Silence is a great way to show that once they betrayed and disrespected you, that they and their opinions have fallen beneath any level of importance to even deserve reply.
WOW……Wow…..I had to read that Twice…. Thinking about how I finally @ the 7th month mark of him Discarding our 25 year marriage, I had to Go Absolute No-Contact…. After 3 weeks of that, he left a sad message on my phone, “please answer your phone, I need to know your ok, please” And still @ 16 months and almost divorced finalized… silence. MIT has made him more vindictive…but I can feel his utter saddness at times. I pray I will never look back. He was Callous, Cruel and vindictive
Dont forxe yourself to become someone else, thats going to drain you out of energy for whats important. These videos are toxic even though comfoetable as rhey may seem. Theyre just yet another opinion on how you should behave. If youre suchba solitude, you dont need social media whatsoever to reassure self of whats right, but as a matter of fact, youre just one brain. Cheers
@@Noswiatel I agree with you and I’ve been in 2 relationships with narcissists. (Saying that cause of the other answer to your comment.) it’s okay to stay silent if that’s what feels right but it should be to protect your energy and not for the reasons they mention in the beginning of this video. (I stopped listening when I realized it was toxic.) If needed you keep silent yo protect your own peace, not to make yourself more important. Stopping to their level does not make you powerful. Just be you and protect your peace. If silence brings you peace - then go with that.
Ive cut off my entire toxic clan, friends and relationship, i went ghost and just continued my life, after 2 years, one by one they have reach out reconciling... I am not proud of it and im not bein arrogant, but disrespect is somethin i cannot tolerate...
@@andyserkiz3384legit reason why I am here is because I am codependent, but my best friend was a narcissist, and I realised I don’t need to be codependent anymore and why the hell am I friends with someone like that. Went no contact 3 weeks ago. Codependent people are not evil, we just try to make people happy putting their needs above our own. But I was born with a disability so I felt like less. But I’m not less. But when I was a kid I guess I made friends with a narcissist or two thinking they were good people for being friends with me, but truth is they were my friends because I was an easy target. As of 3 weeks ago not anymore. :) I don’t need anyone. I got me.
Many people will take negative attention if they can't get positive attention. If they still can't get your attention, then you really start to crush their ego and they question their self worth that they can't even get a reaction out of you.
My x is miserable. He lives with his girlfriend, but he can't triangle me anymore. He felt so clever while cheating. He did laugh at me. His new love only wants money. I'm no one's slave. I live alone. No contact is the best thing I ever did.
I learned a long time ago from my parents who taught me to learn to be alone and do everything for yourself. When someone messed with me I learned to walk away because I knew I did not need them. There is a difference between wanting someone rather than needing someone.
I had to suffer through all of the attacks, the laughing behind my back and in front of my face, the cold stares, the eye rolling, the whispers, the mocking and the bullying. But I know God seen it all. He’s real 🙏🏾
I have God with me so no worries....because my Lord will fight a battle for me..... Thank you Lord for your love ,concerns and blessing..... In mighty jesus name..... Amen Amen Amen..... 🙏🙏🙏
Amen 🙏 it’s the end times now stay close to him this is why these people are everywhere and all do the exact same things there Satans seed. Love is on life support as is this world
@@nunodemello8184 omg yess! I just found this guy today and I'm downing ts like slamming Gatorades n Power/Energy drinks for my Soul after years in the desert! Loll ahhhhh...💪🤤🧋💥
The one who cares the least has the most power. Every time someone ATTEMPTS to disrespect you, they're only disrespecting themselves. Everyone is irrelevant to your personal existence. Others' opinions are worthless. Live your best lives peeps.
If a woman tries to play you and disrespect you , why not just give her a real narssistic "speech" just to let her know u don't play the ignoring games in silent" we don't try to win her back in the future"😂 let her have it then move on like a boss " silence it's cool but only if your trying to play mind games " sometimes u gotta crush these chick's " but I don't care for mind games " that's for broke down people I'll say fck you and have a nice life " I'll let her stay in silent " thinking she won " we don't care to put thought in low value woman " say what u want or stay in silent like a punk " but remember don't ever contact back that's the key no contact 🤣🤷♂️💯
Taking pills of wisdom from a coke addict druglord..... Why? Besides if you trust nobody how can y'all believe each other's words when you say trust nobody?
My Father and last surviving Grandmother passed away in 2012. After they were gone, that side of my family revealed how they really felt about me. It was brutal. I walked away. My mother and brother did the same in 2016. I walked away. I haven't seen or spoken to them since. Nor do I want to. I have forgiven them, but I want no reconciliation; I will NEVER allow these Toxic People into my life again! I leave my vengeance to God; as we are told in Romans 12:19. He will do far more than I could ever imagine. They repaid my kindness with contempt and wickedness. God will repay their wickedness with his judgement. The last words I spoke to my Narcissistic mother was, _"I'm done."_ I didn't shout. I said it quietly. I knew immediately she didn't believe me. She thought in a week or two, everything would be the same as it always had been. Yes, they expected me to crawl back and apologize to them for THEIR WICKEDNESS. That didn't happen! It never will! I'm done. Done with the lies, gaslighting, gang stalking, "loans" they never intended to repay, and much more! Much worse! God will repay all of it!
