3 THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO TO STAY EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY by RC Blakes
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1. Don't compare.
2. Don't complain.
3. Don't compete.
Joyful Joy 💪🏽❤️💝✨
I be tellin ppl. Stop comparing me with other ppl. QueEn out!!
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HELLO. Comparing yourself to others is awful because God made you to be yourself. Complaining about your loved ones won't change them so appreciate them the way they are, because God made them to be themselves also, and stop competing because there's no winning when you claim to be better than others because that's self righteousness.
No, im not competing with no one or comparing myself. They be doing that. I just have high self esteem bout myself, I do expect them 4 who they r, they judge me. Im not going lower my self esteem 4 anybody. Im a QueEn in GoD eyes im going expect the protion!! Im keep hold my head high, Im going walk in Love and forgiveness no what!!
I was married to a narcissist for 15 years
But I’m free now since April 5,2019
God answered my prayers
But I always watch your videos
Shanikwa Green 🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹
Shanikwa Green what happened
God's Daughter
I put God first
Instead of my own fleshly desire
I made up my mind to do it Gods way
Shanikwa Green yes god answered me too and my faith in him will never decrease. I’m out now after 12 years and the happiness I feel is contentment god bless you
Hi Ms. Shanika Green
I was married to one for 19 years please tell me how can I move forward without damaging someone else because I have already damaged myself.
You have such a nice calming presence. Hope you will always stay grounded - the world needs more Christians who actually exhibit Christlike communication 🤗.
Yes, agreed I had given up on pastors until running into Blake's channel.🤲💌
Agree his presence is very calming. Uniquly so
Pastor is a blessing in my life. He is a logical, kind and real man of God. I love the real life lessons. I have learned so much. Pastor is a true blessing 🙏❤😁
Amen Rev Blakes I can truly comprehend how you make your message so relatable in real 🙏🏾👼🏾time peace out🕊
Yes, we need more & 1s who are true
I’m not a Christian but I love this guy and his videos!
Monica Yearwood That means a lot to me. 🙏😊
Monica Yearwood May God Bless you anyway! Take care.
VIP Helper thank you! 💕
Monica Yearwood You’re missing out. Jesus is so amazing!!
This guy is a full grown Man. I love Men NOT Boys!!
This is crazy! I was just in the breakroom at work thinking how all my friends are getting married and I'm single, but then snapped out of it. I came to my desk and this video reinforced comparing to others is the worst thing to do. Thank you God for always using others to send your message to keep up strong in this world.
“Comparison is the thief of Joy” - Theodore Rosevelt
Don’t COMPARE, don’t COMPLAIN, and don’t COMPETE....I needed this word. Thank you so much. Love you
You know you come on here too much when your Jamming to the theme song!!! Well, you have my support and may God continue to bless you and your family for uplifting his children .
Brandy Welch haha so true.....
Love it
Fr , the intro when he says he wants to talk about "booty calls" 😂😂
@@STNY2012 lol
Lmboooo yesssss Omg I was thinking the same thing
Yes. We don't want a C in life so we should not compare, complain or compete. We want an A in life so we should activate our faith in God, accept that God knows best, and appreciate what we do have and what God has, is and will do for us.
Your comment is inspiring and beautifully said. Thank you for sharing . I'm going to screenshot your comment. 🙏❤😁
Pastor, your pauses with facial expressions and eye flicks with a stop, glances are priceless!
True,he takes too much tym making expression,the video become too long boring
Eunice Nasilele use them as your Selah moment. I like his speed because then what he says sinks in.
Eunice Nasilele No ma’am I don’t agree with you there. Take the time to absorb and feed off his message...however long it takes. He never goes over an hour and everything he discusses...:if applied in your life will help you. Take out the time to better yourself. Nothing Quick Sticks!
Memes right?! Lol
@@sophia4christ agreed. I love his thoughtfulness.
