I understand this may be "TMI" to many. I am sharing my experience I hopes to spread awareness on ovarian cysts. It's more common than you may know and many women battle this in secret. I hope this helps and touches someone. 💜
@@gloriaburnett907 Thank you for listening and I am sorry your family member is dealing with this as well. It is hard, I am wishing her all the best. Good doctors are a blessing!
The thing is the quiet part speaks volumes... the blackness and the womeness is what the medical field fails to serve and doesn't take seriously. What you indured is criminal. I want you to know that you are heard and understood on my part 💜 I'm here because I am in pain from a cyst repture. I'm subscribing to you, thank you for telling your story!
Thank you so much sis. 💜 I appreciate you for listening and for the love and support! I Am sorry that you also have experienced the pain of ruptured cysts as well. I hope that you find peace with your body. I know how hard it can be. Also you are so right about the silence. This is why I like to share experiences that also may tough to talk about because we never know who we are helping by opening up. 💕💕💕
Thank you so much for sharing! We really do have to be our own health advocate in many cases, even with civilian healthcare facilities. Hope you heal completely and God bless you abundantly.
I just went to the ER yesterday and was told I have an ovarian cyst. same thing the doctor was nonchalant about it and told me to follow up with my obgyn and take ibuprofen. All my concerns were dismissed. I felt so confused. like there's nothing to do but go through it. I came to the internet for some solidarity and found it here. Thank you for sharing ❤
I totally understand!! Thank you for being so open. I also saw a Gynecologist for the same thing that totally dismissed my symptoms and said my severe nausea, cramps, bloating couldn’t be from my “tiny” cyst and she said fibroids don’t cause symptoms. She barely examined me and told me to follow up with my regular Dr. I felt totally disrespected and dismissed. Be your own advocate, change Drs if you need to, it’s hard but keep going! Good luck in your journey. You are definitely not alone!
I can totally relate to what you experienced with Military doctors. Lucky for me I was preparing to leave my duty station in Japan so I had to have a sonogram. They felt my abdomen and it felt hard. The fibroid was as large as a basketball. They told me fibroids were very common in Black women and they gave me extra strength Tylenol to deal with the pain. I had surgery and had to consent to a hysterectomy at the same time only if the doctor thought it needed. It seemed to me that my word wasn't enough. I had to prove my pain was serious. I came out of surgery with all my parts. It's not in your mind. The cramping pain and pressure to urinate is real. You are not alone. Sometimes it takes years and different doctors before you find the right one.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I think I had a cyst burst a couple times but the only time I went to the instacare they gave me that same "Yup, you're in pain, that happens," and sent me on my way. 😡 You are spot on in all your observations-women just are not listened to and our pain is not prioritized as important. That's why your video is so important, and I appreciate hearing your story as I'm looking into seeing a doctor finally. Thank you!
Thank you for listening. I am glad to help if it makes anyone not feel alone. I'm sorry you had bad experiences too. I wish I could do more, We don't deserve this treatment. It's CRAZY! I feel horrible reading so many people have such similar stories. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone, this can't be real!
Thank you for making this video. Yeah, I feel like doctors say the "it's normal" thing as a way being sympathetic. But just because they are common, doesn't mean the pain is "normal." You are so right, pain isn't normal, and as a women, who has had a 5cm cyst rupture, I would not wish it on my worst enemy. Hope you can find a better doctor, it really makes all the difference!
Thank you! The pain is CRAZY! I cried so much that day, I wanted someone to care with my words not my tears and that's what made me so upset. I hope you are feeling better. I have a new doc and things are better but I feel I had to put my foot down for it to be this way sadly.
Maaaaan... The "It's normal" piece kills me. I went to the ER last night and was sent home with extra strength Naproxen... No, pain is not normal. Common, not normal. The pain is like getting stabbed on and off. Someone said on another video, "If this was a man's problem, they would've solved the issue and given them morphine."
IKR! It's so annoying! I think they do not know how insensitive it comes off to say things like that to people. Either way it's not cool to work in that profession and have that sort of attitude in my opinion. I'm so sorry that you wen't through that! I hope that you get better and are also able to find someone who takes your health as serious as you. It is truly ridiculous smh. And II agree with what the other person said! It should not be this way.
Your story is so relatable. There's not enough YT channels like yours to be honest. I'm glad the algorithm recommended you to me! I had a cyst on my ovary years ago and had key hole surgery and I was in so much pain not to mention the affect it had on my cycle, physical and emotional health and work ethic etc. So I can't even imagine how much pain you felt when it burst. Because of the medication I was on during the years before they found it and post surgery - I now suffer with vulvodynia. All that to say is that it's true, we all have our stories and sharing can help you to cope and encourage others. It's all super personal, so I appreciate you sharing! -Eli x
I appreciate you for listening. Also sorry to hear your struggle with cysts as well. We have alot of the same struggles from your last comment as well. I am not familiar with vulvodynia, I have to look it up however I am assuming it is not pleasant. I wish uou peace and healing sis. 💕💕💕 And you are so right. If sharing stories helps people, it's worth it to me.
Bless you, thanks for sharing this. So many women have gone thru or are going thru exactly what you described. Doctors have historically medicated and dismissed women and call that treatment. And you're right, it's even worse for black women. Don't give up, keep pushing until you get the care you need, let's all bring light to this problem! ☮️❤️😎
Dude!!! I can’t describe how much I relate to you!!! I recently had an ovarian cyst rupture and was so shocked with being prescribed regular pain killers!! Also I hate being told that it’s normal. I was even told to get used to it cause I might go through it again!! WTF that has made me more scared. I’m also married and today I cried after the act cause I hate always feeling pain at some point 😢😞 And I hate feeling like I can’t find any cure other than birth control that is recommended. Are we supposed to be on birth control the rest of our lives or what? That’s not addressing the root of the problem. I already deal with side effects of two medications; I don’t wanna have to add birth control 😣 I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you a hug ❤️
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time, and I totally get how frustrating and scary it can be. I am in the same boat being, not everyone want birth control and it's SOOO ANNOYING. I want to try for children too. Dealing with medical issues and finding the right solutions can feel overwhelming. Remember to take care of yourself and reach out for support when you need it. Sending you a big virtual hug, and I'm here for you as a friend. ❤️
Woman I feel you and your pain! Such a similar experience I’m going through right now. Personally, I never listen to doctors about birth control. But also, my cyst ruptured from sexual activity so it was sort of my fault. Do research and as you’re doing as other women their experiences before you jump to doctors advice. Before they confirmed it was a cyst, the doctor wanted to give me an injection of antibiotics and two week supply in case it was PID. I refused until confirmed and I don’t have any infection at all.
I understand how frustrating and confusing it can be to navigate medical advice and decisions. It's important to advocate for yourself and gather information from various sources, including other women's experiences, before making decisions about your health. Trusting your instincts and doing thorough research can help you make informed choices. Remember, you are in control of your own body and health. Take care and trust your intuition. 💜🌼
I was just diagnosed with ovarian cyst in my left ovary and it's 3.9cm. I'm having massive bleeding, and pain. I also was told that they want to watch it because it could rupture causing infection. But I guess they can also twist your ovary. So just something to keep in your mind since yours also on the larger side. I hope you can find someone that treats you better. But I also get alot of oh it's normal. Listen to your instincts on things you obviously have a higher pain thrush hold, if you don't like or think you dr is wrong see another I promise someone will listen and it is frustrating getting to that 1 dr that will listen.
Unfortunately it will happen again if u dont change ur diet..have to eat healthy Caz some foods irritates it or starts it.. drink herbal teas cut off dairy...girl its not an easy journey but with dedication, support and God you'll get through it.
Honestly so far in my life having my ovarian cysts rupture was the most traumatic and excruciating pain I've been through, mostly because of the unknown part of it, no one listens to us when we're in pain. Ever since my first one ruptured, i can identify when i have a cyst so i don't move for a week or so otherwise it could agitate it and even though i do that it makes me mad that i have to because they start to look at me weird when i ask for proper pain killers because i feel like my inside are exploding. Female pain is a different beast. I love this video, thank you for sharing xx
Dude thank you for sharing. Same thing happened to me. I’ve had multiple ruptures and the first time I went to the hospital, they gave me the same reaction. Nonchalant. I feel like these doctors are NOT educated enough on this medical diagnosis. You are not the only one… this is very concerning for me too. we need answers.
Anytime and I am sorry you had the same experience, you are right, it's VERY concerning. Many stories in the comments are very similar too. This should not be a common negative experience in my opinion. We do need answers.
You’re so right when you say it’s not normal that us women are expected to brush this off as something‘normal’ and negligible. I’ve had several burst cysts and it’s not a joke
You are not alone. I have 4 fibroids and 2 ovarian cysts on my right ovary. Im in pain, but VA keep acting like its important. Thanks for your story and information. 😊
I am so sorry to hear that, I understand what you are going through. It seems like an ongoing battle to find quality care. I hope that you are able to find someone who is able to help you to get through this pain in the way that you see best. And thank you, I am happy to help in any way I can 💜
I’m so glad I found this video. This just happened to me. I was in pain for days and got blown off by my doctor. It finally ruptured yesterday and I had to go to the ER. When I reached out to my doctor about the pain days ago she just called in so naproxen and told me to check in with her in a week or so if I was still in pain. I cancelled all future appointments with her right after that conversation. I got emotional before you did cause I know the feeling of being vulnerable and asking for help but being brushed off. 🥺 sending virtual hugs! This video scared me a little because I hope this doesn’t happen to me again. I’d love to keep in contact if you need someone to talk to about this!
Coming from a chronically ill person, one thing I learned, you have to be your own advocate! I’m glad you are ok from the rupture. Oh yeah, don’t be afraid to speak up and say no me being in pain is not normal. Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it. Keep your head up and stay strong. I pray that you find a doctor that makes you feel comfortable and gives you all the information you need.
I feel you 💯my obgyn told me I had small cysts but NEVER told me it’s possible that they can pop or even how to help them go away. My cyst ruptured at work after drinking half a can of Coca Cola and that was the most painful experience I’ve ever had. I couldn’t move. I had work people to take me to get ER. Needless to say, I never had soda again. And the hospital brushed it off and said “it happens “ and gave me pain meds 🙄
Yes, I concur with you that it’s really hard to get real advice from medical help. I have lupus & it took years to get diagnosed & taken seriously. My youngest daughter was in the ER last night with a ruptured hemorrhagic ovarian cyst. She’s my youngest daughter. It was very scary & painful for her. I was so worried & scared. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles with getting proper medical advice. It can be incredibly frustrating and scary when you feel like you're not being taken seriously. I hope your daughter is doing better now and that you both find the support and care you deserve. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💜
I'm 23 and just a month ago the same thing happened to me! Out of nowhere I felt this excruciating pain in my lower right abdomen. I was in so much pain I could barely walk. I thought it was maybe my period coming in but I felt that this was different, the pain just felt like it's an emergency instead of something I should just ignore. My boyfriend called an ambulance and while waiting for them, I lost consciousness twice! At the hospital I kept losing consciousness and started having seizures. Inbetween all of that I also threw up a few times. The doctor's gave me pain killers through IV and told me that my appendix might have ruptured and that I was scheduled for a laparoscopic surgery. (Laying down hurt so much because the pain would spread to the rest of my abdomen, my chest and even my shoulders). After the operation the doctors told me they started the surgery as a laparoscopic one but then noticed my appendix is perfectly fine. So in order to figure out what's wrong with me they had to switch to a exploratory laparotomy (cut me open vertically through my whole stomach). That is where they found that I had a ruptured cyst and more. They removed the ruptured cyst and the others. Afterwards they told me they also found 1.5 litres of blood in my abdomen most likely bleeding out from the inside because of the rupture. That's why it hurt so much to lay down because the blood most likely traveled through my abdomen and body! I could've d!ed if I just ignored the pain. My organs would've failed in all that blood if I ignored it. Also so sorry for writing so much😅
I just came across your video. Thank You for sharing! My daughter (21) has been having lower abdominal/pelvic pain for about 6 weeks. After a few urgent care visits, a few doctor's visits and a couple ER visits, it was determined that she had an ovarian cyst (2.5 cm) through a MRI. We've had follow up visits with an OB/GYN and GI doctor and seem to get that same treatment. The OB/GYN says that these are common and don't usually cause an issue. What? She thought it sounded more like a GI issue. Then the GI doctor said it sounds more like an OB/GYN issue. How frustrating! This has negatively impacted her physically and emotionally. When you're in discomfort for over 6+ weeks and everyone says their not sure what's causing it or say the cyst typically doesn't cause pain, it pisses us all off. Hopefully we'll get some answers and resolve soon for her. I appreciate you sharing your story. I'll share it with her and make sure we're more aggressive with the doctors.
Thank you so much for watching and sharing your story. It means a lot to me that my video resonated with you and that you'll be sharing it with your daughter. I hope it can provide some comfort or guidance in this challenging journey. Wishing you and your daughter all the best! 💜
Thank you much for this video!!! I had to go to the ER this morning to find out that I had a ruptured ovarian cyst… something I knew nothing about! But girl, the pain was excruciating! I have to go see my OBGYN in 2 days, so this video and the comments are helping me to prepare! Now I know why we haven’t been able to get pregnant 😢!!! Praying for all us females!!!
