That is literally the worst thing you can do if a child is on the spectrum, you can be firm and consistent but you have to stay calm or else you feed the flames.
I am a high functioning autistic. This is the ignorance that we have to endure daily. The fact that the father is yelling and is less than a foot away is something we hate! Thank you Dr. Phil for standing up for us autistics!
I’m also a high-functioning autistic myself. I went through almost the same thing with my stepmom, and I’ve developed complex PTSD. I’d also like to get tested for ADHD.
@@TheFreakonthenet Yeah nobody does but our hearing is very sensitive so whenever there is high pitched noises or just noise in general we hear it more.
@Owen Edwards there are a lot of people who treat very very well. We've come a long way in being understood so don't count out the good people yet. It's just there are ignorant people out there who don't
@Owen Edwards I was too when I was a kid but those people that made fun of me grew up and realized that what they did was wrong and I'm certain it'll be the same with you. It's all about bringing awareness to autism and educating people on what it's like to be autistic. But there will always be people who chose ignorance over learning about it and those people are the ones that you have to ignore as they chose to ignore you
There's a very conservative Christian family in my hometown that does foster care and they once adopted a boy (now grown and successful) who had ODD due to severe abuse from his biological mom. They took him to the doctor, got him the appropriate meds, and disciplined him as needed but, as religious as they were, they never, EVER even mentioned getting him an exorcism. Mental illness does not equal possession.
@@atrocity8519 yeah i totally get what your going through man, i can’t say anything on my mind without getting screamed at and blamed for them screaming at me all while being recorded every.single.time. it’s not fun at all but i get through it knowing that one day imma move out and do good for myself without them.
I’m pretty sure that was the point. He was trying to demonstrate how intimidating it is when someone yells in your face, especially when you’re a young child.
@Vixien667Oh, so you’re on the father’s side, now, huh? Is that what it is? I’m a high-functional autistic person as well, and I used to overstimulate like that also as a kid. Does that mean that demons are coming out of me?
That man ain't going to change. You could see the pride in his eyes when Phil said "you're bullying him". Imagine being proud when someone tells you you're bullying your own son smh
The fact that that woman sits there and justifies a grown man bullying her child abusing her child or even with the one who summoned this into existence in the first place is a f****** crime
I worked for that man in Archer city. They had that child running around holding a medicine ball above his head. That child needs love and understanding. I quit soon after because of how he treated that child.
I'm feeling bad too for him,honestly I'm autistic too,very bad. I have a family who is abusing me, all day. An uncle, a mom and 3 aunts. And their husbands. They're not leaving me alone. I'm minding my own business,ok? And suddenly, they are starting to pick on me like animals. All 5. They're the monsters. I'm always running from home, because of them. And they're sending the cops after me. This is not right. This is wrong. This is abusing. May Lord Jesus to care of us.
This was kind of my Childhood but far worse. Hm let's see, Yelling even at the beginning of being told what to do like a dog being abused, hit everytime I talked back or screamed in terror because they wouldn't stop until I complied, being told I should've been a still born and not my sister who should be alive, and flat out thrown outside for days at a time because drugs or alcohol would effect my parents and turn them into monsters. Overall just a dark and very shittier version of this. (Excuse my language)
i had scenes of extreme confrontation and yelling like this so often during most of my childhood, while in the good interactions they were telling me i was better than everyone else and it wasn't on my level to behave as a child (referring to generally reacting like that when i couldn't cope with something). I'm 35 now, I can't even begin to tell you the layers of anxiety and toxic coping behaviours that i've been trying to solve in the last 15 years.
As an autistic person, I can confirm that there is not a demon living in my body. I can confirm I do not need an exorcism. Autistic brains work differently, and it’s beautiful in their own unique way. Pretty sad the boy’s father doesn’t see it this way. He’s the reason for his son’s anxiety, and he needs to wake up and figure that out.
Same here and I’m very proud it’s a shame that some parents don’t want to accept or recognise that their child is gifted with a specialty but society just views it so horribly
yeah, i don’t really blame my parents for it. they still don’t fully understand autism, so i have to guide them through it sometimes. they love me and treat me well, but sometimes they treat me in ways that i feel uncomfortable with.
As a person who has difficulty with autism I do have trouble to regulate my emotions too. But Dr Phil has a point, that is bullying when that father verbally intimidated his son, got in his face and pointed at him like that. That was actually quite ugly because that’s pure loss of control.
