How To Leave A Church Properly
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Additional tip: Ask God for wisdom on how to go about leaving the church. Let the Holy Spirit lead you. Individual situations will require individual solutions. Only God can assist you on this one. All the best🙏🏾
I agree with you. Laban was not nice to Jacob he was tricky. Probably he would tricked him to remain. Every situation is different. The HOLY Spirit will guide in each situation.
I agree with you wholeheartedly. If the leadership and influence is toxic, seek God and He will bless you with another place to worship Him in spirit and truth.
At my last church ( where I attended for 20 years) the pastor had us convinced that if we left for another church we would be the same as committing adultery. I finally realized this was more like a cult and left. I am so happy in my new church.
Sometimes there is no option but to silently leave.
God is showing me how he led me correctly. I had a conversation with the pastor of a church I had been a member of since the pandemic. I do not agree with their doctrine however I blessed them in my exit. By Gods grace only and left gracefully. Amen.
I have never subscribed to anything ever but today I subscribed to your channel. I happened to watch your video on the 8 Steps To Deliverence pretty much on accident, and had to look up what Deliverence meant, hence your video. But I WHOLE HEARTEDLY NEEDED TO HEAR THAT! I have been looking for answers to say the least and you have changed my heart. Thank you so very humbly from the bottom of my heart.
Thank Pastor Vlad! I've been at my current church for four years and after a lot of prayer and finally God blessing us with a new church this week we say our goodbyes. I served at the church on the worship team for a couple of years and this will be my last time. Usually they give me a couple of lead songs but this time I'm singing only harmonies.
I want to glorify God in everything I do. Thank you for what you said don't leave quietly but also don't disrupt loudly. Take the blessing. And finally shake the dust off your feet!
I needed this word!🙌🏾 Thank you so much! Shaking the dust off my feet and blessing the ministry as I leave.
I feel like this is a one sided response. Sometimes the pastors are not kosher and you’re leaving because of spiritual abuse. I’ve had pastors flat out ignore & avoid me when I tried to schedule & have a sit down convo with them 3 times. So there’s nothing more I could do. I approached it biblically & they spread lies about me instead.
Many pastors will curse you for leaving🥴
I don’t think he’s being one sided, but can definitely understand your point of view. I know a person that attempted to have a meeting, wrote a letter and they refused to allow that person to go elsewhere. In this case you should be at peace that you attempted to do things correct.
@@Musa_Nhlapo yes! You’ve left their covering so your life is doomed smh.
I agree, this is a one sided response. Also he's generalizing particular instances in the Bible. As far as we know Jethro never tried to cheat Moses so it makes sense that Moses would be confident to ask him permission. Laban on the other hand cheated Jacob every chance he got. So why would Jacob ask for his permission? Sometimes preachers just say things that will set up the sheep to be abused.
@@michaelmalaki7176True 🙏🙏🙏
Greetings Pastor. Thank you for this video. God bless you.
Wow! Perfect Timing! Thank you for posting.
This video touched me! It was for me, that’s for sure! Thank you for taking the time to make it!! 🔥🙏🏼🔥
Answered prayer thank you
If you are under a pastor without integrity, you don't need to get permission. That sounds like cultish. You don't need permission. Be polite with your letter of resignation. This is why there is so much spiritual anxiety among people. Too much control. Very sad when people need an adult to tell another adult something like this.
True facts!
Good word 🔥 Shake the dust off!!!!
Just wondering, does anyone ask for permission to join a church🤔. If I joined without their permission why should I leave with their permission?
That's actually a good question. Could you kindly answer this...? We come in peace 😊
You don’t just automatically join a church. You can automatically attend a church but to become a member you meet with the Pastor or Elders and give a credible profession of faith get baptized, and get approved for membership. My last church you had to be attending for six months straight before you could even go to the new members class.
Excellent word my precious brother! 💖
Laban was a narcissist (selfish). Jacob had to leave secretly.
Funny you mentioned having to leave a narcissist silently... I just placed a comment t about my situation as I'm pretty sure thats what I'm dealing with
@@stringerchick3650 Prayers for your safety. God bless your new journey.
