CHINESE VILLAGE KID DIDN'T BELIEVE SHE SAW A BLACKMAN SO WE DID THIS!!

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  • @FelThommy
    @FelThommy  Рік тому +758

    I met these Chinese village kids and all these happened…
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    • @MarceloSantossPlaylist
      @MarceloSantossPlaylist Рік тому +6

      Parabéns pelo trabalho que você está fazendo amigo...

    • @張玉龍-x7g
      @張玉龍-x7g Рік тому +8

      Welcome to Zhanjiang, Guangdong next time. There are unexpected beauty and ancient god culture here😊

    • @Nicoledmcellroy-em3ln
      @Nicoledmcellroy-em3ln Рік тому +10

      We can all agree black men treat non black children better then black children

    • @miracle7lee
      @miracle7lee Рік тому +5

      This video only shows Fel is a decent person. The little child is bossy and rude. Everywhere has this kind of kids.

    • @swind2553
      @swind2553 Рік тому +19

      As a Chinese person, this video made me cry. The mere curiosity and show of humanity the child had for the foreigner, especially one who was so culturally different really touched my heart.

  • @MildlyRabid
    @MildlyRabid Рік тому +7045

    Love how Dad doesn’t miss an opportunity to use you as an example to encourage his kids to study more 😂

    • @yoantaway
      @yoantaway Рік тому +397

      😅😢😂😂😂 thats how my asian parent do to motivatevme learn english more

    • @Feyisay0-
      @Feyisay0- Рік тому +69

      I love that too😘😘

    • @ChinaTheLlama
      @ChinaTheLlama Рік тому +302

      Typical Asian parents, ‘go practice English with that foreign uncle/auntie/bro/sis (😅😅 STRANGERS)!’ Even if they are not from English speaking countries.😂😂😂

    • @mariemghanmi8647
      @mariemghanmi8647 Рік тому +90

      @@ChinaTheLlama Ghana's official language is English

    • @mariemghanmi8647
      @mariemghanmi8647 Рік тому +56

      That's why Chinese students are very smart and well educated

  • @niyenni
    @niyenni Рік тому +9138

    I can't believe some people are really calling a 4 year village kid racist for not knowing what a black person is. This is simply ignorance, not racism; huge difference.

    • @Riverbreak
      @Riverbreak Рік тому +456

      Right, the important thing is intent. They can definitely parrot racist things that they hear, but at this age they would not understand what any of it means, they simply observe and copy. This was a great learning opportunity for both of them and hopefully they remember it forever.

    • @muhammadmd2148
      @muhammadmd2148 Рік тому +491

      Exactly. Especially she is living in a country with more than a billion pale-skinned people and have never traveled outside China. And oh, she's 4 years old.

    • @user-sheville
      @user-sheville Рік тому +206

      Right?? 4 years of age and never seen a movie in her life. Let kids be kids

    • @namichuuwaan664
      @namichuuwaan664 Рік тому +155

      Back in my country when I was a kid we would see few foreigners once in a while and we were so curious that we would follow them around. Fun experience.

    • @judohunter1
      @judohunter1 Рік тому +142

      Exactly. That’s how all kids are when they see people that don’t look like them. They are innocent and curious so it’s a great time to educate them on different people so they don’t turn out like the moronic adults we have running things.

  • @pizzatime9565
    @pizzatime9565 Рік тому +4074

    While Fel did a great job educating the little girl, I feel we can also all learn from her. She noticed Fel had darker skin and said it out loud because that's what she saw. But that doesn't change how she treats him - friendly and welcomingly. The solution to racism is not to pretend we don't see colors and/or be afraid or ashamed of saying what we see, but to honor and embrace our differences and treat everyone equally with respect.

    • @andreacooks59
      @andreacooks59 Рік тому +256

      The little one was taught that black is dirty, he genteelly readjusted her thinking through example. He mentioned how there are bad in white and black, this is fact.. Educating children as early as possible will help them be socially as well as emotionally intelligent human beings.

    • @Karencita_407
      @Karencita_407 Рік тому +10

      100%

    • @NickCageDrippp
      @NickCageDrippp Рік тому +16

      @@andreacooks59 when did she say that??

    • @Real_LiamOBryan
      @Real_LiamOBryan Рік тому +2

      @@NickCageDrippp She didn't say that she was taught that, but she said that she didn't want to hug black people because black people are dirty. He said he's clean and people of all colors have some good and some bad. Then, Big Sis. said that he was born like that, not dirty. This was around 4:58 timestamp.

    • @kollin616
      @kollin616 Рік тому +22

      ​@@NickCageDrippp5:12

  • @rukk444
    @rukk444 Рік тому +2174

    as a chinese person i wanted to tell you that the little girl wanting to eat with you likes you a lot haha. Eating with someone and sharing food is showing affection in china☺️

    • @shamaYahu8635
      @shamaYahu8635 Рік тому +25

      Wow.

    • @tictheintrovertedcancer7917
      @tictheintrovertedcancer7917 Рік тому +44

      That’s so sweet! ☺️❤️

    • @Alexp36500
      @Alexp36500 10 місяців тому +96

      Shes the star of the show. It's her world were just living in it 😂😂. I think the older one liked him just as much but was shy. She was definitely curious and wanted to ask questions but held back.

    • @01INK
      @01INK 10 місяців тому +20

      This was sooo good for the soul...the young one is divine...as well as sister...the father calling the visitor uncle as everything

    • @laneed3763
      @laneed3763 9 місяців тому +12

      True...my landlord would always feed me everytime I came to her house to pay my rent and hug me

  • @bobbythespaceghost51
    @bobbythespaceghost51 Рік тому +940

    I'm a black dude. That's not racism, which involves a power dynamic. That's "I have never seen a human that dark before" energy. Children are innocent, inquisitive sponges for new information and experiences.

    • @kittyadventuresvlogs
      @kittyadventuresvlogs Рік тому +64

      I also think Racism involves a sense of racial superiority and treating the other as racially inferior, which her and her dad do not

    • @bobbythespaceghost51
      @bobbythespaceghost51 Рік тому +11

      Absolutely! 100% correct@@kittyadventuresvlogs

    • @monas
      @monas 9 місяців тому +15

      Racism is not just about power dynamic. Any race can be racist.

