All the love to Manifestelle Learn the game you're playing and play it well! ua-cam.com/video/LfSn3VX6PdE/v-deo.html YOU ARE NOT UGLY! You're Just Not Being Introspective- The BSP - Ep 123 ua-cam.com/video/IbleDIH8PLw/v-deo.html BUY MY MERCH: www.teepublic.com/stores/humansgonnahuman?ref_id=28763
I'm part of the 40% male audience! A lot of the stuff you talk about doesn't match my experiences at all but it's fun to watch anyways, life would be so boring if I only watched male content creators that cater to men.
There are plenty of women who are not the most conventionally attractive who have a provider husband and/or make bank. And the ones that are financially independent *choose* not to fuck with the broke dudes. Idk why that makes people so mad. Or why people get so mad at women for having standards, even if they're not, "attractive."
She didn't say that at all. She said women without money or status have to cater to the beauty myth. Nothing about ugly women not having status or money or a husband. We all know that's not true.
I watch her occasionally & am obviously a viewer of yours. While she has some intensely outlandish views she also has a lot that's based. I personally identify as a spoiled sahm but I still work incredibly hard. I picked a man who had the capacity to be a high earner, married him and have three beautiful children. While I'm madly in love with him there is truth to the beauty as currency, knowing it and working it to get the life you deserve.
The concept of being spoiled is for the man to create the shelter for the woman to be shaded in, and while she’s protected she’s able to take care of the people in that shade- her family and community Basically a spoiled woman will spoil those around her, the opposite of hurt people hurt people It’s not dissolving the women’s ability to do anything at all but ensuring the woman of protected so that she can in turn spoil and give back to her protectors, out of love It’s traditional, I hope you understand the ‘bubble’ she’s trying to spread
3:34 I do kind of identify with the “spoiled girly” concept. I was spoiled growing up and was such a girly-girl and still am. However I do not desire the concept of which the woman in the video is giving. I am a bi woman and autistic, so I see the world VERY differently. I like to be spoiled but I like to spoil others. I also like the endearment of “princess” just because I grew up with that. But yeah, I get some overlap with this bubble of straight women who want to be spoiled and see everything in capitalistic way, but of course the overlap is only so much.
I’m bi and autistic but didn’t grow up spoiled (actually dirt poor so I’m your underprivileged counter part😂), but why do I have a feeling many of Brittany followers could also likely be bi and autistic 😂😂
@@dddaaa69651. when did they ever say/imply that?? 2. omg you have no profile pic and you're insulting someone, you're a bot/npc. most would rather be unique than just another fish in the sea of uninteresting + unoriginal bullies who are too scared to say shìt if it isn't anonymous
Unfortunately, I have a hard time thinking it's okay for me to die single. It's hard to get in that mindset that there isn't anything wrong with you when you have never had romantic love. I speak solely for myself and I don't even listen to those podcasts. I think it's easier to have that thought process when you aren't single or you have had a lot of relationships. I don't think my way of thinking is right btw it's just something I have to get over.
Hey, I just want to say I'm in the same boat and it's okay to feel that way. For myself, I've found that cultivating other "loves" in my life has been the key to contentment, and I would recommend that to all people whether they are in relationships or not. People expect their SOs to not just be their spouse, but to also be their confidant, their best friend, their healer, their pastor, their therapist, their coach, their trainer etc. It is unrealistic. It is also unrealistic to expect that every single person will be coupled. We could all do with a little more investment in ourselves and a life that is truly balanced. We can feel love when doing something we care about, spending time with animals, meditating, hanging with friends etc. There will be days when it feels tough. But the big secret is, even coupled people have those days too. Keep going and investing in you. Life cannot be reduced to coupledom, because it is so incomprehensibly vast, rich and beautiful. You got this.
I feel like she comes from a middle to upper-middle class Southern Chinese background, where girls are often raised spoiled and to find a rich man to take care of them rather than to put in the effort to be independent and academically and career successful like Northern Chinese girls and working class Southern Chinese girls are raised.
