz they both were behaving badly. Who knows.
Cesar is a good man. The dog attacked him too. Maybe let's get rid of the dog. Why fix.
Maybe you know how to diagnose narcissism.
YES!!!!!! who wants to be with him? ill bite him that stupid ass again again cause i hate his energy!! i even hate that dude even by watching him !!!!!!!!! he does not know to be around with dogs
Y'all Judge Too Much, he figured it out in the end. That wouldn't have happened unless he was trying. Don't discount somebody just because they're damaged I need to learn a better way. Doesn't mean it's not possible...
@Agree Or Keep Scrolling at first when I heard him talk I was thinking "this guy 😒", but then I saw how he starting listening to Cesar, and how well he did with the dog! I would definitely not go out with someone like that, but I celebrate their improvement! I hope he stays calm and patient and loving towards the dog. I'm with you, I think everybody is judging him without taking in all the information.
I love how Cesar handled this. Instead of criticizing the boyfriend for his bad energy, he figured out how to get through to him and change his energy. Bravo Cesar! Once again you trained the people instead of the dog.
If it was me I would have said, damn dude knock the toxicity out before approaching anyone or any animal
Ceasar's genius also lies in his ability to read a situation and then try different scenarios to see what how the people and animals will react in order to get a connection with them and find a way to best help them.
@@nataschas9552 Yes, that is right. He wants the best for all involved.
This has to be my favourite session yet!! The difference is in the close up work. It's finally so clear to see how to achieve this with our own dogs and having Cesar's input about how the dog thinks and the little suggestions he makes to fine tune the dog's and partner's reactions. It's gorgeous and gives me such a buzz!
The boyfriend doesn’t even want to learn. His mind is made up and the poor dog knows that.
He did a good job at the end, being there and following instructions shows already shows willingness, the dog noticed and accepted him.
I feel like he does want to learn, but he was disappointed he couldn't make progress with her on his own. It looked to me like he felt neglected by her and needed to get over that. Good of him for taking on the challenge! She's not neglecting him, just the energy he was sending wasn't right for her.
It's very hard to admit you made a mistake and learn. It's normal to be defensive. Cesar was general with him, and he was humble enough to not react defensively, but to learn
The guy was the problem, not the dog.
@@catherinemorris908 absolutely absolute!!!!
The boyfriends vibe is the problem.. he barely even pet the llama he is not an animal person at all and the animals respond to that.. the boyfriend needs the rehab
I agree! Actions speak louder than words and his actions speak very loudly
Exactly!! =)
100% with you
He was afraid of the llama (they repeated the scene), afraid of the dog, and insecure. Cruelty - plus overt masculinity is a weak cover.
No doubt!!
The bf doesn’t like being told he is wrong and keeps blaming everything on the dog.
And the spitting lamas 🙄😂
It's Steroid bruhhh. You want some?💉
The boyfriend thinks he's an alpha. The dog thinks otherwise.
He is a know ot all douche
Sounds like my daaaaaaaaaaad
Dang! You guys all nailed the body posture of the man. Macho, unstable energy, too forceful, but lack of confident, calm energy. Cesar is a "Human Whisperer" too. Just love Cesar so much. ❤️❤️❤️
Actually your comment nailed it!
The girlfriend is so engaged in the rehabilitation of her dog and so encouraging and joyful. The boyfriend can't even smile or make eye contact. In the middle of training when he goes on his phone as if he isn't paying attention. He was mad because he thought he knew everything there was about dog training aggressive dogs. And then Cesar is like this case requires a master teacher lol.
Lol exactly. He seems like he resents the dog's progress because it forces him to realize there's plenty of room for growth within himself. He seems very prideful and his ego was hurt.
I think the gf has to realize something about the bf…
@@pinay-dane-missioneri It looks like they’re still together on her instagram and they rehomed their dog so hopefully she has a better life with someone who can actually be gentle and calm with her
Exactly what I was seeing and thinking 👌
Its not his dog get off his tip😂
omg when he stands his legs are splitting so far, he probably watched a bunch of videos on "how to appear confident when you're not"
That was confusing me so hard. Always half a split
Да Верно!