Yes, I am currently suffering from an ovarian cyst rupture, and too feel as if the doctors are being very nonchalant about the whole situation. I've been to the ER 3 times, and have seen an OBGYN. All she did was a pelvic exam went over ultra sounds and ct scans from over a week ago and told me that she didn't know why I was having these symptoms, and thought maybe it was a GI tract issue. Would've been nice if she had looked into it more instead sending me off like that. The appointment didn't last no more than 10min. My ct scan exam from 2 weeks says, "possible ovarian cyst collapse." I'm still having pain on/off. Does anyone else still have pain even after a rupture/collapse? I don't know anyone that i going through this and would love to talk to someone that can relate. I feel alone with this whole experience. 😕
I am so sorry you are having this experience and it really upsets me that alot of "professionals" treat clients like this. Its disgusting and outrageous. 10 MINUTES?! They should be ashamed. I personally had pain for days after but eventually I was given medicine for my pain after continued complaining. It helped alot. Perhaps they can give you something to aid to the relief. I feel you shouldn't have to ask but I know how it goes in real life smh. I hope that you find peace and a solution to the pain. I also would recommend seeking another provider. I am personally doing the same until I find someone who cares about me the same way I do. I feel like people who treat people the way you've been treated do not deserve you as a client. There are good doctors out here, we just have to find them unfortunately. I wish you well and sending love your way 💜💜💜💜
What does collapse mean? I had a cyst rupture thuraday, now 6days ago and still I’m struggling! Most weakness and lack of strength to walk and do activities. Today I was on my feet more in a six hour period on and off and now I have leg pain on the side the cyst ruptured. Going all down my leg and especially in my thigh. I wish women talked about this stuff more all the time because I want to cry again over how stressed I am that I can’t find the answers I’m looking for about cysts and recovering from ruptures. Unfortunately I have celiac disease and taking ibuprofen or other pain relievers would just cause more problems for me. I even got glutened the first day I tried to go out and so that and this is just a mess! My body is a mess and my period is expected in two days…. 🙄🙈 I feel totally alone and I love my husband but he doesn’t understand- at all. Haha I’m grateful for women like you and her to share similar experiences. 😢 Please let me know how your recovery has been and how you’re doing now. I’d like to know ❤
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles and the pain you're experiencing. "Collapse" typically refers to a sudden and severe deterioration or failure of a bodily function or system. In the context of cyst rupture, it may refer to the physical and emotional impact it has on your body. Recovering from a cyst rupture can vary from person to person, and it's important to give yourself time to heal. It's understandable that you may feel overwhelmed and alone in this situation. Remember that you're not alone. I wish I could do more but sometimes it helps to not feel alone and I understand. Take care of yourself, and remember to be gentle with your body during this healing process. You're stronger than you think, and with time and proper care, I believe you will find the answers and support you need. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you a speedy recovery. ❤
@@kurlykaitlyn My question is how do you know if it ruptured? I have one on my left ovary whichI treated weeks back,now I'm bleeding heavily on my period. How do you know a cyst is ruptured please
I love how you choose to share your experience to help other women. I'm happy you are alright 🙏. Yes, all doctors are not good. To people who see the title , click to watch and leave negative comments I will never understand. Continue to heal and stay strong!
Thank you for taking the time to listen. I really appreciate it and I couldn't agree more. I do understand Maybe they are just curious and once I start speaking they may feel it's "Too much", however, I feel spreading awareness can help someone. But this is real life, I could get on here and only tell good things but I choose to share my pain. If I have helped even one person then I have accomplished what I set out to do. I try to have grace replying to people who appear to be negative. I think people should try to understand sharing things that are difficult to talk about is not easy. You have to be a strong person to share your flaws with the world, face judgement, in hopes to help people. Showing grace to people is important. Thank you for the love and support. Peace, love and blessings to you! 💜
I’m in the hospital right now for this. Yes, doctors would always tell me it’s normal that I had small cysts and have excruciating pain during my period. Yesterday I got rushed to the hospital because they ruptured! 😢
I have been dealing with pain for years and I had to go out of state just for that hospital to tell me I had fibroids I was very confused when I got home they told me it’s just a cyst and I have been in so much pain lately wish I had people to talk to about it your video has really helped me this is all new to me
I’m truly sorry to hear about your experience with this! I can empathize, and it saddens me that you have been having to deal with this pain for so long while being told by medical professionals that it’s “normal” or “no big deal”. While I’ve heard that ovarian cysts can be common, having them rupture or dealing with constant and debilitating pain should not be, in my opinion. I get ovarian cysts too, although I’ve only had a few in my life and have yet to experience a rupture. I’ve been on hormonal birth control pills for many years to prevent cysts from growing, which I think has helped me keep them at bay. I’m not sure what your comfort level is with using hormonal pills, but it could be an option. And at the very least, I think you are wise to not settle for care that dismisses your pain and to look for other options. I hope things have improved/are improving for you!❤🙏🏼
You are not the only one that gets dismissed on this. They make you feel crazy like it's in your head. Your feelings are valid. N it's not in ur head🙏🏼. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I do as well. N it sucks. ❤❤
I feel you girl,I do suffer the same pain as you, bit annoying if the doc always says it's normal but it's not! the pain that is excruciating. You're not alone and I felt your pain. Giving you a hug from abudhabi.😊
Ugh, I feel you! It's like doctors have a secret handbook that says "Just tell them it's normal!" Sending you virtual hugs and lots of chocolate to make it better! And you are watching from such a distance, how is it over there? I appreciate the love. 💜
Thanks for sharing. I’m having this pain now. I haven’t reached out to my dr yet. Debating on going to the hospital. In general I feel like our medical industry doesn’t dig deeper & rushes you out the door. It took me years to find the dr I have now who takes his time to really listen.
Anytime! I feel you on that. It 's like dang, I'm not just a payment, I'm a person. I'm glad you found a good doctor too. That's truly a blessing 💜 💜 💜
You're not alone, do have the same thing dealing with pains..fibroid,lymph nodes,lower back pain and digestive problems (this is everyday 😢) Thanks for sharing your story
Currently suffering through a ruptured hemorrhagic ovarian cyst, and as frustrating as it might be to hear, whilst I would not say it is not normal (because pain is a way of telling the body that something is wrong), it is not something to get a terrible fright over. I suffer from PCOS and I've had to deal with cysts and ruptures for YEARS. I've been to a few different hospitals, health centres and doctors in the UK and in Saint Lucia where I live, and the outcome is always the same, so much so that I now know the routine and only go to the doctor or ER when I have a rupture and need pain meds through an IV. I get that you're not happy with the doctors' reaction, but on this occasion, I think I can assure you that you're not being singled out, ignored or being downplayed...there really is nothing else that can be done other than to administer pain meds...unless you wish to have your ovaries removed all together 🤪 I've been given the in depth explanation of these cysts and it really is a very common occurrence. So as I lay here in bed with my hot water bottle on my lower abdomen, I sympathise but will advise you to not worry too much about the way you were treated. Take it easy, take your pain meds and rest up over the next few days. You'll be aiight.
I hear you but I still feel how I feel. THEY DID NOT CARE! My PCM always downplayed my conditions, even if my current condition were a result of her downplaying something another condition I told her about. My PCM did not explain what a cyst meant, to her, common maybe, but new to me. The pain I felt was a shock because she said it was nOrMaL. But when I was sick with a fever from the very thing she said was normal she still wanted to send me to work because she thought it was nOrmAl. We aren't taken serious and had I been told at LEAST what to expect my thoughts may be different. After my burst she wanted to tell me what she should've said BEFORE. Downplayed 1000% I say this with love to you also, I appreciate your feedback. I love hearing other perspectives.
Hi, Thank you for sharing your story. I currently have an ovarian cyst on the right side and doing some research and learning more about it on youtube.
I’m sorry that happened to you. I just had a dermoid cyst to rupture yesterday and I have NEVER felt that type of pain before. Blood began to fill my abdomen and I could barely walk and had to go to the ER. I just had a Laproscopy for endometriosis is July and now this!! I pray that you never have to experience that again🙏🏾My husband thought it was gas and I told him I knew it wasn’t that. I started sweating too and had to lay on my bathroom floor. I’ve always dealt with ovarian cysts but and they rupture during my cycle but THIS pain from the Dermoid cysts was even worse than my surgery I had. Dermoid cysts can contain hair and teeth but they didn’t say they found either of those, thank God!! They ended up prescribing me Percocet and they gave me one before one before I left the hospital. Out of all of these years doctors treated it the same way they treated you but one of my cycles got so bad that I had to go to the ER. They called an OB by the name of Jason Mullenix and he was a GOD SEND!! He immediately knew what the problem was. I have to do a follow up with him this week. I know this is a lot but I rarely come across people that deal with what I deal with and this was a breath of fresh air to see that I’m not alone and someone else knows how serious it is. Oh and intercourse is sometimes excruciating for me too.
It's nice to hear such a positive result with a doctor! I pray we all have this experience. I'm truly happy for you. You gave someone here hope! There are good ones! 💜 💜 💜
Sorry for what you went though. My wife went through this. She was screaming on the floor it was so bad. We had to call an ambulance, and they gave her stuff that was way stronger than what you got... she's fine now, but it was so scary when it happened. I thought it was maybe appendicitis or kidney stones... we had both never heard of ovarian cysts, never mind rupturing. The next day she was fine but I pray she never has to go though that again.
Your experience is very typical experience for black women. They make you fight to get the simplest thing. The best thing you can do is do your research so you know what you should be getting in terms of service and the treatments available and pull them up on it when it’s not provided. Let them know that you know. If you have to travel to get the best doctor you can afford please do. As for the hips etc have you been to chiropractor? Like Dr Tubio etc. Diet can also effect your firbroid size and even shrink them. It’s worth looking into.
Thank you for your comment. Yes, you are correct, it's very common treatment. Just sad and ridiculous how common it truly is. I want better for us. You are also right about being knowledgable on things as well. I cannot see why as a professional people would omit important information just because it is "normal" to them. It's very annoying but I look to the internet for my knowledge as I have many times been let down by some medical professionals. I know there are good ones out there. Hoping to be blessed with one. I will be so grateful! I have also been seen many times for my hips. It has been a long process honestly. I think one day I may tell what happened on my channel. It's a long story but I am forever grateful to be able to walk and stand on my own. I appreciate the love and support. Peace, love and blessings to you!
I appreciate your kind words and encouragement. It's reassuring to know that I have a supportive community who can relate to what I'm going through. Thank you!
Absolutely. I am told the exact same things, rushed appts, not taken seriously, “I’m still young”, etc. Extremely frustrating. Thank you so much for sharing!
OMG! I get the young thing too I was just telling my husband it pisses me off. I'm sorry they treated you this way. I hope you get a doctor that treats you better. I wish you well sis!
Hi thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm on YT to check if anyone else has my experience and yours is spot on. I cried today because of the pain and didn't even wanna waste my time at the hospital and just take the ibuprofen at home. If youcan please give us an update
Thank you for sharing! I related so much 🙏 I've had a similar experience and it's frustrating how we have to advocate for ourselves so much. I have a hemorrhagic cyst in my right ovary that's almost 7cm and causes a lot of back pain and makes it hard to do everyday activities and I was blown off for around a year. I finally found someone that is going to help me and is taking me seriously because I don't want to have to wait until it bursts and I have to go to the ER for an emergency surgery. It seems like that was also their answer before, well, if it bursts just go to the ER...like what kind of plan is that??? Again, thank you for sharing your experience and praying you can find a good doc in your new city 🙏
I have been getting done the same way and I hate it!!!! This pain is definitely not normal and I wish people will start taking this seriously and help us!!!!
I'm with you sis. I wish there was something I could do. smh, I feel helpless but sometime sharing helps people not feel so alone. You are so right, it's not normal.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I am hoping you get the help you deserve and get well soon! 💜 Your health and well-being should always be a priority. I wish this was not handled this way by the health care professionals.
I just had an ovarian cyst burst as well and I had the same initial reaction. I had no idea what was going on and I just felt a really intense pain. I ended up trying to wait because I was worried I pulled a muscle or something and then eventually I ended up going back and forth to the hospital. It made me feel really sad too because I felt that when I did finally find out that it was an ovarian cyst that burst the doctor very much down played my pain. The doctor told me that I had an ovarian cyst that ruptured and there was nothing they could do... then he told me to just take advil or Tylenol. I felt so upset and angry because I spent a week in constant pain and then to just be casually told my pain was common and as if it was nothing. It really hurt, so I understand and I appreciate your video alot because it makes me feel alot better in the sense that I'm not alone and it helps me feel like the pain I felt isn't nothing.
@@selenablack3141 From my understanding some people don't feel anything and some do which may be because of how Big the cyst was. I don't think there is a way to say how painfully it will be because we are all different you may not experience anything but for me it was excruciating pain.
@@selenablack3141 Honestly I am not sure. I am not a doctor or specialized to say wbut you need as far as medical attention I would recommend you speak with a very good OBGYN. One that understands what you are going through and how you would like to treat the problem. For me that was the biggest issue. I am just sharing my personal experience, but we all have very different bodies and may Require different medical treatment.
