Exactly What To Do When You Get Rejected (Gets You More Women)

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  • @classiccsoccer6887
    @classiccsoccer6887 7 років тому +142

    Hey Tripp! you teach me so much and i never get the chance to say thanks .. well here i am saying thanks again and Right now im so good with women i know when my relatioships are going apart and everything i know when to break up etc and how i learn or u can say how i understand so much because i watch all your videos.💪👍.

    • @lanezaiden7192
      @lanezaiden7192 3 роки тому

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    • @miloroyce2797
      @miloroyce2797 3 роки тому

      @Lane Zaiden definitely, have been watching on instaflixxer for since november myself =)

    • @chiragraju821
      @chiragraju821 Рік тому

      🥲

  • @xFlared
    @xFlared 5 років тому +268

    The worst type of rejection is the no answer or silent treatment type. It makes you feel like she doesn't even feel like you're important enough to even know the answer.

    • @SsilentDeath020
      @SsilentDeath020 Рік тому +3

      She rejected me for my cousin who is ace 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ayushsenseisama
      @ayushsenseisama Рік тому +1

      Same she said she's too busy to talk three times and i couldn't even confess

    • @mckdink
      @mckdink Рік тому +2

      When a chick blatantly ignores you... acknowledge that you got ignored and make it a "womp womp" moment
      If I get rejected by a woman infront of other guys or even other women, bring attention to it yourself and make fun of yourself
      Nobody can truly make fun of you if you do it yourself first
      Like "Damn did yall see that girl dub me just now?" 🤣😂🤣

    • @oilandocanista5045
      @oilandocanista5045 Рік тому +3

      My co worker rejected me but here's what's funny when she sees a car and a fit me ... Well it will be my turn to reject ...

    • @mehedihasanayon82
      @mehedihasanayon82 Рік тому

      Trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 😢😢😢😢

  • @OswellMusic
    @OswellMusic 7 років тому +906

    Before I go to sleep at night, I like to analyze my whole day and all the interactions to figure out how to improve myself the next day

    • @vasilijesepecan6769
      @vasilijesepecan6769 7 років тому +11

      Me too, does it work for you?

    • @OswellMusic
      @OswellMusic 7 років тому +37

      Vasilije Sepecan I believe so. My social skills are now insane and I seem to be way smarter than what I was three years ago and even smarter than everyone my age. I get along really well with people twice my age as they understand me better than all my friends.

    • @vasilijesepecan6769
      @vasilijesepecan6769 7 років тому +9

      Awesome man, I'm long way from that but I'm better than before that's for sure

    • @OswellMusic
      @OswellMusic 7 років тому +11

      Vasilije Sepecan Great work man I'm sure you will. I think it's a way of teaching yourself or your subconscious how to improve so next time, you can do these things effortlessly. At first it was hard work trying to talk to girls and make new friends but now, I don't even have to try it's a piece of cake and I meet girls and make new friends every weekend I go out. It's like studying yourself and making an effort to improve what needs to be improved

    • @OswellMusic
      @OswellMusic 7 років тому +5

      Yeah you need to be yourself but if you have no social skills, it's not because that's who you are. I think anyone can build their social skills and self-evaluation helps you realise what skills need to be improved. When it comes to personality though, we shouldn't change it but improve the way we express our personality. People can't get skills and personality mixed up because they're not the same.

  • @DesertVetRider
    @DesertVetRider 7 років тому +411

    The best thing that can happen is being rejected right away. It saves you years of paying alimony, child support and losing half your crap when she eventually rejects you after marriage.

    • @NPC-rl8iw
      @NPC-rl8iw 7 років тому +28

      Good point, but that's not the best thing that can happen. The best thing that can happen is she lets you knock the bottom out of it a few times, then about a week later, she sits in her car outside your house crying because you ghosted her and she knows that your inside your house with her friend "watching Netflix." I mean, hypothetically speaking of course.

    • @andromedagalaxynebula5751
      @andromedagalaxynebula5751 5 років тому

      Thank you

    • @bethanyyramirez07
      @bethanyyramirez07 2 роки тому +5

      @@NPC-rl8iw umm... I mean idk how someone comes up with this senecio out of nowhere but ok lmfaooo

    • @tauhidd.8093
      @tauhidd.8093 2 роки тому +4

      @@bethanyyramirez07 because it happened

    • @Dan-sw8tg
      @Dan-sw8tg 2 роки тому

      So lucky i was with this unstable chick for the last 2 months fucked out brains out and yeah she pulled back and all then broke up with " give me time" so glad she didn't get pregnant and I didnt lose anything

  • @kevincleary3967
    @kevincleary3967 7 років тому +1187

    I got rejected by my dream girl today😭😭

    • @glittermeaway
      @glittermeaway 6 років тому +210

      kevin cleary i got rejected by my crush i feel your pain

    • @deadshotxxkillz2296
      @deadshotxxkillz2296 6 років тому +41

      kevin cleary same

    • @maxgarda
      @maxgarda 6 років тому +21

      Me three

    • @team0verxrocketleague988
      @team0verxrocketleague988 6 років тому +26

      I got u fam

    • @didouart204
      @didouart204 6 років тому +36

      No offence and with my all do respect i think she rejected because your fat and believe it or not 90% of girls and boys mens womens dont like fat peoples but there are still 10% peoples who are not raisct and trust you will find a girl who loved you even if you are fat or short or poor or or or .....sorry for my english

  • @carlosmejia7036
    @carlosmejia7036 4 роки тому +76

    We build up the courage to tell them how we feel and when we get rejected it affects us emotionally in a different way

  • @matthewstratton7207
    @matthewstratton7207 7 років тому +214

    Got rejected by my crush today. I kind of knew already but it's still a bummer though. What sucks is I went right to feeling and thinking it was a waste of time rather than a good experience of meeting someone new and getting to know then. That's the thing I think I need to concentrate on and change first.

    • @serhatakdag5461
      @serhatakdag5461 7 років тому +8

      Matthew Stratton I have the same thing happen to me today, sucks right, just gotta move on and think about what you did wrong and right

    • @rodrigodantas6088
      @rodrigodantas6088 6 років тому +15

      Got rejected too,man I am almost giving up of girls...