Hahahahaha YAAAAS
👌👌😂😜😅
Yep horibal energy
“Instead of forcing someone, guide someone. Give them the best side of you -your calm, your confidence, your love, your joy.” That’s gold.
That was Cesar's way to educate the boyfriend.....who thought his imaginary balls were so big, that he should stood like that.
@@etcetraetcetra3173 😂😂reading between the lines I see
Had to comment the boyfriend is obviously a bad egg animals aren't stupid, bad body language bad attitude
So true
@@stephenfinch9421 Lorenzo knew straight away.
I don't want to say anything more about the boyfriend. Enough has been said about him in the comments but the way the lady's face lit up after her dog touched Caesar and he touched her back.stroking her. Girl! Your smile was beautiful and showed genuine happiness. That you had to take a pic. It spoke volumes. Keep showing your dog your joy and happiness.
If my boyfriend ever said about a human or a dog that he "has to force her to be with him", I would RUN. Girl, I'm sorry but that guy is just bad vibes all around.
That's what I said! RED FLAGS girl, RUN!!
You can really tell a lot about a man in the way he treats animals 😷 This guy ain’t it , sis he has to go
He just over projects..
@@iole96792 sadly a lot of attractive women end up with douchebags like this dude
Same here. When I heard him say "force", first thing that came to my was I hope he doesn't do that to his gf
The dude all freaking out about the approaching llama, but then his girl goes in for a kiss from it. Lmao, that should tell you everything right there.
There's thousands of comments about the boyfriend and it's unbelievable because you guys are judging him, calling him "insecure". Plus ceaser is inconsiderate about the lama, I would've turned my head to!!! Tf I'm supposed to do? Kiss the lama!!!
I cannot believe you guys are judging a guy for absolutely no reason.
@@Imfrommars444 He kind of is the problem, he even admitted it. “I don’t have the patience with her because she doesn’t wanna do any thing with me.” Like, no wonder that dog hates you 🙄✋
@@higuys225 i mean thats most people with hardship tho doesnt make him bad
@@thefamilymealgaming Yeah, but if you’re not gonna be patient with an animal thats shy/aggressive, don’t expect it to like you.
@@higuys225 sure but still doesnt make him a bad person
Notice how Cesar, even when correcting the man, looks at the girl from time to time. That's because he wants her to understand, the man is the problem and he knows the man isn't listening. The man has been gaslighting her to think the dog is the problem.
Some people believe that they the boss so dog just suppose to like them n do what they want..they don't understand that dogs have feelings n fears etc..
He is so resentfull and unhappy and keeps on complainig and on opening his legs in that strange "I'm the man" stance which just transmits wannabe energy
I was thinking the same. I feel the dude is so fed up he doesn't even care for the dog anymore. Its like he didn't want to be involved..
That's a big mutt. The dog is beautiful though
I thought the same thing!!! And I bet he has gotten physical with the poor dog when she is not around. Just as Cesar said in 11:04
I love how Cesar neither judged the dog, NOR the guy. He gave both what they needed: gentle teaching & guidance. I love how the guy went from guards up to vulnerable willingness to be gentle and adapt. Actually probs to him, too! ❤
This guy is so dominating. His body language is so harsh. Ofcourse the dog is gonna get scared. He needs to learn to be gentle.
Viralee Desai was thinking the exact same. He’s always hovering over with his steroid shoulders
In this case, the dog is a teacher to this guy. Question is: would he see that opportunity!?
@ssiebold1 I disagree. I think they were all there to learn as a unit and strengthen the bond of their pack. I'm sure him training solo would have worked too but it seemed like this guy wasn't fully into it and wasn't taking in what cesar was telling him to do. I think the gf can remind him how to embrace calmness whenever he's not gentle with the dog.
@ssiebold1 I see what you're saying and there's a lot of truth to it but I honestly think the guy was dragged in there by his gf and cesar probably thought he shouldn't train the dog to listen to any human that in all honestly doesn't respect her.
@ssiebold1 he's always said he rehabilitated humans not dogs. He always says that it's never the dog's fault. The dog may listen when cesar is there too & without cesar probably not. This man needs to congratulate the dog when she hits a milestone but he did not do that for her. It is 100% the man's fault and not Cesar's
The way that boyfriend stands is intimidating and the dog doesn’t like him...he just sends out negative vibes....
first rule of friendly engagement : take your sunglasses off and show your eyes.
