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as a hyper feminine nonbinary person, i relate so hard to the statement 'im a pink princess but i dont think im girlie." lmaooo
For me, growing up there was a tendency to view typically feminine things as trivial, shallow, etc. And so, many girls would have a sense of pride in not liking those things and being "one of the guys". This seems to be the result of sexism, and I think we're moving beyond that now and letting people like what they like, regardless of gender. Recently, I've definitely been embracing my more feminine side (I'm a girl btw). I wouldn't consider myself "girly" either, but I enjoy some things that are generally associated with women, and I'm not ashamed of that!
danesook I completely agree. As a girl,I loved wearing skirts and dresses but was never interested in wearing other things typically seen as girly,like makeup or nail polish,so I just stopped wearing skirts and dresses on the basis that they were too ‘girly’ for me.
Came into the comments to make a similar comment...I agree that a dislike or a distaste for stereotypically ‘girly’ things stems from sexism, both from men and women and hoping that we’re moving past that
Exactly! The whole "not like other girls" garbage...which implies there's something wrong with most girls/women!
This actually makes a lot of sense, I also dress in a ‘girly’ way but am not really interested in ‘girly’ topics, but I think the world is slowly (but surely 😊) getting better at realising that colours, jobs, activities etc actually have nothing to do with a person’s gender! ❤️💙💜
Ps, hi from a fellow low fodmapper! 👋🏽😂
You dress like that and carry yourself in that way, you are a girly girl. You really shouldn't try to justify how you aren't. There is nothing wrong with being girly. There is no such thing as "girly topics". It really is mostly about how you dress and your makeup, all of which blazingly point you as being a girly girl.
@@HistorysHodgepodge I can’t remember this video & what topics Jessica said were girly- but I do know that all I said was that I wasn’t into those ‘girly’ topics, to use Jessica’s wording. I definitely am a girly girl & wasn’t trying to say otherwise. Just that I’m not into whatever topics Jessica called girly
"There is no such thing as a gendered interest." ~ Jessica Kellgren-Fozard
JESSICA HAS WON THE INTERNET!
I totally agree with you on the clothing stuff. What really annoys me about gendered clothing is that my own mother constantly tries to talk me into wearing certain clothes because she wants me to dress more "feminine". But for me femininity is not about a certain type of clothes, it's about what you feel like and I do feel feminine, I just really love trousers, shirts and my short hair. I don't feel obliged to wear certain things just because people perceive them as being less feminine.
I also want to add that I only recently found your channel and have quickly become addictet to it because I find you to be really authentic, entertaining and educating (Claudia too by the way). In this short amount of time (like a week or so) you have already helped me broaden my horizon concerning disabilities and life in general. Since I am gay, your lgbt+ videos have been an added bonus. So thank you very much for sharing your experiences and opinions with us, you do a very good and very important job!
(Btw I'm sorry for any mistakes I made since I am not a native english speaker)
Hello Jessica ... I’m relatively new to your channel but have become a real fan. I have auto-immune issues as well (but not comparable to yours) and, even though I’m in Canada and am old enough to be your mother, I’ve learned a lot from you about attitudes towards disability and about coping with grace and humour. You’re beautiful and funny and it’s amazing of you to be sharing your life this way.
There you go, that’s the end of my gush ...
What I love: You. Sounds cheesy but I watch all of your videos, even topics I have no interest in or that don't apply to me at all. I just love your personality, you make everything worth watching. Lots of Love!
Connective Tissue Issue should be a t-shirt!
The top of this dress looks stunning, i can't wait for full pictures...
You are my favorite Disney princess 😉😍
And Jessica is real !!! lol
What impresses me is that you manage to find pinks that really go well with your skin and hair! My Mom (a self-proclaimed ginger) could _never_ find a pink that worked with her hair and skin!! I'm also a MEGA huge fan of Veggie Stix, - an American brand of the ones your friend referred to as "eating air". I love eating fluffy food like that so I get the flavor and texture, without feeling sick like I do with a lot of processed snacks.
I'm super into makeup, hair, fashion etc but personality wise I am really tom-boyish! I actually dress more on the minimal, gothy side. I detest that certain hobbies are attached to genders, it's silly. I might love wearing outrageous makeup, but I also enjoy swordfighting. Neither cancels out the other!
I also like "girly" things, but I've been told that I don't behave "girly" because I am rather blunt. I have such a diverse amount of interests, so I completely understand people assuming that people don't expect you to like certain things based on your appearance.
My aunt and I are the same way. We both love girly things so people are surprised when they see how blunt and foul mouthed we can be. My family jokes that I’m actually her real daughter for that reason 😂 .
