I’m looking back on this video and wondering why is it that when a fairly attractive person is aware they are attractive they are labeled “Cocky” just because I am not insecure and think I’m pretty doesn’t mean I am vain, I just love myself which is healthy and normal and the reason I was talking about how I think I’m attractive in the beginning was to point out how I have what you would call “Pretty privilege” and although it makes dating easier “Pretty privilege” still has its disadvantages because people assume you’re cocky, vain, rude, and make assumptions about you; it also attracts people that only want you for your looks and not who you really are which relates to what I’m talking about in this video. No I don’t think I am perfect, I am flawed, I am human. But the point is although a woman may have pretty privilege or not be considered “ugly” by society men still treat women with pretty privilege bad. And I explained my point because some people who don’t have pretty privilege think that men treat women who have pretty privilege amazing when that’s just not always the case. ❤
as a 31 year old man my advice to you is to keep trying, but keep expectations low until you actually see action from these dudes. lots of dudes at that age just want to get laid so be careful don’t give it up to just anyone. be patient but remain proactive. you seem like a sweet girl and it’s good that you want to date for love. you will meet your future husband eventually, don’t give up.
yall go after players, then wonder why you get played. its obvious. if you like him, so does a thousand other girls, because women have insane standards and would rather share a perfect dude than be with a decent one.
@@DolliibunWe were talking and he wanted to link. And blocked me with no explanation. 💀I’m not upset if he doesn’t like me, simply blocking someone with no explanation is a pussy move and simply just rude
This was the passive-aggressive behavior of a weak boy, not a man. A real man would have been upfront and straight-forward, clearly communicated and told you what was up and moved on. Unfortunately, it's human nature to feel unworthy after being rejected. The best way for you to move forward is to find a more attractive man with the qualities you want. By just blocking you with no explanation and letting your plans fall through he demonstrated his inability to keep his word or communicate effectively. In any case, you are still young, you have your looks and youth this is water under the bridge....
Don’t give up girl your beautiful and are worth it. Guys that do stuff like that are jerks and insecure of themself. Work on improving yourself and becoming your greatest version! Set healthy boundaries and ignore jerks that do stuff like that. There are many good mans out there not all are bad! There are good and bad man/woman so just keep been positive and have your hopes up!. Don’t give up beautiful 😊 ❤.
The men triggered in my comments 💀I even say “Not all men” yet they still on here saying “I didn’t do anything!” Well ofc not this video isn’t about you so then WHY you feel so targeted?
Yk, i truly think as a guy myself not every guy does this. I think its just the type of guys you might surround yourself with are quite bad, although I have zero idea of your social surroundings so i cant really make a judgment on that. But unfortunately some guys can treat girls like crap and i think girls have the same capabilities of treating a guy like that too its unfortunate that happened to you. But i think there are always guys out there that will treat you right and like no its not hopeless your time just hasnt come yet and it will eventually. Dont let bad experiences ruin your perception of yourself because yeah doing such things like u just explained in your video is 100% the guys fault.
Well obviously not every single man acts trifling, I even said not all men in the video too; but the majority yes. I don’t agree with the “Its the guys you surround yourself with” as if I want to be around these trifling ass men. They target women and prey upon them it’s not always something the woman chooses. And yes of course women can be trifling too. I never said it was 100% men’s fault, boy don’t put words in my mouth I did not say. Women share their experience and all of a sudden it’s you dislike all men, well of course not but you can’t deny the fact it’s the majority lmao
@@Riverlovesfood most loyal men stay at home because they dont want to deal with the drama and stuff happening. but we exist but just dont want out lives ruined.
@DesertNightCamouflage1982Are you the man I’m talking about in this video? No so why are you saying “i didn’t do anything “ ofc you didn’t but you don’t speak for all men sir
@@Riverlovesfoodthat's an ironic statement, no YOU don't speak for all men. The majority of PEOPLE are good people. If you continuously run into issues, then yeah you're entertaining and surrounding yourself with toxic individuals. You're underestimating how many women do the same as they have access to way more ppl in their dms when they are bored to mess with. Self reflection is important, stop generalizing and instead work on yourself too cuz you're clearly not in a healthy space both ways. This isn't even an attack on you so don't get triggered, it's just facts
@@Alteronx”The majority of people are good people” you’re delusional then. Most people are NOT good people. A simply google search would tell you that and experience. Living your life thinking most people are good is a very naive way to live life and will have your vulnerability get taken advantage of. “Its just facts” its simply untrue and your opinion. I am not speaking for all men I even clarify “not all men” multiple times throughout my video. Me talking about men doesn’t mean I think women are perfect and amazing. Assuming so is simply arrogant and says a lot about yourself.
