I appreciate the level of care put into Keith’s baby’s privacy and autonomy such that like half of the fan base is only just now learning about Henry and we get to enjoy the uniquely disturbing pleasure of babified Keith and Zach.
It's actually insane how much work Keith does. He seamlessly hid a whole entire baby while being so present on the channel no one suspected a thing thats so crazy
Eh, not really. Love Keith but Becky had the baby, she disappeared for quite a few months, and Keith probably took a paternity leave and just pre-filmed. They usually pre-film moths ahead of time and schedule out when the content is released. Keith very likely did an extra video here and there to keep up with the release schedule without seeming like he was gone.
@@LoryBelle they talked about this in you can sit with us, Keith worked a lot. If I remember correctly even when they were waiting for Henry to leave the hospital. Not every situation is ideal, I actually think filming js the simplest of his tasks bc he is one of the owners
He also said that they didn't want their baby on camera yet, hence why they're not mentioning him or showing him in videos. This is the first video where we hear Henry crying. Maybe they'll be showing him to the world soon.
I believe the first video we heard him was when keith was eating at the cheesecake factory =) But im sure in the future they'll have a bigger reveal @katherinedobias7499
@@daisyperez6708 Thank you. But I already know that cats are usually lactose intolerant. I do appreciate you sharing the information in case others didn’t know about it.
I had a full panic attack at about a week post partum because I thought my husband was going to spill what I just pumped and I was insisting that I be the one who take it downstairs to the fridge. He was gently but firmly telling me to get back in bed (I have a difficult delivery and had no business being up) and that he was not going to spill it, but my sleep deprived and hormonally depleted brain could not trust him with that precious milk. Having a baby is such a wild time
As a woman whose body did not make milk, I am SO happy to hear her say "fed is best". So many people told me to just keep trying. It was horrible and they made me feel like the worst mother ever.
I agree. It was so difficult with my oldest (very painful) that I supplemented with formula and was made to feel terrible because it wasn't strictly breastmilk. I got to the point (once I wasn't quite so tired) that I was kind of telling people off. "Look, she's hungry and I'm hurting. I'm going to make sure she's fed even if that means I have to use formula. So zip it."
My lil brother couldn't eat breastmilk so it was hard for my mum to hear that it was horrible for feeding him formula.. when the doctors also said to do so.. She is not wrong, as long the baby is fed. They're solid. Everyone has different issues where it may not allow them to breastfeed and this was very nice to see as well.
My older sister was premature by a month, and just a lazy baby who refused to breastfeed. Mom’s pediatrician refused to admit that anything but strictly breastfed was okay, and my sister just kept losing weight. So finally mom just gave up and started feeding formula, and my sister ate well and started to thrive. For me, it was a new pediatrician in a new state and no shame about feeding a mix of breast milk and formula. This was the mid/late 1980s, modern efficient breast pumps didn’t exist.
Same here, my daughter came 8 weeks early and we lived at the NICU the entire time and it was the worst and most stressful time of my life. I did everything i could i even talked to lactation experts who said i did all i could. I never pumped enough, my daughter was too small to breastfeed, it was a mess. I hope i will have better luck next time because i want to experience what it's like to breastfeed!
HE IS GAY AND DOES NOT LIKE CHILDREN. ALSO HE IS ASIAN. THESE ARE EUGENES MAIN TRAITS. DIDN’T YOU KNOW THIS? ASIAN. GAY. CLOSED OFF. THATS IT. THATS THE BRAND.
Love hearing the expert say "Fed is Best" because I know so many moms who felt like failures because they were unable to breastfeed for whatever reason and had everyone in their ears saying "breast is best".
I love Rachel’s joy over them experiencing typically female-coded challenges, she’s always smiling so savagely, but also she has such a nice smile that it’s this wonderful mixture of vengeance, satisfaction, and glee. Rachel is all of us ❤ I love the try mom!!!
Breastfeeding isn’t actually mandatory though. Obviously that’s not usually the only reason people dont want to be parents, just putting it out there hehe
Yeah, motherhood is absolutely terrifying and stressful and tiring. It's definitely not for everyone. So don't let anyone try to tell you that you have to have kids. You do whatever you feel is right for your life. ❤
Also the thing with becoming a mom is that, it's for life, it's not like a Netflix one month trial which you can unsubscribe, it's not something you buy and can return to the store, or it's not like a job that you can just quit if you hate it. You can't quit parenting, you're stucked with it FOR LIFE. So I cannot imagine becoming a mom unless I feel a "true calling" for it (which I absolutely don't haha).
The visual of Keith at the end, alone on his couch with Alfred and two wine glasses out on the table just exhaustedly laughing "I'm pumping! I have to pump every three hours!" is truly so delightful
As a mom who was not able to breastfeed, thank you for saying "fed is best". I can't tell you the amount of women that shamed me for not giving my baby breastmilk. That "god was punishing me" or that "i didn't love my baby enough". I physically could not make milk, so my baby was formula fed from day 1. She's the cutest little 2 yr old, and is thriving! Thank you for validating formula fed babies.
my mom said i struggled to breastfeed and i was bottle fed, and honestly, i am just as healthy. Never let people shame you! My mom loves me deeply :) and we bond just as much as we would breastfed.
Zack’s comment of “I’m doing all this and I don’t even have a little baby to snuggle” is exactly how it feels to me a new mom with your baby in the NICU. These are things people don’t talk about enough
I feel you my new mom here & my baby was also in the NICU & it was such a horrible experience pumping & your baby isn’t near you. It also felt horrible when the nurses would say “you have to pump bc your body needs to think your baby is feeding off you even though there’s no baby atm”. Those words hurt so much especially knowing my baby was fighting for his life 🥲. But it will all workout mom trust your baby. They are very strong beings that love to latch onto life. It will all be worth it when you get to take your baby home and it will happen soon 🤍.
@@crisspena2211 oh gosh I’m so sorry you have that experience 💔 I completely relate as my baby was also in critical condition but I’m very grateful that he came home a year ago and it’s only a distant memory by now! Nothing beats that feeling of finally taking your baby home❤️
I felt this ❤️ I had my son 12 weeks premature and getting up at night to pump for him felt all the more challenging. Luckily he learned to breastfeed, and is a happy 4 year old now 💜
As a breastfeeding mother, thank you! This part of being a Mom is so overlooked, especially when fathers don't have to worry about it, and Mother's take on all the extra stress and extra feedings, and lack of sleep, and pumping..