When some says something derogatory to you especially if its a loud insult, and you go silent after that. The only thing they hear is what theyve said the last time they spoke to you. It will keep ringing in their ears and every time they see you they are reminded of what theyve said because you didnt speak like they wanted you too. You didnt react like they wanted you to and now its only their maliscious voice they hear constantly
It's as though they wanted me to lash out and land myself in jail . The truth is , they were the catalyst for my spiritual awakening and I love them for it .
There is no need to remain silent because silence is also a reaction. a reaction expresses an attachment that still exists. what needs to be done is to remain indifferent, a neutral position. if you can do that, you will be truly free.
Silence is power…gave fake friends , family members and fake relationships almost 10 years & counting of my silence, my boundaries are firmly protected 💯☺️
It took me 5 years to get my boys. With in those 5 years I never reciprocated back in anger. I never matched my ex's emotion. I went through an onslaught of legal proceedings that destroyed me and went against who I am as a father and a person. I have no hate nor anger towards this person. She made me into a monster , a monster that can now control his emotions.
@MsPangY I felt the need to respond to you. Just a weird gut feeling I'm having. But, yes I too keep doing have been this giving and loving my whole life. My love is unconditional . I too keep trying to not give a F***K These motivational words are awesome hey? I have the beast inside I'm sure you do too. Sweet kind women as ourselves. We will do this. We will rise above. I wish you the best my new friend. And not let anyone take our kindness for weakness. Stay strong 😊
And the solution to fix is very simple... Learning to control the brain instead of the brain controlling you!!! That's all it takes for humans to become the best them.. And all the petty bull shit games will go away!!!
Excellent!!! A friend of 9yrs disrespected me punctuated with the finger...for no good reason! She just needed to dump her negativity on someone, anyone. 4 months later of my complete silence and she apologized and begged for my forgiveness..."just talk to me" she said. Too late. Too little. Game over. I've enjoyed feeling happy joyous and free of her negativity...drama, chaos and stress. It was so hard on her without me that she had a stroke! 😂 thank you for this video. I almost contacted her. Lesson learned 😊
A similar situation happened to me. This was with a female co-worker back in September of this year. She couldn't see the forest for the trees, so I disengaged from her and haven't said anything nor received a text from her since. I don't give a fuck, though. Once you cross me, it's over. End of story.
I once had a friend until alcohol stole his soul. I was there when he got his first sobriety coin. I was there for the good and the bad until the good vanished and the bad took over. I refused to watch him self-destruct while dragging others down with him. The same friend who used to tell me all the time that I had a 3 day limit for being around others. This same friend would stare when he thought I didn't know. In a stare are thoughts unspoken and his became dark. Best to do what I do best, walk away while loving them from afar. I love my solace, my peace, my strength which comes from above. We who love the silence know who we are.
One of them called my phone at midnight a couple of weeks ago. Another one sent me a happy birthday message four years ago. No answer, no reply from me. Nothing from me ever again. They are never welcome in my life ever again. Not negotiable.
I have been sleeping pretty good.. 👍 no reaction here.. calm, and quiet 🤫 Move in silence.. They know,and they know that I know.. A mystery?, I am an enigma 😁. They can think whatever they want ..
Never ever in my life have i ever watched a motivation video for longer then a minute, ill read a book. But now this one, that titel got me, and now im listening the full video. All words are comfirmation of the best thing one can do 🎉
13 years married to a complete LIE. I went radio silent as he moved on with his coworker. Bye Bye. It wasn't easy but My words became ZILCH to that disrespect. Thanks for this, it was hauntingly powerful 🖤
Facts frfr I'm in the process of that rt now. Im so broke my phone will b off in few. Can't wait for the peace that comes from this struggle. I frre in the name of Jesus
Even if they are in bed with someone else, they are still thinking about you. It doesn't matter if they haven't heard from you, you are living in their head rent free. Silence is more powerful. Silence takes away their power and hands it over to you.
