Why I left Wells and Why You Should Too | What they DON'T Tell You About Living in Maine | Pro / Con

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  • @livinginsouthernmaine
    @livinginsouthernmaine  12 днів тому +3

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  • @roberttrussell8766
    @roberttrussell8766 9 днів тому +37

    I love living in northern Maine nice and quiet and for someone who spent 20 years in the Marine Corps I don’t like being around a lot of people and I like being around the outdoors off the grid

    • @josephpotter7776
      @josephpotter7776 4 дні тому

      Do you comment on every Maine video? Serious question

    • @Ryan-q8x
      @Ryan-q8x 3 дні тому +1

      I love northern Maine. However, after suffering some significant health issues, that's probably the worst region to live for healthcare. Northern Light, (formerly EMMC) in Bangor is the closest hospital for conditions necessitating any form of interventional surgery for a stroke or heart attack. So, yes, northern Maine is a nice and quiet place to live. But, I wouldn't recommend the northern region for anyone with serious health issues.

  • @TerryLee04950
    @TerryLee04950 День тому +3

    Born in Maine, lived here worked here my entire life. Moved to Alaska for 20 years. Maine beckoned me so at 73. Back in Maine.Love the remote areas.

  • @donjewett1059
    @donjewett1059 15 днів тому +69

    southern maine is northern boston

  • @michaelaghmalone-hansen5656
    @michaelaghmalone-hansen5656 6 днів тому +10

    I relocated from Conwy in Wales UK, to Maine, near Conway US, 13 years ago and I LOVE it! Like my home town in Wales, I am surrounded by countryside, mountains and lakes, unlike my home town there are no endless green fields full of lambs & daffodils and there are no castles.
    I love rural life, I enjoy having plenty of outdoor space to grow veggies and walk my pups. I can wander outside in my pj's with my morning coffee and watch the ducks and the loon's on the lake, my pups can wander freely, I can light a campfire and snuggle up under a blanket with a good book, listening to the chipmunks and the squirrels running around. I can watch the boaters or I can head out on my boat or my kayak or my paddleboard. I enjoy the peace & quiet, I enjoy my own company and more than anything, I enjoy NOT having neighbours too close by. I can watch the sun rise and set and I can see the stars because unlike the towns, the lack of streetlights means the skies are clearer.
    In winter, I get to snuggle up in front of a log fire, watch the ice fishers out on the frozen lake. Sure, there's a lot of snow over winter that has to be cleared and yes it can get cold, but that just makes it all the more joyous when Spring kicks in. Nothing is perfect, but for me, Maine is close to perfect, all I need is fields of spring lambs and the odd castle and then it would be perfect :)

    • @SoulHealerHolisticCenter
      @SoulHealerHolisticCenter 3 дні тому +1

      I'm from Bedford UK but live in Lancaster NH now but was in Maine for a while. Driving around it literally reminded me of Wales, except it's filled with trees round here. It's absolutely stunning up here ❤

  • @layah3890
    @layah3890 День тому +3

    Maine has😅 very long winters. I love living in maine. But Its expensive cost of living and rural living takes getting used to. One draw back about living in maine is the limited resources and severe lack of medical providers, veterinarians accepting new patients is difficult to find for our increasing population.

  • @brianfortier9711
    @brianfortier9711 10 днів тому +18

    there are two Maines the I95 corridor to the east which is mainly transplanted out of staters then the real Mainers live north and west of 95

  • @TomCarter-x1m
    @TomCarter-x1m 19 годин тому +1

    Maine is brutal to live in during the winter, but it is still one of the safest places to live.

  • @mitchellholmes3285
    @mitchellholmes3285 14 днів тому +29

    Will in my humble opinion what you are actually describing is York County Massachusetts

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  12 днів тому +5

      Lots of Mass influence all over Maine.

    • @wmanad8479
      @wmanad8479 9 днів тому +2

      @@livinginsouthernmaine It was Mass before it was Maine. Born and raised in the county, I don't much miss it, prefer western Mass. BTW Washington county isn't "up north" it's down east. Madawaska is "up north"

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  9 днів тому

      That is a very good point. There is a monument in a park in Kittery that explains this.

    • @eenebw
      @eenebw 9 днів тому +1

      And cumberland county . NY and Oregon.. and all up the coast is the same. Woke ville now. No independent thinking. Just drink the progressive Kool aid or be shunned. I have lived in Maine 40 years and what was a once sleepy proud new England state is now ny Conn or Oregon .. I challenge anyone to even find someone that knows wat saying cah vs car or lobstah vs lobster meant... Cause we all sound like valley girl talk now.

    • @mezzb
      @mezzb 7 днів тому +1

      @@eenebwThe obsession with politics is really messing with the social fabric. i'd say it's a "both sides" thing, but honestly city folks have always been a bit more engaged because they are so many more people around them and issues to deal with. The radicalizing of rural folks over the last 20 years depresses me. I have family way up north in Maine, and I remember how they were mostly invested in local affairs and the weather, and the red sox. And passionate about it. Now I see tons of Trump signs, bumper stickers, weird political t-shirts - mainly about issues they likely never encounter in their day to day lives.

