When a man She Likes Does it Vs. a Man She's Doesn't Like- what is flirting?
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If you handsome and fine ....its flirting...if you ugly ...its sexual harassment..happens all the time..
She speaks facts this is why so much men are going overseas
Yea but bro a lot of women do these things and play some of these same games too
#Indeed
Women think when nice ur weak now or days
Best of luck, hope you find what you’re looking for. ❤
Nothing wrong with you going for what you but women are like this all around the world. This is coming from experience being in the military traveling across the world for years. There’s very dangerous parts of the world where you chasing women can end in death.
So refreshing! A honest confident woman.
Guys this is Keisha's we're talking about here
When pookie does it, its called flirting
When a clean cut dude who ain't affiliated with the streets does it, it's considered corny or even harassment in the most extreme cases
It’s all about if she likes you if she likes you she will let you squeeze and feel all over her
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True😢
Big facts !!!
@@gemjoneschannel how is it cap 🧢? , explain and articulate yourself.
The truth has been revealed. Women can be benevolent to the men they want …but they can also be malevolent…to that same man when they don’t get what they feel they want or are worth
A woman can be married and won't mind a handsome man flirting with her at work. But the minute the ugly coworker is trying to flirt she has the energy to go to HR.
That’s nothing new
Bro she was doing good til about 2 mins in after that she lost the wheel and Women do not wanna hear truth thus the Reason they act the way the act now with no accountability instead of her speaking on what they’re doing she swerved into what we’re doing so she just drew you in to say what she really feels 😂
@@TheBTranz All yo pusillanimous ass proved was men don't want to be accountable either lol. Neither men or women perfect so of course women do BS stuff, but so do men. And the BS stuff we both do affect each other. Whats so hard about admitting that? You can't truly critique women and not critique men and vice versa because we affect each other DIRECTLY.
@@TheBTranz exactly and to add on to that. Why are men required to honest all the time while women lie all the time. I'm not going to be %100 truthful with you if you can't be truthful with me.
She is right about Red Pill. One of the things taught there is to say no to being a step dad, so lots of BMs gone find themselves running out of options after waking up to what’s important.
So do you encourage men to be step dads if they have no kids of their own?
@@maxpayne758no go overseas
😂😂😂 no we’re not! Settling for a baby mother will never be an option. Men aren’t afraid of being alone
Even before I heard about the Red Pill, marrying a woman who’s had someone else’s kid was a No-No for many many men. The online Red pill movement only made what real men already knew from day one become more spoken about.
@@SpongePikaAre you getting ready to settle down, Sponge Pika?
Some of this is true. I don’t feel like she saying the quiet part out loud thou. Most women have misplayed their hand and don’t qualify for what they want. Dating feels like financial aide these days
Right! She got certain parts right. But she thinks she knows what we like and who we are. She talking from a what men do wrong and whispering what women are
This young lady has a clue 🕵️♀️ have her on more often.
As always, she speaks on "Conditional Femininity"...as long as men must display "Unconditional Masculinity" from Day 1, miss me with the "If you want her to be soft & feminine, you must make her feel safe"!!
For real she seam to be genuine but she kinda told the truth and don't realize it ,why is ya softness conditional
Exactly she kinda exposed her self rite there she seams genuine, but I don't think she understand what's she said on that part
I heard that bullsh*t. Straight lying. Today's black woman ( a.k.a. modern woman ) cannot process data, unless she's in that field. Because why does a man have to break down what he's saying or means to a child-like level??
Most women have no idea what they are talking about on these shows I don’t know about most women in general but definitely not the ones on the podcast and it’s sad because they are the loudest and are spreading the nonsense
💯 true. she has some of her observations correct. I don't think women (in general) know what the word SAFE means. They just throw that word around to justify bad behaviour.
This female gets it she’s speaking facts.
I think they all get it. They just don’t care
I always joke with my female friend that if I just walked up to her and planted a big ole kiss on her lips, she would slap me and probably call the police. But if Denzel did the same thing she would just giggle and say, “Ooohhh Denzel…Stooooop!!!!” It’s all about who the flirtation is coming from.
I was out at a festival one year with my boy. We're waking thru a crowd of like 5k people, so it's shoulder to shoulder... I hear these girls next to me say "oooooo, bitch he gotta fat ass" and then my boy yell out "who TF just grabbed my ass" it was one of the girls... I died 😂😂😂😂I was like folks you just got aggressively sexually harassed in front of everybody. But I promise you if either one of us did it, they woulda got somebody to jump us. Women pick and choose for sure when to have a line and when to cross it.
I wouldn’t even “joke” with her like that, unless that type of convo is actually going on
@@Saint_Darius Naw…we’re long time friends. Heck, her jokes make me blush way more than anything I can say to her. 😂
Ur gay
She's someone I will marry she understand what going on in our society 💯
Whoaah bro.....Slowdown with that marriage part.