    • @monas
      @monas 9 місяців тому

      ​@@kittyadventuresvlogsExactly 💯

    • @cynthiabakerwoodard
      @cynthiabakerwoodard 9 місяців тому

      Exactly!

  • @Runningbowels
    @Runningbowels Рік тому +5521

    Instead of ignoring the little girl for what she said, you were able to educate her about your race as well as make a new friend. Well done.

    • @Mkvao
      @Mkvao Рік тому +217

      Great thing about her as well was that she wanted to learn.

    • @MarceloSantossPlaylist
      @MarceloSantossPlaylist Рік тому +17

      @@Mkvao, 👍🏾

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 Рік тому +36

      I would've been like,
      "And You're not!! OMG!! 😮"
      Then, I would've educated her

    • @shawnpreston1639
      @shawnpreston1639 Рік тому +3

      @@nicoleraheem1195 😂😂😂😂

    • @DubboU
      @DubboU Рік тому +79

      @True Israelites are East African that's what I'm thinking!! She's a little girl that simply expressed what she saw, what's wrong with that?? It's the "adults" here that's thinking too much and took it out of context.

  • @weedgrass2338
    @weedgrass2338 Рік тому +4468

    The way she grabs your arm and pulls you along to eat with her. Kids are so pure and innocent. Thank you for taking the time to educate her and talk to her.

  • @AlphaMunky
    @AlphaMunky Рік тому +2820

    Can’t believe there’s grown adults calling a innocent 4 year old girl racist. Shes never seen a person of colour in her life, yet she still gets on so well with Fel. This video is so pure, yet it’s being turned into something else entirely.

    • @Familyofturkeys
      @Familyofturkeys Рік тому +73

      Where are you finding people saying she’s racist bruh 😭😭

    • @AlphaMunky
      @AlphaMunky Рік тому +36

      @@Familyofturkeys scroll down friend

    • @you_can_call_me_T
      @you_can_call_me_T Рік тому +15

      Nobody is saying that.

    • @nonmilavoda
      @nonmilavoda Рік тому +17

      Aang is right guys, you are just too late for those comments

    • @silverreaps6803
      @silverreaps6803 Рік тому +3

      @@AlphaMunky its just yall saying people are saying that 💀

  • @kelseyjaffer
    @kelseyjaffer Рік тому +1324

    the little sister saying “it’s okay if you read it wrong, you can start over!” melted my heart!!

    • @Klatyno256
      @Klatyno256 Рік тому +40

      Very few sisters would encourage you like that

    • @onestarnus8657
      @onestarnus8657 10 місяців тому +16

      That's because the little sister is aware that her older sister struggles with english

    • @taefithendo
      @taefithendo 9 місяців тому +8

      mine too, i was like damn this is what we need in the us

    • @binbincc118
      @binbincc118 5 місяців тому

      she is sooooo cute

  • @2Cerealbox
    @2Cerealbox Рік тому +530

    The amount of trust to let two young daughters wander around unattended and eat lunch with a random man they met only moments ago is... mind-boggling. I can't possibly imagine that happening in America.

    • @JK-xt7ro
      @JK-xt7ro 9 місяців тому

      Thats because America is a shithole

    • @raheem12345
      @raheem12345 9 місяців тому +89

      Facts. I thought the same but it goes to show how different the culture is. Also small villages like that usually everyone knows everyone and other people were probably watching to make sure they were good

    • @NextComesBlood
      @NextComesBlood 9 місяців тому

      sad part is, thats all the medias doing.. you only get bad news reported.. everyone is afraid of their neighbor when we are the safest we have ever been.. cameras everywhere.. etc.. but if he even talked to them here people would attack him as a pedo or call the cops etc.. its a shame. i love kids but i wont even look at one here in america.. we live in a prison thanks to the media and idiots that cant recognize whats in the box is not whats outside their window.

    • @BabaMaya-h7l
      @BabaMaya-h7l 9 місяців тому

      America too f#cked up.Here in Africa we still also let our kids roam unattended

    • @yufish6576
      @yufish6576 9 місяців тому +12

      In the 1990s, kids go to school by foot or bus all by our own even in big cities in China. Nowadays, maybe this is still the truth in small village. There do have kidnapped cases in the 1990s. But in general, it is safe

  • @ffrancis4095
    @ffrancis4095 Рік тому +1340

    No ones speaking about the fact that the father is so humble to the point he would leave his daughters to eat with a complete stranger..gives me a new perspective on chinese culture. The humanity is humbling

    • @galezhang
      @galezhang Рік тому +336

      And he said he came over to make sure the girls weren't causing him any trouble!

    • @zTc01
      @zTc01 Рік тому +170

      Chinese people are EXTREMELY welcoming, such a nice culture and a respectful country.

    • @ciciy4119
      @ciciy4119 Рік тому +119

      Coz China is really safe. I can walk on the streets by myself as a girl at night I don’t even feel unsafe

    • @rcrichard8969
      @rcrichard8969 Рік тому

      there's no child molesters in china, it's kinda of a western thing.....
      chinese parents usually won't take it the wrong way..

    • @RubixCuteQQ
      @RubixCuteQQ Рік тому +1

      This is not really Chinese culture. As a Chinese person I can tell you that some place in China is not well developed yet, villages like this is so run down but people know each others and super friendly and they take care of each other. City and villages could be a huge difference, almost like two different countries. In a civilized place people may assume you are pedophile if u take their kids out for lunch without asking.
      For example there are lots of NBA fans and Hollywood movie well known in China. Like there is no way you don’t know black ppl existed 😂 So you can tell how civilized this village is😅

  • @leroyhudson4311
    @leroyhudson4311 Рік тому +1333

    Dads a hero in this. He did everything he could to maximize his children's experience in all the categories available.

