You can be a good person and a bad parent. Being a parent is SO important, please do right by your kids THE FULL unedited live stream is 3 hours of coverage, if you want to watch the whole context: ua-cam.com/users/liveRRwbhzmqvRw
@@thereallazygirl of course. Both parents should be committed and present. However the problem in this and countless other scenarios like it is certainly not the children. Its the parents. In this case clearly the father(s).
She's 33 with 5 kids. She doesnt need Caleb's help to look bad. She needs to realize that this is the result of her actions, he may have amplified it, But she chose to go on the show. She chose to bring this on. Accountability is missing with this one.
Yup, they apply, they have loads of prior content to look over to see what the vibe will be and read/sign an agreement regarding filming, the financial statements they needed before the guest arrives, which is multiple steps to confirm what information is revealed & if they are okay with it. Seeing it after the fact isn’t easy ofc, her life isn’t easy, taking accountability doesn’t mean she’s failed, it’s a step in the right direction. 5 kids is a lot, but with kids come responsibility, there comes a point where she has to make changes, even small ones. But nope, the TikTok she made shows that she cannot take any accountability, she would rather place blame on to Caleb. He isn’t perfect, she is also warranted to feel that way about the comments bc it is vulnerable information but what would’ve been great is even a small change that betters her life. These videos will now be on the internet for these kids to see eventually. it’s madness i feel awful for her (I just got to the student loan part holy shit)
I was expecting this to be something that occurred BEHIND THE SCENES … Caleb roasts people, everyone, that’s what he does. He roasted her and it felt real so she couldn’t take it
@@maeghangiles7488I’ve seen videos where the guest and Caleb talk about poses for the thumbnail, he has worked with the guests with titles too which has been confirmed by various guests, some of which have come back to complain about how they don’t like they way they were portrayed. there’s lots of information that the guest gets prior to going as well as a plethora of content to watch to get the vibe. It’s not the early days anymore so in regards to that, the guests don’t have reasons to be totally oblivious to how the show is, how he acts and even looking at comments to see how they’d reacted to prior guests. They don’t even need to watch full videos to grasp that.
She is disappointed with the way Caleb treated her when it is her lack of respect for herself that caused her to make decisions that fucked her own life. Her anger is misdirected.
No it's not. You don't treat people like shit who are genuinely looking for help and to change. You are litterally punishing them for asking for help. On the other hand, Seems like this is what he does, so scorpion and the frog situation. She choice poorly going to him.
@@greylaternif she wanted a more serious financial show, she should have called Dave Ramsey or a licensed financial fiduciary. She knew the show and asked to be on. She's looking for a payout. She should take his advice. She still has time to have at least 5 more kids, she is not done with bad decisions because she never learns.
@@nickhutcheson8580 Really? Critiquing and jokes are fine and dandy. Hell even straight poke fun at dumb choices, real friends do that to each other. So I agree with you there BUT there is a line were you are just being a assshole and your actually making the problem worse. Dude crossed that line period.
I think Caleb needs to be careful with some of these guests. A lot of them need mental health help more so than financial advice, his style isn't necessarily compatible with that. He needs better pre-screening Also no after show support once the video hits, it's difficult for lay people to handle internet scrutiny. I feel bad for this woman her energy seems so despondent and defeated. I don't mean to be rude but she seems way older than 32. 5 children is just madness when your affairs are not in order and so unfair on the children.
I love that we're glossing over the fact that Caleb is very open and clear about everyone getting clearly informed with an email pre-show info video of the process, a sit down pre-show agreement with contracts that have them also agree to the thumbnail and title that they help choose. Guests also are free to choose what makes it, or doesnt, into the final cut of the video. She chose and agreed to every single step of this process.
Yeah, I'm a stylist so I do my own,but the upkeep is every two weeks, and she has a lot longer hair, so even more product needed. He didn't even bring up her hair. She got off easier than advice I'd have given her.
almost none of the people caleb bring on the show are ready for the exposure to the internet. it takes a specific type of person to take the absolute baseline amount of harassment from the subset of psychopaths that hat on everyone. even if people are “ok” with it they often don’t understand what they’re signing up for. Caleb might have to consider some anonymity for the non celebrities that he brings on. i don’t think this woman is right to blame caleb but if she cant manage her finances to even a basic amount she definitely can’t manage being in what for most people would be a viral video
Also people usually think they are very good and have good reasons and when they see themselves from an outside perspective it's very painfull for them. And then they feel bad and don't see they are disapointed in themselves so they project into other people.
@@anamaya6706it should be a wake up call for them but can set them back further if they had the wrong idea about what the show can do to help them thus feeling slighted
Bullshit. Have you looked at the application to be on his channel? You know what you’re getting into and you deserve whatever criticism you get. Smart people would know what to expect, she isn’t one of them.
"I'm not somebody who puts my shit out there" why did you go on a show that was going to go through your personal financial information and life in the first place then?
In this day and age. Going public is a very effective way of getting heard by a decent chunk of population. Is it a good method? I don't think so, but it is what it is.
It feels like shes never actually watched his content prior to going on the show. Some of his thumbnails and titles are wild. So she either never looked into him or was okay with his approach until it was directed towards her.
A lot of people, women in general, think they are capable of a lot more than they are. They think very highly of themselves because other people lie to them instead of telling them the truth about themselves and forcing them to face it. So once they do face it, it's hard to handle. Just like when people insist on being told the truth because they can handle it, but when told the truth, they can't.
@@honestyisadyingvirtue I really don't find this a gendered issue. Men notoriously cannot handle any amount of criticism and regularly show that on Caleb's show
@@E.IS.M.I.A. I literally said it's not a gendered issue. I gave a counter point to them claiming that women cant handle criticism. My comment is only generalizing if you remove the context of what I'm responding to.
I was ready to be sad and disappointed because I love Caleb's show but I realized that this lady is delusional and probably stirring drama on TT for a pay day.
OMG, the end! I hate the way most people even PET parent. Treating it like an accessory. My man's sister has 3 cats, big cat girl, and she mentioned in passing they've never been to the vet once... I was so sick to my stomach.
For some reason I dont believe her, people now days use the word harassing very loosely. And keep having kids when you are going through $$$ trouble is irresponsible. Im sorry but after listening to all of this i would be slamming the table too. And the only way to get more money is by getting another part time a get child support from the baby daddys.
She can legit budget, stopping the unnecessary purchases, eating out etc. Her final debt is horrible and for the most recent statement to display even worse spending on eating out etc despite knowing she’s coming on the show is wild but making those habits will set her up for more financial stability and potentially less stress. It’s messy man
The refusal to use birth control or condoms really bothers me. We live in an era with so many options for how to not have kids that it’s crazy to me that someone wouldn’t take advantage of it. I don’t take hormonal birth control because it’s messed with my mood in the past in a pretty serious way, but you best believe I have my boyfriend wear a condom every. single. time. Abortion is not an option for me, if I get pregnant I’m either keeping the pregnancy or giving the baby up for adoption. I’m thankful that all the men I’ve been with haven’t been little shits about wearing condoms. I think if I hear one more grown ass person complain about how “they don’t feel as good” I will punch a wall. You know what else doesn’t feel good? Being a neglected oopsie baby because your parents can’t think beyond their pants
Student loans are a nightmare. I have been paying mine since I was 17 and finally almost done paying them. I feel her pain. I wasn't raised by my parents and had to learn a lot on my own growing up. Made a lot of mistakes in my 20's and have been homeless before which is sadly more common for military veterans than you would think. I did not learn anything about finances from my family. Self help books on finances thought me a lot after 5 years of reading and listening to them. I have no kids so it is a lot easier because I can stay anti social and work on myself while being frugal with my money. Having kids she is kind of forced to be more social which cost money.