I'm happy to see your hair curled again. Hopefully that means you are feeling slightly better than in your last video. I'm shocked more people haven't watched the Lake district video, it is beautiful and very well done. Love to you, Claudia, Clara and the puppies
I used to only wear the 24 hour Super Stay lipstick and was also having trouble with how shiny it is. So I tried the Super Stay Matte Ink and finds it works really well, but the trick is to wait a few seconds and slick Vaseline on your lips. It makes it shiny for a minute, but quickly settles into the Matte and is nearly impossible to get off. There aren't as many colours as the 24 hour shiny version and I've found some colours work better than others, but it's an amazing alternative to the original!
There's a difference between being "hyperfeminine" and being "girly", and I wouldn't really consider myself "girly" either, not really. But it really, truly varies, and being gay does have a lot to do with the way I perceive performative femininity. I hate pants and love red lipstick and that weird shade of beigey-pink that appears to be EVERYWHERE now. I aspire to look like Audrey Hepburn every. goddamn. day. Talk yoga and Janelle Monáe's new album with me over hot pink Strawberry Açaí Refreshers. Ask me about my lipstick shade and the historical implications of the Cult of Domesticity. But if you bring up the latest celebrity makeup line or hair removal trend, I'm done with the conversation. Having a deep attraction to and affection for femininity in all its forms has made it easier to pick and choose what aspects of it I want to perform and not see it as shameful. And being "girly" is a word with so much shame attached to it, something boys hurl at you when they want to make you feel small. I almost feel like I should reclaim it, but right now I have the best of both worlds, and it's really freeing. I don't have the words to explain why, it just is, and I'm just me.
* Says she can't eat lentils and that it was a bad idea *
2min later
"I'm going to buy the lentils ones"
🤣🤣
“Immune system, where for art thou?”
Ha! Laughed out loud at that one! My immune system disorder led me to have a cold for six weeks this winter! I wish I would have thought to say something as witty as that when I was sick!
Meant to also say that I enjoy all of your videos! I like the variety of topics and the variety of ways you make the videos, with your bubbly joy shining through always! Your lake district video was absolutely beautiful! My all-time favorite video is the one where you go through the wormhole and end up dancing with Claudia! Y’all are so cute together! #relationshipgoals
I love how you use "in conclusion" even though you're not writing an essay
I am very feminine. I wear flower patterns and dresses all the time but I am very rough, I love football. I roll with the guys in my dress. And with my girlfriend who is very butch I always be dominating hahaha it doesn't matter we all who we are. I love Jessica and totally agree with you💕💕💕💕💕👗👗👡
Yessssss the things we like are the things we like and shouldn’t be connected to gender! I’ve always been categorized as a “tomboy” but I like dresses and makeup as much as being outdoors and fixing things! 😉 (Mulan reference.)
There’s also a sour cream and chive version of both the hummus chips and quinoa chips, they’re delicious
Yeeeeeessssss!! You have articulated exactly what I've thought about being "girlie" since high school! Thank you!
I totally agree. You're not girly because there is nothing "girlie". You like, dress, behave, however you are and want to, and that should not depend on your gender at all, and no one should make you feel like you have to because of your gender.
Thanks for making such a video! :D
I agree! I love traditionally “feminine” clothing, makeup, etc. But I also have a degree in modern European history and love making things with my hands. I once played a game “Battle of the Sexes” (problematic, I know), and all of the questions “I wasn’t supposed to know as a woman” were about military history. So I mopped the floor with everyone. 😉 I don’t like limiting people.
'Chips' hurt my soul too. And my chest. The middle of it.
The best Eat Real crisps (IMO) are the quinoa chilli and lime flavour! 😋❤️
My favorite thing this month is finding Jessica's channel❣️
Hay Jessica. Great video. Yes I know what you mean about preferring not to chatter about girly topics, I much rather chat about, wildlife, countryside, Spitfires & Lancaster planes, D.I.Y & car engines. Funny old world we live in. Thank u for sharing. X
People like Jessica r really making a difference, in my class in school we watched a BBC doc on m.e. which isn't s very common illness and it just makes me so happy that it's being more and more recognised. Jessica I love u keep doing what u do u r amazing!
First part is so so so so interesting (separation of gender presentation/expression and gendered interests) and I cannot wait to discuss more!! ❤
Thank you lovely! I can't wait either!!
Girl you're looking stunning in that dress - truly a little princess ❤ I laughed and smiled so many times while watching this, thank you. And my favorite video from this month was absolutely the Lake District video.