  • @emmanuelansah4035
    @emmanuelansah4035 Рік тому +2121

    I like how you don't take offense and humbly educates them. Big ups Fel👍

    • @narutochat8750
      @narutochat8750 Рік тому

      be careful this gentleman is sent to make miscegenationpropaganda they have succeeded in europe to protectyour children

    • @mz4420
      @mz4420 Рік тому +9

      Yeah, yeah, 8 was very impressed

    • @frankfleming1103
      @frankfleming1103 Рік тому +64

      Chinese can not understand why black is offense while it is an fact and neutral vocabularyto describe the skin color, Chinese won't accept the west political correctness and context

    • @Qtreecey
      @Qtreecey Рік тому

      @@frankfleming1103 yes but she also said that black skin is dirty, that she doesn’t like black people and only likes white people because white people are good. I feel she’s heard people say that black people aren’t good and that they are dirty. I’m glad that he was able to educate her because it doesn’t seem like the people around her are

    • @魔界的邪吻
      @魔界的邪吻 Рік тому +39

      @@frankfleming1103 她没有冒犯,只是他理解错了,小女孩的实际意思是她不喜欢脸很脏的人,她不想和脸很脏的人拥抱。她以为他的黑色脸是弄脏了,她的姐姐有跟她解释他的脸是天生的黑色,不是脏。

  • @LostProxyNevermore
    @LostProxyNevermore Рік тому +865

    Side note but it’s ALWAYS cracked me up how demanding kids can be 😂 “Come here! come over here!” It’s so goofy there’s not tact at all 😭❤️

    • @toyaleejb7714
      @toyaleejb7714 Рік тому +21

      My cousin is exactly like that. He draws me everywhere 😂

    • @mckaylaelizabeth9626
      @mckaylaelizabeth9626 11 місяців тому +15

      And the endless "again, again, again"

    • @yettawinda9851
      @yettawinda9851 10 місяців тому +8

      Hurry hurry she said 😂😂

    • @lauwilliams-hn8qs
      @lauwilliams-hn8qs 8 місяців тому +4

      Kids are the same, EVERYWHERE!

    • @bowel-y7s
      @bowel-y7s 6 місяців тому

      that 4-year-old kid has ADHD for sure

  • @lilru6383
    @lilru6383 10 місяців тому +275

    For the rest of her life she’s gonna remember her “black uncle” this is very heart warming, hopefully that have a bond in the future

  • @bettef9188
    @bettef9188 Рік тому +197

    "and what if you go to a foreign country...practice your English with Uncle"...the utter Dadliness is killing me!

  • @nadoio
    @nadoio Рік тому +545

    People are saying she learned from her parents, but the dad looked pretty happy to see a black person with his daughters 😂

    • @PrometheanRising
      @PrometheanRising Рік тому +194

      Basically gave him uncle status straightaway.

    • @cali_cal
      @cali_cal Рік тому

      the translation was wrong

    • @neesha901
      @neesha901 Рік тому +9

      ​@@cali_calhow so?

    • @coolsimpleman
      @coolsimpleman Рік тому +85

      ​@@cali_calStop making a fake news and make a trouble! The translation was right, their dad was even taking a picture with him.

    • @frenchgirl5878
      @frenchgirl5878 Рік тому +17

      That literally does not mean shit. People can be racist and friendly towards a single black person. People can double task and compartmentalise.

  • @kkiskk2538
    @kkiskk2538 Рік тому +573

    I’m Chinese and I really appreciate that you didn’t take their innocent words as offense. ❤

    • @racyB
      @racyB Рік тому +31

      😂 Chinese people are mostly good. Actually the African caltures is more relative to the Asian people. Family and hard work. This video is a great lesson that we can all get along

    • @ludeng2941
      @ludeng2941 Рік тому +4

      这跟国家有关系吗? 所有国家的孩子都是一样的。 你挺低智的,活在信息茧房

    • @Alexp36500
      @Alexp36500 10 місяців тому +7

      Why would he? I'm whyte obviously but from what my friends have said "if you're truly asking in ign0rance and have no malice then I'm happy to answer" she's 4 she knows nothing but what the world has "told her" and what she sees everyday, why not educate her on black people being just as good as whyte and whyte people being evil af there's no comparison so yea.

    • @TheFuraidoPoteto
      @TheFuraidoPoteto 10 місяців тому +9

      @@Alexp36500because people on the internet seem to take everything as an offence when it comes to race.

    • @Alexp36500
      @Alexp36500 10 місяців тому +6

      @@TheFuraidoPoteto that's cuz most of the time it's done in clout chasing or pure malice... Im not gonna stand in line and watch some old whyte lady be disrespectful to a black man in front of her. But these are young kids, and if they don't know, they need to be taught. He's there to teach them.

  • @minecraftingmom
    @minecraftingmom Рік тому +267

    I love the dad leveraging your skills to tell his kids to study.😂

    • @timoxu
      @timoxu 2 місяці тому +1

      A typical chinese style of family education. Parents make use of every tiny event in life to encourage their kids to study.

  • @tamikacasey
    @tamikacasey 10 місяців тому +129

    I am very proud that Fel was their first interaction with a black person. It was so positive. He was very kind. They learned so much from him in such a short amount of time. They will never forget that experiance. ❤❤❤

  • @nicoleso7948
    @nicoleso7948 Рік тому +1339

    The older sister is sooo mature and so self aware for her age! The way she handles paying for them and the way she makes sure her little sister eats is so precious🥺🥺🥺 10/10 video! Even if you leave it would be so nice if you could go back ever one in a while and make update videos with them!

    • @Allsurrender
      @Allsurrender Рік тому +52

      Their father teach them well.
      He event told them to sad goodbye to uncle fel when he
      Is leaving!

    • @ItsJayYork
      @ItsJayYork 10 місяців тому +10

      just oldest sister energy, iykyk

  • @everrgreen122
    @everrgreen122 Рік тому +919

    Prove that kids aren’t “color blind”, obviously they notice the difference. I’ve had small white children ask me the same type of questions and I never felt discriminated against. The honesty and purity of kids is what makes them so awesome. They don’t know better, so we have to teach them with patience and love. You did a great job and the girls are both so very cute!❤
    Edit: the youngest girl is such a silly goose😂, she’s adorable!