    • @UnknownGamer-gd6kh
      @UnknownGamer-gd6kh 6 років тому +2

      Rodrigo Silva Dantas woman are feminists in America

    • @rodrigodantas6088
      @rodrigodantas6088 6 років тому

      Nicholas Isenhour what do you mean??

    • @UnknownGamer-gd6kh
      @UnknownGamer-gd6kh 6 років тому +8

      Rodrigo Silva Dantas like all they want is money and bad boys and boys that can fight

  • @justinw7323
    @justinw7323 3 роки тому +55

    I get rejected constantly and still do and I'm 37. Never been on a date so I lost faith in humanity.

    • @enterzone3854
      @enterzone3854 3 роки тому +6

      Keep trying...while you're still breathing....

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 3 роки тому +4

      Same here, been nothing but polite and myself and still get kicked to the curb.. I quit trying

    • @aileronhelicopters
      @aileronhelicopters 2 роки тому +2

      Look for the bag 💰

    • @metalrockstarizer89
      @metalrockstarizer89 Рік тому +1

      If it’s like that then there’s something that you have to fix inside of you

    • @rfarrr2817
      @rfarrr2817 5 місяців тому

      Gym.

  • @daniarjumanazar
    @daniarjumanazar 6 років тому +488

    I dont know about you guys but every rejection I get makes me stronger lol

    • @xsilver9500x
      @xsilver9500x 6 років тому +61

      Daniyar Jumanazar I feel more confident, now it's like whatever you're the one missing out

    • @onno3573
      @onno3573 6 років тому +77

      Each rejection is one step closer to jumping out off a window

    • @taghmalone
      @taghmalone 5 років тому +5

      You reach a point where you like aight cool

    • @jacob3707
      @jacob3707 5 років тому +1

      Unlimited power

    • @mariob616
      @mariob616 5 років тому +1

      That's sad

  • @ChroniclesofAJ
    @ChroniclesofAJ 6 років тому +45

    rejection has taught me that u wasn't born to be liked by many ppl and should love yourself despite of the odds

  • @kymaniwilson8363
    @kymaniwilson8363 7 років тому +750

    It's hard to find the right girl these days

    • @john-we9we
      @john-we9we 6 років тому +111

      Kymani Wilson I found the right one, and got rejected ;-;

    • @March-ps1he
      @March-ps1he 6 років тому +6

      i Wravewrath
      Am sorry

    • @EDifyer881
      @EDifyer881 6 років тому +8

      It really is the struggle is real

    • @jannemahonen4508
      @jannemahonen4508 6 років тому +3

      44u same it Hurts

    • @EDifyer881
      @EDifyer881 6 років тому +32

      janne mahonen yes it's scarring and what's even worse they choose these bad guys over guys who would do right by them

  • @DreamBeatsBakery
    @DreamBeatsBakery 7 років тому +309

    As a man you should be strong and handle your business. If a girl rejects you take it in stride, be cool about it as If it doesn even matter. Women find a man who can take a punch, be it physical or verbal much more attractive than one who gets angry and butthurt

    • @benpringle7572
      @benpringle7572 6 років тому +10

      Girls like nerds that take shit bro

    • @landendrake1696
      @landendrake1696 5 років тому +6

      @TheDestroyer You're right I act like I don't really care and that it wouldn't affect me that much I joked about or whatever. Now that i'm sitting on it, it hurts.

    • @jgc1077
      @jgc1077 5 років тому +36

      You'll have the last laugh when she's 35.

    • @andromedagalaxynebula5751
      @andromedagalaxynebula5751 5 років тому +2

      Sounds like a double standard

    • @Davidpostingshid
      @Davidpostingshid 5 років тому +15

      DreamBeatsBakery I’m so sick of this “real men don’t show emotion” bullshit

  • @justinbailey4583
    @justinbailey4583 6 років тому +92

    I got rejected today but I'm already moving on👌🏽

    • @manunited859
      @manunited859 6 років тому +3

      King Gaming Amazing

    • @Joe-uj5sm
      @Joe-uj5sm 5 років тому

      Same but I still think about how i messed up

    • @muddy111
      @muddy111 4 роки тому

      Joe lol Minecraft’s about to be awkward when I play with her

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 4 роки тому +1

      JustinBeBustin Great move keep it up

    • @tylervasylenko6864
      @tylervasylenko6864 4 роки тому +1

      Same

  • @Atheus98
    @Atheus98 6 років тому +237

    Sometimes you can do all the right things and it still won’t work out, it’s not always your fault sometimes they just won’t like you enough from no fault of your own.

    • @rookie2578
      @rookie2578 6 років тому +1

      Atheus98 true

    • @demon6937
      @demon6937 6 років тому

      Atheus98 for me it means you are not a catch

    • @alinaciobotaru1698
      @alinaciobotaru1698 5 років тому +6

      Lol. If a girl doesn’t like you, it just means there’s no physical chemistry between the two of you.

  • @firespawnie537
    @firespawnie537 6 років тому +207

    I got rejected yesterday. She texted me the classic bullshit 'You're a nice guy but....-insert bullshit here-' and I answered 'Don't worry about me honey I do not have low-esteem nor do I need your pity' and today I just went out with some friends and a female friend of mine hugged me and we took a photo and she uploaded it on facebook and tagged me(funny thing is I didnt even asked to do that but it worked greatly for me).So I uploaded the photo also on my profile and the girl that rejected me sent me again 'Really now that's how much you care about me?It took you one day to find another girl and that's it?'. And I answered her 'Sry but you made it pretty clear that you do not like me and do not see me sexually, so I won't bother with you any more and the fact that you got annoyed that I am with another girl means that you are selfish and like people to chase you, but when they move on you get annoyed and blame them.I'm glad you rejected me yesterday because I didn't know that part of you.Bye have a nice day'. Conversation went on and she even tried to flirt me lol and I got to be the one who rejected her in the end.

    • @JJJJ-uf9jv
      @JJJJ-uf9jv 6 років тому +10

      Thanks for sharing your situation. I know this will help alot of guys out there!