That was what I was wondering. If you are going to go on a show, watch a few episodes to see if this is what you want to do. I don’t know if she did or if she might have thought he wouldn’t go in so hard on her 🤷🏽♀️
I was NOT expecting the student loans 😅 This poor woman. I can understand being not properly educated by your parents, BUT that is not a crutch to use through life.
I just feel so so sorry for the kids. It doesnt seem like the childrens best interests have ever been in mind when she was making decisions. And now the whole family is in such a bad situation 😢
I always watch Caleb. I feel like his snark and odd humor make him more relatable. This lady could have called off the interview at any time. If she was truly offended she could have noped out of there. I wonder if some people go on his show ( or shows like his ) looking for free stuff. 🤔
I think shaming doesn't work because people can create their own world filled with people who will lie to them and gas them up, so they can block out the dissenting voices. And these days when you can just attribute criticism and shame to misogyny, harassment, SA, SH, racism, ___Phobia, narcissism, etc. it makes it easier to dismiss and dodge accountability.
People need to remember that children are a financial decision!! Children are beautiful and necessary for society, but they are also a cost sink. You do not make money from having a child.
I think I see her strategy. Instead of working on financial discipline she wants to paint a narrative where she can sue for the money. Also in her case she probably should file for bank ruptcy. With 5 kids if she gets approved for bankruptcy she will more likely get approved for food stamps if she reapplies with bankruptcy on her record. Really tricky thought because each state has different rules in terms of food stamps.
I feel like Caleb was low key pissed about his hair appointment during this and it probably made him go a little harder on her than normal. But ngl I laughed at the out the gate roast lol we were all thinking it. He just said it.
I like Caleb’s videos but his advice was not good on this one and in general for parents. He doesn’t understand that parents need to be with their children for the children’s development and parents need sleep to be able to provide emotionally as well as financially for their kids.
What choices do you have though when you have 5 children and most of them don’t have fathers who provide for them? I grew up with both parents and even though they were frugal, there were still periods when things happened and we were poor. So my parents had to pick up second jobs on top of working OT at their first jobs to make ends meet until they could get to a stable place again. I’m in my 30s now and my mom’s voice still breaks when she says that she doesn’t remember parts of my childhood because she had to work so much. But that’s life. Sometimes you have to sacrifice quality time in order to make sure your kids have a stable home and full bellies. This lady has 5 kids, she really doesn’t have any options but to work because she made the same mistake 5 times and is on her own because of it. On top of that, if she just sits on her hands and decides that quality time is more important than providing a stable home, her kids are going to grow up thinking that that’s normal. That’s how people get stuck in cycles of poverty and end up the same or worse off than their parents. If her kids see her grind, maybe they’ll get it through their heads that parenthood is no joke and that their mom sacrificed to give them a better future.
You did really good job editing this Brittany. 👏 I think she misunderstood he was just joking. Hopefully she get more money from clout she might be getting from this to help her out but she should went about this another way and tried do something postive on UA-cam or tiktok for extra money and claim bankruptcy. Definitely not get other job though how she went see look after kids if she working all time 😩
She knew that going in how it works. The staff tell you about the thumbnail in the green room, you’re told about the marketing clips and comments. Caleb is there to help, but he’s also making content. You have to help yourself, do the work and be a better mother not play victim all the time.
I had to stop watching the stream because I found it so stressful! I find it kind of heartening that Brittany is also fuming - it's an immensely complicated situation with very high stakes and a significant mental health/intergenerational trauma component that you can't just boil down to individual accountability. I DO understand the guest's concerns to a certain degree, as there is absolutely a power imbalance in the video. It seems like she saw this as an opportunity to get "free" financial advice from a professional, whereas a big part of his goal as a UA-camr is to provide entertainment (which apparently involves a level of mockery and shaming that I found pretty gross and unhelpful - and which of course set the tone for the hefty amount of moralistic judgment in the comments). Not to say that I stand behind the way that this woman is impacting her children and the choices that she's making - but if anything, I suspect that all this backlash might make things worse, because there is very little good-faith criticism going on at this point. As for Caleb, while it's empathetic to give him the excuse of running out of spoons, I feel like he (as the person in charge of filming) had many more productive options for handling his emotions other than berating her. I appreciate the conversation here, but WOOF, this was a lot.
I think Caleb and his team need to be more upfront with people and make sure they have watched at least one previous episode of financial audit so they know exactly what’s about to go down to protect themselves
I have a higher after-tax monthly income than she does and my partner makes 30% more than me. We live in Canada so it's more expensive than the U.S, but we're holding off on having kids for that reason! We want to save and be even more and be more financially stable. 5 kids with 3 different men at age 32 and being open to having more kids in this position is an interesting mindset. It's sad that her feelings were hurt from his jokes and that she's embarrassed, but her video and accusations are just not proportionate to the situation unless something happened behind the scenes. Seems like she's having a hard time facing reality and is lashing out at him because this may be the first time anyone is calling her out so directly for her poor decision making.
Caleb isn't a licensed professional financial advisor, but he has common sense with money and can provide good advice. It's also a semi-comical show, and whoever goes on the show were not forced!
Seriously most guys dont want to claim kids that aren't theirs. Because what happens is once she decides to leave you child support will be coming shortly. You will pay child support for all those kids you adopted that aren't yours. Maybe if the court systems were better and the average women wouldnt drain the piss out of men.
May be a hella hot take or my perception is skewed and I shouldn’t think like this but the setting her up with a friend thing seemed kinda sweet to me haha she mentioned wanting to be married he may have been jokingly, sensing some kind of sadness in that statement and was like well I got some nice guys over here
I’m personally not a fan of how dramatic Caleb can be especially when it’s something as personal as someone’s finances, but it works. He’s just going to continue to have these situations come up. It really isn’t worth going on his show with how the internet is and I think people realize that in hindsight
@@BrittanySimon I think I'd enjoy that so much more as a viewer as well, many people could learn and relate more. Would be the best of both worlds for Caleb!
She makes more than the average American. She alone makes more than my two person income and we can manage bringing up our kids. We constantly have to budget and save for everything. Absolutely no vacations, basically camping is our Caribbean vacation.
People get food stamps that dont really need it. They maximize the amount they can get and they sell the food stamps for 80 percent of what they are valued at so they can buy booze and cigarettes with the cash. This happens all the time, my mother retired but used to deal with welfare and food stamps as a job.
I am still on the fence regarding Caleb. I enjoy when he dunks on people who take advantage of others, but i hate when he roasts people who genuinely need help. But i can't stop watching. Tldr: i didn't think he really helps anyone. The value he provides is entertainment only. Also, great take, Brittany! Dropped a like :D.
I think he doesn't have the wisdom to help the way these people need. He also seems young himself, I think he's late twenties. 🤔 Maybe he's just going to be messy at this before he's better.
