spend the week with me - being alone + discussing the future

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 347

  • @toriamatthews9335
    @toriamatthews9335 Рік тому +856

    Perfect timing bestie

  • @femsfables
    @femsfables Рік тому +1

    these vlogs are absolutely perfect! you are just so comforting to watch

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites Рік тому +1

    Hi, I always journal in the morning every day and try to read if I can :) try to go for more walks as well. Thanks for the video!

  • @mellrobert3811
    @mellrobert3811 Рік тому +1

    I discovered your channel a few days ago and I've been OBSESSED with your vlogs so I'm so happy you posted one! 💕

  • @tarynharris
    @tarynharris Рік тому

    my favorite videos of yours

  • @abbyc3412
    @abbyc3412 Рік тому

    Obsessed with your vlogs!!

  • @soggy_teabag
    @soggy_teabag Рік тому

    this was so cozy

  • @celestearcher2193
    @celestearcher2193 Рік тому

    Luv the new avatar, Dad Jake any day ☺🥵

  • @yes-jy8lr
    @yes-jy8lr Рік тому +601

    2:08 what you need to understand is that all we want is that too, fit checks, hauls, literally random vlogs of you existing.. makes me happy a lot!

    • @e4mi
      @e4mi Рік тому +57

      This. I came for books, I stayed for total vibes

  • @danyizhang5560
    @danyizhang5560 Рік тому +180

    thanks to you steph ive normalized taking myself on dates

  • @joand.7809
    @joand.7809 Рік тому +161

    Omg, stephhh. I miss youuu. A week without you is a week not well spent. I'm so excited, gonna watch this before I attend class. Know our priorities, in short, you. Love you!

  • @indirabello13
    @indirabello13 Рік тому +125

    I had the worst day, and you just made it better. This is a comfort place, so thank u!

  • @hannahdigitals
    @hannahdigitals Рік тому +83

    I relate so much to the issue of moving every year, it’s exciting at first but I just crave stability these days. I made a video about it recently too

  • @rachael.m.
    @rachael.m. Рік тому +91

    I love going to the movie theatre by myself. I started doing it to help conquer an anxiety about doing a social activity like that by myself, and now I don't even think twice about it :)

    • @r.22r
      @r.22r Рік тому +5

      Try doing other things too! I go for walks, meals, plays, concerts and everything under the sun! Sometimes the best thing is ones company!☺️ literally no one cares.

    • @rachael.m.
      @rachael.m. Рік тому +2

      @@r.22r Yes I agree, and do all those things too! 😊No one bats an eyelid haha.

  • @oliviaclairexo
    @oliviaclairexo Рік тому +49

    ily steph, you always help us feel less alone too

  • @jennahlatham
    @jennahlatham Рік тому +12

    My biggest fear is never being able to have a baby, dealing with some fertility stuff now. Please send prayers everyone!

  • @mia3343
    @mia3343 Рік тому +23

    These types of videos are my favs!! they're so comforting to me tysm steph

  • @darinab1571
    @darinab1571 Рік тому +24

    This whole video felt like talking to my long distance bff and I love Steph for that and the crippling anxiety when it comes to important matters and putting them off is soo relatable

  • @brookewarren6362
    @brookewarren6362 Рік тому +17

    Please post as many vlogs as you can! I'm a very a very similar age and stage of life but I've recently been through a break up of my long term relationship so I love keeping up with everything going on in your life and how you make your time alone so enjoyable.

  • @noa8160
    @noa8160 Рік тому +4

    ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE BURNT COOKIES!?!?!?! LOL

  • @geenakayla
    @geenakayla Рік тому +14

    steph you're my comfort youtuber. your videos bring such comfort to my life and you feel like a friend. thank you for this, i love you!!💗

  • @vaishnavitipireddy6450
    @vaishnavitipireddy6450 Рік тому +11

    I relate to the anxiety over things I have to do and putting them off. I got much better about it by not doubting myself on whether I’ll do things I should be doing. I took a ‘take it easy’ approach and just let things that need to happen happen naturally, without me having to think and plan for them

  • @directedbylola
    @directedbylola Рік тому +14

    It’s so cool to cherish mundane things and seeing beauty literally everywhere. Steph you’re literally goals

  • @heyhimichelle
    @heyhimichelle Рік тому +11

    I love these vlogs, they make me feel okay with myself and my repetitive days ❤ they're so comforting.

  • @giannachenet4464
    @giannachenet4464 Рік тому +7

    been struggling with being alone in college, your videos always help and make me so happy. thank you for being you

  • @xQueenOfDarknessX
    @xQueenOfDarknessX Рік тому +9

    Thank you for making this. It is so refreshing to see a UA-camr show their everyday life and hear your worries about the future, and even your fears of getting older, etc. I could relate to everything.