    • @LORDFERROK100
      @LORDFERROK100 5 років тому +10

      Alphaness

    • @riceguam8497
      @riceguam8497 5 років тому +10

      You’re a savage💯

    •  5 років тому +6

      You're story shows how pathetic you are.

    • @cmhardin37
      @cmhardin37 5 років тому

      @ how so?

  • @manomithran3058
    @manomithran3058 5 років тому +59

    I was badly rejected over another guy. It is so painful. I can't get through it. It pains so much in my heart. Never felt like this in my entire life

    • @mrsticky005
      @mrsticky005 3 роки тому +3

      Quit being a pussy.
      Find someone else.

    • @manomithran3058
      @manomithran3058 3 роки тому +15

      @@mrsticky005 wow I really cant believe I searched this 2 fucking years back. I have moved on so ahead in my life. To think how cringe I was , damn.

    • @alwayssporty8102
      @alwayssporty8102 3 роки тому +4

      @@manomithran3058 how are u doing now how does it feel because i feel like im going to get rejected soon.

    • @manomithran3058
      @manomithran3058 3 роки тому +2

      @@alwayssporty8102 Im not sure if Im the right person u want to get an advice from. But know this, if u realize ur worth and the girl doesnt, she is not worth the try. And if u think u are gonna get rejected soon dont have much expectations. Im feeling a lot better and I have moved on. My concept of love/affection/attractiveness has totally changed. But Im rooting for you, you got this

    • @alwayssporty8102
      @alwayssporty8102 3 роки тому

      @@manomithran3058 what does that mean i told i like her in text and she says she wants to meet me?? is there any chance??

  • @dumbguy5435
    @dumbguy5435 6 років тому +183

    my rules that I always follow:
    1- Don't bother speaking to a girl who's not your type
    (ex: if your a bit of the quiet type,don't bother going for a girl who's super extrovert and always at parties and Vice versa )
    2- Only go for a girl that you believe will accept you, not the girl who you think has 0 chance of accepting you.
    3- if you still get rejected then don't really take it personally, it's not your fault maybe she's just not ready for relationships.

    • @dominiquewilliams6111
      @dominiquewilliams6111 5 років тому +1

      Harouto Kayabaliano good advice

    • @ortizrodriguezgeovannalizb2945
      @ortizrodriguezgeovannalizb2945 5 років тому +6

      smart guy 2k19 i got rejected today and ur coment is 100% what happened to me

    • @Leo-pt9ei
      @Leo-pt9ei 3 роки тому

      number 2 is partly true imo

    • @24flexo57
      @24flexo57 2 роки тому +2

      No. 1 is so true I am very quiet type and she so extroverted and rejected me because of that

    • @TM-yw8bu
      @TM-yw8bu Рік тому +3

      I disagree. You should hit on all women that you find attractive.

  • @filipcl7599
    @filipcl7599 6 років тому +106

    i got rejected today....

    • @Joe-uj5sm
      @Joe-uj5sm 5 років тому +4

      Rip

    • @kenshii7404
      @kenshii7404 5 років тому +12

      can i get an F for a fallen soldier

    • @mohamedmcm375
      @mohamedmcm375 5 років тому

      Cliche F

    • @echoslayers6678
      @echoslayers6678 5 років тому +2

      Same told her i like her she said ah dude srry but i like a other boy and that other boy is my best friend really fucked up

    • @tylervasylenko6864
      @tylervasylenko6864 4 роки тому +1

      F for this brave man, me too brotha

  • @MrNeoindia
    @MrNeoindia 6 років тому +49

    I got rejected just a few minutes ago and i think i pushed her into rejecting me😂. She was saying I'm confused and lets wait for it to come out naturally and i kept pushing her for an answer...😂 😂 😂 Dayum...

  • @bidinhob
    @bidinhob 7 років тому +475

    When a girl "reject" me, i think "What's wrong eith her?".

    • @rgf5432
      @rgf5432 7 років тому +20

      Hahhaha nice

    • @Aspromuntanu
      @Aspromuntanu 6 років тому +9

      Bidinho Casfin me too like I’m sexy asf

    • @justinbud8912
      @justinbud8912 5 років тому +17

      I am the opposite, I just got rejected like half an hour ago. It sucks. I don't deserve to have her. I am not good enough.

    • @AD45
      @AD45 5 років тому +32

      @@justinbud8912 Shut up and become a better version of urself

    • @Aditya-dc6sl
      @Aditya-dc6sl 5 років тому +17

      @@justinbud8912 dude seriously be a fuckboy and take revenge

  • @amirsayid4051
    @amirsayid4051 7 років тому +388

    She rejected me, raised my status, now she wants me back..

    • @llondino
      @llondino 6 років тому +55

      Ian M that’s the most fucked up shit I’ve ever heard

    • @ace-x6m
      @ace-x6m 6 років тому +17

      -Lvcid - so what

    • @ianm8218
      @ianm8218 6 років тому +70

      -Lvcid - wanting him only because he raised his status is also fucked up

    • @jasonmartinez7667
      @jasonmartinez7667 5 років тому +5

      I hope thos happens to me!!!

    • @lilosnitch3247
      @lilosnitch3247 5 років тому

      @@llondino u become the problem.Not resolving it

  • @bradli8010
    @bradli8010 5 років тому +13

    This happens so much. Rejection to a period of happiness then, catch feelings for another girl and then the cycle repeats, but I always rise again.

  • @soccer4life16
    @soccer4life16 6 років тому +75

    Rejection is like a experience. You learn from you're mistakes and then use that later on, on someone you like
    Use rejection as a method to ask another person out ounce you been rejected for 1st time it won't hurt the 2cd and 3rd. So go out there and just be you.learn to let go of something not meant for you and use that to gain self confidence.

    • @xxlegendkillerxx2974
      @xxlegendkillerxx2974 6 років тому

      Soccer 4Life agree and I love soccer 2😂 I’m from fab you from psg?

