I get the concept behind silence, but I don't think people get that your silence doesn't hurt them either, they turn around and use that to further paint you as antisocial, "crazy", weird, scared etc etc Yeah remaining silent can be effective in dealing with randoms, but if it's a family member, coworker etc etc someone you have to see and deal with on a regular basis, staying silent can actually do more harm than good.
When you constantly bite your tongue and stay silent with people you've gotta deal with regularly, that also teaches them they can KEEP doing it, and believe me they definitely will for as long as you let them think they can get away with it.
The absolute best thing you can do is to tell them their words and actions are feeling very disrespectful/offensive, and watch how easy they are to spot with their go to response "I'm not disrespecting you" Which is another tactic they use to invalidate YOUR feelings. As if them simply saying they're not disrespecting you somehow trumps your feelings of actually feeling disrespected.
@CashJohnson-k4x I agree with everything you're saying!! You're definitely right...People will continue to disrespect you for as long as you let em! 💯
I can walk away from someone today without a word. I don't have to explain and justify my decision to disrespectful people. I don't need closure with their kind.
@@dnromeoalphayankee13 The logical extension of that manner of living being to never ask, nor answer, the most irrelevant question of all. “Why?” How come… because the answer is never sufficient, and it doesn’t matter anyways. And, good luck with that.
@newtfigton8795 You don't have to work with them. Had a Foreman yell at me cuz me out. I didn't engage in a shouting match with him I just walked away and got another job. I'm to old for that b.s.
Silence is so powerful! When you go quiet, that is when the message is received that you are done! You don't owe anyone a response🤫
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Just got text from someone who started treating me as an option after almost one year. I was honest, my intentions were pure and i helped her but she never vaIued it. All i had for her was just my silence. Some people don't deserve a second chance, just ignore it and move on.
They don't get it on the day, but weeks, months, years later, they realise they are no longer needed in that persons life, and they have nothing to offer as person, that's worth arguing about.
They havent won......they have been spared......only to feel the real pain,regret. When it kicks in that they are truly cast aside and are completely irrelevent.
In our civilisation of narcissism and constant attention seeking is Joker's advice totally revolutionary, even biblical! And yes, may Lord bless the man making this video available to all of us who found it in the YT universe...
Getting angry and emotional gives the other person the opportunity to argue and dismiss said emotions, essentially you're giving them the power to validate/invalidate them. You can't argue with silence, you can't downplay it either. Silence is powerful because it sends a message that 'you're no longer have the priviledge of knowing my emotions'. A king does not concern himself with the opinions of the common peasantry.
Silence isn’t golden, it’s far more precious than that. It’s beyond the material. It’s the ultimate response to irrelevance. It’s a choice. It leaves other wondering. Questioning. It blocks the distractions of their words and actions. It avoidant and stoic. Silence isn’t golden. Silence is power, self-control. Take control with the power of your silence.
It’s not avoidant and stoic - completely opposite: rather it’s evidence that the person has walked away to do true healing. They’ve not avoided it. They looked at it in the eye.
As a Christian man, I'm inspired by the messages in this series. I wasn't aware that the Joker was a motivational speaker. To whoever made this series that has some Christian based messaging, I say thank you.
These words resonate with me because two years ago, I visited an art museum in Massachusetts. And I tried to be friendly to one of the people who worked there by giving them a friendly greeting and asking how they were. Only my question was met with a rude and impolite response from him; "That's none of your business." But rather than curse him out or engage in an argument with him over how disrespectful he was, I chose to remain silent. Because it just wasn't worth it. People like him are not worth a response.
People like them are hurting bad. If he or she felt good, they would be eager to share! I'm learning don't let those people drag me down too been there done that😊
@@samothom7333 Still, the man was rude and disrespectful. And, there's a proper way to respond to people's questions. You can say "I'm sorry, I'd rather not say." Or "Sorry, but that's private." I'm a person who's hurting deep down inside. But I always try to be polite unless someone really pushes my buttons.