Something is going on with that guy. He seems to be the controlling type. Maybe she should listen to her dog & get away from him.🤷
I felt his negative vibes as well
I don't think he can really change the way he is, I feel like he's been like this his whole life so you can't blame him when he's doing it unconsciously
@@HabibiTV04 True
Bro, Lorenzo stepped in, looked the bf up and down and was like “is There a problem here buddy”
😂🦙Lorenzo is a boss. Just like Caesar.
Lorenzo : "Hey buddy, u gotta lose THAT attitude, if u wanna hang out and chill here.. otherwise, meh ..."
Lmao 😂😂😂
There might be a good reason for the boyfriend's body language.
We don't know anything about strangers.
EEGE or there might be a good reason for the Dogs behavior.
Thanks boyfriend to offer yourself as an opportunity to teach so many of human beings who doesn't know how to react, face, interact with dogs.
It is easy to criticize others but, do we look the faults on ourselves?
Are we able to control our thoughts, our emotions, our reactions?
That's why we come here in this world. To learn so we can pass to our next level on self development.
Thanks Cesar❤
Cesar saw the boyfriends issues plain as day, as we all did.. but his infinite wisdom and compassion was to try to show him how to be better… I’ve got so much respect for Mr Milan ❤
Yes,you see him on his stupid phone, like he is uninterested, can you imagine what the poor dog went through with him? Can't see them lasting
Infinite wisdom
Very proud of you Cesar and I love watching your show.
@@bubblesdelightYou can't mean that seriously, of course he's tired at some point after trying for 5 months. Not everyone knows how to do it instead of abonding him, he still goes to an expert to get along with the dog. Don't pretend you know the guy privately and stopjing. How can you please judge your complete personality because of a 20 min video. Imagine someone posts a 20 min video of you and then you see on the internet how people judge your whole personality. Get a life.
Get a grip it's all good.
There is a reason Aura doesn’t like this guy. So obvious. Smart dog.
your birth control pills make you feel threatened by masculanity
you are so stupid, can't you see she was biting Cesar also?
Interestingly, i was thinking the same thing...She is a very frightened and nervous dog, but just a little time, she was willing to work with Ceaser which means she din have human aggression problem. But sometimes, dogs just feel. Especially GSDs
@@goldenbeardofficial8541 your ill-education makes u feel think of such stupid stuff
@@goldenbeardofficial8541 what kind of comment is that?
The fact the boyfriend says every dog bites him, tells you alot lol
Yeah, almost as if this guy doesn't trust dogs, and they don't trust him 😁
Not really. He said he works with mostly shelter dogs/abused dogs and men are usually the ones who abuse dogs the most so a scared dog will bite. I've been bitten plenty of times myself.
The boyfriend comes across as a control freak. I don't like the guy at all
He is scary
Exactly
By far my favorite video of Caesar dealing with people and teaching them how to handle their dogs absolutely fantastic episode!
The boyfriend's energy is all wrong, that is the problem. I'd even get uncomfortable around him.
I was cringing the whole time watching when he's talking... just that vibe he has.
He seems like a self entitled douchebag who feels everyone in the world should submit to him
@@ghaniali6569 That's probably not true. My guess is more likely he has some insecurity or had some bad experience/trauma in life. This has made him think people/things/animals will be against him. As a result of this energy then people do turn against him.
Lmao....
Even babies stops crying when they saw her bf face
Can’t imagine how he acts at home with the dog and the girlfriend. He’s like I’m Rambo and I can do it all great, it’s not my fault, it’s the dog. And Cesar just showed him how it really is and his ego is killing him.
Yep
He is Just A Big Guy Who Are Afride, .. Why Do You Think He Built All That Muscles For 😊😊. ...
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@@inghlei9000 that's not the only thing people body build for they might have satisfaction being in that good of a shap
It’s him, he is so tense. She is better with her. Patience and giving her confidence!
Yeah you could see it when Cesar got there. He was insecure. His attitude and the way he was tryna talk himself up. How many dogs he’s worked and how many times he’s bitten.