I remember I was devastated when I had to quit breastfeeding my baby girl. She was in the NICU, I had severe preeclampsia that led to other complications after birth requiring me to be really medicated so it became unsafe. I felt so guilty at the time. I’m SO happy for moms now, that the “fed is best” language is a lot more prominent now than 10 years ago. 💕💕
Even though I gave birth more recently, at a time when "fed is best" is really the motto, I was also devastated. I had preeclampsia, too, and then I went full eclampsia after delivery. Then the hospital used a cleanser on the pump to which I had a terrible allergic reaction, and to top it off since I'm type 1 diabetic everyone was already nervous about whether my supply would last. While the important thing is that we both survived, and I logically knew that, I'd actually had a great supply until that point, and to have it sort of snatched away by fate was hard. I imagine you felt similarly... Even though it was 10 years ago for you, I am proud of you for taking care of your own health and your baby's needs
@@federicapiottoli6922 omg y’all are so nice!! 🥹 thank you!! It was a hard decision, but at the point we were at (I put the whole story in the other comment), it was something that kinda became medically necessary if I wanted to be healthy enough to be the mama I needed to be. 🤷🏼♀️ Thank you for the kind comment 🥹🙏🏻
@@bce4auyou did what was best for you and your baby! At that moment, your little girl having a healthy momma to look after her was more important than whether she was breastfed or not. Well done for doing your best :)
I audibly gasped when Zach spilled his milk because I’ve cried several times over spilled milk. I exclusively pumped for 8 months and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
@@citypenguinthey could designate one meeting room to be pumping friendly by adding curtains onto a ceiling track. So the windows aren’t permanently covered but the option for privacy is there.
This is what makes being an aunt, uncle or found family willing to periodically parent aka babysit so great! You get to be there for kids and friends and support them without constantly worrying about being the main caregiver & how that impacts the kid
I used to be a nursing mom- and I remember once, in a sleep-deprived haze, I accidentally poured a bag of thawed breastmilk down the drain. Like 6oz. I cried so hard. XD That represented so much time and energy, and conscious thought. Another time I was invited to a show up in Boston with friends, and I went- but I had to bring a manual pump and a cooler bag and we made a stop on the way so I could pump in a Dunkin Donuts bathroom. LOL. I saw the whole show with a cooler bag of milk under my seat. Breastfeeding is... wild. Like a fever dream.
Within my own extended family various ladies have tried breastfeeding. The results were 1) Breastfeeding worked. 2) No milk, and formula was the only option (no such thing as lactation consultants or donor milk at the time). 3) Not enough milk, so formula supplement. 4) Baby was medically intolerant of breastmilk and "normal" formula, so they required a prescription/special formula. 5) Mother had to stop breastfeeding for their own mental health. In all of those cases, the babies involved are either healthy kids or are grown adults. Some of those grown adults have children/grandchildren of their own. My point is as long as everyone involved is healthy, fed, and relatively sane, do what works for your situation.
Thank you for this comment! ❤This is just how it works, but mothers are often shamed no matter what they do. I had problems getting enough milk in the beginning and had to use supplements the first four months. So many told me to give up and go on formula all time. I’m glad I persisted, and it eventually worked more than fine. But that was for me personally. I would never tell someone else to neither start or stop or continue breastfeeding, that’s up to each individual’s circumstance’s. Just get your baby fed and they’ll be happy.
This is such a great comment!! When I was a baby I was just like the 4th outcome and had to be on specialized soy formula. It’s always annoying and hurtful to see all the “breast is best” nonsense when being breast fed wouldn’t have made me smarter or stronger or healthier, I would’ve just died from dehydration and malnutrition because I couldn’t digest any of the nutrients or even keep the milk in my body. It also creates so much unnecessary shame for parents. 😔
@@annelialin9646 I supplemented until my babies were weaned and no longer wanted to breastfeed, so I feel you there. No one told me to "give up" on breastfeeding, but my (retired nurse) parents gently told me early on with my first child that supplementing would be better for my own sanity and my child's health. I still felt somewhat like I was failing, but that was the best choice for the situation.
We had our daughter earlier this year and my husband has been the greatest help with breastfeeding. When we were in the hospital and struggling to get colostrum going, he watched the lactation specialist and how they were able to do manual pumping, and then he helped me with it. I couldn’t do the manual pumping - really struggled with it. But he was able to see the technique more clearly and could do it for me. Then he was able to feed our daughter the colostrum through a syringe. Then once my milk came in, I got a case of mastitis a few weeks later and my husband was again the most supportive person ever. I was laid up in bed for a couple of days. He took care of the rest of the baby care and made sure I was fed and looked after. I had to keep nursing to try and clear the blockage and pump to help it too, and he helped me through all of that. He makes sure the pump is all cleaned out after every session and he feeds our daughter with the expressed milk when we aren’t doing a breast feed. For anyone who isn’t the lactating parent, there is so much you can do to help your partner in the journey. We are 8 months into breastfeeding, and it’s been amazing. Much easier to do with encouragement and support from a partner ❤
Keith: "It's three in the morning... Alfred: "meow" Keith: "... Alfred, you have foooood!" Is a total mood 😂 Also, huge props to the Habs family for keeping Henry out of the limelight. I instantly admire parents more when they don't involve their kids - who can't consent - in online/public content. Way to go Keith and Becky! PS: Henry Habs is a such a cute name 😍
I am a # clomsymomsy and have cried about spilled milk. Thanks for the acknowledgment 😂 I exclusively pumped for 14 months during covid. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I love this video and the acknowledgment of all the work it takes.
You guys have no idea how this video helped me cope with breastfeeding 💖(and even more with pumping). I recently gave birth, and no one told me that breastfeeding and breast pumping can be so painful. I pumped with my hands all evening yesterday, removing stagnation in the milk ducts and it hurt...a lot...And now, early in the morning, they brought my baby and after her feeding I turned on your video. It gave me joy and oxytocin and calmed me down 😌 Now I can pump my breasts without that much of a pain. You guys are awesome
Fed is best 🙌🏻 so glad they included this! ❤There’s a huge societal pressure on new parents to breastfeed but there’s so many reasons that it may not be possible and no one should be made to feel guilty or shamed for having to use donor or formula milk. This video is so good for showing the emotional toll that keeping to this schedule and having outside commitments can have, and that’s without all the other challenges of looking after a baby constantly!
guys, this video is just...so badass. i am so grateful you're doing a series like this, and the interviews with actual breastfeeding parents was pivotal.