Here's the thing
Who you are is not defined by what you wear and how you look
You look amazing and I think labels about people are horrible attempts to categorise their individuality
Interesting selection of snacks
Very cool post
My favorite thing right this second is the fact that you have tiny stubby fingernails just like me! I've never seen anyone with such tiny nailbeds as I have and I always felt kind of self-concious about it and reluctant to polish my nails because that would draw attention to them. But you have them too and you are so awesome and I'm absurdly exited about it. If it wasn't so late, I'd polish them right now. But I just don't have the spoons right now.
I think this is one of my favorite hairstyles that I have seen you wear! I can't wait to see your Vidcon video!
Maybeline superstay now has a wonderful style of lipstick called matte ink or if you use just a little bit of powder over the shiny ones before it fully dries it will dull the shine a bit
I resonate with the title of this video SO SO MUCH! 👗👛
I watched the Lake District video as soon as you posted it - I love your travel videos, they're always so beautifully produced!
I am a girl and I only shave my legs, do makeup, or wear dresses unless it's for a special occasion. I'm not interested in talking about "girly" things. I love my long wavy hair, but I usually wear it up because it's more convenient. I tend to wear leggings, t-shirts, and sweatshirts in dark colors (navy, black, red). I am not interested in sports at all and I LOVE theater.
Despite all of these things, I am a fierce queen.
When I was 8 I loved dresses, jewellery and Barbies/Sylvanian Families as well as mythology ( Greek, Roman, Norse, Egyptian...) and dinosaurs!
I LOVE THOSE CRISPS THEY'RE SO CHEAP AND TASTY
In the past few weeks, I absolutely fell in love with dresses. It is the ideal type of clothing for this hot weather, which I also really like because if it is warm, I don't have to put on all the socks and coats and this makes the getting-ready-process a lot quicker. That's good. And I also don't have to change my shoes when I come to school, so it is easier for me to come to class on time. (I'm actually not into the hot weather itself, it is quite tiring, but, I must admit, it has its advantages. )
I love 50's dressing and 80's rock dressing.
I LOVED your Lake District scrapbook video. My wife and I visited the Lake District, including Lake Windermere, in 1993 and it was as beautiful then as it is in your photos. Please continue to make the scrapbook videos. They are fantastic. 💕
you're hair looks amazing
Your hair is curled! Hope your feeling better! How is your British historical fiction going? What are you reading? Your shoes are also fantastic!
Shannon Brockhurst Have you read Bernard Cornwell?
I'm currently reading the Last Kingdom and LOVING it!
Oooooh the top of that dress is SO pretty! And I love the pink
Ya know what would be really interesting is a "my favorite songs" video because I'm interested to see if you actually like vintage music or other types, idk I just think it'll be cool. Love your videos, you're always gorgeous so whatever you decide to film will be good! Thanks!
I know this is very random and you made this a while ago, but I just wanted to say how much I appreciated you swatching the colours in a heart. Sometimes I find red stripes on arms a little difficult to watch / a bit sort of triggering (for want of a better word), in terms of self-harm. Having had some tricky times over the years, and known others who have too, I just LOVE your love heart swatch approach ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💕💖💝♥️💄💋
Your cheerful attitude is infectious!! Your videos always make me smile :D
Agree with your comments about gender! I feel like I am the opposite! I love men's fashion and dress in a very "butch" way! However, I'm a total girly girl! People are so much more complicated and interesting than just fitting into easy boxes :)
That dress is beautiful and I must get one just like it.
I think I can recognise this, but perhaps from the other way around. Me and my two sisters are... Not your classic girly girls. No... My mother would always say that there is a little bit of gasoline and gunpowder in our blood, which I can agree with. I myself have had a huge interest in literature, history, video games, medieval reenactment (omfg medieval reenactment is the best), and in general, I have never really had a lot of female friends.
Which meant that, for a very long time, I felt like I couldn't be feminine, because I didn't care a lot for feminine things, like they were a source of shame.
It is only very, very recently, that I have been able to admit to myself that I do like the idea of wearing some vintage styles, I think they look wonderful. I would love to get a dress that doesn't have to hide my figure, where I can feel comfortable and feminine.
Even if I would put a black petticoat underneath all of my dresses.
Also, I think that my favourite was actually the "How to read lips", though "Having a Carer in your 20s" was a close second!
I kinda relate to the idea of I may be fem but I'm not girly. I think people assume that I like to listen to Taylor Swift and talk about fashion/hair/makeup. When in reality I'm really into science and history, sci-fi and action movies, and I listen to punk rock, power metal, and rock.
