Am I Too (insert insecurity) to Roller Skate?
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Dirty Deborah Harry discusses insecurities that keep people from roller skating. Please watch this video and share your experiences in the comments section, in order to help not only yourself but others who are struggling.
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"I just got back into rolling skating now at age 33. I used to do it back when I was a child at either family events or field trips and surprisingly, I was pretty good! 👍 I also dabbled in skateboarding for atleast 7 yrs of my life as a teen. Last year I was invited to a skating rink b-day party for one of my wife's nieces. I honestly did NOT want to go. Fearing that I'd see someone I know there and they'd think I was corny for participating ect and I hadn't done it in soooo long as well. I've gotten older, I've been working lots, Im a cancer survivor, I was battling a drug addiction. I've honestly just been through alot and I've never had a outlet. Until that night at the party after having my wife beg me to go... Let me tell you 😂 I showed OUT!! Surprising my family and myself. I finally felt good and FREE to express myself and knew that roller skating was something I desperately needed to be a part of. It was also a good way for me to release the stresses of my life and challenge myself physically and mentally. Just bought 2 pair of HIGH-END skates with much extensive research, 1 for rhythm skating and one for speed skating. I'm already beginning to meet new friends and people at the local rink!!!! Skating was calling me.. Now I do it almost everyday with the tip money I make from my Job. I'd say get out there and do it!! Don't let your "limitations" and the bad things life throws at you to hold you back." THANK YOU FOR THIS VID!
I started rollerskating after getting sober earlier this year. cheers to 5 months of skate therapy, lifelong health, and happiness!!!
OH that is fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So proud of you!!! Keep it up!!!
Best comment there could ever be. I'm going to have to actually try this now.
That's amazing
👏👏👊💪💪👍🙋🏻♀️
Amazing video. I didn't want to watch at first because I thought it would be simply "no, you're not too fat! You're beautiful! Feel yourself!" And by saying that, I don't mean to belittle those kinds of messages. It's just that, that seems to be all anyone ever has to say about insecurities. But my goodness, the message you delivered in this video was thoughtful, thought provoking, philosophical, and so so so inspirational. What you said about insecurities that very well could be legitimate? Thank you!! Yes, it is not shameful to have insecurities, yes they may be spot on, and yes, I absolutely agree that they should not stop you.
Personally, my insecurity does revolve around my looks. I'm not conventionally pretty, and in fact I was often mistaken for a boy during middle and high school. It's not low self esteem, it's simply a fact that I am not pretty. But, not being pretty doesn't stop me from having bomb style, and you know that when I go skating I put together outfits that are weird and funky but make me feel beautiful. And sometimes, I think I actually do look conventionally pretty.
When I go skating in a cute ass outfit, I feel free, and I feel a calming effect from the sound of wheels carving, and the way we can so elegantly make our body move with the slightest of weight shift. I feel in tune with myself and how my body works when I'm skating, and it is absolutely therapeutic. Asphalt roads suddenly seem rubbery under your skates, not a foreboding surface threatening to scrape up your skin, but a comrade in your journey, bending and swaying with you to bring you where you want to go and how you want to get there. That may sound a bit weird, but this is the mindspace your video has put me in, and I really really want to thank you for that.
Thank you for your thoughts, they were insightful.
I just want you to know that this is so beautifully written it made me emotional.
First off .... you are an incredible writer and I can only imagine you moving through the world in your own style. Isn't it amazing that your insecurity has a positive effect in other parts of your life? I feel like it has made you a bit fearless! I want to see your outfits now :) Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. Thank you for also acknowledging that insecurities are legit. I almost didn't want to say that because it can be thought of as controversial. Insecurities are NOT shameful. They are real and can be overcome.
Your description of the wheels on the road is making me emotional- you’re a beautiful writer and you perfectly captured what it feels like to skate. It’s so good for the soul.
And I bet you look so cool when you skate, in your awesome outfits and rolling free without a care in the world.
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this is such a beautifully written comment and i really relate to the sense of freedom you described 💗
I'm 50 years old, and started skating again last summer ( having not skated since I was 9 years old). I have been watching your channel and your videos have helped me. I had all those "I'm too___..." but I didn't let the fact that I was old, fat, weak, bad knees, etc stop me. My only regret is that I've not been skating all along. I'm the introvert skater. It's just me and my music and, right now....a big empty parking lot. 💕
Nothing more beautiful than to see a skater moving along to only a song they can hear. Good for you.
I’m so excited at the age of 52 to order my skates and get back out there. It has been years. I know it won’t be easy at first, but I know it will be a blast. My goal is outdoor skating. I’m so inspired by the return of this. It’s so freeing. That feeling never leaves you!
Mee too. I have just ordered my skates and i am so excited to learn it. By the way i am 30.
Started again at 55 and it is hard to accept that I’m a novice because I was so good at skating when I last skated, when I was about 20! I was a super confident street skater and now I skate in a car park and I don’t skate from home to the car park like I would have done then. Getting older sucks but I’m so proud that I fell four times this week and just got up and carried on. My worst injury so far is a sprained little finger where I bent it back when I fell. It’s good to know my bones are strong (hrt?) and that I bounce. That makes me feel young again. As Debbie the wise one has repeatedly said, it is more than just skating, it gets in your blood.
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People, I'm fat and I roller skate like there's no tomorrow. It gives me so much trust in myself and I can wear everything I want and I try to do everything that I like on my skates because I'm skating. If you whatever insecure about watch some people who skate and are that thing. Watching fat roller skates made me buy my skates, so... do it!
Ty :)
Wait omg I didn't watch the whole thing when I commented. When you start tearing up saying "I don't wanna look like a dork. It's just rollerskating." I've had that exact conversation with people before. My life has changed so dramatically and wonderfully since skating. I feel beautiful, I feel graceful, it's magic. It's a magical feeling. Thanks for putting it into words ❤️
Love THIS message
I started skating at the age of 35. I was worried I was too old but honestly it doesn't even enter my mind now! Love skating, rubbish at it but I don't care haha I'm having fun!
