Jay Shetty @JayShettyPodcast dropped some incredible insights on LOVE! If you want to hear more from guests like Jay on The Mel Robbins Podcast, give this video a like!
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
I think it's really cool what he's saying about Respecting your partner's values, and focusing on their goals. I like that he's not saying that your goals and values have to align with theirs, but that respecting and supporting are enough.
I think he/Jay does (at the beginning of when he actually defines what he defines love to b... like them respect them n "align w their values"... think deeply and realistically that if u don't align in (at least your most important values) values as a couple then u are bound to have frequent issues that are not "compromise" points (do u compromise on your basic n most closely held values?) for either but "give up" points which will build deep resentment. .. maybe I don't see "values" as u define them?
"share" their list important values... is how Jay clarifies about values (a mutual respect n sharing of values that garners respect n support in the values y'all share ... it's complex to b clear. but this is a great /better definition of adult love than I can recall. ever.
At first I saw her, and gave her a hug...I felt like a mother figure. And soon the roles completely changed and her pure heart and faith and the way she hugged me feel like I was in the arms of a sage mother... her wisedom came simply from being herself
Same! The moment my 13yr old self and I hugged, I just burst out crying. I told her that she's so loved and what she said back to me was "I believe in you" and that made me cry more.
When we find our person, they should make us feel like superheroes, which will then drive us to scale mountains & wrangle stars, and share that abundance of love w everyone we meet Love truly makes the world go round 💞 Plz, don’t settle… 🤗 🥰
52 minutes in and I have to say this is THE best conversation on love (in all forms) I’ve ever listened to. My hat off to Mel stopping and asking to dissect certain topics and being so specific and detailed. It allowed Jay to truly share his wisdom in ways I’ve haven’t heard before.
There is no episode that doesn’t make me cry. I am such a damaged person but gahd Mel’s podcast is like an instrumental from the heavens 😭😭😭 i love you Mel, thank you for being who you are, you are amazing
Favorite moments: 27:52 - Being scared of being alone and walking into a relationship. 58:45 - Ownership vs. a relationship. 1:03:08 - Getting them to the next step in their journey vs. getting them to the next step in YOUR journey. 1:08:30 - Loving someone so much that they learn to love themselves. Amazing interview!
Omg Mel! I did the meditation and am sobbing at the lack of love I realized I had for my 13 year old self. How lonely I was then? I wrapped my arms around her in a motherly way to hold myself like I do to all my children I adopted during my years. It felt amazing. I knew today's episode was going to be special when I heard Jay Shetty. I had no idea how impactful it would be. Thank you for all you do. We all love you too.
AMAZING!! I'm in my 50s, and have been out of a long-term relationship, and from the dating scene, for quite some time, by choice (or so it's become that story I've been telling myself), I had been on that journey, or quest, at times, going through all the points mentioned with all the highs and lows and pitfalls, which of course is a natural learning experience of life and love, but at some point decided it was much safer and healthier emotionally to adjust shift my focus away from that. I was doing okay with solitude, although loneliness is always lurking. The last few years (thanks to You Tube) I have been immersing myself more into inner self growth and discovery. This podcast has been such an eyeopener!! It has given me the clarity of what I thought I knew and have learned to this point, but more importantly, has enlightened me to the things I didn't. I feel much more secure about allowing myself to open up to the experience again , when that time comes. Much love and thanks to you both! 💖
Thank you for sharing your comment I connect with your experience I am also in my 50s, and have exploring and enjoying my solitude and peace. I am making changes with work ( work from home) to enjoy more freedom. I am also moving to be closer to aging parents. And like you a agreed wholeheartedly this podcast is eye-opening in many ways. Great post , I am confident you will have in your life what you desire.
When he started talking about the two words for loneliness but only one is mentioned in the English language. I knew he was talking about Solitude because I live in a life of solitude and it was only in the last few years that I really started to embrace that and it's a wonderful feeling I'm not lonely at all. I have been asked and I have also been told I'm broken or if I think I'm broken have I given up or why did I give up there's somebody out there for me and honestly I'm happy. I'm okay in my solitude it's peaceful and I indulge in it. So many people say that human beings are not meant to live their lives alone. Not all human beings are meant for communal living not all that are alone are lonely or sad or missing an aspect of their life
Couldn't be more profound! He has such a comfortable way about him, it's so easy to understand what he means. Great connection between you two. Thank you for having him!
