I agree and I disagree with this. The most healthy way to think about any relationship as a man or as a woman is that you have the power to make change and that when it falls apart, you should look to yourself on how you contributed to its downfall. However, it is still possible for a man to do all of the good things that she is talking about and for a woman to cheat or to tear the relationship down of her own accord. Everyone has the power of choice. In any relationship, even a relationship between a parent and child, each person chooses for themselves and things can go wrong.
The problem with this advice is that it takes all accountability away from women and puts it on the men. So now men have to be accountable not only for their actions but also for the actions of women. Only valuable things are worthy of protection. If modern women continue to behave in a way that is not worthy of protection then men have lost the need to be the protectors. Relationships only work when both parties are behaving in a way that is worthy of their partner's support. Modern relationships and marriages are failing because we are taking accountability away from women and we are blaming for everything that happens in the failed relationship. If a woman gets cheated on she will get all the support she needs to be able to move on. If a man gets cheated on it's his fault for not being man enough to keep her from cheating on him.
I don't disagree with you. There may be a new energy in men accepting this role; or may need to find ways to get passed it. I don't know. Good luck out there. 🥂
It works both ways. There has to be equal effort and time put into the relationship from both partners. When they came from a good upbringing and both invested in each other emotionally and every way, nothing could break it apart.
As of late I've noticed that this seems to be the way her interviews and conversations have gone. I also believe that it is men that hold blame because I believe that this is men evolving into a new state to be able to repair the damage. The unfortunate part is that the complimentary nature of man and woman may need to be sacrificed for each to complete the circle.
This take on men being the only ones responsible was true pre-1960's and pre-femenist movement, but how can you still blame men for a woman's decisions when she is allowed to make her own decisions, by law, in today's society. Her decisions, her responsibility for the outcome.
I want a man who knows what he wants from life, who will also assume mi life plan! I want him to do what I tell him. I want a man who knows what I want from life and who will be able to fulfill everything for me !... of course?!…hi hi ha,ha. They want a protective man, from who ?! and who protected them until they met HIM. The man is not obliged to assume the woman's life. Only an Insecure woman makes such demands! A woman who knows what she wants from life is looking for a partner, not a slave! Women who have these desires, in fact, only think about Them.
I agree and I disagree with this. The most healthy way to think about any relationship as a man or as a woman is that you have the power to make change and that when it falls apart, you should look to yourself on how you contributed to its downfall. However, it is still possible for a man to do all of the good things that she is talking about and for a woman to cheat or to tear the relationship down of her own accord. Everyone has the power of choice. In any relationship, even a relationship between a parent and child, each person chooses for themselves and things can go wrong.
The problem with this advice is that it takes all accountability away from women and puts it on the men. So now men have to be accountable not only for their actions but also for the actions of women. Only valuable things are worthy of protection. If modern women continue to behave in a way that is not worthy of protection then men have lost the need to be the protectors. Relationships only work when both parties are behaving in a way that is worthy of their partner's support. Modern relationships and marriages are failing because we are taking accountability away from women and we are blaming for everything that happens in the failed relationship. If a woman gets cheated on she will get all the support she needs to be able to move on. If a man gets cheated on it's his fault for not being man enough to keep her from cheating on him.
I don't disagree with you. There may be a new energy in men accepting this role; or may need to find ways to get passed it. I don't know. Good luck out there. 🥂
It works both ways. There has to be equal effort and time put into the relationship from both partners. When they came from a good upbringing and both invested in each other emotionally and every way, nothing could break it apart.
The problem is that modern women dont believe that....
As of late I've noticed that this seems to be the way her interviews and conversations have gone. I also believe that it is men that hold blame because I believe that this is men evolving into a new state to be able to repair the damage. The unfortunate part is that the complimentary nature of man and woman may need to be sacrificed for each to complete the circle.
No. Every adult person should have their own responsibility. What a lie
the key is, if you found bullshit adult, leave them...if you engage and choose them, you are the problem as well
This take on men being the only ones responsible was true pre-1960's and pre-femenist movement, but how can you still blame men for a woman's decisions when she is allowed to make her own decisions, by law, in today's society. Her decisions, her responsibility for the outcome.
that's why she said in islam
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Yes!
I want a man who knows what he wants from life,
who will also assume mi life plan!
I want him to do what I tell him.
I want a man who knows what I want from life and who will be able to fulfill everything for me !...
of course?!…hi hi ha,ha.
They want a protective man, from who ?!
and who protected them until they met HIM.
The man is not obliged to assume the woman's life.
Only an Insecure woman makes such demands!
A woman who knows what she wants from life is looking for a partner, not a slave!
Women who have these desires, in fact, only think about Them.