    • @valkyrie1066
      @valkyrie1066 Рік тому +25

      Raised in a multi-racial group, the US military; I was accustomed to seeing all kinds of people as neighbors. LEAVING the military culture; I have met people raised in one place, who have NEVER MET people of other cultures. I truly feel sorry for them, the LEAST of it is the food they miss out on. We were taught it was normal to speak more than one language; and pick up on key words of others. I admit to having a difficult time in a small town where no one has ever left. The TERROR of those....OTHER people...YIKES. I prefer my neighbors as I like my food; exotic and spicy! There is so much to LEARN!!!!

    • @everrgreen122
      @everrgreen122 Рік тому +10

      @@valkyrie1066 It truly is their loss, like you said: there is so much to learn (language, food, certain customs) from people who are different from you! The unknown can be intimidating though, that’s why I try to be patient and respectful in situations like these. Provided it is returned, I don’t have much to say to people who are blatantly ignorant and choose to stay that way.

    • @kittyadventuresvlogs
      @kittyadventuresvlogs Рік тому +3

      @@everrgreen122 I think in some situations it's not intimidation but rather lack of opportunity to meet different people due to lack of money to travel etc. Like in Fel's videos there's lots of instances of people of simple means who are curious about him and talk to him and treat him well despite obviously never chatting with a person of a different race before. Growing up in the US I grew up w/ ppl of different races that I can't imagine if I didn't, if I'd be as chill chatting with a person of a different race for the first time or be socially awkward. That's why I think everyone finds these videos interesting, that it goes not as people expect which is apparently racial tension or whatever, but in friendliness and openness.

    • @lukerogers6699
      @lukerogers6699 Рік тому

      No, but there are different levels. Some kids are color blind, it's the kids who dwell in racist homes who are not color blind, fact.

    • @kittyadventuresvlogs
      @kittyadventuresvlogs Рік тому +1

      @@ElTemne Nobody is color blind, that's like saying someone is gender blind or age blind. It's a characteristic everyone sees, it's just I grew up with African people in my neighborhood so I'm not going to ask questions out of curiosity if I come across someone like Fel.

  • @dahgnana
    @dahgnana Рік тому +965

    These kids are giving me the Cdrama vibes; the energetic and funny younger kid, and the quiet but caring older sister. Love them ☺️

  • @kittyadventuresvlogs
    @kittyadventuresvlogs Рік тому +253

    For people calling the kid racist or saying that the translation was wrong:
    The translation was missing context bc "white" and "black" doesn't always refer to Europeans and Africans but is more commonly used to mean pale or dark/ tanned. Fel tells her she is white using the same words, not to mean she is European. In the context of the convo it's obvious she thinks that someone with darker skin means they don't wash their faces, because her sister then says to her immediately after, his skin color is natural, which she didn't realize.

    • @warningaccountwashacked8606
      @warningaccountwashacked8606 Рік тому +2

      u copied this comment, no one even remotely mention racist

    • @esseaem1451
      @esseaem1451 10 місяців тому

      @@warningaccountwashacked8606lots of folks did, actually.

    • @Saisai12382
      @Saisai12382 10 місяців тому +25

      Thank you for bring this point . Context is so important to understand different languages and cultures. Even Color got different meanings in different cultures.
      the context in which “ black / white” most likely refer to clean/ not clean to her. I’m sure that she must yelled by her partner that only bad bad kid not washing face. That’s why she don’t like darker face .
      4 years old kid not even speak and express herself well in her mother tongue . Let kid be kid.

    • @TheDrunkPsychic
      @TheDrunkPsychic 6 місяців тому +2

      It's not racism at all but she did associate black skin as being bad and white skin as good. I'm glad he taught her otherwise.

  • @jei-jei4841
    @jei-jei4841 Рік тому +225

    The word black isn't racist. It's a colour. She could have said, "You are so blue." A child doesn't take on negative connotations unless taught to do so. She was innocent and adorable. Thank you for sharing these videos and broadening my understanding of China.

    • @fairone1000
      @fairone1000 10 місяців тому +10

      I agree! My daughter was maybe eight, she might have been younger. She loved the show Jessie and I asked her who her favorite character was, and I forgot who she said, but it wasn't Zurri, the little black girl. I thought she would be her favorite because she is closest to her age. I asked her why she didn't like her, and she said because her skin was black, and I told her that it is wrong to not like someone because of the color of their skin. That is being racist. She said that it's not because she's racist. She said because black isn't her favorite color. I like her, just not that color. I told her that we know you're not racist, but someone who doesn't know you would think you are. She's fifteen now and she's had friends who are transgender, bi, and all different races. I'm so proud of her. She is very welcoming and accepting of everybody!

    • @jei-jei4841
      @jei-jei4841 10 місяців тому +1

      @@fairone1000 Yes, this is a perfect example of how we are taught to think and assume children automatically follow the same rules.

    • @fairone1000
      @fairone1000 10 місяців тому +2

      @@jei-jei4841 I always thought that if you don't like the color of someone's skin, it meant you were racist, so when she said she didn't like her because of the color of her skin, it worried me, but then when she said it was because she doesn't like the color black, I was so relieved. I should have never doubted her though, because we always taught her to treat everyone equally, so she wouldn't have learned it from us.

    • @alphabetadotaalphabetadota5671
      @alphabetadotaalphabetadota5671 10 місяців тому

      Thats kind of a narrow way to think about this tbh, personaly i do note like the color of the skin of indian and some black but i do like the peson, its juste a color and a taste. Thats dosent mean i automaticly hate the people with mentioned skin, i just do not like the color, and thats because of this way of thinking that nowadays people are using the therm racist for everything and nothing ​@@fairone1000

    • @Pear2323
      @Pear2323 10 місяців тому +2

      But her skin isnt black its brown​@fairone1000

  • @nwalichinedu7300
    @nwalichinedu7300 Рік тому +287

    The Dad Is A Great Dad

  • @dovispalmer5734
    @dovispalmer5734 Рік тому +556

    Dude you should consider being a teacher because your communications skills are really good

    • @thesincitymama
      @thesincitymama Рік тому +2

      **this comment is only funny in Huizhou, Dongguan, and the greater Bao’an area 😉

    • @davidgivins4203
      @davidgivins4203 Рік тому +1

      Wrong as he's doing it now can't you see that!😊

    • @jxmai7687
      @jxmai7687 Рік тому +12

      @@thesincitymama Try to look at the bright side of mankind.