Yea, the comments about 3 jobs and shes the full time care taker to her kids... not helping at all. The whole situation is just really sad and the kids are the ones that suffer bc of bad decisions. Very sad all around, time to get off the internet and pet my dog😂😂
I agree with a lot of his statements. I deal with people like this that say the world is out to get them and they have no money. I would look at them and laugh. They make more money than me no kids like me, they have $300 dollar cable package, i phones, video subscriptions and eat out everyday. But they tell me it must be nice i can afford steak every other day. Get your priorities straight.
I’m sorry like these people don’t go on the show not having ever seen it before I just don’t believe that, Caleb uses sensational thumbnails, and you should know that if you’re bad with money you’re gonna get roasted. It is what it is. If you can’t handle that don’t apply to be on the show 🤷🏼♀️
Guess she thought the show was a game. I watch the show very regularly and people consistently go on there thinking he’s going to give them money or something and he’s like “wtf no?” I’m so shocked people go on that show without knowing what it’s about. Like where do you find forms to fill out during the day? Lol just blindly filling out shit without even knowing what you’re doing?
To be fair I think there were 2 People that actually got money from Caleb. The Homeless guy where Caleb offered to pay the first few therapy sessions and setting him up with a place to live and the woman that had to basically adopt her siblings which threw her under the water financially (Think he funded the kids christmas gifts)
Sorry but as someone who works 2 jobs it’s less stressful on you and your body to pick up a shift at a place you already work at than have to juggle 2 jobs. At least that’s been my experience. Much rather work a 16hr shift at one job than 2 8hr shift or even one 8hr shift and a part time shift
It's sad to say, but I've known so many people like her throughout my life. I try to be fair and empathetic, but I can't understand the poor decision making... one bad decision after the other, especially when it comes to having children.
They think by going to a Financial Advisor that someone is going to review everything, tell them things aren't that bad, hold their hand, take on all their adult financial responsibility, and fix or solve all their financial problems, and do everything for them. These people think they can act and behave immaturely for along period and then go to someone better and smarter then them, so someone else can miraculously fix everything for them and then everything will be fixed and reset like starting a video game all over from the beginning. They want to avoid growing up and solving their own problems because its scary, difficult, and hard. Welcome to adulthood people, now get to work! She's calling SA because she doesn't want to take accountability for her piss poor life decisions and she cares way to much about her image to the world and other peoples opinions of her. She needs to stop being so damn emotional and wanting attention and validation from everyone else in the world. If she didn't like what Caleb said to her, what he joked around about, or how he handled her overall situation then its simple ignore him, do your own thing, and have nothing more to do with him, its that simple and don't worry about other peoples judgement of you. Don't be an emotional immature crybaby calling foul on TikTok in order to attempt to detour everyone's judgement of her and turn it around on Caleb. I know many women who do that and its so childish. Its not Caleb's fault that you made a lifetime of piss poor adult decisions that ruined your chances for a better life because no other guy with brains would want to take on the responsibility of 5 kids that aren't his and $109K in additional debt. If you can't afford it, you don't deserve to have it. If you want or need it then do whatever you have to do in order to earn it, no matter what that means, especially for your children. Parents who always say I would do anything for my children, then put your money where your mouth is and prove it. If you racked up $109K in debt, then learn to budget, fine-tune your monthly spending, make money doing anything and everything, paydown your debt, and never have any fun until your in a better financial position. Your life was hard before, then you made it 5 times hard with adding 5 kids to the equation and each kid will cost you an average of $350K per child from 0-18. If you can't afford something, no matter how badly you want it, you shouldn't have it because you haven't earned it yet!
This lady doesn’t need anyone to make her look bad she opened her mouth thought people would feel sorry for her no you’re wrong lady you done showed everyone your true colors. She wanted a handout that’s all she went on his show thinking someone would go fund her or someone will give her money from the podcast. She’s money hungry
I think he could have approached her a little more sensitively (he could still be firm), especially if she is an abuse victim. I understand she needs the truth but it's the way he's delivering it is off point. And I agree, his slapping his hands on the table was slightly alarming.
I watched this episode and many other he acted like he does on all the episodes. If anything he showed some remorse for her compared to other guests. If you cant take a joke dont put yourself in that situation. To judge him base on his viewers i mean that is ridiculous because its freedom of speech and he doesn't share the same views as all the comments. If you watch any other show with women that have many fathers of their children they all get roasted by people in the comments. Most people watch videos just to see the comments for a good laugh.
She agreed to go on the show. She’s the one that has made bad decisions and now is blaming others. She has 5 children from 5 different dads. She is financially irresponsible. The Caleb Hammer didn’t degrade her or sexually harassed her on the show. I know many single mothers that have 2-3 jobs. As mothers we have to do whatever it takes to feed your children. From your comment, I can tell you don’t know how the poor live .
Stopped watching when you disagreed with him saying get a second job. She proved she is incapable of budgeting and even if she budgets she has little wiggle room. So she wont follow it nearly close enough to skate by for the YEARS it would take and start rolling down hill again. She refused bankruptcy. This is the best way for her. Sure he gave her "man advise' because that is the only possible way he saw her actually making it. Like he says he doesnt control the system but he will show her navigate it.
The problem with Caleb is that his show is a freak show. It may be helpful to a certain extent, but ultimately, it is for us to guilt-pleasure-watch troubled people. I used to binge-watch his show in the very beginning but at some point had to stop due to the freakishness of his guests. They are on the show for clout and not to fix their fin issues. He invites unhinged people and makes his videos very sensational. Technically, it can be okay since people can watch previous episodes and know what they are getting into. At the same time, these people are so desperate that maybe they don’t have good judgment of what they are getting themselves into (or they are dumb enough not to watch previous episodes). And to be honest Caleb just takes advantage of these peopleto make big money. At the end of the day, I don’t understand one thing: why Caleb continues to communicate or have any relationship with these unhinged people. Is he a good guy with a savior complex and co-dependency issues, or is he a bad guy who enjoys playing with unhinged? PS. To be clear: i am not on this lady side or zik’s side.
I'm the oldest of 9 children💀 But my parents are divorced so only two are fully blood siblings, so when I'm at my moms we're 5, and at my dads we're 7 since my full siblings switch weeks with me. I hope I can move out soon because I really want my own place bro.
I’ve watched the show and I do think his treatment towards her was pretty uncalled for. Just in bad taste and hard to watch but the people who watch his channel just to ridicule others certainly were there for it. I like the show and have been watching for over a year but his style has certainly changed and has shifted more towards personally attacking the guests and personal insults instead of just their finances so I can understand why she feels the way she does.
People always blame children like if having children was the problem. There are a lot of irresponsible parents. If you had one baby daddy that did not show up for you its bad luck. If you had two. You gotta figure it out. And then a third one… thats being irresponsible. There are many women who have their children, get a divorce and focus on their kids without making excuses for themselves. She was just a bad example. I know women like these, they do not even try to help themselves out and it’s always whoa is me mindset.
43:36 He was more pointing to she needs more money, and!!!! Follow a better budget. If she doesnt do this it is 62 months. And maybe some child support to feed and cloth the kids. Shes gonna have to go for bankruptcy.... ... You may not like it.... but you are also saying she needs another job.