Maybe he had really bad day nd he wasn't in right state of mind at tht point of time. So he was in frustration. Nd he also needed peace of mind. Sometimes we don't know what other people r going through. So just don't take it personally
@@l-earnfactology1449 Still, one has the choice to be polite or impolite regardless of their circumstances. You always have a choice. But people do what they want to do. So I'm not going to argue with that. Besides, I'm pretty much over it by now. And by not reacting harshly to his poor behavior, shows my maturity and resilience.
@@TheDoodok...It's a Narc. Narcissists are the most vile and repulsive beings on this planet. I was unawares of their satanic character until I researched narcissism in depth. Don't allow their outward appearance or false charm fool you. They're non-human!
Going through some serious shit with my family right now and it's beyond disrespect- litigation, lawsuits, and courtroom drama... i needed to hear this. Thank you for your video.
I've chosen peace of mind..to get away from the continued drama, lies, deceit and cheating. She still trys to text daily. I've been ignoring for a week now
Hey man, if you catch yourself wondering how it would feel to be with her again only for some action and no emotions involved, as a dare to yourself to get 'closure' that way and 'detach' yourself by doing the fwb thing, even if it's just once, don't play into that. That's her territory, that's what she's good at, you'd just give her a win. Your power is in your self-respect and your self-respect lies with your choice of staying away. Doesn't matter if you're good at it and you'd pull it off and change the dynamic and she's now your side chick, because you'd feel weak for giving in anyways. Plenty of girls out there. If she pulled games on you and cheated, you'll just get more of that, even as a fwb she'd find ways, trust that. It never works.
I've already done this and it's the best way to end things with Toxic Negative people. Accept that there is nothing be gained from re-engaging with people like this as they live in this black hole of toxic and negative energy that is all consuming and the only thing you do to save yourself is to Just Quietly Walk Away, Ghost them and recreate yourself Become the person that subconciously you've always felt you were meant be.
Keep in mind it won't be easy as you will most likely have to walk away from other people that have a lesser connection to the person or persons that you are walking away from as they will contact those people at some point to find out what you are up to. So in order to start a new you will have walk away from any and all people that have a connection to the life you are leaving behind. "So Many People From Your Past Know A Version Of You That Doesn't Exist Anymore"
I’ve been saying yes to my wife for years. When I finally said NO she flipped. Threw my clothes all over the room. Never knew she was toxic. I went into silent mode.
I've developed what I call a shit test, to basically find out over time how much someone is full of it over time, hopefully a short period of time in the case of toxic people or ignorant fools. You have to realize that nothing is more important than your peace of mind and sacrificing anyones Toxic Behavior & Selfisness for it isn't worth it. Peace of mind and a low stress level is priceless. Look for people that are Honorable, Respectful and have Integrity. "Soon You Will Realize That Many People Will Love The Idea Of You, But Lack The Maturity To Handle The Reality Of You"
Trust me!!! My own daughter disrespects me for years now that I'm stronger... no more because I know that I deserve better than what she has to offer!!! I'm in the position that silence is all that I have to defeat that demon of a daughter that I have. .. NO CONTACT !!! But to be Silence AT All Cost (PERIOD)
Me too. After her dad abused me for years, I got the courage to get a divorce. She sided with him, hated me, and even as a grown woman still expects me to be submissive to her. No more. I let go of the rope.
I think this applies after high school. I got bullied too they use to laugh at me. Now I get the last laugh as I am better than them. Most of them are locked up and single mothers.
Thanks man … going through something really similar … now I’m just comfortable with myself and focusing on building a better life for me ; don’t even care they exist ❤
This is exactly the conversation I had with a client of mine last week. They were dealing with someone who constantly disrespected them, and the need to react felt overwhelming. When they finally chose silence, they saw the power in walking away without engaging. Your explanation of silence as strength is spot on, and the emotional growth that comes from not needing to prove oneself to others is life-changing. Truly, you captured the essence of self-respect and peace in such a profound way. This is a must-watch for anyone struggling with toxic people.
It only works if they actually have morals and feelings. If they are a narcissist and you won't even notice your silence because they're only focused on themselves and you you only exist to them to provide fuel. You mean as much to them as the chair sitting in the room
I disagree.. I just got out of a very long-term relationship with a covert narcissist… the worst type.. I completely went silent no contact with all the derogatory comments, insults.. that put her even more in a narcissistic rage.. then it turned into 700+ text messages. Wishing me dead… the more I remain silent the more she just cracked away in little pieces. It was brilliant.! Never waste your time and energy below your station in life.. make them feel insignificant like they never mattered.. that’s what silence does.. it hits back with bone crushing intensity.