I'm the opposite!! I rarely wear dresses and I have very short hair so if i'm not wearing makeup I look quite tomboyish. But I actually love talking about makeup and 'girly' things because I love femme lesbians and anything feminine! so i'm always up to talk about stuff with my very girly gf!
My favourite video of yours this month was actually the Lake District Scrap Book. It was such a lovely video but I got so much wanderlust!
When I was little (5-6) a friend asked what my favorite color was, I immediately thought of pink but realized that it didn't align with how I wanted people to see me (I was QUITE the tomboy sometimes) so I said red was my favorite color. I love dark pinks and blue, but everybody already thinks red is my favorite color because I pretended it was for so long.
Omg those shoes 😍. I also like girly girl clothes, but as silly as it sounds, I'm oftentimes the one at work to change the insanely heavy 5 gallon water jug, or get any bugs or spiders that may appear.
My favourite videos of yours this month are actually your carer video (and subsequent q&a with clara) as it was very insightful and helpful as a lot of the information is... so incredibly hard to find. I also really loved the lake district one! I love the drone shots and scenery and scrapbooking style!! My favourite thing from this month is that my mum told me we are going on holiday to Northumberland to stay in a cottage near the seaside for 7 days and I'm super excited, I'm going to work on my photography and letter writing so I can write cute letters for my girlfriend. Also happy pride month!!!!
My school's cafeteria serves the lental crisps sometimes and I recommend them as they're not too heavy and are perfect as a light snack or to go with a meal.
Same sometimes.
But all girl things.
I just bought new nail polish and a new top coat since i am growing my nails. Finally is working with nail polish (i tried in the past. Didnt work. Now it is.)
My nails accidentally turned into proper princess nails (just a bit short) cause the pink was a bit too light. And glittery. Yeah really princessy.)
OK. I talked about nail polish yesterday. With a male friend. It was more about nail biting and that he should try it. (I sugessted a matt top coat so youll stilk get the not nice mouth feel of nail polish. But will keep your nails matt, like they naturally are.) And the day before while showing off an irredescent top coat. Someone made a comment.
And i am obsessed with having soft hair to the point i will not even dye it.
I only have 6 dresses in total. 3 of which i actually wear in summer.
Lot of white printed shirts, skinny jeans. Some pink shirts.
No full face of make up though. I am incredibly lazy.
I am obsessed with glitter though. On everything. And shiny stuff. Just not as much on me. But i literally have a full box of glitters.
GENDER IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT.
TO ALL MY ENBY FRIENDS... YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOO VALID.
I wish I had the energy to dress the way you do Jessica. I love your hair also :D
Also I ordered some of these crisps just now and I can't wait to get them to tell you what I think
And of course I watched your Lake District video. It was cool. xxx
Also I love girly things but I'm also obsessed with the Grand Theft Auto series on my playstation. I take great pride in killing all the baddies and/or running over them in my car. ALSO I LOVE THE SIMS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the Plantagenets too (although not the military aspect of it, more how they lived.
I loved this whole video. As always you are so charming and entertaining. You always make me smile and laugh
The Lake District video was awesome! I find outdoor spaces super relaxing so that was very lovely and calming to watch 😊 I don’t dress in princess dresses but I do like discussing lipstick 😜
your hair is goals
That was the most girlie video I've ever watched but as I adore girly girls, I found it just lovely. ☺️
I wore the same dress that you’re wearing in this video but mine was white-gold and black! It was so weird seeing the same dress again!
Claudia said "This tastes a lot like I just ate a bowl of penne pasta". Jessica however said "some people thought it tasted like pizza" so I think there was a slight misunderstanding 😆 Either way the discussion about girliness in relation to gender roles is a good one to have, and I appreciate the points you took up, Jessica!
Hahaha I find it so funny that you’re saying the darkest shade is for when you feel like wearing black hahaha, I only wear black lipstick... one of my 10 different pitch black lipsticks 😩 I have a problem
Veggie straws are delicious!
By the way, Happy Pride Month!
Eat Real quinoa crisps with sour cream and chives are the actual best, they've been my study snack for years now!
I'm sorry you can't actually hear your voice very well but I like it a lot and I just put it on and listen to it while doing ordinary stuff around the house. Your voice and pronunciation (i know you worked hard on that part and I admire you for it) are marvelous so even though you can't hear it, it's still a gift to others
I’m not feminine (life decided i was gonna be lazy and broke instead), but I’m super girly. Apparently it’s surprising to people who don’t know me well.. I looove your new dress, its gorgeous. Super fun video as always
“Immune system, where for art thou?” ME TOO. I also have connective tissue, CFS, POTS, and Mast Cell so I get it :P
The dress looks amazing on you ❤️😊
OMG !!! I JUST STARTED CHECKING UR CHANNEL !! I LOVE U SOOOOO MUCHHHH
Hotaru Kuroko welcome! You’re going to love going through her videos. Sometimes I have them on as background sound, because her voice is soothing.