Same here. I turned 35 in May and I wanted to skate but feared maybe I am too old and let the excitement pass me by. Thanks for this, I think I'm going to pick up a pair of skates.
@@luzhernandez5321 I'm 39 and just rediscovered rollerskating this week and ordered a pair of skates - questioning why I every stopped skating!
My 70yo father took me skating this past Monday and ironically I, at 25 years old, am the one that fell and injured my knee🤦🏼♀️😂 if you can move your legs, you can skate! No matter how old❤️
I'm going to be 64 next month and just got skates. It's been over 40 years. I can get back and forth in basement on tile floor, and building gradually.
I'm 35 as well and just bought my first pair as an adult. I skated as a kid and moved to inlines as an adolescent but haven't really skated in over 20 years. But excited to give it a go again!
This is the kind of talk we needed from our roller skating mom❤️❤️
Awwwwwww thank you :)
I’ve had my skates since feb but been too scared. This is a sign haha
Go for it, girl!!!
Joanna Clark I actually have 💕
I’m 71 years young and for my birthday I bought skates and gear! Enjoying ALL your videos!! And look forward to skating soon!
Happy birthday! You are amazing!!!!!!!!!
OMG! You're my inspiration! I'm 58 and I'm feeling like I've missed my opportunity. I've been wanting to do it since I was 15!
I love this no bull motivational video. Before I started I thought, no one in this entire country seems to roller skate, I've never come across a skater in my lifetime here other than children, I don't have the money for the Cool roller skates I see girls on Instagram have, I am clumsy and weak I won't be able to do hand stands in my roller skates and whatever other crazy stuff I see on the internet... hell i cant even take classes cause theres no one here teaching skating, I will waste money on roller skates that won't be of quality and will be difficult to learn on and then have zero guidance and accomplish nothing. Is there point in even starting?
That was a terrible way to start myself off. I spent 50 euro on my first skates. I just couldn't resist the urge. I put them on once for ten minutes and felt unsteady, and felt watched in public and took them off and didn't put them on for another three months. I started practicing on an empty car park with not even a single Google of instructions and it took forever to learn to roll forwards. Another two months passed and I felt like I had my roller skates for nearly half a year and still didn't learn how to effectively turn, stop, go backwards, approach a step or drop. Anything. I felt useless because I'd see girls on Instagram post their moxi daily skate challeges and how it took them three months from no skills to tricks at the park. But it was too fun to stop. I felt good when I did it, then terrible when I saw others do it better online, but then great again when I put my own skates on even if I failed at learning a new skill. I'll say this, the internet is a terrible place about 70% of the time for creating insecurity and jealousy, but it's also what got me skating and helped me find these lessons. My biggest take away point from my skate journey is don't let other peoples journeys affect your own skate journey. I still can't skate compared to some but can skate compared to my past self. I'm still weak and clumsy compared to some but not compared to me last year. I'm constantly improving at my own pace and when I focus on it, I enjoy myself and motivate myself to do more. Meanwhile Instagram is making me feel like roller skating needs to be done in nice clothes and only if you're pretty and only if you were previously a dancer or a gymnast or a figure skater. Do what you want and how you want it. I'm still learning from my own advice.
Oh I love your attitude. You and only YOU are making this happen. You have persevered and continue to get better. I don't know you but I am proud of you. xoxo
I am in your position, I am 30 and I'm still learning. Don't listen to Instagram. I really appreciate what you wrote. I think you're approaching not only skating but life in the best way possible. Don't let dictate others what you should do, don't be jealous of others and don't let insicurities eat you. Stay stong sis
I'm 24 asked myself the "Am I too OLD to roller skate" question a few times...I decided to go for it and buy them anyways. I got my roller skates two weeks ago and this sport has honestly already started changing my life for the better. Thank you for your videos. They are so impactful and inspiring to me and so many skaters. You really make this sport and community feel like such a family! Also my mom's name is Deb too so every time you say "tighten your snack area" I'm likeee "yes mom". lol. Anyways, thank you for everything you do, such an inspiration!
24 and you think your Old? Well I’m glad you got them and it’s really fun to skate
I started skating at the age of 48... never really skated much before and never skated as a kid.
Yes mom! 😂❤️
Omg I just cried!! I started skating at 13 and I’m 60. I stopped skating 15 years ago.
Damn it, I’m coming back.
Can’t find size 8 skates. Sold out everywhere!!!! Can you recommend skates that I switch indoor and outdoor wheels on?
Don’t want cheap skates though. Thanks so much.
Now I have to dry my tears.
Love ya
I'm 57 ..do it!!! It's amazing 🐝💜
All skates will let you switch out the wheels. As for brands, I always have to recommend Riedell and Sure-Grip. They’re 2 of the original giants in roller skating, and they put out a quality product at various price points, so everyone can always afford them. The Sure-Grip Malibu is $99. The Riedell OGs are 699 (I believe). There really is something for everyone. A bonus is you can always find some somewhere. It helps if you check their websites first. I’ve found lots still in stock by checking their websites.
I just pulled myself together after watching this vid.....then I read your comment. And now here I am again reaching for the Kleenex... lol I'm feeling so many emotions. I as well took up skating again 3 years ago from many years away from it. I'm so proud to say that at 51 I'm still loving the shit outta skating again!!! Cheers!!!!
Sierra Jade Thanks so much!!!
Thanks Kim. This is an old friend that’s calling my name. I gotta do this! I just have to. Thank You for your support!
God bless you all!!!!! ❤️
Dirty, this was much needed. And I know there are always people who need to here this! Thank you!
So true. Everything you said! Two haters in my life say I am too old. I say nicely, "Eff you". Lol. Never thought that I was too old before they mentioned it to me. I've been an athlete my whole life.
At 42 I am so happy with my skate skills that have developed over the last 6 months that I've been skating. It is so freeing, and makes me feel beautiful. I've inspired so many people, strangers, little kids, my roomie, and clients to join me. Its truly amazing. Keep skating😘
I’m sixty and just got back into skating after many years. Anyone can do it!!!