Join the club👍this Is the route I took it was hard at times cos I though maybe I look to soft but it was best for my own peace and not let it affect my life.
OHHHHHH, this is SPOT on. I tend to go on and on and on and blah blah.... forcing my intent. This is the FIRST time in 65 years, I kept 100% quiet... And I will continue. And.. I will NOT go back!
Silence is there for you, not them. They're probably relieved they don't have to deal with you anymore and likely don't give you a second thought. They might remember you at a moment when your presence could've been beneficial, but that is fleeting. Silence is there only to help you move on, nothing else.
I believe you are right..but if you silence and you stay is much worse. Presence is Power. The presence in silence is even worse! They will search to find out if you forget.... show them that you forget. With laughter... then strike them silently....
@@ΠανωραίαΚόκκινου-ι4σ Perhaps, but my personal view is that silence is simply an unavoidable consequence when there's nothing left to say. I do have a huge problem with it... Silence means that misunderstandings will take hold, perhaps talking things out is the correct solution and will lead to better conclusions... Obviously, a moment comes, when you feel like you've said everything you have to say, and silence is the only option left. When that moment comes, silence signifies an ending, for both sides.
I swear that is so true, when my lady starts disrespecting me I don't react to it at all she does that to get under my skin so I just stay silent and look at her and smile, she hates that.
Okay. I've seen people leave comments on videos before saying something to the effect of "I needed to hear this tonight" or "You just saved me by saying what I was feeling" or "I was on the verge, but you pulled me back". And I've always just shaken my head at them and almost looked down at them for it (perhaps arrogantly, but I think more out of ignorance than anything). And now I'm one of those. I don't believe in anything supernatural, but the timing of finding this video completely randomly couldn't have been more fortuitous. Thank you for sharing it. Definitely hit home for me this evening.
That’s ego and insecurity at work imo, if you’re fully comfortable with yourself people can’t drag you down, although there can be exceptions, we aren’t all the same after all.
Ghosting is cowardly. DO tell them you're walking away. DON'T discuss it. They need to know you're leaving. They know why! So don't negotiate with them; some do try that! The last "friend" I cut contact with, I simply texted him, _I won't bother you anymore. I'm deleting your number. Have a good life._ He waited two weeks to the day, and tried to get back into my life. That's when I stopped replying to his messages and calls. After a week of it, he got the point. Point is, you should tell them you're done. Ghost afterwards.
"My world is unaffected" that line have helped me rise above many people in my path .. As a young individuel I was often taunted by my teachers "you are antisocial" "you have no friends" "why are you this way?" .. I knew I just did not wanted to be bothered ... I like my own company and choose this over most people, this do not make me antisocial, it make me value my time and worth.. to go through life depending on others are sure way to på frail.. the one who says the fewest words often have to most to say.
Space is silent. And cold. That is why it is a genuine source of terror for a lot of people. When someone wanting attention instigates or shouts only to realize that they shouted into a cold abyss, it unnerves them.
Oh. My. God! My ex abandoned me (after 5 years together) the day I returned from my parent’s funeral - no explanation, no closure, nothing. He just disappeared from my life. So bad was the trauma of it all (plus a 2-years legal battle with my family) it sent me into menopause aged 42. I lost most of my hair, my trust in men, my belief in relationships and my faith in love. Watching this video has answered so many questions for me, thank you. I’m cured.
I'm new to this channel, boy oh boy, can I ever relate. I've ridden myself of any toxciticy 16 years ago, I'm truly the free one. Thank you for your videos.
This video beautifully captures the power of silence. It’s amazing how choosing peace and self-respect can be so impactful. Thanks for this powerful reminder!
Does kept me on the wrap for a long time my patience has also kept me under wrap listening to the things that I'm supposed to enduring it in with correcting my own mistakes self is more important than another human being focus
Silence is best when you are being constantly disrespected by people.
