I dated a guy for a while ( a few months ) he hit me one night. I never had anything to do with him after that, I learned he did the same thing to a new boyfriend. That boyfriend pressed charges and the guy ( my ex ) got four years for felony assault.
I hated this. Domestic violence should never be forgiven. The abuser needs to get help , not be accepted as a boyfriend. It is only bound to happen again.
Pity , their is not a part two , or part three etc this could have been a Series , l felt it had Potential big time, & I don't know why it was not Alex Preston ????
This brought up so much of my youth. I look at this material that is produced today and It amazes me how different it was when I was growing up. I know it's still difficult being gay but I was born in 1950. I lived through so much abuse I can hardly stand the memories of the rampant physical, mental, and sexual abuse I went through. Including the abuse from my own family. I was born and raised in the God-forsaken, backward state of Idaho and it really hasn't changed that much. I have survived this long and I question why I am even still alive. My heart goes out to every person who has and is going through the hell of being gay in this horrible, hateful country. 😢😢😢😢
Fell in love with this short project when I first came across it six or seven years ago, and re-watch it every so often. Very uplifting at the end. This project has been done well, especially with the time constraints. The writer(s) and these two actors work well together. Camera, light, sound/volume are all very good. More please. Thanks (Apr. 6, 2024)
"I've seen more reruns of this show then I Love Lucy". A truer statement has never been spoken. Bullying, no matter the context or history, is nothing more than an excuse. Its sad that people actually believes its ok. What makes it worse is that the victim, most times, cant fight back. I was lucky that I could, but I know of many others who couldn't and some of them aren't here anymore. While I'm down for forgiveness, I am more down for accountability. I agree with some others: this could be a good series with some development arcs.
My bully turned out to be gay. It actually wasn't easy for him because he grew up in a very strict religious household where homophobia was always around in his house so I get it, it's not easy being gay in that whole environment so he explained it to me years and years later on Facebook and then we connected and that was it really. He even said sorry for his past actions because he didn't know any Better. He apologized to me like so many times and we've talked about it for like an hour. It was a good time because I saw a different side of him. Maybe the world should judge less. Sure I know that homophobia is wrong but you never know what that person is going through on the inside by themselves.
This has absolutely nothing to do with homophobia internalized or not. Its a choice to bully. There is nothing he went through that a hell of a lot of others don't go through every day - including me. I never bullied because my sense of manhood was offended by the idea of getting my sense of self importance or empowerment by stealing it from someone else. If it feels wrong or cruel, just don't do it.
Sometimes bullies like having someone that is easy to bully and they are bullying to turn the tables around . I know it sounds weird but I did see it happen
Everybody PLEASE KEEP IN MIND!!! Not only should this type of bullying be reported, but also it isn't the only type. There are many forms of bullying. Feeling an imbalance of power and a fear of another because of an action that they performed is bullying. As well as this, it would be very difficult to forgive someone for repeated physical violence. Same goes with mental and emotional. I'm not saying that it is even moderately acceptable or ethical to forgive someone for behaviors such as these, but I am saying that if you do forgive them, it would take years, not days.
I've been bullied really bad as a kid and it did lead towards fights but I fought back other times I was afraid but Nefertiti told me my parents until I was in college and one enough to speak years after coming out so I was more comfortable. Now I'm trying to to find myself and not focus on my stress. It's hard but I'm going to break through what my enemies cause. I will get over this depression and anxiety!
Ouch… big stretch, and poor message… He can forgive the abuser, but there’s no blooming relationship. For once I say listen to the drag queen, it hurts, but that guy has work to do, he ain’t the one
Oof... I think the fuck not.. I had my taste of this in highschool and they will always say the right thing to keep you on the hook... but they'll just hurt you again, then you'll start hurting them, and next minute you're in this fucked up toxic relationship for 6 years in secret before he runs off with some girl but tells you "I'll come back for you once shes had a couple of babies for me".... or was that just my experience ...