Thank you for this message. It's all I needed to hear in my break
I left an abusive marriage of 12 year. It got worse when I left as my ex stalked me, tracked my phone , tracked my movements and kept abusing me through emails. I had to keep hiding, I had could buy new phones every now and then just to change his tracking me. It was a horrible life. I finally choose to leave my country and go no contact. It's been six months. I had to leave my kids behind. A painful decision to make, but I am glad I choose me. He picked them and he denies me access to them as a punishment for leaving the abusive marriage. On the day I was leaving the country, he had worked hand in hand with government and put me on immigration watchlist. So I couldn't travel and said I will never leave the country. I had to seek court intervention. Thank you Pastor RC Blake's for what you do. You have taught me Soo much. I have learnt to fully trust in God and He carries me along. Thank you for your prayers
God bless you 🙏💞, I have similar story. Let God help us which nobody can understand the pain we passing through. Let this pain bind us to the Word of God be rooted deeply in His Love and Word. Let we see His Love surrounding us and let we have Angels for friends
This message is right on time as I’m taking a Facebook and Instagram fast.... I’ve been comparing myself and feeling unsuccessful.... getting better😊
Same here!! It's a distraction from Santan. Fill your soul up by watching inspirational videos!! The best is yet to come doll!
Yola Mayo you are not alone. The struggle with social media is real, but so is Jesus. Like you I’m spending more time with the Lord. 😊❤️🙏🏾
I know what you mean!
social media can be detrimental if we don’t have a healthy relationship with ourselves and God, and it can distract us from the work we have to do to better ourselves.
I am not a Christian, in the religious sense, I do absolutely believe the universe is one of intelligent creation..
I decided as a teenager that comparing myself to others wasn't a viable path to self worth, so in choosing NOT to compete with peers/ cliques, I opened the door of possibilities for expanding my horizons, I don't complain because as RC says, it can temp Fate, don't sweat the small stuff, save your energy for the important stuff.. these 3 steps lead to real happiness... I'm one the happiest people I know but never ealized I had the key until I watched RC's video.. I will give this message to the youths, they also grow tired and weary in confusion..
Thank you R.C.!!
it's simplicity is brilliant!! Bless Up!!!
Greetings from Mississippi!! I've learned so much from your videos. You're teaching things l wish my father had taught me, even though I was raised in a two parent household. God bless!
I definitely feel the same way... I'm in Mississippi also bye way of Michigan! I really feel the realness of this Pastor.
Your r correct!👍👍👍👍👀✌ BE HAPPY!!! Celebrate everyone!!!
Compare OURSELVES to JESUS.
BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT WE ARE BLESSED WITH.
BE HAPPY & PEACEFUL WITH YOURSELF!
DON'T complain!
AMEN! Pastor, great message for the New Year & New Decade!
Classical manhood is sooooooooo desirable!
Only question is dose it still exist?
True Gentlemen
Yes it is!
You Are Heaven Sent Pastor Blakes.. To God Be the Glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Love your wisdom...the tone of your voice is very soothing in light of delivering powerful messages proving you don't have to hoot and holler to have a powerful effect,.
Thank you 🙏
Yes! Pastor delivery really allows you to listen and comprehend his teaching. He's a true gentleman with a lot of swag. Lol
Thank you Pastor I needed to hear this just earlier today I was crying in my shower trying to figure out why did my family attack me when I’ve been nothing but so nice and kind to them finding out about the Narcissism May 2019 Has open my eyes Even My Own Mother This Is Sad To Me I believe God has another plan for my life I believe he has a family that’s waiting on my kindness 🦋🦋🦋 Thank You Again Pastor R C Blake’s Jr.🦋🦋🦋
Just know, that you’re not alone, I feel the same way and my family treats me like an outcast. I’m glad that God allowed them to reveal themselves for my wellbeing to make me stronger.and wiser.