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I get the concept behind silence, but I don't think people get that your silence doesn't hurt them either, they turn around and use that to further paint you as antisocial, "crazy", weird, scared etc etc
Yeah remaining silent can be effective in dealing with randoms, but if it's a family member, coworker etc etc someone you have to see and deal with on a regular basis, staying silent can actually do more harm than good.
When you constantly bite your tongue and stay silent with people you've gotta deal with regularly, that also teaches them they can KEEP doing it, and believe me they definitely will for as long as you let them think they can get away with it.
The absolute best thing you can do is to tell them their words and actions are feeling very disrespectful/offensive, and watch how easy they are to spot with their go to response
"I'm not disrespecting you"
Which is another tactic they use to invalidate YOUR feelings. As if them simply saying they're not disrespecting you somehow trumps your feelings of actually feeling disrespected.
@CashJohnson-k4x I agree with everything you're saying!! You're definitely right...People will continue to disrespect you for as long as you let em! 💯
I'm 56 years old, & I'm not having toxic people in my life anymore. That includes family members. Life is too short .
Yes! I've been doing this. Don't allow these people to disturb your peace of mind.
We are the same age. My past experience, and plans for the future mirror each other. I wish you well.
I'm 54 and walked away from toxic family) friends in my late 30s. It was difficult at first but I realized with time how destructive they really were
The crazy part is that it took you 56 years to do it!
The whole world's toxic stay away from people
Silence is Golden. Silence is Power. It speaks for itself while preserving one’s dignity.
As long as you're not bitter or resentful. Get rid of the people and emotional baggage.
@@JeremyS-k1e Not after one has been disrespected it isn’t.
@@JeremyS-k1e not everyone is worthy of the truth. Matthew 7:6... casting pearls before the swine.
I can walk away from someone today without a word. I don't have to explain and justify my decision to disrespectful people. I don't need closure with their kind.
Learning the same thing an u said it jus right.
Thank you.
#theirkind
Exactly! Their disrespect was the closure anyway 🤷🏻♂️
Closure is a fallacy. When you leave them in silence they have have their own words to eat them. They become fallow ground that can grow nothing.
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@@OLDSCHOOLPETE112 so, you say it was happy. Curious way to look at it.
My motto in life :
Never complain. Never explain.
@@dnromeoalphayankee13 The logical extension of that manner of living being to never ask, nor answer, the most irrelevant question of all. “Why?” How come… because the answer is never sufficient, and it doesn’t matter anyways. And, good luck with that.
Thats hardcore
Love it!
Silent but deadly
The quiet person is the most dangerous in any room...
🃏
SHHHHHHHH
Yeah
Silent but deadly
Silence is karma.
Jee
Something I've learned in life is karma is REAL.
@@CitiesOfAshNo doubt. 😎✌🏻
@CitiesOfAsh Oh its very deadly Real alright.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
- Maya Angelou
As opposed to who you know they are?
Blocking/walking away from negative people is something I started doing recently. It works well, and it's stupid simple.
Same here
What if they’re at your job and you have to work with them?
@newtfigton8795 You don't have to work with them. Had a Foreman yell at me cuz me out. I didn't engage in a shouting match with him I just walked away and got another job. I'm to old for that b.s.
I'm proud of you ❤
Remember that silence should not be done out of revenge. But truly out of self respect and it will teach others.
Silence amplifies all the words they were ignoring.
Beautiful ❤️
Thanks for sharing
ou! this deserves more likes.
Silence holds so much power, Let them wonder about you...
You simply be still, I will fight your battles for you. Exodus 14 ; 14
Toxic people and haters don't deserve MY good energy and MY golden words so I don't care about them. Silence is more powerful than scream. 😎☝🏼
Silence is the hardest blow. Because there is nothing you can do. Thats the best part.
Exactly!
Silence is so powerful! When you go quiet, that is when the message is received that you are done! You don't owe anyone a response🤫
Just got text from someone who started treating me as an option after almost one year. I was honest, my intentions were pure and i helped her but she never vaIued it. All i had for her was just my silence. Some people don't deserve a second chance, just ignore it and move on.
Some people don't know what they have until it is gone.