I had a horrible time trying to breast feed my daughter. She wouldn’t latch and I ended up pumping exclusively for 8 months. It’s over a year later and this topic still hurts so much for me. I am so sad that it didn’t work for me. Breastfeeding is so freaking hard. Edit: Thank you all so much. Hearing everyone else’s stories and words of support are literally making me tear up.
listen Mama, fed is best! you are doing what you can. At least your child is fed and happy, even pumping. it’s breast milk, no matter what way it comes out. sending love and support into the universe for you. i’m sure you’ve got a strong healthy kiddo! ❤️❤️
My daughter was the same. I exclusively pumped and I didn't think this video would make me emotional. But clearly it's still a really tough topic for me. It's SO HARD and people really don't understand, so I'm glad this video give a little glimpse. I especially love that they included pumping in a car. I joke that I've pumped on planes, trains, and automobiles (plus many many more locations). That was so realistic.
Only 2 months postpartum and I give major props because she only gets breast milk but originally I tried to bottle feed only but it was A LOT keeping up with pumping and feeding. I just breastfeed now and pump from time to time
I bet Henry's such a cute baby. Becky and Keith look so comfortable being parents is almost as if they were meant to be. It is also extremely heartwarming that you had Henry AND had no problems taking care of your two kitties. The world needs to see more of that, babies and pets (especially cats) can coexist.
It was Alfred that got me. Where he’s tentatively sitting because he’s not sure what’s about to happen and he’s comfortable but ready to run. 😂 (I know that cat stance.)
I'm in week 1 of recovering from lumbar fusion. I've been in so much pain that I've been watching everything I could to take my mind off of my situation. Zach, Eugene, Keith, and the entire TryTeam...Thank you for the first video that has made me laugh and smile despite my pain. I appreciate all of your hard work, dedication, and openness to not only explore different things, but humiliate yourselves in the name of science! Much Love from Texas!!!
This was so validating to watch. Thank you for exploring the work load and sleep deprivation included and not just 'ugh, it feels funny.' This is only scratching the surface of breastfeeding, but what a brilliant start for people wanting to understand more!
I know this is probably not intentional but this solidifies my resolve to not have kids ever. I could not handle this and more kudos to those out there who have gone through this and to those who want children.
I recently worked in an office with a woman who had to take 15 minute breaks to pump three times a day, and I was like, "...nope, can't do it. God bless you."
I breastfed all three of my kids through year one but I also 100% punted on a night feed and used formula instead. I felt so much more sane thanks to that small change. Props to all the moms - fully breastfed, fully formula fed, or somewhere in between -- you are doing great!
I was so happy and validated by the shout out about Hyperlactation and producing so much milk so fast that it overwhelms the baby! I love everything about this video, breastfeeding AND pumping AND formula feeding are all so difficult in different ways, and I'm happy to see a video about it that helps get the message across that it IS painful and SO, SO difficult.
Thank you guys SO much for trying this and using your platform to make the public more aware of the trials of pumping! I exclusively pumped for 11 months. I had such an insane oversupply that I had to regularly donate two thirds of my supply because we always ran out of room in our freezer. At my supply's peak I made ~90oz of milk PER DAY. I lost a lot of weight to an uncomfortable degree, and ultimately stopped pumping for my mental and physical health. My kiddo was well-fed and she's doing great now, but my gosh it was a lot to endure! And I would (and probably will) do it again!
High five to a fellow exclusive pumper! My little guy was growth restricted and too small and weak to develop a good latch at a crucial time, but I really wanted to give him breast milk so I EPed for the first five months of his life. It's a journey that not a lot of people talk about, even in spaces dedicated to discussing parenting, and I'm so glad you brought it up here. Cheers and best wishes to you on the rest of your breastfeeding journey!
I watched this video while nursing my newborn. I know this isn’t the flashiest or most viral video you guys have done but I felt really seen and acknowledged and I really appreciated how much care and research went into this video.
Trans guy and a long-time fan of you all! Appreciate Eugene's shirt (gender affirming healthcare saves lives)! The try guys have always been vocal about being trans allies 🏳️⚧️ *Edit: Thanks for all the likes!!
@@dandycandyhearts Except for videos like this, where they ignore trans men in every way lol. I like the try guys and I think videos like this are interesting, but I would love if they could at least acknowledge that not all people that breastfeed are women.
This video does a great job of explaining to us how exhausting this shit is and makes it extremely clear how postpartum depression is so common. Like I am just even more depressed imagining being in this position.
This video is perfect Try Guys content. This gave me that same, wonderful, at-home feeling that the older try guys videos gave me. The nipple jokes, the genuine pain and discomfort they were absolutely gonsmacked to think that many people go through in regular life. Just a perfect blend of Try, discovery, wonder, and humor.
it kind of feels like they’re revisiting some video concepts that were made back when there was an unnamed fourth member at least with the drunk/stoned obstacle course & now baby era…. we will see if the theme continues
As a mom approaching 1 years of breastfeeding this Saturday, I cannot tell you how excited I am to watch this!! Thanks Try Guys for shedding light on all of the craziness that comes with the territory 🤣
Hot take: Our society needs to massively adjust to make breastfeeding easier, because there *are* benefits to breast milk, but putting the pressure on individual parents needs to STOP. Breast milk is not more beneficial than a healthy, comfortable, and less stressed parent.
I really appreciate this video. I STRUGGLED as a mom to breastfeed and I got so down on myself that I gave up because I didn’t produce enough/ wasn’t taught how to properly. This video validates me, but also gives knowledge that I wasn’t given! I love this. Thank you!
Eugene has tattooes now? Several? And Keith and Becky have a four-month-old? Damn, we're LEARNING things over here! I'm proud of them for finding a work-life-balance where they are not monetizing things like that any more. edit: Ok, wait... No. Eugene does NOT have tattoos. They ALL have tattoos on their arms, and they're different from the ones they have for the "Try guys try tattoos". What is going on?
