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hey i live in australia would you do a video of what the similarities of marriage and divorce in australia? i have no idea what the laws are here
@@lukejustin1857 In all the West nations, they are a variation of what he just said. But you are only doing good to yourself to want to know better the laws from the place you are in.
marriage is dead, women killed it, and they used the legal system to do it.
if this was a game of clue: it was women, in the courthouse, with the power of the state.
100 years ago the man automatically got custody of the kids if the woman left. we need to go back to that.
Then we can change the fuckin system. This is not marriage. It’s a business and it should never be like that
These women are not broken. They are evil.
They're not evil.. They're women.
So the bible was right
@@thethinkingmansgame5050 absolutely
_"Welcome, to the realm, of the real..."_
@@thethinkingmansgame5050 100%
A woman can break her wedding vows, fail to live up to her end of the marriage contract, and still walk away with half or more of a man's resources while getting preferential treatment in most custody arrangements. All of this while being backed by a biased and corrupt family court system. What an amazing deal!!!! Sign me up!
True bro
Yep, they may lie, cheat, steal, falsely accused, swat people, get lower criminal sentences for the same crimes men would get larger sentences for, privileges, et cetera
It is even worse
Within the control pyramid
Craftsmen are below the Witches
The committee of 300, and big money, black nobility above the witches. The patriarchy
And it gets worse from here
Good luck
It is biased and certainly morally corrupt but is not a mistake, it is by design.
Well in that case you've identify as a woman. And get the deal. Frankly ban all alimony, criminalize infidelity and mandate paternity laws. Just these 3 things. A lot of women would refuse to marry.
"The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water."
-Sophocles
Oh, thank you.
I laughed
Oh
So true
“I think 10 years in a marriage is a happy ending and a good run”.. man I shook in fear😂😂 it’s sad. Never getting married a day in my life that’s for sure.
Written in sand and water I believe was the original statement.......
"Finding a good woman is like finding a good parking spot- all the good ones are taken and what's left are handicapped." comment on UA-cam
Some women, not surprisingly, think Sophocles meant to say that women too can also inscribe oaths on water because they are flexible, strong and independent. They also think it's his fault. LOL
"Marrying with the intent to divorce" should be a fraud felony. "I never wanted to stay married, I figured like 40 would be a good run" is an admission of guilt, book em, Lou, open and shut case.
Believe me .. even then the court will not roule that the woman should pay back and so on..
Beeing right and becoming right is not the same. It is sad and also a big reason for men who woke up and refusing to get married.
Most of them play a role till they get the ring. I habe seen it to many times. Even if you find a pleasant one she will change over time true media and propaganda.. its part of depopulation
This is a HUGE problem in the military...women stay married, just long enough to get 1/2 of their pension for life..,,after being married five years.....then they go chase Chadrone...with your money ROFL
This is no surprise. The term "Starter Husband" has has around since the 1990s.
This is why Marriage is a sacrament and should/can only truly be done in a Church/Holy Place by two believers who have the gift of faith. Legal marriage in faithless, marriage in name only.
Before the state wrestled marriage away from the Church it would have been grounds for complete annulment. She'd be owed nothing with that admission.
We almost forgot why all of our ancestors always considered them the lesser sex. Now everybody can see it again. But the price we pay is civilization.
Islam, as a religion and as a social governance method, very well understood the nature of women 1,500 years ago. Islam understood that women are by default chaotic, irrational, illogical, irresponsible and always make decisions based on emotions and feelings. If they allow to roam and live freely just like men, they will bring down the civilization to the ground. Isn't that what's being taking place in the West?
Civilisation isn’t the problem. It’s culture and propaganda.
We can rebuild.
@@peripheralparadox4218He isn't saying it's civilizations fault. He is saying we are the next major civilization that will fall into the dustbin of history because of this. Most modern countries are already reproducing at an extinction level rate.(Negative birthrate)
@@TechnoanimaRebuild? Why would that be any comfort to those on the planet right now? If civilization manages to rebuild everyone and everything we know will be dead and gone for hundreds or thousands of yrs possibly. All suffering and dying in horrible wars, famine and disease as our system falls apart.