11:16 I watch all types of content. One of my aunts, who is both an extremely wise and an extremely foolish person depending on the domain, once told me: "Hasta del más ignorante uno aprende." You learn something deep and profound even from the most ignorant of people. God willing, I will always remember those words.
I like Elle's videos and have benefitted from them. I certainly am not a "spoiled girlie" and wouldn't want to be. Elle's audience is not spoiled women like the insanely entitled women depicted in the TikToks the manosphere bros are obsessed with finding. Her audience is women who have received the thin end of the stick from men and need a self-confidence boost. The main problem with the women in her vbideos is that they are too nice.
I only stumbled upon this video because I follow Elle. I am a AuDHD, feminist, queer, and nonbinary. And yea, I am a spoiled girly, definitely not a bro or bruh. I am just here out of curiosity since you don't seem totally deuchy.
14:39 This is where speaking in absolute misses the point. The guys that liked her in one way and the guys calling her mid are not the same. This is why we have words like some, a few or just the good old statement of not all. This is part of the problem of online social media, people thinking that it is everybody and it is not.
That's kind of the truth with everything. I always hear people say "you can't win. If you wear too much makeup you get criticized for that, if you don't wear enough, you get criticized for that". Just replace makeup with about any topic and it's the same. What these people don't understand, is the people criticizing you for one thing are not the same people criticizing you for the other. You're just seeing two groups respond to two extremes. Instead of being upset about "not being able to win", they need to have a more logical mindset of "you can't please everybody, so stop paying attention to critics".
This video was just a bit strange. This was just showing some signs of being a pick me and I don’t mean that to come across as being rude. I really enjoy your content on UA-cam as of late, but this was a miss. lol. I can’t find another way to describe it other than pick-me. It seems as though you miss how men have held so much power in our society and that’s why there is a power imbalance between men and women and our actions. It’s not human vs human. I mean biologically it is, yes. lol. But I’m half way through your video. Hopefully, it gets better. This topic is way too nuanced to be so causal about.
its true that there has historically been a power imbalance but in the modern world these things (whilst still existing) have a much smaller impact on peoples lives than they used to. the patriarchy isn't going to be fully dismantled if we continue thinking in a man vs woman mindset, instead we SHOULD see each other as human vs human since then we aren't thinking through gendered stereotypes. men and women are a lot more similar than we are different and i think that is important to remember.
I mean… yeah, she’s probably not talking to you. One look at you is enough to know. Btw, Elle never talked about anyone acting like a princess or a brat.
Okay 8 minutes in and its giving pearl vibes. For somone who hates the word bestie or girly (fair, but) you use the word stupid a lot. I think they speak volumes about you and your content. I feel like I'll be seeing people talking about you soon (Edit: big thumbs)
I also don’t think that men are pursuing an obligation to be “tougher than though” or assuming a “fighting role”. I think men see the supportive fluff and see it as stupid and unproductive. Men love being told where they are going wrong and then improving on it. All other support is seen as unimportant.
cant say i relate to the spoiled label as an endearing way at least, if anything more as an insult or acknowledging your privilege (?) but dont have a huge reaction at people using it in an endearing way, more like eh, whatever
Agree with some of your points like that there isn't a point to even go on those shows or interact with many of those guys at all haha but also you have some pickme vibes here esp with comments like "I'm more like a man" which just doesn't always make sense and seem consistent for your stances. When she says spoiled girlie, even though I can understand other people finding the terms weird, she means it more as a backlash to some of modern times where women end up doing too much / labour / paying etc. for men. The dynamic and advice would apply to "very hetero" like people a lot more. I don't think Manifestelle is actually a capitalist completely too haha her tactics are more about "playing the game" to get ahead since money/resources are power and many people do want to date and don't want to just avoid men. She does encourage people to get their bag and "aim high" for men even if that is money-based though I'd say that's her personal angle on things and could depend on each person. I'm independent but also have gone for men who spoil me in various ways and do a lot for me. Sometimes I've ramped up my looks to play that game but also ramped up a range of other things so I think it's all more complex. I agree with a lot of what you said though about how "ugly people" can be more than fine though and don't need the play the game and that it would be better to think bigger and be stronger to rebel against and change society.
no. a 10 is a 10. in factual terms, which is how we scale. feeling... you're a 10 is nonsense. you can feel like a 10 all you want but the judgement is by society.