I went through 4 gynecologists before I got the help I needed. I had to get a laparoscopic myomectomy. 8 fibroids and a polyp removed. The cyst was left but I dissolved it myself. Thank you for sharing your story❤
@@adventureswithadrienne Hello,After using the pill for a month mine dissolved on its own it was an 82x63 mm .i ate some tropical fruits who help with drainage like pineapple for example. I cut out processed sugar and made a drink with beetroot carrot and apple/orange so i could cleanse the liver.And try to poop as much as you can.If you don't poop estrogen builds up in the liver and can cause problems. Hope it helps
@arkenamucina140 5.10.2024 Ah thanks. The poop part makes soooo much sense. I just came back from an ER visit. I definitely believe the 6 cm cyst I was told that I had back in October of last year, ruptured today. Everything she explains in this video about her pain was so me 😫 TMI I had just did an enema due to constipation and the pain grew intense. From there I felt Luke I was literally about to die. What made me have my daughter to call paramedics was when I stood up and looked in the mirror, both of my eyes were fully blood red. And then my palms started to tingle and they too turned very red. I felt a weakness over my body. I fell to the floor in the bathroom. Moments later I started having some kind of allergy effects on my skin, on the back of my hands 😫 it was all so scary. Sorry for this essay of mine lol. But your story is a reminder that I better get back serious about my holistic health style 🙏🏾 Thanks again
I experienced this yesterday. I knew I had small ovarian cysts but never knew that it might burst! Oh the pain was really excruciating accompanied by shortness of breath and dizziness. They rushed me to the hospital. The doctor told me, “it’s not normal but this is common”. They admitted me because they said I have to be monitored overnight to make sure that my body is releasing the fluid that came out from the ruptured cyst. Other people always think I’m exaggerating the pain. Thanks that I found people with me on the same page. Now I know I am not exaggerated!
I am so sorry you had to go through this aswell.. I had an episode relative to yours last year. It lasted from early Febuary up until early April. I’ve never felt so much pain in my life, I still think it was an early miscarriage (there was blood) but could’ve possibly been a cyst rupture aswell. The migraines were absolutely insane and my vision went blurry aswell for a few days .i begged for a lumbar puncture at this point because of the hypertension. Went to mulitple pcps, 3 ER visits,an optometrist. All i got was a narco, some nurtec and all they could say was that it was a histamine issue. All failed, I couldn’t sleep for weeks, lots of sweating, terrible night terrors when I was able to drift off. Eventually, became so sleep deprived and ended up checking into the psych twice due to going into psychosis. Worst health spiral to date.
That sounds like a nightmare! I can't even imagine how tough it must have been for you. I'm sorry you experience such a horrible time. Smh, it's sad so many people have there bad stories, it's far too common. Sending you virtual hugs and positive vibes!
I’m in California & literally just got seen at the ER for stomach pain. They said I have a ruptured ovarian cyst and that it is normal & return if pain continues. Told me to take OTC & see my doctor. The pain is getting worse with nausea & weakness. I don’t think this pain is normal. Your video helps a lot!
Hey girl! I appreciate your honesty, I’m thinking about making a video on my experience. I found out a have a “few cysts and the biggest one is ONLy 2.7 mL”. I went to the ER for this ínstense sharp pain in my lower abdomen. ER drs did ct scan, blood work, xray and ultrasound. They ordered the ultra sound as a 2nd view to what they saw in CT. She was very dismissive, “this happens to women, it’ll hurt during your period, go home. gave me pain medicine and anti cramp meds which clearly didn’t work because ovarian cysts have NOTHING to do with cramping OR squeezing of the cysts in any way. My Gyno that I’ve been with for over 15yrs and has delivered my 2 kids said that there may be “OVARIAN TORSION” and if that’s the case, that’s what’s causing the pain and they’ll have to remove my fallopian tube & ovary. I guess the weight of the cysts cause the ovary to weigh down and end up twisting. When that happens, the fallopian tube gets cut off oxygen and so does the ovary. When the ovary dies it’s emergency surgery because of pain and the sepsis. I’ve read bursting of cysts is the worst thing that can happen because of infection that can cause further damage and fertility issues. I recommend you go back to every doctor. You’ve seen and requested medical records and a copy of the doctor notes and images! You need to keep a paper trail. I’ve gone in and requested all of it. Because if I lose my ovary because there was torsion, I’m suing the hospital. For negligence. I want more kids. As of right now, my gyno said he recommended removal of the fallopian tube and ovary but first we’re doing a diagnostic laparoscopy. I was not in agreement and requested further testing be completing. What SHOULD happen is monitoring. A doctor should be seeing you every 2 periods to measure the cysts to see if they are growing, remaining the same or shrinking. So he agreed and we have another ultrasound in 2 weeks: following those results the plan is to move forward with the diagnostic laparoscopy and determine what needs to happen from there
Yes, this happened to me. Also, I was told the same thing you’re going through and I’m trying to have a baby so they’ve been giving me the runaround so I feel your pain.
I definitely can relate and see both perspectives. I’ve had an ovarian cyst burst before and I work in the medical field. Physicians a lot of times don’t do enough to educate their patients unfortunately that’s why there is a lot of confusion in general. And also being African American I understand and experienced how our symptoms can be overlooked. From a medical perspective, ovarian cysts are common. Our ovaries are made of follicles which are cystic in nature. Our hormones make us ovulate each month and sometimes cause our cystic follicles to get enlarged (ovarian cyst) and eventually burst or it may keep getting bigger. Ovarian cysts although can be painful are not serious unless they become too enlarged and or cut off the blood supply to the ovary called ovarian torsion. This is when surgical intervention is advised. Ovarian torsion is what doctors are concerned with and need to rule out before they release you from the medical facility. Once ovarian torsion is ruled out, usually pain meds is what they recommend. Also if the cyst burst even though it’s painful it’s good because it should eventually alleviate your pain and the risk of ovarian torsion goes down. And because we are in our reproductive years, with hormones influencing our reproductive organs, ovarian cysts can happen again. So it’s good you went to the obgyn and followed up! Sometimes lifestyle changes can lessen or even eliminate the frequency of developing cysts. Many times our lifestyle affects our hormones. Stress, diet, sleep see what’s out of balance and make adjustments. Hope this helps. ❤
To all women: please find a OB or gynecologist you are comfortable with, even if you’re not experiencing any problems currently. This relationship is so important to your physical health. Even a good nurse practitioner is a great advocate to help you. So always ask friends and family for recommendations. If you don’t believe your current GYN is asking you lots of questions or brushing of concerns your sharing, please find another doctor. 💛☺️
you are absolutely right! Last monday i was carried in an ambulence where carers were all men. I have told them i highly doubted it's a ruptured ovarian cyst they didnt even know what it is clearly coz they are male. Cant imagine if I were in a situation where I need surgery urgently or I would die. after examined my bleeding has stopped, but clearly it started bleeding again after i got back home. coz later 3 days blood in my abdomen got more. At the same day i caught a fever, which i found most women ruptured their cyst caught as well. Now I just lay down and do nothing, I can't believe as lifethreatening as ruptured ovarian cyst,, there is such a lack of raising women's awareness in society.
I found out in July that I have a 25cm by 19cm Ovarian cyst, which causes me pain every day. I'm still waiting to have it removed 😕 . Thank you for sharing ur story. Xxx
I have a ruptured cysts rt now .Tysm for making this video .I've been going through this since i was 20 yrs old .i totally feel u.Im Puerto Rician but i look black And drs be making me feel like S***!! 😢
I’m so sorry this happened to you! I’m 25 and just now went to a OBGYN. (I wanted her to do a Pap smear but she refused, like girl? I’ve never had one and I know that’s important.) She did an ultrasound and found a 10cm cyst on my right ovary. I have no pain at all so I didn’t even know I had one but I have really really irregular periods so that was the reason for my visit. She said the cysts can cause hormonal imbalances and it can affect your period. We monitored the cyst for two weeks before she recommended surgery. I have a pre op appointment on the 17th with the surgeon and we’ll see what all he says but I imagine he wants to take it out since it’s so big + the risk of rupturing. I have surgery scheduled for the 30th. Very anxious as I’ve never had surgery before. (I can’t enjoy Halloween now. 😂)
I was in my mid 20s when I had one rupture. Most painful experience in my 65 years of life. I’m not sure if this is related or not, but I developed endometriosis. Had two surgeries for that at age 27 and 30. I won’t bore you with more than that, but my advice to women with similar experiences is insist that every two years they do a trans vaginal ultrasound. It can catch things early. And that will lead to less pain over time. Good luck to you!
Doing lots of research, and it's actually insane how many women have this issue, and Every. Single. Woman. Has said the exact same thing- they were told the pain was normal, that it was in their head, you could just be pregnant, it's just periods, the pain is normal, you're overreacting etc. It's so frustrating. I am very thin for my age (23), but I was so "bloated" that I looked pregnant, and was getting severe pains to the point I couldnt even roll over/ sit up in bed, or even lift one of my legs up. After weeks of barely being able to move much (but still forcing myself to somehow go to work) they discovered a 5 litre cyst. We had to wait a week to have the emergency surgery to have it removed, and in that time it kept growing. The day before I was meant to have the operation I ended up back in the ER screaming in pure agony for an hour and a half until they gave me the maximum amount of every type of painkiller, stocked me up with more and sent me on the 6 hour drive to have the operation the next day. BUT because it had grown during that week, it ruptured during the operation. Because of how much damage there was, and how large it was, I needed a c-section type surgery. They had to take out one ovary because it was too damaged, took a tube, and the appendix. Luckily the other ovary was healthy. Heres the fun part- When they tested the ovary and cyst fluid, they found endometriosis, which explains why every period I had would cause me pain to the point I would vomit, and curl on the floor unable to move for hours after midnight every time- all things that I was told were normal, or that I just had low pain tolerance. Fun part x2- 2 weeks post surgery, I got a call saying that the cyst had been cancerous. If I had surgery a week earlier, it might not have ruptured, but because it did, I now need chemotherapy. 8 days into chemotherapy now. People need to start taking womens concerns seriously.
*To add- Why aren't we taught about this? Why is there not more education on something that (by the looks of it) a massive amount of women end up in hospital for, in immense pain. Why does it take having major surgery for me to get any information on what could potentially be going on in my body? Why is there not more studies on illnesses that can affect 50% of the population?
That’s awful! I hope you’re doing better ❤ I’m 22 and I literally just went to the dr and they told me I have cyst that is 4cm and I told the dr this need to be surgically removed. He like “oh no you don’t need to worry about that he said when an egg is released it will go down in size. 🤦🏽♀️ I’m literally about to fake and create a whole tantrum so this can be removed because I get these sharp pains in my stomach like I have arch like old lady to walk.
My first rupture I went to the ER and they said it's just period cramps. They refused to do ultrasound or any other method to check. They didn't even give me anything to help relieve the pain. Turned out to be 14 cm big and it was so bad you could see bruising on the outside of my stomach. My gyno when she found out was the first and only Dr to actually show concern. Now I go in every few months for ultrasounds and checking cyst sizes, I have several dozen and we still can't figure out what is triggering them.
I had the opposite. My PCP was raising the red flag, my cardiologist was raising the red flag, the blood bank was raising the red flag and my OB/GYN gave zero fucks. I finally got a second opinion because I was tired of being ignored. My new OB/GYN took it seriously. I had a partial hysterectomy and finally, FINALLY I'm healthy enough to enjoy my life again.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. It's very frustrating to get dismissed when talking about pain. Like us women are supposed to just suck it up. Like, no, they wouldn't say that to a man.
I know I’m a year late to this conversation but thank you so much for posting it. I cannot stand going to the doctors for this exact reason. The blatant dismissiveness. Like we just make up our symptoms or something. I’m so sick of the quick to prescribe but not get to the root cause of ppls issues. I had cramping for over a year on and off, told the doctor on my last obgyn visit and she blew me off. Never sat right with me, ffwd I call back and demand to have an ultrasound and don’t ya know I have 2 cysts on my left ovary, due to stage 3 endometriosis. Bigger one being 2.5 cm, so glad to know that they can rupture at 3cm bc she said I have “nothing to worry about” unless they hit 4 or 5cm. In the mean time doing a ton of research and clean up my diet bc apparently you can shrink them by avoiding certain inflammatory foods. Glad you stopped that medicine bc it’s usually birth control wrapped in a different package to control the hormones flaring up the cysts anyway. Minority women are absolutely underserved when it comes to our medical issues.
I was told yesterday that I have a cyst the size of a tennis ball on my right ovary. It took 3 weeks to get answers after numerous ultrasounds and tests. Not only am I annoyed by how long it took to get answers, but I'm annoyed how nonchalant my doctor was. Like, my family has a history of cancer, specifically cervical. Thank god it's benign, but it's DEFINITELY making me want a new doctor.