    • @abelluxus2721
      @abelluxus2721 Рік тому +15

      ​@@thesincitymama还好吧,我是四川的,我小学的时候有个黑人老师,人很好,我们都喜欢他

    • @pizzatime9565
      @pizzatime9565 Рік тому +9

      Agreed. And to add to that, patience and empathy. Wish there were more people like this in this world.

  • @wagaana
    @wagaana Рік тому +185

    Dad had his priorities straight, "You have to read hard and be as good as him!"

    • @toyaleejb7714
      @toyaleejb7714 Рік тому +7

      ​@@border1185its the same in west Africa I'm afraid🗿

    • @habibaajabli8958
      @habibaajabli8958 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@toyaleejb7714same in morocco 🙂

  • @gorillaprutt
    @gorillaprutt Рік тому +80

    I remember that feeling as a kid, when meeting a "cool" person that stood out to you that made your brain go "YOU. You're special somehow, I want to be around you", didn't matter what it was that made them stand out or made them cool to you. She'll probably remember this really well. This is so pleasant to watch. :)

  • @joro7949
    @joro7949 Рік тому +93

    The little girl is so amazing! She's so delightful to see and talk to you. Thank you for letting her know more about you. Always have a great day!

    • @FelThommy
      @FelThommy  Рік тому +8

      You are so welcome!

    • @samson4415
      @samson4415 Рік тому +1

      ​@@FelThommyYou are very kind and patience.

  • @ProfPortobello
    @ProfPortobello Рік тому +813

    It's not easy at all to deal with such comments, and instead of being hurt by her, you taught her a very important lesson in life. You changed her worldview and showed her that the prejudices are wrong and that blacks are human beings just like her. She surely won't forget you. respect. What a nice family.

    • @mariusloveless7880
      @mariusloveless7880 Рік тому +37

      @D alisa The point remains he did very well and taught her like an outstanding person with patience and understanding.

    • @manzanasrojas6984
      @manzanasrojas6984 Рік тому +2

      Why the f would you take offense to a little kid that is like 6-7 years old ( edit: i now saw shes ONLY 4!!!! ), whos never seen a blakc person, mentioning your skin is so dark coz shes never seen it before
      what kind of mental issues you gotta have to take offense to that???

    • @manzanasrojas6984
      @manzanasrojas6984 Рік тому +6

      @D alisa Exactly

    • @MarceccMC
      @MarceccMC Рік тому

      ​@@mariusloveless7880 nope. He went for the very faulty American race relations bullshit. Shoulda just said only his skin is black or that he's African.

    • @huas5350
      @huas5350 Рік тому +71

      There is no racial concept in the Chinese people's concept, and children have no prejudice. She just hasn't seen a person with a skin color different from hers, and what the child said is just subconscious

  • @yujiejiang4498
    @yujiejiang4498 Рік тому +176

    The elder sister takes good care of the little girl. The little girl is very cute, and her sister is gentle and warm. They have a good relationship.

  • @Blackstar0
    @Blackstar0 Рік тому +1271

    this is exactly what we need more on the world. education and teaching kids about racism rather than yelling and insulting them. the way you handled her comments was very mature

    • @frankfleming1103
      @frankfleming1103 Рік тому

      Chinese can not understand why black is offense while it is an fact and neutral vocabulary to describe the skin color, Chinese won't accept the west political correctness and context

    • @weizhang2834
      @weizhang2834 Рік тому +1

      USA brainwashed you, in China people have no idea what is racism , it’s just a natural reaction

    • @mattethan2681
      @mattethan2681 Рік тому +3

    • @Usernp27
      @Usernp27 Рік тому +1

      ⁠@@weizhang2834 Your comment is so stupid and ignorant. racism has been around before USA was even a country. maybe you are the brainwashed one.

    • @easyware
      @easyware Рік тому +57

      "rather than yelling and insulting them"
      Do you know anyone who yells and insults children over this matter???

  • @Hannah_queen2023
    @Hannah_queen2023 Рік тому +77

    这种饭桌上的交流,真的比较友善放松,鼓励大家去中国都向这位弟兄学习与中国人交流,他只是一个拥有黑色皮肤,加纳国籍的灵魂,保持开放包容的态度面对。进入不同文化和族群交流,帮助我们改变过去对人刻板的印象和定位!

  • @AarenYASS
    @AarenYASS Рік тому +130

    I like that once she learned that different types of people exist, she immediately got excited and interested. See how easy it is? you just need to explain things straightforward. Kids are really good at absorbing stuff for how it is, its adults that obscure and overcomplicate matters, which leads to misunderstanding and stereotypes. -

  • @MagGray
    @MagGray Рік тому +303

    So very wholesome. You are a good man for entertaining them. Its difficult for men to communicate with children in a lot of places these days, so its nice to see such a good community.

  • @OpheliaPG
    @OpheliaPG Рік тому +334

    I love how patient you are with the children. I’m happy that you’re their first black man to meet, I’m sure you made a lasting memory for them. We need more ambassadors everywhere to spread kindness and friendship. Happy travels ❤

    • @DanTan_81
      @DanTan_81 Рік тому +1

      🙏

    • @eddyavailable
      @eddyavailable 9 місяців тому +1

      btw Fel(the youtuber)is am aerospace engineer...

  • @FaizalNazaruddin-ko8dw
    @FaizalNazaruddin-ko8dw Рік тому +237

    The little one is simply innocent. You can tell both her and the elder sister enjoy your company. The father certainly knows a good influence when he sees one. I love the way you gently educate the younger kid on how diverse the world is. Nicely done

  • @mznyla
    @mznyla 9 місяців тому +25

    I just love the little ambassador❤ She was so bright eyed and inquisitive and not laden with the trappings of societal division. She simply and quite vocally voiced alllll of her thoughts and feelings about what she saw and what she saw and tried to incorporate tho new individual into her world by taking him to share a meal. What a fearless little ambassador. ❤

  • @keliniajohnson9397
    @keliniajohnson9397 9 місяців тому +45

    This was so sweet. I guess 4yr olds are spunky all around the world 😂

  • @coolyou-td8zn
    @coolyou-td8zn Рік тому +132

    She is very talkative and outgoing, considering she is only 4 years old. I love to see how she treats Fel very nicely and friendly. She is attentive when asking Fel to eat the side dish. That is a great kid right there who cares about others.