Welcome back. Now never leave again ;)
I understand, my biggest hater is my husband of 25 years. He hasn’t skated since high school and still thinks he is better than me. He will not attend sessions with me so he has no idea what my skill level is but tells me that I’m too old and trying to relive my younger years. I don’t tell him politely to eff off. Lol. I’m not about to stop skating again. I tell him don’t be a hater be a skater. ⛸ (why isn’t there a roller skate emoji?)
I am 70 and I am skating every weekend. I have heard people tell me that for many many years. Don't you think your a little old for that? Nope. Not yet.
This video actually helped me more than i thought it would. When i go skating i go by myself cause i have a very hard time talking to people and making friends, and sometimes i get down about that. But then i start skating and i feel so much better. And I realize now that its from the skating! I love you and the videos you make, and i hope you are doing well🧡🧡
Probably, u didn't realize how talented u are yet "Someone Stupid". It happened to me as well. Skate by myself. Practice by myself. This inner strength and courage will get u thru the tough time... Trust me! Keep up the good work, "Someone not realizing how talented she is yet 😉"
Bro! That’s me! I go by myself because I have no friends and I’m bad at talking to ppl so there goes making friends 😢 but I really really enjoy skating and while I skate even tho I go by myself I don’t feel so alone 🥺
@@ImMe821 When we are too [ ... insert our insecurities] to skate, we start to lose motivation [And, here it is ... the spiral "DOWNWARD", whenever you think of going to skate]. What I realized though 1) Our passion for our skating must "overwhelm" the fear of "our insecurities". 2) If we got a goal in mind, says, become "a better jam/rhythm skater" [Or even better, one of the best jam/rhythm skaters of all time :D... "Shoot for the moon ... even if you miss, you [still] land among the stars" (Les Brown)], now we got sth to focus on wherever we are, it gave us some senses of direction to head to... 3) When we first start, we "can make up in numbers, what [we] lack in skills" [Jim Rohn, btw :D] ... And that's the start of your spiral "UPWARD" (Not only in rinks > attract more friends >> ...[you name it] ^_
Tánh Phạm you are such a sweet a person! I hope you know how much I appreciate your comments and how they actually made me feel better! Thank you for being so awesome
ImMe821 at least we can relate to each other! I think its nice to know that theres people who feel the same sometimes. But hey, you dont need another person to make you happy. You are beautiful and talented without anyone else.
AS I ALWAYS SAY....SUCCESS IS FALLING 9 TIMES AND GETTING UP TEN!" ...WORDS FROM MR BON JOVI!
I miss my skating, i was good when i was youger and started again last year, then came feb this year and i had a nasty fall and really hurt my knee. All i want to do is get my skates on again ( which i did once and the pain was to much) and go skate but just sooo scared of falling on my knee again. How do i just get through this fear😪 i want to feel myself again .
@@tamlynparnham5415 GIRL TRUST ME...I UDERSTAND WHERE YOUR COMING FROM....LETS PUT IT THIS WAY...I SKATED WHEN I WAS IN THE 3RD GRADE ALL THE WAY TILL HIGH SCHOOL ANFD STOPPED. ALBIET THAT i GRADUATED IN 96...I PUT BACK ON SKATES IN 2010 AND I HAD THE WORST FALL..AND MIND YOU...I AM A LARGE MAN (NOW)...AND MY FIRST THOUGHT WAS....I DONT REMEMBER IT FEELING THIS BAD WHEN I FELL..LOL I LANDED RIGHT ON MY RIGHT ANKLE AND ALL MY WEIGHT ON IT...THE NEXT FEW WEEKS I WALKED AROUND WITH SWELLING THE SHAPE AND SIZE OF A TENNIS BALL...BUT I DIDNT SECOND THINK TO LACE UP ONCE I HEALED...HOWEVER I DID KEEP IN MIND THAT I AM NOT A FEARLESS AS I ONCE WAS...AND I NEED TO ADAPT TO RELEARN HOW TO SKATE AS A LARGE ADULT...AND BY DOING SO...I KNOW MY LIMITS AND BOUNDARIIES...ITS AL ABOUT PACING URSELF
I haven't got any roller skates yet, but I love watching your videos
Me too!
Guys they just restocked on impala (yesterday) but they are selling out fast!!
@@KennedyFarr thank you for telling me!!!
Skating has really helped with my depression
I thought my thighs were to big to do crossovers but watching Dirty Deb I realized it wasn’t me I just never loosened my trucks when I bought my skates 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????? You have NO IDEA how many times I have had this convo with some gal!!!
I loosened my trucks and my skating got way better. Still not as good as I was in rollerblades but getting there fast. Not that I was terribly good at rollerblading but that’s what I grew up with
Skating feels like flying! I almost don't like it if someone comments on my skating (even to say something nice) because I don't want to think about how I look. I learn moves for how it feels. It'd be great to look good, of course, but I'll get sad and it'll ruin that flying feeling if my focus is how others see me. Tell me I look like I'm having fun and leave it at that😎
"If you're an introvert who wants to be around other people but not talk to them" I feel seen
My life is pretty awesome, but I got back into skating after my father died last year. He was a champ couples skate pro when he was young, and I want to honor him with learning to dance skate. I’m older than you, but my fears aren’t stopping me, thanks to you. ❤️
This made my cry. I finally learned to do more than skate straight forward with your videos and I literally dream about skating now like I used to dream about flying.
I’m drawn to skating because it makes me feel free, and I have my life together for the most part. I have a decent job (kinda suffering from corona with pay but a secure job) im also in great shape, I just grew up next to a skating rink and I’ve just loved it ever since. I’ve started to go roller skating every week for the past month and I’m buying my own pair of skates next week. I’m glad to say that your videos got me back into roller skating and I thank you for that.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE U!!! I'm 50 and just started skating again and you've been so helpful in both technique AND the mental part of it. Someday I hope to make it there to meet you. You're the best!!!!! Keep on keeping on. If you're ever in Austin TX lemme know!😁
Hey Steven! I am reaching out to see if you're a quad skater?