I seen a quote a few years back and it was so powerful, I believe this is what he is saying! “Don’t commit to me, commit to evolving, and I will meet you there”
I just ended a 8 month relationship with someone I thought was sent from above and when I was at my lowest this week having been incredibly hurt from someone, I thought was my friend. He toppled more rejection on top of it and when I told him my needs in my wants he totally turned around and gaslighted me, I was his soulmate. I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He was never gonna find another one like me. I was the best lover, the best kisser I was an incredible mom he loved my sensitivity but I ended it today because I spent time working on myself in the last five years, he hasn’t he’s gone from relationship to relationship and he apparently doesn’t think he needs to work on himself that he should just be accepted for who he is and this week he showed me how incredibly immature and mean he could be iced me out for 24 hours and then still doesn’t see he did anything wrong
Bravo! I’m a novice Taoist so I hear him loud and clear. I’ve changed so much with all relationships because of its teachings. I’m now in a loving relationship with someone who was my friend first for 3 years before moving to the next step. We are still friends first with some extras 😜. Love this podcast!
Jay and my husband are both from India. They both have the same beautiful brown eyes, black hair, body heighth, weight, personailty, good heart...etc. When i see Jay on a pod cast it always makes me think of my precious beloved husband. so God has blessed me 100% very much. And I know that i am a very blessed lucky lady to live on this earth at this moment in time...❤❤🎉🎉
When he dives on respecting values, it was AMAZING and such an eye opener... its nothing about not wanting to take part in their value, but respecting thei passion as it comes and how they feel about it.... just... wow
Two of my favorite life guides at the same time. I didn’t search for either of you. I arrived on accident. So thankful I did. Amazing 🤩 Thank you so much ❤
An Excellent Podcast and interview! I walk away with the quote I once heard! I am NO LONGER .. Hussling for Love!!! It is toxic and unhealthy! Thanks for being such a bright light in our every day and week Mel! 🎉❤😊
That last part of the video made me tear up🙈 great video, I have so much growing to do when it comes to being with another person but I have to learn about myself first before I do that.
Love, love, love Jay Shetty. He was the first voice I heard after my divorce 7 years ago. His words of love, self love, and affirmation, motivation, and moving forward with love got me threw a very horrible time in my life... God bless both of you ❤
I cried so much! Happy relieving tears! I loved this so much! I listen to jay all the time i always get something of quality from him! I look forward to my healing journey!
This CD has three separate relaxation/meditation sessions on it ua-cam.com/users/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq guided by a very pleasant and direct male voice. Unlike so many other products of its type, this CD does not have bad synthesizer music, does not feature a phony or affected style of narration, and does not make any bogus claims to be subliminal or to re-train the brain or any of that balderdash. What you get is 1. a guided meditation for getting into a pleasantly relaxed state of body awareness while taking a stroll (superb for those easing back into a fitness routine slowly after an illness or injury) 2. A nice long breath-awareness relaxation session that if followed diligently can put you into very deep states of full-body relaxation and mental calmness, and 3. a buddhist-inspired meditation session designed to help you develop and maintain feelings of loving kindness toward not just yourself and your friends, but toward people you don't even like. The CD makes no claims to be designed for advanced meditators or for buddhists or hindus/yoga practitioners looking for very deep and esoteric stuff. It is geared more toward the average person who just wants to develop the habit of relaxation and stress relief through natural, healthy means. him, if you happen to be reading this, keep up the good work fella, and I love your accent. I would also like to note that I have never fallen asleep while listening to this product. I would like to kindly suggest to the reviewer who said this CD makes him fall asleep, that he might want to get checked to see if he has a sleep disorder, or if he is simply not setting aside ample time for restful sleep at night. A healthy person getting adequate rest at night should be able to go into deep states of mental relaxation without dozing off, if not all the time, then most of the time.