No contact and silence is power
Fr tho
Especially when you’re dealing with cowards.
Silence is about being at peace, with ones' self. It's not a weapon, not martyrdom, not winning, nor losing. Peace.
Some people think they've "won" when you walk away ... They don't get it...
Yes, When you close that door they soon realize its closed for good ! Hold your heads up people it's rough out there.
They will,
When the glow is gone.
That's right, that's their mindset. Then they will escalate cause they know you won't say nothing in your defence.
They don't get it on the day, but weeks, months, years later, they realise they are no longer needed in that persons life, and they have nothing to offer as person, that's worth arguing about.
They havent won......they have been spared......only to feel the real pain,regret. When it kicks in that they are truly cast aside and are completely irrelevent.
In our civilisation of narcissism and constant attention seeking is Joker's advice totally revolutionary, even biblical! And yes, may Lord bless the man making this video available to all of us who found it in the YT universe...
It's really just Artificial Intellegence,but it's cool.In 10 years,everything will probably be AI.💙💜💙
@@harryyarrow4110 And God help us all.
Getting angry and emotional gives the other person the opportunity to argue and dismiss said emotions, essentially you're giving them the power to validate/invalidate them. You can't argue with silence, you can't downplay it either.
Silence is powerful because it sends a message that 'you're no longer have the priviledge of knowing my emotions'. A king does not concern himself with the opinions of the common peasantry.
I have made silence my most powerful weapon to move on.
Silence isn’t golden, it’s far more precious than that. It’s beyond the material. It’s the ultimate response to irrelevance. It’s a choice. It leaves other wondering. Questioning. It blocks the distractions of their words and actions. It avoidant and stoic. Silence isn’t golden. Silence is power, self-control. Take control with the power of your silence.
It’s not avoidant and stoic - completely opposite: rather it’s evidence that the person has walked away to do true healing. They’ve not avoided it. They looked at it in the eye.
I've walked away from everyone. I now live in alone in peace
Same here!!
Me too
Same here brother !!!
Yes
Same 👍 Bliss 😌
Silence isn't empty it had a lot to to say
Silence is a good move. Only few great people knows how to do it.
Silence needs no fold to tether, for it is the whole in which the part must be judged.
As a Christian man, I'm inspired by the messages in this series. I wasn't aware that the Joker was a motivational speaker. To whoever made this series that has some Christian based messaging, I say thank you.
Pleasure
Your welcome & God bless you.
Not every barking dog deserves a response
😂😂
Gonna use this in conversation.. thanks
Ain't heard that since the 80's.
You should not throw a rock at every barking dog!
😂
I've always lived my life like this. It makes them frustrated and angry. I usually laugh and walk away. Their words do not bother me. I know who I am.
These words resonate with me because two years ago, I visited an art museum in Massachusetts. And I tried to be friendly to one of the people who worked there by giving them a friendly greeting and asking how they were. Only my question was met with a rude and impolite response from him; "That's none of your business." But rather than curse him out or engage in an argument with him over how disrespectful he was, I chose to remain silent. Because it just wasn't worth it. People like him are not worth a response.
People like them are hurting bad. If he or she felt good, they would be eager to share! I'm learning don't let those people drag me down too been there done that😊
@@samothom7333 Still, the man was rude and disrespectful. And, there's a proper way to respond to people's questions. You can say "I'm sorry, I'd rather not say." Or "Sorry, but that's private." I'm a person who's hurting deep down inside. But I always try to be polite unless someone really pushes my buttons.
Silence …
Maybe he had really bad day nd he wasn't in right state of mind at tht point of time. So he was in frustration. Nd he also needed peace of mind. Sometimes we don't know what other people r going through. So just don't take it personally
@@l-earnfactology1449 Still, one has the choice to be polite or impolite regardless of their circumstances. You always have a choice. But people do what they want to do. So I'm not going to argue with that. Besides, I'm pretty much over it by now. And by not reacting harshly to his poor behavior, shows my maturity and resilience.
I sometimes feels helpless for not saying anything and leave..but now I feel I did right..I am strong.. Thanks for the video ❤
"Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, sayeth the Lord."