    • @alexkifle5164
      @alexkifle5164 5 років тому +2

      Its because of your looks nothing else If she dosent she as handsome then you simply wont have a chance

    • @alexkifle5164
      @alexkifle5164 5 років тому +1

      If your not hot too her. Then thats it

    • @andromedagalaxynebula5751
      @andromedagalaxynebula5751 5 років тому +4

      Rejection is an experience

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 4 роки тому +1

      Andromeda Galaxy Nebula Yep it really is though. My rejection actually made me stronger and one of my ex interests tried to come back in my life but I was like nope I’m good and moving forward was the best thing for me

  • @becomingdauntless8821
    @becomingdauntless8821 6 років тому +16

    I just got rejected by a girl today- asked her out for a drink and told her I wanted to get to know her. She said she had plans with friends then I asked her if we could reschedule and she said she has a bf...anyways, its always better to know than to spend weeks/ months thinking what if.

  • @Demothean
    @Demothean 2 роки тому +16

    It seems like when it comes to rejection, it hurts the most because we fall in love with the dream of having a relationship with that girl and not the reality that she may not be right for you. Just my thoughts on it I wanted to add

  • @thelastnation2159
    @thelastnation2159 6 років тому +194

    I just got rejected, it really sucks :P

    • @emiliohamwi2635
      @emiliohamwi2635 6 років тому +8

      TheLastNation ik me to :(

    • @khoibut6206
      @khoibut6206 5 років тому +6

      well i got rejected 2 weeks ago but at least we are friend now and ik a thing that she already love somebody else and that's my best friend ;((((

    • @iorigayami9900
      @iorigayami9900 5 років тому

      Same

    • @vasanthankr4694
      @vasanthankr4694 5 років тому

      Yes believe me she is using u..stop to this shit and get out of friend zone

    • @annemichielse4264
      @annemichielse4264 5 років тому

      TheLastNation same but the boy secretly has a relationship with my bff and i tought we shares everything

  • @khokh699
    @khokh699 5 років тому +17

    Bruh, i just got rejected a couple hours ago and i don't feel shit. I can just ask a different girl to go out with me, don't worry. literally everyone on this planet can or has been rejected. Btw, this was my first time asking a girl so whatever

  • @FlavoredGenuine
    @FlavoredGenuine 3 роки тому +112

    Every rejection helps a guy stay fueled and encouraged. Not only in romantic life but in jobs, finance, education, and in business.
    I get rejected by customers at my job but it helps me to reach out to other customers who will say yes.

    • @gatestimonymiracle1302
      @gatestimonymiracle1302 3 роки тому +2

      Yes this pours into everything. Can you imagine my own blood cousin ask me out and was mad that I was grossed out

    • @StormTrooper-bf6xb
      @StormTrooper-bf6xb 15 днів тому

      No it’s demoralising.
      Where’s that bottle of 12yr malt

  • @samuellecroix700
    @samuellecroix700 3 роки тому +18

    IMO, rejection ain’t that bad(as long as she’s nice about it). I got Rejected 2hrs ago and it was fine. I told her I really liked her and she just said “Sorry I don’t feel the same way”. Not a terrible experience. Don’t get me wrong it was super disappointing because I REALLY liked this girl, but it is what it is.

  • @fernc3641
    @fernc3641 5 років тому +20

    have any of you ever been in a position where you get rejected so many times so when u get rejected u only feel numb?

    • @doejohn7548
      @doejohn7548 Рік тому

      Yes going through it rn lol 😅

  • @ipnotikfromitaly5094
    @ipnotikfromitaly5094 7 років тому +169

    Never put all your eggs in one basket (Unless you're committed, of course).

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 4 роки тому

      Yep I had to learn that. It makes things more simple that way instead of just focusing on just one

  • @bernie6355
    @bernie6355 7 років тому +107

    I have been rejected so often that I decided best to avoid every one this way I won't get hurt any more.

    • @StratMatt777
      @StratMatt777 7 років тому +35

      Go get rejected 5 times and you will learn that you are invincible.

    • @MrMuffinhead22
      @MrMuffinhead22 7 років тому +20

      the problem is your attitude . Take notes on the interaction and place yourself in the persons shoes and ask yourself why they "rejected" you. Refine your attitude and make shit happen.

    • @vinaykumarpattar2118
      @vinaykumarpattar2118 6 років тому +3

      MrMuffinhead22 should I talk to her , & say once again ...

    • @saadvevo4029
      @saadvevo4029 6 років тому

      Bernie Smatavicius hmm

    • @alfredoalzulaiii3168
      @alfredoalzulaiii3168 6 років тому +2

      StratMatt777 bruh ur comment is the best i will do this shit often so ill be invincible forever

  • @mr.greensky7211
    @mr.greensky7211 4 роки тому +23

    She’s not the right on 4 u if she rejects, god is finding perfect one

  • @gameexpert2011
    @gameexpert2011 3 роки тому +17

    I've been rejected 8 times in my 21 years of living. It does hurt. But honestly, I always keep my head up and try again. Eventually 1 will say yes. But when? That's something I don't know. Maybe I'll keep getting rejected till I'm in my 30s. I've always been told my older friends that it's easier for men to get women once they've reached theirs 30s or 40s. But damn that's such a long wait lol.

  • @kupotheisil8816
    @kupotheisil8816 6 років тому +6

    I was in love with a girl for two years after I left that school. I talked to my friend from thereby and he told me she thought I was a creep. The last two years have been almost ruined.

  • @latviaball5129
    @latviaball5129 5 років тому +7

    I just got rejected, but after watching this video and analysing everything it wasnt my fault in the end

  • @juantheonly1648
    @juantheonly1648 5 років тому +24

    She told me "I suck at texting" and ignored me 😢

    • @zehelsumi1845
      @zehelsumi1845 5 років тому +1

      I got rejected too but boi, sucks to be you T_T

    • @adiltube9355
      @adiltube9355 4 роки тому +1

      Dammmmmm🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣she killed you alive

    • @ameyjangam2485
      @ameyjangam2485 4 роки тому

      Give my boy some space guys! 🤣🤣🤣. Btw even I got rejected she literally texted me BRO such a polite way to reject 🤣🤣

    • @tylervasylenko6864
      @tylervasylenko6864 4 роки тому

      F

    • @babyelephant5098
      @babyelephant5098 3 роки тому

      @@adiltube9355 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mari3564
    @mari3564 5 років тому +46

    Hi,
    I'm a girl and we know that it hurts and we DO feel bad when we reject a guy (nice girls anyway). You see it doesn't matter weather you are hot or bad or good. Love for me in my opinion is like a spark in your gut. You feel comfortable and feel passion towards a person. The worst thing you could do is "get revenge" or make them regret it. You can't force somebody to "spark" with you. Great video👍

    • @andromedagalaxynebula5751
      @andromedagalaxynebula5751 5 років тому +4

      Love is a chemical reaction in your body.