  • @romeokimss
    @romeokimss Рік тому +391

    I loved this interaction. In a single afternoon, you broadened these little girls’ perspectives and planted a seed in how they might view the larger world beyond their village.

  • @elainegrimes5378
    @elainegrimes5378 Рік тому +485

    Loved this video. Your encounter with the little girl was really sweet. i respect how you didn't get upset by what she said but help her to understand that there are different people all over the world. When she and her sister came to find you and you all sat down and had lunch together that is the power of friendship. She wasn't scared by you and the way you explained things to her about race was so simple but effective. As a black woman it is my dream to visit China and watching your videos has made me even more determined to do so. Thank you Fel

    • @Aikunle78
      @Aikunle78 Рік тому +8

      Fel is the main man!

    • @boliu1302
      @boliu1302 Рік тому +3

      That's great! Welcome

    • @michalovesanime
      @michalovesanime Рік тому +18

      She's a child.. Most people understand the difference ignorance of children and impolite adults ( who are low key racist)

    • @maggie88830
      @maggie88830 Рік тому +5

      You are very welcome to China ❤

    • @elainegrimes5378
      @elainegrimes5378 Рік тому +3

      @@maggie88830 Thank you ❤️

  • @Kalani_Saiko
    @Kalani_Saiko Рік тому +17

    Cute! Little sister spilling all of big sister's secrets to strangers is so relatable as an older sister myself.

  • @Autonomy0
    @Autonomy0 11 місяців тому +20

    This dude is so good with children. Love the way he works to gently broaden the little girl's world-view.
    Also - though this little girl is obviously unusually bold and venturesome - the fact that a 4yr old and a 9yr old can randomly sit and eat with an unknown adult male speaks very well of Chinese society. Their sense of shared humanity has clearly not been corroded by a political culture based on fear, such that the natural ingenuousness displayed would have already been socialised out of the girls. Dad's ease with the situation is also instructive :- any Western European or American dad in the same situation would be bent out of shape because their response would be dominated by fears of abduction and/or paedophile grooming.
    All in all, a heart-warming encounter and a joy to watch.

  • @pizzatime9565
    @pizzatime9565 Рік тому +220

    Nowadays all social medias prioritize controversial content to aggravate more engagement, only making people more split and hostile. This video is a gem in the forest, showing just humans being friendly to each other in the purest ways. I’m glad that I stumbled upon this video. Really made me smile. ❤

    • @rightweaponry908
      @rightweaponry908 Рік тому +5

      Perfect put🎯

    • @amitabha629
      @amitabha629 Рік тому +6

      That's how capitalism works

    • @NohAotori
      @NohAotori Рік тому

      ​@@amitabha629actually is how communist works (I'm from. Of these countries under communism)

    • @NohAotori
      @NohAotori Рік тому

      Totally agree. Sadly , it is the USA who really propagates more the racism.
      I'm sad many comments going that way.
      I'm glad Fel is from Ghana and they are not infected yet by usa racism.

  • @semiragualraya1041
    @semiragualraya1041 Рік тому +544

    Damn, kids are brutally honest! No sugar coating their opinions just straight for the kill lol.

    • @dashafedir9546
      @dashafedir9546 Рік тому +17

      That baby is 1819 Racists😆😆😆😆

    • @Bobab0y
      @Bobab0y Рік тому +34

      9/10 they learned from their parents .

    • @PlayShorts3
      @PlayShorts3 Рік тому +5

      Straight for the throat 😂😂😂😂

    • @felipejose8834
      @felipejose8834 Рік тому

      Child is not honest in HIS opinion, because he is a CHILD. Probably she learned it from her parents and Chinese parents learn it from European and Euroamerican. I'm Brazilian, if I were hostage only to the European worldview, I would also be r4cist, in Brazil what is mostly Germanic and Latino (Italian) criminal, the worst policies come from these people, as well as extreme corruption

    • @thenightcorereaper
      @thenightcorereaper Рік тому +164

      @@dashafedir9546 nah they just never seen anyone besides chinese it seems.

  • @docimma
    @docimma Рік тому +112

    So lovely this experience. The lil girl did not speak out of racist intended ignorance like some adults… she had a simple association of her teachings of hygeine knowing that mud on the face was dark in color similar to dark pigment… a very innocent and reasonable interpretation of a new environment with her obviously new best friend. So lovely she enjoyed her experience and learned too. She respectfully called you Uncle. Now she knows that your dark pigment is not mud or facepaint, her world is perfect!

    • @PrincessofKeys
      @PrincessofKeys Рік тому +1

      Racisim is learned regardless if your an adult too. Its just about educating people in my opinion and if they accept or not.

  • @Shammer1
    @Shammer1 8 місяців тому +7

    This dad is so lucky he has such a lovely girl and pray she just better as she grows up and lives an amazing life

  • @alisong826
    @alisong826 Рік тому +31

    This is so presh! I love how dad encouraged daughter to cont learning English in case she goes to another country. And oh my gawd!!! 16:24 little sister’s alphabet singing was 100%

  • @Inbox6020-wx7xz
    @Inbox6020-wx7xz Рік тому +131

    I love how they call him "uncle". Same in Spanish culture. We called older family friends, non-related "tito" or "titi" a variation of "tio" and "tia".

    • @Zahra-lc3mj
      @Zahra-lc3mj 8 місяців тому +1

      Same in Arabic culture! I loved how they called him uncle too

    • @m.moonsie
      @m.moonsie 7 місяців тому

      We also use "tito". But "titi" is a bit different hahahahah 😂😂 Filipino language btw 😂

    • @habibaajabli8958
      @habibaajabli8958 7 місяців тому

      In Morocco we you "tata" and "tonton"😅 but not in all cities in general we use khali and khalti (jali and jalti) or ami amti

  • @asiandramablackwomen2572
    @asiandramablackwomen2572 Рік тому +228

    @Fei you have a natural ability for interacting with children. Its shown in this & other videos as well. It’s a gift to know how to respond to a child’s comments so that positive learning takes place. You surely made an impression that will likely last for a lifetime with the 2 sisters.

