I Am Gambling Again...(Relapse)
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2020
- After the success of my video "How to stop your gambling addiction" that i made years ago- i decided to come clean about my life the last few months and even at the current state. I have relapsed into gambling and i am so upset that i am here but the most important thing for me is to be truthful to You and Myself- this is where i am at right now and why there is hope to be found even in this situation. MY 2018 VIDEO ON HOW I QUIT MY FORMER GAMBLING ADDICTION: • How I QUIT My Gambling...
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Brother the fact that you relapsed doesn't take ANYTHING from the help and inspiration you gave others. You're a human and thus not perfect. Stay strong and try again and again and again!
Hi Hussam thank you very much, i certainly hope not, it made me feel good to be an inspiration to some, i just couldnt lie anymore.
I just wanted to say I had a relapse too. I was in such a good place-like, I thought a million percent I would never gamble again. Then I did...and bad. Then I thought I definitely never would again...and did again the very next day. Then I almost went the following day. Wtf, right? Like, so sooo close to going again....but I didn’t. It was so hard, but I went and paid bills instead. It was the best feeling right after. I felt so proud. 🤍
For myself, I need to remember, that even if parts of it seem fun (or relaxing or distracting, etc.), and even if I can and do win some...I STILL DON’T WANT TO GAMBLE. It’s like a really bad drug. There are many people that see doing that as living the “cool life”, so exciting, such a high feeling, blah blah blah. People even say it helps them in ways in their lives to do this or that, get things done...
Every time I think of gambling, I’m going to remember that....that even if those kinds of drugs or gambling can be those ways, it’s not something that I want to do. I don’t want to be a part of that. I don’t want it in my life. Life is so much better without gambling. It’s a waste of money, time, energy, attention, mood, motivation...it’s a waste of life.
But I just wanted to mainly come on and say that your video meant the world to me when I watched it after my relapse. I know you felt so disappointed in yourself too, like you let so many people down. But just know, because you relapsed, and because you made this exact video...you helped me to remember that we are all human and gave me the clarity and strength to switch back to where I had been instead of getting further entangled in it all again. You inspired me to stop the relapse in it’s tracks and remember where I want to be-where I deserve to be. So...thank you, and know that you are helping so many people still, and in even more of a way now. 🤍
I hope all is going well with you. I think we will come out even stronger after this. I can do it. You can do it. We all can do it...and we will...because, really, we deserve SO much better and SO much more than a life of gambling. LIFE IS WAY MORE AMAZING WITHOUT IT. 🤍
Please get better and professional help always useful. My son had a drug addiction and no longer is on drugs. And my daughter is also no longer with addiction.
Hello Juan thanks for sharing your personal experience and advice on professional help, glad your kids are better and it's something i can consider :)
The human always make mistakes only the believer will come to allah
(ALLAH IS ALL MERCIFUL ALL FORGIVING) DON'T DISPAIR KEEP TRYING UNTIL THE END OF YOUR LIFE
OUR PROPHET MOHAMMED PEACE BE UPON HIM SAID in the Authentic hadith(Every son of Adam sins, and the best of the sinners are the repetant)
Ahmed thank you so much for those words of support and encouragement, it's comforting to know that God see's past our imperfections :)
We all have our demons and it’s good to be transparent to yourself. I truly feel that your vulnerability and your truth is bigger than your mistake. Don’t let this setback define your goodness. You are an amazing person and I want you to try to write a journal every day even if the words don’t make sense. We are all here praying for you and you are amazingly strong. Much love and prayers always Ramy. ❤️🤲🏽 May Allah bless you
Thanks you Shubra, that's wonderful encouragement coming from you. Exactly, the battle is part of the process, i cannot just give up and give in, it's a terrible addiction that destroys lives, the sooner i get out, the better :) Peace.
Rami! You remember my name! Ma sha Allah! I hope Allah listens to our prayers and we all can be better Muslims, Ameen. You are helping so many people by telling your truth. May Allah give you strength to endure whatever tests come your way.
@@shubhra2 Thanks Shubra, yes God Willing, we can overcome all of our obstacles and be the best Humand and Muslims we can be.