THANK YOU! I'm in my early 60's and love skating, doing head & hand stands. Was getting tired of being told I'm getting too old. Loved your message. As always, YOU ROCK👍💖😘
I think this is the type of stuff that keeps people young. 👍
Ok, I just love you. I never comment on videos, but when you got emotional, I did too. I have so many insecurities about skating, and I'm working through them a little bit every day. I love your channel and I love your teaching style. You are such a positive voice and we all need that. You are fantastic.
Awwww thank you so much.
Greetings from Brisbane, Australia! My 13yo niece has always been quite insecure. I took her to a rink a bit more than a year ago for the first time and it has been a game changer. She loves it! She wants to learn. She loves to learn. She’s confident and it’s wonderful! We can’t go to the rink anymore but my office has a brilliant underground car park that’s all ours on the weekend. She finally mastered crossovers last week and I couldn’t be more proud! It’s also been the inspiration to get me back on skates after 30 years. It’s taken practice and respecting my limits but I’m so glad I didn’t let my inner voice tell me I’m too old. I’m 47. We love your tutorials and your passion is infectious. You and I have been teaching her together!
Oh I am soooooo excited for you two! I skate with my nephew and he has become an INCREDIBLE skater in just 2 years! You two are creating a lifetime of memories and you are the cool aunt just like me ;) BTW .... I LOVE AUSSIES!
i cant even express how inspiring this was. i was practicing in the garage and getting incredibly frustrated that i couldn’t transition from skating backwards to forwards when i clicked the video. about two minutes in i had to stop and sit on the floor and cry because i had forgotten why i started skating to begin with. this helped me remember that it isn’t about what other people think of me when i’m at the rink; it’s about what i feel and the freedom and excitement it brings me. thank you so much❤️❤️
Watch her videos on how to transition and dont get frustrated! Things get harder when you do!
I love skating because it makes me feel like I'm flying ~
I believe so too. It is definitely therapeutic to move through the world on wheels.
Feeling the love, Dirty! I was just telling my boss how life lessons from roller skating apply to my work. Like you've taught me that you can prepare for falling so when you do fall, it's not a big deal, it doesnt hurt as bad as youd think, and it just is something that happens when you're learning something new or progressing. Do you know any other blind or disabled skaters?
Love right back at ya! I don't know any blind skaters but have taught skaters who have prosthetic legs.
I don’t know any disabled skaters but I know a lot of scuba divers with disabilities! There are a lot of activities that persons with disabilities can enjoy. I knew a blind person with hearing loss who raced tandem bicycles. I hope everyone has the chance to have fun with the sports and hobbies that interest them ❤️
I went through a tough break up of a relationship of 2 years in February and I was crushed. The absolute next day I had this feeling of going to a rink and just skating away with a friend. The moment my wheels hit that floor I realized how much I was missing out on how happy and relieving it was to glide across the rink with all my worries behind me. I've been skating almost everyday ever since with my best friend and together we are getting better and better everyday, learning new tricks and loving life! So glad I discovered you when I did because you've been with me through my whole skating journey! You taught me to take risks and always believe in myself. Skating has truly changed my life in so many amazing ways. Love you Deb!
I love you! You are just the kind of skater I want to skate with! I am so happy you found skating again at this point in your life :) Roll on my friend.
Thank you so much for this video. 🌼✨ this is so important. I’m a 30 year old beginner who is not athletic. It’s difficult for sure. 💕 I love your honesty about the passion. I feel the passion.
How are you doing now? I'm on week one lol
You made me laugh, you made me cry, you made me want to put on my skates
Right!? Poetry for sure! See how many amazing people are involved in skating. It is not a mystery to me ;) Thank you for watching and for your support. I appreciate it.
I LOVE YOU! I just started skating again (used to when I was younger - now I am 46!), kind of due to COVID (and that I wanted to find something I loved to do, for me, and nobody else). Skating popped in my mind as something to do outside during that/this time. I just started watching your videos, and I LOVE your personality. You crack me up and I have learned so much from you! You are so real and a great teacher! Thank you for posting so many videos! :)
Welcome back to skating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now never leave.
Happiness is contagious..with so much imbalance in the world it's refreshing to see something good. Thank you for your videos, ma'am
When you started tearing up I totally lost it 😭😭 My heart!!!! So sweet and undeniably genuine. The love for skating is real!! Thanks for sharing it with us through all your help and love!
Girl! I'm over hear crying. You are a motivational speaker. I'm ready to skate!
I'm so thankful for you, Dirty Deb! I just started roller skating at almost 30 years old. Used to rollerblade as a kid and I still occasionally ice skate, but I always loved the look of cruising around and dancing on quads. I put it off because I'm a massage therapist and I'm scared I'm going to put myself out of work by injuring my wrists. Finding your channel gave me the confidence to go for it anyway. There's no sense in depriving myself of something I truly enjoy, that challenges me and makes me a healthier person, for fear of the POSSIBILITY of injury. I feel silly for having let that hold me back for so long. Thank you for putting out this content, and especially for your lovely words on this topic. You are such a gem!
Damn this really spoke to me!! Been in lock down in Australia for a few months now and I'm drawn to the freedom of skating. I remember the feeling when I was little and I want that again. My skates are in the mail and should be here in a few weeks. Thank you dirty for giving me the confidence I made the right choice. Dirty, your videos are such a positivity in my life right now while things are kind of bleek, thank you for everything you do!
OMG this made tear up a little,it's true we must push through our own insecurities
Gosh, I loved this & needed to hear it! I call it, 'skate therapy'. It has been instrumental in helping with my anxiety and mental health during this quarantine & uncertain time in 2020. It has also helped my self confidence in ways I never imagined. Buying my skates in May was the best decision 💜 so happy to have found your videos, Dirty D.
When I told my parents I wanted to buy rollerskates they were laughing at me because "it is meant for kids", but I loved your videos and I really wanted to roller skate. I truely love rollerskating and I'm so glad I eventually bought them anyway. I think this video is going to help a lot of people
Secretly .... your parents ... want to skate too. Isn't it weird how insecurities can be passed on from one person to another? I love that you have "broken that chain".