I see it too. He had his hands folded and his legs wide.
And you’re right, he was talking himself up like “I DO rescue dogs. I’m not an amateur!” But... the proof is in the pudding. 🤷♀️
Glad Cesar has patience for everyone 👏👏👏
You see that so often, the biggest man with the most tattoos and a big mouth is the one who is the most insecure.
the dog is trying to possess the woman because she is so weak
Glasses and hat aren’t helping either. My most relaxed dog gets anxious familiar people wearing a hat. We just tell them to turn it around and it works.
Sometimes people are naturally sensitive, sometimes people can be naturally tough. Lessons like these help to remind me, you can show a soft side, and showing that softer side doesn't mean you're weak. In fact it is the opposite. Sometimes when life is tough on you and that 'worked' for u, you think the same thing applied to others will work out well too. But sometimes tough love isn't always the key, and hopefully he learned how to be more soft and sensitive. I have a feeling, even though he was acting macho and wearing sunglasses, towards the end he was feeling emotional about the progress, but hiding it. I wish them well on their journey.
Cesar is so skillful. He avoids the guy's need to feel knowledgeable and does not try to soften things up for the guy the way a lot of people would.
Look at the arrogance and aggression from the BF in his manner, stance, posturing, voice! Dump the BF! The dog is an excellent judge of character!
YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!
True thaaat!
Absolutely!! Never took his sunglasses off to make eye contact with anyone either…. He’s the problem….
As a man. I'm so use to fake tough guys like this.. His energy makes even me want to tense up and hit him or test his aggression.. He would never make it in prison with real tough guys.. It's his energy
He’s petulant
This is one of those rare videos where I am truly frustrated with the man who is handling the dog. Normally I can understand that people are emotional and get attached to the dog but this guy is whole another level of negative energy
This dude just doesn’t want to learn from Caesar. He has such a bad attitude! Kudos to Caesar who has so much class and grace to slam a nasty attitude dude. I am learning so much from you Caesar! Thanks so much!
That guy has so many issues maybe Cesar should keep him at the rehabilitation center.. 😂😂
Hahahahahajajahahahahahhaha
sounds funny.. but that the truth man
This guy isn't use to something standing up to him. He has a god complex
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol
"That was your lama."
"This is my lama."
This guy is a duchebag
Best call from ceaser
L-I-T-E-R-A-L definition of a Tool, what a sorry excuse of a dog owner that man was!
I think Cesar knew what was really up
Lorenzo was like wtf, I don’t like this guys energy haha. Idk when the guy said he had to “force” the dog to be near him, that was just a red flag if there ever was one. Why would have ever want to force an animal to be near you, that’s just going to lead to disaster. Just sit with an animal with love and in time they will come to you. I’ve rehabilitated many animals, all it takes it time and love. That’s the secret recipe and nothing else
Exactly my thoughts. I felt quite sick watching him with that sweet, scared dog. So glad this was filmed. Cesar is AMAZING!!!! He knows this guy is not 100% committed....
My dog was a rescue, he used to bite me & everyone near. I just kept petting him with love even if he snaps at me. Pretty quickly he got that I just love him unconditionally & never bit me again. I feel like her bf just want to dominate the dog. Even when he pets him he’s a pansy. There’s no love. He’s not trying to pet his head, just the back..
@Mr Anderson I feel like he beat up the dog when she's not around .. she probably got scared. I don't like the vibes of her bf. She need a new one
@Mr Anderson She said that she feels as thought that is the case; that doesn't mean that he is actually that way.
@Mr Anderson You're welcome.
I love how you were teaching the husband to be more relaxed.
He seemed jealous and bitter that the dog bonded with her and that his previous experiences weren't helping him. People view all aggression as the same, but when the core emotions aren't identified you don't know the right techniques. He may have been used to aggressive bully dogs who need to be put into their place and learn to calm down. Their dog was afraid of him, and he probably used the same techniques and made her go from afraid to terrified thus defending herself and running from him. It's hard sometimes to bond when we dont feel loved by pets, but we have to be the ones to stay calm and work through our emotions before they can learn to work through theirs! Hope he chills out more and reduces his angry alpha energy