I have cried Twice in My Life: I Apologised; divorce, poverty, Male Ego Ft. Ntando Maseko
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- Опубліковано 22 гру 2024
- Maseko is a coach based in Joburg' South Africa. He fly to Kenya to chat with me about getting married In a wealthy family, losing everything that was there to lose. He cried! One was tears of sorrow and then tears of joy.
Ntando is a Master NLP (Neuro-Linguistics Programming) Trainer and Business Coach whose passion and drive for developing world-class entrepreneurs has led to the coaching and development of numerous award-winning entrepreneurs in South Africa.
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Self awareness, self mastery. Great interview.
I love how self aware Ntando is. His admission of his faults and errors is admirable.
@delicatesive1599 took a lot of scars to get there but I think it's good to always find your contribution first otherwise you keep repeating your mistakes
@@NtandoMasekothis is very true. Challenge accepted. Keep it up!
Brother you go really deep in your interviews 😅😅 grace and blessings to you
Your life is inspiring
@NancyBsAdventureDiary Thank you @Nancy if it helps one person change how they make decisions for the better, I'll be one happy brother 😊
I liked what you said when someone is going through a hard time some of us don't have the skills and to know what we should ask or say during that time which is very real and I've come across such a situation.
@faithrehema4767 l hope you successfully bounced back 😊
Watching from Gqeberha, PE, Mzansi. Glad Bhut Nthando you got a glimpse of Kenya. Indeed, Jagero is a force in his craft. Congrats to you both. I enjoyed listening to this interview.
He is so self aware, I stan ❤
There were numerous opportunities in this interview for this man to shift blame, make himself a victim or whine but he totally refused to do that. Respect.
Where was he going to shift the blame though?
@Cresentmoon649 Many places. Most people would even blame a wife who doesn't contribute financially. However this is a good conversation, I don't want to engage in negative exchanges.
@@wanjirumurimi2916..I actually found ur comment to be negative. You making it sound like doing the right thing is remarkable. It's not!
@@ddm4622 okay.
@@ddm4622 Okay.
Very educative Jagero. Ntando was quite open about his circumstances
Great content thanks a lot, I have really learnt
This man Ntando healed totally
1. No blaming another but self
2. Truthful
3.Self management-no shouting about his problems
Appreciated Ntando
@akinyiokeyo4618 thank you 😊😊 blaming others is easy, but changes nothing on your side so l have found accountability is king
@NtandoMaseko thanks for this. You have confirmed my innermost long held suspicions.
Glad you have had a chance to redeem yourself. For some it may be too late.
@rhinahirina4038 let's pray and hope they hear and learn in time 😊 everyone deserves seconds and thrid chances l think
Very engaging and inspiring!
Both of you have gained a new follower/sub!
Thank you for sharing
Welcome aboard!
I love your your content. Your guests and interviews are getting better and better.
This gentleman displays self mastery at its best. Respect.
Very informative conversation
Glad you think so!
Thanks for this, it really inspires me deeply
I loved this podcast and that illustration on debt hits hard and its why i am afraid of going out for credit at these exorbitant rates
After the book launch,Jagero kindly lemme know how i can get it.cant wait to read it. May your guest be blessed for being honest,lessons learnt from this podcast.
This was very informative. As someone who has constant panic attacks about the future... I have gotten a hint on where to start. Thank you, Jagero, for these conversations that make us decide better for ourselves.
The Step honors your dream for a Better future. Happy this helped and may 2025 be a great year for you
I am in that pit and this has really encouraged me💪
I hope you're reaching out for help nad not fighting alone
I really like that part Jagero touched from 37:43 churches are just after what we contribute as offerings beyond that up-to suffering parties
37:45 I was in the praise and worship team, the same pastor in that church officiated my wedding and when things came crumbling down, its been 6 years now and no one has ever asked me what happened or even tried to sit us down
too sad and painful to realize that we running away from churches instead of running to church for help
So Jagero, nothing new.... but si ni life....
Sorry yoy went through that though, I hope you're ok now
@@BeyondHighLife the reoson why I left church but not God
At DWJ it's raw and uncut😂😂 you receive it both hot and cold, very very inspiring and educative talk between two grown adults that have seen life in both black and white. As they always say the journey a head, ask those coming back💯and thanks to Ntando maseko and jagero i've learnt someting.