You’d be surprising at how many people try to discourage you.I ski,ice skate,bike and I started all these after my first and only born as a way to do something that I always wanted to do more of(ski)during my early 40’s.I had skied several ties during my last year of high school,then I never went back.I immediately pick it up and was riding the more challenging trails in no time,still doing it.I just ordered a pair of skates and can’t wait till they arrive,at this point they will arrive just in time for when the outdoor ice skating rink opens!😁but whatever,just go and enjoy what you want to do,and don’t let anyone discourage you!
@@lr5081 I love that you're doing what you've always wanted! Age shouldn't matter as long as you enjoy doing something. Thank you for the advice
@@Dirtydeborahharry yeah it's kinda strange if you think about it. Thank you!
Thank you ! I just said to my guy the other day I am too old to skate and felt self conscious when we were skating and there was youngins around! He said " I just think ...I gotta go skating so...!" Great video, tks!
Skating is for everyone!! Thank you for this video!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just got my first pair of roller skates yesterday and was feeling very insecure about starting to learn. Everything takes me ages to learn. It took me a whole day just to be able to stand up from a chair. Your videos inspire me so much. Every time I get doubts I watch one and get super motivated to get up and keep practicing! Off to learn how to stand up from the ground next. THANK YOU!! 🥰
Thank you! It's funny you mention riding a motorcycle and swimming. Those are my 2 favorite things. I've since stopped riding but I have always wanted to skate. I always put it off due to my weight. I would say once I lose weight I'll try it. I ordered some skates and a few months later I finally gave it a go. I was nervous at first, felt weak but found warming up and skating in front of people actually gave me more confidence. I started with 5 mins max, I'm going onto an hour. It's welcoming people like you that encourage me to keep going. It really is a life changer. I look forward to growing as a skater and watching what my body could do. Thank you 🙏🙏
I think this is my favourite video you’ve ever posted. You seem like such a wonderful woman and I’m glad I’ve found your channel because you have helped me make my life better and continue to do that. I’m actually crying from this but I completely agree with everything you’ve said in this video and I really hope to meet you and skate with you one day 🖤
Yay! Thank you!
Hmm no I'm not gonna start skating until...
My birthday when I'm gonna get some skates! 😁 👯♀️
I needed this today. This popped up when I searched, "Am I too old to skate?" Thank you.
Now this is the wholesome content I came for! Deb, thank you all the way across the globe from Poland. I laughed, I cried and I can here my skates calling me, eventhough I'm still not past the Bambi-legs phase. Thank you so so much ❤️
Hello Poland!!!!! So happy your are starting out! Keep rolling!
Bamby-leg phase nails it! Same here 🙋🏼
i’ve had social anxiety issues for a long time. i was pulled out of school right before quarantine started. i quit every single extracurricular activity i was doing. everything i loved, because i had no motivation to continue and i was so scared of people that i couldn’t build a skill around them, because building a skill involves trial and error and my anxiety tells me that every time someone sees me fail they automatically think i’m pathetic, as if they haven’t failed at things in life either. since quarantine, i’ve felt so much better and having time to rejuvenate myself has been so much less stressful than when i was in school. i feel so much better but i cant start any activities again because they’re all still cancelled. beginning to skate again recently has already built my confidence even a little more. i’m so very grateful that i’ve started doing this again because my version of the title throughout the last few years has basically been “am i too [everything] to do [anything]”. and with skating that hasn’t applied and i cannot ever explain how good that feels after being so tired of being so anxious all the time.
Thank you. I started learning how to skate this week. I deal with PTSD/mental/physical/neurological health disorders on a daily basis and skating makes me feel so free from those issues. I’m only a few days in and your channel has helped me so much, especially this video. I appreciate you, your videos and especially the message in this one 💕
Yesss I needed this. I am a 33 year old couch potato who has found such joy in getting skating again since lockdown, and my friends and family find it hilarious. I’ve never felt this good or so motivated to do anything. Thank you for all your videos!!
33 is young. Your life we be profoundly effected in such a positive way through skating. Also ... when friends and family thinks something is hilarious/crazy/odd ... you KNOW you are on the right path :)
Hey Dirty, I have a lot of anxiety and skating distracts me from that so I can have a good time but I have really bad roller skates so it's difficult for me to ride. My Aunt was in roller derby as long as I can remember and she's what made me wanna skate, But it's hard and sometimes I get frustrated that I can't do something or can't get something(New Roller Skates) And speaking of which, how much do roller skates cost? hope you reply Dirty and Thank you for teaching us!
What is wrong with your skates?
Honestly friend they are pretty pricey but you can find them go on sale here n there at about $95 the cheapest I've seen but then ofcourse nowadays with shipping and handling $100+. I didn't get the ones i wanted but i got them so i can get to it...lots of love 🌿🌻🌳🎰💗
@@aida7212 are u on IG?
most start around the $100 mark. id avoid the $40 skates you find on amazon or at walmart, theyre toys. the wheels are plastic, the truck cushions are plastic, the bearings barely work, etc.
theres no shame in buying used if price is an issue. if anything, the used pair is already broken in. :)
whatever you do get down the road, just make sure to look up reviews of them first.
the problem might not even be your skates, it could just be the wheels or trucks, they could be too tight. what skates do you have?
@@levitakiss My right skate either turns into my other foot and bashes into it, or it won't turn right when I need it to. It's very annoying but thanks for asking!
Lord I'm grateful for your channel! I love walking, it's so peaceful and it clears my mind! I can only imagine what skating will do!!! I've watch a ton of videos now and I finally purchased my skates and I can' t wait to get out there!!!!
💯You made me cry Deb!🌿🌻🌳🎰💗
As a kid growing up I was into both skateboarding and roller skating. Deb, you totally hit the nail on the head when you described the feeling of freedom ! Slowly getting back into roller skating again ( once you catch the bug you can never really get rid of it).The cool thing is there's so many types of skating that are all accepted. Some folks skate half pipes and bowls, others might be into roller dancing, derby, or just cruising along the bike path. It truly is an activity for everyone :)
Well said!
