Some women truly believe that a man has to accept their nasty attitude and bad disrespectful behavior. They DON’T! I never talk crazy to my husband because I respect him and I want him to treat me the same way. Disrespect begets disrespect! Bad days are one thing but if you have integrity and some dignity you apologize if you were rude. Don’t get so comfortable with your man that you start to believe he doesn’t deserve respect. He’s still a person.
Sadly most of these modern women think that it’s ok to treat men like crap but still expect men to treat them with respect…. Feminism has corrupted women to treat men cruelly just because he’s a different gender to the point where it’s inhuman
@@ManyGods women must admit that a lot of us did not have the best examples in our lives on how to be a wife or how to treat a husband. Myself included. My mother was single and when she dated someone she had the control and when the man would try to stand up for himself, she’d wanna fight him or put him out. I didn’t have a good example of a wife but, I gleaned from women who were wives bc I knew that was who I wanted to be. I also have common sense and I treat every person with respect, that includes my husband. I don’t treat him like he owes me something bc I’m with him. There is a mutual respect on both sides, therefore it keeps peace in our home. Anytime a person is disrespected it’s harmful to their overall self esteem so, if you care about someone why wouldn’t you want to be the best that they can be? You don’t do things to them that may be harmful or humiliating.
Loneliness is directly associated to being ready. You won't know you are ready until you meet someone and practice not being lonely anymore. That's why lonely and ready are associated.
Because a person who is stunted/stuck in an existence called, 'lonely,' meets a companion will put unfair expectation(s) on a man to get with him and/or keep him. It's like being trapped. I don't want the expectations of my coming into a life and have all other responsibilities put on me! No thank you!
When I was 40 and living in Atlanta, I dated a few lawyers. I was a business professional.. It wasn't even worth it. Their title was of no benefit to me and I spent more money for the benefit of saying I dated a lawyer. I quit that bs and started dating younger, fun receptionist and administrative assistants, they were much more appreciative of my time.
Great point! You realized what I learned, job title means nothing to men but something to women. Youth and beauty plus being cooperative is what matters to us. Feminism convinced them that being fill in the blank is sexy to men !
So true. Kevin is too little too late. This is information all needed in Jr. High and High school. Our country is a wreck when it comes to relationships, marriage, and children. Thank God for Kevin. This country has set us up for failure. This was by design folks trust me.
I feel bad for Kevin. He’s the one that’s doing a better job of an attorney. If she’s getting handled by a person that’s not a professional attorney, I’d hate to have her in my corner in the courtroom. No way. Nope. ✌️
Don't feel sorry for them at all. Remember these are the types of women who wouldn't even look at you in their 20's whilst be dumped by every muscled jerk around. Then she suddenly decided to clean up her act after all the Chad's decided they didn't want her anymore.
This lady is the perfect example of why the “I got PhD” meme was created. As we see here, there is no correlation between education/profession and CHARACTER. This lady is filled with duplicity and provocation, and KS beautifully exposes it for what it really is.
Seriously? The whole point is that women don’t want those men because they are not attracted to the lower financial status. Therefore they are not in high demand, so why would you say they are the best men around?
@@meditation4632 I don't care about other women. I just stated my opinion. I also don't believe men in the entertainment or sports world are automatically "high value". To each its own. Seriously!
Omg! My mother always said this. I love a handy man. I dont understand when people say they want someone according to their own economio-status and omit valuable people. Go on and be fools ladies & leave us them awesome blue collar workers. Lol. I'm educated but my momma taught me that them handy men got the most value ;) No hate comments please! Ha ha.
Partial credit to her......after some hard core questioning from the Godfather and being forced to be accountable she actually admitted her role in the marriage breakdown. That whole conversation would have gone a whole lot different in a marriage therapist's office. Regardless of her actions the therapist would have 100% blamed the man for everything.....this is why men like KS are absolutely necessary in today's society. As men we understand that accountability is kryptonite to the modern woman.
Kevin is the GOAT..he keep teaching me on how the female mind work and how the man has been actively been place in a disadvantageous position This woman should pay Kevin.
This is a huge problem. I'm a woman but I've heard women from my mother, half-sisters, friends and other family members bash and drag men through the dirt without taking any accountability for their own actions or inactions, verbal and physical abuse and yes...... cheating. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Period! Being "on code" with females, when they are unaccountable for their own choices is destructive. This is one of the reasons we are where we are at in the community.
Thanks Hope Love for laying bare this very bold truth. I had a baby with a 37 year old lady out of wedlock, travelled abroad to see and support her after the baby's arrival. I stayed in my baby mama's mum's house and boy did her mother and aunt subject me to verbal abuse because I wasn't putting marriage on the table. The experience was hell on earth especially because my partner then was fueling the attacks by constantly reporting me to her folks.
I'm at a point with women as soon as they raise their voice at me I walk away without looking back. My reason? That's how she deals with stress, and if she's a mother...her child is stressed. I definitely have a 1 strike you're out rule.
Pioneer for the whole world bro, even here in South Africa some men are starting to wake up now to realize something is not right. Well, you still get those lost simps, women's doormats here and there, but Kevin is really standing up for men, and not just because he's a man, but he sees the reality.
Then you need to hear when he was going in on men. He’s not on anyone’s side but wealthy people. People listen to his stuff and really think that it applies to them but it really doesn’t unless you fall into the 6-figure tax bracket.
@@arleneaugustahair8393 I disagree because he also mentions a lot Blue collar men and average earners. His content is not just dedicated to the six-figure men but a lot of women especially average ones think they qualify or deserve high earners without having anything but their education and status coming to the table.
My single mother pushed the thought that my father was excessively abusive, which he was to a point. He beat her yes, but my mother is a picker. She will ride someone without stopping and just keep picking at someone about something. I 100% believe that my mother pushed my dad to his breaking point and he couldn't stop when she wouldn't let up. Neither were in the right but they BOTH we toxic for one another
She said they were friends and she learned a lot right after she threw him under the bus as an abuser to a bunch of complete strangers. She hasn't learned a damn thing. That's why she is still single.
Dude, he was an abuser. If someone throws hands on your daughter what are you going to do? REALLY?? You gonna sit there and blame her right? Is that what you're gonna do?? U gone say, "Get back to that man and get y our ass wuppin'? Is that the "french toast" what you're gonna say? You're not thinking clearly.
@@djTorchLive when one of your homies or male relatives calls you saying that they are fighting a charge that a female made up, I want you to keep that same energy.... ok !? 👌🙄
@@stonefacedninja It depends. If I know he's a hot head and admitted beating the shit out of his girl. Yeah, I'll keep that same energy. I'll get him a good Lawyer but, yeah. Don't 'f**king hit women.
@@stonefacedninja So, I can only assume by your reply, You're down for your little girl getting that ass beat by her man, because he's a man and she must be lying, right? Keep that same energy.
@@djTorchLive They both was abusers and just becuz he put his hands on her. It mite have been one slap he did that she classifies as beating her ass. Not condoning it AT ALL and he was 100% wrong but u sound like her. U NOT acknowledging her role. She was not a damsel in distress she was verbally abusive. Mental abuse is nothing to sweep under the rug but I don't justify his bcuz of hers. He was dead wrong but still LIKE KEVIN paint the WHOLE picture
Kevin is a master at deconstructing female defense mechanisms that are disingenuous. He's doing powerful work cuz he's changing relationships in a macro and micro scale
@@PhoenixRise0101 it’s whAt you gotta do. I’m a guy and I have never had a gf. Regardless, if someone disrespects me I literally block them out of my life completely. Guy or girl. And don’t accept fake ass apologies . Such as, I’m sorry BUT, or we need to talk YOU NEED TO… fuck that
They are probably plumbers or electricians. They have a skill that she needs to keep her house in working order. She trades a little flirting to get the maintenance man in effect. Then she gives a plain excuse why she can't do anything. Don't do anything for free. Send her an invoice for your services.
I was telling my younger cousin a month ago. There is men out there that want to be with you. You just keep them in the friend zone. She tried to play dumb but she knew exactly what I was talking about.
Women understand that men are tired of getting the blame and want women to take accountability. But they still don't want to change, they still feel they are unique and can get a HVM to change for them. You can see in her non-verbals that she does not like what KS has to say, even when they agree it is grudgingly.