Just here to say - love you dear Mel . You have been a sister . Your five minutes rule has helped , and your genuine intention to help . Long live Mel , and lots of good health , happiness, and lots of energy to you , to energize many more lives 🎉❤
The meditation was powerful. 13 was the age I got my first boyfriend and was the first in a line of toxic relationships with those that were broken and I worked to “fix” them but my 13 year old self told me work on you then you attract the best for you. Over the last 5 years I’ve been working on me and through therapy and poetry I found my voice and my life… I found the healed me while still healing. I’m now falling in love with someone but having a totally different experience and feels amazing.
I keep replaying the meditation part of the podcast, am going thru my hardest breakup I have ever experienced at 32, Jay is right the more detail in the visualization the better you can love that younger self and the younger self has so much to say
I have been married for almost 39 years. We have been working on it. You speak so clearly. Thank you Jay. You are so authentic. I love you and . Thank you Mel.
It's so funny they've talked about that. I had a lot of first dates when I felt like interviewing my date or coach them. I never felt comfortable with it and I was totally aware of this was the first and last date. I felt kinda used even when I decided to take the train and play along. This is absolutely not a good start. This interview is soo amazing 🔥 Thank you for everything 🔥
I love this profound insight. I am 56 and I am so open to continue on my quest of inner work and all I need to learn I am so open to educating myself to what makes more sense this is incredible information for me and everyone watching and listening I love it ❤ I thank Mel and her beautiful guest he is a true teacher of life and love I am intrigue by his research on love
This is the best thing I have ever heard and as the mother of 4 daughters, it is everything I want my daughters to know as they move forward in their life and relationships.
Yes I resonate with what Mel shared. This reminded me of myself I can admit and share my vulnerability when I feel insecure I would admit my fears to my ex girlfriend but she didn't understand my sincerity and my vulnerability
Omg I'm 58 and Jay made incredible sense maybe now I have a much better idea of how to be healthier smarter in finding the right one not assume just because someone has a good job etc...means their a good catch - the tools he enlightens us to seriously invaluable THANK YOU where were you all my life 😄
A year late but still needed! I have this book, hard and audio, I keep starting and stopping because it's been hard to do! But this podcast has made me decide to finish it. I deserve to truly love myself! Thanks Mel and Jay!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Woah! The meditation was great! I never knew I had so much pain from childhood, cried while doing that. I’ll definitely visit her again to give her more love and comfort. Thank you so much Mel and Jay for doing what you do.
Very true. Totally agreed with Jay. Very clearly about ownership not partnerships. You helped me to see my my partner always wants me to do his ways, criticised if I didn't. He complain a lot, yelling, shouting to my face.....just left that toxic.
You're the best.... and Jay is the best. What an outstanding episode. You two both are a gift.... to see you together like this having this discussion Is Awwwwwweeeeesome. Thanks so much. 🎉🎉❤
Loved the meditation excercise it really puts into perspective what really matters for us and how you want to do everything in your power to make your 13self proud ❤ thank you
My 2 faves 🥰 Excellent dynamic 🕊️ I hope every heart finds healing & the one that will forever make your heart smile & feel protected, finds you. Wishing us all, a lifetime of love & laughter filled tomorrows 🫶
Thank you to two of my Favourite podcasters/mentors in this world.. I have so much respect and admiration for you both and am so very grateful for the knowledge that you empart.. Mel I love you and Jay I love you 🙏😊💖💙🇦🇺 xoxo
Got this book before I knew who he was and then I ran across a podcast and was like WAIT 😮 THATS JAY SHETTY 😂 AWESOME PODCAST and great interview thanks y’all ❤
I am so happy to hear this conversation. I’ve been journeying through breaking the conditioning of what we are taught is love and relationships. I love to hear such great words toward real love. I have discovered that the opposite of love is not hate, but selfishness. We must let others be themselves and focus on our own growth and self love.
"That is so humbling..." WOW. He is so humble. Many would have had a big head from that introduction! That is so inspiring and gives me hope in humanity!