I’m in the military (Air Force) I got scanned for something else and they discovered that I have a cyst and “oh, it’s very common, don’t worry about it “. Now this was 2022. Fast forward, I went back to my private gynae, for lower abdomen pain, she scans me and man, the cyst ruptured 😖 like?! I never want to go to the sickbay again
Here is my recent experience but I am outside US. I had a teribble stomach ache on lower right abdomen and it wont go away even after taking pain killer. I went to see a GP and she suspected that I may have an appendix. She wrote a letter and sent me to a hospital. As soon as I arrived at the ER, they ran blood test and xray. My temp was slighty higher then normal. From the xray result, they saw mass on both of my ovaries. I got admitted right away. I was then scheduled for an open surgery the next morning. Now, 3 weeks had passed, still recovering. Yesterday I went back to the hospital to remove all my stiches. I walk very slow still. The Dr said, it will atleast take 2 months to fully recovered. Yeah, I can understand the roller coaster emotion, I think my Dr pick that up from me and the last visit, he said: " Dont worry too much, as long as you are healthy, live life happily. If there is any issue with the menstrual or unmanageable pain, please come back".
The amount of OBGYNs who told me my painful periods were normal…finally found one that took me seriously 2 weeks ago and got an ultrasound. Then yesterday my cyst burst, I called and went back in and ONLY THEN did I learn that I had a cyst
I am in the service too and I had the exact same thing happen to me. Like return ER visit and everything. The gaslighting from medical is crazy. What baffles me most is I had a woman doctor tell me to return to work, no light duty nothing, less than twelve hours after they found out the fluid was causing my kidneys, digestive system, bladder all that to inflame. I couldn’t keep food or water down & she said return to duty. It’s a big problem in the military or maybe in the civilian world as well, having issues down played. The cyst I had they said was the size of a tangerine. A TANGERINE and you want me to act like i’m fine? Crazy. I have been contemplating seeing outside care because at this point it’s tiring and it hurts too much. The fact that I couldn’t keep anything down and they just swept it away like it was nothing blew me over the top. It’s not just you. Medical treats woman like crap. Period.
Hey battle, I'm sorry this has happened. I know how It goes in the service. Everybody can't be faking all the time. I can't stand it. And a TANGERINE! that's crazy! I hope you are doing well. I think outside care is worth looking into. I fracture my hip and they thought I was lying and put me on ibuprofen by my pcm. Then I collapsed and ended up in ER on a four day weekend. They were like your hip is fractured, how long you been walking on it? I was like 4 days. SMH. It's exhausting and you deserve better! I am wishing you well!
I'm sorry this has happened to you. I work for SSA and am always told by vets that just like jobs, they don't want to pay soldiers for being ill and feel like many are "soft" and just making up things which is wrong. I have "tiny cysts" and something called a calcification visualized of my cervix and when I looked more into it, I seen tumor/cancer etc. I just hot my results back Friday and go to my gyn Wednesday for follow-up and I'm super nervous and scared. I have a high tolerance for pain but lately this pain is something different. I wish you well❤
@@SocialSymone thank u . But it’s crazy cause now my doctor is saying I don’t need surgery the cyst will go away on it’s on, and in 6 weeks come back to do another ultrasound
@@sylviamorgan2052 anytime and yeah that is crazy that they said that. My doctor told me something very similar. It took months to rapture but it did I guess with some people it's not as painful but because of how large mine was it was pretty severe. I hope that everything goes well during your next six weeks! Sending love your way!
In a routine test they saw an ovarian cyst. I had absolutely no pain but my GYN said I want to remove it a.s.a.p. cause it may rupture. And if it does it may poison you. The next week I was on the OP. Table. They kept me at the hospital one week. I felt like a bus ran over me. At home my convalescence was of 3 months. And if you dont rest you'll end up with scar tissue inside and when its pulling it hurts bad. I did listen and I'm ok since then.
Thank you so much for sharing your story.💜 I hope you are better now. I had fibroids and bleeding for months and then had a uterine ablation done it was good for over a year. I then was diagnosed with a cyst in my right ovary. It’s been hard pain on and off and I have just now taking Sea Iodine and DIM and getting a hold on my healthy eating. I’m going to monitor for a few months and follow up the OB Dr. this week. Praying for complete healing and restoration over you. 💜🙏🏽BTW how are you these days?
My ovarian cyst ruptured yesterday in the night I have never seen anything so painful as that all my life...I can stand I can't walk I have taken apple cider vinegar with orange juice yet the pain is still serious but not as serious as last night and the vomiting has stopped
I have a small ovarian cyst ,having so weired periods for 2 years ,now married for 10 months but unable to conceive, my doctor told me that I'm not ovulating from one ovary .😪
I recently went to the doctor because i missed my period . They said my ovaries are swollen. Awaiting the official results. She also said i might have PCOS . While reading up on it i came accross ovarian Cysts.Im praying that ill be ok. But your video was very informative. I do think that sometimes when you tell a nurse or Dr you're in pain they'll be like you'll be fine. Pain is pain.
Yes I get that same treatment I literally passed out in the middle of a store from the ruptured ovarian cysts and the doctors did nothing they didn’t take me seriously I don’t think pain excruciating pain is should be taking serious and I’m a mom I stay busy and I can’t take the pain
I'm so Sorry to hear that. It is really a shame that it is not being taken as serious as I think it is and it seems it is regularly downplayed. I know that the pain is unbearable I am wishing you well and I hope you are feeling better. 💜
Ur not alone. I just recently had a 10cm cyst removed surgically. They watched it for over 6 months before I even had the surgery. I was in pain but they told me the same exact thing “it’s normal” & there’s not much you can do about it(mines was so big the only option was surgery)Most times they give you the option of taking BC. One thing I will say is that it’s a lose lose situation, surgery does take alot out of you & it’s not natural for the body to be poked and prodded. It’s also sad you have to have that horrible experience of it popping and feeling the pain / all that comes with it.
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. It can be really frustrating when medical professionals dismiss our concerns. I hope you're feeling better now. 💜
It pisses me off when they don't take things like this seriously because it causes Trauma induced imposter syndrome, which is a form of medical PTSD that they caused. It take a long time to work through it but you never get rid of it. It is was causes widow maker heart attacks with women.
Doctors don’t care how much pain you’re in! I’ve had a 7cm cyst for yearssss now and they refuse to take it out. I went through a whole pregnancy with it and had unimaginable pain that i felt like i was going to die. I cried begging them to remove it and the doctor told me i was exaggerating, that it really wasn’t that painful. They told me take Tylenol since i was 8 months pregnant😡 Then they told me they’ll do a c-section and take out the cyst NOPE never happened! Had to deal with an extremely painful labor. After that they simply told me take pain killers and we’ll supervise the cyst😡😡 They put me on birth control saying that will help dissolve my cyst. It has now been 2 1/2 years and i continue to deal with the pain. I’ve gone to several specialists and they all say it’s not a big deal it’ll drain on it’s own or it doesn’t really hurt that much. Ridiculous how so many women have to deal with painful cysts and nothing is done about it! Im sorry you’re going through all this but trust me you’re not alone.
Thank you for taking the time to hear my story. I really appreciate it!I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel for you. I am sorry this has happened tyo you, it's very sad to hear these stories, they effect people so much. Some people are traumatized (rightfully so). I am hoping for better days for us all. I hope you find a doctor who give you great treatment. 💜 💜 💜
I had a ovarian tumor and was told by 3 military doctors for 3 years it was my hip until I was 3 months pregnant ( it grew to 30lbs)with my now 21 daughter who has pcos.i was in alot of pain for a couple of days a month for 3years . I had my ovary and fallopian tube out.
That pain is so bad. I went to hosp . Was in hosp for a week. I don’t remember 5 days. My white blood cell count. I was on IV Antibiotics for 6 months. Because GYN. Would not listen.
I have an ovarian cyst about the same size has yours. Mine has not ruptured but iam.still in a lo t of pain, it feels like very very bad period pain. The medical professionals have all had exactly the same attitude, just take pain meds and you will be fine. I had this pain for over a year before a doctor even decided to examine me and send me for a scan. Finding a sympathetic doctor is the key to this male doctors have no idea, if you were male and had the same type of cyst on your testicle they would remove it immediate. Unfortunately it is still a man's world in medicine
You are definitely not alone !!! Thank you for this video. I am 53 and in the health care field and have suffered with endometriosis and cysts since my first period when I was 9 years old. At the age of 18, I was told I would be infertile,due to the cysts and endo, but managed to have 3 children all natural so I know what pain is and cyst are excruciating. I was always told the same thing, its common, you will just have to deal with it, take some ibuprofen it will be fine. I am here to say that is bull!!!! Womens health is always down played. PAIN IS NOT NORMAL. If it was a man with a cyst on his testicle(which is equivalent to our ovary) and it burst he would be on a IV Morphrine drip and every test in the book done to rule out cancer, potential infection and monitored for complications. So women you have to be proactive and make noise. Demand to see a gynecologist just because it happens alot doesnt make it ok. Do not let people be condisending and make you feel stupid. Your not it hurts it can cause other issues. There is treatments!! I hate to say it but as women no matter what your race, or ethnicity and from my experience we are expected to suffer in silence. Don't thats old school thinking that needs to change. Again thank you for this video.
I had an ovarian cyst rupture yesterday. It woke me up from a dead sleep at 2:30am. I was sobbing so bad, shaking and crying. My husband drove me to the ER and they did an ultrasound. They say that birth control will help, but I am actively trying to concieve. It doesn’t make sense for me to go on birth control. It HURTS. It definitely feels like something is RUPTURING inside of you. I am still in a lot of pain, even though yesterday I felt mostly fine. 🙃 I woke up today with more severe pain. They didn't prescribe me anything, but Tylenol does fine for me, thank God. It took them 7 months, two doctors visits and two hospital visits for them to diagnose that it was an ovarian cyst. This stuff is seriously no joke. Especially when I was in so much pain after intercourse that I couldn’t move for 3 days and I had a heating pad glued to my abdomen. It is rough. Very rough. Health care is trash everywhere. It's not a location thing, or a race thing, or probably even a gender thing. Doctors just suck lately. I hope that you are feeling better lately. Much love ❤️
Birth control doesn't help... I got the nexplanon implant in my arm and it took away my ability to have children at 28 years old and I constantly get cysts and they burst to where I'm in pain every few months from one. I'll never be a mother now and its all because of that .1% which seems to be more like 20% when u read the number of horror stories that go with birth control specifically nexplanon.
@LunaNabi Thank you for sharing. I took the pill when I was 18 - 20 years old, and it gave me severe depression. It was such a slow slide that I didn't realize that it was the pill causing it. I only found out because they forgot to refill my prescription, and as soon as I was off of it, I felt better than I had in two years. I had already decided that I would never go back on birth control ever again.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to remember that your emotions are valid and it's okay to take some time for yourself to heal and recover. 💜
I understand this may be "TMI" to many. I am sharing my experience I hopes to spread awareness on ovarian cysts. It's more common than you may know and many women battle this in secret. I hope this helps and touches someone. 💜
Thank you for sharing with us.I have someone in my family that is going through the same thing. Her doctor are very hands on with her.
@@gloriaburnett907 Thank you for listening and I am sorry your family member is dealing with this as well. It is hard, I am wishing her all the best. Good doctors are a blessing!
The thing is the quiet part speaks volumes... the blackness and the womeness is what the medical field fails to serve and doesn't take seriously. What you indured is criminal. I want you to know that you are heard and understood on my part 💜
I'm here because I am in pain from a cyst repture. I'm subscribing to you, thank you for telling your story!
Thank you so much sis. 💜 I appreciate you for listening and for the love and support! I Am sorry that you also have experienced the pain of ruptured cysts as well. I hope that you find peace with your body. I know how hard it can be. Also you are so right about the silence. This is why I like to share experiences that also may tough to talk about because we never know who we are helping by opening up. 💕💕💕
Thank you so much for sharing! We really do have to be our own health advocate in many cases, even with civilian healthcare facilities. Hope you heal completely and God bless you abundantly.
I just went to the ER yesterday and was told I have an ovarian cyst. same thing the doctor was nonchalant about it and told me to follow up with my obgyn and take ibuprofen. All my concerns were dismissed. I felt so confused. like there's nothing to do but go through it. I came to the internet for some solidarity and found it here. Thank you for sharing ❤
I totally understand!! Thank you for being so open. I also saw a Gynecologist for the same thing that totally dismissed my symptoms and said my severe nausea, cramps, bloating couldn’t be from my “tiny” cyst and she said fibroids don’t cause symptoms. She barely examined me and told me to follow up with my regular Dr. I felt totally disrespected and dismissed. Be your own advocate, change Drs if you need to, it’s hard but keep going! Good luck in your journey. You are definitely not alone!
I can totally relate to what you experienced with Military doctors. Lucky for me I was preparing to leave my duty station in Japan so I had to have a sonogram. They felt my abdomen and it felt hard. The fibroid was as large as a basketball. They told me fibroids were very common in Black women and they gave me extra strength Tylenol to deal with the pain. I had surgery and had to consent to a hysterectomy at the same time only if the doctor thought it needed. It seemed to me that my word wasn't enough. I had to prove my pain was serious. I came out of surgery with all my parts. It's not in your mind. The cramping pain and pressure to urinate is real. You are not alone. Sometimes it takes years and different doctors before you find the right one.
I was told the same thing… “It’s normal to have pains” I know my body and it is certainly NOT normal!
same!!!!!!!!