  • @v.eronica
    @v.eronica Рік тому +7

    I've missed your vlogs like this so much, as someone who lives a very boring life at home, these videos are so so comforting (especially when I'm feeling lonely), so thank you for making them💗💗
    also to answer your questions: yes I also get super anxious over important things and procrastinate doing them/ thinking about them until the last minute, it's actually the worst thing ever and is a part of why I recently decided to take a break from doing school because I'd always do that with assignments, causing my grades to majorly suffer🙂
    also since I get very anxious all the time I have a lot of fears, but the main ones are driving, also getting kidnapped, heights, being in very deep water too, and failing at life basically (like never being truly happy with my life, never having stability, always having a job I hate, being in an awful relationship, etc.)

  • @cindy80srings
    @cindy80srings Рік тому +9

    steph you have no idea how comforting your videos are to me

  • @shayanijones
    @shayanijones Рік тому +5

    I love that we can all hang out watching Steph’s videos whilst doing mundane tasks. I was just watching this and cleaning my room, feeling less alone :)

  • @sidneykaelin
    @sidneykaelin Рік тому +2

    I’m literally terrified of suffocation. Like an avalanche of snow falling on me?? It’s so impractical but the thought of it makes my heart race

  • @marilynm0403
    @marilynm0403 Рік тому +1

    Steph please read shatter me omg. (on that note you’re my fancast of Juliette)

  • @abcdefgzywvutsr_
    @abcdefgzywvutsr_ Рік тому +1

    Please start a goddamn podcast I would listen to every damn episode😭

  • @renadsul4638
    @renadsul4638 Рік тому +2

    Omg steph are u joking i would die if u became a full time vloger ughhhh i hate reading and I just could never ever read its so hard but for some weird reasons I literally watch all of ur videos and I love hearing u talk but I would literally die if I could see a vlog every week ur so fun to hang with love u from all the way in Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦❤️❤️

  • @alanalevine3375
    @alanalevine3375 Рік тому +3

    this video brought me so much comfort. I just started dorming with new roommates who said I was very weird for choosing (and arguably liking) to stay home and read (over going out), and this brought me a lot of joy and comfort I have been missing I love being alone. Not because I am anti-social, in a bad way, but because it so comforting to have that time, especially living in a big city, which constantly overstimulates me. Thank you for this reminder that it is okay

  • @Harsimran2004
    @Harsimran2004 Рік тому +1

    the " okay and" was major thewizardliz vibes

  • @spencergrace8707
    @spencergrace8707 Рік тому +1

    romanticize a quiet life, there's no place like my room~

  • @sophiazheng9967
    @sophiazheng9967 Рік тому +3

    steph listening to you discuss your future was really comforting to me. Lots of people feel the same way so just know that you are not alone. Wishing you the best of luck!!! You can do this

  • @Chloecrs
    @Chloecrs Рік тому +2

    steph this type of videos is so comforting and really helps us going through lonely times so thanks a lot for that

  • @chloejoy2009
    @chloejoy2009 Рік тому +1

    Snakes are my BIGGEST fear

  • @Un_known02987
    @Un_known02987 Рік тому +3

    You’ve gotttta read shatter me. I immediately became obsessed and finished it all in a week and a half 😩

  • @arielmarie8493
    @arielmarie8493 Рік тому +4

    Your vlogs always make me feel better 🤗

  • @kingkobrajoe7
    @kingkobrajoe7 Рік тому +2

    Learn to make company with loneliness and you will never be lonely!❤️if your alone that’s okay you Learn how to do things for yourself! Little basic things that make you happy! And appreciate life.

  • @saraa259
    @saraa259 Рік тому +1

    pls where did you buy your jewelry and rings from luv u

  • @Alina-ne3gc
    @Alina-ne3gc Рік тому +1

    the GRIP avatar has on me rn

  • @ivanafayzieva2535
    @ivanafayzieva2535 Рік тому +1

    Amazing vlog! Thank you so so much. It was so warm, relaxing and comforting for some reason. We do really enjoy your daily vlogs Steph and appreciate the recent consistence of posting 😊

  • @tiyakaraouni7355
    @tiyakaraouni7355 Рік тому +2

    these are literally my comfort vlogs. love you steph

  • @brooklynburns1381
    @brooklynburns1381 Рік тому +2

    you posted this at absolutely perfect timing! My school just got cancelled for three days, so now I can add this vid into my “eat, sleep, watch Friends, repeat” cycle 😄 PS if u decided to become a full time vlogger i wouldn’t complain bc im obsessed with them lol