Absolutely brilliant. Wonderful to see you both together....as always, Jay Shetty your words come straight from the heart. I truly don't beleive that anyone can share such beautiful wisdom in the way that you do. You are a gift, can't wait to buy the book. I have read THINK LIKE MONK three times and have offered it to many friends and clients. Mel, awesome as always. Thank you both
Every day I’m fighting with rumination to get back my time, time of freedom from rumination when I can think about something else. I reduce watching narcissistic content, I started running on a treadmill, I’m watching comedy shows, I’m learning Spanish- just to be able to switch my mind from rumination. After 3 years of constant fighting I started winning my life back.
I tried to explain to him that he needs to focus on him and love himself first then he feels fulfilment and happy then he can have happiness to give to someone you love.
Jay Shetty @JayShettyPodcast dropped some incredible insights on LOVE! If you want to hear more from guests like Jay on The Mel Robbins Podcast, give this video a like!
“If you want something from someone else, first give it to yourself”. Love this. Nobody takes care of #1, like #1!
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.
Thank you for sharing this valuable info! I just looked him up, and he seems impressive.
LIFE CHANGING interview…self development is a long marathon not a sprint…at 70 yrs strong, this era is the most enlightening with podcasts like this.
I think it's really cool what he's saying about Respecting your partner's values, and focusing on their goals. I like that he's not saying that your goals and values have to align with theirs, but that respecting and supporting are enough.
0000000😅😅
I think he/Jay does (at the beginning of when he actually defines what he defines love to b... like them respect them n "align w their values"... think deeply and realistically that if u don't align in (at least your most important values) values as a couple then u are bound to have frequent issues that are not "compromise" points (do u compromise on your basic n most closely held values?) for either but "give up" points which will build deep resentment. .. maybe I don't see "values" as u define them?
"share" their list important values... is how Jay clarifies about values (a mutual respect n sharing of values that garners respect n support in the values y'all share ... it's complex to b clear.
but this is a great /better definition of adult love than I can recall. ever.
😊@@meghanegger2376
@@meghanegger2376,
10:44 - Love is when I:
1. like someone's personality
2. respect their values
3. am committed to help them with their goals
Thank you for time stamping that!!
😼👏 i agree!!!❤😊
ThANK YOU !!😊😮🎉🎉
Yes
Yes!!! My two favorite people together today!!! Great show!!! ❤❤❤
Meeting my 13 year old self reduced me to tears. Her wisdom was trust yourself. I may revisit her soon. ❤
The wisdom my 13 year old self gave me was to be true to myself above anything else. I plan on revisting him as often as needed.
@@adb2490 great we can tap into ourselves
At first I saw her, and gave her a hug...I felt like a mother figure. And soon the roles completely changed and her pure heart and faith and the way she hugged me feel like I was in the arms of a sage mother... her wisedom came simply from being herself
Wow I cried too. 😢
Same! The moment my 13yr old self and I hugged, I just burst out crying. I told her that she's so loved and what she said back to me was "I believe in you" and that made me cry more.
When we find our person, they should make us feel like superheroes, which will then drive us to scale mountains & wrangle stars, and share that abundance of love w everyone we meet
Love truly makes the world go round 💞
Plz, don’t settle… 🤗 🥰
❤️🙏🏼❤️
52 minutes in and I have to say this is THE best conversation on love (in all forms) I’ve ever listened to. My hat off to Mel stopping and asking to dissect certain topics and being so specific and detailed. It allowed Jay to truly share his wisdom in ways I’ve haven’t heard before.
There is no episode that doesn’t make me cry. I am such a damaged person but gahd Mel’s podcast is like an instrumental from the heavens 😭😭😭 i love you Mel, thank you for being who you are, you are amazing
This man is making me review my entire self.... you're a true mentor Jay, wise beyond your age.
Favorite moments:
27:52 - Being scared of being alone and walking into a relationship.
58:45 - Ownership vs. a relationship.
1:03:08 - Getting them to the next step in their journey vs. getting them to the next step in YOUR journey.
1:08:30 - Loving someone so much that they learn to love themselves.
Amazing interview!