Butterfly Luv Thank You For Your Kind Words I Appreciate You 🦋🦋🦋
I waz just scrolling through and i seen ur message, I cant cry no more, my family been comming up against me for yrs. Im even alot of spiritual attacks. My own son want even come take my clothes 2 wash them. My favorite aunt got offend cause i wanted dig in the garbage and get a sock i made amistake throw away, then she throw my past up?? Lol i yes its true i never digged in the garbage, I asked them to disinfect the the shelter my children i was in. Long time ago, Then i said the bible say judge and yea shall not be judge. I told her if i offended her forgive me. She really didn't say nt. She has been a Bless 2 me. That kinda did some to me. I couldn't cry, GoD brought bac. 2 my remembece that this is part of my past. I use 2 be so deep in church, im not no more. So i have 2 get the lesson out of this. They really dont want me r anyway!! When i first came down here i felt the tension in my son apartment. Both of my aunt's was there. Its not that i dont love my family they got issue with the way i carry myself. I see myself as a QuEen im not going lower my self esteem 4 Nobody!!!
First Lady do u remember little Sally walker sitting in a saucer cry sally cry wrap ur wiping eyes put ur hands on your hip let your backbone slip!!! 😂 It ur time First Lady rise!!!! GoD is GooD!!
Chris Brown Thank You For Sharing Both Comments I Really Appreciate You. Let’s Pray For Each Other 🦋🦋🦋
I love listening to this mature spiritual man everyday. I'm learning what it means to be a queen and loving me first. He is my spiritual father.thank you for your blessings
Can't wait for you and lisa .to hit my home town LONDON England. Amen.
Word. Take all your sistas
Been waiting on them for years. Bring it on.
Were they able to make it considering Covid?
You are literally my new favorite UA-cam speaker!! I just discovered you 2 days ago and I can't stop listening. God Bless you, for being the blessing you are for us all.
Andrea Quinata Johnson Thank you.😊🙏
Lisa peeking out of the window smiling in the background, priceless ❤️❤️❤️
Ive been watching ur videos since November 2019. You are a Godsend. Ur advise ,Godly wisdom infused with scriptures are appreciated. God bless u ,ur family and ur ministry. Have a blessed 2020
I totally with RC, everywhere now is toxic, very few places are not. This is not we see from a negative eyes, it is the reality. Especially when you do so much inner self work, you will see more clear how sick and toxic this society is now.
Pastor, I like your definition of real prosperity. This is a good talk. Thanks
Shalom pastor Blake
Thank you for always praying after your message.Its been such a blessing to me.Words can tell you how much i need it at times!bless you
You bless and encourage me. And at 68 years young, I learn from you !
Sir, you were shared with my by a new facebook friend that is in a narcissistic abuse recovery group I joined and I could not be more grateful. You have been a voice of reason and inspiration to me and your scriptural-based messages speak directly to my soul and heart. Thank you for the passionate sharing of your knowledge through this ministry. You are truly saving lives - mine included!
Thank you sir I've heard you several times the universe should hear you so it would save the cries and the demise of our young ladies it is true a PhD woman letting a GED man run her life and have the audacity to cry behind them wow she pay the rent car notes and he talked down to her I pray that this universe would speak to them and tell them who they are I think if God had meant for a man to rule you he would have given you a body and a neck not a head just keep preaching keep instructing keep uplifting I appreciate you thank you sir
Pastor I’m learning so much from you, and your humble spirit. God bless you.