Same!! But it has never been normal😏
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I think I had a cyst burst a couple times but the only time I went to the instacare they gave me that same "Yup, you're in pain, that happens," and sent me on my way. 😡 You are spot on in all your observations-women just are not listened to and our pain is not prioritized as important. That's why your video is so important, and I appreciate hearing your story as I'm looking into seeing a doctor finally. Thank you!
Thank you for listening. I am glad to help if it makes anyone not feel alone. I'm sorry you had bad experiences too. I wish I could do more, We don't deserve this treatment. It's CRAZY! I feel horrible reading so many people have such similar stories. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone, this can't be real!
Thank you for making this video. Yeah, I feel like doctors say the "it's normal" thing as a way being sympathetic. But just because they are common, doesn't mean the pain is "normal." You are so right, pain isn't normal, and as a women, who has had a 5cm cyst rupture, I would not wish it on my worst enemy. Hope you can find a better doctor, it really makes all the difference!
Thank you! The pain is CRAZY! I cried so much that day, I wanted someone to care with my words not my tears and that's what made me so upset. I hope you are feeling better. I have a new doc and things are better but I feel I had to put my foot down for it to be this way sadly.
Maaaaan... The "It's normal" piece kills me. I went to the ER last night and was sent home with extra strength Naproxen... No, pain is not normal. Common, not normal.
The pain is like getting stabbed on and off.
Someone said on another video, "If this was a man's problem, they would've solved the issue and given them morphine."
IKR! It's so annoying! I think they do not know how insensitive it comes off to say things like that to people. Either way it's not cool to work in that profession and have that sort of attitude in my opinion.
I'm so sorry that you wen't through that! I hope that you get better and are also able to find someone who takes your health as serious as you. It is truly ridiculous smh. And II agree with what the other person said! It should not be this way.
Your story is so relatable. There's not enough YT channels like yours to be honest. I'm glad the algorithm recommended you to me!
I had a cyst on my ovary years ago and had key hole surgery and I was in so much pain not to mention the affect it had on my cycle, physical and emotional health and work ethic etc. So I can't even imagine how much pain you felt when it burst.
Because of the medication I was on during the years before they found it and post surgery - I now suffer with vulvodynia.
All that to say is that it's true, we all have our stories and sharing can help you to cope and encourage others.
It's all super personal, so I appreciate you sharing!
-Eli x
I appreciate you for listening. Also sorry to hear your struggle with cysts as well. We have alot of the same struggles from your last comment as well. I am not familiar with vulvodynia, I have to look it up however I am assuming it is not pleasant. I wish uou peace and healing sis. 💕💕💕 And you are so right. If sharing stories helps people, it's worth it to me.
Bless you, thanks for sharing this. So many women have gone thru or are going thru exactly what you described. Doctors have historically medicated and dismissed women and call that treatment. And you're right, it's even worse for black women. Don't give up, keep pushing until you get the care you need, let's all bring light to this problem!
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Dude!!! I can’t describe how much I relate to you!!! I recently had an ovarian cyst rupture and was so shocked with being prescribed regular pain killers!! Also I hate being told that it’s normal. I was even told to get used to it cause I might go through it again!! WTF that has made me more scared. I’m also married and today I cried after the act cause I hate always feeling pain at some point 😢😞 And I hate feeling like I can’t find any cure other than birth control that is recommended. Are we supposed to be on birth control the rest of our lives or what? That’s not addressing the root of the problem. I already deal with side effects of two medications; I don’t wanna have to add birth control 😣 I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you a hug ❤️
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time, and I totally get how frustrating and scary it can be. I am in the same boat being, not everyone want birth control and it's SOOO ANNOYING. I want to try for children too. Dealing with medical issues and finding the right solutions can feel overwhelming. Remember to take care of yourself and reach out for support when you need it. Sending you a big virtual hug, and I'm here for you as a friend. ❤️
Woman I feel you and your pain! Such a similar experience I’m going through right now. Personally, I never listen to doctors about birth control. But also, my cyst ruptured from sexual activity so it was sort of my fault. Do research and as you’re doing as other women their experiences before you jump to doctors advice. Before they confirmed it was a cyst, the doctor wanted to give me an injection of antibiotics and two week supply in case it was PID. I refused until confirmed and I don’t have any infection at all.
I understand how frustrating and confusing it can be to navigate medical advice and decisions. It's important to advocate for yourself and gather information from various sources, including other women's experiences, before making decisions about your health. Trusting your instincts and doing thorough research can help you make informed choices. Remember, you are in control of your own body and health. Take care and trust your intuition. 💜🌼
I was just diagnosed with ovarian cyst in my left ovary and it's 3.9cm. I'm having massive bleeding, and pain. I also was told that they want to watch it because it could rupture causing infection. But I guess they can also twist your ovary. So just something to keep in your mind since yours also on the larger side. I hope you can find someone that treats you better. But I also get alot of oh it's normal. Listen to your instincts on things you obviously have a higher pain thrush hold, if you don't like or think you dr is wrong see another I promise someone will listen and it is frustrating getting to that 1 dr that will listen.
Unfortunately it will happen again if u dont change ur diet..have to eat healthy Caz some foods irritates it or starts it.. drink herbal teas cut off dairy...girl its not an easy journey but with dedication, support and God you'll get through it.
Honestly so far in my life having my ovarian cysts rupture was the most traumatic and excruciating pain I've been through, mostly because of the unknown part of it, no one listens to us when we're in pain. Ever since my first one ruptured, i can identify when i have a cyst so i don't move for a week or so otherwise it could agitate it and even though i do that it makes me mad that i have to because they start to look at me weird when i ask for proper pain killers because i feel like my inside are exploding. Female pain is a different beast. I love this video, thank you for sharing xx
I was told to “experiment with otc pain meds like Tylenol or panadol” to see what helps with my pain
iodine, take valerian extract to calm down and deep breathing. Hard being a woman as is. ❤
Dude thank you for sharing. Same thing happened to me. I’ve had multiple ruptures and the first time I went to the hospital, they gave me the same reaction. Nonchalant. I feel like these doctors are NOT educated enough on this medical diagnosis.
You are not the only one… this is very concerning for me too. we need answers.
Anytime and I am sorry you had the same experience, you are right, it's VERY concerning. Many stories in the comments are very similar too. This should not be a common negative experience in my opinion. We do need answers.
You’re so right when you say it’s not normal that us women are expected to brush this off as something‘normal’ and negligible. I’ve had several burst cysts and it’s not a joke
You are not alone. I have 4 fibroids and 2 ovarian cysts on my right ovary. Im in pain, but VA keep acting like its important. Thanks for your story and information. 😊
I am so sorry to hear that, I understand what you are going through. It seems like an ongoing battle to find quality care. I hope that you are able to find someone who is able to help you to get through this pain in the way that you see best. And thank you, I am happy to help in any way I can 💜
I’m so glad I found this video. This just happened to me. I was in pain for days and got blown off by my doctor. It finally ruptured yesterday and I had to go to the ER. When I reached out to my doctor about the pain days ago she just called in so naproxen and told me to check in with her in a week or so if I was still in pain. I cancelled all future appointments with her right after that conversation. I got emotional before you did cause I know the feeling of being vulnerable and asking for help but being brushed off. 🥺 sending virtual hugs! This video scared me a little because I hope this doesn’t happen to me again. I’d love to keep in contact if you need someone to talk to about this!
Coming from a chronically ill person, one thing I learned, you have to be your own advocate! I’m glad you are ok from the rupture. Oh yeah, don’t be afraid to speak up and say no me being in pain is not normal. Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it.
Keep your head up and stay strong. I pray that you find a doctor that makes you feel comfortable and gives you all the information you need.
I feel you 💯my obgyn told me I had small cysts but NEVER told me it’s possible that they can pop or even how to help them go away. My cyst ruptured at work after drinking half a can of Coca Cola and that was the most painful experience I’ve ever had. I couldn’t move. I had work people to take me to get ER. Needless to say, I never had soda again.
And the hospital brushed it off and said “it happens “ and gave me pain meds 🙄
Yes, I concur with you that it’s really hard to get real advice from medical help. I have lupus & it took years to get diagnosed & taken seriously. My youngest daughter was in the ER last night with a ruptured hemorrhagic ovarian cyst. She’s my youngest daughter. It was very scary & painful for her. I was so worried & scared. Thank you for sharing.
I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles with getting proper medical advice. It can be incredibly frustrating and scary when you feel like you're not being taken seriously. I hope your daughter is doing better now and that you both find the support and care you deserve. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💜
I'm 23 and just a month ago the same thing happened to me! Out of nowhere I felt this excruciating pain in my lower right abdomen. I was in so much pain I could barely walk. I thought it was maybe my period coming in but I felt that this was different, the pain just felt like it's an emergency instead of something I should just ignore.
My boyfriend called an ambulance and while waiting for them, I lost consciousness twice! At the hospital I kept losing consciousness and started having seizures. Inbetween all of that I also threw up a few times.
The doctor's gave me pain killers through IV and told me that my appendix might have ruptured and that I was scheduled for a laparoscopic surgery.
(Laying down hurt so much because the pain would spread to the rest of my abdomen, my chest and even my shoulders).
After the operation the doctors told me they started the surgery as a laparoscopic one but then noticed my appendix is perfectly fine.
So in order to figure out what's wrong with me they had to switch to a exploratory laparotomy (cut me open vertically through my whole stomach).
That is where they found that I had a ruptured cyst and more. They removed the ruptured cyst and the others. Afterwards they told me they also found 1.5 litres of blood in my abdomen most likely bleeding out from the inside because of the rupture. That's why it hurt so much to lay down because the blood most likely traveled through my abdomen and body!
I could've d!ed if I just ignored the pain. My organs would've failed in all that blood if I ignored it.
Also so sorry for writing so much😅
I just came across your video. Thank You for sharing! My daughter (21) has been having lower abdominal/pelvic pain for about 6 weeks. After a few urgent care visits, a few doctor's visits and a couple ER visits, it was determined that she had an ovarian cyst (2.5 cm) through a MRI. We've had follow up visits with an OB/GYN and GI doctor and seem to get that same treatment. The OB/GYN says that these are common and don't usually cause an issue. What? She thought it sounded more like a GI issue. Then the GI doctor said it sounds more like an OB/GYN issue. How frustrating! This has negatively impacted her physically and emotionally. When you're in discomfort for over 6+ weeks and everyone says their not sure what's causing it or say the cyst typically doesn't cause pain, it pisses us all off. Hopefully we'll get some answers and resolve soon for her. I appreciate you sharing your story. I'll share it with her and make sure we're more aggressive with the doctors.
Thank you so much for watching and sharing your story. It means a lot to me that my video resonated with you and that you'll be sharing it with your daughter. I hope it can provide some comfort or guidance in this challenging journey. Wishing you and your daughter all the best! 💜
That's fucking awful. I hope your daughter is doing better now❤
Same here suffering for two years with a vulval cyst which busted inside but they said nothing can be seen.
Thank you much for this video!!! I had to go to the ER this morning to find out that I had a ruptured ovarian cyst… something I knew nothing about! But girl, the pain was excruciating! I have to go see my OBGYN in 2 days, so this video and the comments are helping me to prepare! Now I know why we haven’t been able to get pregnant 😢!!! Praying for all us females!!!
Yes, I am currently suffering from an ovarian cyst rupture, and too feel as if the doctors are being very nonchalant about the whole situation. I've been to the ER 3 times, and have seen an OBGYN. All she did was a pelvic exam went over ultra sounds and ct scans from over a week ago and told me that she didn't know why I was having these symptoms, and thought maybe it was a GI tract issue. Would've been nice if she had looked into it more instead sending me off like that. The appointment didn't last no more than 10min. My ct scan exam from 2 weeks says, "possible ovarian cyst collapse." I'm still having pain on/off. Does anyone else still have pain even after a rupture/collapse? I don't know anyone that i going through this and would love to talk to someone that can relate. I feel alone with this whole experience. 😕
I am so sorry you are having this experience and it really upsets me that alot of "professionals" treat clients like this. Its disgusting and outrageous. 10 MINUTES?! They should be ashamed. I personally had pain for days after but eventually I was given medicine for my pain after continued complaining. It helped alot. Perhaps they can give you something to aid to the relief. I feel you shouldn't have to ask but I know how it goes in real life smh. I hope that you find peace and a solution to the pain. I also would recommend seeking another provider. I am personally doing the same until I find someone who cares about me the same way I do. I feel like people who treat people the way you've been treated do not deserve you as a client. There are good doctors out here, we just have to find them unfortunately. I wish you well and sending love your way 💜💜💜💜
What does collapse mean? I had a cyst rupture thuraday, now 6days ago and still I’m struggling! Most weakness and lack of strength to walk and do activities. Today I was on my feet more in a six hour period on and off and now I have leg pain on the side the cyst ruptured. Going all down my leg and especially in my thigh. I wish women talked about this stuff more all the time because I want to cry again over how stressed I am that I can’t find the answers I’m looking for about cysts and recovering from ruptures.