Omg Mel! I did the meditation and am sobbing at the lack of love I realized I had for my 13 year old self. How lonely I was then? I wrapped my arms around her in a motherly way to hold myself like I do to all my children I adopted during my years. It felt amazing. I knew today's episode was going to be special when I heard Jay Shetty. I had no idea how impactful it would be. Thank you for all you do. We all love you too.
♥️
The same thing happened to me as well!!😢❤🥰😁🤯
this episode is simply unbelievable. jay describes life & love in an absolutely profound way. wow wow wow wow wow i’m blown away
Goosebumps
AMAZING!! I'm in my 50s, and have been out of a long-term relationship, and from the dating scene, for quite some time, by choice (or so it's become that story I've been telling myself), I had been on that journey, or quest, at times, going through all the points mentioned with all the highs and lows and pitfalls, which of course is a natural learning experience of life and love, but at some point decided it was much safer and healthier emotionally to adjust shift my focus away from that. I was doing okay with solitude, although loneliness is always lurking. The last few years (thanks to You Tube) I have been immersing myself more into inner self growth and discovery. This podcast has been such an eyeopener!! It has given me the clarity of what I thought I knew and have learned to this point, but more importantly, has enlightened me to the things I didn't. I feel much more secure about allowing myself to open up to the experience again , when that time comes. Much love and thanks to you both! 💖
Same here, @tigre7739. I'm even older. Good luck to you on that journey! It's both rough and wonderful...
Thank you for sharing your comment I connect with your experience I am also in my 50s, and have exploring and enjoying my solitude and peace. I am making changes with work ( work from home) to enjoy more freedom. I am also moving to be closer to aging parents. And like you a agreed wholeheartedly this podcast is eye-opening in many ways. Great post , I am confident you will have in your life what you desire.
Same here. Your comment is encouraging. I felt something was wrong with me.
Yeah love is in the air waiting for you ! The beautiful thing you will have a balance!
Yeah go for it! The divine working for you!
@@CoachLesley nothing wrong with you! You are complete & blessed!
When he started talking about the two words for loneliness but only one is mentioned in the English language. I knew he was talking about Solitude because I live in a life of solitude and it was only in the last few years that I really started to embrace that and it's a wonderful feeling I'm not lonely at all. I have been asked and I have also been told I'm broken or if I think I'm broken have I given up or why did I give up there's somebody out there for me and honestly I'm happy. I'm okay in my solitude it's peaceful and I indulge in it. So many people say that human beings are not meant to live their lives alone. Not all human beings are meant for communal living not all that are alone are lonely or sad or missing an aspect of their life
Couldn't be more profound! He has such a comfortable way about him, it's so easy to understand what he means. Great connection between you two. Thank you for having him!
Most con artists and narcissists are very talented at “calming” their victims…. ua-cam.com/video/SLXOcyxCl6U/v-deo.html
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Jay’s final words brought tears to my eyes
This has to be the best podcast episode I have ever listened to/watched. I shared it with all my loved ones. Amazing!
I'm excited to listen today, thanks for the WARM COMMENT!!!
@@taneeshashaw7347 Hope it serves you 🙏
I seen a quote a few years back and it was so powerful, I believe this is what he is saying!
“Don’t commit to me, commit to evolving, and I will meet you there”
WOAH!, DEEP !! ❤😮😮👏🏼👏🏼
I just ended a 8 month relationship with someone I thought was sent from above and when I was at my lowest this week having been incredibly hurt from someone, I thought was my friend. He toppled more rejection on top of it and when I told him my needs in my wants he totally turned around and gaslighted me, I was his soulmate. I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He was never gonna find another one like me. I was the best lover, the best kisser I was an incredible mom he loved my sensitivity but I ended it today because I spent time working on myself in the last five years, he hasn’t he’s gone from relationship to relationship and he apparently doesn’t think he needs to work on himself that he should just be accepted for who he is and this week he showed me how incredibly immature and mean he could be iced me out for 24 hours and then still doesn’t see he did anything wrong
He is so humble and simply an amazing Human! Very nice to have someone so sweet!