It is sad, however, for you to get to this point, they have to have done 'alot' of bad stuff. That's on them and you didn't get to this point for no reason. Stay strong everybody
I've just Started aligning my actions with my power and thoughts and it's soon powerful and z sense of inner peace knowing ur worth less words more power behind them a a sturdy strong silence adds more weight to ur sense of worth and the energy you portraits .so very powerful
This popped up at just the right time, finally chose to cut off my toxic parents, not literally but with utter silence. Ever since then, they have done ANY thing possible to get me to talk, whether it's swearing, shouting, abusing,trying to isolate me from fam and friends. They have showed their trueselves now after ive started to ignore them. Now I understand them truly, and have realised they're just extremely bad people, nothing can change them. I want people to know that when u start to choose silence, they will get WORSE. Not because u are doing something wrong, but because yes, it's killing them, they like the drama and without it, they cannot survive, that's when you realise that they are actually nothing but miserable and selfish people who have nothing else to live for :)
I have been internet quiet and completely off social media for about nine months (no Facebook, X, Instagram, etc....) - and I do not regret it. I was conned, hacked, used, and abused by a woman I thought loved me. Have not talked to her in about five months. No calls, no texts, no reaching out - no thing - it's freeing for sure.
What a masterpiece of a video that a happened to stumble upon js now describes what happening and ik im doing the right thing im bettering myself everyday. My presence was taken for granted, now enjoy ny absence.
My BM left me, and I haven’t seen my 1 year old son in 6 months, she has him in her country, while she’s living elsewhere in the states, I cut her and her family off recently, and I felt as though this video has spoken to me at just the right time…I don’t need them, only my son, and I’m in the process of getting him back, while they crumble with my silence, thank you for making this video 🙏💪✊
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings, they're your best link to your past. And the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
My friend, I’ve always been the black sheep in the family and I was I was always physically abused,it was so bad that at times I couldn’t go to school and then I learned to say f….it and became a loner! My mom died 4 years ago ( in November) and I didn’t stay for the funeral because the air was so heavy that I left, and the RAGE THATS INSIDE ME, my brother if I had stayed I wouldn’t be here writing this right now, and I have not spoken to a single family member since… And silence, yes that’s the shit!…
I did same he never call or write Yesterday he said I know that you are offended I say no I am not intressted any more, I finish that and Never ever gonna give a chance. Stay strong ❤
Silence, yes is a weapon, but gratitude is the attitude of cure. Foster your peace of mind. Create and manifest your reality with your focus on positivity. Be grateful, for what you create.
Man this hit home. Now I understand what is going on with someone who I left behind because they betrayed me. I moved on, but they still stalk me, but seem afraid to contact me. I didn't consider their fears of my revenge. I assumed they could tell I moved on and don't care. But they must think I'm waiting for the right moment to destroy them. Too bad they don't realize they are the ones destroying themselves.
In addition to going silent, begin looking through them when you address them. When you address them, use as few words as possible to get your point across. Not using cuss words intensifies the vibe. My wife freaks out and straightens out very quickly every single time I get like this. Supervisors get very uncomfortable pretty quick also. Being a psychopath has its benefits...
A person who constantly manipulates people aggressively to turn them away... psychopath (noun) - a person consistently exhibiting antisocial, impulsive, manipulative, and sometimes aggressive behavior.
I am just learning to do this. It takes a lot of energy to deal with the anxiety of doing this. But for the first time in my life, I’m truly standing up for myself.
I woman I loved disrespected me everyday for 5 years. Then I let it destroy me and become bitter. I lashed out at her, bad mouthed her, told anybody that would listen. The listened, they told her and meddled and muddled and turned their back on me. Then I became the bad guy. I was the enemy, they all listened to her and told her I was abusive. It was emotional manipulation and torture, I was a narcissist. I am the bad man. Nobody heard me.
I thought or should I say assume that I knew what the video was going to say but I decided to listen anyway because the title was compelling and I’m glad I listened. Needed this
Great video! Priceless info, the advice many of us needed very much. I see in the comments so many wounded souls ❤. We are now stronger thanks to this video. When I was young, they made me lash out. It was bad. The last time I just went silent, deleted all social media, blocked the people on the phone. And moved. Then changed my phone number. And felt much better! This is the way to go!
I love peace, serenity and silence… while all else want to be loud and obnoxious and attention seeking… They know it’s a facade of false confidence as confidence does not scream for attention! Gratitude for this! Being Stoic and not letting anyone’s opinion matter in your bottom line about you is epically powerful 🙏🏾🫡
My gals. You don’t need that turkey! Please don’t cry over him!! Plus I cried enough for all of you put together. But if you must, please remember that the good Lord stores all our tears up in a bottle. You will get through this!
@ And>>someone who would make you feel like that doesn’t deserve you. Take time to heal. There will be a much better option down the road, and he will deserve you.
@@zolamvelase9176 Sorry I meant to send this to you a few days ago but somehow ended up replying to myself instead 🤓 Anyway…I meant to say to you: And>>someone who would make you feel like that doesn’t deserve you. Take time to heal. There will be a much better option down the road, and he will deserve you.