Wrong, Gloria. Leaving secretly did Jacob absolutely no good. Laban and his men came after them and found them! And then Jacob had to explain why he left. Jacob should have told Laban those things before he left as reasons for leaving.
@@FRN2013 Jacob did. Laban didn't care, Ergo, Jacob walked. And good for him.
I shook off the dust. It was a raining day when I left and I took my car through the car wash. When I got home I put my clothes in the washer and took a shower as a testimony against that place.
If the pastor is teaching heresy and you know the teaching is not Biblical, leave with as many brothers and sisters as you can. Find a church that is obedient to God’s word. But remember no church is perfect so do not expect to find a perfect church.
Great teaching Pastor. Not heard this before
sometimes it's really complicated! I left a Church in silency bcs i knew what was going to be the outcome! The pastor decided to come after me and cursed me in front of everyone!
Nevertheless i learnt a very valuable lesson. Thank you Pastor Vlad!
Sound and edifying
True,True well taught.
I’m leaving my church because they do not preach deliverance and spiritual warfare and I just think if you don’t preach that then it is not full gospel. They could not help me with the warfare I was experiencing either and kept confusing me.
What if they put a curse on anyone who decides to leave? Some pastors cling to membership and growth and scare ppl into staying even if they’re not meant to be there. It makes it hard to leave and ruins ppls relationship with God. Some places don’t allow ppl to leave honorably and guilt trip and bully ppl with smear campaign to “teach them a lesson”so they feel like they can’t ever leave and that it’s a sin to even think of consider going elsewhere. They say if they don’t like you then God doesn’t like you and they put curses on anyone who leave their congregation regardless of whether ur cordial/formal or not. What should one do in such a case?
Well forgive and move on. I am about to leave a church too and I kind of know there reaction is going to be. Not a good one. but I do plan to write a blessing letter and in that letter I will also be giving thanks for being there for my family in many situations.
Not all of them are bad I recently left my Church and they wished me well and I did the same
This is SO TRUE!🔥🔥🔥
If the church you're leaving has issues they have no desire to resolve, it's disingenuous to bless them. If anything, that could actually harm the church to give them a blessing when they likely need chastisement from God.
You are truly a man of God. Ever rime I find myself in a situation and pray about it, you make a video about it. Just started thinking 2 days now about leaving my church.
Tiana a woman in a Belgrade hospital is in critical condition and in need of prayer. I beg of you in Jesus' name to help her, her mother is devestated by this. This is going on for like 2 weeks. And one more thing her neighbour uses witchcraft. I believe it is a witchcraft attack on her life so please help her. Her hemoglobin count is low and she was coughing up blood.
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This is one thing I keep thinking about, and it's driving me crazy. My church I'm thinking about moving on from, I have only positive things to say about, it's where I got saved, it's where I have met some of my lifetime friends, and where I serve at in many different ways. However I believe it is time that I move on and take my gifts to serve elsewhere. And as I grow more knowledgeable in my faith, I'm starting to disagree more and more with the theology that is taught.
I this Vlad Savchuk is coming from a good place; however, every pastor is not a good leader and God does not intend for people to suffer like some of the comments I have read. I think it would be nice to have balance in this presentation so people are not stuck in foolishness.
Thank you, exactly right!
Years ago I left my former church with permission. From my side i felt liberated and had peace in my heart. At the other hand it was maybe better to leave secretly. The Pastor and wife are still praying for all the people that left the church to come back because they mix things up with witchcraft in that church.
I wonder how does the church mix witchcraft with Christianity?
This is beyond my understanding really!!!
@raranerakoma1993 ...
Oh dear, your comment came on the same day I am questioning my own perception of witchcraft in the Christian church. My recent research on this issue is about a broader interpretation of the word witchcraft. It's about churches using worship methods to get people to join in excessive jubliation which brings people into states of consciousness that they then interpret as being filled with Holy Spirit (when it really is the physical flood of endorphins,dopamine, saratonin and adrenalin.)