Amen! Leave it to God and stay true to yourself and the lord❤
Amen❤
Amen!
@Populous1why you feel the need to pick on people?Are you ok?
@@TheDoodok...It's a Narc.
Narcissists are the most vile and repulsive beings on this planet. I was unawares of their satanic character until I researched narcissism in depth. Don't allow their outward appearance or false charm fool you.
They're non-human!
That's why I'm the Listener. Silence gives me the air of mystery.
Going through some serious shit with my family right now and it's beyond disrespect- litigation, lawsuits, and courtroom drama... i needed to hear this. Thank you for your video.
Silence is so beautiful
I've chosen peace of mind..to get away from the continued drama, lies, deceit and cheating. She still trys to text daily. I've been ignoring for a week now
Don't answer the call bro....
Hey man, if you catch yourself wondering how it would feel to be with her again only for some action and no emotions involved, as a dare to yourself to get 'closure' that way and 'detach' yourself by doing the fwb thing, even if it's just once, don't play into that. That's her territory, that's what she's good at, you'd just give her a win. Your power is in your self-respect and your self-respect lies with your choice of staying away. Doesn't matter if you're good at it and you'd pull it off and change the dynamic and she's now your side chick, because you'd feel weak for giving in anyways. Plenty of girls out there. If she pulled games on you and cheated, you'll just get more of that, even as a fwb she'd find ways, trust that. It never works.
Same here…!
Only a wk? (you got a long way to go my brothuh)
@@excelsiorcroissantgreat advice.
The power of positive thinking far outweigh all others.
Silence helps you to get in touch with you rather than others.
Silence avoids unnecessary conflicts
Amen! Not responding to anyone’s negativity or going down their level is true power!!!
I've already done this and it's the best way to end things with Toxic Negative people. Accept that there is nothing be gained from re-engaging with people like this as they live in this black hole of toxic and negative energy that is all consuming and the only thing you do to save yourself is to Just Quietly Walk Away, Ghost them and recreate yourself Become the person that subconciously you've always felt you were meant be.
Keep in mind it won't be easy as you will most likely have to walk away from other people that have a lesser connection to the person or persons that you are walking away from as they will contact those people at some point to find out what you are up to. So in order to start a new you will have walk away from any and all people that have a connection to the life you are leaving behind. "So Many People From Your Past Know A Version Of You That Doesn't Exist Anymore"
I’ve been saying yes to my wife for years. When I finally said NO she flipped. Threw my clothes all over the room. Never knew she was toxic. I went into silent mode.
I've developed what I call a shit test, to basically find out over time how much someone is full of it over time, hopefully a short period of time in the case of toxic people or ignorant fools. You have to realize that nothing is more important than your peace of mind and sacrificing anyones Toxic Behavior & Selfisness for it isn't worth it. Peace of mind and a low stress level is priceless. Look for people that are Honorable, Respectful and have Integrity. "Soon You Will Realize That Many People Will Love The Idea Of You, But Lack The Maturity To Handle The Reality Of You"
They all asked this morning...Hey whats wrong? People are worried... Its working Great Joker!! I thank you 👍
Self control is strength. Calmness is mastery.
Yes I choose silence over argument and distance over disrespect and I am feeling the peace and respect that I deserve ❤❤❤. Thank you for this message
Trust me!!! My own daughter disrespects me for years now that I'm stronger... no more because I know that I deserve better than what she has to offer!!! I'm in the position that silence is all that I have to defeat that demon of a daughter that I have.
.. NO CONTACT !!! But to be Silence AT All Cost (PERIOD)
Me too. After her dad abused me for years, I got the courage to get a divorce. She sided with him, hated me, and even as a grown woman still expects me to be submissive to her. No more. I let go of the rope.
I don't think they will ever worry about me ever again if they decided to treat me that way.. they knew what they were doing..
This!! 💯
@@Falco361 I'm talking about those who mistreated me.. just sharing my experience.. are you ok??
Channel that energy that would've been wasted on a pointless argument into your goals and your dreams
100% correct.
From my own experience in school back in the day from bullies, I can tell you that silence/ignoring does NOT work.