As someone with too many kids I appreciate these videos so much. This video feels so much closer to the real thing than usual. By the time my fresh one hit three months I was counting down to a year
Thoroughly appreciate that the try guys focus on fed is best and not shaming anyone or the way they feed their baby. Brings up some real challenges that parents face when feeding their children. Another awesome video!
congrats keith and becky! Hope the three of you are doing well great vid- you really captured how even something that seems like a simple task can be draining and exhausting when you're tired already
I appreciate the level of care put into Keith’s baby’s privacy and autonomy such that like half of the fan base is only just now learning about Henry and we get to enjoy the uniquely disturbing pleasure of babified Keith and Zach.
I’m ine of those fans that just learned that Keith & Becky had a baby
@gracieramos03 same here I'm so happy for him and becky!
I was unsure about whether he was talking about an actual baby or a fur baby for a hot second lmao (I was just shook tbh 😆)
@@jodoodlyboi2963 meeeee too!
I didn't know Keith and Becky had become parents either. So happy for them. 😮😊
It's actually insane how much work Keith does. He seamlessly hid a whole entire baby while being so present on the channel no one suspected a thing thats so crazy
Eh, not really. Love Keith but Becky had the baby, she disappeared for quite a few months, and Keith probably took a paternity leave and just pre-filmed. They usually pre-film moths ahead of time and schedule out when the content is released. Keith very likely did an extra video here and there to keep up with the release schedule without seeming like he was gone.
@@LoryBelle they talked about this in you can sit with us, Keith worked a lot. If I remember correctly even when they were waiting for Henry to leave the hospital. Not every situation is ideal, I actually think filming js the simplest of his tasks bc he is one of the owners
He also said that they didn't want their baby on camera yet, hence why they're not mentioning him or showing him in videos. This is the first video where we hear Henry crying. Maybe they'll be showing him to the world soon.
I believe the first video we heard him was when keith was eating at the cheesecake factory =)
But im sure in the future they'll have a bigger reveal @katherinedobias7499
I was as impressed with the quality cover-up he uses...I didn't know he had tats...
Eugene accidentally locking himself in the closet in the dark is the funniest thing ever 😂
Like, no, babe... You came out. Let's not be locking ourselves in closets. 😮💨
these baby videos are so much more entertaining when you don’t got a ginger whispering in your ear about how much of a father he is
LMAOOOOO
I like how he's been demoted to ginger.
Come on, thats so rude. Gingers dont deserve that.
"He's Jewish like Daddy" has me rolling🤣
heard that and immediately went to the comments holy shit 😭
Same😂😂
same hahaha
Time stamp?
@@Dougiewoof 2:49
Keith just talking to Alfred and telling him that he can’t have the milk because he’s a cat was very funny to me for some reason.
Cats are usually lactose intolerance. That's why. Also I think human milk is different.
@@daisyperez6708 Thank you. But I already know that cats are usually lactose intolerant. I do appreciate you sharing the information in case others didn’t know about it.
I think it’s just the tone of voice he has with the cat 😂
lmao WHHHEEEERRE is the time stamp i can't find it!!
@@SakyTenraku starts around 15:45
Can we take a moment for the mom who whispered “he’s Jewish like daddy” I couldn’t stop laughing 😂😂😂
I was looking for this 😂😂😂
Why did this crack me the fuck up XD
@@LullabyeLaurawhat time was it at?
@@oliviamorgan-nb5ln 2:50
2:50 @@oliviamorgan-nb5ln
“Don’t cry over spilled milk” was definitely never said by a breastfeeding mother 😂
Can confirm. I have cried over spilled breast milk 😅 my partner spilt it and I got so mad and upset
Probably first said by her gaslighting husband who assumed it was natural and easy 😂
I absolutely have cried
And disposing of 200+ ounces when the freezer breaks is extremely painful!
I had a full panic attack at about a week post partum because I thought my husband was going to spill what I just pumped and I was insisting that I be the one who take it downstairs to the fridge. He was gently but firmly telling me to get back in bed (I have a difficult delivery and had no business being up) and that he was not going to spill it, but my sleep deprived and hormonally depleted brain could not trust him with that precious milk. Having a baby is such a wild time
As a woman whose body did not make milk, I am SO happy to hear her say "fed is best". So many people told me to just keep trying. It was horrible and they made me feel like the worst mother ever.
I agree. It was so difficult with my oldest (very painful) that I supplemented with formula and was made to feel terrible because it wasn't strictly breastmilk. I got to the point (once I wasn't quite so tired) that I was kind of telling people off. "Look, she's hungry and I'm hurting. I'm going to make sure she's fed even if that means I have to use formula. So zip it."
My lil brother couldn't eat breastmilk so it was hard for my mum to hear that it was horrible for feeding him formula.. when the doctors also said to do so.. She is not wrong, as long the baby is fed. They're solid. Everyone has different issues where it may not allow them to breastfeed and this was very nice to see as well.
@@danigrl917 Honestly, that sounds like the perfect response, your patience is remarkable!
My older sister was premature by a month, and just a lazy baby who refused to breastfeed. Mom’s pediatrician refused to admit that anything but strictly breastfed was okay, and my sister just kept losing weight. So finally mom just gave up and started feeding formula, and my sister ate well and started to thrive.
For me, it was a new pediatrician in a new state and no shame about feeding a mix of breast milk and formula.
This was the mid/late 1980s, modern efficient breast pumps didn’t exist.
Same here, my daughter came 8 weeks early and we lived at the NICU the entire time and it was the worst and most stressful time of my life. I did everything i could i even talked to lactation experts who said i did all i could. I never pumped enough, my daughter was too small to breastfeed, it was a mess. I hope i will have better luck next time because i want to experience what it's like to breastfeed!
Thank God Eugene is only taking care of the Try Babies cos Eugene becoming a baby might just be overkill
Toddler Eugene is a hard image to imagine 😂
Keith inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging...
@@namantherockstardon’t gotta beg for views. Make good content. People usually get started with mediocre equipment
Toddler Eugene: “wah bitch feed me” *in monotone voice*
HE IS GAY AND DOES NOT LIKE CHILDREN. ALSO HE IS ASIAN. THESE ARE EUGENES MAIN TRAITS. DIDN’T YOU KNOW THIS? ASIAN. GAY. CLOSED OFF. THATS IT. THATS THE BRAND.
Eugene: I have two bras...
Zach: Where the hell is my bra?