My dad died from man flu. He had indigestion for 6 months. My mother and the women at his church shamed him for man flu. When it was too bad he went to the chemist. He didn't get there. He pulled over the car and had a massive heart attack. Respect to the nhs, they sent an air ambulance ; but it wasn't enough. If he hadn't been shamed for being ill, he'd have gone to the doctor months earlier and still be with us now.
...and they probably clucked, "Why didn't he go to the doctor, the old fool? Men are stupid, who's going to do all the work now?" Probably tasked young ones with roping in a new working man like a coven of witches..
My wife drove me immediately to the ambulance when i told her my symptoms. But some weeks after my heart attack she threw me out.😢
Damn heart goes out to both of you guys....
No women know peace.
@@peterkoch3777 I remember speaking to a man who had suffered a heart attack and who had recently been discharged from hospital. His wife never came to visit him. When he came home after his heart attack, he found out that she'd thrown out all of his belongings. And if I remember correctly, although this conversation happened about 7 years ago, she also had the locks changed before he returned.
@@peterkoch3777 YOUR VALUE HAD DECREASED.
Marrying a modern woman is like swallowing a time bomb which could explode at any moment in the future. Marriage has become a terrible, risky and a dangerous deal for men.
It became that a long time ago before you were born. It's taken this long to finally address and accept it.
That is why that don't want a pre-nump.
Prenuptial is disarming the explosive
@@commandershepard4452 As long as it applies.
@@commandershepard4452prenups can be thrown out for various reasons… for even something as silly as a judge feeling it’s restrictive or oppressive to one of the parties… it’s not legal binding document that you think it is
Any marketing expert can tell you that for many decades in the west women make 80% of the consumer decisions.
Forget the wage gap, let's talk about the spending gap!
I remember reading about the Tax Gap, where men pay the most in taxes, but women get the most out of how those taxes are spent.
@@Stormcrow_1 exactely. And we are talking about dramatic discrepencies here! If you look at the whole picture women are way more privileged financially in our society than men.
I wish I could.
This site won't let me.
They need to compete to get picked 🤸♂🤸♀🤸
@@Stormcrow_1that’s true in every single western country… the results were so bad in nz that the ardem govt banned further such studies…
"Only women and children are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved if they provide something..."
And even then it won't be enough for some women. It's like they have to experience poverty in order to respect and value what their husband brings to the table. They should just pay for everything h themselves if men paying for things isn't enough.
I think the saying is 'only babies and pets are loved unconditionally '. Indeed I'd even go so far to say that there's something very wrong with a person who wants unconditional love, to be babies or looked after like a pet. A yearning to take no accountability or responsibility is not a healthy individual whatever gender, all of physical life is transactional whether it's romanticized or not.
@@GlynnParry-bs6xg True thing. No one wants to be in a relationship with a person who takes without giving back or without contributing.
They don’t love children
Why do you think they care so much about their ‘choice?’
@@BartSparrow123 Reply removed, another win for free speech😁
That lawyer put it out there. Men's contributions are enforceable by the State. Not women's.
neither is gents' commitment to (not) begin with. xx.s are not to be trusted in the least, and that they earn respect howsoever is not coming for granted.
Who is he?
This should be put on a T-shirt.
@@HelloHelloXD James Sexton. He has done quite a few long format interviews and podcasts. I find him interesting, he seems like a decent guy working in a shitty business
@@thecementhead thank you kind sir :-)
Last year I had cardiac arrest, after a week in the hospital, I came home to rest in bed. my GF of 6 yrs who only lived with me for 5 months, came into the bedroom, screaming and yelling GET BACK TO WORK U ARE FAKING THIS, GET BACK TO WORK... I ignored all that. Once I was up and out of bed a week later. I removed her from my house.
you saved your life. God bless you brother
👏👏👏👏✊
Alexander: I started working in an (almost) all-female workplace 50 years ago. Professionally, I can't complain. Nearly all of my coworkers treated me with dignity and respect. However, it didn't take very long to become aware of the deception, manipulation, greed and so forth that they unleashed in their personal relationships. I heard - and overheard - a lot of stories that were absolutely disgusting. So don't think for a second that any of this is new. What's different today is that men now know that the lies that have been told for generations are just that. LIES. Keep up the good work.
I believe this quote will be the new axiom in our time. "Men fall in love. Women are in business". My divorce attorney friend and Coach Greg Adams.
