Jochen & Tom • Their Story [ An Unusual Affair ]

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • I highly recommend watching the entire movie to understand the full plot.
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    movie: Eine Aussergewöhnliche Affäre /An Unusual Affair 2002
    edited by me🎀

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  • @lovinglgbt
    @lovinglgbt  23 дні тому +71

    This is the best quality I could find for this movie, but I love it so much that I had to share it. If you know where to find an HD version, please comment below.I'd happily rewatch it and reedit it! 🙏🙏

    • @KaHoJakeLeung
      @KaHoJakeLeung 20 днів тому +5

      I love Jochen ❤❤❤

    • @KamilDemir-g3o
      @KamilDemir-g3o 19 днів тому

      youtube video indir x2 youtube video indir -- full

    • @David-m8y
      @David-m8y 19 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your dedication to LGBT and finding such varied items for us to enjoy!

    • @DanTowey
      @DanTowey 17 днів тому

      Is this the complete movie? Or, is there a Part 2? Thank you for sharing it 🙏

    • @brittadoe6939
      @brittadoe6939 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@KaHoJakeLeungit is Hans Werner Meyer. Fun fact at a very young age Hans Werner was A Capella Singer in a Band called Echo Echo😉

  • @amall.k
    @amall.k 19 днів тому +149

    FOR CONTEXT... the story is a bit more complex than it may appear in the video.
    Jochen actually tries to maintain his marriage and had multiple conversations with his wife to reconcile and stay but things become complicated when the school finds out about his relationship, which forces him to make difficult decisions.
    His wife eventually finds happiness with someone else, showing that both parties moved on in their own ways.
    It's not just about leaving his family for someone else, but about dealing with the consequences of his actions and the pressure from the outside world.

    • @Shoujin1
      @Shoujin1 18 днів тому +13

      It’s also about him being unable to explore himself due to being with one person since he was 14 I’m glad his wife was understanding at the end because neither of them explored themselves so all of this was bound to happen at the end and i think they both saw it coming

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 18 днів тому +4

      Thank you. Based on these 23 minutes, it seems predatory (guy pursuing a married man).

    • @blessingabibo122
      @blessingabibo122 17 днів тому +2

      Thanks for this explaination

    • @RICHMOND94114
      @RICHMOND94114 14 днів тому +2

      did he and Tom continue their relationship?

    • @DavidPillow-x8t
      @DavidPillow-x8t 12 днів тому +3

      @@richardlee2642 The married man was looking for someone or something to happen! It takes two and isn't always the other person causing a married man or woman to decide to leave their marriage.

  • @StewNWT
    @StewNWT 15 днів тому +13

    this is incredible thanks for posting - goddamn jochen is gorgeous

  • @alastairjamesmainland2497
    @alastairjamesmainland2497 16 днів тому +21

    Brilliant film, kudos to Ina for keeping her cool and being so loving, a wonderful precarious edge to it all but beautiful resolve at the end. Fabulously done!

  • @Nin-815
    @Nin-815 19 днів тому +28

    Wow, after watching this , my heart reaallyyy goes out to the wife and kid. It’s indescribable. I loved her as much as I loved the chemistry between him and Tom.

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 18 днів тому +3

      They were the two unfortunate casualties at the hands of a selfish individual.

    • @SabrinaB.-gb6ib
      @SabrinaB.-gb6ib 11 днів тому +2

      ​@@richardlee2642Yes we all know the selfishness of wanting to be happy... Sorry but if you are miserable doesn't mean everyone have to accept an unhappy life. You think the children don't notice when their parents are unhappy? All of the people involved where victims of societal norms and unfair rules. And they got out

  • @rics1883
    @rics1883 20 днів тому +33

    Dude, his wife was devastated, I felt incredibly sad for her even thought at some level I wanted those guys work things out. But damm can you imagine telling your spouse "I've fallen for someone else", it's excruciating. At the end I was rooting for her tbh.