I love how the Godfather dissected and brought out all the hidden clues in each of her statements about her first marriage (the facts). This then paved way for a truthful discussion and analysis to a realistic possible relationship. I always tell ladies that Kelvin Samuels is always on their side. Remember marriage is more beneficial to women than men.
A successful men in his 30s, 40s or 50s does not want a 40 yr old attorney who works more than most people and has a child. Not much time for him. He can get it early Saturday morning, but you got to be quiet and maybe one day during week, but no stay overs. When she calls. and you don't answer, she's going to have an attitude. Ain't nobody got time that.
I have been around a lot of attorneys, and she doesn't communicate like an attorney. I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that she is a paralegal or a desk receptionist at a law firm.
She has her attitude on her shoulders like a badge of honor and being that she is a attorney, she knows all the loopholes and believe me, her ex husband will NOT be the last on her chopping block.
That scene from the movie Dead Presidents comes to mind.....she was telling him his job wasn't good enough, took money from the pimp cutty then told Anothey he wasn't any good and his job wasn't any good or paying enough. Then talked about his PTSD from the military....then on cue he yoked her up...he tried to leave then she snatched him and told him not to walk away and he yoked her up again.
Thts my favorite part of tht movie homie🔥🔥👌.. it’s up there with when Jody closed the door on Evette after she let Snoop come bk. Stay cold homie..peace
I was married to a psychologist. Once again “The Godfather” is totally on point regarding the professions of women that men should avoid!!! Thank You “Godfather” for giving me the solace for knowing that I made the right choice to divorce her.
Til he said "Which is worse Physical or Psychological pain?" I wasn't w/it. That is a HUGE point. Ty for sharing this clip. I don't know how to ever make that point because of the generation we have today. Just glad I was able to hear it, take it to heart & now I will never forget it.
@@commanderbracey7501 Lawyers advocate for their clients. Thats why they must develop skills to flip there clients concerns. In other words, they must become professional liars. Their income and clients require it.
Kevin makes a valid point about the way some women will tell a story like the man is always bad or at fault and she is mad that Kevin up under the victim mode she was trying to play
One of my friends was married to a woman who was an NYPD officer and he stated to me that she "grilled" him with a police officer mentality. It was a strain on him and eventually, she divorced him after 5 years together and have a child. Kevin is right, women who are in the law field are usually the ones that would put pressure and strain on men.
They always want to bring their jobs and positions back at home with them... because they can't separate their work from their relationships.......And it always ends badly.
This is why I thank God everyday for my wife who is from Africa. She is obedient submissive cooperative loving and the list goes on. I feel bad for these young fellas cause all they got is Trouble.
A lot more good woman can be found outside the west than in it. This is not the first time I have heard good things about African women. In fact, I have.a lot of good things about Africans in general, though it is hard to get over the fact that so much violence and corruption and war continue to plague the continent and keeps the people impoverished.
Watched this in real time and it was even more impressive. Pretty and surface pleasant such a waste. No accountability, pretty privileged gone awry. Such a waste because she has everything else to have a great outcome.
@@jeffreywhitlock4882 it sounds just like the women of my family. The worst thing is that you can't correct them. They will use people and the laws to play the victims and ruin your life.
@@obersveyourmind so true. I don't like conflict, so my ex would create it to get her way all of the time. Then when I put my foot down, and told her I was not accepting it any more, she would shift into helpless victim mode and accuse me of being controlling. It was awful, and my life improved greatly when I left her.
Typical praying mantis pattern. At 28, she wanted kids because she was out of her prime and knew it. Married him, had kids and then sabotaged it and got resources on the way out. Typical.
My ex wife made a false accusation of domestic abuse. It was hell.......she went as far as telling the court I was a terrorist and was going to kidnap our children. It was unbelievable the court let it happen and did not request any evidence to support her claims.My PhD, independent woman ex wife maps directly into Kevin's model.
I don’t mean no harm when I say this, but some of these women that are in their 40’s & 50’s need to stop thinking like they’re still in their 20’s & 30’s, it’s embarrassing. 🤦🏾♂️
I believe a lot of this stems from childhood. When a young girl is able to manipulate others at a very early age, she carries that mentality into her teen and grown up years. A good father would need to break that habit early by teaching her empathy or not taking advantage of others. If she is beautiful and able to play grown men in her teens then that character stays and it would never leave her.
True! Add in Disney fairytale propaganda & “your a Princess, you can have anything you want” crap little girls are told. It’s imbedded in their brains at the most critical ages. It becomes part of their core. Now it’s even worst. People tell their daughters “you don’t need a man, you can do anything on your own”… “don’t settle”. On top of that the agenda of “men are dangerous “. Lots of lesbians!
it was kinda confusing at that physical vs psychological pain argument though.. whenever i got beat by my parents or lost a fight in the streets, it would affect me psychologically as well..
@@alexanderjackson8389 words from someone that says they love you will cut emotionally deeper than a physical wound. Those wounds from fights slowly will diminish over time. Hurtful words have lasting power. I understand how that could challenge you though.
@@jee6213 never did for me. My dad beat my butt for doing stuff i knew was wrong. He only had to do it 4 times. I learned the lesson and became better person because of it. When parents go too far with corporal punishment, it can harm. Getting a switch or belt to a tender butt can teach lessons that can prevent people from doing stupid things. Nothing is foolproof but many folks have survive appropriate corporal punishment.
@@rm5282 Many people survived slavery. Corporal punishment is still psychologically damaging and anyone that thinks beating someone is okay did not turn out fine. It's funny how it's only acceptable when it's a grown adult doing it to a defenseless child. Try corporal punishment on an adult and it's abuse and assault. Children aren't seen as people in our community, which is why the generational trauma continues.
The Godfather kicks down another woman’s lopsided narrative as to why a marriage went down the tubes. To this day, she is telling the world that her marriage ended ONLY because he allegedly put his hands on her. She routinely emasculated her ex-husband in her own admission. I wouldn’t touch that woman with a ten foot pole!👎🏾
@@alicewashington220 look at those, shame insults and guilt to justify women beating on men. Why don't you teach women to keep their hands to themselves ? What do you call them when they assault men ? 😏
My life was wrecked in like manner. I helped my wife who has a degree in psychology under grad and graduate who decided to generate a false psychoanalysis and present it to the court system as a sitting Conciliation Court Director. Unfortunately the legal system bought her version of circumstances false as they are. She schemed, plotted and planned with legal professionals who supported her narrative.
Men are taking the blame for everything that is going wrong with women. A man will take the blame up to a certain point however the women don't admit, or take the responsibility of provoking or initiating conflicts in a relationship. It takes two however good men will take responsibility for their part. Some men are okay with companionship however most men are more focused upon being married and because there are so many women looking for that they will overlook a woman like this one.
Right, it’s not worth it to deal with women like this. Some men are not strong enough to walk away or ignore the verbal abuse and then they wind up in jail with pookie and ray ray. I used to be reckless with the mouth but now that I’m getting older, I’m mature and respectful of women and I demand the same in return. The moment a woman disrespects me, I’m out. ✌🏾
A lot of men are laying in their casket currently because of a woman’s mouth and they don’t care when that man looses his life. They get to go home to continue their bs all awhile that man’s corpse rot underground. This is fucking sickening. My mother killed my father because of this shit. He use to tell me that he was trying to stay alive for me but he died of depression because of my piece of shyt mother fuckery to him and the rest of us. Be strong men!!!
Dude, i know he is. He's probably feels sooo vindicated after watching this. Typical "Highly Edjumacated Women" feeling like they can do no wrong. Im really starting to understand Feminism.
You smell the bullshit too? The only 2 women I know that were in a abusive incident ran away from their abuser. When I mean ran. They literally moved states and cut context with him and all the people he knows.
He's friends because he's trying to make things work because of the child. If they had no children there'd be no reason to even speak to this lady. That's what I see in my opinion
Please, don't mimick their ignorance; bcz it hurts them in the long run! She looks totally miserable & am sure her ex has already gotten a young girl. Bcz majority of the time, men aren't looking for educated- successful- females; men look for marriage materials! Imagine at that age, she is puplicly seeking a man to smash and be a step father to her daughter, who lacks a male figure role model!!!!