@monazimmerman7559 Thank you,Healing is the hard part but I have to go through the pain to experience the joy. Just that the pain is affecting my kids they are now dropping grades,it's affecting my work ,my family I feel like I need to go to a secluded place
Silence is a great way to show that once they betrayed and disrespected you, that they and their opinions have fallen beneath any level of importance to even deserve reply.
Great comment. That's helped me. Thank you
WOW……Wow…..I had to read that Twice…. Thinking about how I finally @ the 7th month mark of him Discarding our 25 year marriage, I had to Go Absolute No-Contact…. After 3 weeks of that, he left a sad message on my phone, “please answer your phone, I need to know your ok, please”
And still @ 16 months and almost divorced finalized… silence. MIT has made him more vindictive…but I can feel his utter saddness at times. I pray I will never look back. He was Callous, Cruel and vindictive
Teach me on how to articulate please 🙏
THIS. I love this comment. So true.
Quiet as a mouse
The message I needed. A man who said he loved me completely disrespected me over three years and I just got the courage to walk away and be silent.
Same situation with me.
Same - he said some of the most hurtful things anyone has ever said to me
Let’s get revenge on our exes together
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Me 5 years gave it all I mean all I lefted it was to bad being silent for two years and till this day she keeps sending mails go figure
Sometimes the most powerful and intimidating thing one can say is absolutely nothing.
Dont forxe yourself to become someone else, thats going to drain you out of energy for whats important.
These videos are toxic even though comfoetable as rhey may seem. Theyre just yet another opinion on how you should behave.
If youre suchba solitude, you dont need social media whatsoever to reassure self of whats right, but as a matter of fact, youre just one brain. Cheers
@@Noswiatelwhy are you here lecturing? You don’t know nothing about narcissism
@@Noswiatel I agree with you and I’ve been in 2 relationships with narcissists. (Saying that cause of the other answer to your comment.) it’s okay to stay silent if that’s what feels right but it should be to protect your energy and not for the reasons they mention in the beginning of this video. (I stopped listening when I realized it was toxic.) If needed you keep silent yo protect your own peace, not to make yourself more important. Stopping to their level does not make you powerful. Just be you and protect your peace. If silence brings you peace - then go with that.
@@mrcheese7042 How do you know they don’t know anything about narcissism?
do you feel like you look weak by not responding???
Karma is outstanding when people who take your kindness for weakness
It's not "weaknrss"
It's Stupiin her case
Kindness is weakness
@@dr.satini4971 your mama is weakness cuz she had you 😅💀
@@dr.satini4971 No.
Kindness is kindness.
Niceness is weakness.
How sad i disagree @@dr.satini4971
Silence is golden.
🖤❤️
And Duct tape is Silver!
Old Russian saying : words silver, silence is golden
EXACTLY, SISTER!!!!✊
SILENTIUM EST AUREUM
Ive cut off my entire toxic clan, friends and relationship, i went ghost and just continued my life, after 2 years, one by one they have reach out reconciling... I am not proud of it and im not bein arrogant, but disrespect is somethin i cannot tolerate...
HERE HERE✋🏻👋🏻✋🏻👋🏻
@@tylertilwick6852hear hear
Amen ! Good for u !
How do you plan on getting revenge?
@jokerpilled2535 silence is the best revenge and no contact
Don’t care for revenge or power. I just wanna protect my energy.
🎯
Yes, exactly
Bingo
Yep
Protect your energy with attitude of gratitude. Magic 🎩 that works.
Mouth Can Lie. Eyes Cannot . People Forget. Karma Will Not ................
😅😅😅😅nothing like that bro
They were super happy and i just ran away and i am crying in corner for all the traumas thry give
I’m convinced most people are narcissists
Same
Some are also Borderlines and some Codependent, and majority have some childhood trauma which is at the root of all this.
@@andyserkiz3384we all have some sort of trauma but I’m sick to death of people blaming their actions for it
@@tonyasmith5437 Why do you think I was blaming anyone? All I said that at the root of these personality disorders is a childhood trauma.
@@andyserkiz3384legit reason why I am here is because I am codependent, but my best friend was a narcissist, and I realised I don’t need to be codependent anymore and why the hell am I friends with someone like that. Went no contact 3 weeks ago. Codependent people are not evil, we just try to make people happy putting their needs above our own. But I was born with a disability so I felt like less. But I’m not less. But when I was a kid I guess I made friends with a narcissist or two thinking they were good people for being friends with me, but truth is they were my friends because I was an easy target. As of 3 weeks ago not anymore. :) I don’t need anyone. I got me.
To the person or people responsible for these videos, thank you 💙
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Yeah,facts💯
@@Dark-sd5xh
Many people will take negative attention if they can't get positive attention. If they still can't get your attention, then you really start to crush their ego and they question their self worth that they can't even get a reaction out of you.
so your not weak for not cussing them out ?
@@Sade-l7b
Cussin’ them out probably hadn’t worked ….
Thankyou I needed to read that
It depends. Only IMMATURE people do that.