    • @JakeLikesJoking
      @JakeLikesJoking 5 днів тому +1

      I know what you mean. This is why I strongly dislike storylines where one or both of the guys are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's cruel and painful to that other person because there's nothing they could've done about it and no way for them to know beforehand.
      At least they managed to work things put somewhat amicably in this particular storyline.

  • @danyellamejia2818
    @danyellamejia2818 21 день тому +18

    I will always remember my gratitude, please never stop uploading videos. ILY❤

  • @tobysrimani1047
    @tobysrimani1047 7 днів тому +4

    I have quite a few girls that came after me, but I never want to hide behind them and eventually hurt them one day knowing I could only live my life with a guy.
    Not judging, but it’s something I’d never put someone else through. Happy they found each other.

  • @primel6508
    @primel6508 16 днів тому +6

    I also felt very sad for her and I cried with her, when he moved out. Because....this man, I can't help ...really is a package! 😍Who wouldn' t fall for him! I can't also blame Tom found him attraktive!
    But I also have to admit.....seducing a married man....Jochen's attractivity back or forth.....was not the best idea of Tom!
    I know emotions aren't susceptible for reason! 😅
    And in Tom's case ...his bold approach was rewarded...!🌈♥️
    And to be honest.....if Jochen hadn't moved out....maybe sometimes in the future he regretted his decision and blamed his sweet wife for all his demand and dispair....?!
    And that would be worse for her!
    So they seperated in love and yes...surely, love sickness, but also in friendship. The pain will fade away, but their bonding will remain!
    And the kids will also keep a loving father!
    There are lots of hetero marrige divorces in modern times.....and not all of them are so feaceful like Jochen's and his wife....also to notice.....according to the strenght of her! 😍😍
    *Sorry, I forgot the name of her* 🙈😔
    Ina! Ina was her name! 😍

  • @jeffrey8783
    @jeffrey8783 20 днів тому +55

    Do I need to explain to anyone what happens when a gay man in the closet is forced by society to marry and have children and then several years later cannot take the torment or meets another gay.....and wants to come out of the closet leaving his wife and children. Sad, sad all around and society and religion and ignorance does all this over and over and over and over again and again. If you think that 4-6% of the world is gay.......think again!

  • @theonlyjames18
    @theonlyjames18 23 дні тому +10

    I really enjoy watching these 😊

  • @Hannesch
    @Hannesch 22 дні тому +11

    Now even a Sat1 Movie! I love you and your channel. Keep it up!! 🥰
    What other gay storylines did I miss in TV.. 🥲

  • @jcsgrrl
    @jcsgrrl 16 днів тому +5

    OMG! I havent seen this movie in forever. Let me go find it. Thx for the reminder. :)

  • @user-qv9hb4kp9f
    @user-qv9hb4kp9f 21 день тому +21

    Excellent film … Interesting and that the wife was not ever portrayed as angry or bitter …very unusual…

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 16 днів тому +1

      It’s not unusual tbh. She was definitely hurt in the car when he first told her but like she said she already knew deep down. Also they were childhood friends and had a good friendship foundation. That really made a difference. Think she was just happy he finally admitted it and was so they could both move forward.

  • @manolytovivi3090
    @manolytovivi3090 19 днів тому +8

    Thanks for the video ❤

  • @suiim_jpn
    @suiim_jpn 13 днів тому +2

    They are so cute together, i’m sad for the woman but I hope she can find someone who loves her

  • @jonmichaels9347
    @jonmichaels9347 11 днів тому +1

    Thank you for posting this.
    To help us enjoy it better , please keep the subtitles on longer each time.
    Please make them larger with a black background.

  • @dexter_69
    @dexter_69 22 дні тому +107

    Ayoo ..i really felt bad for that women ...they fell in love when they were 16 and when he s on his 30 s he again fell in love with a man n left his childrens ...married men should not go for affairs like thatt ...😭

    • @Girls4girls_1
      @Girls4girls_1 22 дні тому +23

      agreed but at the end she ended up with a guy as well.. she didn't cheat but i think they left her story out from the video because then they would have to upload the whole movie lol + the reason he moved out is also cuz the kids at school found out as well as his children

    • @rics1883
      @rics1883 20 днів тому +6

      Tell me about it. His wife was broken, I can't imagine the pain.

