The Scapegoat's Existential Crisis
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2024
- #toxicfamily #scapegoat #awakening
The Scapegoat's Existential Crisis. If you ever wondered why God allows things to happen to you. Why God isn't providing you the support that you need? What your true identity is? Watch this video!
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The cognitive dissonance can be a barrier for a period of time. “Is it really true that I am safer out on the street surrounded by strangers than I am at home? But it feels like it!”
Yes it’s very real!!! That question is a big shift in itself!
Wow, to be my authentinc self without trying to fit in with the wrong people...don t make myself small again just to be accepted. Thank you
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All that a scapegoat can do is choose his authentic self and don't abandon his authentic self and alline with it
Absolutely!! Choose you over them
This kept showing up, and I just ignored it thinking it didnt resignate with me, Wow how wrong I was!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
My pleasure 😇
I'm 36 and had an identity crisis last year and I took to UA-cam and found out sooooooo much!!!! I think your videos were one of the first I watched about scapegoats and narcissistic parents etc.. anyway I ended up being homeless and losing everything I owned and now I'm on my brother's couch healing but I gained the missing piece of who I am
And with that missing piece….. you will rise as you are more whole ❤
This is such a great message accurate as always Candace thank you!
@@ChristianMichelleKeyJohnston it is always my pleasure 😇
I just loved the words this video ended with! ❤ thanks 🙏 Candace ! You are an angel on Earth!
Thanks for the love! Appreciate you ✨✨
How can I accept that what they say is a projection without believing it? I am in the process of healing and I get stuck when they judge me or describe me in a way that I know it’s not me. I want to accept that I won’t go back to the family dynamics. Loved this video! Was light to my heart!
Candace I concur with you I'm one.Candace you look beautiful today love the colours you're wearing.Candace love your brains and beauty.Candace be safe and smart.Jerome❤❤❤
Thank you Candace for your hard work. I really enjoy your videos and your knowledge on self and internal growth. Especially the Scapegoat videos as I was fostered as a baby by an amazing family, but with their religious beliefs and having A* grades, excelling in life, very well behaved siblings, I really struggled in my child and teen years living with my foster/adopted family. Finding out I had dyslexia and spectrum issues as an adult helped me find peace and become more acceptant of myself. But those feelings of never quite fitting in, not belonging and the black sheep, never really go away completely. It only takes one eye roll from older sisters to my mum and I feel like that naughty, odd bod pre teen child again. One of the reasons I moved away to start a new life. I like to spend time with them but more with them individually and not at big family functions.... It's a massive trigger for me unfortunately, which is a shame because they're all amazing, good people and I was lucky to be raised in such wholesome family... It could have been so different if I'd been fostered or adopted into a toxic family. Sorry if I've rambled on too much. Thank you for your amazing videos. Love & light from the UK ❤
It is my pleasure!
❤ So thankful for you!
I’m so glad you are here ❤
I love how excited you are about the work you do, an inspiration 🥰
Thank you! It lights me up to share ✨
Needed this right now💟
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I'm a scapegoat, thanks for helping so much !!!!!!!!!😁😁😁😁
Omg I am 33 and this video is so spot on! I feel so lonely in my family. I want to find more soul aligned friends. love your channel. so powerful
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This is so beautifully explained, thankyou so much. 💖
Very welcome 🎉
I am very much appreciating what you are doing on the channel. And it seems the whole Scapegoat/ Golden Child Narcissistic Family System really hit our recent generations. There is so much you are taping into. Thank you. I definitely feel like the work you are doing is very special.
Your intro was amazing!!!!
Awww thank you so much!!
Can't thank you enough for what you give through these videos. Bless you ❤❤❤
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recently i have started abusing myself - like i say to myself exactly all the things my abusive parents used to say. i know it is just a voice and i feel like i am now realising my inner talk but is it a phase of healing or am i getting worse? because the noise is too loud and repetitive. Also, thank you so much for all the help in this journey. 💕
I know am tired of this energy!! I know am tired of atracking this kind of people. I am really dont get it why people can be so cruel
They are wounded and can’t face it
@@CandacevanDell I think that is what troubles me, that they can ruin peoples life and dont even give damn about it. Thats the hard part for me
@@lovetobe30 yes and the fact they can never admit they we wrong
love you look at you today look at that hair thanks for making the podcast
Gorgeous isn't she? I love listening to her wisdom and learning from her knowledge. However, sometimes I find myself (as a women) looking at Candace's beautiful face, hair and mannerisms, thinking it's like she's a beautiful moving picture... Good genes, gorgeous, humble soul, kindness & wisdom radiating from her personality. She's definitely my favourite, charismatic speaker on all things mindful and spiritual. As well as being absolutely stunning to watch. ❤
@@Mardi-Shorts-DevonGirlUKwow thank you so much! This is one of the sweetest messages!!! ❤❤❤
I’m so glad you like it!! Thanks for watching. ❤
I need help. I had this family system and im stuck in pain and shame so much that i dont have a job or home anymore and they dont care and are damagibg me over and over and im going to die because my physiolygy is shutting down. Please help
When someone is healed why shouldnt he go back to his family?He is supposed to be able to put strong boundaries now.
Nope! The original family doesn’t allow for boundaries which is why he lost himself in the first place. Who goes back to the abuser?
Thank you Candace. I feel you’re one of few who says this. Either you’re strong enough or was wounded badly enough but so many healers/spiritual leaders don’t live by this. I had to leave my entire family and it breaks my heart to feel so alone. Many people who helped me along the path were they themselves in good contact with their family, but I just realised it was never that bad for them. Their family wasn’t abusive, just dysfunctional. What hurts most is having to close the door on my sisters. But they are repeating everything, being in emotionally and physically abusive relationships themselves. Still I’m the one with the problem. ”Mentally ill”. It hurts so much when my mother says ”have you tried any new treatment for your problems” or something like that, like I am the ONLY one in the family having psychological problems. It hurts so much. (This was a few years ago.)
Have you read or listened to neville goddard books/lectures ?
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