I've watched you for a while now, admittingly not constantly but I keep checking in because I adore you content and you as a person! You bring something good into this world even when the world treats you wrong! I'm sorry the world keeps letting you down. Is there a petition you can make that we can sign and get you help? Perhaps grandma's is a choice you should really consider, if it goes wrong you can always leave. Freedom comes in many forms, maybe if you go live there find something that makes you feel free. Find your escape!
Brave girl. Stating your vulnerability. I can see you have a lot of Adult in you and also a Child needing comfort and support. Probably shouldn’t give advice but I think that’s what you’re asking for.
Forget the subscribers who leave, look at those who stay. We do not get sick of you. You have every right to want those basic things in life and the fact you are speaking out and seeking help is a huge step forwards x x going home for a while is NOT a step back, it’s a step forward x x give yourself a break and don’t beat yourself up about it. Sending virtual hugs x x
I lived with my grandma from 18-25 years old, Bobo! She helped me learn how to be an adultier adult! I am so, so grateful for the time she let me live with her! If there is no risk of abuse at your grandma's, definitely go back! It's normal to want to have basic needs met and there is nothing wrong with asking for help! We love you Bobo and Co.! Please do what is best for you and your health!
Being able to say those needs out loud is important. Recognizing that you may need to made big changes to get the basics covered and get the help you need is so hard, and so brave.
I just want to say even though I have never commented previously ive watched your channel for a long time now. Please hang in there. If you need to go back to your families to be able to take care of you and get better. Then do what you need to, so that you can take care of you. You are an amazing person and you need to do what is going to be best for you and your health in the end.
it ain't selfish to want someone to take care of you, basic needs and worrying about them not having them can make every other thing impossible, and you shouldn't feel bad for complaining, your situation sucks
Having been a single mum using a food bank and other services and constantly worried about getting by, it is hard to feel like you have to give up. If you're homeless then everything is even harder. Asking for help sucks but sometimes there's no other choice. Once you finish school things will get better and you'll have more options.
I think it's probably for the better that you move or at least have a conversation about it with them. It sounds like a much better option then where you are currently and a lot of the issues will probably either solve themselves or at least be work-able. Even though it may feel like a step back sometimes it's just needed to get life back on track and it's not forever, you can get back to being moved out just at a time when financially you are more able to do so.
How is your roommate buying a bunch of stuff and not paying for stuff at the apartment? It breaks my heart to hear the people closest to you using you like this. Even your partner. They are not your responsibility. They should try to take care of you. I hope you can go and get better and healthy. Do what is best for you Bobo.
I have always appreciated your honesty so much... I wish I could help but I'm in the same boat... Complain as much as you want at least you're not pretending... I always feel the pressure to pretend I'm doing better than I really am. I do the same thing with the blaring music it helps block out the chaos?
Que ejemplar ver que eres muy fuerte, afrontar situaciones tan difíciles, me gusta ver tus videos, a pesar de no entender tu situación, te mando buenas vibras y que estés bien.
I can see what a tough position you're in :( but it may be best to go where you'll be able to have certain needs met so that you can gradually meet others & find your way through. Sending so many huggies. I know its hard, I was stuck living with my parents until I was 28 with a baby because of similar reasons and it was really hard for similar reasons 💔 we are all here for you whatever you do xxx
Hey there. Oh gosh. Tough stuff my dear. First of all, I love all the personal realisations/learning (as fricken hard as it is) that you’re figuring out about yourself and about what you need.
I think you have already made your mind up to go back. It sounds like you need some stability, and you need your basic needs met. It is scary, and it might affect you mentally, but you can’t work on mental health if you are freezing to death. I hope you do what you need to do to feel safe, and I wish we could support more. Sending our love and good vibes.
Brutally honest: going back is probably the lesser of 2 evils in terms of your health.
It's not selfish to want people to do those things for you like feeding you and looking after you.
Bo, does your grandmother know about your DID? Is she emotionally supportive? And understanding?
I've watched you for a while now, admittingly not constantly but I keep checking in because I adore you content and you as a person! You bring something good into this world even when the world treats you wrong! I'm sorry the world keeps letting you down. Is there a petition you can make that we can sign and get you help? Perhaps grandma's is a choice you should really consider, if it goes wrong you can always leave. Freedom comes in many forms, maybe if you go live there find something that makes you feel free. Find your escape!
Brave girl. Stating your vulnerability. I can see you have a lot of Adult in you and also a Child needing comfort and support. Probably shouldn’t give advice but I think that’s what you’re asking for.
Forget the subscribers who leave, look at those who stay. We do not get sick of you. You have every right to want those basic things in life and the fact you are speaking out and seeking help is a huge step forwards x x going home for a while is NOT a step back, it’s a step forward x x give yourself a break and don’t beat yourself up about it. Sending virtual hugs x x
I lived with my grandma from 18-25 years old, Bobo! She helped me learn how to be an adultier adult! I am so, so grateful for the time she let me live with her! If there is no risk of abuse at your grandma's, definitely go back! It's normal to want to have basic needs met and there is nothing wrong with asking for help! We love you Bobo and Co.! Please do what is best for you and your health!
Being able to say those needs out loud is important. Recognizing that you may need to made big changes to get the basics covered and get the help you need is so hard, and so brave.
I just want to say even though I have never commented previously ive watched your channel for a long time now. Please hang in there. If you need to go back to your families to be able to take care of you and get better. Then do what you need to, so that you can take care of you. You are an amazing person and you need to do what is going to be best for you and your health in the end.
Make a pros and cons list babe.
it ain't selfish to want someone to take care of you, basic needs and worrying about them not having them can make every other thing impossible, and you shouldn't feel bad for complaining, your situation sucks
You are so loved
Having been a single mum using a food bank and other services and constantly worried about getting by, it is hard to feel like you have to give up. If you're homeless then everything is even harder. Asking for help sucks but sometimes there's no other choice. Once you finish school things will get better and you'll have more options.
I think it's probably for the better that you move or at least have a conversation about it with them. It sounds like a much better option then where you are currently and a lot of the issues will probably either solve themselves or at least be work-able. Even though it may feel like a step back sometimes it's just needed to get life back on track and it's not forever, you can get back to being moved out just at a time when financially you are more able to do so.
How is your roommate buying a bunch of stuff and not paying for stuff at the apartment? It breaks my heart to hear the people closest to you using you like this. Even your partner. They are not your responsibility. They should try to take care of you. I hope you can go and get better and healthy. Do what is best for you Bobo.
I have always appreciated your honesty so much... I wish I could help but I'm in the same boat... Complain as much as you want at least you're not pretending... I always feel the pressure to pretend I'm doing better than I really am. I do the same thing with the blaring music it helps block out the chaos?
Que ejemplar ver que eres muy fuerte, afrontar situaciones tan difíciles, me gusta ver tus videos, a pesar de no entender tu situación, te mando buenas vibras y que estés bien.
I can see what a tough position you're in :( but it may be best to go where you'll be able to have certain needs met so that you can gradually meet others & find your way through. Sending so many huggies. I know its hard, I was stuck living with my parents until I was 28 with a baby because of similar reasons and it was really hard for similar reasons 💔 we are all here for you whatever you do xxx
Hey there. Oh gosh. Tough stuff my dear. First of all, I love all the personal realisations/learning (as fricken hard as it is) that you’re figuring out about yourself and about what you need.
I think you have already made your mind up to go back. It sounds like you need some stability, and you need your basic needs met. It is scary, and it might affect you mentally, but you can’t work on mental health if you are freezing to death. I hope you do what you need to do to feel safe, and I wish we could support more. Sending our love and good vibes.