Interesting, when I was around 15 a kid in school used to pick on me all the time. He called me a fa**ot and a but muncher along with sother things including shoving me. My older sister saw him do that one time and beat the crap out of him. Last night I saw him on facebook from one of those suggested friends. I click on his profile and saw that he came out about ten years ago, and had broken up with his husband last year. I know how to forgive, but I'm not stupid enough to forget. I found out he did the same thing to another gay kid is school a few years ago, I blocked him.
El acosador tiene que recibir un castigo ejemplar, en público, debe ser castigo pedagógico sin contemplaciones. De no ser asi seguirá molestando a otros.... en el fondo es un retraído, reprimido porque siente lo mismo que al que acosa pero esconde su sentimiento con el ataque y la fobia.
i was bullied at secondary school for 5 years by the same guy i was 6"4" tall ginger hair and i was only just realizing i was gay, this was in the 1970's in a very rough town and a rough school i had a break down when i was 30 i would love to know why he did it i believe he was bullied by his dad possibly that was the reason , i was not a nice time for me,
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Uh. No. He hit you once, he will hit you again.
I dated a guy for a while ( a few months ) he hit me one night. I never had anything to do with him after that, I learned he did the same thing to a new boyfriend. That boyfriend pressed charges and the guy ( my ex ) got four years for felony assault.
@vulcan2882 4 years is to long tho
I hated this. Domestic violence should never be forgiven. The abuser needs to get help , not be accepted as a boyfriend. It is only bound to happen again.
Pity , their is not a part two , or part three etc
this could have been a
Series , l felt it had
Potential big time, &
I don't know why it was
not Alex Preston ????
Imagine meeting someone on an app that you really connect with but it turns out to be your bully. Poor Avery. He'll never live that down.
This brought up so much of my youth. I look at this material that is produced today and It amazes me how different it was when I was growing up. I know it's still difficult being gay but I was born in 1950. I lived through so much abuse I can hardly stand the memories of the rampant physical, mental, and sexual abuse I went through. Including the abuse from my own family. I was born and raised in the God-forsaken, backward state of Idaho and it really hasn't changed that much. I have survived this long and I question why I am even still alive. My heart goes out to every person who has and is going through the hell of being gay in this horrible, hateful country. 😢😢😢😢
That is why I am looking into moving to another country. And I'm nearly 50. If Trump loses, I might stay, but I'm not sure.
@@anatman6304 I would too but I am too old and don't have the means to do that. I wish you all of the best my friend. 💔
@@Roger-vz7ol Thank you 😘. Take Good Care!
Fell in love with this short project when I first came across it six or seven years ago, and re-watch it every so often. Very uplifting at the end. This project has been done well, especially with the time constraints. The writer(s) and these two actors work well together. Camera, light, sound/volume are all very good. More please. Thanks (Apr. 6, 2024)
I know it was a short film but the transition from being a perpetrator of violence to boyfriend was too quick.
"I've seen more reruns of this show then I Love Lucy". A truer statement has never been spoken. Bullying, no matter the context or history, is nothing more than an excuse. Its sad that people actually believes its ok. What makes it worse is that the victim, most times, cant fight back. I was lucky that I could, but I know of many others who couldn't and some of them aren't here anymore.
While I'm down for forgiveness, I am more down for accountability. I agree with some others: this could be a good series with some development arcs.
My bully turned out to be gay. It actually wasn't easy for him because he grew up in a very strict religious household where homophobia was always around in his house so I get it, it's not easy being gay in that whole environment so he explained it to me years and years later on Facebook and then we connected and that was it really. He even said sorry for his past actions because he didn't know any Better. He apologized to me like so many times and we've talked about it for like an hour. It was a good time because I saw a different side of him. Maybe the world should judge less. Sure I know that homophobia is wrong but you never know what that person is going through on the inside by themselves.
I feel bad for "karens" too. There's so much hatred to them, but we dont know what they are going through.
This has absolutely nothing to do with homophobia internalized or not. Its a choice to bully. There is nothing he went through that a hell of a lot of others don't go through every day - including me. I never bullied because my sense of manhood was offended by the idea of getting my sense of self importance or empowerment by stealing it from someone else. If it feels wrong or cruel, just don't do it.