Just like when people attended rock concerts and went crazy wild and worshiped Beatles attributing magical power coming FROM the Beatles when it was really coming from the participation ... the combined involvement of individuals in the crowd (vibrations) °♤°
@@leighburville2717
Thanks for your clarity.
This is too deep!!!
May God have mercy on HIS church, especially during this era where life is unpredictable. Once more, thank you so much.
@raranerakoma1993
Yes, the buildings are filled with all kinds of people speaking good scripture things, singing loudly, and waiving their arms high in the air, even shaking their hips and jumping up and down yelling in "tongues". I started to explore that kind of church a block away from my new apartment every Sunday and Wednesday last year; and I prayed every single da...
"Holy Spirit, I believe, help my disbelief!"
because it seemed so extreme and flamboyant to me, like crazy people. ( No more than 40 members.) They were very sweet people, all lovey-dovey, but nobody had time for newcomers. They. sang a lot! And thelined upup at the altar by the dozens and did hands-on healings and shouting in gibberish; people fell on the floor and just layed there. I swear nobody actually got healed.
The young pastor had been obese but had one of those gut- bypass surgeries and had a very badly bum leg. His young wife had only one lung, asthma, was hospitalized during the year, and had 4 young children. The prayer-leader was obese and diabetic with stage 3 colon cancer. The top 8 leaders were all extremely overweight, fashionable and flashed their abundance. I loved them all very much, but it just all felt crazy to me. I prayed all through every service that the Holy Spirit would help rid me of my suspicion and disbelief, but he never did. So I and 2 other grandmas stopped going and started texting eachother regarding our doubts, no holds barred.
We started to watch videos about why people left these churches and everything we could find regarding the issue of cults. That's how I came to realize what we had been suspecting all along.
It was a form of group trance or hypnosis or witchcraft... not "slain in the spirit" nor work of Holy Spirit.
I feel very sorry for the people because they were really nice people trying very hard and believing they were on an awesome, narrow path to God!
I'm done! Thanks for reading!!
They mix up witchcraft😰🥴✌🏾🏃🏾♀️
🔥🔥🔥 Amen.. don't drag it, deal with it before stepping into the next season or relations...this is actually how Healing and Forgiveness are able to take place through the Walk with GOD and even Leaps of FAITH during "stuck" situations, so your not walking around as a Oppressed Or God forbid Possessed Christian 🔥🔥🔥
I just wanted to say, your comment spoke to me so much right now. I needed this immediately. I’ve been feeling this type of way for about 2 months but felt guilty about it. So thank you for letting God use you! You’re a blessing! ❤️❤️
@@01adgilbert God Bless you Sister 💛
what if you go to a mega church and the head pastor has never seen your face before?
Then you have it easy just leave.
Thank you for this lesson today. We went through this at the church I attend, there was a lot of sorrow, others were dragged out and it's been hard. But in all I'm leaving it in Gods hands, I don't want to fight against Gods will. God bless you and your ministry.
The pastor changed the title from relationship to Church. Of course, if you leave a church, you should give notice. But there is no right way or wrong way to leave a relationship. Unscribed.
If it's a pagan church you don't need permission to leave it as the Bible clearly states come out from among them it didn't said ask permission to leave, and most cases you never did ask permission to join their pagan church so you owe them nothing only God almighty himself you owe your life not the wicked pagans churches
Jacob and his wives left Laban's house that way, because they were resentful... and ran with a spirit of trauma it seemed to me. He tricked Jacob many times and the daughters felt used...I definitely don't blame them, but to honor your parents yes they should have went to Laben with their concerns...it's hard to be human thank you Jesus for your Holy Spirit forgiveness and the ability to repent and walk in freedom into eternity.
Just leave
Can you or do you even read the Bible? Shaking the dust off your feet was to condemn a place that didn’t receive the disciples.
“And wherever they do not receive you, when you leave that town shake off the dust from your feet as a testimony against them.””
Luke 9:5 ESV
Folks, find someone who understands the Bible. Vlad is not it.