    • @bmblafamilia7761
      @bmblafamilia7761 4 роки тому +8

      There's that word "spark" aka vibe, aka chemistry all equals attraction.I already knew this but can you admit that if a woman is not instantly attracted to you, it's not even worth it.

    • @tauhidd.8093
      @tauhidd.8093 2 роки тому +1

      sounds wayy too vague tho. Spark? you mean like some sort of attraction? So you just follow that "spark" and go along with the guy? even if he isn't good for you? Your own words are that it doesn't matter if the person is hot or bad or good. Aren't you forgetting possibly the most important part. The ability to think rationally about the "spark" so that you avoid the bad people.

    • @leviackerman-nq9vk
      @leviackerman-nq9vk Рік тому

      All of you deserves to get played and cheated on

  • @Jambuc829
    @Jambuc829 5 років тому +18

    I’ve kept count I’ve been rejected 50 times in a row 😁 it really doesn’t matter there are girls out there who won’t reject me maybe I’ll run into them maybe I won’t but I’m loving my life either way I want to see if I can get rejected 50 more times. 😁

    • @gatestimonymiracle1302
      @gatestimonymiracle1302 3 роки тому +1

      Maybe the way you do it is wrong. For example if you don't introduce yourself .. people will reject you male or female

  • @cassun603
    @cassun603 5 років тому +13

    I don't want to "get more girls" I want to get one girl

  • @YOFACE9999
    @YOFACE9999 4 роки тому +32

    I keep getting rejected while my friends are hooking up with girls or have gfs after awhile it just takes a toll on you :/

    • @erik-sr9bj
      @erik-sr9bj 3 роки тому +1

      How's it going

    • @ivanc8874
      @ivanc8874 2 роки тому

      Hey bro any improvements? It would cool to see a comeback story. Maybe tips too?

    • @AboutDatMoneyy
      @AboutDatMoneyy Рік тому

      facts espically when yo friends be pullin da chicks you be into like what da fucc bruhh

  • @paigemadeline4320
    @paigemadeline4320 4 роки тому +10

    We were literally flirting, and he said it was a “flirting game.” Guys I’m deep in the friendzone.

    • @mrsticky005
      @mrsticky005 3 роки тому +1

      You're only "deep in the friendzone" because YOU choose to be.
      Have some self respect, forget about him and talk to someone else.
      It's not that complicated.

  • @goodlookincookin
    @goodlookincookin 7 років тому +32

    One thing I try to remind myself of, is that we all are our own worst critics. Something we may think was a complete and total disaster may have just been viewed as a light speed bump to someone else. Don't criticize yourself too harshly. The point is to realize that you're gonna screw up until you learn more and gain more confidence. Shrug it off and keep going.
    But, if it is a big deal to you, then that will show in your body language, tone of voice, etc.
    You can watch all the videos you want and learn everything to become a master. Just remember, there's no such thing as perfect. Master chefs, professional athletes, seasoned law enforcement officers...and EVEN master pickup artists...they all screw up from time to time. So, don't ever think that you're gonna skate by with no bumps or bruises.
    Learning is fun, but it can be difficult, and sometimes painful.
    No pain, no gain, right?
    Just remember. This is something you CHOSE to learn about, so that means no one is forcing you to do it. That being said, it is something you WANT to do. When you want to do something, you make the effort to get good at it. That's when the fun really begins.

  • @elfwriterbluemoon2244
    @elfwriterbluemoon2244 2 роки тому +3

    Feeling rejected is a weird energy... there have to be a strategy in order to gain confidence and recover comfort again..also to add value..

  • @positive_vibes_2427
    @positive_vibes_2427 6 років тому +56

    I just got rejected a few minutes ago. She said she was married, so I didn’t even get to speak more than a sentence lol

    • @Joe-uj5sm
      @Joe-uj5sm 5 років тому +5

      Same except she said I have a boyfriend

    • @lnmkhw
      @lnmkhw 5 років тому +5

      she told me she was getting married

    • @n.sadequi4381
      @n.sadequi4381 5 років тому +11

      Thats great now you dont have to waste your time on her. You can move on right away

    • @samf9693
      @samf9693 4 роки тому +3

      Oof

    • @righteousfroce1254
      @righteousfroce1254 3 роки тому +4

      If she was married and she was trying to become your girlfriend, you don't want her

  • @Olafemi96
    @Olafemi96 7 років тому +148

    I already know when the girl I like won't like me back so I don't even try.

    • @rgf5432
      @rgf5432 7 років тому +82

      Wrong mindset mate

    • @justinalex7613
      @justinalex7613 7 років тому +11

      Cooler Man same bro 😂

    • @AlexLopez-vm7uq
      @AlexLopez-vm7uq 7 років тому +28

      Cooler Man Same I'm tired of having my time wasted on basic bitches that aren't even worth my time :/

    • @lindsey5818
      @lindsey5818 7 років тому +1

      Cooler Man same thing for me only for the opposite gender...At my school guys choose looks over books.... That's just how France is I guess

    • @slimmychoo2878
      @slimmychoo2878 6 років тому +2

      Stupid mindset

  • @davidhoang3618
    @davidhoang3618 6 років тому +8

    I just got rejected by my crush over DMs. I wrote her a huge para over 200 words long and all she said was
    “I’m sorry but I don’t really want a boyfriend at the moment. Tysm for the para. Sorry 😕.”

    • @trentongomez3592
      @trentongomez3592 6 років тому

      Is it bad asking out the girl more than 1 time?

    • @demon6937
      @demon6937 6 років тому +1

      Who knows she's into girls

    • @DoppyTheElv
      @DoppyTheElv 6 років тому

      Face to face man.