  • @moonwvlf6919
    @moonwvlf6919 13 днів тому +35

    1970 - 1979 Bangor Maine got 752 inches of snow
    2010 - 2019 Bangor Maine got 830 inches of snow
    It is not snowing less
    People love to just make up these climate change "facts"

    • @moonwvlf6919
      @moonwvlf6919 13 днів тому +1

      ​@@boston1450What are you talking about? ... Why are you repeating the lie that it snows less than the 60s/70s? I literally just looked up the data ... It is not snowing less, if anything it is actually snowing more. Look up the data for your own city ... You people are weird

    • @istvanpraha
      @istvanpraha 9 днів тому +1

      I don't want to derail the good video on this topic, but I see the opposite here in NYC-LI area. "OMG it's so hot!" Yeah, it's always been hot and had droughts and forest fires; much of Long Island was a pine barren. We have indeed had a few records (especially "70 degree day in November") type records, but I go crazy when I hear people talking not stop about climate change when we have absolutely normal 90 degree summer days. Not sure why people suddenly expect forever-mild England style weather
      Sorry just needed to rant about transplants who don't even know what normal weather is or was like in downstate NY, now declaring it's worst than ever. Quite the opposite in some ways - we've have surprisingly few horrible hurricanes in recent decades. Worst hurricane in modern history was all the way back in 1938
      ** caveat being the weather pattern of no rain and higher than average temps that repeated non-stop until late November. Time will tell if that was "weather" or "climate" since short term it is "only" weather but if it keeps happening it will indeed be climate.

    • @ericallen8263
      @ericallen8263 7 днів тому +2

      I'm not part of the climate crazies crowd but something is up with the weather and personally I think it's a natural cycle but I live 40 miles north of bangor and it's not the same as it was in the 70's 80's as a kid and have pictures to prove it...We might be getting snow but not the Temps to sustain it..

    • @moonwvlf6919
      @moonwvlf6919 7 днів тому

      @@ericallen8263 After looking into the historical details you are correct ... Bangor Maine was colder in the 1970s than the 2010s. However the warmest decade on record was the 1930s. Interesting. I will list the average temperatures by decade below
      1930 - 1939 = 58.38
      1970 - 1979 = 52.67
      2010 - 2019 = 55.48

    • @mezzb
      @mezzb 7 днів тому

      @@ericallen8263 it's not "climate crazies" it is the consensus of virtually 100% of career scientists in the field. Most of the world accepts this as fact, but we have a propaganda machine in this country trying to trick people into thinking what's actually happening is not happening, because the fixes will be costly to their gigantic companies. And they rely on the fact that weather patterns are quirky by nature to fool folks. As if the climate scientists didn't consider that as a possibility.

  • @layah3890
    @layah3890 День тому +2

    Wilderness survival living a ool snow plowing activities for 9 to 10 months out of the year! Car rust from fridges temperatures and salted roadways. But its one of the Most beautiful places in the United States

  • @FloridaCatholicGuy
    @FloridaCatholicGuy 9 днів тому +11

    Left Maine for Florida in 2019 and it was the best move I ever made.

    • @BeverlySeverence
      @BeverlySeverence 9 днів тому +1

      @@FloridaCatholicGuy It was 15 degree last night in southern Maine, southern a misnomer for the US, but appropriate for Canada. Do you have room for two frozen guests? I can't stand no more.

    • @Dmidnightmachine
      @Dmidnightmachine 7 днів тому +3

      how's your insurance premium?

    • @FloridaCatholicGuy
      @FloridaCatholicGuy 7 днів тому

      @ actually not bad. It helps when you are in a house built in 2019 and not in a flood zone.

    • @covertops19Z
      @covertops19Z 2 дні тому

      Kinda like moving from Kalifornia to Idaho in other words..

  • @DuskaMartovich-k3t
    @DuskaMartovich-k3t 7 днів тому +13

    I have lived in Maine all my life and absolutely love it here. It is quiet, has 4 seasons and very very nice people who mind their own business but help when needed. Whenever I leave the state I experience culture shock- the garbage along the highways, urban sprawl and bill boards do not exist in Maine.
    The terrible summer traffic is in the southerly most tip of the state- York County ( which is not the most populated as you assert, Cumberland County is) Most Mainers live north of York to experience the calm culture of this state- we avoid that whole area in the summer, knowing it is where most of the tourists are and instead prefer to vacation at family owned lake-side camps. The crime rate is extremely low here and we are fine with the winter keeping anyone who can’t handle a shovel- away.
    I’ve been to Florida… and am always so glad to come home to Maine.

    • @davidkirkland-w2i
      @davidkirkland-w2i 2 дні тому

      i moved from the swamps of southern ga . last dec. 3 i could not agree more as for the loving maine its amazing happy holidays good morning and have a amazing day its cold and beautiful

    • @junfan9748
      @junfan9748 2 дні тому

      The crime and drugs are rampant. Don't lie to people.

    • @davidkirkland-w2i
      @davidkirkland-w2i День тому

      @@junfan9748 yes but thats everywhere sad part is the ones behind it is the ones who u least think would be good morning enjoy your amazing day

    • @junfan9748
      @junfan9748 День тому

      Maine is a special place. For good and for bad. So when it's good it's unique. And when it's bad it's also unique.

    • @davidkirkland-w2i
      @davidkirkland-w2i День тому

      @@junfan9748 thats coastal living north to south right the key is to be the best we can be and stay aware and do right even when faced with the wrong for whats done in the dark will always come to the light even if its after we pass away

  • @SergioPavon
    @SergioPavon 9 днів тому +11

    I moved to Maine recently after over 20+ years living in NYC and I love it. It's worth the move--Maine has a lot to offer.

    • @BeverlySeverence
      @BeverlySeverence 9 днів тому

      @@SergioPavon Like what? $40 per pound softshell lobster and 9 months of winter?

    • @jonperley9722
      @jonperley9722 8 днів тому

      ​@@BeverlySeverenceyou forgot Janet Mills liberal way's!!!

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 8 днів тому

      Yep 2 things Jackass Janet and massholes. Pretty much the reason I'm leaving. Can't wait.

    • @SergioPavon
      @SergioPavon 8 днів тому +2

      @BeverlySeverence you sound like a delightful person to be around.

    • @BeverlySeverence
      @BeverlySeverence 8 днів тому

      @@SergioPavon Aaarrrhhh.