Unfortunately I have celiac disease and taking ibuprofen or other pain relievers would just cause more problems for me. I even got glutened the first day I tried to go out and so that and this is just a mess! My body is a mess and my period is expected in two days…. 🙄🙈
I feel totally alone and I love my husband but he doesn’t understand- at all. Haha I’m grateful for women like you and her to share similar experiences. 😢
Please let me know how your recovery has been and how you’re doing now. I’d like to know ❤
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles and the pain you're experiencing. "Collapse" typically refers to a sudden and severe deterioration or failure of a bodily function or system. In the context of cyst rupture, it may refer to the physical and emotional impact it has on your body.
Recovering from a cyst rupture can vary from person to person, and it's important to give yourself time to heal. It's understandable that you may feel overwhelmed and alone in this situation. Remember that you're not alone. I wish I could do more but sometimes it helps to not feel alone and I understand.
Take care of yourself, and remember to be gentle with your body during this healing process. You're stronger than you think, and with time and proper care, I believe you will find the answers and support you need. Sending you positive thoughts and wishing you a speedy recovery. ❤
@@kurlykaitlyn My question is how do you know if it ruptured? I have one on my left ovary whichI treated weeks back,now I'm bleeding heavily on my period. How do you know a cyst is ruptured please
@@oluwabusolamielizabethakin8399it is PAINFUL. To the point of crying and wondering if it’s life threatening or not.
I love how you choose to share your experience to help other women. I'm happy you are alright 🙏. Yes, all doctors are not good. To people who see the title , click to watch and leave negative comments I will never understand. Continue to heal and stay strong!
Thank you for taking the time to listen. I really appreciate it and I couldn't agree more. I do understand Maybe they are just curious and once I start speaking they may feel it's "Too much", however, I feel spreading awareness can help someone. But this is real life, I could get on here and only tell good things but I choose to share my pain. If I have helped even one person then I have accomplished what I set out to do. I try to have grace replying to people who appear to be negative. I think people should try to understand sharing things that are difficult to talk about is not easy. You have to be a strong person to share your flaws with the world, face judgement, in hopes to help people. Showing grace to people is important. Thank you for the love and support. Peace, love and blessings to you! 💜
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I’m in the hospital right now for this. Yes, doctors would always tell me it’s normal that I had small cysts and have excruciating pain during my period. Yesterday I got rushed to the hospital because they ruptured! 😢
I have been dealing with pain for years and I had to go out of state just for that hospital to tell me I had fibroids I was very confused when I got home they told me it’s just a cyst and I have been in so much pain lately wish I had people to talk to about it your video has really helped me this is all new to me
I’m truly sorry to hear about your experience with this! I can empathize, and it saddens me that you have been having to deal with this pain for so long while being told by medical professionals that it’s “normal” or “no big deal”. While I’ve heard that ovarian cysts can be common, having them rupture or dealing with constant and debilitating pain should not be, in my opinion. I get ovarian cysts too, although I’ve only had a few in my life and have yet to experience a rupture. I’ve been on hormonal birth control pills for many years to prevent cysts from growing, which I think has helped me keep them at bay. I’m not sure what your comfort level is with using hormonal pills, but it could be an option. And at the very least, I think you are wise to not settle for care that dismisses your pain and to look for other options. I hope things have improved/are improving for you!❤🙏🏼
You are not the only one that gets dismissed on this. They make you feel crazy like it's in your head. Your feelings are valid. N it's not in ur head🙏🏼. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I do as well. N it sucks. ❤❤
I feel you girl,I do suffer the same pain as you, bit annoying if the doc always says it's normal but it's not! the pain that is excruciating. You're not alone and I felt your pain. Giving you a hug from abudhabi.😊
Ugh, I feel you! It's like doctors have a secret handbook that says "Just tell them it's normal!" Sending you virtual hugs and lots of chocolate to make it better! And you are watching from such a distance, how is it over there? I appreciate the love. 💜
Thanks for sharing. I’m having this pain now. I haven’t reached out to my dr yet. Debating on going to the hospital. In general I feel like our medical industry doesn’t dig deeper & rushes you out the door. It took me years to find the dr I have now who takes his time to really listen.
Anytime! I feel you on that. It 's like dang, I'm not just a payment, I'm a person. I'm glad you found a good doctor too. That's truly a blessing 💜 💜 💜
You're not alone, do have the same thing dealing with pains..fibroid,lymph nodes,lower back pain and digestive problems (this is everyday 😢) Thanks for sharing your story
Currently suffering through a ruptured hemorrhagic ovarian cyst, and as frustrating as it might be to hear, whilst I would not say it is not normal (because pain is a way of telling the body that something is wrong), it is not something to get a terrible fright over.
I suffer from PCOS and I've had to deal with cysts and ruptures for YEARS. I've been to a few different hospitals, health centres and doctors in the UK and in Saint Lucia where I live, and the outcome is always the same, so much so that I now know the routine and only go to the doctor or ER when I have a rupture and need pain meds through an IV.
I get that you're not happy with the doctors' reaction, but on this occasion, I think I can assure you that you're not being singled out, ignored or being downplayed...there really is nothing else that can be done other than to administer pain meds...unless you wish to have your ovaries removed all together 🤪
I've been given the in depth explanation of these cysts and it really is a very common occurrence.
So as I lay here in bed with my hot water bottle on my lower abdomen, I sympathise but will advise you to not worry too much about the way you were treated. Take it easy, take your pain meds and rest up over the next few days. You'll be aiight.
I hear you but I still feel how I feel. THEY DID NOT CARE! My PCM always downplayed my conditions, even if my current condition were a result of her downplaying something another condition I told her about. My PCM did not explain what a cyst meant, to her, common maybe, but new to me. The pain I felt was a shock because she said it was nOrMaL. But when I was sick with a fever from the very thing she said was normal she still wanted to send me to work because she thought it was nOrmAl. We aren't taken serious and had I been told at LEAST what to expect my thoughts may be different. After my burst she wanted to tell me what she should've said BEFORE. Downplayed 1000% I say this with love to you also, I appreciate your feedback. I love hearing other perspectives.
This is terrible, thank you for sharing your experience ❤❤❤
Yess I’m not the only one. Girl!! you’re not alone. I’m going through this right now. And them doctors 👊🏾🤦🏾♀️ . Everything you said 💯
Hi, Thank you for sharing your story. I currently have an ovarian cyst on the right side and doing some research and learning more about it on youtube.
I’m sorry that happened to you. I just had a dermoid cyst to rupture yesterday and I have NEVER felt that type of pain before. Blood began to fill my abdomen and I could barely walk and had to go to the ER. I just had a Laproscopy for endometriosis is July and now this!! I pray that you never have to experience that again🙏🏾My husband thought it was gas and I told him I knew it wasn’t that. I started sweating too and had to lay on my bathroom floor. I’ve always dealt with ovarian cysts but and they rupture during my cycle but THIS pain from the Dermoid cysts was even worse than my surgery I had. Dermoid cysts can contain hair and teeth but they didn’t say they found either of those, thank God!! They ended up prescribing me Percocet and they gave me one before one before I left the hospital. Out of all of these years doctors treated it the same way they treated you but one of my cycles got so bad that I had to go to the ER. They called an OB by the name of Jason Mullenix and he was a GOD SEND!! He immediately knew what the problem was. I have to do a follow up with him this week. I know this is a lot but I rarely come across people that deal with what I deal with and this was a breath of fresh air to see that I’m not alone and someone else knows how serious it is. Oh and intercourse is sometimes excruciating for me too.
Where is this doctor located? I have Pcos and I am in constant pain.
It's nice to hear such a positive result with a doctor! I pray we all have this experience. I'm truly happy for you. You gave someone here hope! There are good ones! 💜 💜 💜
Sorry for what you went though. My wife went through this. She was screaming on the floor it was so bad. We had to call an ambulance, and they gave her stuff that was way stronger than what you got... she's fine now, but it was so scary when it happened. I thought it was maybe appendicitis or kidney stones... we had both never heard of ovarian cysts, never mind rupturing. The next day she was fine but I pray she never has to go though that again.
Your experience is very typical experience for black women. They make you fight to get the simplest thing. The best thing you can do is do your research so you know what you should be getting in terms of service and the treatments available and pull them up on it when it’s not provided. Let them know that you know. If you have to travel to get the best doctor you can afford please do. As for the hips etc have you been to chiropractor? Like Dr Tubio etc. Diet can also effect your firbroid size and even shrink them. It’s worth looking into.
Thank you for your comment. Yes, you are correct, it's very common treatment. Just sad and ridiculous how common it truly is. I want better for us. You are also right about being knowledgable on things as well. I cannot see why as a professional people would omit important information just because it is "normal" to them. It's very annoying but I look to the internet for my knowledge as I have many times been let down by some medical professionals. I know there are good ones out there. Hoping to be blessed with one. I will be so grateful! I have also been seen many times for my hips. It has been a long process honestly. I think one day I may tell what happened on my channel. It's a long story but I am forever grateful to be able to walk and stand on my own. I appreciate the love and support. Peace, love and blessings to you!
You are not alone sis. 😢
I appreciate your kind words and encouragement. It's reassuring to know that I have a supportive community who can relate to what I'm going through. Thank you!
Absolutely. I am told the exact same things, rushed appts, not taken seriously, “I’m still young”, etc. Extremely frustrating. Thank you so much for sharing!
OMG! I get the young thing too I was just telling my husband it pisses me off. I'm sorry they treated you this way. I hope you get a doctor that treats you better. I wish you well sis!
@@SocialSymone You too.
Just wait until you get the normal part of aging speech!!
Hi thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm on YT to check if anyone else has my experience and yours is spot on. I cried today because of the pain and didn't even wanna waste my time at the hospital and just take the ibuprofen at home. If youcan please give us an update
Thank you for sharing! I related so much 🙏 I've had a similar experience and it's frustrating how we have to advocate for ourselves so much. I have a hemorrhagic cyst in my right ovary that's almost 7cm and causes a lot of back pain and makes it hard to do everyday activities and I was blown off for around a year. I finally found someone that is going to help me and is taking me seriously because I don't want to have to wait until it bursts and I have to go to the ER for an emergency surgery. It seems like that was also their answer before, well, if it bursts just go to the ER...like what kind of plan is that???
Again, thank you for sharing your experience and praying you can find a good doc in your new city 🙏
I have been getting done the same way and I hate it!!!! This pain is definitely not normal and I wish people will start taking this seriously and help us!!!!
I'm with you sis. I wish there was something I could do. smh, I feel helpless but sometime sharing helps people not feel so alone. You are so right, it's not normal.
Thank you for sharing your story .. Going through this right now .. and my doctors are down playing my pain ..
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I am hoping you get the help you deserve and get well soon! 💜 Your health and well-being should always be a priority. I wish this was not handled this way by the health care professionals.
I just had an ovarian cyst burst as well and I had the same initial reaction. I had no idea what was going on and I just felt a really intense pain. I ended up trying to wait because I was worried I pulled a muscle or something and then eventually I ended up going back and forth to the hospital. It made me feel really sad too because I felt that when I did finally find out that it was an ovarian cyst that burst the doctor very much down played my pain. The doctor told me that I had an ovarian cyst that ruptured and there was nothing they could do... then he told me to just take advil or Tylenol. I felt so upset and angry because I spent a week in constant pain and then to just be casually told my pain was common and as if it was nothing. It really hurt, so I understand and I appreciate your video alot because it makes me feel alot better in the sense that I'm not alone and it helps me feel like the pain I felt isn't nothing.
It's not a problem, I'm glad I could help and I'm sorry you experience this too. I hope you get well or are feeling better.
I feel you girl. I have ovarian cysts too and I’m in so much pain right now. I hate this. 😢
How are you now.?
What were your main symptoms?
I be so over it! I feel you, I hope you are felling better!
I still have them every now and then pop up, I'm on meds also for my cramps, it's been helping so far.
My wife and i are going through exactly the same thing. God bless you for sharing.
Currently experiencing ovarian cyst pain as I typed this message so I can totally relate but I am hopeful it will go over time .❤
I'm wishing you well sis 💜 💜 💜
😢😢😢 I am still learning about it can someone tell me how bad the pain will be when in pops or can I get more after it pops
@@selenablack3141 From my understanding some people don't feel anything and some do which may be because of how Big the cyst was. I don't think there is a way to say how painfully it will be because we are all different you may not experience anything but for me it was excruciating pain.
Will I have to be on birth control after it becomes it seems like th at everything is a process of what is causesing it
@@selenablack3141 Honestly I am not sure. I am not a doctor or specialized to say wbut you need as far as medical attention I would recommend you speak with a very good OBGYN. One that understands what you are going through and how you would like to treat the problem. For me that was the biggest issue. I am just sharing my personal experience, but we all have very different bodies and may Require different medical treatment.
I went through 4 gynecologists before I got the help I needed. I had to get a laparoscopic myomectomy. 8 fibroids and a polyp removed. The cyst was left but I dissolved it myself. Thank you for sharing your story❤
Hello,
Im currently dealing with one how did you dissolve it?Mine is a functional cyst
5.100.2024
Hello,
How did you dissolve it?
@@adventureswithadrienne Hello,After using the pill for a month mine dissolved on its own it was an 82x63 mm .i ate some tropical fruits who help with drainage like pineapple for example. I cut out processed sugar and made a drink with beetroot carrot and apple/orange so i could cleanse the liver.And try to poop as much as you can.If you don't poop estrogen builds up in the liver and can cause problems.