Bravo! I’m a novice Taoist so I hear him loud and clear. I’ve changed so much with all relationships because of its teachings. I’m now in a loving relationship with someone who was my friend first for 3 years before moving to the next step. We are still friends first with some extras 😜. Love this podcast!
What a great meditation. I love Jay Shetty. He is so genuine and speaks the truth in such an unassuming way. Inspiring
I absolutely love how honest Mel is.
Come on, like, this is gold! ✨ Even though he has given a lot of interviews, each one has its magic. And Mel does a great job! Amazing 🤩
Jay and my husband are both from India. They both have the same beautiful brown eyes, black hair, body heighth, weight, personailty, good heart...etc. When i see Jay on a pod cast it always makes me think of my precious beloved husband. so God has blessed me 100% very much. And I know that i am a very blessed lucky lady to live on this earth at this moment in time...❤❤🎉🎉
When he dives on respecting values, it was AMAZING and such an eye opener... its nothing about not wanting to take part in their value, but respecting thei passion as it comes and how they feel about it.... just... wow
Two of my favorite life guides at the same time. I didn’t search for either of you. I arrived on accident. So thankful I did. Amazing 🤩
Thank you so much ❤
Here is another accident…ua-cam.com/video/Nfu4j7EIGqs/v-deo.html
My two greatest hero’s, voices of reason and my inspiration! THANK YOU both!
An Excellent Podcast and interview! I walk away with the quote I once heard! I am NO LONGER .. Hussling for Love!!! It is toxic and unhealthy! Thanks for being such a bright light in our every day and week Mel! 🎉❤😊
❤❤ ❤ bless you
He has the most amazing eyes. Thats just an observation people!!
Mind blowing episode 🔥should be listened by everyone 💓
That last part of the video made me tear up🙈 great video, I have so much growing to do when it comes to being with another person but I have to learn about myself first before I do that.
Love, love, love Jay Shetty. He was the first voice I heard after my divorce 7 years ago. His words of love, self love, and affirmation, motivation, and moving forward with love got me threw a very horrible time in my life... God bless both of you ❤
Respect, respect, respect 🙏🏽
Number 1 essential factor in determining the success of any relationship in my opinion!
Mel, you have helped me activate my own self acceptance. I get a lot out of tuning in. Thanks.
@53:49 ..."you have plenty of time...the speed will make it break" -- that's GOOD!
I just knew this interview would be GAME CHANGER
Love it ! THANK YOU Mel & Jay ✨
WOW!! The bombs that Jay dropped in this episode is AMAZING. Mind blown and will be re-watching to get it all. Thank you so much.
I cried so much! Happy relieving tears! I loved this so much! I listen to jay all the time i always get something of quality from him! I look forward to my healing journey!
Oh my goodness I was crying in that meditation with my younger self 🥺🥺🥺
Only at 9mins in and that is the BEST understanding of “Love,” and the journey of the feeling of “Love” and how it matures. Thank you!
Everything is so simple, and to some degree obvious, yet incredibly profound! This was beautiful! And I just had to add, Jay has amazing eyes!
This CD has three separate relaxation/meditation sessions on it ua-cam.com/users/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq guided by a very pleasant and direct male voice. Unlike so many other products of its type, this CD does not have bad synthesizer music, does not feature a phony or affected style of narration, and does not make any bogus claims to be subliminal or to re-train the brain or any of that balderdash. What you get is 1. a guided meditation for getting into a pleasantly relaxed state of body awareness while taking a stroll (superb for those easing back into a fitness routine slowly after an illness or injury) 2. A nice long breath-awareness relaxation session that if followed diligently can put you into very deep states of full-body relaxation and mental calmness, and 3. a buddhist-inspired meditation session designed to help you develop and maintain feelings of loving kindness toward not just yourself and your friends, but toward people you don't even like. The CD makes no claims to be designed for advanced meditators or for buddhists or hindus/yoga practitioners looking for very deep and esoteric stuff. It is geared more toward the average person who just wants to develop the habit of relaxation and stress relief through natural, healthy means. him, if you happen to be reading this, keep up the good work fella, and I love your accent. I would also like to note that I have never fallen asleep while listening to this product. I would like to kindly suggest to the reviewer who said this CD makes him fall asleep, that he might want to get checked to see if he has a sleep disorder, or if he is simply not setting aside ample time for restful sleep at night. A healthy person getting adequate rest at night should be able to go into deep states of mental relaxation without dozing off, if not all the time, then most of the time.