  • @ytubsave307
    @ytubsave307 23 дні тому +25

    Your assessment of Maine is on point for the most part. My only different thought is there is no way I would want to spend any time in Florida. I have visited there a number of times and saw absolutely nothing that interested me. A flat, over built, boring state with boring beaches and wall to wall highways and strip malls. I'll take any number of beaches in the Caribbean over Florida's beaches any day. There is a lot to do during the Winter in Maine, all kinds of activities and events. Like any other state, if you live in "rural" areas you have farther to go to get to things. Maine is no different. I have visited many other states, Maine is paradise compared to most from what I'vs seen.

    • @gforcelation
      @gforcelation 22 дні тому +7

      Florida is a swamp. Maine is beautiful.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  22 дні тому

      Thanks for your comment.

    • @ytubsave307
      @ytubsave307 20 днів тому

      @@thefeelingofunfair4052 let me guess, you are a "child" under 40.

    • @kokadjooutdoors620
      @kokadjooutdoors620 13 днів тому +2

      Agree. Traveled all over the US and will stay in Maine. Not always greener elsewhere. Plus the diversity of landscape here is like no other

    • @FloridaCatholicGuy
      @FloridaCatholicGuy 9 днів тому +1

      Moving from Maine to Florida is the best move I ever made.

  • @ericjayj1
    @ericjayj1 7 днів тому +2

    I've been living in Maine for over 40 years. One of the best decisions in my life was moving here and raising my family in a sane environment.

  • @Joe-pb3lx
    @Joe-pb3lx 23 дні тому +25

    Electric Bills are outrageous.....we barely put any lights on and the bill is on average is 200 dollars a month......and ticks are everywhere, in your lawn and on the dirt trails......lets talk Lyme disease ........other than that its a great place like any other

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  19 днів тому +4

      Yup, seems like there is always a downside with everything. Like a glass of water, half full or half empty.

    • @ccronk20
      @ccronk20 12 днів тому +4

      I crushed my bill with a heatpump hot water heater. It went from $200 something to $89.

    • @Joe-pb3lx
      @Joe-pb3lx 12 днів тому +1

      @@ccronk20 ......yeah we did that too and it helped.....then we got rid of an old second fridge we used.......everything is LED now.....

    • @jesusisking117
      @jesusisking117 10 днів тому +11

      I moved up to Maine from Brooklyn NY and other than all the liberals, I love it. Mainers should reconsider what they are voting for.

    • @OKzombieCUPCAKE
      @OKzombieCUPCAKE 9 днів тому +5

      It's the delivery and renewable fees! We are paying for other people's solar panels!

  • @straceshow3212
    @straceshow3212 13 днів тому +10

    There is no perfect place. You just have to identify where you want to live and make the best of it. There will be disappointments no matter where you live.

  • @terrydyer2490
    @terrydyer2490 День тому +1

    It really comes down to how you want to live. I live in central Maine, north of Augusta. My husband and i moved to AZ and lived there for 10 years. He passed away, and i came home. AZ was a culture shock. I didn't care for city living. Everything is on top of each other. I liked the weather most times. Here in Maine, You can live in the southern area and have the city life. The more north you go, the quieter it gets. Winters are harsh and very cold. It really depends on how you want to live. I love my privacy and secluded way of life at my age. As for the tick population, you just need to learn about them and protect yourself. It's no worse than dealing with scorpions, black widows, ants, and roaches. Every state has its ups and downs. I found out that im a true Mainer and wouldn't want to live anywhere else.

  • @scottalmond9025
    @scottalmond9025 4 дні тому +1

    Grew up in Sanford.
    Left in 83 never looked back.
    No Jobs, Taxes too high!
    Live in Destin, Fl.

  • @duanehamdorf2228
    @duanehamdorf2228 8 днів тому +2

    Maine and Minnesota have a lot in common. Weather, differences between northern and southern regions, tourists and liberals.

  • @kevinbarry6552
    @kevinbarry6552 11 днів тому +4

    Moved to oxford york county line near NH border 6 years ago I love it, couldnt afford a place on the lake but i bought on a state road at junction of another state road with atv/snowmobile trail on edge of property its great (other than cmp electric co. buy a generator youll need it!) the state dot plows the roads. If your buying here and gonna stay year round Id definitely reccommend living on a maine road plowed and maintained by the state its a huge difference compared to the side roads

  • @istvanpraha
    @istvanpraha 9 днів тому +3

    I feel stuck in NYC but love when I get away to hike in the exact cloudy cool weather in pine forests exactly like you're walking in in the beginning. That's my version of Heaven on Earth! Especially with the pink haze between 3-5PM in the sky

  • @jeffcarr2265
    @jeffcarr2265 4 дні тому +1

    I spent 17 years in the south and am glad to be home in Maine.

  • @AllenFamilyFirewood
    @AllenFamilyFirewood 13 днів тому +3

    Lived here all our life an make a fair living selling campfire wood in so Maine to campers and campgrounds . After the summer rush is over we head north to get away for a bit . We also do the UA-cam thing twice a week .

  • @Modern_Nostalgia
    @Modern_Nostalgia 5 днів тому +1

    great video. ive been living in maine since 2022 and visiting since 2018. winters can be long and boring but also cozy and charming depending on how you see it.

  • @colleenregan9130
    @colleenregan9130 9 днів тому +4

    I grew up in Sanford. If you don’t like Maine…leave. It’s just that simple. Maine is home. It will always be home. Time moves on and things change. There’s nowhere better, just different.