21:36 Talking about Andrew Tate and then her providing the example of her brother who self sabotages by thinking women aren't really into him sorta confuses me. I seen some of Andrew Tate's content and I seen him shit on redpill men with how defetist they are. The whole thing he was trying sell is a certain attitude to be an ideal man.
The whatever podcast rating thing I am very torn on. The women who rate themselves 10s are probably delusional and are likely to chase the wrong men because they think they “are entitled to a man of (superficial) high value”. Whatever podcast brings this up to confront this myth - which I think is fine. Deep down they probably feel insecure about their looks and so are desperately trying to gain the “power” back from men by rating themselves as 10s. This is a terrible approach as you rightly point out - you should admit that you’re not as attractive as a 10 (physically) and then not give a shit. But this takes a lot of introspection and confronting uncomfortable emotions in order to change your values. Tough to do.
Okay, ive only watched the preview, but i gotta say before i form an opinion on the content - that was way too long a preview and feminism has been around a LITTLE longer than 10 years, so, idk maybe its out of context... continue
Most people do not look good with plastic surgery. A 50 year old thinks she gets surgery and looks like she's 30, but she really just looks like a 30 year old lizard. It works out for a small few, like Demi Moore, but most people who get work done you can just tell right off the bat and it doesn't look good. Better to age gracefully and accept it.
@@turinturambar347i think you’re only considering the obvious ones because they are, uh, obvious. you would be surprised at how many people get surgery, and it’s regular people, not just celebrities. i think my mom looks amazing with her facelift. she’s 50 and she doesn’t look 30 ofc. more like a stunning 40-something-year-old, but way better than she looked at 40
Really don’t appreciate the fact that you are silent about the ongoing genocide considering the fact that you talk about being happy, healthy and kind. Not very kind to children and civilians. Loved your content, was an avid supporter and subscriber but cannot support you no longer due to your silence.
Why are you trying to draw limelight and relevance from her ? Funny how haters hate those who speak the truth and expose them but still need them for views.
All the love to Manifestelle Learn the game you're playing and play it well! ua-cam.com/video/LfSn3VX6PdE/v-deo.html
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BUY MY MERCH: www.teepublic.com/stores/humansgonnahuman?ref_id=28763
I'm part of the 40% male audience! A lot of the stuff you talk about doesn't match my experiences at all but it's fun to watch anyways, life would be so boring if I only watched male content creators that cater to men.
There are plenty of women who are not the most conventionally attractive who have a provider husband and/or make bank. And the ones that are financially independent *choose* not to fuck with the broke dudes. Idk why that makes people so mad. Or why people get so mad at women for having standards, even if they're not, "attractive."
She didn't say that at all. She said women without money or status have to cater to the beauty myth. Nothing about ugly women not having status or money or a husband. We all know that's not true.
Ugh people who use girly and bestie unironically scare me. Like Jesus please just call me a slur. Then the capitalism 😭
51:05 the way I said "unless you're ugly" at the EXACT same time and with the EXACT same tone lmfao
I love your content Britt! I also love Manifestelle’s content. I don’t apply everything she says, but I like how she analyses life.
She is def well intentioned and I'm here for it!
sometimes how manifestelles talks i'm just praying she doesnt die alone
@@chelseafootball397She could be married and you wouldn’t know, so.
she doesnt act and talk like she's in a relationship @@emmamartin4045
@chelseafootball397 I think she has a man, could be wrong though.
I watch her occasionally & am obviously a viewer of yours. While she has some intensely outlandish views she also has a lot that's based. I personally identify as a spoiled sahm but I still work incredibly hard. I picked a man who had the capacity to be a high earner, married him and have three beautiful children. While I'm madly in love with him there is truth to the beauty as currency, knowing it and working it to get the life you deserve.