  • @kaitlynthomas8448
    @kaitlynthomas8448 Рік тому +2

    You’re my hands down, 100%, forever and always my comfort watch. I love you so much, steph. The vlogs!! This was just so special and amazing. Such a simple video yet I am thinking of it hours later. You make every day you upload (and rewatch on the days you don’t) better for me. Thank you for being the safest place. Another banger of a video!!! 🥰🤍

  • @thesecretofaini
    @thesecretofaini Рік тому +3

    i love your vlogs

  • @trinidadcastro6601
    @trinidadcastro6601 Рік тому +2

    I really love this kinda videos of you

  • @05spring
    @05spring Рік тому +2

    these are my favourite videos u do! i could watch hours of them 🫶

  • @wellemtv
    @wellemtv Рік тому

    Hello friend🙏first time im meet your channel and watching your vlogs video.nice videos I like,
    Im wellem in Sorong Raja Ampat Papua Barat, Indonesia🙏 greeting s

  • @VianncawithaV
    @VianncawithaV Рік тому +1

    Omg I also saw Avatar alone, I loved it so much I was gonna do it again but got lazy 😂

  • @annabellehilder
    @annabellehilder Рік тому +1

    YES I HAVE BEEN WAITING ALL WEEKEND FOR U TO POST

  • @camilla9196
    @camilla9196 Рік тому +2

    Ok personally your blogs are my favorite content that you make! Even if you feel like they are boring i eat it up every time

  • @cheyenneclenney
    @cheyenneclenney Рік тому +1

    every once in a while i have the urge to make a puzzle too. it gives my brain and hands something to do but my family calls me a grandma 😭

  • @juliabrigham
    @juliabrigham Рік тому +2

    i loooove the college vlogs

  • @06charlotte
    @06charlotte Рік тому +1

    oh my god steph im so glad to know that im not only one who is scared of being chased. i used to have recurring nightmares that someone was running after me

  • @kbyedeluxe
    @kbyedeluxe Рік тому +1

    steph is so pretty

  • @alanag04
    @alanag04 Рік тому +1

    my favorite type of videos fr!!! i love uuu

  • @jordyn.renee.w
    @jordyn.renee.w Рік тому +2

    I soooo needed this ❤ I just came down with COVID and have been alone as well. Making matcha at the beginning of the vlog encouraged me to eat since I’ve had no appetite :)

  • @nalaitela6703
    @nalaitela6703 Рік тому +2

    The vlogs are honestly my favorite type of your content

  • @mollynoelle
    @mollynoelle Рік тому +1

    parasocially obsessed with you, and currently unable to stop obsessing over avatar. the past 3 weeks have been a long avatar, fiction hangover. i will be clinging to this thread of avatar content

  • @howelljenkinshsgf
    @howelljenkinshsgf Рік тому +1

    I love ur vlogs thank you thank you

  • @averysnider2838
    @averysnider2838 Рік тому +1

    Steph you should read clan of the cave bear series to enough people talk about it.

  • @johnd.20
    @johnd.20 Рік тому

    Every single UA-camr: Where am I gonna go after I graduate???
    Always the answer: New York, NEW YOOOORK!!!

  • @maggiesarah13
    @maggiesarah13 Рік тому +1

    steph what did you think of love and other words? im on page 100ish and i love it so far!!

  • @armyst_0797
    @armyst_0797 Рік тому

    My comfort yt channel 💖and my comfort personnnn🦋✨🥺😭❤❤❤❤🫂

  • @irammahmood9083
    @irammahmood9083 Рік тому

    Hi Steph...I am completely, totally and absoloutely NOT your target audience, but I love watching your videos...i'm in my 30's and mum of 2 south asian, living in UK, but really enjoy watching your videos. I enjoy the fact that you like your own company as much as your friends' and I wish I didn't feel guilty for wanting that when I was your age...look forward to more videos from u xxx

  • @adeeblackk
    @adeeblackk Рік тому

    You sound exactly like Lindsey Lohan I’m obsessed with ur voice

  • @via1598
    @via1598 Рік тому +1

    these r my favorite vlogs cause it's a reminder that being alone is important.. love you

  • @OneBlackButton
    @OneBlackButton Рік тому

    I just discovered your UA-cam vlogs and I was surprised to learn that you are a senior in college. You actually look much younger than that. Women that do jigsaw puzzles….UGH! I 12:32 just couldn’t sit down and do that kind of hobby. Would rather play The Last of Us 2 or some first-person shooter like #Redfall.

  • @sofiahenderson5396
    @sofiahenderson5396 Рік тому

    omg the hyperfixating on avatar was EXACTLY what i did too bahaha

  • @paigemarie5586
    @paigemarie5586 Рік тому

    she’s looks so much like Stephanie Seymour ⭐️⭐️ I love this so much

  • @jazminee3601
    @jazminee3601 Рік тому

    LMAO TWSIT MY ARM IF YOU WANT ONE 😂😂😂 make more please!