I come from a mother of 5 who didn’t work at all who just lived off the government making less than this woman. She can make things work but just isn’t willing to put in the actual effort. And she works like 30 something hrs in believe she said yes she has young kids but I’m pretty sure she’s not doing all the work herself she’s putting half the work on the oldest child because that’s simply what parents like this do because of course they need a break because it’s just so much work and it’s the kids job to pick up her slack. And yes cooking saves so much money it’s crazy when u really add it up 1200 on food is crazy that’s like rent prices we survived pretty well on less than half of that like 400 buying things that last a while and not premade food will last u longer but people like this look for what is easy not what’s the best thing.But only reason she went on this show is that quick payment and to look for sympathy online and hopefully ask for money from people online. If she really was looking for help she wouldn’t be concerned about jokes she would be focused on doing what needs to be done but simple thing is she simply doesn’t care and it’s simpler in her mind to mooch off others. But sadly some of her kids will fallow in her footsteps that’s simply how life is 🤦🏽♂️but i do like the comment about suffering wisely that’s a pretty good point.
No she should be in prison she is stealing from all of us because she can't bother to actually control her spending. She is a terrible mother and honestly yes a bad person. Imagine subjecting your kids to those conditions willingly you have to be a bad person to do that.
I do understand what conservatives are talking when it comes to “not wanting UBI” or “subsidies for single parents households” when you see women like this. Like to me, she is someone who has repeatedly made the same bad choices time after time after time and at no point after making any of these mistakes has she bothered to reflect and learn from his bad mistakes. I can tolerate a 16 year old getting pregnant and then learning from this mistake to try and live a responsible life to make her kid’s life as good as possible. When paying your taxes essentially means propping someone like this up, becomes infuriating.
Caleb talking to these people in that way is definitely inappropriate. A lot of people know they’re messing up. The thing is Caleb clearly wants them to be vulnerable only to rip off the delusion like a bandaid. This lady has made mistakes. The kids are not a mistake. Having kids is not a mistake. It’s her choice in men. She sounds aware about this. But Caleb’s approach with the 5 kids, sex, and getting railed puts this all in one box in her mind.
she could sell like 2-3 kids and be good lol. Also working an extra job isn't a bad thing. A full-time job is 40hrs and adding one extra day instead of having a 2-day weekend is well worth it because you still get your 6-7hrs of sleep a day. Also, even if she was working 8 hours every day picking up a 4-6hr shift won't make you sleep deprived. you still have plenty of time for sleep you just don't have time for much else and when you put yourself in this position you have to make sacrifices whether it's a day off or time with your kids. We have to stop defending adults like this and give them a fking wakeup call. My aunt is almost 70, gets free housing, free utilities and is always fking broke because she can't budget and blows her money on materialistic bs which is where most of these people's money go. The best thing for her would be to get put in a lose lose situation where she ends up losing something important to her so she can hit that rock bottom and say enough is enough.
I wanna have sympathy, but there is no excuse for a woman who had five kids with three different men who gauges one of them for all the child support and doesn’t know how to properly take care of her kids a good person. She is by definition a victim of her own stupidity and she has to change and trying to get more child support is not how you change. I hate women women who live off the system and guys who they slept with and all the responsibility goes on the Dad to be the provider when the Dad would be the better parent in the first place. if he’s living his life and paying her $1000 a month I would much rather those kids be with him..
I saw the episode she was on! SHE was flirting with HIM, and he ignored it! She's mad she embarassed herself & had no common sense. She should have made herself familiar with his show before agreeing to having a financial audit on it. NO basic income, we need capitalism, not apathy, living off the government dole! If people can't educate themselves enough to manage their money, they don't deserve to have the people who work hard supporting them. She was an idiot. She gets more welfare and food stamps, each kid bumps that up. She didn't nreed to have or keep all those kids.
Not gonna lie when i saw the thumbnail for her episode i thought it was messed up. I wouldve been pissed too. But he claims guests can veto the thumbnail.
@@soapa4279 No, I understand there are far worse toxic communities out there. It's the juxtaposition of videos based around helping (oftentimes vulnerable) people with their personal finances and the toxic shame based community that troubles me the most.
@@mikey3666 I agree. I’ve been a long time subscriber to Caleb and he actually used to focus more on helping in a FIRM but sympathetic way. The comments section is just naturally how it goes since his channel exploded so it attracts a lot of awful people saying toxic things.
They collaborate with the guest about the thumbnail. Also the guest can ask for things to be edited out. He also asks people to be nice in their comments.
You can be a good person and a bad parent. Being a parent is SO important, please do right by your kids
THE FULL unedited live stream is 3 hours of coverage, if you want to watch the whole context: ua-cam.com/users/liveRRwbhzmqvRw
Tbf having 5 kids as a single mom and not taking the proper precautions to prevent it is a pretty poor financial situation
Amen
Children are NOT something to be "prevented", children are the entire PURPOSE of life.
@@sarahalderman3126 u gotta have some common sense . what are u gonna feed these kids ?
@@thereallazygirl of course. Both parents should be committed and present. However the problem in this and countless other scenarios like it is certainly not the children. Its the parents. In this case clearly the father(s).
The first time is pretty understandable but after thatttttt…. Huh???
She's 33 with 5 kids. She doesnt need Caleb's help to look bad. She needs to realize that this is the result of her actions, he may have amplified it, But she chose to go on the show. She chose to bring this on. Accountability is missing with this one.
Yup, they apply, they have loads of prior content to look over to see what the vibe will be and read/sign an agreement regarding filming, the financial statements they needed before the guest arrives, which is multiple steps to confirm what information is revealed & if they are okay with it. Seeing it after the fact isn’t easy ofc, her life isn’t easy, taking accountability doesn’t mean she’s failed, it’s a step in the right direction. 5 kids is a lot, but with kids come responsibility, there comes a point where she has to make changes, even small ones. But nope, the TikTok she made shows that she cannot take any accountability, she would rather place blame on to Caleb. He isn’t perfect, she is also warranted to feel that way about the comments bc it is vulnerable information but what would’ve been great is even a small change that betters her life. These videos will now be on the internet for these kids to see eventually. it’s madness i feel awful for her (I just got to the student loan part holy shit)
And only one of them pays child support, of the 4 different fathers. She’s insane.
I was expecting this to be something that occurred BEHIND THE SCENES … Caleb roasts people, everyone, that’s what he does. He roasted her and it felt real so she couldn’t take it
@@maeghangiles7488I’ve seen videos where the guest and Caleb talk about poses for the thumbnail, he has worked with the guests with titles too which has been confirmed by various guests, some of which have come back to complain about how they don’t like they way they were portrayed. there’s lots of information that the guest gets prior to going as well as a plethora of content to watch to get the vibe. It’s not the early days anymore so in regards to that, the guests don’t have reasons to be totally oblivious to how the show is, how he acts and even looking at comments to see how they’d reacted to prior guests. They don’t even need to watch full videos to grasp that.
She is disappointed with the way Caleb treated her when it is her lack of respect for herself that caused her to make decisions that fucked her own life. Her anger is misdirected.
No it's not. You don't treat people like shit who are genuinely looking for help and to change. You are litterally punishing them for asking for help.
On the other hand, Seems like this is what he does, so scorpion and the frog situation. She choice poorly going to him.
