WHAT NO ONE TELLS YOU ABOUT LIVING ALONE | Moving Out for the First Time

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  • @ChefPiggy
    @ChefPiggy 5 років тому +48

    I can’t wait to live in my own, so that when I clean my house after a long day at work I can come home to it still being clean! I’m so excited to move out! It’s like a new adventure!

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +6

      Yessss! Not worrying about someone else's mess was like the best part!

  • @sangria-margarita
    @sangria-margarita 5 років тому +62

    I am the opposite. You’re saying how you have to do stuff that someone else would do for you. I’m excited to move out because I won’t have to wash all the dishes for me and three other people and two cats. I have to do the laundry for me and three other people. I have to take out the trash myself. I have to clean a giant house with a breezeway, big kitchen, two living rooms, a hallway, laundry room, and five bedrooms. I’m 14 and have never gotten any payment for the work I do. My parents make me clean up all their messes. I CAN’T WAIT until the second I turn 18 because I will be out the door and not coming back. I can’t wait to only have to clean after one person (me) and have a job. Including my chores around my future apartment and the hours spent working, I would work way less than I do now, cleaning for four people and a giant house with a total of 25 rooms and doing all my schoolwork. And I will have a job that will actually pay me!!! I’m so excited!

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +16

      Oh my gosh yeah living alone will be a breeze for you! Especially if you have just a little studio apartment for you to clean. You will have so much free time, or just time that you can dedicate to a job! Hang in there❤️

    • @miatreadwell1874
      @miatreadwell1874 5 років тому +7

      SAME! Especially I clean up when I make a mess but my parents and sister just leave there mess around and I have to clean up everyday, laundry, kitchen, bathroom, floor, my bedroom. So honestly living alone is going to be so easy, I only have to do 1/4 work I do now at 14 living with three others.

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +2

      @@miatreadwell1874 Yeah that will definitely be a HUGE weight off your shoulders. Keep your chin up sis!

    • @lanarules5900
      @lanarules5900 5 років тому +1

      damn that's torture

  • @MsSunshineElephant
    @MsSunshineElephant 4 роки тому +6

    I’ve just moved out on my own on Monday and i have been feeling so homesick and lonely. I was so exciting move and be on my own. I didn’t anticipate the sadness

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  4 роки тому +5

      It gets better i promise!! I went through the same but after you adjust your space will feel so special🤍

    • @MsSunshineElephant
      @MsSunshineElephant 4 роки тому +1

      Caira Button thank you so much. I really appreciate your kindness 💛

  • @jazzyjuarez9352
    @jazzyjuarez9352 7 років тому +27

    I have been binging your video because I'll be, hopefully, moving into my first apartment in the next few months and I want to be super prepared.

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  7 років тому +2

      That is so exciting!! Congrats! And let me know if you have any questions :)

  • @kathylunau5210
    @kathylunau5210 5 років тому +24

    I have not lived alone for 45 years, now i have to and it scares me, because i have a disabilliy , im slow , my boyfriend dyed of cancer, and it messed me up , i dont quallifly for a group home ,

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +5

      It isn’t that scary! It will definitely be an adjustment but I’m sure you will be just fine 💕 just give it some time. Let me know if you have any questions I can help with to make it easier for you.

  • @bc1248
    @bc1248 4 роки тому +9

    What nobody tells you about living alone is that it’s the way to go. Probably bcuz everyone understands that the first time moving out you may feel overwhelmed or even afraid. Especially with females.

  • @conniermontoya717
    @conniermontoya717 4 роки тому +3

    I have a hard time keeping my kitchen clean, I'm always cooking but my bathroom, love keeping it clean and decorated, all the time

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  4 роки тому

      Definitely! It’s hard to make it a routine but once you start it becomes habit!

  • @eddielongo6871
    @eddielongo6871 6 років тому +9

    I have this problem too. I end up throwing alot of food out. Was it your neighbor who accidentally tried to walk in? You should get some protection.

  • @AvaLynne
    @AvaLynne 7 років тому +20

    i save food then lose it in my fridge all the time too -_- Congrats on 400!

  • @lemonhippie9057
    @lemonhippie9057 7 років тому +15

    What do you feel is the best way to combat loneliness when living alone?

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  7 років тому +22

      I suffered with that A LOT when I first moved in. I did a couple things. I got really into fitness and started spending a lot of my free time at the gym and on runs. I made scheduling time with my friends a priority to I made sure I was maintaining those friendships. When I was still feeling lonely I would make my boyfriend spend extra time with me (more than he would have liked) and ultimately I got my dog. That by far made the biggest difference so I don't feel lonely in my studio anymore.

    • @austinaksamit
      @austinaksamit 6 років тому +4

      Lemon Hippy find a boyfriend lol jk

    • @lilyperez578
      @lilyperez578 6 років тому +2

      dogs!!!!

    • @dungeonsdungeonsandmoredun2177
      @dungeonsdungeonsandmoredun2177 4 роки тому +1

      Start slateboarding or the likes. Skateboarding is good because its relatively cheap, has a huge community of people who are generally accepting, and its a new physical outdoor activity/transportation to try

    • @ameliac504
      @ameliac504 3 роки тому

      @@CairaButton and what if you’re SINGLE!!!!!?

  • @DanielSilva-ct1gd
    @DanielSilva-ct1gd 3 роки тому +1

    Congrats on your 400 !!

