How To Date Yourself (and why you SHOULD) | GRWM for a SOLO DATE!

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
  • Hiii guys!! Come with me on a solo date and let's chat about why you should date yourself! I honestly didn't know whether to call this a vlog or not, but it definitely gives a bit haha. I enjoyed this banter so much and I hope you did as well and got some takeaways from it. I feel like a really big takeaway that I didn't mention in this video is: Don't Let Other People Be Responsible For Your Happiness Xx.
    #selfcare #grwm
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    Ashley Masse
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    0:00 Intro
    2:05 GRWM + Reasons why you should date yourself
    11:21 Getting dressed
    12:16 Taking pictures
    13:28 Solo date
    17:10 Outro
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 83

  • @LifewithT1
    @LifewithT1 5 місяців тому +48

    “Stop waiting on others to celebrate YOU!” -Ashley Masse
    This is it! This is my quote for the year‼️

    • @shygirlny1
      @shygirlny1 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes girl. Make your own self happy ❤

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      This is the oneeee!📣✨👆🏾

  • @celinemilien
    @celinemilien 5 місяців тому +31

    PERIOD! One thing about me imma take myself out 😂❤

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +2

      And will!! As you should!😏💖

  • @aarianjayy
    @aarianjayy 5 місяців тому +14

    This is the year imma stop waiting for people to celebrate me! I need to start celebrating every win I have including the small ones

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      YES AARI!!!!📣🌟🎉

  • @aarianjayy
    @aarianjayy 5 місяців тому +13

    I take myself on dates all the time! My sister used to think it was strange until she finally did it herself

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +2

      This always happens😭 I was laughed at filming this at the restaurant 🥴

  • @EVTD79
    @EVTD79 2 місяці тому +2

    HOW CAN I EXPECT SOMEONE TO DO SOMETHING FOR ME WHEN I WON'T EVEN DO IT FOR MYSELF. Damn, that's deep😮

  • @nahirobyenid
    @nahirobyenid 5 місяців тому +6

    Forgetting that I’m grown & can stay out is so real 😂❤️

  • @elisaharding8260
    @elisaharding8260 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey I just found your channel, I'm 13 and I'm tryna learn about more self love and how to prioritise myself more. I've been looking for more Christian you tubers and I loved this video and ur hair growth one you have definitely become a new role model for me imma tell all my friends about you ❤

  • @DaijaeMonae
    @DaijaeMonae 2 місяці тому

    This video was such a breath of fresh air. I really enjoyed seeing you enjoy yourself. As someone who is going on her first solo date tomorrow, this just made me excited!

  • @tasalinaturalsthirtyandsin3234
    @tasalinaturalsthirtyandsin3234 Місяць тому +1

    Going on a solo date is awesome! It was awkward at first. The first time I went to see Eat Pray Love at the movies years ago! And I went on a movie date to see Unsung Hero a couple weeks ago. I enjoy dinner solo dates too😊

  • @pryncessyanni
    @pryncessyanni 5 місяців тому

    I wish I had access to this kind of advice in my 20s! Also, the jump scare when you backed into the door reminded me so much of myself LOL. Loving your content!

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 4 місяці тому +2

    Love this. I take myself out! I love hanging out with myself 😊

  • @jenlogan4L
    @jenlogan4L 5 місяців тому +1

    The advice/tips you gave while getting ready are helpful for people who are trying to build self worth but to clarify to what ur saying so it wouldn't be that people become more self absorbed and selfish by only caring about there own needs being met, cuz yes we know to treat others the way we want to be treated also. Become better people not only for ourselves but to serve/impact and add to others lives.
    And the favor of the Lord Jesus is definitely on u girl, thanks for bringing us on ur solo date and rolling to ur car after being so full is relatable 😂

  • @carmenlexis
    @carmenlexis 5 місяців тому +1

    loved this video.. points were made, your outfit was cute and thanks for the reminder

  • @dejaandrea8649
    @dejaandrea8649 5 місяців тому +2

    Gworllll you ate with this video… literally love the energy and authenticity! We could be friends in real life lol but much love girl ❤

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +2

      Ahhh tysm!!☺️ We’re Internet besties for now 🤞🏾✨💖

  • @tasalinaturalsthirtyandsin3234
    @tasalinaturalsthirtyandsin3234 Місяць тому +2

    My solo dates are so random and sporadic...i like the idea of once a month🤗

  • @pedro33602
    @pedro33602 5 місяців тому +1

    Amazing video ALWAYS!!

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      You're the best. Thank you babe ♥️🥰

  • @minimumtiara
    @minimumtiara 5 місяців тому +2

    I enjoyed this video because I’m working on self care 2024. New subscriber

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      Yayyy!!✨🎉 And Welcome!!!!☺️🫶🏾

  • @pureniku
    @pureniku 5 місяців тому +3

    I just wanted to say you’re very pretty and I hope you have a blessed weekend

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much🙏🏾 You too!

  • @patriciapitts20
    @patriciapitts20 Місяць тому

    I enjoyed this video ❤️

  • @Dr.PhD-10
    @Dr.PhD-10 2 місяці тому +2

    Curly Hair with Ashley Masse

  • @kaganziesther
    @kaganziesther 5 місяців тому

    Wow love this❤
    And yah am sure it's a hair company or smthg like that😭 or skin care😂

  • @emmanuellabobozo6652
    @emmanuellabobozo6652 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video 🙌🏾

  • @farrahforJesus
    @farrahforJesus 2 місяці тому

    ooouuu Jersey girls!! Yay!

  • @user-xk9xr6dc5y
    @user-xk9xr6dc5y 5 місяців тому

    I’m new to watching you and I love your videos ❤

  • @asiamartin9190
    @asiamartin9190 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your videos !