Life happens…you can’t predict when you could be alone. He could die and you could be alone at 45. What’s important is that you are a good woman that can attract a good man.
Her: says "He put his hands on me" on a platform with over a million subs. Also her: "We're friends now" Her definition of "friends" is far different than mine.
Never an excuse to hit a woman gets men killed. Defending yourself isn't abuse.. Walk away . men got stabbed walking away. Yall never tell women to keep their hands to themselves tho
My guess... her ex-husband more likely financed her through college, when she got her degree and high paying job his presence was no longer required. She provoked his rage to escape a relationship she no longer wanted or needed. 🤔🤫
I've seen this happen to a few brothers. Brothers work double overtime to provide while putting her through school. Once she gets her education, she feels she's too good for him.
@@themusicman2005 exactly, men should always put their needs first and build their resources. We are the ones expected to provide for the family. Women can choose, men provide or their worthless. Men, put you first, please.
This sounds right, though it was possibly not something she waa aware of. Maybe she started making more $ than he did and she lost respect for him. (trash move, but common) Then, he tolerated her BS, so she lost MORE respect and it all went down the tubes from there.
But they were married and only knew each other for 5-6 years. So, they met in mid 30s?? Awful late to be starting law school...maybe, but I seriously doubt it.
The wrong type Attorney. Defense Attorneys do what these women do, misdirect, distract or claim mental, physical and/or verbal abuse to justify their clients behavior. Mr. Samuels is a "Prosecutor," asking all the right questions to demonstrate to the jury (us viewers and listeners) the lies and real underlying motives of individuals, in the case, "Women."
As a 50 yr old who’s single with no kids ,with the experience of a man my age and knowing female nature ,I prefer being alone than ever dating again or be in a long term relationship with a woman I still desire women but i don’t have the patience any more
As a Black Man I have to say THANK GOD for Social Media, because it gives us a chance as men to bring our conversations from the barbershop to the world and Black Women are finally learning The Truth because we are fed up.
I dated a police officer and immediately began to get traffic tickets from the local PD. I got a ticket for 59 mph in a 55, license plate light inoperable and not coming to a complete stop at a stop sign. To defeat the police department I immediately begin to flip cars so they never knew what I was driving. I dated her for nearly 2 years.
She's a lawyer, the fact everyone knows she divorced it would ruin her reputation professionally and as modern female, the fact she had to go back to man
Ladies and men should be grateful to KS for pointing out some things that hinders successful relationships and laying down blueprint for us to succeed in our relationships.
She needs an older brother, around 55 to 60, in good health and shape to live her life out with, perhaps a retired military man, with full benefits and lifetime pension.
I do want to say abusive men will hit women for no reason.....and if a man feels that threatened or abuse by a woman over language he can leave & vice versa. I usually agree with Kevin but I will never agree with a man hitting a woman or a woman hitting a man just leave i will never agree with a child molester either somethings are a no!...& abuse is a no!
Constant verbal and emotional abuse is NO JOKE! I use to do that and guess what EVERYMAN I did that too eventually put their hands on me. Us women can’t be out here just tearing down men. It’s not that easy to just walk away. Our mouth can be like a sword too
Thank you! Of course the cowards in the comments agree with physical abuse from them if someone VERBALLY abuse them. That sounds so weak and wack to me. Smh
It is very obvious that non of you folks here have tasted the venom of a quarrelsome woman . Don’t be quick to praise yourselves . Just thank your stars.
Doubt it, because she doesn’t even “let” the child her child as she said, see the father.. she just told the world her ex was physically abusive, which probably was all of him pushing her off him with her finger in his face. She told the court he is violent and got full custody I guarantee.
NO ONE is above an ass-whooping. There's a reason to kick an old lady down a flight of stairs. Just DON'T do it. Exercising restraint is big, but absolving people of their roles in the breakdown in discourse is wrong.
Yes👍... ladies in their 40s and above go from a dating pool to a dating jacuzzi to a dating bathtub and all that time in a body of water makes their skin really wrinkly and less attractive 😳 😀
@@comfortablydoomed6280 Boom ! And that all she wrote. This is women number 1 issue! They keep trying to level up and ignore the men that will fit them perfectly!
You are gonna be a 60 yr old single mother asking herself where she went wrong. Lower you're expectations and you'll find true love... especially when time ain't on your side.
JR, you got to stop saying there's no reason for a man to put his hands on a woman. I found myself with a phone line wrapped around my neck. Wife trying to strangle the life out of me. What am I supposed to do? Say go ahead honey you know I can't touch. Are you serious?
I’ve been in in a few situation , dealing with women who have a Masters Degree. We had great chemistry, we spoiled each other, with gifts & giving of our bodies… sadly, it took 1 miscommunication.. it went left then south. It took 1 outburst from her, over the phone, so I turn around in my car, and never went back to her home, or called her. It didn’t make sense if what had happened, I already knew what it was. When tell you; she had a good good career, smart as hell. But she was unstable. So I digress ✌🏿 I hope this lovely Sister, find peace. We are not perfect. Sis, humble yourself, and you’ll be okay 👍🏿
But if that is all it took for you to change driving directions their was no real substance to the failed relationship. In critical thinking you learn that content is as valuable as what you see on the surface
Sounds Iike a whole lot of confusion and cap. She is the hero in her story and doesn't understand why she doesn't have the choices she wants. If she knew the men she wanted, she would understand why they aren't check for her these days. She is invisible to them as they were to her 15 years ago. They might want to smash and dash but not wife.
This is what women don't understand that we men have so much to lose when a relationship goes south. I'm sorry when I was dating I interviewed women. Many didn't make it past the application stage. Then came this sweet Spaniard/Jamaican that value the fundamentals of having a family. Best one I met in 15 years
I agree with Kevin's position on this!!! Long story short, I am a widow, and I have been to Law School and Seminary. I was RAISED by parents who were together from 1946 until 1991 when my Mother transitioned. I have been a VOLUNTEER CHAPLAIN since 1970. I KNOW which LAWS are SUPREME, and they are THE LAWS OF ALMIGHTY GOD. The LAWS of the OLD TESTAMENT did NOT become NULL and VOID, they were FULFILLED by JESUS CHRIST! I have been FIGHTING for the so-called UNDERDOG since I was a little girl. FINDING LOOP HOLES is what we do. Soooooo, I agree with KEVIN!!! The DIFFERENCE between me and someone who doesn't "KNOW" the "LAWS OF ALMIGHTY GOD", is that I "KNOW" why I was CREATED, and " IF" I ever MARRY again, in the "HOME" I am a "HELP MEAT", and I will "FOLLOW" him as he "FOLLOWS JESUS CHRIST." I will be "75 YEARS YOUNG" this January 2022. I have been "MIGHTILY BLESSED" with "LONG LIFE", and I could write a book about "KNOWING" how and when to "SHUT UP." I "CHOOSE" to be "SINGLE", and I live my Life according to the "STANDARDS" set by "ALMIGHTY GOD." They will NEVER be "LOWERED", I must "COME UP" to them!!! Oooooooh........I am 5' 7"; 147 lbs with a dress size 6. I exude VIBRANCY because I KNOW WHO I AM and WHOSE I am!!! I THANK ALMIGHTY GOD for men like KEVIN SAMUELS who aren't INTIMIDATED!!!
She does not want what she says wants! She is lost in who she really is! A man of any age, or quality, or status will not meet her needs. An attorney is argumentative by nature and training.
The central point Kevin Samuels made in this interview and in other interviews is these single 40+year-old mothers is they are exclusively focused on what THEY want from a potential male mate but have given little thought or honest inquiry/ analysis into what their "target market" of potential males WANT in a female companion. Any suitable male interested in pursuing an emotionally significant relationship with a divorced 40+-year-old attorney with an 11-year-old KNOWS THERE IS A HISTORY THERE. That male will assess what happened in her prior marriage as a PRIME indicator of what he may experience with her. It is expected the female caller will shape the narrative of her marital history to put the BLAME ON THE MAN. And that is why these professional modern women find themselves ALONE. These professional modern females are emotionally and psychologically predisposed to play the "victim" and that is a categorical disqualifier. It is extremely important black women listen carefully to Kevin Samuel's outline of how black men are doing an extensive RISK ANALYSIS of potential relationships with "modern black women". Like insurance/credit underwriters, black men, especially the more accomplished successful ones, have determined a large segment of black women represent unacceptable/unattractive levels of risk and are seeking demographic segments of women which offer them more acceptable profiles of risk vs reward/benefits.