Funny how the internet tosses this shit up when you’re going through the shit at the exact time…
fr
Exactly
that is a bit of karma.
what do you think ?
✨⭐️💫
The algorithm is working it’s magics
My x is miserable.
He lives with his girlfriend, but he can't triangle me anymore.
He felt so clever while cheating. He did laugh at me.
His new love only wants money. I'm no one's slave.
I live alone. No contact is the best thing I ever did.
I learned a long time ago from my parents who taught me to learn to be alone and do everything for yourself. When someone messed with me I learned to walk away because I knew I did not need them. There is a difference between wanting someone rather than needing someone.
What's your number?
@@James-o5r4o bruh
@@James-o5r4o😂
@@marcusavila2961😂
I had to suffer through all of the attacks, the laughing behind my back and in front of my face, the cold stares, the eye rolling, the whispers, the mocking and the bullying. But I know God seen it all. He’s real 🙏🏾
Dogs love to bark
Chickens love to cluck
but only actions show
who really gives a fuck
Like
Tshirt and hoodie merch right there!!!!❤
I will be using this! Thanks...
@@GalvMermaid50me too. !!
😂😂😂😂😂 That nails it !
I have God with me so no worries....because my Lord will fight a battle for me..... Thank you Lord for your love ,concerns and blessing..... In mighty jesus name..... Amen Amen Amen..... 🙏🙏🙏
Let the greedy have their own wisdom
@@dteunI love that. Thank you
AMEN 🙏 FAMILY ❤
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏 it’s the end times now stay close to him this is why these people are everywhere and all do the exact same things there Satans seed. Love is on life support as is this world
Man...... recently this Joker has been so accurate and literally has been reading "speaking" my mind! 100% brilliant video!
❤️👑🖤
Hello, sir joker I'm professor Doom we think alike teheheheheheheheheheheh@Dark-sd5xh
Of all your videos, I prefer the Joker the most…
The darkness, and truth he’s speaking and that music on the background…
Great job!
😊@@Dark-sd5xh88
@@nunodemello8184 omg yess! I just found this guy today and I'm downing ts like slamming Gatorades n Power/Energy drinks for my Soul after years in the desert! Loll ahhhhh...💪🤤🧋💥
Protecting your energy is such a beautiful thing!Try it out and see for yourself!
The one who cares the least has the most power. Every time someone ATTEMPTS to disrespect you, they're only disrespecting themselves. Everyone is irrelevant to your personal existence. Others' opinions are worthless. Live your best lives peeps.
Healthy way of looking at it... without delving into solopsism. Noice.
Facts frfr thank you for keeping 100
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Absolutely 💯
😂Speech Is -Silver …But Silence - Is Gold …..🌞
Oooooh I like that
If a woman tries to play you and disrespect you , why not just give her a real narssistic "speech" just to let her know u don't play the ignoring games in silent" we don't try to win her back in the future"😂 let her have it then move on like a boss " silence it's cool but only if your trying to play mind games " sometimes u gotta crush these chick's " but I don't care for mind games " that's for broke down people I'll say fck you and have a nice life " I'll let her stay in silent " thinking she won " we don't care to put thought in low value woman " say what u want or stay in silent like a punk " but remember don't ever contact back that's the key no contact 🤣🤷♂️💯
"WHO DO I TRUST?!! ME!!! F**k them. I don’t need them. I don’t need nobody."
- Tony Montana
Trust nobody
@@CarlBland-l8l amen
Taking pills of wisdom from a coke addict druglord..... Why? Besides if you trust nobody how can y'all believe each other's words when you say trust nobody?
My Father and last surviving Grandmother passed away in 2012. After they were gone, that side of my family revealed how they really felt about me. It was brutal. I walked away.
My mother and brother did the same in 2016. I walked away.
I haven't seen or spoken to them since. Nor do I want to. I have forgiven them, but I want no reconciliation; I will NEVER allow these Toxic People into my life again!
I leave my vengeance to God; as we are told in Romans 12:19. He will do far more than I could ever imagine.
They repaid my kindness with contempt and wickedness. God will repay their wickedness with his judgement.
The last words I spoke to my Narcissistic mother was, _"I'm done."_
I didn't shout. I said it quietly. I knew immediately she didn't believe me. She thought in a week or two, everything would be the same as it always had been.
Yes, they expected me to crawl back and apologize to them for THEIR WICKEDNESS. That didn't happen! It never will!
I'm done.
Done with the lies, gaslighting, gang stalking, "loans" they never intended to repay, and much more! Much worse!
God will repay all of it!
You are better off with out them.
When some says something derogatory to you especially if its a loud insult, and you go silent after that. The only thing they hear is what theyve said the last time they spoke to you. It will keep ringing in their ears and every time they see you they are reminded of what theyve said because you didnt speak like they wanted you too. You didnt react like they wanted you to and now its only their maliscious voice they hear constantly
It's as though they wanted me to lash out and land myself in jail . The truth is , they were the catalyst for my spiritual awakening and I love them for it .