Love love your videos 😘😘. I’m going to share this with friends because so many tell me they can’t skate and they used to do it when they were young and can’t now. I tell them, “oh yes you can!” Lol. I tell em come meet me at the rink 😜.
I'm 59 years old and I just started skating 2 months ago. I watch and learn from your videos. I agree with everything you're saying about insecurities and skating being a calling. I answered the call and I'm loving it. You are a great inspiration. Thank you thank you so much. Keep up the great videos. Lots of love from Canada
That is awesome!
I got my first skates a month ago. My second time out I fell and sprained my ankle/knee. It took two weeks to feel normal again on my leg but I've been too afraid to even put on the skates since then. This video has convinced me to try again.
I'm a 64-year-old grandfather from Birmingham, UK who started roller skating again. Took my grandkids to Roller Disco they loved it as I did in my youth. Also, I go to the evening Roller Disco sessions too and it feels good. It's a great way to get rid of the stress of the workday. I see people of all ages, sizes, and ethnicity having a great time and it's infectious. Your teaching vids sessions are great as I learn stuff I didn't know as a kid. Keep up the good work. Rob
Thank you, Deborah, this conversation is needed. You've really helped me overcome my insecurities and just skate! You're amazing! 🥰
BTW, I'm in my early 40s and a total novice! I had wanted to roller skate since I was 8... now is the time!🤭
EDIT: If I could like this video 100x, I would!! 💯🔥
Awwwww thank you :)
@@Dirtydeborahharry You're welcome❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰
Awe Dirty Deborah, I started crying with you. You've touched on everything I've ever thought of. I truly loved this video. Thank you!
You are so welcome. xoxoo
THANKS for lifting my spirits with talking about something I felt insecure about, too (fear of falling, being overweight, etc)... I can't roller skate as smoothly as you, but... I'm willing to go out and try. And I also just found out that they've actually refurbished the place where we had a halfpipe and made it a small skate park! I'm going to go out there tomorrow and practice my skating. Though I hope I'll be alone, I'm afraid of being made fun of for my bad/insecure skating. It's very funny though, that I'm so insecure on my skates when I used to be quite good with my roller blades (inline skates). However, I actually want to learn how to skate again to help me to lose weight and to have fun :) my goal is to get good enough that can visit one of our skating routes and manage it okay and still have fun :) And I'm certainly introvert! xD
Shared to my personal facebook page. I started roller skating again this April when our ice skating rink shut down. I started skating when I was really little and it never really left, but didn't do it as often. This question is something I hear a lot. And it makes me so sad. Roller skating is for everybody, EVERY BODY, every background that there is. You are so right when you say it helps to calm and create a beauty in yourself. I don't ever feel elegant and beautiful, but when I put on a pair of roller skates all of my insecurities just melt away for that small amount of time. Its so comforting. Your videos are so inspiring and educational and I love them. Thank you for being such a great figure in the skate community!
Thank you for this! You inspire me to keep on skating :-)
Thanks Dirty, what a soulful, heartfelt chat. Loved it and have taken a heap of positivity from it to carry me through and pass on to others and I'm in the UK so it will certainly spread! 🙏
Well, add me to the crying club. I needed this more than I knew. I will take my old, weak, fat @ss out tomorrow and practice. Love you, Dirty!
😍 DEB!! You should be a motivational speaker, seriously! This video was truly like therapy for me. I smiled, laughed and cried watching it. I suffer from chronic and very persistent depression and it stops me from skating as much as I want to. You didn't even mention depression, but your words still really spoke to me and made me realise that I really need to use rollerskating as my way out of depression, and not to use depression as an excuse to lie in bed and only fantisise about rollerskating when I could actually be doing it. There are times when I am truly bedridden, but there are also many times when I have at least enough energy to get up and try, and from now on I will.
Please don't ever change, Deb! ✨ You are such a breath of fresh air, and you have single-handedly improved my quality of life with your videos, especially this one. Much much love to you beautiful lady, from Sydney Australia!! 🇦🇺💖😍🥰
First off ... you know I have deep love for AUSSIES! I have taught in Australia 5 times and long to go back. I thank you for your kind words and compliments. I truly appreciate them. I am also happy to know that skating is essentially a gateway out of depression or at least dealing with the symptoms. I am going to unlock the actual secret of why it works one day but for now I hope you spread this message and get others to try this amazing sport too :)
@@Dirtydeborahharry I certainly will!! Thanks again Deb 🥰
I got roller skates and fractured my elbow on my first outing after falling down a hill. Any tips for getting back out there?
Take a breath, know your ability and start small. I havent skated for over 30 years so bought some recently, was very wobbly the first 2 weeks but reminded myself its OK to reboot. Push yourself past any doubt or fears, educate yourself along the way.
I have learned to avoid hills for the moment but it took a couple of very undignified falls to teach me that. Thankfully I didn’t break anything and I can’t imagine how worried that would make you feel but I do like the old ‘get back on the horse’ saying so I hope you manage to do that soon.
Do you wear protective gear when you skate? Wearing them works wonders for me, I'd be scared stiff if I didn't have all my pads on when I skate. I started out in roller derby so it's kinda natural for me to wear the gear but I see a lot of beginner skaters on UA-cam videos who don't have any pads on. It's much nicer to learn to skate when you have the safety of falling on your pads.
PADS! And....you just have to do it. Just like learning to ride a bike...hit a baseball...etc. If you're stuck to the ground with your shoes - or socks - on, that's not helping. Bite the bullet and get out there! If you're all healed up, of course!!