Well done editors, well done
Love hearing the expert say "Fed is Best" because I know so many moms who felt like failures because they were unable to breastfeed for whatever reason and had everyone in their ears saying "breast is best".
Zach unimpressed saying "this kid better not forget to call me when he goes to college" absolutely sent me
Keith: Eugene's not babysitting my baby, enough of that trend, no thank you
Also Keith: I'm baby, Eugene must babysit me
Ohh for goodness sakes 😅
I'm going through a miscarriage right now and wasn't sure if I could handle watching this. I laughed out loud several times. You guys are great.
Sending you lots of love!!
Thank you ♥️
i'm so sorry, sending you lots of love ❤️🩹
Sending much, much love ❤ I know it's devastating but I also know you'll find strength to go through it ❤
Y'all are going to make me cry! Isn't it amazing that a video of some guys trying out crazy stuff brings out support from total strangers?
I love Rachel’s joy over them experiencing typically female-coded challenges, she’s always smiling so savagely, but also she has such a nice smile that it’s this wonderful mixture of vengeance, satisfaction, and glee. Rachel is all of us ❤ I love the try mom!!!
The period cramp one is my favorite.
Thank you guys for reaffirming my lack of desire to be a mother.
Breastfeeding isn’t actually mandatory though. Obviously that’s not usually the only reason people dont want to be parents, just putting it out there hehe
@@chuchu9649of course is not the only reason I don’t want kids. But it’s really terrifying.
Yeah, motherhood is absolutely terrifying and stressful and tiring. It's definitely not for everyone. So don't let anyone try to tell you that you have to have kids. You do whatever you feel is right for your life. ❤
Agreed. Props to those who do become moms. It sounds crazy rough and not for me 😅
Also the thing with becoming a mom is that, it's for life, it's not like a Netflix one month trial which you can unsubscribe, it's not something you buy and can return to the store, or it's not like a job that you can just quit if you hate it. You can't quit parenting, you're stucked with it FOR LIFE. So I cannot imagine becoming a mom unless I feel a "true calling" for it (which I absolutely don't haha).
When Eugene realized Rachel knew the baby didn’t like the bottle was so hard. Rachel really wanted them to experience everything was amazing.
The visual of Keith at the end, alone on his couch with Alfred and two wine glasses out on the table just exhaustedly laughing "I'm pumping! I have to pump every three hours!" is truly so delightful
you just know becky fell in love all over again :)
As a mom who was not able to breastfeed, thank you for saying "fed is best". I can't tell you the amount of women that shamed me for not giving my baby breastmilk. That "god was punishing me" or that "i didn't love my baby enough". I physically could not make milk, so my baby was formula fed from day 1. She's the cutest little 2 yr old, and is thriving! Thank you for validating formula fed babies.
my mom said i struggled to breastfeed and i was bottle fed, and honestly, i am just as healthy. Never let people shame you! My mom loves me deeply :) and we bond just as much as we would breastfed.
Zack’s comment of “I’m doing all this and I don’t even have a little baby to snuggle” is exactly how it feels to me a new mom with your baby in the NICU. These are things people don’t talk about enough
I feel you my new mom here & my baby was also in the NICU & it was such a horrible experience pumping & your baby isn’t near you. It also felt horrible when the nurses would say “you have to pump bc your body needs to think your baby is feeding off you even though there’s no baby atm”. Those words hurt so much especially knowing my baby was fighting for his life 🥲. But it will all workout mom trust your baby. They are very strong beings that love to latch onto life. It will all be worth it when you get to take your baby home and it will happen soon 🤍.
@@crisspena2211 oh gosh I’m so sorry you have that experience 💔 I completely relate as my baby was also in critical condition but I’m very grateful that he came home a year ago and it’s only a distant memory by now! Nothing beats that feeling of finally taking your baby home❤️
@@kaiyahorst omg I’m so glad it’s a distant memory now. Hope you and your little one are doing good wish you & your little one eternal health 🤍.
I appreciate you sharing this. It definitely puts things into perspective and helps prepare future mothers/parents.
I felt this ❤️ I had my son 12 weeks premature and getting up at night to pump for him felt all the more challenging. Luckily he learned to breastfeed, and is a happy 4 year old now 💜
As a breastfeeding mother, thank you! This part of being a Mom is so overlooked, especially when fathers don't have to worry about it, and Mother's take on all the extra stress and extra feedings, and lack of sleep, and pumping..
Girl I so feel this, my fiance helps me wash bottles and pumping equipment though and he's the best.
Not to mention stress affects the ability to produce milk, and you when can't make enough milk makes you stressed. The cycle continues
The father absolutepy can help and should be worrying about it... obviously
@@draalttom844 even with the dad helping, the mom always has more on her plate
@@tata-yo9id only if she chooses a lazy man
"I can't feed you my breast milk! You're a cat!" will live rent-free in my head forever.
Keith had his baby and the cat wanting his milk.
I remember I was devastated when I had to quit breastfeeding my baby girl. She was in the NICU, I had severe preeclampsia that led to other complications after birth requiring me to be really medicated so it became unsafe. I felt so guilty at the time. I’m SO happy for moms now, that the “fed is best” language is a lot more prominent now than 10 years ago. 💕💕
I'm so sorry you had to feel bad about yourself for prioritising your health in a time that highly required it ❤
Even though I gave birth more recently, at a time when "fed is best" is really the motto, I was also devastated. I had preeclampsia, too, and then I went full eclampsia after delivery. Then the hospital used a cleanser on the pump to which I had a terrible allergic reaction, and to top it off since I'm type 1 diabetic everyone was already nervous about whether my supply would last.
While the important thing is that we both survived, and I logically knew that, I'd actually had a great supply until that point, and to have it sort of snatched away by fate was hard. I imagine you felt similarly...
Even though it was 10 years ago for you, I am proud of you for taking care of your own health and your baby's needs
@@federicapiottoli6922 omg y’all are so nice!! 🥹 thank you!! It was a hard decision, but at the point we were at (I put the whole story in the other comment), it was something that kinda became medically necessary if I wanted to be healthy enough to be the mama I needed to be. 🤷🏼♀️ Thank you for the kind comment 🥹🙏🏻
@@bce4auyou did what was best for you and your baby! At that moment, your little girl having a healthy momma to look after her was more important than whether she was breastfed or not. Well done for doing your best :)
@@taylamuller1811 🥹😭 Thank you so much! That means a lot! 🤍
I audibly gasped when Zach spilled his milk because I’ve cried several times over spilled milk. I exclusively pumped for 8 months and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done.