No contact with narcissists , my family had the police do a wellness check on Easter Sunday..who needs enemies when you have family.
Mine calked them on christnas
There is no need to remain silent because silence is also a reaction. a reaction expresses an attachment that still exists. what needs to be done is to remain indifferent, a neutral position. if you can do that, you will be truly free.
This is the best one yet. Exactly what I've been going through.
Thanks again Joker!
I listen every morning exercising I push harder
💯👍
❤️🖤
They make themselves and everyone around them miserable 😢
That’s the reason I walked away from everyone…
Misery loves company. It’s unbelievable they can attain their level of misery. Just straight up weird & disgusting
Ya some ppl look for reasons to be mad they are addicted to the feeling of loosing their shit thinks it makes them look tuff or cool it’s cringe
God hired me who gonna fire me❤😅😂
Uuuh I like this phrase😊.
I inspired your thought ❤
I needed a good pep talk from the Joker. My narcissistic ex will know nothing but silence.
Silence is power…gave fake friends , family members and fake relationships almost 10 years & counting of my silence, my boundaries are firmly protected 💯☺️
“The real fight starts now.” Boom I’m coming. ❤
It took me 5 years to get my boys. With in those 5 years I never reciprocated back in anger. I never matched my ex's emotion. I went through an onslaught of legal proceedings that destroyed me and went against who I am as a father and a person. I have no hate nor anger towards this person. She made me into a monster , a monster that can now control his emotions.
Never get married ever again.
@transcendentsacredcourage I'm getting married bro. I found the one.
Been doing this all my life, I’m really amazed that this is how it goes.. still trying to be strong & not giving af anymore!! 😢😮❤
@MsPangY I felt the need to respond to you. Just a weird gut feeling I'm having. But, yes I too keep doing have been this giving and loving my whole life. My love is unconditional . I too keep trying to not give a F***K These motivational words are awesome hey? I have the beast inside I'm sure you do too. Sweet kind women as ourselves. We will do this. We will rise above.
I wish you the best my new friend. And not let anyone take our kindness for weakness.
Stay strong 😊
Me too.
And the solution to fix is very simple...
Learning to control the brain instead of the brain controlling you!!!
That's all it takes for humans to become the best them..
And all the petty bull shit games will go away!!!
I feel you on the young pretty lady I feel the same way and nice profile by the way
@@staceylynne6616nice
Excellent!!! A friend of 9yrs disrespected me punctuated with the finger...for no good reason! She just needed to dump her negativity on someone, anyone. 4 months later of my complete silence and she apologized and begged for my forgiveness..."just talk to me" she said. Too late. Too little. Game over. I've enjoyed feeling happy joyous and free of her negativity...drama, chaos and stress. It was so hard on her without me that she had a stroke! 😂 thank you for this video. I almost contacted her. Lesson learned 😊
A similar situation happened to me. This was with a female co-worker back in September of this year. She couldn't see the forest for the trees, so I disengaged from her and haven't said anything nor received a text from her since. I don't give a fuck, though. Once you cross me, it's over. End of story.
I once had a friend until alcohol stole his soul. I was there when he got his first sobriety coin. I was there for the good and the bad until the good vanished and the bad took over. I refused to watch him self-destruct while dragging others down with him. The same friend who used to tell me all the time that I had a 3 day limit for being around others. This same friend would stare when he thought I didn't know. In a stare are thoughts unspoken and his became dark. Best to do what I do best, walk away while loving them from afar. I love my solace, my peace, my strength which comes from above. We who love the silence know who we are.
A stupid person becomes wise when stays in silence...
Low iq comment
A quote from the Bible
One of them called my phone at midnight a couple of weeks ago. Another one sent me a happy birthday message four years ago. No answer, no reply from me. Nothing from me ever again. They are never welcome in my life ever again. Not negotiable.
Our greatest weapon my fellow Kings, our greatest power against disrespectful women is our absence and silence. Women hate absence and silence.
So do men 😂🎉
@@bettyfelton1362 Not true men are more accustomed to solitude by a country mile
I have been sleeping pretty good.. 👍
no reaction here.. calm, and quiet 🤫
Move in silence..
They know,and they know that I know..
A mystery?, I am an enigma 😁.
They can think whatever they want ..
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You are enigma, blink + bh ftw!