Hello my sweet lady. You have no idea how much you inspire people. I am 67 years old and started skating last year. I had a list of why I couldn’t skate. Too old, too weak, knees hurt, back hurts, people will laugh at me...etc. Your videos literally paved the way for me to have the courage to give it a try. As a young girl I did some roller skating but that was well over 50 years ago!! As you said, everyone has to make a personal assessment on realistically what their goals are. At first mine was just being able to NOT FALL!! But once my balance was achieved, I wanted to do MORE! That is where your videos came in to play. I watched them over and over learning something new for me to try. I will have to admit, the edges thing is still a little mystery to me but I’m working on it. Skating makes me feel young again! Skating makes me feel happy. You can’t be depressed while skating! The sound of the wheels gliding over the floor, my hair flowing in the self made breeze, spectators smiling and waving, all of that is free and good for the soul. So I want to encourage everyone to STOP putting yourself in a box if “I can’t “. Lace up some skates and see what freedom feels like!
I had a feeling this was going to be good and I was right! Dirty you described what I call connecting to the essence or "source energy" when you speak about the back and forth movement of skating. The movement is very mystical, soothing and healing. It is true that a lot can be left on the skating rink because you connect to the divine when you skate and healing happens and answers come. So great to see someone else get emotional when trying to impart wisdom from a place of "true knowing". I feel ya! Thanks for going there Dirty Deborah Harry! I believe we receive 'divine' messages from all sorts of places and I believe I just received one in this video.
~MYSTIC RS~
MY MYSTICAL CHANNEL
Awwww thank you soooo much.
Hi Dirty, I am 49 years old and suffer from panic attacks, and a bad back and I have recently started skating. I used to live on my skates as a kid and have had ice skating lessons as an adult. My hubby bought me some roller boots for my birthday and I have been following your lesson videos in my lounge. Thank you so much for them all! This video was particularly important to me as I am trying to pluck up the courage to go to a skating rink. I don’t know anyone else that skates, i really wish i could come to your rink, but i’m in the UK. Thank you for showing your emotion about this subject, i was welling up too! 🇬🇧❤️
You’ve inspired me to pick up skating again! My 12 year old just started skating and I took her to a group class at our local rink where I saw MANY people my age and older learning to skate (I’m 47!). I haven’t skated since I was my daughter’s age. I’ve had long Covid for 2 years, I’m just now getting into exercise via rowing, I have to take things easy because I’m not in great condition, I’ve got POTs and heart rate issues thanks to long Covid, and my knees aren’t great, AND I’ve put on 30 lbs since getting Covid. I have a fear of hurting myself that I never had because I *feel* old now with all my new issues. But I know I can take things slowly at my own pace and that with consistent effort I’ll learn!! And I have my daughter cheering me on! Thank you so much for this video, it’s EXACTLY what I needed to hear!! ❤️
This video was so warm and helpful. Thank you!
I've skated everyday for the last two months and I so enjoy the feeling of my mind blocking out everything else to just concentrate (a lot) on skating (not falling down). Sometimes it's 10mins, sometimes an hour, but I look forward to that time everyday. It was your advice that encouraged me to skate daily and I quickly noticed the mental health benefit it gave me also. Thank you!
YES! People don't often realize the mental health benefits! I am glad you did!
I'm 49 and wanted to start skating but couldn't articulate why. You reached in to my brain and put it into words. I'm DRAWN to it. Thank you. I just bought skates today.
I ordered some skates about a month ago after failing at my first attempt in 2016. I got discouraged, and my insecurity was, “I’m too inexperienced to skate.” I felt stiff and so horrible at balancing that I beat myself up too much and turned my back on it.
Years later, my interest was reignited through the joy of others. I saw how happy they were when they were skating, and how all of their practice paid off and they glided across streets and parks and rinks with ease. I wanted to experience what they were experiencing, and so I decided to try it again.
My skates haven’t arrived yet, but I’ve been watching all of your videos to get ready mentally. I’m even starting to have dreams about skating!
Your content and messages are so educational and encouraging! I’m so thankful you’ve decided to share your life of skating with everyone, it’s given me a something to look forward to. Thank you!!
Awwww skater! I wish the best for you. See this as a lifelong pursuit and vow to never give up. It is definitely calling you!
I’m getting my skating clothes on now! Ive been in a funk for a few days but you just motivated me to get out NOW! xo
Thank you for being honest about having insecurities. I have my fair share of them, but I keep showing up with my wheels. We just need to acknowledge them, handle them, and grow from them, not let us stop us from having the time of our lives!
YES! If we face them and don't beat ourselves up, we can grow, change and develop! Thank you so much for commenting :)
Dirty, I lost 2 pant sizes in 3 months by skating twice a week for 2 hours. I wasn’t looking to lose weight and I didn’t, I gained more muscle! I also gained some new friends! It’s my shamanic tribal release and I can’t wait to get back on the hardwood!
All I can say is...I LOVE YOU, DIRTY DEB!! Your words are healing and pumped some life into me🗣️🗣️🗣️. Heart chakra vitals are flowing in this talk. I needed this TODAY!
I needed this. I use to skate at this rink when i was little and I LOVED it. I also ride motorcycles so the mention of the motion and how it feels is something I do relate to and love. Since the sh** hit the fan I lost my job and I have been wanting something more for myself in terms of a place to put energy. I have gained a considerable amount of weight and that is something I struggle with but I love the message. It shouldn't be what holds me back from this. And it was actually Instagram that knew what was good for me and then youtube lead me to your videos. (Which are very nostalgic because of the rink) Anyway, thank you for the message. I hope to get back to this rink in the future.
Totally made me cry! I can’t express how much I appreciate your sincerity and authenticity and passion. Expressing yourself and teaching others to skate is clearly your ministry- and you’re spreading SO much LOVE! Thank you! I am 44, lost my job due to COVID- have no idea what the future holds and started skating again to get outta my head and feel in my body how to be “gracefully uncertain” and build more Faith with every glide. My husband and son think I’m silly for being so enthusiastic about skating, but you validated why it feels like such a calling and passion for me right now. Thank you so much for your generosity of spirit through skating! God bless you and all those you touch!
Suzanne ... thank you so much for this beautiful comment. I am so glad you found skating again and soon your family will see the benefits and want to join you :) Roll on!