So your husband would not have picked you if you were physically unattractive?
The concept of being spoiled is for the man to create the shelter for the woman to be shaded in, and while she’s protected she’s able to take care of the people in that shade- her family and community
Basically a spoiled woman will spoil those around her, the opposite of hurt people hurt people
It’s not dissolving the women’s ability to do anything at all but ensuring the woman of protected so that she can in turn spoil and give back to her protectors, out of love
It’s traditional, I hope you understand the ‘bubble’ she’s trying to spread
that's the best way to put it.
3:34 I do kind of identify with the “spoiled girly” concept. I was spoiled growing up and was such a girly-girl and still am. However I do not desire the concept of which the woman in the video is giving. I am a bi woman and autistic, so I see the world VERY differently. I like to be spoiled but I like to spoil others. I also like the endearment of “princess” just because I grew up with that. But yeah, I get some overlap with this bubble of straight women who want to be spoiled and see everything in capitalistic way, but of course the overlap is only so much.
I’m bi and autistic but didn’t grow up spoiled (actually dirt poor so I’m your underprivileged counter part😂), but why do I have a feeling many of Brittany followers could also likely be bi and autistic 😂😂
@@Drizella9 I have that feeling too that a lot of Brittany’s audience is bi and autistic. We have overlap there 😂
Omg you like anime you’re so unique
@@dddaaa69651. when did they ever say/imply that?? 2. omg you have no profile pic and you're insulting someone, you're a bot/npc. most would rather be unique than just another fish in the sea of uninteresting + unoriginal bullies who are too scared to say shìt if it isn't anonymous
@@nunyabusiness3582 1. In their post 2. Lmao
Unfortunately, I have a hard time thinking it's okay for me to die single. It's hard to get in that mindset that there isn't anything wrong with you when you have never had romantic love. I speak solely for myself and I don't even listen to those podcasts. I think it's easier to have that thought process when you aren't single or you have had a lot of relationships. I don't think my way of thinking is right btw it's just something I have to get over.
It's normal to want and/or desire to have a partner in life, it is the way we all got to be here (be born) in the first place, it's human nature!
Well, you will probably die single anyway, unless you marry someone significantly younger than you. Men have lower life expectancy
Hey, I just want to say I'm in the same boat and it's okay to feel that way. For myself, I've found that cultivating other "loves" in my life has been the key to contentment, and I would recommend that to all people whether they are in relationships or not. People expect their SOs to not just be their spouse, but to also be their confidant, their best friend, their healer, their pastor, their therapist, their coach, their trainer etc. It is unrealistic. It is also unrealistic to expect that every single person will be coupled. We could all do with a little more investment in ourselves and a life that is truly balanced. We can feel love when doing something we care about, spending time with animals, meditating, hanging with friends etc.
There will be days when it feels tough. But the big secret is, even coupled people have those days too.
Keep going and investing in you. Life cannot be reduced to coupledom, because it is so incomprehensibly vast, rich and beautiful. You got this.
I feel like she comes from a middle to upper-middle class Southern Chinese background, where girls are often raised spoiled and to find a rich man to take care of them rather than to put in the effort to be independent and academically and career successful like Northern Chinese girls and working class Southern Chinese girls are raised.
If seems she is philippino
She is philiphino
She comes from a working class family. Her father and male relatives just thought her truth about men, and how to protect herself
Also, she _is_ financially independent, has a university degree, and says to women that you should always have your own money
@@almamater489she does. She just has expectations of the men she dates. Thats all.
11:16 I watch all types of content. One of my aunts, who is both an extremely wise and an extremely foolish person depending on the domain, once told me: "Hasta del más ignorante uno aprende." You learn something deep and profound even from the most ignorant of people. God willing, I will always remember those words.
I like Elle's videos and have benefitted from them. I certainly am not a "spoiled girlie" and wouldn't want to be. Elle's audience is not spoiled women like the insanely entitled women depicted in the TikToks the manosphere bros are obsessed with finding. Her audience is women who have received the thin end of the stick from men and need a self-confidence boost. The main problem with the women in her vbideos is that they are too nice.