لا اله الا الله
محمد رسول الله ﷺ
you've got my support bro I promise you will get over this and go back to the normality of life
It’s a dark place to be. The feeling is demoralizing to the soul. I go 2 years without to 4 months straight. I’m done with it for good not because I’m upset about losing but because the way I feel when I lose and when I win it’s like I just wanna keep chasing wins. It has nothing to do with the money. Will be freeing myself from this addiction this year for good.
bro im here for you and I totally understand how you feel bro
Thanks Brother, i knew you''d "get it". This feeling is all to familiar but the opportunity to overcome and beat this is there- it's about the right timing and mentality, Inshallah this can be fought with success :)
You can do this brother! I believe in u!
May Allah give you something better, we all slip up at times. It maybe worth checking out Shaykh Riyadul Haq, his lectures give us a lot to think about.
Thank you very much i will look into that, much appreciated
Everyone has a weakness or multiple weaknesses. We have to make that decision within ourselves to stop doing what we know is wrong or what we know is ruining our lives. I'm sure you will figure this out. We're here to help, if and when you need it.
Don't give up hope, keep fighting. You can do this!
Thank you Jaguar. YES i can! :)
Thx for ur video bro! I lost 75 k in just over a year and relapse a few times. Feeling pretty low right now but u made me realize I need to get rid of my guilt and shame and believe I’m a good person along with the willpower to quit to finally conquer this addiction and demon. God bless u brother. Stay strong
Wow Bro that is a big loss, im sorry for you, ive lost a lot of K since my relapse and thats in 5 months. So the relapse hit me harder and faster but thank God now its currently being controlled and monitored, im gaining the upper hand, good luck to you man, forget yesterday, focus on you right now and the results you want for tomorrow :)
Helpful tips for your relapse join a gambling anonymous support group, obtain a sponsor, seek professional help from an Credential Addiction Counselor who specialize in treating gambling addiction (imperative), not all Credential Addiction Counselor subspecalize in treating gambling addiction you must ask, reclaim your faith 🙏 in the teaching of the koran, find alternatives to gambling, and continue to use the skills within you that you have already demonstrated in recovery. You are a inspiration and are helping more people than you realize.
I feel so sorry for you. Pls keep trying....try to Stop please.
I will do a series of uploads on Addiction please continue to watch God Bless.
Allah bless you dear brother and may allah give you right path 🤲🏽keep moving forward 🤙🏽
Thank you Nafisa! I appreciate it. God Bless!
I’m here for you lovely xo
Thanks beautiful man i apprecite it and hope youre okay as well!!!!
Hey Ramio, I relapsed year after years and today marks the 5th year relapsing, gambled everything away; I'm currently having the same feeling as you in the video and still seeking for solution after many ways of conquering it. Hoping u are doing fine right now and would like to have some advices too. 😥
Heads up I will be doing a video upload on Sunday Oct 25th on Six Tips To Stop Gambling Addiction please check out God bless.
I will watch definitely thank you! :)
I relapsed after 4 years yesterday and hate doing it . I lost £400. Buy now I am done with the evil 😈. No more . It happens don't worry .
Brother my suggestion is whenever you get the urge to gamble, donate the money you want to gamble with to some poor people. Change the bad habit into a good deed. Not only will you stop gambling but you will help people who are in need of these money, the best feeling in the world. Dont know if youre muslim, but if youre not. May Allah swt guide you to islam. Take care brother. Hope you overcome this addiction.
Hello that is great advice indeed because its turning a potential bad deed or sin into something fruitful and beneficial not only for myself but for somebody else- i feel that becoming more distant from faith and religion has definitely made me weaker and more open to comitting these acts and mistakes- i need to rekindle the flame of faith and belief
I agree on this, I had the urge and gave a homeless woman 10 bucks. Small, but the thankyou and genuine reaction I got felt so warm. It felt human. Unlike the cold, programmed machine.