  • @Two-brothers-stacking
    @Two-brothers-stacking 14 днів тому +7

    Southern Maine is not my Maine. Love it here and when we go south, I can't wait to get the hell out and go home. I don't lock my doors and sit in traffic or pay ridiculous pricing. Most of my relatives live in Boston and they can keep it. Paying to park my car or to go through a tunnel pay ridiculous rent not my cup of tea. 5 bucks for a ten-cent coffee and they live a shorter life according to the statistics. I also think you are much wealthier than the average Mainer, so you have more options then most not nocking you. You didn't get they're by sitting on your ass now that's some Maine talk right there. Good videos have a great day.

    • @tammyowens1189
      @tammyowens1189 10 днів тому

      If You don't lock Your doors Your a special kind of stupid. We have tons of drugs and crines and in rural Maine.

    • @TakeMetotheRiver.
      @TakeMetotheRiver. 9 днів тому

      well said! keep that ish down south

  • @CADMike
    @CADMike 10 днів тому +5

    There is a boat ton of job opportunities in southern Maine. Especially in the trades. If you couldn’t find a job you’re not looking hard enough.

  • @paulbaratta1566
    @paulbaratta1566 16 днів тому +3

    I love coming up the house in Wells during the Winter. By August you need a hooded sweatshirt on the beach and in October - windshield and you can enjoy the quiet and sun. After over 60 years in Wells, we know all the back roads during the Summer and where to go. Plus, being a year rounder (part time) get some consideration into restaurants in Summer

    • @brucedeleskey8540
      @brucedeleskey8540 14 днів тому +1

      For the summer only and fall 🍁 that's it because that's all thare is we barely get much snow anymore to go skiing snowmobiling it's all fading away and China buying up all the farm land up in Maine China owns the most land in Maine and all the land they buy is all next to millatery bases whats up whith this what's the government doing about this

  • @Joe-pb3lx
    @Joe-pb3lx 19 днів тому +31

    If you have money.....buy a place secluded and live in the woods but have guard dogs and weapons

    • @johnblair6113
      @johnblair6113 10 днів тому +1

      Maine is the safest state!!!!

    • @Joe-pb3lx
      @Joe-pb3lx 10 днів тому +1

      @@johnblair6113 .......thats all relative......you must have never had many incidents .....maine is safer than chicago

    • @prestigevending15
      @prestigevending15 9 днів тому

      That’s literally what I did. Just make sure you get enough land to harvest enough for firewood and building lumber.

  • @layah3890
    @layah3890 День тому +1

    Maine is Bear country. They are plentiful everywhere.

  • @donaldperrotta8514
    @donaldperrotta8514 12 днів тому +2

    Had a friend who I worked with for years here in Connecticut .. he retired in Connecticut and moved to Maine ! I guess he’s happy .

  • @crinagrewel6936
    @crinagrewel6936 22 дні тому +7

    Tourists here are minimal compared to FL which is infested with them. I will totally disagree with you about affordability- I have saved on moving to Maine with my insurance on home and auto. Florida is crowded, green all the time, hot, humid and a traffic nightmare...let us not forget the higher insurance rates, property tax and groceries in FL. It is better to rent for a week or 2 in FL if you need the warm, but FL is a cesspool of strip malls and privileged drifters. I am so glad that once I retired from FL that I was able to move to ME and enjoy 4 seasons-the same season for over 30+ years(in FL) gets monotonous. ME needs to bring medical and tech jobs and not more tourism which pays a pittance

    • @johnhoward3996
      @johnhoward3996 12 днів тому

      I agree with you on fl. I want to get out of here.

  • @michaelspicer1236
    @michaelspicer1236 4 дні тому +2

    As a Mainer I can appreciate running the snowblower as a winter activity 😂.

  • @jfernsten
    @jfernsten 12 днів тому +3

    Dude, I live in Wells! My wife's job suddenly transferred us here 3 years ago, and it's been a HELL of a culture shock from southern Connecticut. Is there any good Chinese buffet within 20 miles?

    • @SmedlyButler-cq5iq
      @SmedlyButler-cq5iq 9 днів тому +1

      One of my thoughts staying in Bangor for a summer was that it wasn't the best food culture lol

    • @eugenewalton7336
      @eugenewalton7336 7 днів тому +1

      Have you been to East Restaurant in Wells? Pretty good traditional Chinese.

    • @jfernsten
      @jfernsten 7 днів тому

      @eugenewalton7336 Um....yeah. Wholly disappointing. Even the kids didn't like it after Chinese food in Connecticut, Fitchburg, Worcester, and Canadian Nagara Falls. Honestly wonder if they're even trying around here.

  • @rem898maxamillion
    @rem898maxamillion День тому

    You left because you wanted to. What a beautiful thing to have choices and to be able to act on them.

  • @naturespond
    @naturespond 7 днів тому +1

    I ll stay living in Kittery. We love when the tourists are gone as well as when they are here. I’m from WI so I don’t find the winters tough.

  • @Lirin1122
    @Lirin1122 3 дні тому

    I moved from Merritt Island, FL my home state to Caribou, ME and I haven't been back since 97! My kids all love Maine and say it is where they wanted to raise their kids!! Only thing I wish for is country property and to be able to live off the land!! I love Maine, happy to have 4 seasons (even if its a lot different) than when we moved here.

  • @veronicapace7198
    @veronicapace7198 2 дні тому

    We visited Maine in April. Love the state but we were so cold. Awesome food made it worth it.

  • @brendanseamans3151
    @brendanseamans3151 6 днів тому

    As someone from Mass (please don't start throwing rocks) I just sold a cabin in the woods in western Maine after 18 years. I love the state and have been going up there for since the 1980's, camping and hiking around Moosehead Lake and Baxter SP. We were considering retiring in Maine, but now that the wife and I are in our sixties and now retired, we decided to bail on the harsh winters. Planning to relocate to a warmer climate from Mass, but definitely not interested in Florida. Looking into the Ozarks in MO/AR, maybe southern Utah.