I only stumbled upon this video because I follow Elle. I am a AuDHD, feminist, queer, and nonbinary. And yea, I am a spoiled girly, definitely not a bro or bruh. I am just here out of curiosity since you don't seem totally deuchy.
You are a “spoiled” girly? And non binary at the same time? So, what does non binary mean then?
@@mahneekaha.nightmare5220 whatever they want, that’s the point…
@@aliacordoves550 There is no point🤣
14:39 This is where speaking in absolute misses the point. The guys that liked her in one way and the guys calling her mid are not the same. This is why we have words like some, a few or just the good old statement of not all. This is part of the problem of online social media, people thinking that it is everybody and it is not.
That's kind of the truth with everything. I always hear people say "you can't win. If you wear too much makeup you get criticized for that, if you don't wear enough, you get criticized for that". Just replace makeup with about any topic and it's the same. What these people don't understand, is the people criticizing you for one thing are not the same people criticizing you for the other. You're just seeing two groups respond to two extremes. Instead of being upset about "not being able to win", they need to have a more logical mindset of "you can't please everybody, so stop paying attention to critics".
@@turinturambar347I agree, but sometimes people are being hypocritical. But other times people are also generalizing too
10 years might not be a long time in the span of human history but it's a long time in the span of human life.
As a man in the community, I can confirm we are indeed wonderful.
This video was just a bit strange. This was just showing some signs of being a pick me and I don’t mean that to come across as being rude. I really enjoy your content on UA-cam as of late, but this was a miss. lol. I can’t find another way to describe it other than pick-me. It seems as though you miss how men have held so much power in our society and that’s why there is a power imbalance between men and women and our actions. It’s not human vs human. I mean biologically it is, yes. lol. But I’m half way through your video. Hopefully, it gets better. This topic is way too nuanced to be so causal about.
its true that there has historically been a power imbalance but in the modern world these things (whilst still existing) have a much smaller impact on peoples lives than they used to. the patriarchy isn't going to be fully dismantled if we continue thinking in a man vs woman mindset, instead we SHOULD see each other as human vs human since then we aren't thinking through gendered stereotypes. men and women are a lot more similar than we are different and i think that is important to remember.
low key most people on twitter and tick tock are kids tbh. Adults are on facebook arguing about politics all day.
I don't think those women were confused about being judged and rated. They were prepared for it and like you said, did it to boost their page ratings.
Brittany's initials aptly describe her content. We should all strive to make life more than a game of winners and losers.
Whatever podcast: what do you rate yourself?
Me: uhhh, depends who you ask?
We NEED a BrittanySimonxJoeRogan podcast episode NOWWWW! I’m here for it 100 percent. It would be so littttt 🔥
Her comment section is consistently the most miserable women in America.
I mean… yeah, she’s probably not talking to you. One look at you is enough to know. Btw, Elle never talked about anyone acting like a princess or a brat.
I'm not trying to be mean but I agree with you. In fact Manifestelle is more feminist that pseudo feminist misogynist owner of that channel.
Okay 8 minutes in and its giving pearl vibes. For somone who hates the word bestie or girly (fair, but) you use the word stupid a lot. I think they speak volumes about you and your content. I feel like I'll be seeing people talking about you soon
(Edit: big thumbs)
Let 👏 Women 👏 Slayyy 👏👄💅
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title game on POINT!!!! 50 points to hufflepuff!
@@BrittanySimon I see no message?
I also don’t think that men are pursuing an obligation to be “tougher than though” or assuming a “fighting role”. I think men see the supportive fluff and see it as stupid and unproductive. Men love being told where they are going wrong and then improving on it. All other support is seen as unimportant.
cant say i relate to the spoiled label as an endearing way at least, if anything more as an insult or acknowledging your privilege (?) but dont have a huge reaction at people using it in an endearing way, more like eh, whatever
I like both of you
I love Elle
Get help
@@jeanniemaycrawford4466 why ?