Pastor Vlad, the Truth in the Bible says differently from your description about Jacob. How do you tell?~“Now when Rachel had given birth to Joseph, Jacob said to Laban, “Send me away, that I may go back to my own place and to my own country.”
Genesis 30:25 AMP
“Early in the morning Laban got up and kissed his grandchildren and his daughters [goodbye] and pronounced a blessing [asking God’s favor] on them. Then Laban left and returned home.”
Genesis 31:55 AMP
Some pastors think that they own the people. I went to my pastor and informed him politely that the Lord wanted me to attend another church and I was cussed out. I left anyway. His demise was worse than mine. He was fired and stripped of all duties. You can't use witchcraft on people.
Thank you for this practical teaching. Appreciate it.
God bless you.
I know this isnt about minisrty BUT, my husband attacked me last night after threatening to kill my cat.... he bit my nose and made it bleed. This isn't the 1st time I must admit but it's getting worse. We have a 1 year old son together. I am a stay at home mom so I'm pretty much dependent on him. I don't know what to do. I have prayed for him tried casting out demons. Will God be mad at me for wantong to leave. What can I do. Please pray for me and him, his name is Justin Anthony Stringer. Any advice I would really appreciate
Please go file for a restraining order and get away from him now
God is a *loving* God; He would never want you to stay in an abusive relationship. Please file a police report and/or call the domestic violence helpline. They will help you get out safely if you have no family that can help you. They can also provide free legal help, counseling, housing, and job assistance. If you have family or friends, call them and let them know what is happening and ask if they can be a place of refuge for you and your son. You don’t want to stay in this relationship, as it will damage your son. You don’t want him to grow up with your husband as an example of what a loving husband and father is supposed to be. Protect you and your son at all costs; that is what God would want you to do. Sending you love; I pray you have the courage to take action and not stay stuck and in danger any longer. ❤️🙏
My mom left my abusive alcoholic father when I was 3 and moved cross-country ..
and it was one of the best decisions she had ever made..
If you decide to leave. Write a note, pack your essential belongings and leave.
Leave, and never return. Do not look back.. never look back..
May the Lord bless you and your son with a kind, strong and present father/husband in the all-beautiful name of Jesus
Don't ask pastor vlad advise. The only thing that matter to him is his neurotic religion. You are not important to him. Discuss the situation with your family or good friends.
@@heinmolenaar6750 Repent. Pastor Vlad has openly advised on his teachings to run away from domestic violence and call the cops.
Thank you 🙏 I needed to hear this! 🥰
this really blessed my soul. I thank God for this counsel. Thank you man of God
Please man of God.
I have a question,if someone is in a church where they G.O is not in tune with God. Or in a church where the set man is a false prophet,how did a person in such ministry leave?
Because I noticed that the false prophets ministries are like snares, when they caught you,they will do anything to keep you excerpt you ran away yourself.
Please I need an answer man of God.
Thanks and God bless you
Run!!
I felt it was time to move off..due to some reasons only Jesus and I kept within us..still I am thinking if its so needed by Jesus..to say them openly and go..I feel they would not miss me..the times I felt I was deserted made ..my decision.. I'm glad if somebody pray to God for me..
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 THANK YOU !
I won’t drag the garbage of the old season into the new season !
I told my small group I was leaving. I had pretty much stopped going to services because it was just becoming a motivational speech every week. It was more about numbers and people being happy than anything else. When the small group was making plans to go to a local haunted event leading up to Halloween, I knew it was time to just stop going. There was other stuff too, but I was trying to stay plugged in somewhere. The last church I visited was having a beer party…. I just turned around and left. (25th anniversary of the church but still…. Smh)
I'm going through something similar. They were celebrating Halloween type things, and having women pastors (when there is clear instructions on order in the Bible, and overseers also known as pastors, must be men).
@@DennisJ42 The issues at the church were fairly extensive. Not willing to take a stand in anything that might offend someone. The focus was on numbers and growth for sure. Women pastors is not an issue I am willing to fight because of Deborah and Jesus was about educating and equipping women. It was pretty culturally radical do Mary to be the one who announced to the men that Jesus was no longer in the tomb. A woman still has to be accountable to the Word of course. But when teachings are overlooked and bypassed about morality and there is no depth to the relationships, I cannot stay. I also got yelled at for suggesting doing a prayer meeting on a larger issue.