  • @JimTexas806
    @JimTexas806 9 днів тому +4

    The ""I hate Maine" clickbait is all over UA-cam. It is a turnoff to me.

  • @rickmainecali
    @rickmainecali 6 днів тому +1

    Good tell your friends.

  • @bertrambertram9173
    @bertrambertram9173 10 днів тому +1

    Southern and Mid Coast Maine is a wonderful place to live. And by the way, the food and local restaurants can be terrific and affordable. Health care is ok but Boston and Portland are not that far away. The locals tend to be somewhat provincial but it is a purple start by and large. Personally, I found the summer heat in Florida and the South much more restrictive and keep you house bound a lot more than the winter cold in Maine. And the boating in Maine from having a row boat to a larger boat is incomparable.

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 8 днів тому

      @@bertrambertram9173 where is food affordable? I ain't eating at mickeys every day. Purple my ass. This effn place is beyond blue. Biggest reason I'm getting the eff out of here. Don't bullshit a bigger bullshitter.

  • @PaulSpurling-cf5un
    @PaulSpurling-cf5un 13 днів тому +1

    Love Maine in spring, summer and fall. Have a cottage on the coast that we bought in 1995 and its still a 3 season cottage. Taxes have only increased $200.00 in 41 years. How can you beat that! We get to enjoy the ocean, dinning and lifestyle that I could not get on Cape Cod. The locals are the best, though I'm not accepted as a local but they do watch out for us and our property. Best decision I ever made. Now my children and grandkids can enjoy this place long after I'm gone.

    • @marywegrzyn506
      @marywegrzyn506 10 днів тому

      After all those years, you're not accepted yet? Are you a trumper? That may be a good reason

    • @kuriouskaren234
      @kuriouskaren234 9 днів тому +2

      @@marywegrzyn506 unless you are born in Maine, you will NEVER be a local. Doesn't mean you won't be treated well, it's just how it is.

    • @PaulSpurling-cf5un
      @PaulSpurling-cf5un 2 дні тому

      @@marywegrzyn506 wow, how do you get that? Its just the way where I am. You have to be born there. Thats all. What's with the urmp comment.

  • @jamesorth6460
    @jamesorth6460 День тому

    I married my late wife back in 1997 she was from the St.John valley Frenchville, anyway after we got married we moved to Maine from my home state of Kansas. Anyway we had two sons our oldest son was diagnosed with severe autism. My wife died at the age of 45 just shy her 46th bithday in 2016.

  • @ericclark3464
    @ericclark3464 15 днів тому +3

    I disagree about job opportunities, at least for blue collar people.
    We have an extreme need for talent. In my area electricians are booked for a year ahead. Same with plumbers, contractors, and so on. Admitting housing is a challenge but the work is there

  • @jessicalubien5424
    @jessicalubien5424 15 годин тому

    I just read that ME tourism is down 9% in 2024. My husband and I moved our boys to Bangor 5 years ago. Just bought a house 30 min north. Northern ME is way different than Southern Maine. Some of us want to feel a little isolated. Society has been getting pretty sketchy these days.

  • @nwmi493
    @nwmi493 7 днів тому +1

    There's five states in "Maine " and they're all very different.

  • @NewEyez26
    @NewEyez26 7 днів тому +1

    Been in maine for almost over 10 years from New Jersey .Major culture shock. I do like the slower pace now being older..Im convinced people born in maine do not know what good food is.I did find a few decent places but unless its seafood most food quality out here is lack luster at best.Also for the love of GOD you know the thing in your car on the right side of the steering wheel that blinks left if pushed up and blinks right if pushed down that's only a finger length away .could we please use it lol all jokes aside.all places haves pros and cons .it took a while but I like maine but if your into the hustle and bustle its prob not the place for you

    • @Jonathan-hx6oy
      @Jonathan-hx6oy 13 годин тому

      Blinker is ALWAYS on the left. That might be your problem.

  • @johnronco752
    @johnronco752 10 днів тому +1

    I have lived in southern Maine for over 30 years. I came from southern New Hampshire on the Massachusetts border. Southern Maine is becoming Massachusetts. Woke, crowded and yes there are no people in the trades here. No plumbers, electricians, carpenters, etc.
    that is unless you are loaded.

  • @quinntheeskimooutdoors6234
    @quinntheeskimooutdoors6234 15 днів тому +3

    Thanks. I have vacationed in Maine most of my life. Nice place. I would like to live in NH though near the Maine border 😊

  • @Dman216
    @Dman216 10 днів тому +1

    Ive already planned in 5 years iam leaving new hampshire for warmer weather AZ/NM/CA.

    • @terrydyer2490
      @terrydyer2490 День тому

      Please go visit where you want to live before committing. Visit in July or august. My late husband and I just uprooted and moved to AZ. It's a very big culture shock. Don't expect the same food as here. Weather is nice except it gets Hot as hell in the summer. Housing is very expensive out west. There's a lot of crime. A lot of major car accidents. Plan on spending a lot of money on pest control. Ants, scorpions, black widows, and roaches are a big problem. These states you mention do have their good points, too. Just please research and go visit for a couple of weeks. I moved back to Maine after my husband passed and even though I Hate winter, I appreciate the way of life here and regret moving out west. It was a big mistake.

  • @ericjdevops
    @ericjdevops 3 дні тому

    And another great thing was being able to work at Plixer!

  • @stevesmentkowski7789
    @stevesmentkowski7789 День тому

    Well said!

  • @Daniel-es9dq
    @Daniel-es9dq 22 дні тому +2

    My dude, comparing Maine vacation traffic to San Francisco seems extreme

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  22 дні тому

      I've been to San Francisco several times. Sitting in traffic regardless of what state we are doing it in, isn't fun.