What are you looking for in gamble..?to be rich?..use this quistioner in your mind..when you play gamble..you have to realize you are a rasional person..happy??? You will not find a happyness in gamble soooo?! Go home and sleep..or listen omar hisham al arabi or another person..and we hear it together with me😊,your brother from indonesia and with another brother and sister in your chanel.enjoy it..in sha allah you find another happyness..💪☝🏼🙏btw dont you think i never gamble,i used to gamble in play bilyard..now if i remember that,is a stupid deed in my mind now..😀
Hi Benny, to be honest i do not know. It's absolutely ridiculous. I definitely know i will not get rich, i don't do it out of greed i am very generous too- i cannot explain it at all, it's the most illogical thought process, if there's any thought at all. There are a lot of much better activities that i can do, especially soul pleasing ones- i need to endeavour for those pleasures instead :)
@@ramio1983 you have to know and realize and than think when you start to sleep.."gamble,drank,and prostitude or free sex" are sickness of life..think and always think and try to find the reason by your own opinion..and slowly but sure you will stay far a way from those..put in your mind, brother."i am the honest wise man"..at least for your self..what you did is not new, i am 45..ever did what normal man do..ok..to much advise i am shy..i am not perfect like you too😊..but i have formula for my life..always rasional in every condition..bad thing its becouse of you,good thing come from god...
I went thru gambling I'm trying so hard to stop been self excluding my self for life at all my local pubs and clubs. Go self exclude ur self u can't play there and if u win big they wont pay u nothing GO SELF EXCLUDE TODAY NOT TOMMOROW I'm here to help and I need ur help 2 please
Everytime u feel like u want to gamble and u have extra money... give it to a homeless or poor person...
The pandemic has a big deal on gambling. Because people are bored. It's about budget. Be smart, Don't gamble past your limit.
I think boredom has a big part in it for sure- i just thought i was smart enough to do much better with my time. Cheers.
@@ramio1983 good luck. And stay positive! 👍🏻
Oh brother, you are wonderful. Avoid bad habits. We need some quran reaction ☺️
Quran Recitation is a great way to distract me from this for sure and also feed my spiritual batteries, next week God Willing.
@@ramio1983 waiting 😈
Salam my brother .Come to Dagestan we will help you😃😃😉
Enviroment and people in your surroundings also play a huge factor to not commit haram stuff
Sending you kisses hunny. Remain strong. Love you
How much did you lose? I’ve lost £30k in 8 years.
Hey Seamus i'd rather not say out loud but A LOT according to my means, i gambled for almost 3 years in about 2012 - then relapsed this year, so far for 3 months, hope to make it a very short spell that ends any moment now.
@@ramio1983 hi, I think the best way is call your bank and ask them to delete your online banking, also make sure you get a bank account that does not give you a debit card that can be spent online. Perhaps get an Esaver account
@@ramio1983 bro going thru this also
@@ramio1983I have done somthing it's called self exclusion at all the local pubs and clubs and rsl
I'm too poor to gamble. Thankfully or not!
Seriously, thanks for the update.
Brother you are a compulsive gambler. The first step is admitting you have a problem. Please attend GA meetings 🙏
I am in a meeting, can't hear,, do not gamble please 😈
Please watch when you're home 👌💙
@@ramio1983 i will 😈
It's Hard but please Try Harder.
You should give your bank accounts to a trusted family member. You should not have access to any bank or credit cards. Gambling doesn't make you bad; it is an illness. You could say it's your brain going crazy with dopamine. Stay away from gambling websites and friends who gamble. It's simple: if you don't have money, you can't play. The solution is easy as long as you don't complicate things.
I totally hear you with this, i want and need so badly to trust myself, i hate being dependant on others or know that i can't trust myself, so it's a battle of discipline that i am fighting- but your point does also make sense.
@@ramio1983 Actually, without you realizing it, your ego is telling you that you are strong and that you won't play even if you have money. But you know, and you’ve always experienced, that this is a lie because your brain is damaged by dopamine and you don't know how to stop anymore. Don’t make the situation complicated. If you give your money to your mother or father, they will give it back to you. I'm sure they will even give it back with extra because they won’t spend it. For one year, have nothing in your bank account. Then keep small amounts of money in your account and try not to exceed $100. Even if you spend it, the regret won’t be great. This way, you can convince your brain.