One of my favorite videos from you! This spoke to my heart because the reason I started skating again, is because it makes me feel alive, free, happy and strong! You hit the reason right on the head! It's like a feeling of inner excitement and peace at the same time! Thank you for this video Debra! Keep on rollin! :-)
Just turned 40, mum of two, started skating over a year ago, partly by your vid's. Now skating both roller and inline and got so addicted I've lost count of my pairs of skates (and for different types of skating) Stared at by the other mums (what is she doing?), laughed at by some.....but...some smile and say 'what fun' some of thm see me bomb a hill and say 'wow how cool!'. The kids the same age as mine say to their parents 'wow how does she do that? I want to!' and it's those times when I think I may have inspired someone else that I feel so happy. Face your fears, live your dreams :)
This is such a great message! I was a great jam skater as a teen. Stopped for a couple decades. Got back into skating ten years ago. Two years ago I had a BJJ injury: Achilles Tendentious shredded at the heel. Took nine months to fully recover. Meanwhile, put on 50 new pounds. Got back on a skates a few times with the youngest kids. Hit a rock on the rink floor - owner allows people out there in shoes. That sudden fall gave me a second degree tear in my hamstring. More long recovery. I was on skates once before covid shut the world down. So I just bought some outdoor wheels and hit a park trail today. Rougher ride. Shins barked. Going to take some work to get back to myself. For anyone reading this, I'm a 6'2" dude weighing 270 today. I was 220 when that first injury hit. I will get back to it, and no matter what you think is stopping you, you can do this too. I wish you all well! I forgot to mention I'm 43. A living breathing middle aged man on roller skates.
I am that 12 year old kid you mentioned that skated when younger and then gave it up. I didn’t start again until I was in my 20’s to cruise the strand in the South Bay Area. I left Cali and once again stopped skating but kept my Riedell skates that I just couldn’t part with. Probably because they were $250! In walks a global pandemic...I am now 44 and was super fearful of falling and getting injured. But something was calling me back to skating. Cute Tik Tok videos and being bored and restless during a global pandemic inspired me to punch past my fears and get back out there. I need something to be good at, and something to call my own. Your videos have helped me immensely. I skate for at least 10 minutes a day even if it’s just in my kitchen to build my confidence and basic skills. In just 3 weeks I have improved 110%, my husband, who’s good at everything, even thinks so. I feel a boost in my confidence and it helps to manage the depression I’ve been experiencing due to this Covid nonsense. I have a long way to go, but I’m not going to stop. I’ve been using what I learn from you to help my 9 year old daughter skate, and we just love you in our house. So thank you for putting yourself out there, and know that you have positively impacted at least 2 people up here in Washington state. My new motto is “Skate don’t hate,” and you’re right. Skating is a way to escape all the negativity, there’s something just so soothing about rolling around listening to good tunes. Many thanks!!
Oh I am sooooo happy to read this! This is exactly why I do what I do!! You and your family will bond over this shared activity and your kid will thank you for introducing her to it!
Man, I really needed this video. I just bought my first pair 2 weeks ago at the tender age of 31 and have been going through a rough breakup. I really feel skating came to save my sanity. Thank you for this video! ❤️
Yep. Skating gets the whole body, mind and soul moving. After a break up ... we need to infuse ourselves with good vibes. Not that we can't grieve the loss of what could have been but just changing lanes a bit is so helpful. Much love to you and happiness in your future.
I don’t skate that often but my mom did when she was a kid and I’m really wanting to get her back out there cuz I know SHE LOVES IT SO MUCH . When you started tearing up I really felt that ✨💜💜
I absolutely love this video! I completely agree. My entire life I’ve really hated being bad at things and would just quit because I wanted to immediately end good. With skating I’m really enjoying seeing my progress and working on something to better myself and I will not be able to take that into other things in my life that I would never have the patience to work at. 🖤 it makes me so happy and when you’re happy life is better
I’ve been learning by watching you for a month. You explain it well. Still waiting for my skates to be delivered. Last, night I had my first lesson at age 50 on rentals! Last skate was ages 8 & 29 and determined to do a downtown smoothly. Bummed I missed the reservation ( went fast!) to your class here in San Diego but perhaps next one! Love all your vids and hope skate in Fountain Valley some day soon. You are so real- thanks!💕
I am almost 50 years old. I haven't skated in decades and picked up a pair of Boardwalks. You are so inspiring and lovely. I can honestly say that I have more confidence just from watching your videos. Thank you!!
You’re so good at what you do and you know how to address ‘sensitive’ topics in such a humane and with such a thoughtful manner. Thank you! I am so happy I found you. 😊❤
Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate this comment.
thank you for sharing! i know you read the comments, and I just wanna say I feel the emotion too! This our life and we have to do what makes us happy, it may seem so silly that something like roller skating can be so empowering but it is the essence of life and fun... people need to feel the liberation. Also just adding, I really love how specific you are on your instructional videos! Knowing exactly how my body should be positioned makes me feel confident and knowledgeable about my own body and movements.
This is such an uplifting and honest video. Thanks Deb ❤️ this is wonderful!
I came across your videos for the first time today and you’re amazing!! I just started skating with my four year old son. It has been such a profound bonding experience! There’s a lot more smilin’ and a lot less stressin’ going on at home. Skating is such a gift. Thank you for spreading the love. ♥️
That is awesome! Skating brings families together and the shared experience helps you create amazing memories.
Turned 55 in July and just ordered my skates. They'll be here next week!! I can't wait to get started! Come on "50 and over" club, we can DO this!! 🤗
omg yes good luck!
It was MEANT for me to find your channel thru a skater on Instagram. This video is so real. I just started getting back into my childhood love of skating & it feels so free and liberating. My mom passed away 6 months ago and I’m also preparing for a divorce from my emotionally abusive partner. Skating began calling me after feeling so depressed and at my lowest point. I’m 36 and a mom of 2 girls and my daughters fully support me and root me on and surprisingly I’m actually a lot better than I expected lol. Love ur lessons! Thank u for this vid and channel!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