Ugh this is exactly how my parents would "parent" me by yelling and intimidating. This honestly made me feel like crying just brought out my inner child. So many bad memories.
I'm diagnosed with ASD and if thats how my parents talked to me on a regular basis, it would make me feel horribly overwhelming. I would have either moved, or probably some form of self harm
My mother runs a nonprofit organization for equine therapy, specializing children with autism and other developmental issues….she would attack that father in a heartbeat! She has studied child care and behavior and the one thing she has always said is “children are vulnerable and they know it”. I just wanted to grab that poor little boy and hold him and protect him! 😢😢😢😢😢😢
The spectrum and any other mental conditions/circumstances should always be taken seriously and handled carefully. What they’re doing to that kid makes me lose faith in humanity 🤬
As someone with a terrible verbal and emotional abuser of a father, having PTSD anger problems anxiety paranoia and slight symptoms of schizophrenia sure is fun
I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome at 14. Over 25 years later I discover I’m not Autistic at all. I was living with cognitive, emotional, and behavioral issues that were nearly identical to those of Autism Spectrum disorders that were the result of my Narcissistic Abusive family. The last 25 years of my life have been a goddamn lie which I spent having all kinds of psychiatric drugs pumped into my system that I never needed to begin with. What I needed was a different home environment with entirety different people.
I have ASD and ODD and this is how I had been treated my whole life. Intimidated, gaslighted, and manipulated. Didn't realize it until I got older. Seeing him do this to that boy makes me so mad because I know what it's like.
As someone who also has autism, this is a very traumatic thing to watch. It takes me back to a time when my mother and step father were always yelling and making me feel down about myself. I also have PTSD because of all the mental abuse i got from my family and peers. I really feel bad for that poor boy and i don't want to see him go through the same thing i went through at his age. Dr. Phil is definitely right, he is indeed bullying that boy. Makes me sick seeing an adult man torturing a child
@@jai-lnstafford524 It's okay, it's not your fault, and you're not the only one who got treated with indignity and disrespect, any examples of how it happened to you?
I agree with everything Dr. Phil said in this segment. Because lemme tell you something, I am a high-functioning autistic adult, and it's like, I have the inability to regulate my emotions daily, cuz sometimes I get in my feelings when people yell at or provoke me. So Dr. Phil, I thank you for stand up for us autistic people when we cannot do it ourselves.
I am a Registered Behavioral Therapist and I work with children with Autism. Seeing that boy hunched over just breaks my heart. I don’t know if he’s Autistic, but regardless it’s hard to see a child with special needs in such a terrified state. He needs an intervention for his behavior: not as a punishment or because he is “bad.” He needs it as a gift to help him finally flourish.
I cried so hard when I saw this. I wanted to jump in and shield that boy with my body. I know having kids is tough, but when you get that angry you have to walk away! Nothing good is accomplished in anger.
Wow I never saw Dr Phil yell, good demonstration! I didn't quite see it as bullying, I saw frustrated parents and a temper tantrum, but yes I can see how yelling is intimidating and quite frankly scary, especially to a child who only has their parents in this world 💕💝💕
As someone that has a fatherly figure very similar to this I have to admit this cycle is probably very hard to break as I’ve caught myself doing it to younger kids around me
@@zeandiaz1791 I’ve never seen proof of such laws. You must be aware of laws that I have never seen. I would love to learn these laws against emotional abuse so that I can better advocate for children. Thank you.
I'm autistic. Nothing is wrong with this baby! He doesn't need a exorcism, he's different and that's beautiful! I was teased because I was slower than the other kids, I was practically invisible in school. They called me stupid. I'm here to say kids can be cruel.