    • @denim9475
      @denim9475 5 років тому +1

      Dude the exact same thing happened to me pretty much word for word.

  • @mikejohnson699
    @mikejohnson699 6 місяців тому +2

    I don't even bother asking them out anymore, I'm not gonna let them make a fool out of me like that. It's not worth it, I'll stay single

  • @cagedguitarist1208
    @cagedguitarist1208 Місяць тому +1

    Just started having a crush on this girl and I’ve been a wimp for too long, I don’t even care that I got rejected I’m proud of myself for making progress. I’m a better man, I’m dateable, and I now have the balls to ask people out. It’s only an L if you make it one, there’s always a W in there too.

  • @synlul_l117
    @synlul_l117 6 років тому +7

    I got rejected by my best friend when I asked her out to day and I cried all day I couldn’t even do my work

  • @sifugurusensei
    @sifugurusensei 4 роки тому +10

    What I do is start running like a mad man saying, "I'm not crazy".

  • @yazenalmafalani4138
    @yazenalmafalani4138 5 років тому +8

    My first time getting rejected was yesterday 🙂💔 she showed me that she like me so much....but apparently 🤗💁🏻‍♂️💔

  • @b.ruceeee
    @b.ruceeee 5 років тому +5

    My crush rejected me yesterday...and i stumbled upon this

  • @zaksims1981
    @zaksims1981 3 роки тому +3

    Sometimes there is nothing you can do better , I went on a date with this girl she was just a very different person to me , we got on well , but our personalities were very different. We both found each other attractive, got on well.
    But we just dint vibe , she was very loud and I’m more normal /quieter
    Sometimes you can’t do anything better
    But sometimes you can
    What ever you do! Don’t change your self for someone!

  • @kevinmcgee3660
    @kevinmcgee3660 2 роки тому +2

    For a long time, I ceased joining the dating world because I was gun shy or felt rejected or hurt a lot. I'm still trying to get over it. Thanks for the kind words and support.

  • @demon6937
    @demon6937 6 років тому +5

    Well being rejected a lot make you question what you've been doing wrong even if you are the best version of you. Become immune of rejection and don't feel anything every time I'm rejected feels like a robot to me.

  • @badluckbarry4474
    @badluckbarry4474 7 років тому +13

    You know a lot of guys might be thinking: "These free vids that Tripp does are too good to be true." Well I'll tell ya his advice works! I used his advice on conversations and texting with my ex-girlfriend and I kid you not... it worked! Thanks Tripp! :)

  • @kubis8227
    @kubis8227 5 років тому +4

    i just got rejected today...we were friends for like 8-12 months and i think i was just waiting too long, i was doing everything right, we really were like 2 the same souls, we had the same hobbys, same "taste" all that... maby she is just not ready for a relationship yet... im also pretty handsome and polite and her best friend even told us that we look cute together so yeah, i'm really confused.. just gonna focus on my carrer and maby someday ill find a girl like her :// peace

  • @kylerittenhouse7140
    @kylerittenhouse7140 5 років тому +10

    Got rejected by the Beatiful girl of my dreams 😞💔

  • @amon2457
    @amon2457 5 років тому +4

    Why do tears roll down my cheek whenever I think about it

  • @krazylegz11
    @krazylegz11 4 місяці тому +1

    Asked someone out from work over text. She ignored it and told people at work that I asked her. I felt pretty down at the time. Like I wasn’t “worthy”. It’s been a few days now and I’m starting to get through it. But man, that hurt.

  • @thatboy3930
    @thatboy3930 2 роки тому +2

    I've been cheated on in every relationship I've been in, and I've been rejected probably 6 times since my last relationship (including today.) Makes me question my personality, looks, and lifestyle. I'm always a 2nd choice or viewed as just a friend. I'm drained of confidence and I just don't care anymore.

  • @stufgaming1chen311
    @stufgaming1chen311 6 років тому +41

    I’m depressed

    • @шил
      @шил 4 роки тому +5

      why did that make me laugh

    • @ameyjangam2485
      @ameyjangam2485 4 роки тому +1

      @@шил damn that's evil bro

    • @ameyjangam2485
      @ameyjangam2485 4 роки тому

      Putin you should be the way things are going right now

  • @Mario-xr7nx
    @Mario-xr7nx 3 роки тому +4

    2 months ago i searched how to attract your crush
    Now I'm watching this...

  • @bonbonl7907
    @bonbonl7907 6 років тому +15

    i got rejected as well yesterday

  • @podsmpsg1
    @podsmpsg1 7 років тому +64

    is it normal to cry when you crush doesn't reciprocate?

    • @harloxzz1990
      @harloxzz1990 7 років тому +29

      Yes is normal bro

    • @glittermeaway
      @glittermeaway 6 років тому +10

      I havent cried but i think about him all the time and he probably doesnt care that i exist so it sucks

    • @jasonmartinez7667
      @jasonmartinez7667 5 років тому +2

      Yes!!!

    • @podsmpsg1
      @podsmpsg1 5 років тому +2

      Jason Martinez thanks.

    • @jasonmartinez7667
      @jasonmartinez7667 5 років тому +3

      @@podsmpsg1 It recently happened to me.I did everything.At first it's okay to cry and all.But later you start to get better over time.Take care of yourself!

  • @vinaykumarpattar2118
    @vinaykumarpattar2118 6 років тому +2

    a girl rejected me, I still love her , & after rejecting I talked like stupid
    & Reminded her that I still love her , like saying my feelings on you are high , & again asked sorry , , .....
    & talking about love ,,,, sometimes she ignores me now ,,, My mind is fucked up always thinking about & she too knows that .... ,
    SHOULD I STOP SPEAKING WITH HER ?????

    • @vasanthankr4694
      @vasanthankr4694 6 років тому

      Vinaykumar p ..it's hard but yes ..u should show your higher value..believe me I went through this stuff ..if u still speaking to her u have low value...and end will be very bad... diverted it to your self improvement

  • @jchere5735
    @jchere5735 5 років тому +6

    I listen to depressing music after I get rejected then cry myself to sleep. Anybody else?