Men love genuinely, women love opportunistically
Mm. No. Some men fall in love. Some women are in business. Stop overgeneralizing.
-a man who was treated poorly by a woman who didn't lose faith in the entire sex because he's not overly emotional
@@Anonkontello cope af
"Men are in love; women are in business." - CGA 💯
@@Anonkontello didn't learn from your first mistake?
My neighbor's wife forced him to remodel their house with hysterics because she found the old bathroom boring. He ended up spending weeks on it. But that's not violence, no. Violence is when he asks her to do him a favor in bed, those 5 minutes should be punishable by jail time.
Hysterics is the right word. Same root word as Hysterectomy as these are not behaviours noted in men, but in w-m-n centuries ago. Love is the biggest lie of the 20th century. It will not last 10 more years in the 21st.
Those pretending to change, only realize what they've lost access to, and have zero pure intentions. They only wish to dupe the last remaining suckers. There's no such thing as vetting or choosing wisely, when the 'fairer' s*x's main gift to make up for reasoning ability, logic, creativity... is deceit/dissimulation.
What a pig.
Women are finally starting to tell the truth. Thank you, social media!
Unintentionally...they think its normal (because its treated that way) and so they are telling on themselves 😂
Wow Bro..... u just made me view everything from a different perspective.
Ive said for a long time social media ruined relationships. But maybe it didn't. Maybe it just became a medium in which women finnaly revealed themselves for who they are. And thats the change that occured.
@EvrySingleTime Yup!
I'm 55. Let me tell you I didn't learn from the internet in my 20s, because it didn't exist then. You young guys are lucky. I'm in a thankless ducked up marriage. This crap is real.
I’m 59 and I was married for 35 years before my wife died unexpectedly 3 years ago. She loved me sometimes and the rest of the time was filled with indifference and tyranny and she racked up $43,000 of credit card debt behind my back. I don’t miss her and I plan on finishing my days celibate. I got married before I turned 21 in 1986. I feel your pain.
i was gonna say leave but then realized its a trap. she'll get the cash and prizes.
It's almost as if the ways things were done in the past were done for reasons. Decades of lies, us believing those lies and here we are.
Modern women were raised on the idea that men have it easier than they do. No bigger lie has ever been told.
Lies. Yep. Lies wrapped up in the stories we have been told for decades. ... Who has been telling those stories? Who owns the companies and industries that have been programming us with those stories? ... (It's the people who it is illegal to talk about.)
@@sirtrevis It's bigger than that. It's the entire left The folks who just got a dramatic comeuppance in the election. They instinctively try to control speech. It's what they live for. But the internet has ended all that.
Yep we are the dopes who gave them a vote. The thing is, if they want it, they got it. They are gonna be sooo happy they were selfish. They just inherited all of it. No more crying to trick anyone. No more chivalry. No more freebies. 😊 We’ll actually be free to live for once, and we’ll live well regardless.
Marriage today is a great retirement plan for women.
Always was and they worked for their retirement. but now divorce is the option.
Indeed , my ex wife just won £81 k from me , she wanted £400k but the judge and housing market said no .
Thats what they think but they spunk the money within 3 years and live their lives broke.
@@allseeingotto2912 christ.
Set up by the system, the government, and women. This is an addition to the fact that women live 7 years longer than men thus inheriting the husbands money anyway for the remainder of their lives.
Social media is like shining a blacklight on women's souls.
Black on black.
Underrated quote
Some of us were born with the ability to see uv.
As a formerly married man - Don’t ever get married.
I had 2 buddies years ago. They were brothers-in-law. Both of them, in front of each other, told me to stay single. For one of them to say that in front of his wife's brother carried a lot of weight in my eyes. Years later I almost forgot those words and got engaged. Glad to say that it all ended before any serious wedding plans even started.
Western women are toxic. Aussie women best avoided.
Exactly
As a currently married man - Don't ever get married!
Well, that is the weak mindset of our non-patriarchal society. I lived my entire life in Switzerland and later went to Saudi Arabia and Oman for business, and it was like a parallel universe to me. In Wahhabi countries or Islamic nations, women have to do what they're told. If a woman dishonors herself with her behavior, she will get no support from her siblings or family, and the system favors men. If a woman denies sex, it's your right as a man to divorce her, and she will get nothing. In the past, it was even wilder, it was even possible to disown your own children that you had with that woman, so the entire stigma of failing a relationship was placed on the woman. That`s the difference between being in a matriarchy like the west or a patriarchy in the east.