Dr Kellgren-Fozard, you look like a goddess in that dress
I am so addicted to those veggie straws! 😻
I loved the lake district video! now I really want to visit this magical place (too bad I don't live in the UK... or Europe...)
and I love wearing dresses and heels, but I also work as a photographer and love comic books. girly doesn't mean anything today!
You’ve put into words how I feel: I love dresses but I don’t care about hair or nail stuff, lol. I don’t see myself as necessarily “girly”. I don’t want to discuss that stuff either, ha. I just want to dye my hair and wear dresses and talk Star Wars!
Hello, Jessica! You look lovely in that dress, but you look very good in dark colors as well. You have a very nice dress that is dark with bright flowers that I love. Thanks for the new lipstick tip. As for the crisps, I wonder if we can get them in America? Plantangenet is such a lovely word. I also prefer history to nail polish. :). You can learn more history in three books or five tv shows than in all of school.
I would like to recommend the Kat von D Liquid Lipsticks to you. They are staying on SO GOOD and are super matte! Best formula of liquid lipsticks in my opinion (and I basically tried them all xD)
I feel like I’m split down the middle, I like pastels and girly things and will take your ear off about hair and clothes and nails heck yeah. But I’m also a massive masculine nerd eating Cheetos and playing Warcraft, (though I hate sports) I talk loads about male centralised topics as well.
Harvest Snaps are good, too.
I love skirts, dresses, lace and flowers buuuuuut it's all black so I'm a dark souled feminine girl! I don't like doing much with my hair cuz I'm lazy, don't like doing my makeup cuz Im again lazy but I love doing nails and can discuss nail polish and nail art for days. I love making jewelry too. So I'm a conflicted, dark, sometimes girly girl.
My May favorites include: my adorable, very fluffy, and very fat cat named Chloe, my shiny new B.A. in gender studies and religion, and lastly pomegranate seeds! Also Jessica I loved your 'My Wife Does My Makeup' video and your 'Have You Been Misled' video! Obviously each of your videos is truly wonderful, but those were my favorite this month!
You look so beautiful
Could you do a favorites video for fun things to do when you're stuck inside? Most videos are for people who are able to be active and it's hard to relate to "run in the sprinklers!" When that's not inside nor easy to do with a low start on spoons. I love your videos 💕💕
I love the visualization of your friends eating the crisps 😂Also, LOVE your discussion of girly vs liking "girly" things and how you included discussing gender.
Well, I am now adding a BUNCH of lipsticks to my collection today.
💗 the Dress!!!
Happy Pride Jessica! Hope you have an amazing June xxx
My favorite thing this month is epsom salt baths! I’ve been using Dr Teals pink Himalayan and essentials oils bath salts. Lovely scent and relaxing for my tense muscles.
My favorite video was your video explaining PACE, as I didn’t know much about it. I also love that you’ll make videos from the floor when you need to, because you’re comfortable enough with us.
If you want liquid lipstick that'll actually stay in place for a proper snog, even if you're both wearing different colors, Beauty Bakerie is pretty great, and then Lipsense is even better, but it's pricey and a whole process, plus impossible to get off, so I go for the Beauty Bakerie.
OMG, Sinutab! Apparently they have stopped selling Sinutab in the States. My pharmacist actually told me there was nothing that could be done about it - but it helps so much with my brain fog and head pressure. I have a few samples from my doctors office that I have stashed away like gold. Another day in the life of a spoonie.
I really liked your video of the Lake District! :3
Favorite thing this past month, my middle daughter's wedding. Favorite video, your Lake district video.
I use Rimmel Stay Matte when i want a non moving,matte lipstick its amazing and doesnt amudge or vome off at all! you should 100% try it (my usual lipstick is mac russian red only for a non kiss not eating a whole meal kinda evening / day ha ha)
I'm kind of the opposite on the crisps! I love the Hummus ones (my fave flavour is sour cream and chive - I've not been able to have anything that flavour for years because it's usually dairy). But I don't like the lentil ones and no-one else in my family will eat them either, haha, so I've got stuck with a bunch of them! They also do Quinoa ones, I'm a bit mixed on those.
You are so posh and gorgeous and your sign language is incredibly elegant💗🌸 I’m actually obsessed with you😭