@@JillCee oh I'm not saying women weren't important. You're right in they were trusted to bring the message that the tomb was empty. But it is clear when in a church they are not to be pastors (overseers). Does it mean women can't tell people about Jesus outside the church? No, I don't believe so. Man is the head of woman, and Jesus is the head of man / the Church. It also describes the qualifications of an overseer in a church. If we start saying "oh but things have changed and are different now" .. then are we conforming to the world? Or to God's Word, which was spirit breathed? Paul spoke about this, and the order that God made men first.
This isn't about making women feel less important, they can do things us men can't do, one being bearing children in the womb (which is an amazing thing).
John MacArthur also preaches on this. You should look it up. :) He should be able to convey it clearer perhaps, then I can.
The church I went to is pretty much preaching prosperity gospel.
@@JillCee and that's no good that you got yelled at for requesting a prayer meeting.. :/
@@DennisJ42 The prosperity gospel is problematic for sure. But the problem is churches have just gotten away from Scripture and knowing God. I have seen some amazing women pastors working alongside their husbands. In each case, they do work under their husband’s authority. I have definitely seen women pastors go awry as well. We just need to keep seeking God’s discernment so that we can find our Christian family.… and keep diving into scripture to learn it and hear His voice as well.
Thank you Pastor Vlad
For those leaving because of spiritual abuse, word curses, or it’s in a way where God hasn’t shown you where to go but it’s not an environment you’re not growing in. Stop, take a moment, and examine your spirit. You don’t want to play the blame game. Before you leave ask God for a peaceful transition. Like Vlad said do things with integrity. He’s sees our hearts. His word says I’ll even make your enemies at peace with you. We have to remember we don’t wrestle against flesh and blood but principalities. He is right when he says pray a blessing and dust off your feet. I’ve seen people leave in offense and taken it where they go. It’s important to remember above all God is your God, no matter where you go you have to submit to Him and His word! No matter where you go what’s in you and the test God has set up for you will be put before you and you have to submit yourself to the Potters wheel. It’s not about the physical place as more it is about where you are in JESUS! The physical place around you can change but you will still have to trust God’s word and will, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit to navigate you. Just remember to examine yourself I pray this has blessed someone as it has me 🙏🏽
This is what I needed to hear before leaving my current church and ministry
Amen. Also pray for them contiuelly. Be humble always.
Can you give us advice if the pastor is a dictator and the body isn't aloud to talk about issues in the leadership.
Also the leadership can do whatever they want, and there is nobody to answer to, alot of leaders bully the one under them and cover each other's backs. The congregation is to scared to say anything as others that do have being made an example of, striped from there position or excommunicated.
Multiple people have approached the pastor were he processed to rip into them, tell them to go if you don't like it.I approached him and he ripped into me and gave me the story about korah rebelling against Moses and that I had a perverse spirit.
All the elders are yes men and also the board I've being to the leader that I had an issue with in the music team as she wrote up a rule book for the team and she wasn't living by it, multiple other people have left because of her. She denied everything and ran to the pastor were I got made an example and kicked off the worship team along with multiple others being kicked off that supported me with the same issue .
I went to an elder he gave me the famous script the pastor always says, of humble yourself and in due time God will raise you up. I told him it's not about my position it's about how toxic everything is, the pastor fails to quote the scriptures before the scripture in. 1peter 5, that the elders and shepherd should not lord it over the flock which they are.
Over 50 people have left because of the pastors bad theology and the fruit of it is toxic leadership that keeps getting worse and multiple people leaving.
What can I do in this situation, because with out truth you cannot have love stated in 2,3 John, also says if they don't preach the truth don't have anything to do with them. I've being told to shut up and dont rock the boat which I am ATM but all this bitterness and resentment competing is horrible. If we can get it out and talk about it in truth , than the body won't have unity and no revival.