@@greylaternif she wanted a more serious financial show, she should have called Dave Ramsey or a licensed financial fiduciary. She knew the show and asked to be on. She's looking for a payout. She should take his advice. She still has time to have at least 5 more kids, she is not done with bad decisions because she never learns.
@@greylatern they agree to get treated that way...
@@nickhutcheson8580
No, he went too far this time. Saying it was obvious she liked to get fucked because she had five kids?? Too far!
@@nickhutcheson8580 Really? Critiquing and jokes are fine and dandy. Hell even straight poke fun at dumb choices, real friends do that to each other. So I agree with you there
BUT there is a line were you are just being a assshole and your actually making the problem worse. Dude crossed that line period.
I truly feel like she felt embarrassed and she’s conflating that feeling wirh harassment. I understand that but it’s misdirected
I think Caleb needs to be careful with some of these guests. A lot of them need mental health help more so than financial advice, his style isn't necessarily compatible with that. He needs better pre-screening Also no after show support once the video hits, it's difficult for lay people to handle internet scrutiny. I feel bad for this woman her energy seems so despondent and defeated. I don't mean to be rude but she seems way older than 32. 5 children is just madness when your affairs are not in order and so unfair on the children.
He’s hiring mental health professionals (psychologists I think from around the country). So hopefully it’ll help pre screening, post show & follow ups
@@harrietxo2310 that's good to know as some of the more decent guests have had me worried 😟
I love that we're glossing over the fact that Caleb is very open and clear about everyone getting clearly informed with an email pre-show info video of the process, a sit down pre-show agreement with contracts that have them also agree to the thumbnail and title that they help choose.
Guests also are free to choose what makes it, or doesnt, into the final cut of the video.
She chose and agreed to every single step of this process.
I’m only 15 mins in and all I can ask is: did she even watch Caleb’s show before going on it?
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Exactly what I was thinking.
I can't help but see her pink hair and think the cost of upkeeping that colour.
You can do it for pretty cheap (I’ve had this hair) but def not a necessity either way lol
I thought the exact same thing while watching this video.
Yeah, I'm a stylist so I do my own,but the upkeep is every two weeks, and she has a lot longer hair, so even more product needed. He didn't even bring up her hair. She got off easier than advice I'd have given her.
almost none of the people caleb bring on the show are ready for the exposure to the internet. it takes a specific type of person to take the absolute baseline amount of harassment from the subset of psychopaths that hat on everyone. even if people are “ok” with it they often don’t understand what they’re signing up for. Caleb might have to consider some anonymity for the non celebrities that he brings on. i don’t think this woman is right to blame caleb but if she cant manage her finances to even a basic amount she definitely can’t manage being in what for most people would be a viral video
Good point!!!
Also people usually think they are very good and have good reasons and when they see themselves from an outside perspective it's very painfull for them. And then they feel bad and don't see they are disapointed in themselves so they project into other people.
@@anamaya6706it should be a wake up call for them but can set them back further if they had the wrong idea about what the show can do to help them thus feeling slighted
Bullshit. Have you looked at the application to be on his channel? You know what you’re getting into and you deserve whatever criticism you get. Smart people would know what to expect, she isn’t one of them.
They don't use their real names unless they choose to. If she did, that's on her and we all know how good of a decision maker she is
"I'm not somebody who puts my shit out there" why did you go on a show that was going to go through your personal financial information and life in the first place then?
In this day and age. Going public is a very effective way of getting heard by a decent chunk of population. Is it a good method? I don't think so, but it is what it is.
You’re 100% about the parent thing. My parents are good people but they’re bad parents. You can be both
There you go, plain and simple. “ People are going to take advantage of things if they’re the kinds of people that take advantage of things” 👏🏽
That woman is allergic to accountability.
Also I do agree, she doesn't need another job. She needs major lifestyle changes.
It feels like shes never actually watched his content prior to going on the show. Some of his thumbnails and titles are wild. So she either never looked into him or was okay with his approach until it was directed towards her.
A lot of people, women in general, think they are capable of a lot more than they are. They think very highly of themselves because other people lie to them instead of telling them the truth about themselves and forcing them to face it. So once they do face it, it's hard to handle. Just like when people insist on being told the truth because they can handle it, but when told the truth, they can't.
@@honestyisadyingvirtue I really don't find this a gendered issue. Men notoriously cannot handle any amount of criticism and regularly show that on Caleb's show
@@tinyt0ni @honestyisadyingvirtue
See the problem here is BOTH OF YOU are generalizing a specific gender, when all of us know it’s both men and women
@@E.IS.M.I.A. I literally said it's not a gendered issue. I gave a counter point to them claiming that women cant handle criticism. My comment is only generalizing if you remove the context of what I'm responding to.
@@tinyt0ni You are absolutely correct, I must have glossed over that part, sorry about that.
I was ready to be sad and disappointed because I love Caleb's show but I realized that this lady is delusional and probably stirring drama on TT for a pay day.
5 kids without much $ and it starts becoming irresponsible behavior and harmful to the children I'm sorry.
OMG, the end! I hate the way most people even PET parent. Treating it like an accessory. My man's sister has 3 cats, big cat girl, and she mentioned in passing they've never been to the vet once... I was so sick to my stomach.
Girllll don't get me started
For some reason I dont believe her, people now days use the word harassing very loosely. And keep having kids when you are going through $$$ trouble is irresponsible. Im sorry but after listening to all of this i would be slamming the table too. And the only way to get more money is by getting another part time a get child support from the baby daddys.
She can legit budget, stopping the unnecessary purchases, eating out etc. Her final debt is horrible and for the most recent statement to display even worse spending on eating out etc despite knowing she’s coming on the show is wild but making those habits will set her up for more financial stability and potentially less stress. It’s messy man
Okay, you can't just accuse someone of SA because of a sarcastic comment not meant to be taken seriously smh 🤦🏼♀️
And, SHE hit on HIM. She was given good advice, but she won't take it. She wants a payout.
And, she laughed! Not nervously. She has "buyer's remorse". If she had listened to him and used the budget he gave her, it would have helped.
The refusal to use birth control or condoms really bothers me. We live in an era with so many options for how to not have kids that it’s crazy to me that someone wouldn’t take advantage of it. I don’t take hormonal birth control because it’s messed with my mood in the past in a pretty serious way, but you best believe I have my boyfriend wear a condom every. single. time.
Abortion is not an option for me, if I get pregnant I’m either keeping the pregnancy or giving the baby up for adoption.
I’m thankful that all the men I’ve been with haven’t been little shits about wearing condoms. I think if I hear one more grown ass person complain about how “they don’t feel as good” I will punch a wall.
You know what else doesn’t feel good? Being a neglected oopsie baby because your parents can’t think beyond their pants
Student loans are a nightmare. I have been paying mine since I was 17 and finally almost done paying them. I feel her pain. I wasn't raised by my parents and had to learn a lot on my own growing up. Made a lot of mistakes in my 20's and have been homeless before which is sadly more common for military veterans than you would think. I did not learn anything about finances from my family. Self help books on finances thought me a lot after 5 years of reading and listening to them. I have no kids so it is a lot easier because I can stay anti social and work on myself while being frugal with my money. Having kids she is kind of forced to be more social which cost money.