So many wise men and women on here - I'm yet to see anyone shouting, undermining, or making outlandish statements. So refreshing! Glad I found this channel, and this woman/ video started it all for me.
Very good! She spoke the truth. This is why i'm only chivalrous to the disabled, elderly and kids.
She told a lot of truth here. I don’t disagree with her at all I’m just exhausted with all of this. Ima say something off topic. Being the nice guy sucks. But being the fuck boy that use to be the nice guy is fucks your head up. It’s really difficult to trust women once you see both sides
Kevin Samuels said the same things and women crucified him
I have seen cold blooded murders walk up to a woman in say he was scared to approach them...That does not mean he can't protect you..
ahahahahaha. I'm still trying to understand that. These men will be in gangs, working security/police in hood, professional fighter, etc but will be scared to talk to a woman.
@@targetegrat 😂😂
I like this lady, she knows her stuff 💯
Cassy, I love this! Great job girlie.
Men are way more realistic than women lol
This isn't helping anything anyone.
Comfortable with truth.... Says the truth.... She loses respect for him
You can't win lol
This just a "you gotta put me in my feminine" remix
Well said Miss. Well said.
Morris Chessnut vs. JEROME, the Player from the Himalaya !!!!
Jerome from snowfall
She be droppin mics
all over the
stage 🎤🎤🎤
Nahhhh she COOKED 🤣🔥 shordy ain’t tell one lie
Donkey Kong is craaaaazy 😂😂😂😂😂
This is a bait and switch conversation, she started with womens inconsistency to their own standards like the title of the video suggests but by 3 minutes in she validated the behavior with the only discrepancy being "you can think like that WHEN you're upper echelon" than for the next remaining 8 minutes assumes the stance of said "upper echelon" to tell men why they cant get a upper echeoln women with their lack of understanding of women "...you cant get the 10, why are you looking for the 10, why are you judging the women that can get a 10 cause she doesnt want you" is COMPLETELY not what the original focus was and Im sorry this guy doesn't add to the conversation by not keeping her intellectually consistent, hes just sitting there letting her assault the integrity of reasoning either cause he didn't catch the switch at the time or didnt inquire for consistency to avoid conflict, truthfully whichever it is that shows a lack of frame somewhere.....and that personal confession he made earlier about online assignments of his character was correct he is a simp just smiling, agreeing with no push back not realizing or not acting on a violation of intellect. This is a Chameleon playing with her food right now!!!
Of course. All of these dudes scratching her back haven’t watched the full episode.
@@Saint_Darius they're really not any better than this guy sitting next to her and I just couldn't help but point out the logical inconsistency because some of these comments were praising this bullshit.....the chameleon is the one fellas still aren't looking out for and that's painfully obvious by the comments here, it's also why bait and switch is their strongest mating strategy to date!!!!
She said nothing of the sort lmao heal your inner child bro it’s affecting your hearing
@@seandeans1279 this is an example of baiting with a comment on ones character as opposed to a counter viewpoint.......not an effective approach, and intellectually dishonest. This is not a dialogue in good faith nor does this seem to be out of an interest in someone healing.
@@scary437 he is trying to deflect, diminish, and dismiss your assessment by making light of it. I hate when people gaslight like that.
She said: "men, don't tell women you were afraid to talk to her (which is the truth for some men)."...then says women want absolute truth.
They want absolute truth about certain things is the takeaway here.
This woman is speaking facts..
I’ve never had that problem women have always approached me. Being 6’7 and in uniform helped out a lot.
Im a short king. I never realized how hard I was working at dating until I went out with my friend who was 6’4”. He’s very charismatic but he really didn’t need it. He was chosen as soon as he walked in the room off rip. Women around him were like dogs…you can insult a dog in a pleasant tone and still see their tails wagging away.
Sadly…those broads still weren’t worth it. So I didn’t feel like I wasted effort
I’m sure you understand that you are a huge outlier compared to most men. And this is coming from a guy that’s 6’4
@@MrMan-fx3ow pops told me something at a young age that always stuck out to me. He said like who likes you and you are going to get your fair share of women. He said your fair share isn’t going to be someone else fair share. It might be 50 women in your lifetime and the next guys might be 100. These conversations were unprovoked just out of the blue. Some of the best advice my dad gave me.
Your height alone makes you an exception. They're talking about the macro, not the micro.
Give this beautiful black queen her own show😂
Please don't.
Men stop worrying about women. Focus on getting healthy, being smart, and becoming wealthy bc once you understand female nature .. you can’t Un-see it.