I think this applies after high school. I got bullied too they use to laugh at me. Now I get the last laugh as I am better than them. Most of them are locked up and single mothers.
Thanks man … going through something really similar … now I’m just comfortable with myself and focusing on building a better life for me ; don’t even care they exist ❤
Pleasure
Right on!!!! Nothing trumps the Joker's silence and I am the Joker to the person that tried to wrong me...🎉
Amen 🙏
Silence is your best revenge and God will do the work for you.
They will all be punished 🙏😈
This is exactly the conversation I had with a client of mine last week. They were dealing with someone who constantly disrespected them, and the need to react felt overwhelming. When they finally chose silence, they saw the power in walking away without engaging. Your explanation of silence as strength is spot on, and the emotional growth that comes from not needing to prove oneself to others is life-changing. Truly, you captured the essence of self-respect and peace in such a profound way. This is a must-watch for anyone struggling with toxic people.
Silence is golden.
Make your choice ;
Only give your love to The kind ones.
❤🎉😊
Truth be said... "Silence is Powerful"!!! The Choice to Let Go...
Thank you Joker, I am stronger through your wisdom!
Yeah, this is a good one. Take this one in. silence over anger totally disarms.
It only works if they actually have morals and feelings. If they are a narcissist and you won't even notice your silence because they're only focused on themselves and you you only exist to them to provide fuel. You mean as much to them as the chair sitting in the room
I disagree.. I just got out of a very long-term relationship with a covert narcissist… the worst type.. I completely went silent no contact with all the derogatory comments, insults.. that put her even more in a narcissistic rage.. then it turned into 700+ text messages. Wishing me dead… the more I remain silent the more she just cracked away in little pieces. It was brilliant.! Never waste your time and energy below your station in life.. make them feel insignificant like they never mattered.. that’s what silence does.. it hits back with bone crushing intensity.
Disrespect is different,humiliation is different and tearing someone down is different,each one of them has its own price ✌️
Silence literally speaks louder than words, it resonates with lessons and the harsh truths simultaneously 😤
Your words are so empowering…thankyou. Needed to hear this 🙏🏻
Join the club👍this Is the route I took it was hard at times cos I though maybe I look to soft but it was best for my own peace and not let it affect my life.
@@MultiMarty25 it’s the only way. It’s hard isn’t it ? Love yourself first and life gets better & better x
They say timing is everything. Evidently i need to hear this today . Nailed it
OHHHHHH, this is SPOT on. I tend to go on and on and on and blah blah.... forcing my intent. This is the FIRST time in 65 years, I kept 100% quiet... And I will continue.
And.. I will NOT go back!
But often the person who disrespects you and takes you for granted also does that by staying silent.
Silence is there for you, not them. They're probably relieved they don't have to deal with you anymore and likely don't give you a second thought. They might remember you at a moment when your presence could've been beneficial, but that is fleeting. Silence is there only to help you move on, nothing else.
I believe you are right..but if you silence and you stay is much worse. Presence is Power. The presence in silence is even worse!
They will search to find out if you forget.... show them that you forget. With laughter... then strike them silently....
@@ΠανωραίαΚόκκινου-ι4σ Perhaps, but my personal view is that silence is simply an unavoidable consequence when there's nothing left to say. I do have a huge problem with it... Silence means that misunderstandings will take hold, perhaps talking things out is the correct solution and will lead to better conclusions... Obviously, a moment comes, when you feel like you've said everything you have to say, and silence is the only option left. When that moment comes, silence signifies an ending, for both sides.
Love this 💫
I thank you fit guiding others to empowerment and return to one’s self 🙏🏻
When someone disrespects you, silence can make them realize their behavior isn’t worth your attention.
Especially when you smile, get up, and walk away.
“It’s not that I’ve changed a lot, a lot has changed me”.
I swear that is so true, when my lady starts disrespecting me I don't react to it at all she does that to get under my skin so I just stay silent and look at her and smile, she hates that.
You got a toxic lady too huh? They are childish. They are losers to the core and miserable inside so they look to annoy us to fill the void
Tell me about it, I rather stay silent when she does that than to respond to everything she says disrespectful.
Silence leaves people thinking and not knowing what to expect
I cannot emphasize enough how much this is so prevalent in my life right now.