Man bravo! Well said. I just don't believe they are capable of understanding what men want because they have really never been around men from birth many of them. Plus the world keeps lying to them that they are wonderful and can do no wrong.
Probably one of the best Kevin Samuel "therapy sessions" I've seen in awhile. Thirty minutes and she TOLD on herself completely. She truly had a "come to Jesus" emotional/intellectual epiphany. Talk about "BRAINFREEZE!" You could see in her tone and mannerisms. She was hooked. Using a fisherman analogy, Kevin just reeled her in alongside the boat, implanted two emotional boosters [ratio as appropritate], remove the "HOOK" of aggressiveness/masculinity and THE NEED TO BE RIGHT. . .and send her on her way. Men and her in life would see here more differently. She'll see men differently I believe. Don't go back to that hook.
A better reason to avoid attorneys is because these women are PAID to argue and manipulate.. Why would ANY self-respecting man who ISN'T also an attorney want to deal with that?
Attorneys have mad communication skills. I bet when she put that tongue on him, in a hateful manner she left him with no other option than to leave her
@@jeo3212 come to think of it I have. I don't know if you're a lawyer or not but I'm not. In case you're not you and I can do a better job than some of them.
He supposedly beat you, however you didn't file no charges, go after no child support, and you both are still friends??? Makee no sense o think she lied on him.
There are men who are narcissists, and they gaslight, manipulate and emotionally abuse. Then when the women is psychologically damaged, he sits back and calls her crazy and then plays victim.
Some women truly believe that a man has to accept their nasty attitude and bad disrespectful behavior. They DON’T! I never talk crazy to my husband because I respect him and I want him to treat me the same way. Disrespect begets disrespect! Bad days are one thing but if you have integrity and some dignity you apologize if you were rude. Don’t get so comfortable with your man that you start to believe he doesn’t deserve respect. He’s still a person.
I wish you can talk to my estranged wife.
Sadly most of these modern women think that it’s ok to treat men like crap but still expect men to treat them with respect….
Feminism has corrupted women to treat men cruelly just because he’s a different gender to the point where it’s inhuman
Your husband is blessed to have you
@@ManyGods women must admit that a lot of us did not have the best examples in our lives on how to be a wife or how to treat a husband. Myself included. My mother was single and when she dated someone she had the control and when the man would try to stand up for himself, she’d wanna fight him or put him out. I didn’t have a good example of a wife but, I gleaned from women who were wives bc I knew that was who I wanted to be. I also have common sense and I treat every person with respect, that includes my husband. I don’t treat him like he owes me something bc I’m with him. There is a mutual respect on both sides, therefore it keeps peace in our home. Anytime a person is disrespected it’s harmful to their overall self esteem so, if you care about someone why wouldn’t you want to be the best that they can be? You don’t do things to them that may be harmful or humiliating.
Well said
Get a companion when you are “READY” not when you are Lonely.
Facts!
Loneliness is directly associated to being ready.
You won't know you are ready until you meet someone and practice not being lonely anymore. That's why lonely and ready are associated.
Because a person who is stunted/stuck in an existence called, 'lonely,' meets a companion will put unfair expectation(s) on a man to get with him and/or keep him. It's like being trapped. I don't want the expectations of my coming into a life and have all other responsibilities put on me! No thank you!
Best comment ever
@@Stevespiano bullshit, loneliness breeds misery which breeds desperation, she's wants companionship because she needs help, doesn't mean she's ready
When I was 40 and living in Atlanta, I dated a few lawyers. I was a business professional.. It wasn't even worth it. Their title was of no benefit to me and I spent more money for the benefit of saying I dated a lawyer. I quit that bs and started dating younger, fun receptionist and administrative assistants, they were much more appreciative of my time.
Great point! You realized what I learned, job title means nothing to men but something to women. Youth and beauty plus being cooperative is what matters to us. Feminism convinced them that being fill in the blank is sexy to men !
Thanks For the comment very insightful the wise will use this to avoid more of the same or at least notice the red flags sooner.. great post!
@@jarvisaddison8560 Thanks brother
@@alfredhorton3900 thank you for the kind words
Done that as well and I will never do that again . Plus every discussion you feel like you're in court . I prefer the more humble , down to earth kind
I feel for women like her. They lived so long being lost and by the time it finally hits them, its basically too late
So true. Kevin is too little too late. This is information all needed in Jr. High and High school. Our country is a wreck when it comes to relationships, marriage, and children. Thank God for Kevin. This country has set us up for failure. This was by design folks trust me.
I don't feel sorry for this BROAD. She's an Attorney..And obviously VERY Beautiful, and intelligent! But she has ZERO common sense. FACTS!
I feel bad for Kevin. He’s the one that’s doing a better job of an attorney. If she’s getting handled by a person that’s not a professional attorney, I’d hate to have her in my corner in the courtroom. No way. Nope. ✌️
Don't feel sorry for them at all.
Remember these are the types of women who wouldn't even look at you in their 20's whilst be dumped by every muscled jerk around.
Then she suddenly decided to clean up her act after all the Chad's decided they didn't want her anymore.
@@troysparks3772 Kevin is just good at what he does
This lady is the perfect example of why the “I got PhD” meme was created. As we see here, there is no correlation between education/profession and CHARACTER. This lady is filled with duplicity and provocation, and KS beautifully exposes it for what it really is.
Well said
The man is a BEAST!!! And far too many sisters can't take his "REAL TRUTH OF THE MATTET".
so many women are like this, dating female lawyers is not easy
She's an attorney and got torn apart as if Kevin was the attorney
The reason she got torn apart is because she started lying at the outset
@@anthonyphifer3217 I know why She got torn apart
@cornelius washington Amen
@cornelius washington And She got that smoke with flames and a whole lot of sparks...devious heifer
@cornelius washington Yes sirrr
Blue-collar men are some of the best men around, hard workers and more importantly, they can build and fix things for you.
Thank you ma'am 🙏
Seriously? The whole point is that women don’t want those men because they are not attracted to the lower financial status. Therefore they are not in high demand, so why would you say they are the best men around?
@@meditation4632 I don't care about other women. I just stated my opinion. I also don't believe men in the entertainment or sports world are automatically "high value". To each its own. Seriously!
Thank you. From a auto mechanic and I make great money
Omg! My mother always said this. I love a handy man. I dont understand when people say they want someone according to their own economio-status and omit valuable people. Go on and be fools ladies & leave us them awesome blue collar workers. Lol. I'm educated but my momma taught me that them handy men got the most value ;) No hate comments please! Ha ha.
An adulterous woman will lie cheat and say that she has done no wrong Proverbs 30:20
Real talk !!!!!!!
how about the men?
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@@lindahines9380 emotional manipulation is not the go-to weapon of choice within male nature.
Your so right about that , and they will disrespect you an thank there right
Partial credit to her......after some hard core questioning from the Godfather and being forced to be accountable she actually admitted her role in the marriage breakdown.
That whole conversation would have gone a whole lot different in a marriage therapist's office.
Regardless of her actions the therapist would have 100% blamed the man for everything.....this is why men like KS are absolutely necessary in today's society.
As men we understand that accountability is kryptonite to the modern woman.
that is sooo true, i can speak from experience ..
WORD!
Therapists pander to these women to construct the Misandry Mode Of Thinking in them.
Fuking 🔥, and so factual.
Sounds like you guys are choosing the wrong therapists.
Kevin is sheer GENIUS!
“Weaponized victimhood” is brilliant! I’m gonna start using this!
"SOME PEOPLE ASK WHAT YOU DO FOR A LIVING TO DECIDE WHAT LEVEL OF RESPECT TO GIVE YOU."
-COREY HOLCOMB
Ok
That's the truth
Very true
#5150
Financially sizing you up
Kevin Samuels is in here putting attorneys in their place. That man is undefeated. 😂
lmaoooo
HE HETS HIS YALKING POINTS FROM THE KING HIMSELF @TOMMYSOTOMAYOR
@@MACCMALONE Tommy Suckamayor has nothing to do with this from either the front or back end. Go stand in the corner with that B's. 🤣
🤣🤣🤣I don't either....Know of Man that just Beat women's A$$ for no reason
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Kevin Samuels is nuking these women like Nagasaki and Hiroshima. Damn.