They also use stones over there, you know... As body weights.
@@navboi12 Depends on the region. I would say Saudi Arabia and Oman only have capital punishment for cheating and abortion without the consent of the father, which in most cases is lowered to a harsh prison sentence. In other regions, yes, it can be deadly, but I’ve still barely seen anyone mistreat a woman, because they don’t give you a reason to hate on them if they are obedient. My blood would rather boil if I had to give half of my wealth to a woman and alimony for the rest of my life. I had some colleagues like that in Switzerland. If I were in their shoes, those ex-wives would have to watch out after the court ruling, because they would pay with their lives, especially because its quite easy to get a hand on a firearm in CH, as easy as in the US.
@@sad_wrangler8515 calm down dude
Islam is right about women.
I know a big chunk of western women suck, but this is not the answer either, wtf. Actual equality is where it's at.
4:49 - The burden of responsibility on the husband in absence of any ability to wield authority is the equivalent of slavery.
Accountability without authority is slavery, and Authority without accountability is tyranny.
Puts the goals of modern feminism into perspective when you see that.
Perfectly stated!
Marriage: the journey to find out what type of man your wife really wanted....
What type of 'myth' your wife really wanted😂
meanwhile she wants to be treated like a disney princess while looking like ursula
My wife and I went into marriage agreeing it is a 50/50 partnership, with some different roles. My wife was some times the bread winner while I did part time study and some factory work (Which I hated). Now I am the major bread winner with my wife working part time. We both contributed and helped each other. We have been doing this for 30 years.
How do you feel about it then ?
The only ones that stay, are the ones that recognize that a better opportunity won't come her way. She saw your earning potential and wisely invested.
@@goldofox5111 I felt I was contributing to the partnership.
Check her phone. Plenty of cheater buster apps.
Big deal. What's your point telling this story, dude? It does nothing to solve the state of w_m_n, today. They still call 70% of the marriages off, and end 1 million unb_rns a year.
Can we sue the government for misandry?
ha, good one!
Yes, it's called an insurrection from their point of view though
@@shadowpathfinder7723 We could also call it hateful conduct.
You own the government. The government works for you. You pay the taxes from which it is funded. Don't like it? Stop funding.
Right
The feminists movement has been the best truth reveal in history.
When my exwife told me: "why am I suppose to promise something I may change my mind on tomorrow" i realized what her oath and commitment was worth. Nothing. Because it was just a momentary emotional coincidence.
You had exactly the wife you chose for yourself. Who's to blame?
How can you go into marriage planning for divorce?!
Easy, it seems when they are guaranteed to come out of it rich, regardless, whenever they wish.
$$$
Don't try to understand women's logic. You'll lose everytime.
Privileges
Women do cos for them marriage is a business. Prostitution has become the norm in relationships
That's because.. and say it with me now..
Men date for someone to marry
Women date for someone to divorce
Women are short term investors in relationships, men are long term investors
Holy over generalization, Batman!
@@Anonkontello 97% of alimony goes to women, despite 40% of women making more money than the man is. Not to mention 69% of divorces are initiated by women.
At no time in history has women not taken advantage of their privileges against men. And why is that? They're never held to the same account, and often no account at all.
No deterrence = incentive to abuse.
Truth hurts.
@@Anonkontello One is conflating a population level analysis with an individual level analysis. The point of population analysis is to generalize, i.e find a central tendency and a degree of variance. Ones response is not a counterargument, it's just the equivalent of the NAXALT response (not all x are like that).
@@thenewbohemian5779 nerd
They don't want a husband, they want a husBANK.
husBAND💰😂
That paper for cash and prizes 💸💸💸💸💸
Weddings are funerals with cake.
💸💸💸💸💸
I went to my aunt's funeral the other day and there was lots of cake.
@@paulsengupta971 Funerals are sad. 2024, USA
Whats the one thing a woman can eat that will make her never have sex again?
Wedding cake
Funerals are weddings with peace.
My pronouns are No and marriage. No marriage.
Have fun with that bucko.
The woman in the initial clip is absolutely demonic. What a horrible human being. I hope her husband lives a great life.