Sometimes bullies like having someone that is easy to bully and they are bullying to turn the tables around . I know it sounds weird but I did see it happen
Certainly solidly made, particularly performances and direction of actors, but I'm a little queasy with the takeaway message.
Everybody PLEASE KEEP IN MIND!!! Not only should this type of bullying be reported, but also it isn't the only type. There are many forms of bullying. Feeling an imbalance of power and a fear of another because of an action that they performed is bullying. As well as this, it would be very difficult to forgive someone for repeated physical violence. Same goes with mental and emotional. I'm not saying that it is even moderately acceptable or ethical to forgive someone for behaviors such as these, but I am saying that if you do forgive them, it would take years, not days.
He shouldn't "figure everything out" with the guy he abuses. He should first "find everything out" by himself.
I've been bullied really bad as a kid and it did lead towards fights but I fought back other times I was afraid but Nefertiti told me my parents until I was in college and one enough to speak years after coming out so I was more comfortable. Now I'm trying to to find myself and not focus on my stress. It's hard but I'm going to break through what my enemies cause. I will get over this depression and anxiety!
Ouch… big stretch, and poor message… He can forgive the abuser, but there’s no blooming relationship. For once I say listen to the drag queen, it hurts, but that guy has work to do, he ain’t the one
Cute 🥰. And this literally happened with me irl. So my homophobic bully turned into my boyfriend haha 😂.
Wtf. Really? Aren't you Indian?
Wow I'm so happy for you
@@hievey1369 thanks 😊
Victim!!!!
Girl your a victim 😛
He just gave him permission to do it again.
This is not cool.
Was the bully pretending just to deflect the trouble he was about to get into with the principal? 🤔
That's what I was thinking.
Oof... I think the fuck not.. I had my taste of this in highschool and they will always say the right thing to keep you on the hook... but they'll just hurt you again, then you'll start hurting them, and next minute you're in this fucked up toxic relationship for 6 years in secret before he runs off with some girl but tells you "I'll come back for you once shes had a couple of babies for me".... or was that just my experience ...
Interesting, when I was around 15 a kid in school used to pick on me all the time. He called me a fa**ot and a but muncher along with sother things including shoving me. My older sister saw him do that one time and beat the crap out of him. Last night I saw him on facebook from one of those suggested friends. I click on his profile and saw that he came out about ten years ago, and had broken up with his husband last year. I know how to forgive, but I'm not stupid enough to forget. I found out he did the same thing to another gay kid is school a few years ago, I blocked him.
I still don't understand why they bully others even after knowing how it feels...it's strange
Boy and his bully boyfriend were both so happy
Scenes like this play out often with the anti-gay bully starting the show. They eventually learn.
El acosador tiene que recibir un castigo ejemplar, en público, debe ser castigo pedagógico sin contemplaciones. De no ser asi seguirá molestando a otros.... en el fondo es un retraído, reprimido porque siente lo mismo que al que acosa pero esconde su sentimiento con el ataque y la fobia.
i was bullied at secondary school for 5 years by the same guy i was 6"4" tall ginger hair and i was only just realizing i was gay, this was in the 1970's in a very rough town and a rough school i had a break down when i was 30 i would love to know why he did it i believe he was bullied by his dad possibly that was the reason , i was not a nice time for me,
3:05 IRON MAIDEN!
UP THE IRONS!
Thank you xxxx
had enough limp wrists look at me like that again and you'll regret it got it get to class
I don't hear any apology to start with
Pls any movie like this? Pls recommend
All my bullys ended up being gay.
The turnaround here is a bit ridiculous.
This is a joke! You bully a gay and hit him and the next day you have the same guy
Valha 😮 cadê o resto da história
okay, that's weird.
😶
Justin Bieber is really doing it
Love is love, love is gay, gay is fantastic 🥰 This I believe 🥰 l love the Rainbow Family 🌈🌈🌈
This was all way too convenient. Like come on.
Is he gay?!