I've done that its upset me more than i thought it would 20 mins work gone in a second
Fellow EPer here!! Definitely the hardest thing ever 💕
I'd be so upset omg, mothers are tough
I totally agree and I say it often using those exact words. Hardest thing I've EVER done!
Bless your heart. Exclusively pumping, you are braver than the troops.
Becky: Eugene will not be babysitting Henry for a video
Keith: say no more, I’ve got this
I didn't even know Keith and Becky were even expecting, let alone have a 4 month old! I'm so happy for them!
Tbh, if I walked in on two of my friends in onesies, lying on the floor pretending to cry, I'd leave and shut the door just like Eugene did 😂
Rachel going "wait wait" as Eugene closed the door had me dying. 🤣 Like she didn't know that would be his reaction.
The fact that Rachel was being mischievous with the Try Guys was so hilarious to me 😂😂😂
rachel is such a menace with them i love it
The Try Guys realize that their office is not very pump-friendly. Hope there are some improvements in the works! 🙏🏼✨
Pump in the office with all those windows?!
@@citypenguinwell you could make thin walls or paravents...
A "The Try Guys Make Their Office Pump Friendly" video might be cool!
@@citypenguinthey could designate one meeting room to be pumping friendly by adding curtains onto a ceiling track. So the windows aren’t permanently covered but the option for privacy is there.
@@lindsayvlogslife That's what the college that I worked for did.
Zach wanting his own snuggle muffin is so sweet
This is what makes being an aunt, uncle or found family willing to periodically parent aka babysit so great! You get to be there for kids and friends and support them without constantly worrying about being the main caregiver & how that impacts the kid
I used to be a nursing mom- and I remember once, in a sleep-deprived haze, I accidentally poured a bag of thawed breastmilk down the drain. Like 6oz. I cried so hard. XD That represented so much time and energy, and conscious thought. Another time I was invited to a show up in Boston with friends, and I went- but I had to bring a manual pump and a cooler bag and we made a stop on the way so I could pump in a Dunkin Donuts bathroom. LOL. I saw the whole show with a cooler bag of milk under my seat. Breastfeeding is... wild. Like a fever dream.
A wild fever dream is the perfect way to describe it. I’m having flashbacks to pumping in bar bathrooms and airport terminals…the things we do
Within my own extended family various ladies have tried breastfeeding. The results were
1) Breastfeeding worked.
2) No milk, and formula was the only option (no such thing as lactation consultants or donor milk at the time).
3) Not enough milk, so formula supplement.
4) Baby was medically intolerant of breastmilk and "normal" formula, so they required a prescription/special formula.
5) Mother had to stop breastfeeding for their own mental health.
In all of those cases, the babies involved are either healthy kids or are grown adults. Some of those grown adults have children/grandchildren of their own. My point is as long as everyone involved is healthy, fed, and relatively sane, do what works for your situation.
Thank you for this comment! ❤This is just how it works, but mothers are often shamed no matter what they do. I had problems getting enough milk in the beginning and had to use supplements the first four months. So many told me to give up and go on formula all time. I’m glad I persisted, and it eventually worked more than fine. But that was for me personally. I would never tell someone else to neither start or stop or continue breastfeeding, that’s up to each individual’s circumstance’s. Just get your baby fed and they’ll be happy.
Exactly this. Feed your child enough, regardless of how it's done x
This is such a great comment!!
When I was a baby I was just like the 4th outcome and had to be on specialized soy formula. It’s always annoying and hurtful to see all the “breast is best” nonsense when being breast fed wouldn’t have made me smarter or stronger or healthier, I would’ve just died from dehydration and malnutrition because I couldn’t digest any of the nutrients or even keep the milk in my body. It also creates so much unnecessary shame for parents. 😔
@@annelialin9646 I supplemented until my babies were weaned and no longer wanted to breastfeed, so I feel you there. No one told me to "give up" on breastfeeding, but my (retired nurse) parents gently told me early on with my first child that supplementing would be better for my own sanity and my child's health. I still felt somewhat like I was failing, but that was the best choice for the situation.
I had a “rage at the tiddy” baby so formula made life 1000 times better for both of us
I'm all for Keith's dad era omg 😍🙌🏼
It's a forever era for him!
@@manturay trueeee
When did they have a kid
I almost cried when he said "Henry" 😊
@@seanacampbell313 4-5 months ago lol. I don't remember how old they said he is, but somewhere around there
Keith talking to his cat in the middle of the night while he just begs for food is so realistic
We had our daughter earlier this year and my husband has been the greatest help with breastfeeding. When we were in the hospital and struggling to get colostrum going, he watched the lactation specialist and how they were able to do manual pumping, and then he helped me with it. I couldn’t do the manual pumping - really struggled with it. But he was able to see the technique more clearly and could do it for me. Then he was able to feed our daughter the colostrum through a syringe. Then once my milk came in, I got a case of mastitis a few weeks later and my husband was again the most supportive person ever. I was laid up in bed for a couple of days. He took care of the rest of the baby care and made sure I was fed and looked after. I had to keep nursing to try and clear the blockage and pump to help it too, and he helped me through all of that. He makes sure the pump is all cleaned out after every session and he feeds our daughter with the expressed milk when we aren’t doing a breast feed. For anyone who isn’t the lactating parent, there is so much you can do to help your partner in the journey. We are 8 months into breastfeeding, and it’s been amazing. Much easier to do with encouragement and support from a partner ❤
Seeing Keith's dad mode activate when he held the baby for the first time was freaking adorable 😭😭
keith’s super deep “WHAAAA” while he was on the floor SENT ME😂😂😂😂
I was hoping someone else noticed 💀💀💀💀
Keith: "It's three in the morning...
Alfred: "meow"
Keith: "... Alfred, you have foooood!"
Is a total mood 😂
Also, huge props to the Habs family for keeping Henry out of the limelight. I instantly admire parents more when they don't involve their kids - who can't consent - in online/public content. Way to go Keith and Becky!
PS: Henry Habs is a such a cute name 😍
I am a # clomsymomsy and have cried about spilled milk. Thanks for the acknowledgment 😂
I exclusively pumped for 14 months during covid. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I love this video and the acknowledgment of all the work it takes.