I’m 24 and I feel like I just saved the rest of my life by watching this. Especially after the love vs ownership topic. Thank you guys❤
Just here to say - love you dear Mel . You have been a sister . Your five minutes rule has helped , and your genuine intention to help . Long live Mel , and lots of good health , happiness, and lots of energy to you , to energize many more lives 🎉❤
Smart lady miss Mel Robbins no words ma'am
This was fantastic. Please bring Jay back. Mel, you are the best. ❤❤❤
The Greeks have 8 words for love. It’s fascinating to understand that it’s a lot more than romance
Wow what a great episode! Brought tears to my eyes during the meditation part.
I learned so much through this interview! I could watch it again and again. That you both for sharing yourselves ❤
The meditation was powerful. 13 was the age I got my first boyfriend and was the first in a line of toxic relationships with those that were broken and I worked to “fix” them but my 13 year old self told me work on you then you attract the best for you. Over the last 5 years I’ve been working on me and through therapy and poetry I found my voice and my life… I found the healed me while still healing. I’m now falling in love with someone but having a totally different experience and feels amazing.
I keep replaying the meditation part of the podcast, am going thru my hardest breakup I have ever experienced at 32, Jay is right the more detail in the visualization the better you can love that younger self and the younger self has so much to say
I have been married for almost 39 years. We have been working on it. You speak so clearly. Thank you Jay. You are so authentic. I love you and . Thank you Mel.
It's so funny they've talked about that. I had a lot of first dates when I felt like interviewing my date or coach them. I never felt comfortable with it and I was totally aware of this was the first and last date. I felt kinda used even when I decided to take the train and play along. This is absolutely not a good start. This interview is soo amazing 🔥 Thank you for everything 🔥
All I can say Mel...thank you....thank you for having the podcast with Jay!! More people needs to know what love is about. Most enjoyable!!
Just wow...I love your wisdom. Thank you for sharing. Mind blown...speechless
I love this profound insight. I am 56 and I am so open to continue on my quest of inner work and all I need to learn I am so open to educating myself to what makes more sense this is incredible information for me and everyone watching and listening I love it ❤ I thank Mel and her beautiful guest he is a true teacher of life and love I am intrigue by his research on love
THANK YOU 🙏 THIS IS A MIND BLOOWING PODCAST ❤
Mel & Jay - my favorite people on UA-cam ❤️❤️
This is the best thing I have ever heard and as the mother of 4 daughters, it is everything I want my daughters to know as they move forward in their life and relationships.
Total lightbulb moment for Mel at 14 minutes. She will now be enlightened to an unbelievable relationship with her hubster 😻
🤔💡There is a difference between chemistry and connection…💡
I’m blown away by this excellent teaching. Thank u! Thank u! Thank u! Jay n Mel❤❤
Yes I resonate with what Mel shared. This reminded me of myself I can admit and share my vulnerability when I feel insecure I would admit my fears to my ex girlfriend but she didn't understand my sincerity and my vulnerability
Omg I'm 58 and Jay made incredible sense maybe now I have a much better idea of how to be healthier smarter in finding the right one not assume just because someone has a good job etc...means their a good catch - the tools he enlightens us to seriously invaluable THANK YOU where were you all my life 😄
Love your podcasts Mel. I love how you open your podcasts with, "hey it is your friend Mel" I love being your friend too!
That meditation made me cry
That young boy already had so much pain in his eyes
I can’t thank you enough for bringing this episode with Jay! This blew my mind so many times especially the last bit … I am in a pool of tears..
So much love and gratitude for Jay Shetty and the wisdom he shares 🙏🏼💞
A year late but still needed! I have this book, hard and audio, I keep starting and stopping because it's been hard to do! But this podcast has made me decide to finish it. I deserve to truly love myself! Thanks Mel and Jay!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I wish I could know Jay Shatty some years ago... I would be, for sure, a better person in my relationship...