Looks like a quite normal white woman to me.
Western minded women are like rabies, once you have seen the signs it is too late.
I hope his attorney sees that video and gets him off without any repercussions.
@@nickthompson2023
Lol no
First time meeting a woman, huh?
@@nickthompson2023 the law does not care about any of the stuff in the video. the repercussions are determined by income of both parties, the duration of marriage, the age of children of the marriage, the growth in wealth during the time of marriage. in some sense, "no fault divorce" is a misnomer and is more accurately described as "husband always at fault divorce"
Modern marriage: a business contract between three parties, where the man carries all of the responsibility while having zero authority. It's just a terrible business proposition.
This is it right here. The church enforced the man's side of the deal, the authority.
This is why women want to vote, to usurp your authority through government.
Think about the actual outcomes for men when government gets involved in marriage.
One time, my date was clear that her goal was marriage and children, at that point realizing she was late to the game at 35 and effectively having become herself the man she wanted to marry with a solid career, etc. And she was honest about clearly wanting a man who earned about 30% more than her, which I did. I educated her about the typical financial obligations her future husband will normally have to accept by marrying her, often extending beyond the marriage. And marriage, mind you, that statistically she was likely to decide to end at some point. My question to her was, "what exactly are you legally bound to do for your husband in marriage?" I honestly didn't know if there was anything. She paused. And then softly teared up and cried for a minute. She was a smart woman, educated, successful, but hadn't really considered that what she was going to be asking for was an unequal contract. She just hadn't focused on a family yet in life. The date continued for another 2 hours and was good, and something I'll always remember.
vanity, so many bloodlines will end🤣
Mind you that not all women focus on "wallet" and "provider". Some still simply want to have family, children and happy life with their husbands. Not all women are evil. I know from experience. I couldn't find any western oriented women in my own country (Poland) that would meet these requirements, so I moved abroad to southern Europe. It was the best decision. I was surprised to actually be with these kinds of women in... Italy. Big surprise to me.
@@matt-eu-poland I thought that Poland has still more traditional values than in the west? Where in Italy you went?
It’s sad how rare good women are.
No wonder it’s 🤡🌎
199/200 you can simply forget, at the bare minimum! Freak show, only. Sad, but true.
Estimates from historical records show that women initiated divorce far more than men as far back as the 1860s here in America. Historian Lawrence Stone did a study on early divorce trends in England which aligns well with early trends in the US.
This is well before the huge monetary benefits women get from divorce today. There must be more to this that can be explained by evolutionary psychology.
Women are always looking to upgrade, never satisfied with what they’ve got. Taller, funnier, more social status. They’re opportunists.
Women didn't evolve for marriage...marriage is what we created for the continuance of society. In their natural state, they form societies like bonobos. If you look at matriarchies, they form communities where sex is fluid, there is no concept of paternity and the economics are communist in style.
Hypergamy.
Boredom and the pursuit of novelty.
Yes, it’s Hypergamy, boredom, seeking novelty, fantasy projections, hormonal fluctuations, and jealousy of other women. So fickle are women.
"I went into marriage knowing I'd be a divorcee". That invalidates every single argument brought against having a prenup.
What an absolute hell!
That’s arguably grounds for an annulment.
@@kellygreenii under a religious marriage certainly. The Catholic Church would annul that marriage. Unfortunately, with marriage in the hands of the state, annulment is unlikely in these cases.
@@Kivlor the state should have NEVER been involved in marriage.
@@BartSparrow123 Take that up with the Protestant Reformation lol
The problem is that prenups apparently don't even work as effective as they should - I've read about all kinds of loop-holes etc.
You can either love women, or you can understand them, you cannot do both, once Men realize that women are incapable of loving men, then you understand.
For most women, a man who understands them, is a man who hates them. Men who treat any particular woman the way she should be treated, is interpreted by most women, as being hateful
Did my guy just make the statement that all women on Earth are incapable of true heterosexual romantic love?
As one posted earlier, men fall in love while women are in business.