Another masterpiece! Liked and shared brother 👍
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Never ever in my life have i ever watched a motivation video for longer then a minute, ill read a book. But now this one, that titel got me, and now im listening the full video. All words are comfirmation of the best thing one can do 🎉
13 years married to a complete LIE. I went radio silent as he moved on with his coworker. Bye Bye. It wasn't easy but My words became ZILCH to that disrespect. Thanks for this, it was hauntingly powerful 🖤
Same situation, I been silent as well, hell he is even block from calling me. 2025 without him🙌🏾💪💯
@@shanekawatts proud of you
It's not over when we fall we rise up how are you doing
Facts frfr I'm in the process of that rt now. Im so broke my phone will b off in few. Can't wait for the peace that comes from this struggle. I frre in the name of Jesus
@@Piper_sniper890 amen! You will Rise
Even if they are in bed with someone else, they are still thinking about you. It doesn't matter if they haven't heard from you, you are living in their head rent free. Silence is more powerful. Silence takes away their power and hands it over to you.
That is how I'm approaching the situation I'm in. No revenge is the best revenge. ❤
Absolutely..with me. They are smart now. Isolated me. Silently I walk away. Waiting for their come back..amen
Yesssss......... very dark and calculated, deadpan yet exuberant concluding of evading the entrapment of a very fragile yet tenacious ego😅
Its a shame when this becomes the only option. It's sad. But sometimes it's the only way.
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It is sad, however, for you to get to this point, they have to have done 'alot' of bad stuff. That's on them and you didn't get to this point for no reason. Stay strong everybody
May Gods blessings be with everyone…FOREVERMORE!
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I've just Started aligning my actions with my power and thoughts and it's soon powerful and z sense of inner peace knowing ur worth less words more power behind them a a sturdy strong silence adds more weight to ur sense of worth and the energy you portraits .so very powerful
My silence speaks volumes, but you know what, being UNPREDICTABLE is also one of my weapons...he never know where I'm coming from.
Your so right brother.
Silence is power.
Power is nothing without grace.
I remain silent because I just don't have the energy to fight. It sucks the life out of me and it has no positive effect all around.
Stay happy and you’ll see the difference
As a double Scorpio, when lied cheated and disrespected I will walk away keep silence until you deny your own existence. ✌️
Omg this is brilliant. I needed this to make it all okay. This completely changed me. Thank you
This popped up at just the right time, finally chose to cut off my toxic parents, not literally but with utter silence. Ever since then, they have done ANY thing possible to get me to talk, whether it's swearing, shouting, abusing,trying to isolate me from fam and friends. They have showed their trueselves now after ive started to ignore them. Now I understand them truly, and have realised they're just extremely bad people, nothing can change them.
I want people to know that when u start to choose silence, they will get WORSE. Not because u are doing something wrong, but because yes, it's killing them, they like the drama and without it, they cannot survive, that's when you realise that they are actually nothing but miserable and selfish people who have nothing else to live for :)
This upload was a masterpiece.
Most people are weak and come crying for your acceptance after you reject them.
You gotta be quiet 🤫 around your enemies. Don't speak 🗣️ listen 👂
I have been internet quiet and completely off social media for about nine months (no Facebook, X, Instagram, etc....) - and I do not regret it. I was conned, hacked, used, and abused by a woman I thought loved me. Have not talked to her in about five months. No calls, no texts, no reaching out - no thing - it's freeing for sure.
Learn to love your own company... And it's THE BEST❤
Yes they really did underestimate my perception. I’m silently learning more. Thank you
Silence is golden, 🧡
What a masterpiece of a video that a happened to stumble upon js now describes what happening and ik im doing the right thing im bettering myself everyday. My presence was taken for granted, now enjoy ny absence.
My BM left me, and I haven’t seen my 1 year old son in 6 months, she has him in her country, while she’s living elsewhere in the states, I cut her and her family off recently, and I felt as though this video has spoken to me at just the right time…I don’t need them, only my son, and I’m in the process of getting him back, while they crumble with my silence, thank you for making this video 🙏💪✊
"When you know you are enough, you no longer depend on anything external."
Your channel is what I need. I love this truth spoken channel so thank you!
ironic because this is what's happening between me and my parents. They wonder why I don't talk to them.
You lost bro
Your parents sacrificed their life for you
Cool story man
Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings, they're your best link to your past. And the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
My friend, I’ve always been the black sheep in the family and I was I was always physically abused,it was so bad that at times I couldn’t go to school and then I learned to say f….it and became a loner! My mom died 4 years ago ( in November) and I didn’t stay for the funeral because the air was so heavy that I left, and the RAGE THATS INSIDE ME, my brother if I had stayed I wouldn’t be here writing this right now, and I have not spoken to a single family member since…
And silence, yes that’s the shit!…
@@bhatmurtaza7755that was THEIR choice. Why should he be obligated to pay anything to them? Did he ASK to be born? No.
Yeah. No thanks.
Wow....perfect timing, I left my ex on RED yesterday, don't wanna feed his ego so I'm good on the phone calls.🚫🙅🏾♀️🚫
I did same he never call or write Yesterday he said I know that you are offended I say no I am not intressted any more, I finish that and Never ever gonna give a chance. Stay strong ❤
Silence, yes is a weapon, but gratitude is the attitude of cure. Foster your peace of mind. Create and manifest your reality with your focus on positivity. Be grateful, for what you create.