Has she never seen the show before? Caleb is kinda mean, that's his brand.
That was what I was wondering. If you are going to go on a show, watch a few episodes to see if this is what you want to do. I don’t know if she did or if she might have thought he wouldn’t go in so hard on her 🤷🏽♀️
I was NOT expecting the student loans 😅 This poor woman. I can understand being not properly educated by your parents, BUT that is not a crutch to use through life.
Educating pricing is different for everyone, but I spent 30K on a bachelors with in-state tuition. 30k+ on an associates seems insane to me.
It sounds like she expected him to magically fix everything and was upset that she was only paid for being on the show.
I just feel so so sorry for the kids. It doesnt seem like the childrens best interests have ever been in mind when she was making decisions. And now the whole family is in such a bad situation 😢
With a budget and meal plan, I fed a family of 6 on less than 600/ month. 1200+ is insane.
I always watch Caleb. I feel like his snark and odd humor make him more relatable. This lady could have called off the interview at any time. If she was truly offended she could have noped out of there. I wonder if some people go on his show ( or shows like his ) looking for free stuff. 🤔
I think shaming doesn't work because people can create their own world filled with people who will lie to them and gas them up, so they can block out the dissenting voices. And these days when you can just attribute criticism and shame to misogyny, harassment, SA, SH, racism, ___Phobia, narcissism, etc. it makes it easier to dismiss and dodge accountability.
People need to remember that children are a financial decision!! Children are beautiful and necessary for society, but they are also a cost sink. You do not make money from having a child.
I think I see her strategy. Instead of working on financial discipline she wants to paint a narrative where she can sue for the money. Also in her case she probably should file for bank ruptcy. With 5 kids if she gets approved for bankruptcy she will more likely get approved for food stamps if she reapplies with bankruptcy on her record. Really tricky thought because each state has different rules in terms of food stamps.
I feel like Caleb was low key pissed about his hair appointment during this and it probably made him go a little harder on her than normal. But ngl I laughed at the out the gate roast lol we were all thinking it. He just said it.
I've been saying this for years thank you for saying that "you're not a bad person but you're a bad momz
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If you think she doesnt know selling and buying foodstamps is illegal, you're lying to yourself.
I like Caleb’s videos but his advice was not good on this one and in general for parents. He doesn’t understand that parents need to be with their children for the children’s development and parents need sleep to be able to provide emotionally as well as financially for their kids.
What choices do you have though when you have 5 children and most of them don’t have fathers who provide for them? I grew up with both parents and even though they were frugal, there were still periods when things happened and we were poor. So my parents had to pick up second jobs on top of working OT at their first jobs to make ends meet until they could get to a stable place again. I’m in my 30s now and my mom’s voice still breaks when she says that she doesn’t remember parts of my childhood because she had to work so much. But that’s life. Sometimes you have to sacrifice quality time in order to make sure your kids have a stable home and full bellies. This lady has 5 kids, she really doesn’t have any options but to work because she made the same mistake 5 times and is on her own because of it. On top of that, if she just sits on her hands and decides that quality time is more important than providing a stable home, her kids are going to grow up thinking that that’s normal. That’s how people get stuck in cycles of poverty and end up the same or worse off than their parents. If her kids see her grind, maybe they’ll get it through their heads that parenthood is no joke and that their mom sacrificed to give them a better future.
At 52:30 when you pause on caleb in that position with the mic... i lost it 😂 That is how her whole episode feels. Poor girl.
Caleb does need to reel it in a little bit. Good intent and very often poor delivery.
You did really good job editing this Brittany. 👏 I think she misunderstood he was just joking. Hopefully she get more money from clout she might be getting from this to help her out but she should went about this another way and tried do something postive on UA-cam or tiktok for extra money and claim bankruptcy. Definitely not get other job though how she went see look after kids if she working all time 😩
She knew that going in how it works. The staff tell you about the thumbnail in the green room, you’re told about the marketing clips and comments. Caleb is there to help, but he’s also making content. You have to help yourself, do the work and be a better mother not play victim all the time.
I had to stop watching the stream because I found it so stressful! I find it kind of heartening that Brittany is also fuming - it's an immensely complicated situation with very high stakes and a significant mental health/intergenerational trauma component that you can't just boil down to individual accountability. I DO understand the guest's concerns to a certain degree, as there is absolutely a power imbalance in the video. It seems like she saw this as an opportunity to get "free" financial advice from a professional, whereas a big part of his goal as a UA-camr is to provide entertainment (which apparently involves a level of mockery and shaming that I found pretty gross and unhelpful - and which of course set the tone for the hefty amount of moralistic judgment in the comments). Not to say that I stand behind the way that this woman is impacting her children and the choices that she's making - but if anything, I suspect that all this backlash might make things worse, because there is very little good-faith criticism going on at this point. As for Caleb, while it's empathetic to give him the excuse of running out of spoons, I feel like he (as the person in charge of filming) had many more productive options for handling his emotions other than berating her. I appreciate the conversation here, but WOOF, this was a lot.
I feel you! I was STRESSED 😭
I think Caleb and his team need to be more upfront with people and make sure they have watched at least one previous episode of financial audit so they know exactly what’s about to go down to protect themselves
I have a higher after-tax monthly income than she does and my partner makes 30% more than me. We live in Canada so it's more expensive than the U.S, but we're holding off on having kids for that reason! We want to save and be even more and be more financially stable. 5 kids with 3 different men at age 32 and being open to having more kids in this position is an interesting mindset. It's sad that her feelings were hurt from his jokes and that she's embarrassed, but her video and accusations are just not proportionate to the situation unless something happened behind the scenes. Seems like she's having a hard time facing reality and is lashing out at him because this may be the first time anyone is calling her out so directly for her poor decision making.
Caleb isn't a licensed professional financial advisor, but he has common sense with money and can provide good advice. It's also a semi-comical show, and whoever goes on the show were not forced!
She's looking for a payout. She was 45 minutes late too.
Seriously most guys dont want to claim kids that aren't theirs. Because what happens is once she decides to leave you child support will be coming shortly. You will pay child support for all those kids you adopted that aren't yours. Maybe if the court systems were better and the average women wouldnt drain the piss out of men.
May be a hella hot take or my perception is skewed and I shouldn’t think like this but the setting her up with a friend thing seemed kinda sweet to me haha she mentioned wanting to be married he may have been jokingly, sensing some kind of sadness in that statement and was like well I got some nice guys over here
I’m personally not a fan of how dramatic Caleb can be especially when it’s something as personal as someone’s finances, but it works. He’s just going to continue to have these situations come up. It really isn’t worth going on his show with how the internet is and I think people realize that in hindsight
I also think he should choose healthier people to have on. Maybe people who are doing better with money but still need help? 😅
@@BrittanySimon I think I'd enjoy that so much more as a viewer as well, many people could learn and relate more. Would be the best of both worlds for Caleb!
I agree - but from a business perspective more people click the more dramatic it is 😒
She makes more than the average American. She alone makes more than my two person income and we can manage bringing up our kids. We constantly have to budget and save for everything. Absolutely no vacations, basically camping is our Caribbean vacation.
People get food stamps that dont really need it. They maximize the amount they can get and they sell the food stamps for 80 percent of what they are valued at so they can buy booze and cigarettes with the cash. This happens all the time, my mother retired but used to deal with welfare and food stamps as a job.