They did that to themselves. He is trying to rebuild.
He got them DUKE NUKEMS for that ass.
Kevin is the GOAT..he keep teaching me on how the female mind work and how the man has been actively been place in a disadvantageous position
This woman should pay Kevin.
Like I am really proud of this lady being humble, accepting her fault and willing to work on herself... I really hope things work out well for her.
This is a huge problem. I'm a woman but I've heard women from my mother, half-sisters, friends and other family members bash and drag men through the dirt without taking any accountability for their own actions or inactions, verbal and physical abuse and yes...... cheating. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Period! Being "on code" with females, when they are unaccountable for their own choices is destructive. This is one of the reasons we are where we are at in the community.
Well stated.
Thanks Hope Love for laying bare this very bold truth. I had a baby with a 37 year old lady out of wedlock, travelled abroad to see and support her after the baby's arrival. I stayed in my baby mama's mum's house and boy did her mother and aunt subject me to verbal abuse because I wasn't putting marriage on the table. The experience was hell on earth especially because my partner then was fueling the attacks by constantly reporting me to her folks.
Exactly. Women do the choosing in dating not men.
I'm at a point with women as soon as they raise their voice at me I walk away without looking back. My reason? That's how she deals with stress, and if she's a mother...her child is stressed. I definitely have a 1 strike you're out rule.
@@mtbiker4life918 Good for you. It's just that simple.
Kevin standing up for us men.
You are a pioneer of America.
Finally holding woman accountable
Pioneer for the whole world bro, even here in South Africa some men are starting to wake up now to realize something is not right. Well, you still get those lost simps, women's doormats here and there, but Kevin is really standing up for men, and not just because he's a man, but he sees the reality.
Then you need to hear when he was going in on men. He’s not on anyone’s side but wealthy people. People listen to his stuff and really think that it applies to them but it really doesn’t unless you fall into the 6-figure tax bracket.
@@arleneaugustahair8393 I disagree because he also mentions a lot Blue collar men and average earners. His content is not just dedicated to the six-figure men but a lot of women especially average ones think they qualify or deserve high earners without having anything but their education and status coming to the table.
nothing is going to change if women don't want to change 😂😊
You hands down wrote what 2 million men around the world wants to say.
Kelvin said it best - Men of a certain status with options won't say anything, they will just keep it moving
Absolutely, they will vote with their FEET!
I would let Kevin Samuels defend me in any trial…he is brilliant!!
Good luck with that.
Me too. 😁
My single mother pushed the thought that my father was excessively abusive, which he was to a point. He beat her yes, but my mother is a picker. She will ride someone without stopping and just keep picking at someone about something. I 100% believe that my mother pushed my dad to his breaking point and he couldn't stop when she wouldn't let up. Neither were in the right but they BOTH we toxic for one another
She is not telling the whole truth. The truth is that she destroyed her own marriage due to unreasonable behaviour
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She's a lawyer
So it was her Fault She got Hit?
@@lesliethomas5088 @6:48 and @8:13
All I want in a woman is loyalty. Don't care how much money she makes or in some cases how she looks. To bad many of our black women think otherwise.
U can think social media for that they have many options now all the simps online paying
I just want a BW with no kids and in shape🤷♂️ so in other words I wont get that unless she is of another culture.
@Gentlemen Of Culture Well if you know the definition of "Loyalty", everything else falls into place.
@Gentlemen Of Culture Big FACTS!
Don't you want respect
She said they were friends and she learned a lot right after she threw him under the bus as an abuser to a bunch of complete strangers. She hasn't learned a damn thing. That's why she is still single.
Dude, he was an abuser. If someone throws hands on your daughter what are you going to do? REALLY?? You gonna sit there and blame her right? Is that what you're gonna do?? U gone say, "Get back to that man and get y our ass wuppin'? Is that the "french toast" what you're gonna say? You're not thinking clearly.
@@djTorchLive when one of your homies or male relatives calls you saying that they are fighting a charge that a female made up, I want you to keep that same energy.... ok !? 👌🙄
@@stonefacedninja It depends. If I know he's a hot head and admitted beating the shit out of his girl. Yeah, I'll keep that same energy. I'll get him a good Lawyer but, yeah. Don't 'f**king hit women.
@@stonefacedninja So, I can only assume by your reply, You're down for your little girl getting that ass beat by her man, because he's a man and she must be lying, right? Keep that same energy.
@@djTorchLive They both was abusers and just becuz he put his hands on her. It mite have been one slap he did that she classifies as beating her ass. Not condoning it AT ALL and he was 100% wrong but u sound like her. U NOT acknowledging her role. She was not a damsel in distress she was verbally abusive. Mental abuse is nothing to sweep under the rug but I don't justify his bcuz of hers. He was dead wrong but still LIKE KEVIN paint the WHOLE picture
Kevin is a master at deconstructing female defense mechanisms that are disingenuous. He's doing powerful work cuz he's changing relationships in a macro and micro scale
I've dealt with an argumentative man before. I resolved it by leaving the situation entirely, never to return. No one deserves that in their lives.
It is freeing.
@@PhoenixRise0101 it’s whAt you gotta do. I’m a guy and I have never had a gf. Regardless, if someone disrespects me I literally block them out of my life completely. Guy or girl. And don’t accept fake ass apologies . Such as, I’m sorry BUT, or we need to talk YOU NEED TO… fuck that
@@bradlyfan You got that right!
Argumentative man or you couldn't win the arguments
I’m pretty sure this women has men to fulfill her companionship needs but they are currently in her ‘friend zone’.
yup, they ain't got enough money for her.
@@dappa311 facts
They are probably plumbers or electricians. They have a skill that she needs to keep her house in working order. She trades a little flirting to get the maintenance man in effect. Then she gives a plain excuse why she can't do anything. Don't do anything for free. Send her an invoice for your services.
Or "itch scratchers"
I was telling my younger cousin a month ago. There is men out there that want to be with you. You just keep them in the friend zone. She tried to play dumb but she knew exactly what I was talking about.
Women understand that men are tired of getting the blame and want women to take accountability. But they still don't want to change, they still feel they are unique and can get a HVM to change for them. You can see in her non-verbals that she does not like what KS has to say, even when they agree it is grudgingly.
🤣😂 this is why I love Kevin Samuels!!! He doesn't care how beautiful you are !! You are held accountable for whatever you've done!!!
He is actually gentle with the women compared to how he treats men.
@@cwb2992 yep and no men were crying when he was ripping them apart. Men handled that stuff and either moved on or made themselves better.
I love how the Godfather dissected and brought out all the hidden clues in each of her statements about her first marriage (the facts). This then paved way for a truthful discussion and analysis to a realistic possible relationship. I always tell ladies that Kelvin Samuels is always on their side. Remember marriage is more beneficial to women than men.
MEN and WOMEN, BOYS and GIRLS need to hear this man. He talks the truth! Not just *politically correct fairytales.*
A successful men in his 30s, 40s or 50s does not want a 40 yr old attorney who works more than most people and has a child. Not much time for him. He can get it early Saturday morning, but you got to be quiet and maybe one day during week, but no stay overs. When she calls. and you don't answer, she's going to have an attitude. Ain't nobody got time that.
I have been around a lot of attorneys, and she doesn't communicate like an attorney. I am willing to bet dollars to donuts that she is a paralegal or a desk receptionist at a law firm.
One minute “she’s a leech gold digger” the next “she works too much” stfu and make up your stupid minds.
@@mysterion5136 I would have to agree.
@Mark Ellis I agree with you as well.
@@Jaz31day who called you a gild digger?
She has her attitude on her shoulders like a badge of honor and being that she is a attorney, she knows all the loopholes and believe me, her ex husband will NOT be the last on her chopping block.
That scene from the movie Dead Presidents comes to mind.....she was telling him his job wasn't good enough, took money from the pimp cutty then told Anothey he wasn't any good and his job wasn't any good or paying enough. Then talked about his PTSD from the military....then on cue he yoked her up...he tried to leave then she snatched him and told him not to walk away and he yoked her up again.