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!❤️☺️

  • @chelseatettey
    @chelseatettey 5 місяців тому +1

    God is really Sweet 🥰🥰
    This video is 🔥🔥🔥
    More self care videos 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!! More to come☺️❤️

  • @valeriaberasm6095
    @valeriaberasm6095 5 місяців тому +2

    I love taking myself out on dates! Even on dates with God its so nice. I would say that your brand name if I had to guess it would be AH creations or For his Glory LLC

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      I love that for you!!🥰💗

  • @jakenyajones7268
    @jakenyajones7268 5 місяців тому +1

    Masse 💄 or Maze Makes, Masse Makeups

  • @user-df4se2yo8u
    @user-df4se2yo8u 5 місяців тому +1

    I think your brand name could be Ash Mas. Sorry if it sounds corny. I too am also learning to self love. Stay blessed. ❤

  • @michellegray4601
    @michellegray4601 5 місяців тому +1

    Just found you last week and I have been binge watching your content! I love it!

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      Yay! This makes me so happy😭❤️ Thank you so much!!

  • @Keepitmovin72
    @Keepitmovin72 5 місяців тому +1

    You're beautiful little one... May God continue to bless you and be careful out there late at night baby 🙏😘🙏🙏

  • @donitaphilpot8537
    @donitaphilpot8537 5 місяців тому +1

    Looking good girl.

  • @jakenyajones7268
    @jakenyajones7268 5 місяців тому +1

    MASSE BEAUTY

  • @Keepitmovin72
    @Keepitmovin72 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm guessing Masse Inc for your new item😘😜

  • @farrahforJesus
    @farrahforJesus 2 місяці тому

    I Looove that you know Jesus, HE IS THE WAY!! Keep it going!!

  • @chattytea
    @chattytea 5 місяців тому +3

    I just subscribed 🥰 I love your content :) you’re so beautiful inside and out. It’s refreshing to see content that includes God. Let me get out of these messages so I can watch another one of your videos before I go workout 💕

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much and welcome!!😭💖 This makes my heart so happy 🫶🏾

  • @kingarveyblackpr
    @kingarveyblackpr 5 місяців тому

    BLACK Personal Reevaluation date, which means before you can truly love and date someone else, you gotta truly love and date yourself first

  • @thelittlecurlyprincessshow
    @thelittlecurlyprincessshow 5 місяців тому +1

    Just a guess but I hope your going to be a CEO with hair growth products because I’m obsessed with your hair 🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      Aww thank you so much!!💛💛

  • @thebrilauren
    @thebrilauren 5 місяців тому +1

    This was so nice! The entire video has such a cozy, chill vibe. I love this for you 🥰. I wish I could do the same lol. Working towards it but for now I’ll date myself vicariously through you ❤️❤️

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      Awww the day for you will come! Thank you so much for tuning in ❤️✨

    • @thebrilauren
      @thebrilauren 5 місяців тому

      @@AshleyMasse I receive it 😌. Always ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cyndicampbell6875
    @cyndicampbell6875 5 місяців тому

    Where did you get the swearer from

  • @patriciapitts20
    @patriciapitts20 Місяць тому

    Life With Ashley, LLC

  • @Pinkberryblue23
    @Pinkberryblue23 5 місяців тому

    Just subscribed

  • @sharesewilliams3222
    @sharesewilliams3222 5 місяців тому

    Congratulations Ashley,
    The brand name is either Masse, or Brooklyn 🤔
    Brooklyn Masse ..

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!! And 🤔…

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 5 місяців тому

    Heyy 👋🏽

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      Hii girl!!💕👋🏾

  • @patriciapitts20
    @patriciapitts20 Місяць тому

    Ashley Inc

  • @Nfinite47
    @Nfinite47 5 місяців тому

    Hey A! Business name… BROOKLYN??

  • @jolandytjiueza6397
    @jolandytjiueza6397 5 місяців тому

    Brand name is Massely or Ash

  • @melissaakalonu186
    @melissaakalonu186 5 місяців тому

    Masse Productions ?

  • @primordialG
    @primordialG 5 місяців тому

    Is it “Sciah”? I’m not a big social media girlie, so if that’s already an established brand I really wouldn’t know.

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +2

      The brand is called Selah Clothing!🤍

  • @deborakamitanji8602
    @deborakamitanji8602 5 місяців тому

    You look like someone

  • @josie7381
    @josie7381 5 місяців тому +1

    Putting ourselves first is the same as putting another person first. It’s idolatry in a different form: idolizing self. Putting God first is always the best making sure Jesus is our foundation will ensure our lives are built on a firm foundation that will last so that no matter what we won’t be shaken. God does judge us when it’s all said and done.

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +8

      The whole point of this video wasn’t about self idolatry. This is for the people that need this reminder to just take care of themselves. Nothing you mentioned is new to me. God is always first in my life. Everything else comes after, but I’m not neglecting myself in my walk. I find joy with these moments I have to myself because of Him.

    • @slytherinkendi5755
      @slytherinkendi5755 5 місяців тому +6

      Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean you’re not putting God first. It’s not a black and white situation, doing one doesn’t negate the other.

    • @AshleyMasse
      @AshleyMasse  5 місяців тому +1

      @@slytherinkendi5755Exactly this 🤍

  • @jentlejanet3222
    @jentlejanet3222 5 місяців тому

    your brand name is your brand COSMOPROF?! 🎉 def a confirmation! Need to start taking myself out on dates lemme get a car first😂🙏pray I pass this road test

  • @meagstage
    @meagstage 4 місяці тому

    This was nice! I’m glad you could enjoy YOURself lol I’m gonna try this 🤎