@@Anonkontello That is what he said. Be careful man! Women are no longer from 1935. 2024, USA
@@Anonkontelloyes, and hes right. Apart from a short honeymoon phase, women dont love you like that. I just think you dont know what love really means. Cooking for your husband and throwing some p*ssy towards him from time to time isnt love. Women will be the nixest ever when they benefit from you. Its all transactional. Women view men in a very practical way. You really thought a woman will love her man the way he loves her? Hahahahahaha you naive little boy
One old video told me about W's attitudes towards M. There was a video on Russian Rutube where some old W suddenly started beating a M. Among hundreds of W's comments, there was not a single one with a simple question: "Why did she attack him?" Instead, there were jubilant comments that she could have hit harder.
Their usual comment is; 'Well what did he do to make her violent?' It never occurs to the f3m1n15t crowd that THEY are the instigators or responsible.
that's their logic. Give them leadership, and most of them will start hurting their workers.
@@gfxmaniac Agree.
“Humanity’s greatest weapon is the Lie.” - Reverend Mother Tula (Dune: Prophecy)
Is it me or is alexander getting more and more red pilled as time goes by
Yeah, I observed it too.
He seems more direct and more "aggressive" in his views.
I guess that happens if you are exposed to trash women online as form of your job. 😅
Natural reaction when you see how other men are treated , you think that it can happen to you and here comes the rage...
I mean he see personally how women treat men. And the deeper he look into women's souls the darker his thoughts gets.
@@ThePugs-xv6zs Western women, in general, are no different from those on TikTok. This election just proved it: 53% of all female voters voted for Kamala Harris.
He just saw and realized what women truly are.
Funny you should say that, I haven't watch his videos for over a year until this one came up in my feed 10 mins ago and the first thing I noticed is he's become a lot more f*cking angry and dark.
Intentions (positive or negative) are important and aligning actions with those intentions. So recognizing one’s own intentions as well as your partner’s intentions is critical
Oh yes. Whatever you do, you won't achieve anything without intent. I teach this in self defense classes. The one with intent will control the interaction.
The Social Contract has been violated.
The Divine Order has been violated.
You will not regain your power without returning to God.
Men have more of a sense of commitment, teamwork, & brotherhood because society requires it to survive long term and a Bear Grylls series showed it in action.
can't believe they make videos about this. Absolutely crazy.
It's a good thing, when simps are in denial, we can reference these videos. They will probably rationalize it through.
I can believe it. The women of TikTok have been normalizing delusion, narcissism and every form of parasitic misandrist grift imaginable. Next up, they'll be teaching each other how to delete their husbands to get all the money instead of just half.
They think it’s cute.
Clout chasing from the sisterhood.
Imagine a man doing such a video. He would be fired etc. But for women it's always fine. Pure sexism
Who chooses the house? The woman.
Who decides how the house will be decorated? The woman.
Who chooses the family car? The woman.
Who decides the meals? The woman.
Who spends more (of his) money on clothes? The woman.
Who, upon divorce, takes half of the unspent and future funds? The woman.
Who claims they are oppressed?
Im 54 and NEVER been married. I own my own home free and clear and have no intention of sharing it with anybody
100 years ago the man automatically got custody of the kids if the woman left. we need to go back to that.
'I've been told that they love commitment.' No: they love _your_ commitment, subtle but extremely important distinction. Very similar to how they are in favour of taking the word of the accuser until they are the one accused.
Never getting married again. Learned my lesson and now I’ll be happy with my life single and secure.
The segment with the Lawyer needs to be played on mainstream media
Hundred percent spot on Alexander. That lawyer was brutally honest and correct with his assessment. It’s crazy that men get forced to keep providing after the woman stops living up to her end of the bargain. If the man should have to keep paying for her and looking after her, then she should be making his dinner still and providing sex when he wants it.
W James Sexton
You're not listening. There is no "Her end" of the bargain. She is not legally obligated to do anything. It is a unilateral contract involving three parties: You, your future ex-wife, and the State.
Marrige is a dangerous game for a man. Protect yourselfs!
Yeah don't do it
There is no condom that will cover a man in marriage. The minute you pass the point of being considered de facto, you're in the equivalent position of Schwarzenegger's men in Predator.
There is a reason why we men are avoiding these predatory 304s, they can leave us alone and get a cat.
Just substitue 'predatory 304s' with 'tyipcal w-m-n'. The sooner men realize that if celebs, athletes and billionaires can't find a unicorn, unicorns must not exist.
Cats are pretty cool
@@CyanTeamProductions My D is even cooler.