If what she said about women and 'the truth', along with women's intuition were true, then there wouldn't be so many single mothers (excluding those who want access to his money through child support or celebrity or desired looks for 'her' baby).
Keep winning Maria,Karen!!!!!!
Salute to Sis
Bring her back with the regular women on the show , I’d love to see their reaction’s
lol right
As a man. I’m of woman saying men a simple we are just as complicated as woman. And that’s what we need to understand.
I always found it strange when ladies say "men dont like women".
That never made sense to me. That's not the reality i see externally, nor personally feel.
Men don’t like the bs women be on
Sisters need to treat us like they would treat their white boss
Exactly she's speaking trash here
She speaking on men pain points very well.
She says men should open up more... Then goes on to show why men shouldn't open up. Him being "afraid" of you has nothing... You know what. Nevermind. Men, just stop talking to women. Good luck. Lol
I approached a woman and asked for her number and if she says no.
I'll say thank you for conversation I try someone else up in here
I go to very next hot woman I see.
Her logical is off…..a man can protect a woman that he’s scared to approach 🤦🏾♂️
She's not saying he can't. She's saying a woman will perceive that he can't. So, it's best to stop giving her that perception.
@@charlesmclemore5321 so long story short women aren’t the brightest 😂 this is why you don’t let women lead 💯
@@charlesmclemore5321 If a woman thinks like that she probably shouldn't be dating lol...like I wrote earlier I've seen cold blooded murders walk up to women in say they was scared to approach them..They are not actually scared of you lady lol
it really means he's not going too especially the right way bc the woman makes its difficult to do.
@@stevewells9840exactly that’s childish
We are introduced to this behavior in girls as early as elementary school. It's tiring by time you get to your 20's.
I never understand why woman who seem to have all the answers are single or no ring. I’m just saying 🤷🏽
That don’t change the validity of what they’re saying. Many men who know women’s nature and know WHAT to look for in the right woman, are still single. Just timing and their desires in my opinion.
I feel you...I knew 2...One because she was wicked and the other made wise decisions.
I guess all the people with the right mindset are waiting to run across others with the same mindset? It’ rare to have these qualities in todays society But I hope all good souls find a partner
@@jaysonhood that’s a fact. I personally think it’s HARDER for the ones with the right mindset because it’s so much nonsense to filter through. AND I think those of us with the proper mentalities are a lot more quiet than the “wrong and strong” types. I pray, as well, genuine souls find one another in this day and time.
They ain't picking western women that's why they remain single
1:20 it's also very rude if someone opens your door and you answer with anything but a thank you. They're not opening your door because they think your arms don't work. Be realistic
Furthermore, women does be expecting and requiring what them own selves dont even meet up to, like make it make sense
This is the literal only, intelligent woman they’ve ever had on the platform. Also Scarlett Johansson husband was scared to approach her, in the communities that considered flattering because the women understand for a man to admit a fear he’s opening up to you in an intimate way.
07:43 that's a damn lie.
Same thing I just said. Women are delusional at best.
6:40-7:28 no woman has never been able to explain it better. 👋👋👋👋👋
Who cares about them type of women, they gone play they self out the game
BBLs are already out of style. 🤷🏽♀️
Drizzle Drizzle!!!!!!!!!!!
*Shes done her homework*
Who is she?
Damn, who the eff is she?
A woman that can actually speak with a lot of sense and logic?
UNICORN!
What is her online presence?
Askmscassandra instagram.com/askmscassandra?igsh=MTdobmN3bnQxNHg2aQ==
Women judge women far more than men ever do. But they wanna blame men for everything. 😂
Sassy means bold, lacking restraint, defiant, rude showing no respect. From the Cambridge and Mariam Webster dictionary. Idk how they got homosexual from that
Women being labeled “sassy”
I agree with most of her points, BUT, I disagree when she says that most men don't like women. Most men like women, true we don't understand you (most of you women don't even understand yourselves), what we don't like is the attitude. At the beginning of the relationship women are sweet, but once they are comfortable, they become sassy and wild.
Men have to learn how to adapt
Woman feel the most comfortable with ..."truth". Thats the biggest lie told on this video. What truth? What is this standard of “truth" that you speak of? The truth that changes depending on what time of the month it is? The truth of the righteousness of God? You cant just say “truth” and expect people NOT to respond .
1st half was semi accurate. 2nd half nonsense. Men are not telling women in mass that they are afraid to approach them. Women cannot handle the truth. You can tell a woman 100% what the deal is , she will only hear what she wanted to hear and what she wants it to be. All that ""holding space for her emotions" bs is cap.