You're beautiful what are tou talking about? Like 3 years ago i met someone who was a 10 in my eyes beautiful light skinned young lady with an athletic body, a great personality. I was trying not to get my hopes up and i did like a fool thinking she might od dated me but she locked me. Gosh i was so angry at first and then disappointed and sad. when i did take the time to think about what she did ghosted me with no reasoning, we have freewill and she didn't want me so i moved on, she wasn't mine and she can do as she please. We all have to remember some of us will experience ghosting with no expectation, i always remind freewill. What's been helping me get passed beinf single is reading my Bible and Jesus Christ, its still difficult though because of being single.
How is my ego huge? Because a boy blocked me without telling me the reason the day of us supposed to hang out? That’s rude of him, justifying that behavior is gross. “Im assuming” why are you assuming? Do you not have any manners everyone knows it’s common sense not to assume things about people you know nothing of.
@@Riverlovesfood How is your ego huge? You talked about how attractive you are for the first 4 minutes of the video lol. We can literally see you. You aren't entitled to a relationship with anyone, if a guy doesn't like you, he also isn't forced to tell you why.
@@BradleyLambdin-m3iObviously no one is obligated to want me that isn’t the problem, agreeing to meet up with someone then blocking them the day your supposed to hang out is simply rude and degenerate behavior. I didn’t boast about looks, I said some people think I’m pretty and because of that they think dating for me is easy, and i simply shared the reality of it. I didn’t say I’m perfect or the prettiest person ever, just because I don’t think I’m ugly doesn’t mean I’m full of myself. What would you rather me sit here and be like “wow I’m so ugly and fat” like lmfao
@@BradleyLambdin-m3i 💀You’re taking it out of context making it look like I’m saying I’m pretty to boast or for no reason which I’m not. I said I was pretty because in the beginning I was talking about the cons and downsides of being considered “pretty” and how just because I’m considered pretty doesn’t mean my life is easy etc etc,🤦🏻♀️did you not pay attention?
I’m looking back on this video and wondering why is it that when a fairly attractive person is aware they are attractive they are labeled “Cocky” just because I am not insecure and think I’m pretty doesn’t mean I am vain, I just love myself which is healthy and normal and the reason I was talking about how I think I’m attractive in the beginning was to point out how I have what you would call “Pretty privilege” and although it makes dating easier “Pretty privilege” still has its disadvantages because people assume you’re cocky, vain, rude, and make assumptions about you; it also attracts people that only want you for your looks and not who you really are which relates to what I’m talking about in this video. No I don’t think I am perfect, I am flawed, I am human. But the point is although a woman may have pretty privilege or not be considered “ugly” by society men still treat women with pretty privilege bad. And I explained my point because some people who don’t have pretty privilege think that men treat women who have pretty privilege amazing when that’s just not always the case. ❤
People when a girl thinks she’s pretty 🤬🤬🤬
People when a girl thinks she’s ugly 🤬🤬🤬
as a 31 year old man my advice to you is to keep trying, but keep expectations low until you actually see action from these dudes. lots of dudes at that age just want to get laid so be careful don’t give it up to just anyone. be patient but remain proactive. you seem like a sweet girl and it’s good that you want to date for love. you will meet your future husband eventually, don’t give up.
yall go after players, then wonder why you get played. its obvious. if you like him, so does a thousand other girls, because women have insane standards and would rather share a perfect dude than be with a decent one.
Blaming women once again who said I go for players? As if he didn’t slide up in MY dms 💀💀💀
@@Riverlovesfoodwas he acc pursuing you, or yall were just talking/ fucking
@@DolliibunWe were talking and he wanted to link. And blocked me with no explanation. 💀I’m not upset if he doesn’t like me, simply blocking someone with no explanation is a pussy move and simply just rude
@@Riverlovesfoodthey just don’t like you
@@Iamnoone44488obviously
unfortunately everyone does it, its not tied to gender
Yeah but men do it significantly more than women lmao
@DesertNightCamouflage1982 it’s the truth and men cheat too lmfao did I say only men are bad? No, both men and women can be toxic
@DesertNightCamouflage1982okay good for you
@@Riverlovesfoodmaybe take a look in the mirror cause why does it keep happening? Cause your obviously beautiful so it's gotta be a personality thing
@@Riverlovesfoodwere fed up with y'all so the second we see something we don't like we dip
This was the passive-aggressive behavior of a weak boy, not a man. A real man would have been upfront and straight-forward, clearly communicated and told you what was up and moved on. Unfortunately, it's human nature to feel unworthy after being rejected. The best way for you to move forward is to find a more attractive man with the qualities you want.
By just blocking you with no explanation and letting your plans fall through he demonstrated his inability to keep his word or communicate effectively.
In any case, you are still young, you have your looks and youth this is water under the bridge....
Don’t give up girl your beautiful and are worth it. Guys that do stuff like that are jerks and insecure of themself. Work on improving yourself and becoming your greatest version! Set healthy boundaries and ignore jerks that do stuff like that. There are many good mans out there not all are bad! There are good and bad man/woman so just keep been positive and have your hopes up!. Don’t give up beautiful 😊 ❤.
