I don't feel happy at my New Job- what to do?
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
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I feel like if you spend four months at a job and you're still not happy, you probably won't be. At some point you have to accept it may not be a good fit.
Very true! Its better to get out early than devote time and energy to a job that depletes you
You have a point.
I've been at my job since December, and it is now April...when I was looking for new employment I wanted the opposite of what I am doing.
I am blessed to be working during these times and feel guilty for complaining, but yeah.
@@noellecannon1411 same here I absolutely dread it. Thinking of ditching it for temp 6 months positions. Am I nuts?
@@noellecannon1411 i am im the exact same situation. I'm really struggling to get up and I feel disengaged now
You should quit. Immediately.
Friendship isn't my issue. It's learning the job itself for me. New terminology, softwares & understanding the documents. 😩 It's a lot but I'm hanging in here.
How do you feel now about the job?
@@jessjenkins5474 wondering the same
Yeah please let us know.
Same for me. I don't have social anxiety its the job itself I just struggle to pick things up.
@@pandoramoore3794 I hope things will work out for you
I’m still gonna leave as soon as I can. I know I’m not happy when I’m dreaming that I’m unhappy with the new job lol.
I'm in a similar situation. i regretted resigning from my old job. It was more bearable for my mental health but it pays less. I am now 3 weeks with my new job and its giving me anxiety everyday :/ I just can't afford to quit since I'm on an employment bond. I have no savings yet. But the pressure is getting to me. I am having negative thoughts everyday (random breakdowns in the bathroom). I am just overwhelmed with everything...
I understand these breakdowns, facing exactly this in my new job since day 1, it's been 4 months now.
I had to start therapy bcuz i felt so low. I'm still struggling, but i realised all we need is to change our perspective towards it and to conciously know that we are right where we need to be and learn as much as we can. This isn't permanent, nothing in life is. This is a difficult phase and we need to make the most of it while it lasts.
Many of our fears and anxiety at job is bcuz of our personal issues, we need to think about it and act on it every day to improve ourselves. We won't see the change everyday we work, but we will see drastic change suddenly when our minds are in the right place.
Keep at it. You are doing great!
Same here 😭😭😭😭
hello, how’s everything going? did you quit your new job?
I started last week, this is so hard 😭.
Hey how is it going?
You're not there to make friends. True it helps. But that's not what's about
3 months in and I know it’s not for me
Find something else now and quit. Your sanity is not worth any job.
Same 1month, i tried but i feel its not for me but i love the company the position is not really fit for me
first day and I knew it's not for me, so I resigned on day 3.
I started a job as a Career Counselor for the state of Massachusetts in November.. And I was an employment specialist for 4 years prior... Job coach 12 years.... I've come to the conclusion that I'm burned out helping people. I'd rather be given work to do and not have to interact with customers/clients. The people that work there are great. But I'm already done mentally.
So accurate!!!
I’m a barber and I feel the same way, I’m burnt out on customer service, no matter what you do no matter how kind you are someone always ruins your day with smart remarks or attitudes .. not everyone of course but all it takes is one person to ruin it for others
A manager will make your life a living hell f you tell them that you are unhappy with the work but are not leaving.
i started a new job this week and the colleagues are nice don’t get me wrong but i just don’t envision myself here long term at all. everytime i go home i have a regretful feeling that i took it instead of going through other interviews. i literally accepted the job cause i just wanted to work but now idk if that was the right thing to do. my previous interviews never went so well mainly cause the work environment was not suited for me, too extroverted or could just tell id not fit in. current work environment is good it’s just the job doesn’t feel like it’s for me. luckily i’m on a one month probation so i’m gonna see how it goes and if i feel the same way i’ll just have to leave
Trying to find happiness at a job is irrelevant job is trading your time for money
Thank you. This has given me a bit of hope.
Terrible advice. Coworkers are literally the first people to stab you in the back. Every. Single. Time.
I’m a self employed electrician. I go to new jobs all the time, new sites, new companies. It feels horrible. Some sites you settle into. Some you don’t
Great answer. I’m in this situation.
Then you should quit.
Thank you this actually helped me a lot I was having problems adapting to a new job because of the relationships I made at my old job this helped me realize that thank you
Thank you. I started in April and I’ll give it til the end of the year and if I still feel the same way, I’m out.
Same here
I just quit. Today. Gave it 15 months. Got worse every month.
I just started a new job not sure if I will last any advice
Have a plan
Write out the Pros and Cons and make the decision to stay or leave.
Same here but the difference is I'm not interested in being friend with my new colleagues
thank you, helpful video
Good video instead of the ear to ear back and forth on headphones
What if the training is awful at your new job?
In my case, its not the people.. its the scheduling. Im in my 2nd month and ive been rotating through 3 different shifts 😩😩
Relate thats why i quit now i cant cope up
I started teaching 14 days ago and i left first school for not nice pay as i thought i am feeling not well because of pay and then i got an offer of nice pay package from another school i joined them they agree to all my demands like i want this class or this and then i feel i am not right fit for teaching i left scnd school today and feeling low and i feel sorry for school for my family they expect some mature decisions from me but i feel discomfort at work and in teaching i want to job as a accountant or in a bank but everyone is now angry with me they think i spend 14 days got no pay just take immature decision i can't handle the situation anymore
I am in the same boat.
Then you should quit your job. Immediately.
I’m close to 3 months in shift is 3rds I like staying up late but I hate working late so Im not sure what I need to do but I don’t feel like the job is right for me I want to do something that makes me happy and not care about what everyone says
Thanks
New hires should not have to initiate relationships
Terrible advice. Always go with your gut.
I needed to hear this 🙏🏽🤎