@@lilyl8927 you'll turn into a femcel
Agree with some of your points like that there isn't a point to even go on those shows or interact with many of those guys at all haha but also you have some pickme vibes here esp with comments like "I'm more like a man" which just doesn't always make sense and seem consistent for your stances.
When she says spoiled girlie, even though I can understand other people finding the terms weird, she means it more as a backlash to some of modern times where women end up doing too much / labour / paying etc. for men. The dynamic and advice would apply to "very hetero" like people a lot more. I don't think Manifestelle is actually a capitalist completely too haha her tactics are more about "playing the game" to get ahead since money/resources are power and many people do want to date and don't want to just avoid men. She does encourage people to get their bag and "aim high" for men even if that is money-based though I'd say that's her personal angle on things and could depend on each person. I'm independent but also have gone for men who spoil me in various ways and do a lot for me. Sometimes I've ramped up my looks to play that game but also ramped up a range of other things so I think it's all more complex.
I agree with a lot of what you said though about how "ugly people" can be more than fine though and don't need the play the game and that it would be better to think bigger and be stronger to rebel against and change society.
Spicy Brittany is the best Brittany.
As a member of your audience I in fact do not identify with the spoiled girly concept
You should watch Elle's video on the concept of a "spoiled girly"
no. a 10 is a 10. in factual terms, which is how we scale. feeling... you're a 10 is nonsense. you can feel like a 10 all you want but the judgement is by society.
21:36 Talking about Andrew Tate and then her providing the example of her brother who self sabotages by thinking women aren't really into him sorta confuses me. I seen some of Andrew Tate's content and I seen him shit on redpill men with how defetist they are. The whole thing he was trying sell is a certain attitude to be an ideal man.
You need to watch hours and hours of Tate to understand his work. Truly, a fascinating working history.
Tell me about it Brittany!!!
I'll be your Joe Rogan
Do you watch The Speech Professor? I love his takes on things..
long live thoughts for thots 🤪😙
🤣🤣
The whatever podcast rating thing I am very torn on. The women who rate themselves 10s are probably delusional and are likely to chase the wrong men because they think they “are entitled to a man of (superficial) high value”. Whatever podcast brings this up to confront this myth - which I think is fine. Deep down they probably feel insecure about their looks and so are desperately trying to gain the “power” back from men by rating themselves as 10s. This is a terrible approach as you rightly point out - you should admit that you’re not as attractive as a 10 (physically) and then not give a shit. But this takes a lot of introspection and confronting uncomfortable emotions in order to change your values. Tough to do.
Call it spoiled all you want but this girl is literally doing a podcast in a car so... 🤷♀️
Okay, ive only watched the preview, but i gotta say before i form an opinion on the content - that was way too long a preview and feminism has been around a LITTLE longer than 10 years, so, idk maybe its out of context... continue
I vote Britney on Joe rogan
Do you think plastic surgery counts for the attractive rating?
Most people do not look good with plastic surgery. A 50 year old thinks she gets surgery and looks like she's 30, but she really just looks like a 30 year old lizard. It works out for a small few, like Demi Moore, but most people who get work done you can just tell right off the bat and it doesn't look good. Better to age gracefully and accept it.
@@turinturambar347i think you’re only considering the obvious ones because they are, uh, obvious. you would be surprised at how many people get surgery, and it’s regular people, not just celebrities. i think my mom looks amazing with her facelift. she’s 50 and she doesn’t look 30 ofc. more like a stunning 40-something-year-old, but way better than she looked at 40
Really don’t appreciate the fact that you are silent about the ongoing genocide considering the fact that you talk about being happy, healthy and kind. Not very kind to children and civilians. Loved your content, was an avid supporter and subscriber but cannot support you no longer due to your silence.
I wish you well ♡ I have spoken about it to the best of my ability but not made any clips. My stance is clear for people who watch me on the regular.
🤡
Here's to letting go of "ugly"
Sorry if annoying, I'm just training my recommendations hopefully
Haters are obsessed with Manifestlle lol😂
Why are you trying to draw limelight and relevance from her ? Funny how haters hate those who speak the truth and expose them but still need them for views.