  • @PriscillaMaine
    @PriscillaMaine 9 днів тому +1

    Let us not forget if you go clamming you must pay for it. You must have a license to do so. Clamming is not always an option due to red tide. You cannot legally go and dig clams. You cannot just go on your boat and pull up lobster or crab traps. It takes years to be able to do that. All freshwater lakes and ponds require a license if you fish. Some saltwater fishing requires a license. Tuna fishing requires a license. It's expensive, I think. That should be mentioned as well as other things. If you go swimming on the coast, make sure you know where the undertows are. People are stupid about that sometimes and lose their life because of it. You cannot hunt here without a license. Everything you do requires a license and most places do not allow tiny houses. Only a few towns allow them. Just saying. People can legally carry concealed weapons here. Most people have guns here. They do not brag about it but most outside the cities have them and I am pretty sure they are in the cities too. Not much crime here. We did have a mass shooting in Lewiston awhile back. I believe that was the first and only one. I hope it never happens again. I feel so sad for the families. Terrible. Some people here are not nice and are hard to get to know. Taxes are bad here. Prices are high. Yes you can find very cheap real estate here but if it's that cheap be checking the foundation. Be smart about it. I do not live in Southern Maine and I don't know what they do there anymore. I did live on an Island off the coast or Portland growing up. Island life is like a soap opera. Not thanks. I worked in the seafood industry. I am a lifer here in Maine. I would never leave the gorgeous state. It has it's issues like any other state except population. Summer people do not bother me. I know we need them here. Most Mainers do. I stay away from high tourist areas. Southern is little Boston. Northern is it's own world. I would never live in Portland.

  • @MrEjohnston
    @MrEjohnston 14 днів тому +5

    Ticks

    • @johnr3603
      @johnr3603 13 днів тому

      Bug spray!

    • @PollyPurree
      @PollyPurree 9 днів тому

      Connecticut is like Maine with the ticks.

  • @homesteadedman4784
    @homesteadedman4784 21 день тому +1

    Is that Paul with you in that clamming picture? I remember your business in Kennebunk.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  19 днів тому +1

      That was Paul alright. That reminds me, I need to get him in another video. Did you know he moved to Ogunquit?

  • @aninterestedparty1426
    @aninterestedparty1426 8 днів тому +1

    Another bait & switch realtor offering. I’ve seen a number of these click-bait promos from different Maine (and NH) outfits. And they’re usually coastal community boosters, excuse me coastal realtors, at heart. The title to the video is, well, like this one, “Why I left Maine, etc.”, only to discover one or two minutes in that your guide is in fact a realtor who wants to sell you property in, where else, Maine! I saw the kiss of death, in terms of true intentions, at the 1:54 mark here, when our guide says he makes his videos with his daughter, who, surprise, is a local realtor. Then, switching, the emphasis shifts, and he’s really telling us why he leaves the state he loves “for a few months every year.” And the down low, as if we already didn’t know, is Maine isn’t for you If you don’t like winter. Enough. You get the picture. It’s really an advertisement for the state, and their business; and what they really want the viewer to do is Buy! - while the bait of the title of their video suggests just the opposite. Viewer beware.

  • @tammyowens1189
    @tammyowens1189 10 днів тому +2

    Maines been ruined. Are way if life has turned into Mass New York and its woke. Many sadly want a revolution.

  • @jimcameron9848
    @jimcameron9848 8 днів тому +1

    I live in Canada... in a Honda Odyssey

    • @markbajek2541
      @markbajek2541 6 днів тому

      Not many bridges but a ton of rivers

  • @hismerecry
    @hismerecry 6 днів тому

    Says the sellers success guide was deleted…

  • @johnc1848
    @johnc1848 13 днів тому +2

    I've lived all over the country, Germany, Texas, PA, Saranac Lake, NY, R.I., SE. Mass, and Maine is a pain as far as winter as I get on up in years, but it is the safest place to live around, even in the Sebago Lake area, which is more heavily populated. We have a lot of issues, but a lot less than most places.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  13 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing the insight with our viewers.

    • @SmedlyButler-cq5iq
      @SmedlyButler-cq5iq 9 днів тому

      Where in se mass?

    • @johnc1848
      @johnc1848 9 днів тому +1

      @ Swansea, and other places in the surrounding area in the 60’s and 70’s

    • @SmedlyButler-cq5iq
      @SmedlyButler-cq5iq 9 днів тому

      @johnc1848 oh ok, yep I pass through Swansea once In a while. Judging by where you've lived I'd make a wild guess you're career military? Just a guess, Germany and TX tipped me in that direction and I like guessing lol

    • @johnc1848
      @johnc1848 9 днів тому

      @ nope, wandering sole, had a thumb and a desire to see and live in a few places, plus business.

  • @christybates9379
    @christybates9379 9 днів тому +1

    Why is the title of this video "Why I Left Maine and Why You Should Too"? Apparently you have not left Maine and you make clickbait videos.

  • @roberttrussell8766
    @roberttrussell8766 9 днів тому

    I like living in northern Maine for me after being in the Marine Corps for 20 years I don’t like being around a lot of people I like being around the outdoors off the grid

  • @tabithan2978
    @tabithan2978 9 днів тому +2

    Mainers love to complain about people from MA. Where do Mainers come for sports, MA! College? MA. Hospitals? MA. Fun? Boston. And who supports their economy? People from MA. 🤷‍♀️

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 8 днів тому

      No effn way sports, hospitals leave us the eff alone. You come up here take over the government and make things the same as the state that you just moved from. Tell me I'm wrong.

    • @birdup6663
      @birdup6663 2 дні тому

      We'll stop complaining about people from MA when they stop moving here and bringing their crappy politics with them.

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 2 дні тому

      @birdup6663 good luck with that. They want to change Maine to the state that they came from. And we allowed it to happen. It was a little at a time over a period of time. And now they're in charge. I got to get out of here.