I still can’t believe keith is now the married dad in the try guys
Feels like the role he was always meant to play tbh lol
I didn't know they had a baby!
It’s so refreshing seeing an influencer being a great parent without exploiting their kids. Love this era
You might even say that he is now daddy. And now everything he likes is daddy’s favorite.
I was sooo shocked when he said that!! But I'm so happy for him and Becky!❤
eugene: “we won’t be doing a vid of me babysitting keith’s baby”
also eugene: *vid of him babysitting keith as a baby*
Was this said here? Probs missed it
You guys have no idea how this video helped me cope with breastfeeding 💖(and even more with pumping). I recently gave birth, and no one told me that breastfeeding and breast pumping can be so painful. I pumped with my hands all evening yesterday, removing stagnation in the milk ducts and it hurt...a lot...And now, early in the morning, they brought my baby and after her feeding I turned on your video. It gave me joy and oxytocin and calmed me down 😌 Now I can pump my breasts without that much of a pain. You guys are awesome
Keith: 👶
Zach: 👶
Eugene: 🚪
Rachel: "Wait, wait!"
"I can't feed you my breast milk. You're a CAT." -Keith Habersberger 2023
That ending with Becky walking in on Keith pumping was hilarious😂
I'm so happy that the return of Eugene's appearances is for this baby series bc it's amazing 😂
Eugene's face as he enters his house and the slow retreat, is everything
I DIEDDDDD watching Bowie run around with Zach’s pump 😂😂😂 sooooo realistic
All i kept thinking was, you gotta wash it again! Lol
I honestly respect and love that Becky and Keith respect their son’s privacy
“I’d get a bottle and I’d THUNK!” Omg that is such a Dad thing to say Zach I laughed so hard.
Fed is best 🙌🏻 so glad they included this! ❤There’s a huge societal pressure on new parents to breastfeed but there’s so many reasons that it may not be possible and no one should be made to feel guilty or shamed for having to use donor or formula milk. This video is so good for showing the emotional toll that keeping to this schedule and having outside commitments can have, and that’s without all the other challenges of looking after a baby constantly!
As a clumsy mom i really fucking appreciate the acceptance keith. ITS HARD AS FUCK🫠
Sending all love to you ❤ Stay strong, wonderwoman
I missed these types of weird videos with all of them
Me too like this one 😂
Same
Have you seen the episode where they simulate what period cramps felt like ?
@@Magicalwolfgamer yep
KEITH AND BECK ARE PARENTS OMG CONGRATULATIONS 🥰🥰🥰🥳🥳🥳 that’s so amazing ! wishing your family lots of love and happiness
guys, this video is just...so badass. i am so grateful you're doing a series like this, and the interviews with actual breastfeeding parents was pivotal.
"I can't feed you my breastmilk you're a cat!" Favourite line of the episode 🤣
I had a horrible time trying to breast feed my daughter. She wouldn’t latch and I ended up pumping exclusively for 8 months. It’s over a year later and this topic still hurts so much for me. I am so sad that it didn’t work for me. Breastfeeding is so freaking hard.
Edit: Thank you all so much. Hearing everyone else’s stories and words of support are literally making me tear up.
I’m sorry nursing didn’t work out for you. Pumping IS breastfeeding. You’re doing amazing!!!
listen Mama, fed is best! you are doing what you can. At least your child is fed and happy, even pumping. it’s breast milk, no matter what way it comes out. sending love and support into the universe for you. i’m sure you’ve got a strong healthy kiddo! ❤️❤️
i hope you found a support group during that time. no one should have to deal with that alone 🫶🏼
My daughter was the same. I exclusively pumped and I didn't think this video would make me emotional. But clearly it's still a really tough topic for me. It's SO HARD and people really don't understand, so I'm glad this video give a little glimpse. I especially love that they included pumping in a car. I joke that I've pumped on planes, trains, and automobiles (plus many many more locations). That was so realistic.
Only 2 months postpartum and I give major props because she only gets breast milk but originally I tried to bottle feed only but it was A LOT keeping up with pumping and feeding. I just breastfeed now and pump from time to time
I bet Henry's such a cute baby. Becky and Keith look so comfortable being parents is almost as if they were meant to be. It is also extremely heartwarming that you had Henry AND had no problems taking care of your two kitties. The world needs to see more of that, babies and pets (especially cats) can coexist.
"I can't feed you my breast milk, you're a cat!" had me dying, what a line
The last clip with Keith and Alfred and Becky just laughing.
This is the magic of the internet
It was Alfred that got me. Where he’s tentatively sitting because he’s not sure what’s about to happen and he’s comfortable but ready to run. 😂 (I know that cat stance.)
I thought this same thing 🥺 their wine glasses too
I loved it when Zach & Keith squirted water on their shirts to simulate leaking. It's the little touches that make this series awesome. :)
Just like when Rachel threw water on Zach to simulate a "leak" in the period pain simulator video.
Sure. But does the water have an odor, or is it sticky? Breast milk is SO sticky because it's so sweet. And definitely has a smell like no other.
I'm in week 1 of recovering from lumbar fusion. I've been in so much pain that I've been watching everything I could to take my mind off of my situation. Zach, Eugene, Keith, and the entire TryTeam...Thank you for the first video that has made me laugh and smile despite my pain. I appreciate all of your hard work, dedication, and openness to not only explore different things, but humiliate yourselves in the name of science! Much Love from Texas!!!
This was so validating to watch. Thank you for exploring the work load and sleep deprivation included and not just 'ugh, it feels funny.' This is only scratching the surface of breastfeeding, but what a brilliant start for people wanting to understand more!
I know this is probably not intentional but this solidifies my resolve to not have kids ever. I could not handle this and more kudos to those out there who have gone through this and to those who want children.
I recently worked in an office with a woman who had to take 15 minute breaks to pump three times a day, and I was like, "...nope, can't do it. God bless you."
I breastfed all three of my kids through year one but I also 100% punted on a night feed and used formula instead. I felt so much more sane thanks to that small change.
Props to all the moms - fully breastfed, fully formula fed, or somewhere in between -- you are doing great!
I was so happy and validated by the shout out about Hyperlactation and producing so much milk so fast that it overwhelms the baby! I love everything about this video, breastfeeding AND pumping AND formula feeding are all so difficult in different ways, and I'm happy to see a video about it that helps get the message across that it IS painful and SO, SO difficult.