Man this hit home. Now I understand what is going on with someone who I left behind because they betrayed me. I moved on, but they still stalk me, but seem afraid to contact me. I didn't consider their fears of my revenge. I assumed they could tell I moved on and don't care. But they must think I'm waiting for the right moment to destroy them. Too bad they don't realize they are the ones destroying themselves.
Fabulous. Just what I needed. I just lost my best friend of 40 years to abuse, arrogance and disrespect.
This the best and most helpful video on the subject that I have come across. Thank you so much!
*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..
Please how ?
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....
Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!
That’s the spot .. living between yin & yang 💪🏿🔥
In addition to going silent, begin looking through them when you address them. When you address them, use as few words as possible to get your point across. Not using cuss words intensifies the vibe. My wife freaks out and straightens out very quickly every single time I get like this. Supervisors get very uncomfortable pretty quick also. Being a psychopath has its benefits...
Damn straight! 🏆👑
I don’t understand how this is psychopathic if people have pushed you to the point to where you feel the need to act this way.
A person who constantly manipulates people aggressively to turn them away...
psychopath (noun) -
a person consistently exhibiting antisocial, impulsive, manipulative, and sometimes aggressive behavior.
One of the best video on UA-cam actually
There won’t be any forgiveness. I’ll just smile & walk away.
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Damn you heard my truth. Thanks for the reminder. You definitely have my follow. And it’s nice to hear the masculine voice sharing this deep truth.
I am just learning to do this. It takes a lot of energy to deal with the anxiety of doing this. But for the first time in my life, I’m truly standing up for myself.
I woman I loved disrespected me everyday for 5 years. Then I let it destroy me and become bitter. I lashed out at her, bad mouthed her, told anybody that would listen. The listened, they told her and meddled and muddled and turned their back on me. Then I became the bad guy. I was the enemy, they all listened to her and told her I was abusive. It was emotional manipulation and torture, I was a narcissist. I am the bad man. Nobody heard me.
God knows the truth ❤
@@selinasamuels3899Exactly
I don't talk
I am
God talks for me.
Talk about the "pep talk"...I didn't know I needed this morning
I thought or should I say assume that I knew what the video was going to say but I decided to listen anyway because the title was compelling and I’m glad I listened. Needed this
Great video! Priceless info, the advice many of us needed very much. I see in the comments so many wounded souls ❤. We are now stronger thanks to this video.
When I was young, they made me lash out. It was bad.
The last time I just went silent, deleted all social media, blocked the people on the phone. And moved. Then changed my phone number. And felt much better!
This is the way to go!
Needed this today. Now I understand my silence and the re
If you react. You give them power.
Dont give them power.
That way, they cant manipulate you.
Money talks but wealth whispers.
Wow so beautiful and charming how are you doing can I have a beautiful smile from you
This video really highlights the power of silence! It's amazing how choosing not to engage can be the most impactful response. 💪✨
The sound of Silence is powerful. Stoism. Speaks volunes. Shhhhhhhh.
Hello sweet trinity how are you doing
I love peace, serenity and silence… while all else want to be loud and obnoxious and attention seeking… They know it’s a facade of false confidence as confidence does not scream for attention! Gratitude for this! Being Stoic and not letting anyone’s opinion matter in your bottom line about you is epically powerful 🙏🏾🫡
indeed,.. but silence you gave in that kills You
I just got out of a year-long situationship with a toxic covert narc, the amount I relate to these words…
Also known as Humility....
Praise Christ Jesus...
One God, one truth , One Son , One Savior.....
Love ,peace , honour, & respect 🙏 stay humble my friend from over the pond,
Came at the right moment in my life. Silence is Golden.
Silence is loud
My gals. You don’t need that turkey! Please don’t cry over him!! Plus I cried enough for all of you put together. But if you must, please remember that the good Lord stores all our tears up in a bottle. You will get through this!
But it hurts
@ And>>someone who would make you feel like that doesn’t deserve you. Take time to heal. There will be a much better option down the road, and he will deserve you.
@@zolamvelase9176 Sorry I meant to send this to you a few days ago but somehow ended up replying to myself instead 🤓
Anyway…I meant to say to you: And>>someone who would make you feel like that doesn’t deserve you. Take time to heal. There will be a much better option down the road, and he will deserve you.
@monazimmerman7559 Thank you,Healing is the hard part but I have to go through the pain to experience the joy.
Just that the pain is affecting my kids they are now dropping grades,it's affecting my work ,my family I feel like I need to go to a secluded place
@ Might not be a bad idea for awhile. I wish you the best ♥️
The Joy of the Lord is my strength.