"I will kill you juanita",🤣🤣🤣
@@alstonl333 Juanita got lucky!
Thts my favorite part of tht movie homie🔥🔥👌.. it’s up there with when Jody closed the door on Evette after she let Snoop come bk. Stay cold homie..peace
That's my favorite movie and that scene was so sincere 😂😂😂
Dude.....🙄🤨😳. I bet you enjoyed telling that story.
I was married to a psychologist. Once again “The Godfather” is totally on point regarding the professions of women that men should avoid!!! Thank You “Godfather” for giving me the solace for knowing that I made the right choice to divorce her.
Congratulations
Til he said "Which is worse Physical or Psychological pain?" I wasn't w/it. That is a HUGE point. Ty for sharing this clip. I don't know how to ever make that point because of the generation we have today. Just glad I was able to hear it, take it to heart & now I will never forget it.
She knows exactly what she doing, she playing the victim role and she is playing the game extremely well.
I saw a liar as soon as she opened her mouth. 😐
She can play all She wants..She losses all the time .. loser🙄
@@commanderbracey7501 Lawyers advocate for their clients. Thats why they must develop skills to flip there clients concerns. In other words, they must become professional liars. Their income and clients require it.
@@bromack3 makes sense. But I still want to stay away from female lawyers. 😕
They all know how to play that game it's apart of their survival language.
Kevin makes a valid point about the way some women will tell a story like the man is always bad or at fault and she is mad that Kevin up under the victim mode she was trying to play
One of my friends was married to a woman who was an NYPD officer and he stated to me that she "grilled" him with a police officer mentality. It was a strain on him and eventually, she divorced him after 5 years together and have a child. Kevin is right, women who are in the law field are usually the ones that would put pressure and strain on men.
They always want to bring their jobs and positions back at home with them... because they can't separate their work from their relationships.......And it always ends badly.
@@heroldmutebi8200 wow! That's was such a deep statement.......
@@heroldmutebi8200 Exactly, that is what my friend stated.
This is why I thank God everyday for my wife who is from Africa. She is obedient submissive cooperative loving and the list goes on. I feel bad for these young fellas cause all they got is Trouble.
A lot more good woman can be found outside the west than in it. This is not the first time I have heard good things about African women. In fact, I have.a lot of good things about Africans in general, though it is hard to get over the fact that so much violence and corruption and war continue to plague the continent and keeps the people impoverished.
Most men aren’t husband material. Continue to treat your queen right.
African women submissive,? Some are some aren't.
Yes it is, no man wants to be outsmarted on every single level in their minds, we just want to be loved and give loved
Kevin beat her at her own game. Masterpiece
The more I watch KS, the more I believe this guy is really smart. He can handle these women regardless of status or social class.
@@bromack3 000
@@bromack3 he is the Godfather!
Watched this in real time and it was even more impressive. Pretty and surface pleasant such a waste. No accountability, pretty privileged gone awry. Such a waste because she has everything else to have a great outcome.
@@H1GHD3FF Impressive.
I was in a relationship with an attorney with a psychology degree for 7 years. Worse relationship I was ever in.
Bruh, you really want through it. I'm sorry.
Explain the manipulation tactics
@@averyekwi she lied about her age, and her status as a single mother. She used guilt to try to get me to help her irresponsible sister and mother.
@@jeffreywhitlock4882 it sounds just like the women of my family. The worst thing is that you can't correct them. They will use people and the laws to play the victims and ruin your life.
@@obersveyourmind so true. I don't like conflict, so my ex would create it to get her way all of the time. Then when I put my foot down, and told her I was not accepting it any more, she would shift into helpless victim mode and accuse me of being controlling. It was awful, and my life improved greatly when I left her.
Typical praying mantis pattern. At 28, she wanted kids because she was out of her prime and knew it. Married him, had kids and then sabotaged it and got resources on the way out. Typical.
The best insurance policy in the world, they get paid either way. Heads- they win, Tails- you lose
My ex wife made a false accusation of domestic abuse. It was hell.......she went as far as telling the court I was a terrorist and was going to kidnap our children. It was unbelievable the court let it happen and did not request any evidence to support her claims.My PhD, independent woman ex wife maps directly into Kevin's model.
Sorry to hear that
I don’t mean no harm when I say this, but some of these women that are in their 40’s & 50’s need to stop thinking like they’re still in their 20’s & 30’s, it’s embarrassing. 🤦🏾♂️
I believe a lot of this stems from childhood. When a young girl is able to manipulate others at a very early age, she carries that mentality into her teen and grown up years. A good father would need to break that habit early by teaching her empathy or not taking advantage of others.
If she is beautiful and able to play grown men in her teens then that character stays and it would never leave her.
Until karma comes knocking...
This, absolutely. I love my dad for being such a fair man and teaching us about responsibility.
True! Add in Disney fairytale propaganda & “your a Princess, you can have anything you want” crap little girls are told. It’s imbedded in their brains at the most critical ages. It becomes part of their core. Now it’s even worst. People tell their daughters “you don’t need a man, you can do anything on your own”… “don’t settle”. On top of that the agenda of “men are dangerous “. Lots of lesbians!
This is why I'm wit brotha Kevin Samuel's. He is fair an neutral God bless this man much success
it was kinda confusing at that physical vs psychological pain argument though..
whenever i got beat by my parents or lost a fight in the streets, it would affect me psychologically as well..
@@alexanderjackson8389 words from someone that says they love you will cut emotionally deeper than a physical wound. Those wounds from fights slowly will diminish over time. Hurtful words have lasting power. I understand how that could challenge you though.
@@rm5282 and getting your ass beat from those who say they love you is very harmful psychologically (parents)
@@jee6213 never did for me. My dad beat my butt for doing stuff i knew was wrong. He only had to do it 4 times. I learned the lesson and became better person because of it. When parents go too far with corporal punishment, it can harm. Getting a switch or belt to a tender butt can teach lessons that can prevent people from doing stupid things. Nothing is foolproof but many folks have survive appropriate corporal punishment.
@@rm5282 Many people survived slavery. Corporal punishment is still psychologically damaging and anyone that thinks beating someone is okay did not turn out fine. It's funny how it's only acceptable when it's a grown adult doing it to a defenseless child. Try corporal punishment on an adult and it's abuse and assault. Children aren't seen as people in our community, which is why the generational trauma continues.
The Godfather kicks down another woman’s lopsided narrative as to why a marriage went down the tubes. To this day, she is telling the world that her marriage ended ONLY because he allegedly put his hands on her. She routinely emasculated her ex-husband in her own admission. I wouldn’t touch that woman with a ten foot pole!👎🏾
Would you put your hands on your wife? Under any circumstances.. A man beater... Only a weak / coward men hit women... JUST 😭
@@alicewashington220 look at those, shame insults and guilt to justify women beating on men. Why don't you teach women to keep their hands to themselves ? What do you call them when they assault men ? 😏
@@alicewashington220 If a woman put her hands on me, I would respond in kind. Her protection based on gender is forfeit if she uses violence.
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She’s just plain old hard down mean. You can feel it. ALSO, he asked her what men want, and her answer was literally that men are jerks.
My life was wrecked in like manner. I helped my wife who has a degree in psychology under grad and graduate who decided to generate a false psychoanalysis and present it to the court system as a sitting Conciliation Court Director. Unfortunately the legal system bought her version of circumstances false as they are. She schemed, plotted and planned with legal professionals who supported her narrative.
So she said “you crazy” and used her profession to prove the point to the court system ?
Men are taking the blame for everything that is going wrong with women. A man will take the blame up to a certain point however the women don't admit, or take the responsibility of provoking or initiating conflicts in a relationship. It takes two however good men will take responsibility for their part. Some men are okay with companionship however most men are more focused upon being married and because there are so many women looking for that they will overlook a woman like this one.
Right, it’s not worth it to deal with women like this. Some men are not strong enough to walk away or ignore the verbal abuse and then they wind up in jail with pookie and ray ray. I used to be reckless with the mouth but now that I’m getting older, I’m mature and respectful of women and I demand the same in return. The moment a woman disrespects me, I’m out. ✌🏾
A lot of men are laying in their casket currently because of a woman’s mouth and they don’t care when that man looses his life. They get to go home to continue their bs all awhile that man’s corpse rot underground. This is fucking sickening. My mother killed my father because of this shit. He use to tell me that he was trying to stay alive for me but he died of depression because of my piece of shyt mother fuckery to him and the rest of us. Be strong men!!!