Bishop RC Blakes Jr.'s LESSONS ARE BLESSINGS❗️
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Pastor Blakes, I came across your page at the perfect time. I have resolved to grow closer to God this year. My church fasts every year in January and this is the first year in the 5 years I've been attending that I decided to fast. I believe the Lord revealed your ministry to me for such a time as this, because I have recently divorced after being in a toxic relationship for 15 years. God has also been showing me how rejection from my father has influenced much of my life and many destructive decisions I've made. I have watched your teachings on these issues, and many others over the last couple of weeks, and God has been downloading so much knowledge, wisdom and revelation through you. I can't get enough!! I am grateful for your ministry and how it is helping me and many others to live life to its fullest! I pray God's continued outpouring of blessing and favor on you, your family, & your ministry, for I have been GREATLY TOUCHED, CHANGED & SET ON FIRE BY GOD THROUGH IT! 🔥🔥🔥
Wow! I'm hearing this message 2 years later and after/during a major pandemic. Pastor was really on to something when he said the world is toxic and no place is safe. This man is a Godsend! I'm addicted! Thank you! You've saved my life in a profound way. God bless you and your family! 🥰🙏🏽
Hi there, I am from South Africa. Thank you for sharing this video, it really gives us youngsters a true version of the sad reality that we are currently living in. The matters you are tackling are the true cause of many suicidal thoughts, depression and a result of great discouragement about the future, because through comparison and competition in social media platforms we see ourselves not good enough, not fitting in to the world and we end up getting lost in the confusion because we are thinking that social media posts are a true reflection of a good life that one should desire to have. Thank you very much
I would love to have a pastor like you. You are so right about safe places! You really can't depend upon anything but God! To all those who listen to this but are not Christians... Ask yourself why! Give God a chance.
Such an on time message. Thank you. Blessings.
Self assessments compare what changes we want for ourselves is so helpful.
This message has been a perfect timely word. I sincerely thank you for your ministry Sir. God bless you and your family........ All the way from Australia.🙏
So frequently lessons say what not to do. This lesson of God also provides other ways to lift my spirit and grow...celebrate, learn, observe, be grateful. What an amazing path to reach calm, stability and rest. Oh my God, this is happiness. Thank you.
Exactly! When I slip on one of these, it always causes me mental pain. When I remain grateful, I remain happy!
Thank you God!
Great advice as always pastor 🙂
You have such a CLEAN spiritual presence.
A true righteousness. I’m thankful for you in my life as a spiritual father figure. Your counsel means so much more than I can convey. Thank you 🤍🙏🏽
i love how you present all the concepts of life through your faith and beautiful perspective. Allah give you strength and more wisdom love from 🇲🇦
omg yes yes yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just happen to see this great title i was so excited but now im over the moon youre coming here!!! we readyyyy
New mindset...thank You Lord
I’m so Grateful to have found you! Your Heaven Sent for me! You speak of topics that are of extreme importance and concern to me! I have an inability to find people to speak of these topics with! Thank you 🙏🏽 😌💪
R.C., it's amazing how you come up with great topics and know how to elaborate on them! Stay bless and I believe you will make the best seller's list😊😊😊
Good one
Beautifully said! Thank you for acknowledging the internal and external struggles & solutions of current day humanity. To a positive new decade!
What a coincidence..i just came across this message today January 6th 2021.
My motto from today No competition No negativity Stop comparing! Be Grateful!
Thank you Lord🙌
Man! This is good! Blessings to you RC Blakes.
"Beautiful Praised the Lord" "Their's nothing likes peace and rest Amen"
"Teaching of many blessings 🙌"
"Thankfulness"
Thank you “most people you meet are confused” toxic! We need all the prayers, meditation and advice we can get, living in such crazy times.
I love me some RC Blake’s and Lisa. They are making me such a better person!
Pastor Blakes, I have to tell you, I praise God you are a prosperous man. Your cup is running over and you have quenched my thirsty soul. I am more than satisfied from eating any crumbs off your lavished table. You have blessed my life over and over again. For that, I thank you. Fairfax, VA
Grounded. Soundness of mind. Good for you.
Am getting healed in complaining and comparing to others. Am grateful and God has given me the peace ,being blameless hurtless according to his word 🙏thank you pastor I love you too God bless you
And you're such a GREAT teacher👏🏾💙👏🏾💙👏🏾💙👏🏾💙👏🏾💙👏🏾
I’m here on this video today as well. I’m on my mission to be a better Christian and woman.
Pastor it's an inside job...Love and Light ....
I wake up everyday and open two presents my eyes...Im thankful ...It keeps me grounded...
Thank you for the beautiful message and prayer. God’s Blessings to you and your family.🙏🏼♥️🕊
The knowledge that I was not given by my father I gleam from you and in hopes I may pass on to my son.