I am still on the fence regarding Caleb. I enjoy when he dunks on people who take advantage of others, but i hate when he roasts people who genuinely need help. But i can't stop watching. Tldr: i didn't think he really helps anyone. The value he provides is entertainment only.
Also, great take, Brittany! Dropped a like :D.
I think he doesn't have the wisdom to help the way these people need. He also seems young himself, I think he's late twenties. 🤔 Maybe he's just going to be messy at this before he's better.
My crock pot literally saves up hundreds of dollars a month. They are awesome
5 kids blames the world for her financial problems 😂
109k and I'm stressed paying down 5k 😳
Yea, the comments about 3 jobs and shes the full time care taker to her kids... not helping at all. The whole situation is just really sad and the kids are the ones that suffer bc of bad decisions. Very sad all around, time to get off the internet and pet my dog😂😂
She's like a Judge Judy contestant. Judge Judy would have reported her, she confessed on camera to a felony.
I agree with a lot of his statements. I deal with people like this that say the world is out to get them and they have no money. I would look at them and laugh. They make more money than me no kids like me, they have $300 dollar cable package, i phones, video subscriptions and eat out everyday. But they tell me it must be nice i can afford steak every other day. Get your priorities straight.
I’m sorry like these people don’t go on the show not having ever seen it before I just don’t believe that, Caleb uses sensational thumbnails, and you should know that if you’re bad with money you’re gonna get roasted. It is what it is. If you can’t handle that don’t apply to be on the show 🤷🏼♀️
Girl I enjoy your content so much❤
Thannnkkk yoouuuu
Guess she thought the show was a game.
I watch the show very regularly and people consistently go on there thinking he’s going to give them money or something and he’s like “wtf no?”
I’m so shocked people go on that show without knowing what it’s about. Like where do you find forms to fill out during the day? Lol just blindly filling out shit without even knowing what you’re doing?
To be fair I think there were 2 People that actually got money from Caleb. The Homeless guy where Caleb offered to pay the first few therapy sessions and setting him up with a place to live and the woman that had to basically adopt her siblings which threw her under the water financially (Think he funded the kids christmas gifts)
Having kids without proper planning is total irresponsibility.
Sorry but as someone who works 2 jobs it’s less stressful on you and your body to pick up a shift at a place you already work at than have to juggle 2 jobs. At least that’s been my experience. Much rather work a 16hr shift at one job than 2 8hr shift or even one 8hr shift and a part time shift
It's sad to say, but I've known so many people like her throughout my life. I try to be fair and empathetic, but I can't understand the poor decision making... one bad decision after the other, especially when it comes to having children.
Empathy goes out the window when she takes no accountability
I actually finished watching this episode already. Wowwwww
They think by going to a Financial Advisor that someone is going to review everything, tell them things aren't that bad, hold their hand, take on all their adult financial responsibility, and fix or solve all their financial problems, and do everything for them. These people think they can act and behave immaturely for along period and then go to someone better and smarter then them, so someone else can miraculously fix everything for them and then everything will be fixed and reset like starting a video game all over from the beginning. They want to avoid growing up and solving their own problems because its scary, difficult, and hard. Welcome to adulthood people, now get to work! She's calling SA because she doesn't want to take accountability for her piss poor life decisions and she cares way to much about her image to the world and other peoples opinions of her. She needs to stop being so damn emotional and wanting attention and validation from everyone else in the world. If she didn't like what Caleb said to her, what he joked around about, or how he handled her overall situation then its simple ignore him, do your own thing, and have nothing more to do with him, its that simple and don't worry about other peoples judgement of you. Don't be an emotional immature crybaby calling foul on TikTok in order to attempt to detour everyone's judgement of her and turn it around on Caleb. I know many women who do that and its so childish. Its not Caleb's fault that you made a lifetime of piss poor adult decisions that ruined your chances for a better life because no other guy with brains would want to take on the responsibility of 5 kids that aren't his and $109K in additional debt. If you can't afford it, you don't deserve to have it. If you want or need it then do whatever you have to do in order to earn it, no matter what that means, especially for your children. Parents who always say I would do anything for my children, then put your money where your mouth is and prove it. If you racked up $109K in debt, then learn to budget, fine-tune your monthly spending, make money doing anything and everything, paydown your debt, and never have any fun until your in a better financial position. Your life was hard before, then you made it 5 times hard with adding 5 kids to the equation and each kid will cost you an average of $350K per child from 0-18. If you can't afford something, no matter how badly you want it, you shouldn't have it because you haven't earned it yet!
This lady doesn’t need anyone to make her look bad she opened her mouth thought people would feel sorry for her no you’re wrong lady you done showed everyone your true colors. She wanted a handout that’s all she went on his show thinking someone would go fund her or someone will give her money from the podcast. She’s money hungry
I think he could have approached her a little more sensitively (he could still be firm), especially if she is an abuse victim. I understand she needs the truth but it's the way he's delivering it is off point. And I agree, his slapping his hands on the table was slightly alarming.
I watched this episode and many other he acted like he does on all the episodes. If anything he showed some remorse for her compared to other guests. If you cant take a joke dont put yourself in that situation. To judge him base on his viewers i mean that is ridiculous because its freedom of speech and he doesn't share the same views as all the comments. If you watch any other show with women that have many fathers of their children they all get roasted by people in the comments. Most people watch videos just to see the comments for a good laugh.
She agreed to go on the show. She’s the one that has made bad decisions and now is blaming others.
She has 5 children from 5 different dads. She is financially irresponsible.
The Caleb Hammer didn’t degrade her or sexually harassed her on the show.
I know many single mothers that have 2-3 jobs. As mothers we have to do whatever it takes to feed your children. From your comment, I can tell you don’t know how the poor live .
She’s definitely a bad person. She’s trying to go after the one man she had a kid with that is paying child support for more money.
Stopped watching when you disagreed with him saying get a second job. She proved she is incapable of budgeting and even if she budgets she has little wiggle room. So she wont follow it nearly close enough to skate by for the YEARS it would take and start rolling down hill again. She refused bankruptcy. This is the best way for her. Sure he gave her "man advise' because that is the only possible way he saw her actually making it. Like he says he doesnt control the system but he will show her navigate it.
What is this a cash grab by her? My first thought is she came on this show with this idea in mind to gain clout by shaming Caleb. Pathetic
“Sex workers that are strapped. Strapped? No”
You mean wrapped, I think lol
The problem with Caleb is that his show is a freak show. It may be helpful to a certain extent, but ultimately, it is for us to guilt-pleasure-watch troubled people. I used to binge-watch his show in the very beginning but at some point had to stop due to the freakishness of his guests. They are on the show for clout and not to fix their fin issues.
He invites unhinged people and makes his videos very sensational. Technically, it can be okay since people can watch previous episodes and know what they are getting into. At the same time, these people are so desperate that maybe they don’t have good judgment of what they are getting themselves into (or they are dumb enough not to watch previous episodes). And to be honest Caleb just takes advantage of these peopleto make big money.
At the end of the day, I don’t understand one thing: why Caleb continues to communicate or have any relationship with these unhinged people. Is he a good guy with a savior complex and co-dependency issues, or is he a bad guy who enjoys playing with unhinged?