Do I leave and give such a toxic pastor with bad theology my blessing and get his, what about him being corrected, it says in the word to bring him before the congregation to repent if he doesn't listen, if I tried that the witchcraft will be so string Il be shut down by multiple yes men, do you have any videos on how to deal with a toxic pastor if not it would be awesome if you could brother, bless you and your ministry, I'm at a loss.
Allen from New Zealand.
Great timing, I just left my church last Sunday - great advice for going into my next
I am not going to say a word. All the leadership will say, "Go be great.' 😂
Who else thought the title said how to leave a prosperity church 😂😅
Learned some stuff. Thank you for sharing.
In case i was catholic and im leaving becase i believe they teach the Bible wrong and things that isnt even there
Very good counsel. Thank you Pastor Vlad.
I needed this because the Apostle over our church is in another state and he’s been posting about political things and we are on opposite sides. I can’t expect him to hear from God for my church ⛪️ or me if he’s deceived about this. I brought it to my pastor’s attention. I’m expecting my last day to be next Sunday when we have a graduation for a mentorship I co-taught for 6 months. I’m just trying to decide whether to go to my current church today or visit another one.
My wife’s cousin is the pastor at our church. Many people have left due to problem with the pastors sermon and message. There are many problems at the church I Don’t know if I should stay and fight or find another place. Life is really short I don’t want to waste any more Sunday’s and opportunities to get closer to God. The pastor is a little shifty is very impulsive and honestly I don’t believe God is working through him anymore there’s to many lies. It’s hard to listen to a sermon when all you think about his your pastor is full of lies. It’s hard to leave because my wife’s family but I fell the longer I stay ther weaker my faith will come. How do I bring this conversation up?
I left silently. No fanfare, no words, no nothing. I left because I had been called lazy, a liar, told that I could not even get my house in order, accused of being divisive and the pastor had let questionable doctrines creep into his church. I left because the pastor killed any and all desire to serve within a church, whether as a board member or in any other ministry. The pastor quenched the fire that had once burned within my soul. Now all I can do is try to make it from one day to the next. No. Asking permission to leave or asking for the pastor's blessing upon leaving was not an option for me.
If your life is in danger. Call the police, get it on record.. and then you can leave properly.
I left church A and went to church B without telling the pastor in church A about this (in spite of the fact that I was a member in church A for several years).
A few months after I settled in church B, I told someone from church A that I left, don't know if he passed it on to the pastor or not.
By the way, I didn't attend church since the covid pandemic started, after the pandemic I simply went to church B (without informing the pastor in church A about this).
If your pastor or elder is behaving in a sexually inappropriate way towards you or someone else it's time to go. I wouldn't even talk to the other leaders about it because they'll most likely be afraid of him and won't confront him/her. Just get out.
Please someone should reply me, in my current church, am accused eith all kinds of accusations and i have been facing a lot of toxicity for uewrs bow, and really eant to leave, when i have a prob and go to the pastir for help, he ends up preaching me at the pulpit, or accuses me of being superficial, i believe if yoy have a prob with a member in the church, its different, but when you have eith the pastor, thats when it becomes complicated
i have a pastor who says inapropriate things, he curses alot, everytime i sit with him and others during bible study . something inside me wants to get up and leave because of the things he says. should i leave and look for another pastor and look for another church,
These videos of this channel are eye opener for all let holy spirit led everyone of us tq Abba heavenly father lord Jesus Amen 👏❤✝️👑🔥🔥🔥
Thank you! I've been at the church I'm at for years managing their IT as a full-time job. Recently, the Lord has called me to a different state to be their youth pastor. I'll be moving in 20 days. I'm thankful for this video. I did the right steps as to let everyone know. But now I need to keep this mindset of not bringing the baggage with me.
Pharo would killed them if the slaves would have left
Don't drag your ex to your next
I stopped after 2 minutes and 2 misses. No, I do not needa blessing from the church I'm leaving due to their error, nor are we like Moses. Or would you suggest God hardens my elders: hearts so He can show His might through plagues over the church?