    • @wilsonksb
      @wilsonksb 19 днів тому +7

      Sigh some hearts change over time altogether. Cheating is bad no matter their gender or preference.

    • @DanTony68
      @DanTony68 19 днів тому +12

      This is not an affair at all but true and deep love. Jochen told the truth to his wife : he fell in love with Tom. There is no explanation or justification to give.

    • @dexter_69
      @dexter_69 19 днів тому +12

      @@DanTony68 please stop justifying cheating ...he already made out with that dude when he ws committed with his wife n got kìds
      Wht will u think if ur bf or gf who s in love with you for so many years , again goin and falling in love with someone else ..?its a huge form of betrayal in case of love
      A true one wont do thatt ..

  • @joseangelanguloromero4061
    @joseangelanguloromero4061 17 днів тому +2

    I saw this film before, thanks for post it

  • @Kdramabingy
    @Kdramabingy 7 днів тому +3

    Feeling sorry for that lady😢

    • @frauwaltraud2214
      @frauwaltraud2214 3 дні тому

      Man sollte nicht heiraten und Kinder zeugen.
      Er steht auf Typen, und das sein ganzes Leben lang.

  • @matami35
    @matami35 18 днів тому +2

    Dieser alte Schinken 😁
    Freue mich den mal wieder zu Gesicht zu bekommen. finde den film toll

    • @wolfganglehnert7594
      @wolfganglehnert7594 4 дні тому +1

      ....Dann muss ich mir den auch mal irgendwo anschauen....🥰🏳‍🌈

    • @frauwaltraud2214
      @frauwaltraud2214 3 дні тому +1

      ​@@wolfganglehnert7594
      Läuft in der Mediathek....

  • @RODRIGO-xg6op
    @RODRIGO-xg6op 19 днів тому +6

    German gay movies have certain ways of showing gay life without morbidity ... awesome

  • @badboy-kr6dq
    @badboy-kr6dq 22 дні тому +8

    this reminds me a bit of free fall (freier fall)....

  • @ayushitripathy
    @ayushitripathy 22 дні тому +5

    Plz make movie on the way he looks ,mario btw really appreciate your work

  • @mauricebederon869
    @mauricebederon869 День тому

    Most people I knew in my youth who were attracted by men and close friendships to men destroyed this part of their personality to become a husband and getting no problems in society.

  • @nnekarosalie2523
    @nnekarosalie2523 15 днів тому +3

    That was the sweetest fucking kiss

  • @Warum_Nicht
    @Warum_Nicht 19 днів тому +6

    Good film. The blond guy was a home wrecker.

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому +1

      Yes, he was. It's easy to see. For those who can't, change the situation from "young gay guy getting involved with a married man" to "young straight gal getting involved with a married man."

    • @Warum_Nicht
      @Warum_Nicht 5 днів тому +1

      @@richardlee2642 - good for the blonde guy!!

    • @frauwaltraud2214
      @frauwaltraud2214 3 дні тому

      ​@@Warum_NichtToll für beide!!!

  • @user-cb3ox1up5r
    @user-cb3ox1up5r 17 днів тому +8

    This is what happens when you get married too young without realising your needs and preferences. (( but this is life //

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому

      Preferences...like Plain M&M's vs. Peanut M&M's? Most people know their orientation between 7 - 12 years of age.

  • @johnneladderley03
    @johnneladderley03 17 днів тому +3

    Hello, I wonder if you can help me. I am trying to find a free streaming site to watch a French Canadian series called In Memoriam. The show has a few gay characters and it looks like it's going to be a great drama.
    However, I am struggling to find a free streaming site that has it with English Subtitles. Everything is in French😢.
    I wanted to know if you could please suggest any sites that I can use that has English Subtitles.
    Thank you and I hope to hear from you soon 🤞🏾.