Okay. I've seen people leave comments on videos before saying something to the effect of "I needed to hear this tonight" or "You just saved me by saying what I was feeling" or "I was on the verge, but you pulled me back". And I've always just shaken my head at them and almost looked down at them for it (perhaps arrogantly, but I think more out of ignorance than anything). And now I'm one of those. I don't believe in anything supernatural, but the timing of finding this video completely randomly couldn't have been more fortuitous. Thank you for sharing it. Definitely hit home for me this evening.
Pleasure
This helps me with all the times I was disrespected and didn't know what to say back. Thank you
*Thank you so much you just encapsulate everything that I’m going through!! Much love from Chattanooga Tennessee*
Its so easy to ignore him. Now❤
No, I experience the opposite. Staying still in the face of disrespect causes you to experience more disrespect.
Preach. 🙌 If it bothers me more to hold it in, then i let it out before slamming the door.
That’s ego and insecurity at work imo, if you’re fully comfortable with yourself people can’t drag you down, although there can be exceptions, we aren’t all the same after all.
*SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO FIGHT BACK.*
Agreed.
Silence is golden
I've ghosted a few that I once called, friend.
They have to come as friends and gain your trust, in order to attack you. They don’t have the balls to to try it when you see them as an enemy…
Ghosting is cowardly.
DO tell them you're walking away.
DON'T discuss it.
They need to know you're leaving. They know why! So don't negotiate with them; some do try that!
The last "friend" I cut contact with, I simply texted him, _I won't bother you anymore. I'm deleting your number. Have a good life._
He waited two weeks to the day, and tried to get back into my life.
That's when I stopped replying to his messages and calls. After a week of it, he got the point.
Point is, you should tell them you're done. Ghost afterwards.
"My world is unaffected" that line have helped me rise above many people in my path ..
As a young individuel I was often taunted by my teachers "you are antisocial" "you have no friends" "why are you this way?" .. I knew I just did not wanted to be bothered ... I like my own company and choose this over most people, this do not make me antisocial, it make me value my time and worth.. to go through life depending on others are sure way to på frail.. the one who says the fewest words often have to most to say.
Good people are good. If you do bad to them they will just walk away and nothing more.❤
Space is silent. And cold. That is why it is a genuine source of terror for a lot of people. When someone wanting attention instigates or shouts only to realize that they shouted into a cold abyss, it unnerves them.
@1:30 - 2:07 straight fire!🔥 He laid that out COLD
God Forgive and Bless Everyone❤.
Thanks in Advance❤.
Do not interpret my tears for weakness. They are a warning for those who cross me.
Oh. My. God! My ex abandoned me (after 5 years together) the day I returned from my parent’s funeral - no explanation, no closure, nothing. He just disappeared from my life. So bad was the trauma of it all (plus a 2-years legal battle with my family) it sent me into menopause aged 42. I lost most of my hair, my trust in men, my belief in relationships and my faith in love. Watching this video has answered so many questions for me, thank you. I’m cured.
Absolutely 💯
I'm relieved hearing this. Thanks!!!
I enjoy the silence. Thank you ❤
Silence is powerful !!!
Your words are spiritual law. Very intelligent ❤❤❤❤😊
The best video I have come across about the supreme power of silence, awesome stuff, thank you so very much, I realised the power of silence
I'm new to this channel, boy oh boy, can I ever relate. I've ridden myself of any toxciticy 16 years ago, I'm truly the free one. Thank you for your videos.
Welcome aboard!
Ty
This channel has helped me a lot, it come at the right time
Incredible advice!
I tried it, it works flawlessly and instantly
Someone who is silent means that they may be plotting a revenge against you. Be careful when you try to bully or disrespect someone.
Actions speak louder than words and silence is more lethal than a trumpet. 😂
This video beautifully captures the power of silence. It’s amazing how choosing peace and self-respect can be so impactful. Thanks for this powerful reminder!
How did YT know that this is the video I was needing to watch today
Does kept me on the wrap for a long time my patience has also kept me under wrap listening to the things that I'm supposed to enduring it in with correcting my own mistakes self is more important than another human being focus