I Wish you have all your teaching in Spanish and Italian . Thank you for saving our Queen souls 🙏
Love this man so much. God bless
I receive this message, thank you Bishop. I look forward to many more teachings from you. Ive learned so much and i thank God for you and Mrs. Lisa. Happy New Years to you both.
You are healing me ..I am so blessed having you & your family in my life.♥️🙏✍️
Totally agree!! Blessings to you and Lisa always! Please keep me on the prayer list for all areas of my life. To God be the glory!!
Thank you Pastor Blakes!!by staying non complaining,non competing,non comparing,we find the calmness,the peace,the rest in our hearts and souls!! when we are present in the present moment we can achieve that!!definitely yes!!an awakened soul!!!thank you again!!🙏🙏
You Are Truly A Blessing!❤❤
That is awesome! That is a prayer I need. Rest and Peace! 😭 Thank you!
Such a great reminder about gratitude 😊
Deep, deep wisdom 🙌🏽, Pastor. Thanks for sharing...
Thank you so much for this powerful words of wisdom!!! Blessing for you and your family as well 😘
Your prayers are working.....thank you both!
A beautiful, powerful, and *essential* message! Thank you, pastor 😊 ❤️
Thank you for passing on your wisdom and the help you give.
Thank you Lord that I see and know to be still......Love this whole message🙏! Very well understood....
You and Lisa are in my PRAYERS..
Thanks for your words of wisdom... blessings to you and Lisa.. safe travels... Blessings🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
On time Word!!! God bless yoy❤
Truth, internal safety 🎉❤
Thank you for the prayers.
Thank you for blessing us with your videos. Congratulations on London!
Amen. Your delivery is so real and direct. Keep sharing what God is giving you. Blessings and Peace be unto you.
Thank you pastor ,your message right on time.i said that in my thoughts this werk,ehen it comes to God's ministry there is no competition, the gifts He gave me is unlike the gifts He gave you,there is room for us all.tx for new year message.
Amen Amen great message ,well received ,Thank God, thank you Pastor, God Bless
THANK YOU FOR THESES AWESOME WORDS OF WISDOM AND PRAYERS
Thank you R C Blakes for such a fantastic advice. Really appreciate you sharing your wisdom with the world.
Bless God and thank you! Wonderful words of encouragement for the New Year
You are amazing every time I listen to your wisdom I feel enriched & empowered above all it feels like my father talking to me cause I don't know what it feels like to have one!
Amen and happy New year to you and your family @Rc Blake Jr, hope life is treating you well and family in Texas 🙏
Awesome, Awesome, Awesome Word for my morning commute today. Thanks Pastor!!❤💛
Memories of my sister neenee tonight. I can see her walking down the street and waving for me to just leave everything behind to come with her. She loved me unconditionally but these days it seems like people that come in my path aren't really wanting to open up. I guess I can't say everyone. I have appreciation for someone taking time for me. Appreciation. It's not because I'm desperate. I must be brave and hold onto my faith with God even when I'm on this road that feels like nowhere. U must hear something in my words. They say God does things for ur own good.
I love being me and just because someone doesn't agree with u or seems to have it easier than u isn't a reason to not feel good about urself. We are all people but we are different and that's what makes us special to Jesus and God, to our angels. Don't let anyone take that from u
Awesome word Pastor ‼️‼️ thank you for taking the time to share this with us. Happy New Year to you, your beautiful wife and your family 🌹
you’re so amazing, helping me heal.
This video has been a blessing to my spirit 🙏🏾❤️
I sit back observe , watch, and learn!
Pastor Blake's thank you again for this message it just let's me know lam on the right track I try to live this way God bless you and your family.thank you for your prayers.
Thank you for another video full of wisdom 🙏🏿
GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR BOY DO YOU PUT THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE!!! DON'T COMPLAIN GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME IN SPITE WHAT COMES OUR WAY!! BE. IN COMPETITION WITH YOURSELF🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