When she said "fed is best" I stood up and cheered. Like yes! Doesn't matter how your baby gets fed as long as they eat. 🎉
“I have to come up with a story in case someone asks”Eugene 😂😂
It's like when they played with American Girl Dolls, all over!
Becky finding Keith at the end was adorable and hilarious!
Thank you guys SO much for trying this and using your platform to make the public more aware of the trials of pumping! I exclusively pumped for 11 months. I had such an insane oversupply that I had to regularly donate two thirds of my supply because we always ran out of room in our freezer. At my supply's peak I made ~90oz of milk PER DAY. I lost a lot of weight to an uncomfortable degree, and ultimately stopped pumping for my mental and physical health. My kiddo was well-fed and she's doing great now, but my gosh it was a lot to endure! And I would (and probably will) do it again!
High five to a fellow exclusive pumper! My little guy was growth restricted and too small and weak to develop a good latch at a crucial time, but I really wanted to give him breast milk so I EPed for the first five months of his life. It's a journey that not a lot of people talk about, even in spaces dedicated to discussing parenting, and I'm so glad you brought it up here. Cheers and best wishes to you on the rest of your breastfeeding journey!
I watched this video while nursing my newborn. I know this isn’t the flashiest or most viral video you guys have done but I felt really seen and acknowledged and I really appreciated how much care and research went into this video.
I love that Alfred is just hanging out with Keith on the couch in the middle of the night. I also love that Becky is concerned about it.
Trans guy and a long-time fan of you all! Appreciate Eugene's shirt (gender affirming healthcare saves lives)! The try guys have always been vocal about being trans allies 🏳️⚧️ *Edit: Thanks for all the likes!!
trans solidarity 🤘🏳️⚧️
beard looks great dude ❤
handsome.
Plus the efforts at trans-inclusive language is always appreciated!
@@dandycandyhearts Except for videos like this, where they ignore trans men in every way lol. I like the try guys and I think videos like this are interesting, but I would love if they could at least acknowledge that not all people that breastfeed are women.
If Maggie and Zach want kids, Bowie is gonna be a FANTASTIC big brother & entertainer 🤣
it's crazy that no one's talking about Kira Cook! (she was Hortensia in Matilda, i love that movie and it's so crazy to see her here out of nowhere)
This video does a great job of explaining to us how exhausting this shit is and makes it extremely clear how postpartum depression is so common. Like I am just even more depressed imagining being in this position.
I love that Keith said “you’re about to feed a baby for the first time, how do you feel” like Eugene didn’t feed other babies in past videos 😂
This video is perfect Try Guys content.
This gave me that same, wonderful, at-home feeling that the older try guys videos gave me.
The nipple jokes, the genuine pain and discomfort they were absolutely gonsmacked to think that many people go through in regular life.
Just a perfect blend of Try, discovery, wonder, and humor.
I'm so happy they've continued this series with the moms from the other videos!! Truly an amazing video everytime!!
As a mom. I love this. As a single mom. I ADORE this.
Same!
We're back to the baby era of try guys? Time truly is a flat circle
it kind of feels like they’re revisiting some video concepts that were made back when there was an unnamed fourth member
at least with the drunk/stoned obstacle course & now baby era…. we will see if the theme continues
As a mom approaching 1 years of breastfeeding this Saturday, I cannot tell you how excited I am to watch this!! Thanks Try Guys for shedding light on all of the craziness that comes with the territory 🤣
Hot take: Our society needs to massively adjust to make breastfeeding easier, because there *are* benefits to breast milk, but putting the pressure on individual parents needs to STOP. Breast milk is not more beneficial than a healthy, comfortable, and less stressed parent.
I don't even have kids, but Zach spilling almost an entire bag of milk hurt my heart. 😂😢
I also have a 4 month old baby boy named Henry 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ congratulations Becky and Keith!!!!
Congratulations to you too!! 🫶🏼
What a fun coincidence! Congrats to you, too!❤
I really appreciate this video. I STRUGGLED as a mom to breastfeed and I got so down on myself that I gave up because I didn’t produce enough/ wasn’t taught how to properly. This video validates me, but also gives knowledge that I wasn’t given! I love this. Thank you!
Haha Eugene at the end “what are we even trying”
Rachel’s “wait wait” at the end has me dying 😆
FYI-PUMP Act requires employers to provide a private place that is NOT a bathroom for pumping.
Omg thank you for bringing this type of video back! I have missed it SOO SOOO much! And I am so looking forward to that next video being teased. 😍😍😍
Alfred joining Keith for pumping is exactly what my cat does whenever I fed my baby or pump. Just sits next to me and protects us 😊
Eugene has tattooes now? Several? And Keith and Becky have a four-month-old? Damn, we're LEARNING things over here! I'm proud of them for finding a work-life-balance where they are not monetizing things like that any more.
edit: Ok, wait... No. Eugene does NOT have tattoos. They ALL have tattoos on their arms, and they're different from the ones they have for the "Try guys try tattoos". What is going on?
ikr I thought Eugene’s mom did not allow him?
The tattoos are for the WAR Live promo they did for this year (I think the photos are "The Bear" themed, thus the tattoos).
Thank you for mentioning the tattoos🙏 this is the second video i noticed them in, and i am still lost
@@miriam.abraham She doesn't have to, he's a grown adult
@@unpostedletterpretty sure it’s a reference to “The Bear”
This makes me remember the "Try Guys try women pants" where Keith complained about Becky always making these womanhood challenges harder for him 😂
seeing keith hug his baby and hearing becky talk abt it made me tear up!!! wish them the absolute best 🥹🥹🩷🩷 i’ll d word for baby henry
As someone with too many kids I appreciate these videos so much. This video feels so much closer to the real thing than usual. By the time my fresh one hit three months I was counting down to a year
The way daddy Keith holds the baby and he knew to check the bottle at the beginning 😊😊😊. How sweet!
Congratulations to Keith and Becky on Habersbaby!! (Or babyberger?)
BabyBerger 😂
Thoroughly appreciate that the try guys focus on fed is best and not shaming anyone or the way they feed their baby. Brings up some real challenges that parents face when feeding their children. Another awesome video!
congrats keith and becky! Hope the three of you are doing well
great vid- you really captured how even something that seems like a simple task can be draining and exhausting when you're tired already