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 2 дні тому

      @@tabithan2978 spoken like a true masshole lib.

  • @gregmilliken5538
    @gregmilliken5538 7 годин тому

    Maine is an unaffordable place to live now. I'm an eleventh generation Native Mainer. People like me and my family are being squized out by people swarming in here from elsewhere.

  • @jayfinn6698
    @jayfinn6698 6 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @GailKuzyszyn
    @GailKuzyszyn 23 дні тому

    I was recently told by a health care professional that the hospitals in Southern Maine are smallish.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  22 дні тому

      Yes, smallish but, expanding. Some of the small hospitals are closing forcing people to drive further.

    • @GailKuzyszyn
      @GailKuzyszyn 22 дні тому +1

      @@livinginsouthernmaine Are there sufficient dentists in York County? Thanks.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  19 днів тому

      @@GailKuzyszyn Definately plenty. Orthodontists as well.

    • @jakeben6848
      @jakeben6848 10 днів тому +1

      I’m a physician moving to the MidCoast! The hospitals in Maine are expanding to give people excellent care closer to home!

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  9 днів тому

      @@jakeben6848 I hope you are excited. The midcoast is awesome!

  • @wesgraham2262
    @wesgraham2262 7 днів тому

    For someone who says in the title why he left Maine, he sure spends a lot of time building it up.

    • @Jonathan-hx6oy
      @Jonathan-hx6oy 12 годин тому

      He's a realtor selling houses in Maine. Duh

  • @michaelmosquera4709
    @michaelmosquera4709 22 дні тому +3

    What do you think of central Maine overall? That would be the area id choose if I would live in that state.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  16 днів тому +3

      Central Maine is great, they still get enough snow for winter activities and you can still enjoy a wonderful rural lifestyle without being to far from the big box stores.

    • @eljefevf41
      @eljefevf41 16 днів тому

      I’d love to move there, but my neighbors will immediately hate me lol. Masshole

    • @michaelmosquera4709
      @michaelmosquera4709 15 днів тому +1

      @ That sounds like a good place. Thank you for the information.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  15 днів тому

      @@michaelmosquera4709 You bet. I have to share the good with the bad else I won't have credibility. Frankly I like Maine a lot but, sometimes I need a break from Winter. I'm always bummed and I'm not back in Maine. Right now I'm in FL but, coming back in 2 weeks.

    • @boston1450
      @boston1450 13 днів тому +2

      Central Maine IS nice of your on the outskirts of the more populated city/town.. The cost has gone crazy $$$.. Augusta Waterville on outskirts is nice.. Lewiston Auburn outskirts is nice as well. It puts you close enough to Portland Boston & other areas of you need to get places (airports, hospitals, other states). IMHO I would not move 20 miles north of Waterville or you will have to travel to get anywhere.. Land is cheap up there BUT it cost $$$ & vehicles rust out quick & forget keeping anything clean. Food cost more. Less restaurants & less portions for your money.. Locals know your from away & compare you.. it's a different way of life

  • @davebruins8623
    @davebruins8623 16 днів тому +50

    Stopped going to maine a few years ago...too woke for me.

    • @maxdragon15
      @maxdragon15 15 днів тому +13

      We're trying to fix that, we're werrrrkin on it! Give us some time.

    • @deanproctor2690
      @deanproctor2690 11 днів тому +14

      Lived here my whole life and it has certainly taken a turn since Covid. The biggest frustration is people will flea from those areas they voted to destroy, but continue to vote for more of the same once living here. No lessons learned.

    • @googlesucks2296
      @googlesucks2296 11 днів тому +2

      @@deanproctor2690You can thank Massholes for that.

    • @jesusisking117
      @jesusisking117 10 днів тому +15

      I moved to Maine from Brooklyn NY and was shocked at all the ultra liberals. People up here don't know what they're voting for!

    • @martystrasinger3801
      @martystrasinger3801 10 днів тому +6

      Wife and I used to go to Acadia regularly, but the Bar Harbor traffic is worse than driving in Manhattan or Boston post-Covid.

  • @georgezink8256
    @georgezink8256 5 днів тому

    Bear hunted maine 25 years. Hardly ever shot bear. Couple. Just loved silence. And .( Real People. Who are great just to talk to.no fake.people).

  • @istvanpraha
    @istvanpraha 9 днів тому

    That mobile home is lovely though!

  • @rixar139
    @rixar139 18 годин тому +1

    ☘ Irish Honey Badger - Yikes 😇

  • @dennistyler9852
    @dennistyler9852 22 дні тому +1

    You can’t get there from here…6 months Maine and 6 months Florida if you’re retired is a snowbird’s paradise.

  • @EstellHartington-ut8lf
    @EstellHartington-ut8lf 7 днів тому

    Crime in Maine is picking up. Since resortareas have increased and the locals are becoming obsolete. We are being driven out by money. We built a ranch home on 9 acres on a dirt road in 1977. It is now 2024 going on 2025 and multimillionaire homes are going up. It's not unusual to hear on 1 rich home coming down to put 1 up much grander. The rich are stripping the goodness & polluting the land. Sucking out all the water & mudslides erosion being caused by not caring for the land. Roots bushes trees they hold moisture and suck up run off. Take it away and erosion occurs. NO thanks from me. We need to learn to live with what we need and limit the wants. Owning 5 homes is excessive.

  • @drsuperhero
    @drsuperhero 8 днів тому

    Lived in Maine for 10 years and still do. We have a great school system. I love it. Can you move elsewhere with lower taxes but we have great police, schools, winter is awesome. We have plenty of liberals and conservatives. It’s super white so that may be a plus or a negative for you. Hope more people want to move to a most right wing state, don’t let the door hit you.