PS. To be clear: i am not on this lady side or zik’s side.
"she doesn't know the difference" but went on tiktok to be "silly" and make a video 😂😂😂😂 lol justifying this ladies actions for a hour is crazy.
I'm the oldest of 9 children💀 But my parents are divorced so only two are fully blood siblings, so when I'm at my moms we're 5, and at my dads we're 7 since my full siblings switch weeks with me. I hope I can move out soon because I really want my own place bro.
I’ve watched the show and I do think his treatment towards her was pretty uncalled for. Just in bad taste and hard to watch but the people who watch his channel just to ridicule others certainly were there for it. I like the show and have been watching for over a year but his style has certainly changed and has shifted more towards personally attacking the guests and personal insults instead of just their finances so I can understand why she feels the way she does.
People always blame children like if having children was the problem. There are a lot of irresponsible parents. If you had one baby daddy that did not show up for you its bad luck. If you had two. You gotta figure it out. And then a third one… thats being irresponsible. There are many women who have their children, get a divorce and focus on their kids without making excuses for themselves. She was just a bad example. I know women like these, they do not even try to help themselves out and it’s always whoa is me mindset.
What’s unreasonable is her having multiple children that’s the issue she wants a man to take care of her hints why jumped man to man
I wouldn’t help anyone with multiple kids in that city. Toxic as hell
43:36 He was more pointing to she needs more money, and!!!! Follow a better budget. If she doesnt do this it is 62 months. And maybe some child support to feed and cloth the kids.
Shes gonna have to go for bankruptcy....
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You may not like it.... but you are also saying she needs another job.
For sure. I just disagree with the specific recommendations from him, like forcing the 14 year old to play 'parent' or to get another full-time job.
Yes bankruptcy chapter 7 pays off everything but house and if you lease your car it isn’t affected
I also agree on the crock pot. I make a delicious crock pot chili that feeds me and my husband for about 2-3 days, and hella cheap 35:40
I come from a mother of 5 who didn’t work at all who just lived off the government making less than this woman. She can make things work but just isn’t willing to put in the actual effort. And she works like 30 something hrs in believe she said yes she has young kids but I’m pretty sure she’s not doing all the work herself she’s putting half the work on the oldest child because that’s simply what parents like this do because of course they need a break because it’s just so much work and it’s the kids job to pick up her slack. And yes cooking saves so much money it’s crazy when u really add it up 1200 on food is crazy that’s like rent prices we survived pretty well on less than half of that like 400 buying things that last a while and not premade food will last u longer but people like this look for what is easy not what’s the best thing.But only reason she went on this show is that quick payment and to look for sympathy online and hopefully ask for money from people online. If she really was looking for help she wouldn’t be concerned about jokes she would be focused on doing what needs to be done but simple thing is she simply doesn’t care and it’s simpler in her mind to mooch off others. But sadly some of her kids will fallow in her footsteps that’s simply how life is 🤦🏽♂️but i do like the comment about suffering wisely that’s a pretty good point.
No she should be in prison she is stealing from all of us because she can't bother to actually control her spending. She is a terrible mother and honestly yes a bad person. Imagine subjecting your kids to those conditions willingly you have to be a bad person to do that.
Tbf his financial advice isn’t helpful and his demeanor is pretty annoying imo
I do understand what conservatives are talking when it comes to “not wanting UBI” or “subsidies for single parents households” when you see women like this. Like to me, she is someone who has repeatedly made the same bad choices time after time after time and at no point after making any of these mistakes has she bothered to reflect and learn from his bad mistakes. I can tolerate a 16 year old getting pregnant and then learning from this mistake to try and live a responsible life to make her kid’s life as good as possible. When paying your taxes essentially means propping someone like this up, becomes infuriating.
Caleb talking to these people in that way is definitely inappropriate. A lot of people know they’re messing up. The thing is Caleb clearly wants them to be vulnerable only to rip off the delusion like a bandaid.
This lady has made mistakes. The kids are not a mistake. Having kids is not a mistake. It’s her choice in men. She sounds aware about this. But Caleb’s approach with the 5 kids, sex, and getting railed puts this all in one box in her mind.
she could sell like 2-3 kids and be good lol. Also working an extra job isn't a bad thing. A full-time job is 40hrs and adding one extra day instead of having a 2-day weekend is well worth it because you still get your 6-7hrs of sleep a day. Also, even if she was working 8 hours every day picking up a 4-6hr shift won't make you sleep deprived. you still have plenty of time for sleep you just don't have time for much else and when you put yourself in this position you have to make sacrifices whether it's a day off or time with your kids. We have to stop defending adults like this and give them a fking wakeup call. My aunt is almost 70, gets free housing, free utilities and is always fking broke because she can't budget and blows her money on materialistic bs which is where most of these people's money go. The best thing for her would be to get put in a lose lose situation where she ends up losing something important to her so she can hit that rock bottom and say enough is enough.
@@beewest5704 I agree but that's the problem she created for herself by adding more kids and more debt by choice.
Sell 2-3 kids?? Sell!? 💀
I wanna have sympathy, but there is no excuse for a woman who had five kids with three different men who gauges one of them for all the child support and doesn’t know how to properly take care of her kids a good person. She is by definition a victim of her own stupidity and she has to change and trying to get more child support is not how you change. I hate women women who live off the system and guys who they slept with and all the responsibility goes on the Dad to be the provider when the Dad would be the better parent in the first place. if he’s living his life and paying her $1000 a month I would much rather those kids be with him..
41:00 crazy, i agree shell should pay slowly she can pay things off she just spends too much, and idk if you heard that but her ask her for money.
first she said the daughter was 1 years old then she said 3 months old make up your mind
I saw the episode she was on! SHE was flirting with HIM, and he ignored it! She's mad she embarassed herself & had no common sense. She should have made herself familiar with his show before agreeing to having a financial audit on it.
NO basic income, we need capitalism, not apathy, living off the government dole! If people can't educate themselves enough to manage their money, they don't deserve to have the people who work hard supporting them.
She was an idiot. She gets more welfare and food stamps, each kid bumps that up. She didn't nreed to have or keep all those kids.
you keep it so real lmao 😂. I heard all facts but there’s still gonna be twinkies that are offended
50:59 so much for that video title haha
Don't get financial advice from youtubers with zero qualifications
Not gonna lie when i saw the thumbnail for her episode i thought it was messed up. I wouldve been pissed too. But he claims guests can veto the thumbnail.
59:58 the side eye lol
I understand the 'tough love' thing, but his comment section is the most dehumanising and toxic places I've seen on UA-cam.
I agree. I wouldn't want that energy in my comments every day.
I've seen worse
lol welcome to the internet. First time?
@@soapa4279 No, I understand there are far worse toxic communities out there. It's the juxtaposition of videos based around helping (oftentimes vulnerable) people with their personal finances and the toxic shame based community that troubles me the most.
@@mikey3666 I agree. I’ve been a long time subscriber to Caleb and he actually used to focus more on helping in a FIRM but sympathetic way. The comments section is just naturally how it goes since his channel exploded so it attracts a lot of awful people saying toxic things.
They collaborate with the guest about the thumbnail. Also the guest can ask for things to be edited out.
He also asks people to be nice in their comments.