    • @FelThommy
      @FelThommy  Рік тому +38

      Thank you

    • @fddddd1120
      @fddddd1120 Рік тому +4

      Children seems to like you, it s very good signe 😊

  • @Peatingtune
    @Peatingtune Рік тому +759

    I like how their dad comes over to make sure his kids are respecting and aren't troubling the unfamiliar man they're sitting with instead of coming over to accuse him of being a child predator, escorting the children away in a panic and then calling the police as is the more likely outcome in some Western countries. Imagine an American or Canadian walking up to the same scene and ending the encounter with a lecture to the kids about their educations and then an apology to the stranger for the kids potentially being a nuisance. It's so unlikely in the 21st century that it's a funny idea. Fortunately, most people in Asian countries haven't been transformed by the media into suspicious, overprotective nuisances who see danger under every stone and bush.

    • @WHYOSHO
      @WHYOSHO Рік тому +113

      Child sex trafficking is a huge deal in the West. Especially in some European or South American countries.

    • @RaquelMatosRockii
      @RaquelMatosRockii Рік тому

      Why sexual harassment of children in the West is still a very strong thing, maybe in China they don't have this concern yet because they don't have contact with it, children have never even watched television. They are unaware of the danger

    • @MarlaSingersCancer
      @MarlaSingersCancer Рік тому +92

      It's so strange how any interaction between a child and grown up is seen as perverse and sick in other countries, instead of just a normal part of growing up and learning.

    • @Peatingtune
      @Peatingtune Рік тому +29

      @@MarlaSingersCancer The cultures are sick, unfortunately. Everyone is a potential threat for no reason and people live in fear of nothing.

    • @slaydog5102
      @slaydog5102 Рік тому +2

      ​@@MarlaSingersCancer you mean a man and a little girl?

  • @Lucyfurrrr
    @Lucyfurrrr Рік тому +17

    It’s the “remember our names next time” for me😭💕

  • @randywatson8347
    @randywatson8347 10 місяців тому +3

    Lol what a cute little girl! Only 4 and already so social and bright!

  • @junhengchin6416
    @junhengchin6416 Рік тому +203

    Fel, your interaction with The kids is greatly appreciated. These kids will grow up to understand and respect People of other culture and etnicity..

  • @1murkeybadmayn
    @1murkeybadmayn Рік тому +126

    Love the genuine friendship you formed with those little girls. Not gonna lie, I was even more impressed and a bit surprised how their dad just saw them with you and left y'all alone like you were their actual uncle ☺.

    • @htspencer9084
      @htspencer9084 Рік тому +21

      Honestly, the dad leaving them with him shows them that black people can be "uncles" too.
      Warms my heart :)

  • @GoBirdz13
    @GoBirdz13 Рік тому +34

    I love your patience brother🙏 gently educating the young one with a level of grace most will never get to experience. Your heart and attitude changed lives that day. Stay blessed Uncle Fel💪

  • @cookieconundrumsoliloquy1200
    @cookieconundrumsoliloquy1200 Рік тому +26

    It goes to show you how even though she's never met a Black Man the innocence of childhood acceptance is there. It's heartbreaking that adults teach kids racism. Her intention outshined the areas where she lacked a little understanding or information. You Sir are AMAZING!

  • @tiloo6912
    @tiloo6912 Рік тому +32

    You'll literally be a core memory to the kids😭💗💗

  • @opticnurvy
    @opticnurvy Рік тому +37

    The father is so nice as well

  • @EMTEE26
    @EMTEE26 Рік тому +109

    I'm Ghanaian too. Thank you for educating these children. I hope many people watch this and also educate themselves and their children

  • @Sublime228
    @Sublime228 4 місяці тому +2

    The innocence and the patients to yeach in the perfect way. Humans really are wholesome when its just person to person. This whole interaction was beautiful and she is a little spark plug! She brings everyone joy. Those girls amd that guy are amazing. Ty for the smile

  • @00SingleSeven
    @00SingleSeven 7 місяців тому +3

    This is the real news. No politicians, no agenda, just people meeting people, sharing food and stories. Thank you brother for doing God's work

  • @SensualityMajestic187
    @SensualityMajestic187 Рік тому +191

    That little girl is a real life anime character! Shes hella funny 😂😂😂

    • @Aikunle78
      @Aikunle78 Рік тому +15

      Lol. She reminded me of Bruce Lee (李小龙) apparently was as a kid, hyperactive!

    • @treeinafield5022
      @treeinafield5022 Рік тому

      ​@@yuka7.999 lmao Accurate

    • @CrispyTierCritter
      @CrispyTierCritter Рік тому

      Weebs try not to mention anime for a second(impossible) you will never be Japanese

    • @vegamoonlight
      @vegamoonlight Рік тому +2

      Lol, the Japanese don't only have animes. Chinese anime series have better graphics.

  • @mohamedhamza3039
    @mohamedhamza3039 Рік тому +83

    Video of the year for me. That little girl made me wish i had a daughter like that. Just pure happiness.

  • @순두부찌개한개
    @순두부찌개한개 Рік тому +50

    The fact that she brought you to her fam like any other chinese person😂

  • @gamerjaqi7873
    @gamerjaqi7873 7 місяців тому +2

    Too cute she was just very curious and a good dad to use a good opportunity for a lesson. ❤

  • @melanielewis2779
    @melanielewis2779 6 місяців тому +3

    The pure joy of little kids, so exuberant and wildly curious. Shes amazing and his more amazing. Love this interaction

  • @rambii.
    @rambii. Рік тому +63

    I love watching your interactions with Chinese people.

  • @2sonicdx
    @2sonicdx Рік тому +43

    The dad being so nice is awesome

  • @Business-wy5jb
    @Business-wy5jb Рік тому +27

    Little girl had an innocent reaction to something she had never seen before and his response was so sweet as he patiently educated her. Loved watching you all become friends 💜

  • @fhoque48
    @fhoque48 11 місяців тому +21

    These kids were adorable and you handled that so well! It was so refreshing to see innocence learning and expanding their limited perspectives. Tbh, when comparing these two to western kids who are stuck in front of screens all day and can’t socialize without having an anxiety attack let alone talk to someone that literally could be an alien from their worlds view, this was so wholesome and gives me hope for the future.