  • @Lifeskeyishappiness
    @Lifeskeyishappiness 5 років тому +4

    The right girl is the one that chooses you and is not tempted by other guys. Also try not to get attached to someone until you're pretty sure they like you back.

  • @michellenegray8412
    @michellenegray8412 7 років тому +34

    It is hard ive gotten rejected 9 times

    • @raja4win
      @raja4win 5 років тому +3

      Dont wrry bro keep trying

    • @shadyalissa7645
      @shadyalissa7645 5 років тому

      Ive been rejected 3 times and it hurts like hell. I dont even know how you cope with it tbh.

    • @jadecordy9125
      @jadecordy9125 5 років тому

      I have been regected 10 times

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree1 5 років тому +2

    When rejection occurs, in many cases, the issues involve both you and the person you've asked out and perhaps the differences in both the individual's intention behind it. Again that's where we need to be honest and upfront about these matters, regardless of whether you're with a stranger or with someone you already know.

  • @Ian-wt3xd
    @Ian-wt3xd 6 років тому +27

    Got rejected😞

  • @brennannace333
    @brennannace333 5 років тому +2

    I’m 15 and I’ve been rejected most of my life by girls. I’m so used to at this point though that I just go for it and if it don’t work out? Oh well. I’d rather know that she doesn’t want me then sit there wondering if she’s into me. Don’t let it bother you just move on.

  • @CyberDoctor-tc8tc
    @CyberDoctor-tc8tc 6 років тому +3

    Got rejected for the first time today and this finially gave me the open world look and i know know there are much worse things in life to come. Dare i say there will be more..😂😂 keep it up boys!!

  • @biketyson691
    @biketyson691 6 років тому +2

    Nothing but rejection for 3 years. I’m done being strong. I got my life together and no one wants to be with me. Holy shit it’s bad.

  • @drjohnsonhungwell5115
    @drjohnsonhungwell5115 6 років тому +6

    I've been rejected a lot even for just trying to be sociable, but I finally had a woman approach me and I rejected her, the look on her face was priceless, I sometimes wonder if I did the right thing and more than likely it was right

  • @Mocroskate
    @Mocroskate 5 років тому +1

    It.....it just hurts so bad...... But I'm mature enough to know that pain doesn't last forever, plus like he said in the video ''Not every girl you come across is gonna like you''. I know i must look at it from that perspective for my own sanity and realism. The sooner it hurts, the sooner the healing can begin. Cry now, enjoy later, it is a must.

  • @marcusbenavidez6575
    @marcusbenavidez6575 6 років тому +4

    I get rejected every month by different women. It sucks dude. Makes me depressed af.

    • @Hi-wb5ol
      @Hi-wb5ol 5 років тому

      I GOT REJECTED TODAY AND FELL BAD FOR YOU MAN

    • @diegotown619
      @diegotown619 5 років тому

      Marcus Benavidez I’m sorry brother. It does suck. Hope you have better luck soon.

    • @baurzhantoktarbay2489
      @baurzhantoktarbay2489 3 роки тому

      I get rejected every day lol rookie numbers

  • @reviewramble
    @reviewramble 7 років тому +2

    Self Analysis is great when you have some idea what you should be doing in the interaction. But not done in the field. You dont want to be too much in your head for the next approach. Watching good infield makes learning quicker and less rejection.

  • @salmontrash8772
    @salmontrash8772 5 років тому +4

    I'm a lesbian. I told my crush that I've been having a crush on her since day 1. But she rejected me and said she's not interested in me.....didn't know it feels that bad

    • @andromedagalaxynebula5751
      @andromedagalaxynebula5751 5 років тому

      When look at human relationships through genetics, biology, psychology and evolution, it makes sense.

  • @SwrdFn
    @SwrdFn 2 роки тому +2

    Shit I was an alpha today. Went inside her class in front of everybody. Asked her out for valentine day. She said no. I said it’s cool. Walked away confidently

    • @broadcasttttable
      @broadcasttttable Рік тому

      You asked her in front of other people? You got stones, dude! Did doing this give you more confidence for the next time?

  • @thaghost3260
    @thaghost3260 7 років тому +36

    Got rejected so many times already I'm just about to give up. I was smoking like 5-6 cigs a day. Now I'm at almost a pack a day. Girls didn't want me before I smoked, at least now I have something to hide the pain

    • @TheNicholasRennerShow
      @TheNicholasRennerShow 6 років тому +6

      i feel ya man

    • @josiahcarroll8576
      @josiahcarroll8576 6 років тому +19

      Don't self medicate man. That's very destructive. Be it food, sex, drugs, cigs, etc. Best way is to deal with it head on and lean on friends family and most importantly God

    • @mostamazingfacts1121
      @mostamazingfacts1121 6 років тому +1

      I play poker to feel better and forget

    • @northsidebtown7012
      @northsidebtown7012 5 років тому

      Smoke some weed bro

    • @zachartis7770
      @zachartis7770 5 років тому

      Nova Prime frfr we need god love first then love a woman im sorry god i wanna put you in my life bro it should have anyways been you my father creator 🌞 thats why my lofe is such disprder im not thinkong god for my blessing for waking up being alive meeting this girl and the opportunity to serve in thw military

  • @wisdomwayeducation
    @wisdomwayeducation Рік тому +2

    I GOT REJECTED , AFTER DREAMING MADLY ABOUT HER FOR 6 YEARS , SO FRUSTRATING AND LIGHTNING AT THE SAME TIME ,THANKS GOD FOR THIS EXPRIANCE IT MAY BE MY TURING POINT IN LIFE

    • @prod.gregupnext2958
      @prod.gregupnext2958 Рік тому

      Bro you have no idea its good she rejected you because you can stop thinking about her

    • @keyshawnscott12
      @keyshawnscott12 Рік тому

      @@prod.gregupnext2958 true

  • @Subscripto
    @Subscripto 5 років тому +7

    To be honest with God, i"m handsome, bt i always gets rejected😢😢😢..I"m hating my life now

  • @sanakiyamam1987
    @sanakiyamam1987 4 роки тому +2

    very hard and sad getting rejected by a woman who you like and thought serious with her.