You are dead wrong Vlad.
Is this something to do with being a catholic to becoming a born again christian?
So good. Thank you this was helpful and insightful. So be it.
Thankyou Vlad just like in any relationship God Bless
I went through this last year. I warned the church that I was contemplating leaving and going back to my baptist roots months before. I wanted to exit gracefully but the ministerial staff hacked me off multiple times They were ignoring me, not listening to what I said, and even acting like they know more about my life history than I do. They ignored my request to step down overtime and transition someone else in to the volunteer roles I was serving. They chose to not meet with me to discuss it.
I felt God was telling me it was time to go not just because of my life and what he had planned for me but because of their plans and the choices that they had made previously, were making, and were going to make.
It was very clear to me that my time there was coming to end before it did and I knew it before the final straw came - not meeting with me to discuss stepping down. I walked away at that point and have never returned.
It is unfortunate because not only did I leave but the relationships were destroyed in the process. My trust was burned completely as a result.
They were also not truthful about a lot of stuff that they were doing and blamed me for stuff that I had nothing to do with or was not my fault. They refused to be honest with me and that hurt a lot.
I did send a withdrawal letter about five months later. They reached out two months after I stopped coming only to invite me back to do stuff but not to discuss the issues that drove me away in first place. They just wanted what I could do for them. They were not interested in anything else. I don’t know for sure, but I imagine that they think I was some lunatic based on how they responded to me. I am attending another church now. That part has been difficult for me, but I have not quit on faith.
I'm confused is this for my relationship with my potential future wife or our church relationship. We are in a spiritual war so deep we are ready to split. We feel like we belong together and since Pressing into God things have gotten worse. I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her but this is just getting insane. We bought tickets for conference in Georgia we pray and have expectations of being delivered but we are having a really hard time. Please talk to me Vlad
Brother don't get discouraged by anything wrong that is going around you. I'm not sure what your situation is, but don't be quick to draw conclusions and make rash decisions. Sometimes, all of that conflict could be a sign that the devil is working to separate something good that God has planned for you. Remember, God is with you. Jesus is for you, and not against you. Keep the faith, dear brother. Walk by faith and not by sight. If we walk by sight, we will become like the Israelites in the wilderness who forgot everything the Lord did for them every time a difficult situation arose. We will see a lack of something (like food and water) and be deceived to think that God has left us when it is not so.
So, trust in God. Don't let difficult circumstances automatically convince you into thinking that it isn't meant to be. That is only one possibility. The devil could be trying to tear apart something good that he doesn't want to happen. But don't assume one or the other and don't lean on your own understanding. Keep seeking the Lord and pray that He gives you wisdom and spiritual understanding to know His will for your life (Colossians 1:9). Jesus WILL lead you if you give the situation to Him and humble yourself before Him. Seek to please God in all things. God is faithful, and when He sees that you are faithful even in the small things, God will definitely move on your behalf with the large things. Keep the faith, AJ! Jesus is with you!
@@NicholasRajha I am stating to even get attacked and manifesting during worship time, my most intimate hour of the day with God
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@@Be-ew7sz plenty of signs even strangers that God has something unique for us together. Something powerful the enemy is trying to keep from happening. Its multiplied since Pressing harder to God together
@@Follow.TruelightJC what do you mean I make you happy
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Thanks God and thank you Pastor Vlad. I'm leaving. I'm gonna do it properly.
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This is an interesting video, but not always easy. I'm at a very loving Church now, and it's like some have said in the comments that you sometimes get Pastors that don't understand, or show pastoral care, or are straight up abusive.
One Church I was at, the Pastor asked me if I was new there, and I mentioned to him that I'd been attending for a year. Even asked him how he was doing one time when I was serving and walked past me to go preach. But we hear 'Come as you are' so much in the Church.
This is good, but I think it comes with seeking God first and someone you trust more so. Unfortunately as I've seen with those in pastoral leadership where they don't have interest with engaging with some people in their congregation.
Just leave..... Let's review... Just leave.
I wish my mother in law would leave my church! All she does is start any and everything she can
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