Hope it helps
@arkenamucina140 5.10.2024
Ah thanks. The poop part makes soooo much sense. I just came back from an ER visit. I definitely believe the 6 cm cyst I was told that I had back in October of last year, ruptured today. Everything she explains in this video about her pain was so me 😫 TMI I had just did an enema due to constipation and the pain grew intense. From there I felt Luke I was literally about to die.
What made me have my daughter to call paramedics was when I stood up and looked in the mirror, both of my eyes were fully blood red. And then my palms started to tingle and they too turned very red. I felt a weakness over my body. I fell to the floor in the bathroom.
Moments later I started having some kind of allergy effects on my skin, on the back of my hands 😫 it was all so scary.
Sorry for this essay of mine lol. But your story is a reminder that I better get back serious about my holistic health style 🙏🏾
Thanks again
I experienced this yesterday. I knew I had small ovarian cysts but never knew that it might burst! Oh the pain was really excruciating accompanied by shortness of breath and dizziness. They rushed me to the hospital. The doctor told me, “it’s not normal but this is common”. They admitted me because they said I have to be monitored overnight to make sure that my body is releasing the fluid that came out from
the ruptured cyst.
Other people always think I’m exaggerating the pain. Thanks that I found people with me on the same page. Now I know I am not exaggerated!
I’m going through the same thing, so sweetheart you are not alone!😌😉 I’m going through the same BS! 🙏 it suck! 😢
I am so sorry you had to go through this aswell.. I had an episode relative to yours last year. It lasted from early Febuary up until early April. I’ve never felt so much pain in my life, I still think it was an early miscarriage (there was blood) but could’ve possibly been a cyst rupture aswell. The migraines were absolutely insane and my vision went blurry aswell for a few days .i begged for a lumbar puncture at this point because of the hypertension. Went to mulitple pcps, 3 ER visits,an optometrist. All i got was a narco, some nurtec and all they could say was that it was a histamine issue. All failed, I couldn’t sleep for weeks, lots of sweating, terrible night terrors when I was able to drift off. Eventually, became so sleep deprived and ended up checking into the psych twice due to going into psychosis. Worst health spiral to date.
That sounds like a nightmare! I can't even imagine how tough it must have been for you. I'm sorry you experience such a horrible time. Smh, it's sad so many people have there bad stories, it's far too common. Sending you virtual hugs and positive vibes!
Omg you answered so many of my questions. I understand just left the er yesterday. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for listening, I. am glad I could help. I hope you are feeling/doing better also. Sending love your way! 💜 💜 💜
I’m in California & literally just got seen at the ER for stomach pain. They said I have a ruptured ovarian cyst and that it is normal & return if pain continues. Told me to take OTC & see my doctor. The pain is getting worse with nausea & weakness. I don’t think this pain is normal. Your video helps a lot!
SMH I'm sorry you are going through this! YOU ARE TRIPPIN, pain is not normal sis. I am wishing you well.
How r u now
I got an ultrasound a month ago, I have no more cyst now. Thanks for asking!
Hey girl! I appreciate your honesty, I’m thinking about making a video on my experience. I found out a have a “few cysts and the biggest one is ONLy 2.7 mL”. I went to the ER for this ínstense sharp pain in my lower abdomen. ER drs did ct scan, blood work, xray and ultrasound. They ordered the ultra sound as a 2nd view to what they saw in CT. She was very dismissive, “this happens to women, it’ll hurt during your period, go home. gave me pain medicine and anti cramp meds which clearly didn’t work because ovarian cysts have NOTHING to do with cramping OR squeezing of the cysts in any way. My Gyno that I’ve been with for over 15yrs and has delivered my 2 kids said that there may be “OVARIAN TORSION” and if that’s the case, that’s what’s causing the pain and they’ll have to remove my fallopian tube & ovary. I guess the weight of the cysts cause the ovary to weigh down and end up twisting. When that happens, the fallopian tube gets cut off oxygen and so does the ovary. When the ovary dies it’s emergency surgery because of pain and the sepsis. I’ve read bursting of cysts is the worst thing that can happen because of infection that can cause further damage and fertility issues. I recommend you go back to every doctor. You’ve seen and requested medical records and a copy of the doctor notes and images! You need to keep a paper trail. I’ve gone in and requested all of it. Because if I lose my ovary because there was torsion, I’m suing the hospital. For negligence. I want more kids. As of right now, my gyno said he recommended removal of the fallopian tube and ovary but first we’re doing a diagnostic laparoscopy. I was not in agreement and requested further testing be completing. What SHOULD happen is monitoring. A doctor should be seeing you every 2 periods to measure the cysts to see if they are growing, remaining the same or shrinking. So he agreed and we have another ultrasound in 2 weeks: following those results the plan is to move forward with the diagnostic laparoscopy and determine what needs to happen from there
Yes, this happened to me. Also, I was told the same thing you’re going through and I’m trying to have a baby so they’ve been giving me the runaround so I feel your pain.
I definitely can relate and see both perspectives. I’ve had an ovarian cyst burst before and I work in the medical field. Physicians a lot of times don’t do enough to educate their patients unfortunately that’s why there is a lot of confusion in general. And also being African American I understand and experienced how our symptoms can be overlooked. From a medical perspective, ovarian cysts are common. Our ovaries are made of follicles which are cystic in nature. Our hormones make us ovulate each month and sometimes cause our cystic follicles to get enlarged (ovarian cyst) and eventually burst or it may keep getting bigger. Ovarian cysts although can be painful are not serious unless they become too enlarged and or cut off the blood supply to the ovary called ovarian torsion. This is when surgical intervention is advised. Ovarian torsion is what doctors are concerned with and need to rule out before they release you from the medical facility. Once ovarian torsion is ruled out, usually pain meds is what they recommend. Also if the cyst burst even though it’s painful it’s good because it should eventually alleviate your pain and the risk of ovarian torsion goes down. And because we are in our reproductive years, with hormones influencing our reproductive organs, ovarian cysts can happen again. So it’s good you went to the obgyn and followed up!
Sometimes lifestyle changes can lessen or even eliminate the frequency of developing cysts. Many times our lifestyle affects our hormones. Stress, diet, sleep see what’s out of balance and make adjustments. Hope this helps. ❤
To all women: please find a OB or gynecologist you are comfortable with, even if you’re not experiencing any problems currently. This relationship is so important to your physical health. Even a good nurse practitioner is a great advocate to help you. So always ask friends and family for recommendations. If you don’t believe your current GYN is asking you lots of questions or brushing of concerns your sharing, please find another doctor. 💛☺️
Finding the right OB or gynecologist is like finding your soulmate - it may take some time, but when you find the one, it's worth it! 💜
you are absolutely right! Last monday i was carried in an ambulence where carers were all men. I have told them i highly doubted it's a ruptured ovarian cyst they didnt even know what it is clearly coz they are male. Cant imagine if I were in a situation where I need surgery urgently or I would die. after examined my bleeding has stopped, but clearly it started bleeding again after i got back home. coz later 3 days blood in my abdomen got more. At the same day i caught a fever, which i found most women ruptured their cyst caught as well. Now I just lay down and do nothing, I can't believe as lifethreatening as ruptured ovarian cyst,, there is such a lack of raising women's awareness in society.
Oh my! I'm so sorry you went through this! I hope you are doing better now!
I found out in July that I have a 25cm by 19cm Ovarian cyst, which causes me pain every day. I'm still waiting to have it removed 😕 . Thank you for sharing ur story. Xxx
No problem , I am wishing you a speedy recovery! 💜
🥺 Im sorry about this. No you are NOT the only one, for some reason "they" think we can tolerate pain. We are never believed about sicknesses. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
It's a shame 💜 💜 💜
I have a ruptured cysts rt now .Tysm for making this video .I've been going through this since i was 20 yrs old .i totally feel u.Im Puerto Rician but i look black And drs be making me feel like S***!! 😢
I’m so sorry this happened to you! I’m 25 and just now went to a OBGYN. (I wanted her to do a Pap smear but she refused, like girl? I’ve never had one and I know that’s important.) She did an ultrasound and found a 10cm cyst on my right ovary. I have no pain at all so I didn’t even know I had one but I have really really irregular periods so that was the reason for my visit. She said the cysts can cause hormonal imbalances and it can affect your period. We monitored the cyst for two weeks before she recommended surgery. I have a pre op appointment on the 17th with the surgeon and we’ll see what all he says but I imagine he wants to take it out since it’s so big + the risk of rupturing. I have surgery scheduled for the 30th. Very anxious as I’ve never had surgery before. (I can’t enjoy Halloween now. 😂)
I was in my mid 20s when I had one rupture. Most painful experience in my 65 years of life. I’m not sure if this is related or not, but I developed endometriosis. Had two surgeries for that at age 27 and 30. I won’t bore you with more than that, but my advice to women with similar experiences is insist that every two years they do a trans vaginal ultrasound. It can catch things early. And that will lead to less pain over time. Good luck to you!
Doing lots of research, and it's actually insane how many women have this issue, and Every. Single. Woman. Has said the exact same thing- they were told the pain was normal, that it was in their head, you could just be pregnant, it's just periods, the pain is normal, you're overreacting etc.
It's so frustrating.
I am very thin for my age (23), but I was so "bloated" that I looked pregnant, and was getting severe pains to the point I couldnt even roll over/ sit up in bed, or even lift one of my legs up.
After weeks of barely being able to move much (but still forcing myself to somehow go to work) they discovered a 5 litre cyst. We had to wait a week to have the emergency surgery to have it removed, and in that time it kept growing. The day before I was meant to have the operation I ended up back in the ER screaming in pure agony for an hour and a half until they gave me the maximum amount of every type of painkiller, stocked me up with more and sent me on the 6 hour drive to have the operation the next day.
BUT because it had grown during that week, it ruptured during the operation.
Because of how much damage there was, and how large it was, I needed a c-section type surgery. They had to take out one ovary because it was too damaged, took a tube, and the appendix. Luckily the other ovary was healthy.
Heres the fun part-
When they tested the ovary and cyst fluid, they found endometriosis, which explains why every period I had would cause me pain to the point I would vomit, and curl on the floor unable to move for hours after midnight every time- all things that I was told were normal, or that I just had low pain tolerance.
Fun part x2-
2 weeks post surgery, I got a call saying that the cyst had been cancerous.
If I had surgery a week earlier, it might not have ruptured, but because it did, I now need chemotherapy.
8 days into chemotherapy now.
People need to start taking womens concerns seriously.
*To add-
Why aren't we taught about this? Why is there not more education on something that (by the looks of it) a massive amount of women end up in hospital for, in immense pain.
Why does it take having major surgery for me to get any information on what could potentially be going on in my body? Why is there not more studies on illnesses that can affect 50% of the population?
That’s awful! I hope you’re doing better ❤ I’m 22 and I literally just went to the dr and they told me I have cyst that is 4cm and I told the dr this need to be surgically removed. He like “oh no you don’t need to worry about that he said when an egg is released it will go down in size. 🤦🏽♀️ I’m literally about to fake and create a whole tantrum so this can be removed because I get these sharp pains in my stomach like I have arch like old lady to walk.
I need to advocate for my self more, thank you for sharing
My first rupture I went to the ER and they said it's just period cramps. They refused to do ultrasound or any other method to check. They didn't even give me anything to help relieve the pain. Turned out to be 14 cm big and it was so bad you could see bruising on the outside of my stomach. My gyno when she found out was the first and only Dr to actually show concern. Now I go in every few months for ultrasounds and checking cyst sizes, I have several dozen and we still can't figure out what is triggering them.
I had the opposite. My PCP was raising the red flag, my cardiologist was raising the red flag, the blood bank was raising the red flag and my OB/GYN gave zero fucks. I finally got a second opinion because I was tired of being ignored. My new OB/GYN took it seriously. I had a partial hysterectomy and finally, FINALLY I'm healthy enough to enjoy my life again.
Thanks for sharing your experiences. It's very frustrating to get dismissed when talking about pain. Like us women are supposed to just suck it up. Like, no, they wouldn't say that to a man.
I know I’m a year late to this conversation but thank you so much for posting it. I cannot stand going to the doctors for this exact reason. The blatant dismissiveness. Like we just make up our symptoms or something. I’m so sick of the quick to prescribe but not get to the root cause of ppls issues. I had cramping for over a year on and off, told the doctor on my last obgyn visit and she blew me off. Never sat right with me, ffwd I call back and demand to have an ultrasound and don’t ya know I have 2 cysts on my left ovary, due to stage 3 endometriosis. Bigger one being 2.5 cm, so glad to know that they can rupture at 3cm bc she said I have “nothing to worry about” unless they hit 4 or 5cm. In the mean time doing a ton of research and clean up my diet bc apparently you can shrink them by avoiding certain inflammatory foods. Glad you stopped that medicine bc it’s usually birth control wrapped in a different package to control the hormones flaring up the cysts anyway. Minority women are absolutely underserved when it comes to our medical issues.
I agree girl. Pain is not normal.