@CyanTeamProductions I have 2 cats an they love me a helluva lot more than the 2 chores that cheated an left for the other guy.
@@CyanTeamProductions I agree, save the cats, bears for them
The literal best example of women want to be married, not to be good wives😮
All the married men I know today are living lives of quiet desperation, I can see it in their eyes.
onlysimps booming cuz of them 🤣
7/10 in my sphere. I think 20% of marriages are great situations, but even those could go south if the woman decides that's what she wants.
The answer to divorce is, instead of offering to marry them, tell them that you will adopt them instead.
I was recently talking to a woman on a dating app. She said one of her deal breakers was "disinterest in self improvement." I've learned that many women are like this. They can never be happy and content in life. If a man isn't constantly trying to improve himself then the woman will lose attraction to him. I told her men marry a woman hoping she won't change, meanwhile women marry a man then spend all their time trying to change him. 🙄🙄🙄
Taking away a man’s drivers license and his professional license have got to be the most idiotic, self-defeating, and evil aspects of divorce law.
Yes, it reeks of desperation.
You'll see the demons for who they are eventually.
Feminism + divorce laws is a deadly combo indeed. You'd have an easier time convincing me to gambe all my savings in meme coins
THIS LAWYER SPELLED IT OUT PERFECTLY!! THIS SHOULD BE TAUGHT/EXPLAINED TO EVERY MALE WHEN THEY ARE STILL TEENAGERS!!
That's the time that men need to know this.
"There are NO UNICORNS, there are ONLY CHAMELEONS, you can't spell NAWALT without AWALT. Stay Strong, Stay Focused and Stay FREE." -- MR
Absolutely WORTHLESS
Less then worthless. Worthless is a 0 these women like MOST western women are a toxic liability below 0. I live in Melbourne nasty females are everywhere.
They do want their happily ever after, and they're willing to go through you to get it.
My wife and I celebrated our 33 anniversary yesterday. And there's been ups and downs. But we're still very much in love and I couldn't imagine myself anywhere else in my life.
Ask her to see her phone, lol. Bet you don't like what you discover.
I'm confident all men have had to deal with a woman like the first woman in their lives. Just the look in her eyes says "entitlement" and "complaining".
She "knows her worth" and does the bare minimum to keep the guy around. She basically is a bungie cord. She's already falling into divorce, but she relies on him to do all the lifting.
He can't see it, he just sees that body and his biology leads him straight down the path to punishment. We shoot ourselves in the foot. We truly think she loves us and wants to wrap that warm body around us forever. She doesn't!
Fellas, don’t board a plane that’s going to crash 70% of the time. Save yourself.
Never sign a contract with someone who gets rewarded for breaking it.
I am 68. I am not married and have not had a girlfriend in over 40 years. WHEW
She should have to return all the wedding presents she got. Sounds like fraud to me.
Cash and prizes✅
No wife, happy life.
Happy, perhaps. But true happiness is having and raising kids, and having a loving and supporting wife. Not easy to find one though, I know.
War brides. They're wired to disconnect more easily because in the past their mates could and would be killed in combat...and sometimes they ended up with the victor...
An intriguing theory actually
Something men might be more tolerant of if they weren't lied to about this and 30 other tendencies.
Welcome to reality.
Is she admitted that she went into a legal contract with an intent to defraud. Any spousal support Should be canceled any settlement or assets should be received should be returned to her husband. She intended to get divorced before the marriage That is fraud misrepresenting yourself before entering into a contract
3:52 This woman isn't a Wife, she's a Nanny! 💯🤦♀️
I’m so glad I wasn’t dumb enough to get married, no sympathy for fools that are uneducated and delusional and naive
but, but, but... It could have worked out for you! How dare you not try😂
That's like saying you have no sympathy for slaves of the past and that they should have fought to free themselves, as though there wasn't an entire system built to condition them and keep them in chains. It's because of guys like you that our situation as men is down the gutter. No sympathy, no solidarity... just shaming.
@@EdenMB-w3x Eons of evolution incline us to be that way and societal norms condition us that way. You think listening to some randos on the internet who sell a course for 300$ is enough for normies who don't spend their lives on the internet and have busy lives to come to your conclusions ?
@@EdenMB-w3xtrue. Problem is they only know once they seek, and they only seek once they've been burnt.