The men triggered in my comments 💀I even say “Not all men” yet they still on here saying “I didn’t do anything!” Well ofc not this video isn’t about you so then WHY you feel so targeted?
Yk, i truly think as a guy myself not every guy does this. I think its just the type of guys you might surround yourself with are quite bad, although I have zero idea of your social surroundings so i cant really make a judgment on that. But unfortunately some guys can treat girls like crap and i think girls have the same capabilities of treating a guy like that too its unfortunate that happened to you. But i think there are always guys out there that will treat you right and like no its not hopeless your time just hasnt come yet and it will eventually. Dont let bad experiences ruin your perception of yourself because yeah doing such things like u just explained in your video is 100% the guys fault.
Well obviously not every single man acts trifling, I even said not all men in the video too; but the majority yes. I don’t agree with the “Its the guys you surround yourself with” as if I want to be around these trifling ass men. They target women and prey upon them it’s not always something the woman chooses. And yes of course women can be trifling too. I never said it was 100% men’s fault, boy don’t put words in my mouth I did not say. Women share their experience and all of a sudden it’s you dislike all men, well of course not but you can’t deny the fact it’s the majority lmao
@@Riverlovesfood most loyal men stay at home because they dont want to deal with the drama and stuff happening. but we exist but just dont want out lives ruined.
@DesertNightCamouflage1982Are you the man I’m talking about in this video? No so why are you saying “i didn’t do anything “ ofc you didn’t but you don’t speak for all men sir
@@Riverlovesfoodthat's an ironic statement, no YOU don't speak for all men. The majority of PEOPLE are good people. If you continuously run into issues, then yeah you're entertaining and surrounding yourself with toxic individuals. You're underestimating how many women do the same as they have access to way more ppl in their dms when they are bored to mess with. Self reflection is important, stop generalizing and instead work on yourself too cuz you're clearly not in a healthy space both ways. This isn't even an attack on you so don't get triggered, it's just facts
@@Alteronx”The majority of people are good people” you’re delusional then. Most people are NOT good people. A simply google search would tell you that and experience. Living your life thinking most people are good is a very naive way to live life and will have your vulnerability get taken advantage of. “Its just facts” its simply untrue and your opinion. I am not speaking for all men I even clarify “not all men” multiple times throughout my video. Me talking about men doesn’t mean I think women are perfect and amazing. Assuming so is simply arrogant and says a lot about yourself.
7:56 girl get ur corny ahh out of here 😂LMFAO I’m so corny
its giving Cassie euphoria 💀💀
Certified yapper
She has to talk to keep the video entertaining.
You're beautiful what are tou talking about? Like 3 years ago i met someone who was a 10 in my eyes beautiful light skinned young lady with an athletic body, a great personality. I was trying not to get my hopes up and i did like a fool thinking she might od dated me but she locked me. Gosh i was so angry at first and then disappointed and sad. when i did take the time to think about what she did ghosted me with no reasoning, we have freewill and she didn't want me so i moved on, she wasn't mine and she can do as she please. We all have to remember some of us will experience ghosting with no expectation, i always remind freewill. What's been helping me get passed beinf single is reading my Bible and Jesus Christ, its still difficult though because of being single.
i just want some i can love and keep :( to much to ask for i guess
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lol bruh your ego is huge. I'm assuming you're going for guys way out of your league
How is my ego huge? Because a boy blocked me without telling me the reason the day of us supposed to hang out? That’s rude of him, justifying that behavior is gross. “Im assuming” why are you assuming? Do you not have any manners everyone knows it’s common sense not to assume things about people you know nothing of.
@@Riverlovesfood How is your ego huge? You talked about how attractive you are for the first 4 minutes of the video lol. We can literally see you. You aren't entitled to a relationship with anyone, if a guy doesn't like you, he also isn't forced to tell you why.
@@BradleyLambdin-m3iObviously no one is obligated to want me that isn’t the problem, agreeing to meet up with someone then blocking them the day your supposed to hang out is simply rude and degenerate behavior. I didn’t boast about looks, I said some people think I’m pretty and because of that they think dating for me is easy, and i simply shared the reality of it. I didn’t say I’m perfect or the prettiest person ever, just because I don’t think I’m ugly doesn’t mean I’m full of myself. What would you rather me sit here and be like “wow I’m so ugly and fat” like lmfao
@@Riverlovesfood bruh rewatch your video and tell me you didn't say "even pretty girls" or "pretty girls like me" 4 or 5 times.
@@BradleyLambdin-m3i 💀You’re taking it out of context making it look like I’m saying I’m pretty to boast or for no reason which I’m not. I said I was pretty because in the beginning I was talking about the cons and downsides of being considered “pretty” and how just because I’m considered pretty doesn’t mean my life is easy etc etc,🤦🏻♀️did you not pay attention?
I just want to say hi and no you dont look a hot mess lol