It’s 3 sides to every story
@@HKH129 Facts
Thats right!
This is a master class in deconstructing a manipulative woman.
Kevin Samuels flipping the world upside down! Flipping it on its head!! Women need to take accountability for taking part in tearing up the family!!
This woman is an “airhead” I would never use her as my attorney 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏾♀️
Her ex husband probably looking at this like “THANK YOU! THAAAAAAAAANNNKK YOU.”
Dude, i know he is. He's probably feels sooo vindicated after watching this. Typical "Highly Edjumacated Women" feeling like they can do no wrong. Im really starting to understand Feminism.
Lol
@@harry0042 see d non non Nikki
He saying HALLELUJAH!!! Thank You Father.
Its better to live on the roof
then
with a contentious woman.
Wait. So you divorced him because he hit you and you're friends with him? 🤔
You smell the bullshit too? The only 2 women I know that were in a abusive incident ran away from their abuser. When I mean ran. They literally moved states and cut context with him and all the people he knows.
Cant make this shit up😄
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Im definitely not friends with my abusive ex. That fool is dead....smh
He's friends because he's trying to make things work because of the child. If they had no children there'd be no reason to even speak to this lady. That's what I see in my opinion
Once I'm married thats it. I don't want to be like any of these ladies alone at that age.
Bravo!!!
Smart girl
Please, don't mimick their ignorance; bcz it hurts them in the long run!
She looks totally miserable & am sure
her ex has already gotten a young girl.
Bcz majority of the time, men aren't
looking for educated- successful- females; men look for marriage
materials!
Imagine at that age, she is puplicly seeking a man to smash and be a
step father to her daughter, who lacks a male figure role model!!!!
Let's get marry
Life happens…you can’t predict when you could be alone. He could die and you could be alone at 45. What’s important is that you are a good woman that can attract a good man.
Rest In Paradise Kevin Samuels 🙌❤️ You are missed...
Her: says "He put his hands on me" on a platform with over a million subs.
Also her: "We're friends now"
Her definition of "friends" is far different than mine.
Never an excuse to hit a woman gets men killed. Defending yourself isn't abuse.. Walk away . men got stabbed walking away. Yall never tell women to keep their hands to themselves tho
That's weak and no control could lend u in jail. If my sister or daughter catch hands he's gonna get mo than his lil feelings hurt!!!
@@beskept3071 maybe you need to tell them not to put their hands on people then. You hit me I'm knocking something out.
The law says i can defend myself against anyone. Not going to jail
@@pewe0422 where did that lady ever mention putting her hands on him...she said she abused him verbally!!!
@@beskept3071 the dude j.r said it. Not the woman
My guess... her ex-husband more likely financed her through college, when she got her degree and high paying job his presence was no longer required. She provoked his rage to escape a relationship she no longer wanted or needed. 🤔🤫
I've seen this happen to a few brothers. Brothers work double overtime to provide while putting her through school. Once she gets her education, she feels she's too good for him.
@@themusicman2005 exactly, men should always put their needs first and build their resources. We are the ones expected to provide for the family. Women can choose, men provide or their worthless. Men, put you first, please.
She took the house, aloy money and child support. She will bragg on her earnings as being self earned.
This sounds right, though it was possibly not something she waa aware of. Maybe she started making more $ than he did and she lost respect for him. (trash move, but common) Then, he tolerated her BS, so she lost MORE respect and it all went down the tubes from there.
But they were married and only knew each other for 5-6 years. So, they met in mid 30s?? Awful late to be starting law school...maybe, but I seriously doubt it.
Kevin would have been a great defense attorney.
@La Catrina facts ✊🏽
He's one of those guys that should be a lawyer, but their too smart & know better.
Heck, Kevin would make an even GREATER prosecutor!
Semper Fi My fellow Marine
The wrong type Attorney. Defense Attorneys do what these women do, misdirect, distract or claim mental, physical and/or verbal abuse to justify their clients behavior.
Mr. Samuels is a "Prosecutor," asking all the right questions to demonstrate to the jury (us viewers and listeners) the lies and real underlying motives of individuals, in the case, "Women."
As a 50 yr old who’s single with no kids ,with the experience of a man my age and knowing female nature ,I prefer being alone than ever dating again or be in a long term relationship with a woman I still desire women but i don’t have the patience any more
im all done to.
I got to the same place in my 40s, now 66, very glad to be done with dating, not worth it, complete waste of time
Dang!
Smash and pass bro
@@atrueearthling4326 noooo please don’t be
As a Black Man I have to say THANK GOD for Social Media, because it gives us a chance as men to bring our conversations from the barbershop to the world and Black Women are finally learning The Truth because we are fed up.
Big FACTSSSSSSSSSSS
As a black man myself, the internet brought to light the mental thinking of black women. I really see why our community is the way it is.
I dated a police officer and immediately began to get traffic tickets from the local PD. I got a ticket for 59 mph in a 55, license plate light inoperable and not coming to a complete stop at a stop sign. To defeat the police department I immediately begin to flip cars so they never knew what I was driving. I dated her for nearly 2 years.
///I’M LOST, WHY WAS THIS HAPPENING?
So is it you breaking up with her or something that caused this?
She was dating a good looking police chick, and the men in her department was jealous so they tried to scare him off
Targeted Individual
I wonder,if this woman ever thought about getting back with Her Ex husband, versus looking for a step father To try to replace him.
She's a lawyer, the fact everyone knows she divorced it would ruin her reputation professionally and as modern female, the fact she had to go back to man
Looking at it the wrong way. Why would he want to get back with her? There a reason they are called ex.
She had a side dude waiting. Most likely was the reason they divorced. As soon as she had that baby she probably switched up on her husband.
And she is the type to not take blame smh I love how Kevin finds the truth and doesn’t let them slither away with meaningless words
Ladies and men should be grateful to KS for pointing out some things that hinders successful relationships and laying down blueprint for us to succeed in our relationships.
KEV IS ON POINT! and the average WOMAN CANT HANDLE IT…. FACTS OVER FEELINGS
This is the person that is supposed to defend a client. God help him
Law and psychology... exactly right.
For a man, a woman with those are two professions spells disaster for us.
Witchcraft/Sorcery
She needs an older brother, around 55 to 60, in good health and shape to live her life out with, perhaps a retired military man, with full benefits and lifetime pension.
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You know what's crazy. She would consider that settling .
No she needs to be single
African here, don't know about African American culture, but any woman showing up half naked on social media is not wife material, period.
I do want to say abusive men will hit women for no reason.....and if a man feels that threatened or abuse by a woman over language he can leave & vice versa. I usually agree with Kevin but I will never agree with a man hitting a woman or a woman hitting a man just leave i will never agree with a child molester either somethings are a no!...& abuse is a no!
Same with verbal and emotional abuse
Constant verbal and emotional abuse is NO JOKE! I use to do that and guess what EVERYMAN I did that too eventually put their hands on me.
Us women can’t be out here just tearing down men. It’s not that easy to just walk away. Our mouth can be like a sword too
Thank you! Of course the cowards in the comments agree with physical abuse from them if someone VERBALLY abuse them. That sounds so weak and wack to me. Smh
I think it’s sad that qualifiers have to be put on abuse. Abuse is abuse, period. If you don’t want to be abused then don’t abuse.
It is very obvious that non of you folks here have tasted the venom of a quarrelsome woman . Don’t be quick to praise yourselves . Just thank your stars.
She earned more than him, so of course she couldn’t have him ordered to pay child support. She pays the child support
Untrue. That's not how child support works. She could have still gotten something just based off the fact that he was employed.
That’s not how it works g.
Doubt it, because she doesn’t even “let” the child her child as she said, see the father.. she just told the world her ex was physically abusive, which probably was all of him pushing her off him with her finger in his face.
She told the court he is violent and got full custody I guarantee.
NO ONE is above an ass-whooping. There's a reason to kick an old lady down a flight of stairs. Just DON'T do it. Exercising restraint is big, but absolving people of their roles in the breakdown in discourse is wrong.
Thank you
I cannot even believe this talk or the corner commentator's "agreeance" 🙄
Men on her level will blow her back out. However, she will not get a ring!