  • @StewNWT
    @StewNWT 15 днів тому

    Really great job with this video

  • @ThomasAndersscrtwife
    @ThomasAndersscrtwife 14 днів тому

    God damn i love your channel

  • @covadongabahamonde7515
    @covadongabahamonde7515 2 дні тому

    Movie title:
    An Unusual Affair (2002)

  • @danielolson437
    @danielolson437 4 дні тому

    Very well written and played. As romantic as this piece is intended... It's fantasy. And not a healthy one. Pursuing someone who is already in a committed relationship is only good for narratives. The damage done to oneself and others under such conditions is no conducive to a happy ending. There are always lingering and often persistent consequences. As someone who has made this mistake more than once... I can't recommend it. I'm still drawn to such movies... even though I know it never works out like in the movies.

  • @albertsmyth9616
    @albertsmyth9616 18 днів тому +9

    Am I the only one who thinks that a man or woman that pursues a married person is a marriage wrecker? A married person should be out of bounds. Surely it’s so wrong to do that?

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 16 днів тому +5

      You’re correct but ultimately nothing can happen if the married person doesn’t open those doors so yeah.

    • @kobusgrove985
      @kobusgrove985 16 днів тому +1

      @@SnapszDuhh Wow, never thought of it that way...

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 16 днів тому +2

      @@kobusgrove985 a lot of people blame the third person but it has absolutely nothing to do with them and everything to do with the person in the relationship only.

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому +2

      Agreed! The movie would have been better had the married guy already separated from his wife.

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому

      @@SnapszDuhh The young guy is to blame. The married guy was a coward and needed an enabler.

  • @MichaelMcGrath-l1u
    @MichaelMcGrath-l1u 11 днів тому +1

    Oh my god the music is so annoying and the subtitles are hard to read.

  • @mauricebederon869
    @mauricebederon869 День тому

    This movie is from 2002.
    Today, Germany is a country with a lot of problems.

  • @shannonalver7728
    @shannonalver7728 19 днів тому +2

    Close the perishing blinds, your making yourself too vunerable.

  • @lost_girl1999
    @lost_girl1999 5 днів тому

    Ina have my full respect ❤

  • @gitanapranckeviciene1772
    @gitanapranckeviciene1772 22 дні тому +10

    where to watch full movie?

    • @frauwaltraud2214
      @frauwaltraud2214 3 дні тому

      Ganz normal auf der Mediathek....im Google suchen

  • @blessingabibo122
    @blessingabibo122 17 днів тому +2

    This so nice

  • @supercalime
    @supercalime 17 днів тому +5

    Do writers know they can write gay stories that don’t rely on men cheating on their wives/girlfriends?

    • @kobusgrove985
      @kobusgrove985 16 днів тому +1

      Yes, they do, as they do this is also a huge reality. A huge,huge really sorry for the girls. It just can not be easy on them......

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому +1

      Thank you! For that reason, I disliked this movie.

  • @leonaromano2497
    @leonaromano2497 19 днів тому +4

    Q história linda❤

  • @bigw8549
    @bigw8549 15 днів тому +2

    Does anyone know where I can watch the whole movie?

  • @HolgerJakobs
    @HolgerJakobs 3 дні тому

    Funny that they used the formal "Sie" (instead of "du") in the beginning. Among colleagues (companies or schools) it's common to use "du" from the beginning.

    • @frauwaltraud2214
      @frauwaltraud2214 3 дні тому

      Heute duzen sich ja alle.
      Erst neulich im Krankenhaus hat ein(sehr) junger Pfleger mich einfach geduzt.😂

  • @Nin-815
    @Nin-815 19 днів тому +1

    Where can I watch this???

  • @garluns
    @garluns 15 днів тому +1

    Looks like tom cruise on his side profile

  • @kabirhussainofficial3917
    @kabirhussainofficial3917 14 днів тому +1

    Lobely 😢❤❤❤❤

  • @Chilibamboni
    @Chilibamboni 13 днів тому +1

    What song in the beginning anyone knows?

    • @lovinglgbt
      @lovinglgbt  12 днів тому +1

      Better than That by Mercy Street

  • @fairytale9829
    @fairytale9829 8 днів тому

    which song did you use at around 10:20 ?