  • @DanielSilva-ct1gd
    @DanielSilva-ct1gd 3 роки тому +2

    Question do you like better a gas stove or electric stove ? Please reply !!

  • @cursedimageseveryday5559
    @cursedimageseveryday5559 3 роки тому +1

    I am alone in my parents flat for only one day and it's already starting to drive me crazy. I fear moving alone somewhere else!

  • @salomelove1036
    @salomelove1036 5 років тому +3

    I don't like wasting foods either but you could freeze some food in glade food storage bowl to eat in the future... Not all food can be frozen but most cooked food can

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +4

      Salome Love yes!! I love freezing my leftovers and having them later when I am too lazy to cook.

    • @salomelove1036
      @salomelove1036 5 років тому +2

      @@CairaButton yes girl me too lol

  • @JacobLoveless23
    @JacobLoveless23 5 років тому +2

    My mom never did any of those things for me, just my father doing clothes and my mother cooking. My father never makes his bed, because sunlight kills bedbugs, so if you worry about getting them, leave you bed unkempt. What does it matter, nobody is gonna visit my bedroom. 😅

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +1

      True! Making your bed is less important when living alone!

  • @DanielSilva-ct1gd
    @DanielSilva-ct1gd 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Caira Button I totally agree with you that Living alone is awesome, but it also gives you freedom to do what you want when you want to !! Please reply

  • @TheDucky399
    @TheDucky399 6 років тому +8

    Lol, I don’t have a dishwasher 😂

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  6 років тому +3

      TheDucky399 get a significant other that washes dishes😅 I’m kind of kidding but also not. I do all of the cooking and he cleans all of the dishes!!

  • @sohaibahmed226
    @sohaibahmed226 4 роки тому

    Sorry about that experience of somebody opening your door yeah probably got mixed up. Anyways man reached that stage in life where I want to love out and I will. All the stuff mentioned like cleaning up after myself and groceries I do anyways. Just have to be more financially responsible I admit but yeah this is something that will happen. Anyways great video helpful video

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  4 роки тому +1

      Good luck and I’m glad this video helped!

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  4 роки тому +1

      Good luck!! And thank you, I’m glad it helped.

    • @sohaibahmed226
      @sohaibahmed226 4 роки тому

      Appreciate for wishing me luck! I think key advice you gave is if you’re looking for $500 apartment you need atleast $1500 in bank. It helps to have a target.

  • @haleyrider724
    @haleyrider724 7 років тому +2

    Congratulations on 400
    You are so great 😀
    You’re one of my fav youtubers

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  7 років тому

      Haley's Universe omg stop. I’m going to be honest I just had a really long day and your comment made me smile SO big. Thank you so much!!

  • @ip2489
    @ip2489 4 роки тому +3

    I'm in temporary accommodation with NO HELP and NO FAMILY and NO FRIENDS and NO JOB and NO HEALTH and NO SKILLS and NO HOPE. I want to die. I'm 25.

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  4 роки тому

      This is something I take really seriously. If you need support here is the number for the suicide hotline. 800-273-8255

  • @DanielSilva-ct1gd
    @DanielSilva-ct1gd 3 роки тому +1

    Being Single is also awesome too oh the great freedom that comes with being single !! Please reply back

    • @ameliac504
      @ameliac504 3 роки тому

      Lol here’s the reply.

  • @filmlife1000
    @filmlife1000 5 років тому

    That happened to me one time - glad I had some left over tissues in my work bag from my work cafeteria 😂😂😂

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +1

      LOL happens to the best of us girl

  • @zsomborkozma6013
    @zsomborkozma6013 5 років тому +7

    Still wanna live alone🙂

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +2

      I loved living alone! I am glad it wasn't forever but it was nice for a little while.

    • @zsomborkozma6013
      @zsomborkozma6013 5 років тому +2

      ... I hope i will love it for a long time but I'll see...

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  5 років тому +1

      keeping my fingers crossed for you!

    • @zsomborkozma6013
      @zsomborkozma6013 5 років тому +1

      Thanks! 😀

  • @hunterg4495
    @hunterg4495 4 роки тому +4

    I’m 15 and tbh I’m just watching this cause I wanna move out to smoke weed lmao😂

  • @BritneyRamirez22
    @BritneyRamirez22 6 років тому +2

    Subscribed!!

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  6 років тому +1

      Britney Soum thank you!!💕

  • @Trudloops
    @Trudloops 7 років тому +2

    Congrats for reaching >400 subscribers.

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  7 років тому +1

      Trudloops thank you!!!💕

  • @kenchristensen7534
    @kenchristensen7534 6 років тому +1

    Yeah you achieved it to answer your question. Super cute

    • @CairaButton
      @CairaButton  6 років тому +1

      Ken Christensen thank you!!!

  • @selflove428
    @selflove428 3 роки тому

    Dec 15 I'm moving

  • @samorayee420
    @samorayee420 5 років тому +1

    looks like grandmother . but you are beautiful I can accept you as a friend

  • @tjj5337
    @tjj5337 Рік тому

    It’s not a big deal…. You make friends with your neighbors

  • @jewelthompson4210
    @jewelthompson4210 6 років тому +2

    Ciara Button, you are as cute as a button. Thank you for this video.

  • @julianalfonso6418
    @julianalfonso6418 5 років тому

    I just do alot of cocaine and pay rent