  • @aurelie6577
    @aurelie6577 Рік тому +1

    Watching this video just gave me so much comfort. This is the first vlog I watched of urs and instantly fell in love with u. I already loved ur book videos and just found more videos to relax to.

  • @juhibarai2169
    @juhibarai2169 Рік тому

    off topic but your hair looks so pretty!! haircare routine?? maybe like a self care vlog? love you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @asukiil6049
    @asukiil6049 Рік тому +2

    Are you or will you wrote a book of your own? 🤍

  • @nicol_6957
    @nicol_6957 Рік тому +1

    steph you don't even know how much better your videos make my day, especially the vlogs, I think I love watching them more than you love making them

  • @isabellgrace5440
    @isabellgrace5440 Рік тому

    just watched avatar with my roommate because of! i ❤️jake sully

  • @r.t.laurila
    @r.t.laurila Рік тому

    Where is the zip up from at 19:00? Ur videos always calm me down. Something about just doing ur little tasks is so comforting

  • @sashabowerbank5445
    @sashabowerbank5445 9 місяців тому

    London, Uk. On a day out here i would take you to Camden to see the Harry merch stalls. Grab some food from the market and then go to hampstead heath Park and have a picnic in the sunshine while we read and blast taylor music with iced lattes and people watch making up stories about them. Watch the sunset listening to fine line before we go home. Bonus points if we randomly bump into Harry on a walk while we were there 😂

  • @isabellarayball7412
    @isabellarayball7412 Рік тому

    This was exactly what I needed ❤️. I was also wondering what college you go go

  • @_ZB4
    @_ZB4 Рік тому +1

    Gah love your vibes as always Steph. I’m a huge solo movie goer at 31. Everyone is shacked up in my life and I’m like ‘yes, I will go to a cinema and treat myself damn it!’

  • @afraraisaa
    @afraraisaa Рік тому

    LOVE WATCHING YOUR VLOGS🤍💗🫶🏻✨

  • @faithscameraroll999
    @faithscameraroll999 Рік тому

    steph! can you read “The Housemaid” by Frieda McFadden?? I basically only trust your reviews and it seems interesting but i need another persons opinion💚

  • @toothfairrry
    @toothfairrry Рік тому

    Finally someone also thinks Avatar the way of water movie is so freakin good OMG! ❤️

  • @9i4nna
    @9i4nna Рік тому +1

    i needed this reminder that it’s okay to be alone and spend time with yourself:,) i’ve been feeling really sad lately and this just made my day ily steph

  • @kathleenfromwiller982
    @kathleenfromwiller982 Рік тому +1

    These are my favorite kinds of videos! ♡

  • @bellasibley
    @bellasibley Рік тому

    13:15 watch new girl!!! i feel like you would enjoy.its my comfort show lol.

  • @laceyb7074
    @laceyb7074 Рік тому

    Always post I love just watching your routines. I moved to a new city for college and it is so isolating sometimes and I just don’t have any energy to make new friends. I have moved over 16 times in my life and I know I have more moves in the future. I hate moving and I don’t feel at home anywhere. I hope I do one day. Please keep making videos it always reminds me people struggle with the same things and I’m not the only one.

  • @abbysmith4176
    @abbysmith4176 Рік тому +1

    i just started watching your channel this week and i’m obsessed!! you genuinely seem so lovely, i love your videos can’t wait for your summer vlogs and more book recs 🫶

  • @sydneylamberson
    @sydneylamberson Рік тому +2

    LOVE your vlogs. you should do a reading vlog:)

  • @litsiegs
    @litsiegs Рік тому

    I’m cleaning my bathroom watching this!

  • @madisondorsey27
    @madisondorsey27 Рік тому

    PLEASE become a full-time vlogger

  • @fridarodriguez7610
    @fridarodriguez7610 Рік тому

    You NEED to go ride Flight of Passage in WDW I literally cried the first time I went on it it’s amazing even if you are not an Avatar fan

  • @kamiragovender3205
    @kamiragovender3205 Рік тому

    If you like vlogging and if it isn't too much out of your current work schedule, would you mind doing every week into my semester, or a day every week. I like listening to your voice when i get ready and unready. Your content is great.

  • @user-kc8eb3kl2s
    @user-kc8eb3kl2s Рік тому

    fr i love your vlogs sm maybe even more than book recs (which are still amazing but I'm trying to get out of a reading slump so I have a lot of books waiting tbr)

  • @nishitaa.
    @nishitaa. Рік тому

    ive already watched this video thrice wth
    comfort video??

  • @samanthawilliams3803
    @samanthawilliams3803 Рік тому

    If I don't read every single day and listen to taylor swift i will combust