2:53 Ive noticed that too. Women are too concerned about what other people think of them. Ive got a few female friends. Some that are very attractive physically , some that are not so attractive physically. When I hang with either one , women will treat you differently and assume that we're together. Its all this measuring looks and does this person raise my social status nonsense , and what will people think about me instead of focusing on who people are at heart. im old school and Ill been like Idgaf what you look like .. .if I vibe with you and our personalities mesh, then I vibe you with regardless. Idc if you look like a toad on a friendship level. But I noticed this as well ... everyone putting on this aire of , they dont associate with unattractive people or being overly conscious of their "social status" and how things appear. Its lame asf.
It’s not 6 pack … don’t sugar coat it 😂
Sounds like kevin Samuel
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Let me get this straight so if a man isn’t charismatic enough he’s not worthy of a beautiful woman wow please take us back to the 90’s early 2000’s before all this social media bullshit fucked everything up
Old man's game is over. That's what I called 90s and 2000s. Back then, it was all about getting money and being mature. That's why older man preach its all about money. Those days are over
Good Black Women might be getting tired of the bs themselves
What if he’s suicidal and you poking the bear. Cause it’s apart of reality along with other stuff out here
Cant make sense of a backwards environment. The social contract is broken on a macro level....
Well I feel like real men don't flirt. Flirting is like playing and i don't have time to play. Either you wanna talk or not. Married people flirt so what's the point of it.
😂
I’m not opening the door for you because you are incapable I open the door because it is a tradition which signals to women that we acknowledge that women are special and should be first to be ushered out of dangerous situations (the street) and into relatively safer situations (inside the building).
Where are the women in the comments?😂 I need to hear their opinion on this
I watched the whole thing (this is a clip) and learned a thing or two. I’m going to watch it again with pen and paper. 📝 There’s some good points, I think she had great observations of RP culture and some hard truths that I need to journal and reflect on.
I’m tired of hearing about pookie and ray ray.
Most dudes don’t have rizz.
#SYSBM
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Smh just don’t talk to them
Who is this she's smart
SNL did 2 skits on the topic. One was Tom Brady and the other was just a dude that all the girls liked.
So physical attraction is a myth?
No...physical attraction is like a credit line. The more attractive you're found to be, the more credit you have. A physically attractive man doesn't have to have as much going for him otherwise, than a less physically attractive man. He has a far longer leash to turn her off. That's why so many women complain about the same type of guy. It's generally that same guy, most of them are after. Until later, when their priorities shift to things a less physically attractive guy can work to improve. Mostly financial and emotional security.
No, but it shouldn't be prioritized at or near the top for women, because women naturally have provision and security at the top. But the past 20-30 yrs women have been placing physical attraction at the top and this has been the most unhappiest and trauma period in history for long term relationship success for women.
All respect but there’s some contradictions here. First she said women are confusing men. Then she said women are lowering their standards. Then she said women are critical and won’t go for the guy who has great qualities but is short. Then she says men aren’t good enough to get a 10. I think we need to focus on certain talking points.
Had me until the truth part lol
Guys stop 🛑 representing provision vast majority of women will always look at guys as utilities the new currency is the attention and the lies are the new religion energy is currency 💲💰🤑💵 love is a strange place
This woman is giving misleading information just because a man is scared or intimidated by her beauty that doesn’t mean he is incapable of protecting her
I don’t think that’s what she’s saying.
She totally didn’t say that. lol idk what you were listening to. lol
She's still being disingenuous in the beginning where she's says that women have not done a good job of explaining to men why one is one way and the same thing is the other way with somebody else because of no attraction.
She's implying an effort for a goal to explain it so that men will be clear about it, and that goal has never existed. The opposite is still the goal. To keep men in the dark because it keeps them useful.
The difference today is that women got super conceited about being able to openly and enthusiastically jump in and out of the victim mode to strong and independent mode that men started to believe that women really are that conniving.
Plus the internet allowed men who would normally still stay in the "women are a mystery" BS propaganda to hear stories from other men, and also some solutions, about what they were seeing wasn't their imagination.
And she just went into a ditch now that she said "women are their most comfortable with the truth..."
Actually sexual harassment is fairly straightforward deal, which is very different from the issue this lady is describing which is simply a person not being interested in another person.
Who is she⁉️⁉️⁉️ Protect this woman.
Oh well it’s reality. Men can’t change women, a great company can’t be great without great product
I appreciate her explaining the mindset of these modern women. However, for me I am done with modern Black women it's the 3 F's for me.
FIND THEM, FUKEM, & FLEA and this works for me just fine.
However, when it comes to settling down, I plan on traveling to other countries to find my last forever, not that these women are better looking per se, but it's simply that, women in other countries were raised to truly be a helpmate to a man.
Whole lotta word salad by shaniqua😂😂
This sister is beautiful no exaggerated make-up we always see from other girls . There's beauty in feminity she's the one🤌🤞🤙👌