  • @baaltroth1957
    @baaltroth1957 7 днів тому

    I love Maine where i live in the country. Good and bad everywhere. But the bad here is not that bad. Traffic is bad year round because everything funnels. But that's the worst thing. Ticks and browntail moths, that can be managed. The cost of living is outrageous especially given the median household income. It is a perfect setup for paycheck to paycheck living for most. A lot of rental property owners are lazy too and they only do enough to get by legally.

  • @SuperMassman
    @SuperMassman 14 годин тому

    😂 FLORIDA.. your joking? I live in Weston Florida and the heat and humidity is so bad you can not leave your home.. think of it as the same effect as cold and snow.. you are trapped inside. ,, my advice go where the weather is mild year round. Or at least not as severe as far north and far south

  • @DeuceDropper
    @DeuceDropper 9 днів тому +1

    ❤ Black flies

  • @soulesailor
    @soulesailor 16 днів тому +5

    Maine is very affordable compared to boston and Connecticut. Thats why they are all invading our state to work remotely or retire here. Its a huge problem for our real estate values, health care facilities and infrastructure. Southern maine is now pretty much northern Massachusetts. Thankfully you can still experience real maine further away, for now.

  • @stars1861
    @stars1861 23 дні тому +7

    Great video. I've got mixed feelings about allowing mobile homes on any available lots. Yes, they can be more affordable but at the same time allowing them to plop down anywhere can also change the entire dynamic of a neighborhood or town and usually not for the better. Either way, it shouldn't be up to state lawmakers to force localities to comply unconditionally. It's also interesting that one of the State Reps backing the bill is the director of the Manufactured Housing Association of Maine.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  19 днів тому

      Yes, I have mixed feelings. The gov't seems to think it will help address the housing shortage but, I'm not sure it is the right strategy.

    • @joannecrocker5232
      @joannecrocker5232 16 днів тому +3

      Discriminate much ?

    • @dwaynedee529
      @dwaynedee529 16 днів тому +3

      What makes you feel you're entitled? If a person, a couple with children for say, can only afford a mobile home after buying land in Maine. Why does that matter? Does God judge people like you?

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  16 днів тому

      @@dwaynedee529 Yes, that is a very good point. I don't think anyone really needs to worry much about this new law. Most people who choose to invest in a mobile home can't afford $1M lots near the ocean and if a person can afford it, this law allows them to place a single wide mobile home for example right next to a $10 home. I don't have an issue with this. People who don't want to live next to a certain type of home have the choice of buying the land or investing in subdivisions where they have dwelling restrictions. I think people should have this choice as well. I don't think town gov'ts should be empowered to play a god or king role on what is allowed to be built on residential lots. Planned communities however, is a different story.

    • @John-cs1xb
      @John-cs1xb 13 днів тому

      So you believe that the government should have control of how and what you live in on someone's property unless you agree with it that's not allowing Americans to have their pursuit of happiness unless you deem it ok that sounds more like you want Maine to become a giant HOA.

  • @Drek-Moon9999
    @Drek-Moon9999 7 днів тому

    My state has never seen better days. See my local progress playlist, maybe you'll want to join us! 😎 📈

  • @johnblair6113
    @johnblair6113 10 днів тому

    If I lived in southern Maine I'd move north.

  • @adamdavis4748
    @adamdavis4748 День тому

    Welcome to Maine now please go home.. born and raised in Maine
    Bangor Maine 04401

  • @CADMike
    @CADMike 10 днів тому +2

    Sure Maine is t perfect. But Connecticut? Lol

  • @bikeman9419
    @bikeman9419 8 днів тому

    I have visited Maine for 60 years. Northern Maine is awesome. Southern Maine is another story. Portland is the armpit of the state. It is an awful place to visit . I have a son that lives there and I can’t wait to leave Portland after visiting him. It’s so woke there and so liberal, they have ruined a once nice place.

    • @saddletramp6935
      @saddletramp6935 8 днів тому

      Armpit? You are being generous. I'm leaving. I literally can't wait . Reasons, jackass Janet, massholes summer and massholes permanent ergo jackass janet.. and rigged elections.

  • @mijosa2581
    @mijosa2581 8 днів тому

    The sign “Welcome home” will be soon replaced by “land of overpriced houses and minimum wage jobs” now if we can only fit that slogan on our license plates.

  • @brada4018
    @brada4018 2 дні тому

    Try living in massachusetts 😢

  • @MrROADDOG1964
    @MrROADDOG1964 13 днів тому

    Beautiful family

  • @kevinjoseph517
    @kevinjoseph517 23 дні тому +1

    LOS ANGELES---Now its dark by 5.15.

    • @livinginsouthernmaine
      @livinginsouthernmaine  16 днів тому

      Interesting, I never would have guessed that because they are so far south. Thanks for sharing.

  • @219SandPond
    @219SandPond 15 днів тому

    I love Stanford’s Marden’s!

  • @milletrad8871
    @milletrad8871 5 днів тому

    Alas! Maine seems to be, in its way, the "Washington State" of New England.

  • @nikkivenable73
    @nikkivenable73 6 днів тому

    I absolutely love the winter. The early sunsets, the cold, the snow. All of it. I moved to Hermon last year, and we are loving it. I do wish we'd get more snow, though. Maybe I need to move further north, like the North Pole.

  • @BlueeyesRonnie
    @BlueeyesRonnie 12 днів тому

    I love New England

  • @EugeneLorey
    @EugeneLorey 6 днів тому

    An especially long winded intro, then you ask me to subscribe. I made it three and a half minutes into your vid. You'd do better to get to the point. I think I'll pass on subscribing and give you a down vote instead.

  • @alanhoffman-mp2es
    @alanhoffman-mp2es 8 днів тому

    Because Fenway is too far away.

  • @kevinjoseph517
    @kevinjoseph517 23 дні тому +2

    JOB MKT