  • @Yorkley
    @Yorkley 22 дні тому +1

    What is the song by the female singer?

  • @1hayes1
    @1hayes1 16 днів тому +1

    Rule no. 1 with married men is to close the curtains.

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому

      Perhaps that's Rule #2. Rule #1 would be to stay away from a married man.

    • @1hayes1
      @1hayes1 10 днів тому

      @@richardlee2642 If I did, I'd never meet any men. Besides, many women now (I'm in Canada) are aware that their men are bi and permit them to see men, but not other women.

  • @Leftatalbuquerque
    @Leftatalbuquerque 7 годин тому

    Why have an English pop song playing during German speech?

  • @skysean8326
    @skysean8326 6 днів тому

    This kind of slow cheating. Being gay is something else, but damn. Dude seriously😢😢

  • @huolalupin6008
    @huolalupin6008 19 днів тому +1

    I couldn’t watch more than half this video. What a grubby little tale.

  • @matthiasgamauf1189
    @matthiasgamauf1189 19 днів тому +2

    Wie heißt dieser Film ? 🤔

  • @theunknownseed
    @theunknownseed 19 днів тому +1

    bittersweet 😫

  • @Joergleipzig
    @Joergleipzig 4 дні тому

    der Film erinnert mich an den Defa Film Camming Out

    • @HolgerJakobs
      @HolgerJakobs 3 дні тому

      "Coming out" was the only gay movie made in the GDR (DDR).

  • @jeanlanco314
    @jeanlanco314 10 днів тому

    Vous vous aimez, je vous conseille de vivre votre vie ensemble. Gros bisous.💋❤️❤️💋💋💋

  • @gerardlecalve
    @gerardlecalve 18 днів тому

    Qui sont les acteurs ? Who are the actors?

    • @HolgerJakobs
      @HolgerJakobs 3 дні тому

      The married teacher is Hans-Werner Meyer, currently playing the boss of the missing people department in the series "Letzte Spur Berlin" (Last Trace Berlin).

    • @gerardlecalve
      @gerardlecalve 3 дні тому

      @@HolgerJakobs Tanks. Merci.

  • @themechanictangerine4337
    @themechanictangerine4337 16 днів тому

    "Guy is so sexy" looks like a young Frankenstein 😮

  • @AllanButchar-i4m
    @AllanButchar-i4m 9 днів тому

    Walker Eric Moore Betty Miller Ronald

  • @kabirhussainofficial3917
    @kabirhussainofficial3917 9 днів тому

    Lovely secne 😮❤❤❤❤

  • @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233
    @xxkarlosxxxxxx7233 19 днів тому +4

    Yeah kinda shitty of them... Specially the husband, he's married and has small kids... Like wtf r u kidding old man, I don't get it though in the video they say he's young to be a teacher but he looks like a guy in his early 30s and the other guy looks like in his early 50s so I didn't get the whole young comment but ok 😂 I don't think I'll watch it cause I hate cheaters and liars and this affair is both 🤮🤮

    • @kobusgrove985
      @kobusgrove985 16 днів тому

      Be careful for love. Real love. Sometimes she`s a bitch....

    • @richardlee2642
      @richardlee2642 10 днів тому

      B-I-N-G-O. What happens to when this relationships tanks? The married guy is a weak individual.

  • @pdzjensen
    @pdzjensen 20 днів тому +3

    The married man with a child must not leave the marriage for a gay lover.

    • @liguten
      @liguten 19 днів тому +2

      Why?

    • @shawnsg
      @shawnsg 18 днів тому +2

      It's not fair to him or his wife.

    • @liguten
      @liguten 17 днів тому +1

      @@shawnsg Nous ne sommes rien pour juger de ce qui est bon ou pas

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 16 днів тому +5

      So instead he should stay with his wife and pretend he’s not in love with someone else? Thats not fair to him or his wife. He should let her go so she can find better.

    • @pdzjensen
      @pdzjensen 16 днів тому

      ​@SnapszDuhh he selfishly chose to abandon his wife and child. That is wrong. He should be a man and live with the consequences of decision to marry. He took the cowardly way out.