@@jollypolly1686 we are in the age of information and technology and so there is no excuse as to why you can’t spend a few minutes educating yourself on the dangers and legal implications of divorce and marriage.
Holy cow, after the first minute I was thinking about EXACTLY this particular conversation with James Sexton. I'm so glad you're quoting him! He's perfectly summarizing why it is suicidal for men to even consider this bs legal contract called marriage in any western country. "It's an inherently negligent activity, it's like owning a lion" -- as he said in another talk.
Nice haircut, Alexander! 👌
No marriage, No long term relationships and most of all on waste of your time. I don’t need them and I don’t want them.
Another balanced, well thought out video by Alexander, and an excellent overview of where we're currently at in the modern western dating market.
Many women want to be married, few want to be a wife
8:00 Well, it's worse: Women know very well that their man has emotions, hopes and desires of his own. But many of them just don't care / feel these are unjustified or silly / they are too high value to stoop to acknowledge or please, respectively, these emotions, hopes and desires of their man.
Yep, the finality that men have finally walked away is blowing their minds.
We have left our relgious roots and changed the foundation for marriage and we're suffering now the results of rational self interest.
Rational self interest = the Devil's Pride
The churches avoid this topic like the plague and instead preach meaningless nonsense. They failed us miserably.
Alexander, I really admire your channel. Please keep doing what you’re doing. You’re helping a lot of men out.
What do modern women even have to offer??? Looks? No. Personality? Hell no. Stay free, lads.
Right, all they offer is their genitals but they get offended when you point it out. In fact some of them don't even offer that.
Nothing. They used to offer a womb but now they ruin their body with chemicals and routinely purge any crop that tales root. They'll come to regret their life in the winter of their life.
4:19 This sounds like a source of drama and a serious financial drain. TBH, You could get more value from a paid nanny.
Reason almost every civilization kept women under so many scruitiny.
They're incapable of tempering their own avarice. The state rewards their nature because capitalism itself is an inherently feminine concept, and they share mutual goals.
When women specifically have to tell the world that your sex is more compassionate etc then that's projection, it reminds me of that saying "the man who proclaims himself to be king is not the king.
Women saying "the world would be a peaceful place if women were to rule". I think we safely can assume nuclear holocaust if that was to happen.
"Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" - Yes, Venus is a hellhole, the atmosphere is literally on fire, molten lead raining from above.
Mars on the other hand is almost hospitable 'as is'. Put a few men up there for a decade and they'll fix it.
Women love chaos because according to their astrology charts they were born on Venus. We all know astrology is hard science 😂
#OccupyMars 👽
Women are rarely held accountable and are never held as accountable as a man in the same position.
I would love to be in a loving relationship but they are very hard to find and frankly not worth the risk in Canada.
Best method Gonzalo Lira (RIP) said is get married but protect your wealth not using pre-nups but a trust like system where the man is not the owner but the trust is ! I dont know the specifics but he was a bright guy sadly no longer with us.
Basically you don't want anything in your name unless it's a booby prize lol.
She thought she'd get the $20M mansion and Bentley but on paper all he owned is a Ford Pinto and an apartment in the ghetto.
Yes, a trust instrument is used for wealth management, so as to sever/mask ownership ties to given assets.
True wisdom
Lawyers will get around it somehow
Men commit suicide 4x more than women and 9x more likely during a divorce. But they don’t want to talk about that part.
Literal predators. Ever watch a nature documentary where an animal takes over another's nest instead of building its own?
Epidemic of Narcissism... sprouting from the privileges they've received over time.
Nope they were always like this. Society just punished them harshly did stepping out and forced them to act right. Same way a good parent forces their child to behave when acting out.
This makes me so happy I never have, nor ever will get married. I can take care of myself, and I don't need anyone else for that.
With many women, there is literally no reason whatsoever to get married. Its a detriment much more than advantage for men. No amount of shaming will change the harsh reality for guys.
a life of hard work wiped out because of how she feels in a single moment.
Why arent the so called good women of this world standing up for the good men? Men leave women alone, they dont want us, focus on yourself, save your money and your life. Getting married today is like playing russian roulette with a full chamber
Russian roulette with a pistol...
The sustahood 👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀
Aint no good women out here.
A man's loyaty is tested when he has everything, a woman's loyalty is tested when he has nothing