Let's be honest, men on her level are men she doesn't want.
Yes👍... ladies in their 40s and above go from a dating pool to a dating jacuzzi to a dating bathtub and all that time in a body of water makes their skin really wrinkly and less attractive 😳 😀
@@comfortablydoomed6280 Boom ! And that all she wrote. This is women number 1 issue! They keep trying to level up and ignore the men that will fit them perfectly!
Men on her level are blowing 25yr olds back’s out
You are gonna be a 60 yr old single mother asking herself where she went wrong. Lower you're expectations and you'll find true love... especially when time ain't on your side.
JR, you got to stop saying there's no reason for a man to put his hands on a woman. I found myself with a phone line wrapped around my neck. Wife trying to strangle the life out of me. What am I supposed to do? Say go ahead honey you know I can't touch. Are you serious?
I’ve been in in a few situation , dealing with women who have a Masters Degree. We had great chemistry, we spoiled each other, with gifts & giving of our bodies… sadly, it took 1 miscommunication.. it went left then south. It took 1 outburst from her, over the phone, so I turn around in my car, and never went back to her home, or called her. It didn’t make sense if what had happened, I already knew what it was. When tell you; she had a good good career, smart as hell. But she was unstable. So I digress ✌🏿
I hope this lovely Sister, find peace. We are not perfect. Sis, humble yourself, and you’ll be okay 👍🏿
I glad you avoided that potential mistake. Be safe out there.
Wow I thought I was the only man that would turn around in the middle of going to her house because of her words and actions no time for fake ones
I started a relationship with this and regretted every day
But if that is all it took for you to change driving directions their was no real substance to the failed relationship. In critical thinking you learn that content is as valuable as what you see on the surface
Right decision. Don't look back.
Kevin puts them in the HOT SEAT and they want to cancel him!!!
Sounds Iike a whole lot of confusion and cap. She is the hero in her story and doesn't understand why she doesn't have the choices she wants. If she knew the men she wanted, she would understand why they aren't check for her these days. She is invisible to them as they were to her 15 years ago. They might want to smash and dash but not wife.
This is what women don't understand that we men have so much to lose when a relationship goes south. I'm sorry when I was dating I interviewed women. Many didn't make it past the application stage. Then came this sweet Spaniard/Jamaican that value the fundamentals of having a family. Best one I met in 15 years
I agree with Kevin's position on this!!! Long story short, I am a widow, and I have been to Law School and Seminary. I was RAISED by parents who were together from 1946 until 1991 when my Mother transitioned.
I have been a VOLUNTEER CHAPLAIN since 1970. I KNOW which LAWS are SUPREME, and they are THE LAWS OF ALMIGHTY GOD. The LAWS of the OLD TESTAMENT did NOT become NULL and VOID, they were FULFILLED by JESUS CHRIST! I have been FIGHTING for the so-called UNDERDOG since I was a little girl. FINDING LOOP HOLES is what we do. Soooooo, I agree with KEVIN!!!
The DIFFERENCE between me and someone who doesn't "KNOW" the "LAWS OF ALMIGHTY GOD", is that I "KNOW" why I was CREATED, and " IF" I ever MARRY again, in the "HOME" I am a "HELP MEAT", and I will "FOLLOW" him as he "FOLLOWS JESUS CHRIST."
I will be "75 YEARS YOUNG" this January 2022. I have been "MIGHTILY BLESSED" with "LONG LIFE", and I could write a book about "KNOWING" how and when to "SHUT UP." I "CHOOSE" to be "SINGLE", and I live my Life according to the "STANDARDS" set by "ALMIGHTY GOD." They will NEVER be "LOWERED", I must "COME UP" to them!!!
Oooooooh........I am 5' 7"; 147 lbs with a dress size 6. I exude VIBRANCY because I KNOW WHO I AM and WHOSE I am!!!
I THANK ALMIGHTY GOD for men like KEVIN SAMUELS who aren't INTIMIDATED!!!
She does not want what she says wants! She is lost in who she really is! A man of any age, or quality, or status will not meet her needs. An attorney is argumentative by nature and training.
I dated one. Yes. Very argumentative...shid is annoying. I don't date em, just smash.
The central point Kevin Samuels made in this interview and in other interviews is these single 40+year-old mothers is they are exclusively focused on what THEY want from a potential male mate but have given little thought or honest inquiry/ analysis into what their "target market" of potential males WANT in a female companion.
Any suitable male interested in pursuing an emotionally significant relationship with a divorced 40+-year-old attorney with an 11-year-old KNOWS THERE IS A HISTORY THERE. That male will assess what happened in her prior marriage as a PRIME indicator of what he may experience with her. It is expected the female caller will shape the narrative of her marital history to put the BLAME ON THE MAN. And that is why these professional modern women find themselves ALONE. These professional modern females are emotionally and psychologically predisposed to play the "victim" and that is a categorical disqualifier.
It is extremely important black women listen carefully to Kevin Samuel's outline of how black men are doing an extensive RISK ANALYSIS of potential relationships with "modern black women". Like insurance/credit underwriters, black men, especially the more accomplished successful ones, have determined a large segment of black women represent unacceptable/unattractive levels of risk and are seeking demographic segments of women which offer them more acceptable profiles of risk vs reward/benefits.
Man bravo! Well said. I just don't believe they are capable of understanding what men want because they have really never been around men from birth many of them. Plus the world keeps lying to them that they are wonderful and can do no wrong.
Men also don't consider spoiled milk unless we are that desperate 😂
Basically for survivor lol
Probably one of the best Kevin Samuel "therapy sessions" I've seen in awhile. Thirty minutes and she TOLD on herself completely. She truly had a "come to Jesus" emotional/intellectual epiphany. Talk about "BRAINFREEZE!" You could see in her tone and mannerisms. She was hooked. Using a fisherman analogy, Kevin just reeled her in alongside the boat, implanted two emotional boosters [ratio as appropritate], remove the "HOOK" of aggressiveness/masculinity and THE NEED TO BE RIGHT. . .and send her on her way. Men and her in life would see here more differently. She'll see men differently I believe.
Don't go back to that hook.
A better reason to avoid attorneys is because these women are PAID to argue and manipulate.. Why would ANY self-respecting man who ISN'T also an attorney want to deal with that?
Lol, in a relationship for 5 years prior to marriage, i assume married for 1 year. He hid that behavior for a minimum of 5 years? GTFOH
She participated in it. But once she got tired of it, she had to victimize herself to save face.
This is why you should never stay with a woman who loves to argue.
Actually some people can. Just like a woman can and right after you marry her she switches up same thing with a man.
Attorneys have mad communication skills. I bet when she put that tongue on him, in a hateful manner she left him with no other option than to leave her
She doesn't seem like a attorney the way she's responding.
This depends on what type of attorney she is But I agree
Because a lot of women who come on his show be lying notices how all the women who come on. Never make less than $100,000 a year
You've must have never met a public defender
@@jeo3212 come to think of it I have. I don't know if you're a lawyer or not but I'm not. In case you're not you and I can do a better job than some of them.
She’s a court appointed attorney, not private. There’s no way
Mental health is real , so verbal abuse needs to be held accountable same as physical abuse is , you shouldn’t be able to abuse someone in anyway ‼️
It's a shame that many blackwomen can't answer simple questions with a simple answers,
Why would a lawyer call Kevin? Shit, respect your intellect!
Now that's a good question 🤔
RIGHT! she doesn’t need validation from him at all!
Believe me she has learnt a lot from the conversation.
really 😫 that is very confusing
You really as a man ask and talk to women in this way to find out why their last relationship broke down, or trust me end up in the exact situation.
He supposedly beat you, however you didn't file no charges, go after no child support, and you both are still friends??? Makee no sense o think she lied on him.
She made all that shit up to be with that so called step dad.
@@nextlevelmindset1629 She sure did. I don't know any sane woman that's just friends and cool with their so called abusive ex boyfriend or husband.
She's very beautiful and polite
Hopefully she gets completely
Healed and find someone
There are men who are narcissists, and they gaslight, manipulate and emotionally abuse. Then when the women is psychologically damaged, he sits back and calls her crazy and then plays victim.
You think that women aren’t entering these relationships with psychological damage ?