  • @DawoSida
    @DawoSida 4 роки тому +2

    At this moment, I have been rejected and she said she sees me as her *favourite friend*
    It's fucking awkward
    I loved her and loved her but in the end she fucking broke my heart???

    • @DawoSida
      @DawoSida 4 роки тому

      @the guy whit the lyrics bro I swear it's soo annoying, I liked her from my heart only to disappoint me.
      In fact this is the second time ingot rejected in this year by two different girl's I loved

  • @larry64161
    @larry64161 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve been rejected by many girls and I’ve always took it to the heart and I’m a good looking guy

  • @charliewalker9148
    @charliewalker9148 6 років тому +14

    Im 15 I asked out a girl yesterday she said no, and I'm dying inside

  • @dailmcdavid5883
    @dailmcdavid5883 3 роки тому +1

    Rejections forced me to stay to myself I got tired of it it forced me to hate my physical appearance . But I do have a 2004 Zo6 Corvette Blue

  • @haverafeeo5671
    @haverafeeo5671 6 років тому +3

    I still love her i can't think abt anyone else

  • @spiritual_empath2168
    @spiritual_empath2168 3 роки тому +1

    I just asked a chick out a second ago she declined but I dont see it as a loss I see it as a win the more you learn to handle rejection from women the more rejection does'nt bother you.

  • @ftsboys9825
    @ftsboys9825 5 років тому +3

    I just can’t get over this girl like I had the biggest crush on her for over a year and every day when I got home and tried to get the courage to ask her out and one day after a year after practicing so much on how to ask her and well I asked her. And I said it in a kinda “cute” way no gay shit but I thought I was good and so did my friends and she just said. No sorry I’m not looking for a boyfriend atm and I just played it off as it’s fine but then 4 days later my best friend of 4 years asked her out and she said yes I just don’t understand it’s always the big tough sporty athletic guys and the ones who are just so fake and it’s just a lie and they block out everyone else from getting a chance and no I’m not fat I’m not rude I’m not disgusting and I don’t think I’m to ugly but just last night and In 3 months it’s gonna be a year since I asked her out I had a dream about me and her together and I don’t know why like I haven’t thought about her in ages and it just came into my head and all the things we would of done together like just F!CKING HELL!!!! ALL THE SHIT I MISSED OUT ON. Dont worry about me not that you will you probably think I’m some ugly dude behind a screen just venting about a girl and sh!t just F!CK THIS BULL SH!T

  • @toneylowery1166
    @toneylowery1166 2 роки тому +1

    Revenge, I got it, and I feel great. Do your self a favor, don't be the bigger man. Get just as mean as she does. You won't regret it.

  • @robertphillips2730
    @robertphillips2730 5 років тому +5

    Rejection may be a good thing.

  • @nightstriker6474
    @nightstriker6474 5 років тому +2

    I've gotten rejected played now I'm invincible to feelings of getting rejected

  • @lpspurpz7293
    @lpspurpz7293 7 років тому +26

    Hello guys :D so as a girl, I really have no clue why I'm here tbh lol. And Ima be honest. Look. Any guy, that has the courage to maybe ask me for icecream, I would say yes. Honestly. For me, personally, it's the hair and personality that gets me. And here are some tips from an ACTUAL girl.
    1. If I say no, I'm sorry it means no. I'd say the worst thing to do then is go on about how much I mean to someone. For instance, this boy I only liked as a friend asked me out, I said I'm sorry but I wasn't interested and please understand. He then started going on about how I was his "dream" woman and I was a sweet little "angel" and that creeped me tf out and if guessing you know I don't talk to him anymore.
    2. Look guys. I'm sorry. But. Find someone to ask out (if you've known them) if your pretty for sure they like you back, for me, I was look at people in the eye when I like them I've noticed.
    3. Being awkward is my job. Please don't be awkward. An awkward + awkward doesn't equal unawkward it means for me to get tf out of there.
    4. Dress nice, well cleaned, hair nice, don't be trashy.
    5. That's it. I guess :p

    • @serhatakdag5461
      @serhatakdag5461 7 років тому +1

      LPSPURPZ thanks

    • @ponzifonzi8825
      @ponzifonzi8825 6 років тому +13

      You know what I directly said to this girl that I liked her, she said that I'm a great person and so on, but no she doesn't like me the way I do so everything you said it's useless, just delete your comment.
      Sincerely, A guy from a web page.

    • @UnknownGamer-gd6kh
      @UnknownGamer-gd6kh 6 років тому +1

      What about Hispanic woman and gold diggers

    • @demon6937
      @demon6937 6 років тому

      Girls don't really mean what they want

    • @yevgenycarbayas9964
      @yevgenycarbayas9964 6 років тому

      women I get.. I only want the one I loved but beep rejected she wanted only a friend T_T

  • @meowzki2224
    @meowzki2224 5 років тому +1

    me getting rejected was one of a unique story...i got rejected by a girl in my commerce batch(which only had a few people)....and she got up with my ex bestfriend

  • @jeffwolfe4058
    @jeffwolfe4058 7 років тому +3

    for me its always fuck up in text. I have blown it with at least 15 hot girls with weak text game. I was master back in day with phone talk and a girl almost NVR got away but these young women nowadays only text. And I suck at it. I'm getting better but still blowing it.

  • @JrBaxterDavid
    @JrBaxterDavid 5 років тому

    today i got rejected...so i watched this video...it helped me to stay happy...and remove all my negative thoughts..thank you

  • @adriankoh3854
    @adriankoh3854 5 років тому +8

    I saved a girl for being nearly hit by a cab on freshers week, walked her back to her dorm making sure she be ok since she was a state. As I was about to leave she asks me to take her for dinner. Took her for dinner spent 80 pounds, never said thank you and was just...she didn't talk much...We made out in the end and following week blows me off not even wanting to be friends...Found out shortly after she was now dating a 17 year old dweeby British boy and she's 19 over a built 23 year old Borneo Islander.... Baring in mind it was British ( women in that country defy the social order ) I don't know how to react lol...im split between how backwards that is / What the fuck is wrong with you...Weirdest rejection...