Woah! The meditation was great! I never knew I had so much pain from childhood, cried while doing that. I’ll definitely visit her again to give her more love and comfort. Thank you so much Mel and Jay for doing what you do.
Very true. Totally agreed with Jay. Very clearly about ownership not partnerships. You helped me to see my my partner always wants me to do his ways, criticised if I didn't. He complain a lot, yelling, shouting to my face.....just left that toxic.
You're the best.... and Jay is the best.
What an outstanding episode.
You two both are a gift.... to see you together like this having this discussion
Is Awwwwwweeeeesome.
Thanks so much. 🎉🎉❤
Loved the meditation excercise it really puts into perspective what really matters for us and how you want to do everything in your power to make your 13self proud ❤ thank you
with a great supporting lover in my life i become unstoppable
My 2 faves 🥰
Excellent dynamic 🕊️
I hope every heart finds healing & the one that will forever make your heart smile & feel protected, finds you. Wishing us all, a lifetime of love & laughter filled tomorrows 🫶
You guys blow my mind every single time! Thank you so much for coming together on this podcast interview !!
He is such a good soul ❤️
Along with Mel 😘
Awww cried too at the meditation.. thanks both for your L💚ve..
I’m cooking breakfast fir my son and listening to this episode. I’m in tears while doing the meditation exercise 😢 thank you for this! 🙏🏼✨
Found this wisdom during separation 😭😭😭 thank you so much 🙏🏻 we need more of this clarity
👏👏👏 The love u give someone must motivate him or her to love himself more, beautiful
Thank you to two of my Favourite podcasters/mentors in this world.. I have so much respect and admiration for you both and am so very grateful for the knowledge that you empart.. Mel I love you and Jay I love you 🙏😊💖💙🇦🇺 xoxo
I love honesty…ua-cam.com/video/Nfu4j7EIGqs/v-deo.html
That inner child meditation was intense
Got this book before I knew who he was and then I ran across a podcast and was like WAIT 😮 THATS JAY SHETTY 😂 AWESOME PODCAST and great interview thanks y’all ❤
Mel, my dream is to start a podcast. PLEASE do an episode on how you got started.
I am so happy to hear this conversation. I’ve been journeying through breaking the conditioning of what we are taught is love and relationships. I love to hear such great words toward real love.
I have discovered that the opposite of love is not hate, but selfishness.
We must let others be themselves and focus on our own growth and self love.
Seems like the perfect Valentine's Day gift for your better half or a friend.
"That is so humbling..." WOW. He is so humble. Many would have had a big head from that introduction! That is so inspiring and gives me hope in humanity!
i just watched his conversation with Drew Barrymore. what a beautiful open conversation that was as well!
Absolutely brilliant. Wonderful to see you both together....as always, Jay Shetty your words come straight from the heart. I truly don't beleive that anyone can share such beautiful wisdom in the way that you do. You are a gift, can't wait to buy the book. I have read THINK LIKE MONK three times and have offered it to many friends and clients. Mel, awesome as always. Thank you both
What? Straight from other people’s mouth you idiot …ua-cam.com/video/Nfu4j7EIGqs/v-deo.html
Every day I’m fighting with rumination to get back my time, time of freedom from rumination when I can think about something else. I reduce watching narcissistic content, I started running on a treadmill, I’m watching comedy shows, I’m learning Spanish- just to be able to switch my mind from rumination. After 3 years of constant fighting I started winning my life back.
Not even 20 mins into this, and I'm stunned at how much I didn't know I didn't know! This is so enlightening. Thank You.
I LOVE everything about Jay Shetty… great messages and his communication style is so genuine. Thank you!!! ❤
I tried to explain to him that he needs to focus on him and love himself first then he feels fulfilment and happy then he can have happiness to give to someone you love.
I Love Jay Shetty because he LOVES on purpose ❤
YOU NOW WHAT... you BOTH....
THIS CONVERSATION..
IT WAS LIKE...
.....HEAVEN.....