  • @1Kalvin_
    @1Kalvin_ Рік тому +56

    It's a good day whenever Fel uploads

  • @SirVinnie1
    @SirVinnie1 Рік тому +74

    She's adorable and you seem like a really nice guy, which helps a lot. I met you through Felipe Durante, you have a really nice channel. I like the way you show food around and i'm trying to learn some chinese x)
    Hugs from Brazil!!! o/

  • @maneil9297
    @maneil9297 Рік тому +25

    Very sweet girl, innocent mind. You are doing great teaching her about the world.

  • @CaLiSnIpEr
    @CaLiSnIpEr 10 місяців тому +15

    This is beautiful. She asked questions on what she didn't understand. Was extremely polite, never mean, nice and wanted to have a meal as she felt his kindness immediately. Brotha your patience, understanding, effort to help and the way you interacted is just as beautiful brotha. New subscriber here.

    • @kieoneyoungphotos
      @kieoneyoungphotos 9 місяців тому +1

      This is a beautiful way for cultures to experience something new by sharing a meal and talking together!!

    • @CaLiSnIpEr
      @CaLiSnIpEr 9 місяців тому

      @@kieoneyoungphotos could agree more brotha

  • @lexieslarksandcrafts
    @lexieslarksandcrafts Рік тому +46

    So glad this popped up on my recommendations. 😍 I wonder how this beautiful and positive interaction will shape her life. Will it inspire her to want to visit other countries when she is older? Will it inspire her to teach others about tolerance of diversity? The girls will take away so much from this interaction for the rest of their lives. ❤

  • @ibnmuhammad4851
    @ibnmuhammad4851 Рік тому +36

    This is such a beautiful interaction. The world needs this.

  • @MyFavouriteStation
    @MyFavouriteStation Рік тому +39

    This is so stinking cute. What a core moment for these kids. Especially the little one! And I'm sure for you too Fel!

  • @deontesampson1993
    @deontesampson1993 Рік тому +83

    😂The tiny one is adorably savage ❤much respect Fel you just got yourself a new subscriber seeing you doing what you do is pure motivation for me to keep on my mandarin learning journey in hopes to get to where you are one day I appreciate you brother keep spreading love & bringing the world together ✊🏾

  • @chancho1010
    @chancho1010 Рік тому +14

    What a crazy interaction. These kids NEEDED you in their life experience! SO amazing!

  • @randomlad830
    @randomlad830 Рік тому +10

    When they took a family photo with Fel my heart melted how adorable❤️😭

  • @Kiki123-k5r
    @Kiki123-k5r Рік тому +36

    Thats sooo cute!! such a beautiful experience!❤

  • @corinachan8533
    @corinachan8533 Рік тому +124

    Good job, Fel. Your rapport with the kids are admirable. Your understanding of their innocence is much appreciated. Instead of taking offence you educate them and their acceptance of you readily as another human is testament that people need to communicate with each other. BTW, the older girl looks like my own daughter when she was the same age.

  • @dankiya0613
    @dankiya0613 Рік тому +52

    I love this because it's a memory that may alter their trajectory in life. They'll remember this one encounter and shoot down any naysayers because of this one positive experience.

    • @o.c.g.m9426
      @o.c.g.m9426 Рік тому

      Exactly.....this guy got me on Google translate & cracking open my chinese(simplified) books. I'm seriously gonna travel to China because of these videos

    • @Meandchanalayu
      @Meandchanalayu Рік тому +3

      @@o.c.g.m9426ahhh real my Chinese is gettin bad and seein this made me remember to study. Also don’t trust google translate lol

  • @denised8489
    @denised8489 10 місяців тому +2

    That was so cute! That little girl made a friend. Intelligent little one with no fear

  • @user-fl9ti9ej8g
    @user-fl9ti9ej8g 7 місяців тому +2

    This is such a genuine beautiful human interaction. Thank you for sharing this

  • @16DeadAndSmiling
    @16DeadAndSmiling Рік тому +29

    I had so much fun watching this video, the smiles and laughter were contagious even with the mask. That little girl will be a tour guide one day.

  • @alexanderotiz5376
    @alexanderotiz5376 Рік тому +20

    No matter how worse your day is kids like this make you cheer up 👌

  • @TheArtofWarChina
    @TheArtofWarChina Рік тому +46

    Really liked your video content and the way you approach the Chinese culture. Honestly there are a lot of misconception of Black people (Black Americans in particular) because of the horrible chain stories passed around from the Asian expats. It created a barrier and resentment between Blacks and Chinese. I hope we can see more cool dude like you around. Keep up the good work, wish you the best!

  • @thelmacurtis1725
    @thelmacurtis1725 10 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful children. The 4 yr old is super clever. The elder sister is quiet and shy. What lovely girl's. The young one is a typical curious child, asking questions about his color is a normal child question. She's a wonderful friendly, uninhibited child and I couldn't stop giggling at her exuberant and upfront manner. ❤😄

  • @ANNAI89
    @ANNAI89 5 місяців тому +1

    Very nice to see Chinese people treating black brother so good👍

  • @user-zj8cf3fq8e
    @user-zj8cf3fq8e Рік тому +43

    Thank you for being so patient with these kids. You have changed their worldview and that is good and for the better.

  • @eduardoalvarez7546
    @eduardoalvarez7546 Рік тому +18

    This was one of the most wholesome videos I’ve ever seen. Love to see a girl who’s never seen someone of another race, learn about it, just out of sheer curiosity.

  • @jianingchen1297
    @jianingchen1297 Рік тому +21

    The little girl truly is hyperactive! Super fun. Thank you for teaching her and understanding her curiosity.

  • @psychshell4644
    @psychshell4644 Рік тому +21

    Fel did a wonderful job making new friends and letting her know about diversity. Asking questions is how we learn.

  • @JCNixon-jt4bg
    @JCNixon-jt4bg Рік тому +14

    I love how the children are engaging in conversation with him as they eat and not a tablet like majority American kids

  • @theOverseasJin
    @theOverseasJin Рік тому +40

    Fel this whole interaction was so wholesome, I can't even😭. More of these videos please!