I was told yesterday that I have a cyst the size of a tennis ball on my right ovary. It took 3 weeks to get answers after numerous ultrasounds and tests. Not only am I annoyed by how long it took to get answers, but I'm annoyed how nonchalant my doctor was. Like, my family has a history of cancer, specifically cervical. Thank god it's benign, but it's DEFINITELY making me want a new doctor.
Sis ure not alone I’m going through the same thing,but have a leap of faith we will heal soon in Jesus name amen 🙏🏼
I'm sorry you are too. Jesus is with us all! Amen
Thank you so much for sharing. I had a Nigerian doctor who was great!
Yay. I'm happy that a Nigerian doctor took care of you
I’m in the military (Air Force) I got scanned for something else and they discovered that I have a cyst and “oh, it’s very common, don’t worry about it “. Now this was 2022. Fast forward, I went back to my private gynae, for lower abdomen pain, she scans me and man, the cyst ruptured 😖 like?! I never want to go to the sickbay again
SMH They always think someone is lying. I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you are doing better! 💜 💜 💜
Here is my recent experience but I am outside US. I had a teribble stomach ache on lower right abdomen and it wont go away even after taking pain killer. I went to see a GP and she suspected that I may have an appendix. She wrote a letter and sent me to a hospital. As soon as I arrived at the ER, they ran blood test and xray. My temp was slighty higher then normal. From the xray result, they saw mass on both of my ovaries. I got admitted right away. I was then scheduled for an open surgery the next morning. Now, 3 weeks had passed, still recovering. Yesterday I went back to the hospital to remove all my stiches. I walk very slow still. The Dr said, it will atleast take 2 months to fully recovered. Yeah, I can understand the roller coaster emotion, I think my Dr pick that up from me and the last visit, he said: " Dont worry too much, as long as you are healthy, live life happily. If there is any issue with the menstrual or unmanageable pain, please come back".
I wish you a speedy recovery! I hope you are healing up! 💜 💜 💜
I totally understand you OMG, it Hurts and they then say well you just need to live with it
The amount of OBGYNs who told me my painful periods were normal…finally found one that took me seriously 2 weeks ago and got an ultrasound. Then yesterday my cyst burst, I called and went back in and ONLY THEN did I learn that I had a cyst
I am in the service too and I had the exact same thing happen to me. Like return ER visit and everything. The gaslighting from medical is crazy. What baffles me most is I had a woman doctor tell me to return to work, no light duty nothing, less than twelve hours after they found out the fluid was causing my kidneys, digestive system, bladder all that to inflame. I couldn’t keep food or water down & she said return to duty. It’s a big problem in the military or maybe in the civilian world as well, having issues down played. The cyst I had they said was the size of a tangerine. A TANGERINE and you want me to act like i’m fine? Crazy. I have been contemplating seeing outside care because at this point it’s tiring and it hurts too much. The fact that I couldn’t keep anything down and they just swept it away like it was nothing blew me over the top. It’s not just you. Medical treats woman like crap. Period.
Hey battle, I'm sorry this has happened. I know how It goes in the service. Everybody can't be faking all the time. I can't stand it. And a TANGERINE! that's crazy! I hope you are doing well. I think outside care is worth looking into. I fracture my hip and they thought I was lying and put me on ibuprofen by my pcm. Then I collapsed and ended up in ER on a four day weekend. They were like your hip is fractured, how long you been walking on it? I was like 4 days. SMH. It's exhausting and you deserve better! I am wishing you well!
I'm sorry this has happened to you. I work for SSA and am always told by vets that just like jobs, they don't want to pay soldiers for being ill and feel like many are "soft" and just making up things which is wrong. I have "tiny cysts" and something called a calcification visualized of my cervix and when I looked more into it, I seen tumor/cancer etc. I just hot my results back Friday and go to my gyn Wednesday for follow-up and I'm super nervous and scared. I have a high tolerance for pain but lately this pain is something different. I wish you well❤
I completely understand how you feel.😢 I’m going through it at this very moment 😢
I'm sorry you are going through this as well. I hope that you are feeling better sending love your way. 💜
@@SocialSymone thank u . But it’s crazy cause now my doctor is saying I don’t need surgery the cyst will go away on it’s on, and in 6 weeks come back to do another ultrasound
@@sylviamorgan2052 anytime and yeah that is crazy that they said that. My doctor told me something very similar. It took months to rapture but it did I guess with some people it's not as painful but because of how large mine was it was pretty severe. I hope that everything goes well during your next six weeks! Sending love your way!
In a routine test they saw an ovarian cyst. I had absolutely no pain but my GYN said I want to remove it a.s.a.p. cause it may rupture. And if
it does it may poison you. The next week I was on the OP. Table. They kept me at the hospital one week. I felt like a bus ran over me. At home my convalescence was of 3 months. And if you dont rest you'll end up with scar tissue inside and when its pulling it hurts bad. I did listen and I'm ok since then.
I am sorry this happened to you. I can only imagine the pain, these are no joke! I am wishing you well! You are strong!
Thank you so much for sharing your story.💜
I hope you are better now. I had fibroids and bleeding for months and then had a uterine ablation done it was good for over a year. I then was diagnosed with a cyst in my right ovary. It’s been hard pain on and off and I have just now taking Sea Iodine and DIM and getting a hold on my healthy eating. I’m going to monitor for a few months and follow up the OB Dr. this week. Praying for complete healing and restoration over you. 💜🙏🏽BTW how are you these days?
My ovarian cyst ruptured yesterday in the night I have never seen anything so painful as that all my life...I can stand I can't walk I have taken apple cider vinegar with orange juice yet the pain is still serious but not as serious as last night and the vomiting has stopped
I am wishing you well sis! I know it's no joke. 💜 💜 💜 Sending you love
@@SocialSymone thanks so much sweetheart
God bless you 🙏
I have a small ovarian cyst ,having so weired periods for 2 years ,now married for 10 months but unable to conceive, my doctor told me that I'm not ovulating from one ovary .😪
I'm sorry to hear this. I hope your care is going well. 💜 💜 💜 Sending love your way
I recently went to the doctor because i missed my period . They said my ovaries are swollen. Awaiting the official results. She also said i might have PCOS . While reading up on it i came accross ovarian Cysts.Im praying that ill be ok. But your video was very informative. I do think that sometimes when you tell a nurse or Dr you're in pain they'll be like you'll be fine. Pain is pain.
I went the hospital in pain and left with no prescription... I was so upset
You're not the only one. I'm in Zambia Africa and my body discomforts are one way or another minimalised by health personnel's.
Omg i j am experiencing the same thing. I felt so alone and drs down played my issues and pain. Thank you for your video.
Anytime and Thank you for listening! 💜 💜 💜 I hope things get better for you and your get proper treatment moving forward.
Yes I get that same treatment I literally passed out in the middle of a store from the ruptured ovarian cysts and the doctors did nothing they didn’t take me seriously I don’t think pain excruciating pain is should be taking serious and I’m a mom I stay busy and I can’t take the pain
I'm so Sorry to hear that. It is really a shame that it is not being taken as serious as I think it is and it seems it is regularly downplayed. I know that the pain is unbearable I am wishing you well and I hope you are feeling better. 💜
Ur not alone. I just recently had a 10cm cyst removed surgically. They watched it for over 6 months before I even had the surgery. I was in pain but they told me the same exact thing “it’s normal” & there’s not much you can do about it(mines was so big the only option was surgery)Most times they give you the option of taking BC. One thing I will say is that it’s a lose lose situation, surgery does take alot out of you & it’s not natural for the body to be poked and prodded. It’s also sad you have to have that horrible experience of it popping and feeling the pain / all that comes with it.
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. It can be really frustrating when medical professionals dismiss our concerns. I hope you're feeling better now. 💜
Yes they definitely minimize our issues
It's really a shame! It's ridiculous to downplay anyones pain, it's weird.
You are on point with all that u said. Because I've experienced every last thing u did.
Me too
It pisses me off when they don't take things like this seriously because it causes Trauma induced imposter syndrome, which is a form of medical PTSD that they caused. It take a long time to work through it but you never get rid of it. It is was causes widow maker heart attacks with women.
Doctors don’t care how much pain you’re in! I’ve had a 7cm cyst for yearssss now and they refuse to take it out. I went through a whole pregnancy with it and had unimaginable pain that i felt like i was going to die. I cried begging them to remove it and the doctor told me i was exaggerating, that it really wasn’t that painful. They told me take Tylenol since i was 8 months pregnant😡 Then they told me they’ll do a c-section and take out the cyst NOPE never happened! Had to deal with an extremely painful labor. After that they simply told me take pain killers and we’ll supervise the cyst😡😡 They put me on birth control saying that will help dissolve my cyst. It has now been 2 1/2 years and i continue to deal with the pain. I’ve gone to several specialists and they all say it’s not a big deal it’ll drain on it’s own or it doesn’t really hurt that much. Ridiculous how so many women have to deal with painful cysts and nothing is done about it! Im sorry you’re going through all this but trust me you’re not alone.
Thank you for taking the time to hear my story. I really appreciate it!I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel for you. I am sorry this has happened tyo you, it's very sad to hear these stories, they effect people so much. Some people are traumatized (rightfully so). I am hoping for better days for us all. I hope you find a doctor who give you great treatment. 💜 💜 💜
I had a ovarian tumor and was told by 3 military doctors for 3 years it was my hip until I was 3 months pregnant ( it grew to 30lbs)with my now 21 daughter who has pcos.i was in alot of pain for a couple of days a month for 3years . I had my ovary and fallopian tube out.
Hope you found a good Dr.... advocate for yourself!! This video was very helpful and relatable for me. Thanks again for sharing 😊
Thank you! I recently moved and will be looking for one soon. I appreciate you for listening and I am glad that I could help in anyway 💜💜💜
That pain is so bad. I went to hosp . Was in hosp for a week. I don’t remember 5 days. My white blood cell count. I was on IV Antibiotics for 6 months. Because GYN. Would not listen.
I have an ovarian cyst about the same size has yours. Mine has not ruptured but iam.still in a lo t of pain, it feels like very very bad period pain. The medical professionals have all had exactly the same attitude, just take pain meds and you will be fine. I had this pain for over a year before a doctor even decided to examine me and send me for a scan. Finding a sympathetic doctor is the key to this male doctors have no idea, if you were male and had the same type of cyst on your testicle they would remove it immediate. Unfortunately it is still a man's world in medicine
You are definitely not alone !!! Thank you for this video. I am 53 and in the health care field and have suffered with endometriosis and cysts since my first period when I was 9 years old. At the age of 18, I was told I would be infertile,due to the cysts and endo, but managed to have 3 children all natural so I know what pain is and cyst are excruciating. I was always told the same thing, its common, you will just have to deal with it, take some ibuprofen it will be fine. I am here to say that is bull!!!! Womens health is always down played. PAIN IS NOT NORMAL. If it was a man with a cyst on his testicle(which is equivalent to our ovary) and it burst he would be on a IV Morphrine drip and every test in the book done to rule out cancer, potential infection and monitored for complications. So women you have to be proactive and make noise. Demand to see a gynecologist just because it happens alot doesnt make it ok. Do not let people be condisending and make you feel stupid. Your not it hurts it can cause other issues. There is treatments!! I hate to say it but as women no matter what your race, or ethnicity and from my experience we are expected to suffer in silence. Don't thats old school thinking that needs to change. Again thank you for this video.
Thank you, I appreciate you. You give me hope.
I had an ovarian cyst rupture yesterday. It woke me up from a dead sleep at 2:30am. I was sobbing so bad, shaking and crying. My husband drove me to the ER and they did an ultrasound.
They say that birth control will help, but I am actively trying to concieve. It doesn’t make sense for me to go on birth control. It HURTS.
It definitely feels like something is RUPTURING inside of you. I am still in a lot of pain, even though yesterday I felt mostly fine. 🙃
I woke up today with more severe pain. They didn't prescribe me anything, but Tylenol does fine for me, thank God.
It took them 7 months, two doctors visits and two hospital visits for them to diagnose that it was an ovarian cyst. This stuff is seriously no joke.
Especially when I was in so much pain after intercourse that I couldn’t move for 3 days and I had a heating pad glued to my abdomen. It is rough. Very rough.
Health care is trash everywhere. It's not a location thing, or a race thing, or probably even a gender thing. Doctors just suck lately.
I hope that you are feeling better lately. Much love ❤️
Birth control doesn't help... I got the nexplanon implant in my arm and it took away my ability to have children at 28 years old and I constantly get cysts and they burst to where I'm in pain every few months from one. I'll never be a mother now and its all because of that .1% which seems to be more like 20% when u read the number of horror stories that go with birth control specifically nexplanon.
@LunaNabi Thank you for sharing. I took the pill when I was 18 - 20 years old, and it gave me severe depression. It was such a slow slide that I didn't realize that it was the pill causing it. I only found out because they forgot to refill my prescription, and as soon as I was off of it, I felt better than I had in two years. I had already decided that I would never go back on birth control ever again.
Have felt this way. Women get painted as hysterical. Currently crying over cysts and it's hard to carry on as normal with work etc.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to remember that your emotions are valid and it's okay to take some time for yourself to heal and recover. 💜
@@SocialSymone 💜