We appreciate you 😊😊
It takes a village to raise a child , it takes a church to beeak that child , and it takes a Tribe to heal the child .. Most of the time the church ask from a place of gossip the Tribe intervenes abd manifest healing without judgement.
Ntando I cannot forget how we enjoyed your wedding and the class.
😂😂😂😂 l enjoyed it too l must say
This is pure talent jagero at the moment you're my best UA-camr🎉
He's a favorite of mine too 😂😂
@NtandoMaseko 🤣🤣🤣
Great conversations as always. Jagero please, give us a series from the church/religion angle: EVERYTHING from your wedding feelings, recent Gen Z and Jumia mosque something about Islam and humanity/Ruto and his church strategies and recent realization of betrayal from churches, Gen Z and declining church attendance, divorce, abuse and church reactions, church and modern mental issues, modern world and church decline in Europe.
It's rare to see South Africans in other African countries,it's good to see Ntando in Kenya
What a profound interview!!!!
What a great interview .. Congrats Mr. Ntando . Mr Jagero thought you will share his mobile No.. Good job and great interviews
Thanks so much l appreciate the complement
Quite insightful.
Alot of gems from Ntando. Would love to know when or where to get his book...
Poverty has a look and smell, recognize the look and smell then do the opposite!! Wow!!
Nice takeaway, I even forgot l said that😅
Fellow south african. ❤
The self awareness of your guest is something men could not accept 😊
What do you mean, he is a man and he has accepted
@@naibeieve 🤣🤣🤣🤣✨️✨️🔥🔥
@Kelvin-s9r I meant other men like you Kevin
@NtandoMaseko Congratulations brother 👏 for accepting your mistakes
@@naibeieve 🙏🙏🙏 much appreciated
I'm a Kenyan living in SA and it feels like I'm listening to two of my brothers. This podcast is truly going places. Jagero knows how to make his guests feel comfortable.
Bro. You must invite me to SA brother.
He's a master and we are brothers indeed 😅😅
1:06:30 😅😅😅😅😅I liked this part but was sad for you somedays but am glad you managed and came out of the situation 😅😢
Today I have learned a lot plus I have laughed man Ntando is hilarious
Thank you😀😀
I loved this interview. 😂😂😂 I could see parts of him in me in his past and in his present. I laughed hard😂 so hard coz I lived parts of his story, including his part of a mentor who never gives you money 😂😂. Thanks, you made my whole year
Glad you enjoyed it!
🤣🤣🤣ey the mentor who didn't give money lol... don't remind me
A good conversation here,however,on 37:45,about church, I love Ntando's response on Jagero's question on the church's whereabouts when you are suffering. On my take i'd really say it's high time we stop dragging the church on our failures and sufferings,let us just live life however hard it is because church is fellowship which then after there we go work hard for our life 😢 I stand to be corrected though 😊 thanks
Are we supposed to be our brother's keeper?
@moses, are we supposed to be our brother's keeper?
Wewe Jagero😅
Hahaa this guy is hilarious and his story has alot of lessons too 'don't wear your problems'
Woo this man🙌
Sober man, sober mindset
Mentorship is key with the right mentor
it is key indeed
❤❤❤
The girl was 21 and Ntando was 28.. They were quite young... The girl still too young.. Also, money is indeed a solution for all things, and its sad!
True we were young but others do make it through challenges so l guess support and mentors could have come in handy if we hadn't suffered in isolation
Begin the conversation with a disclaimer😂
We lost power from 3pm to 5pm brother
Poverty has a look and smell, recognize the look and smell then do the opposite
🤣🤣🤣🤣 yes please
I wish Jagero you can interview a real South African who is not scared to be labelled xenophobic. As South African we are losing our roots.Imagine Luhya,Kikuyu,Luo etc kids not knowing their heritage because the country is taken over by the whole of Africa. Kids only speak their home language when their at home, I dont want to be labelled otherwise but because i grew up the time SA was for south African i can clearly see the difference. Now even the youtubers that visit ourcountry they end up being exposed to the culture that is not South African ,
South Africa is loosing their cultural values because when you start talking you are labelled. THE Only African country that honestly understand our frustration is Kenya
What do you mean, Kenya is very open and friendly to foreigners. We don't hate on Africa
It must have been even harder for him showing face for the family...
@@akinyiokeyo4618 that it was just say 😊
It must have been even harder for him showing face for the family...