That happened to me too, and as for adulthood today for me, I'm a member of my local bike club, and I'm physically slow on my ordinary bike because I'm physically unable to keep up with other bike riders even with their ordinary bikes, which is part of being autistic, that's why I'm saving up my money for an electric bike, so that I can go faster, and fair enough that I can keep up with those other riders, but I still don't have enough money for this specific e-bike that most other people aren't familiar with, so until then, I'm stuck with my ordinary bike, and as a result to avoid falling behind from those other riders, depending on how many miles we'd all be given as a group, I have to start one or two hours early, even there were some mornings that I got out on my bike with my sunglasses as well as my helmet before the bright sun could even appear above the horizon.
ive worked with kids who have extreme, violent, daily, sometimes hourly episodes of dysregulation, and i have to say, that i understand how a superstitious person would think this is demons
Every trauma, pain, and meltdown I went thru as a child, I do not want any my kids experiencing those same hurt like what this young boy went thru and the father should be totally ashamed of himself. Now imagine how he treats that lil boy off camera and it amazes me soo much that the mother’s just standing there recording for ‘views’ and not tryna even help out and calm the situation down . It’s very heartbreaking and very painful to watch because I can relate till this day I still remember my grandma spanking me in my right jaw with a stick and leaving a couple of bruises and she was lucky that no charges were pressed
Let say father grow up with tough love mentalities, which explains bullying child, the father should of seek help to determine what was wrong and how to deal with it.
I don’t think the father is 100% correct but my parents used to shout at me and punish me and also joke with me and play with me, so it is a part of parenting, my parents used to hit me when I do something bad, not beating but kinda like a push or slightly slap on my arm, and I’m very thankful to my parents for doing that. I don’t know the full story but when u see ur kid doing something wrong as a parent u should do something about it, and it is up to u to decide what ur kid needs to learn however there are some rules, for example u can not beat ur kid to teach them a lesson but u can get angry at them or shout at them if needed. If you don’t punish ur kids when they do something bad u don’t even love them, because they will keep doing the same mistake over and over. sometimes ur kid gotta learn it the hard way
I don't know what is worse: The fact that the father is bullying his possibly autistic son. Or the fact that the step mom is just allowing him to continue to do so. I'm autistic myself, and we DO NOT like being yelled at like that! 😠
I love dr.phil I wish more "parents" say this clip and im using the word parents so generously I should be able to deduct it from my taxes as a charitable donation
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Dr phil is so terrifying at 2:47 my heart stopped
Dang Dr. Phil on the sub grind my guy keep it up
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Love these videos!
@Sean Venuti Bibb
"It looks like bullying, because it IS."😁
Not sure why that merits a smiley face but ok...that’s weird
@@pizzelle2 I just love it when the good doctor rectified someone.
😁😁
😁🙂🙃😇
So true
That is literally the worst thing you can do if a child is on the spectrum, you can be firm and consistent but you have to stay calm or else you feed the flames.
@SHADOWED INsilence What tax dollars? It's their private money...
@SHADOWED INsilence yes they should
@SHADOWED INsilence it's the state's job to take care of its people and its most vulnerable
@SHADOWED INsilence bro you got some nerve calling someone else stupid when you look this dumb on a daily basis
@SHADOWED INsilence you probably think people with disabilities are expendable and are liabilites
I am a high functioning autistic. This is the ignorance that we have to endure daily. The fact that the father is yelling and is less than a foot away is something we hate! Thank you Dr. Phil for standing up for us autistics!
I’m also a high-functioning autistic myself. I went through almost the same thing with my stepmom, and I’ve developed complex PTSD. I’d also like to get tested for ADHD.
Allistic (non-autistic) people also hate being yelled at. This dude's crazy
@@TheFreakonthenet Yeah nobody does but our hearing is very sensitive so whenever there is high pitched noises or just noise in general we hear it more.
@Owen Edwards there are a lot of people who treat very very well. We've come a long way in being understood so don't count out the good people yet. It's just there are ignorant people out there who don't
@Owen Edwards I was too when I was a kid but those people that made fun of me grew up and realized that what they did was wrong and I'm certain it'll be the same with you. It's all about bringing awareness to autism and educating people on what it's like to be autistic. But there will always be people who chose ignorance over learning about it and those people are the ones that you have to ignore as they chose to ignore you
There's a very conservative Christian family in my hometown that does foster care and they once adopted a boy (now grown and successful) who had ODD due to severe abuse from his biological mom. They took him to the doctor, got him the appropriate meds, and disciplined him as needed but, as religious as they were, they never, EVER even mentioned getting him an exorcism. Mental illness does not equal possession.
Cuz they're not as dumb as this dude doing his search on an anti vaxxer group on Facebook
@Sasa Jafar don’t bring vaccines into this. Vaccines go to the immune system. Not to the brain.
they're good hearted I'm really happy that they stepped in to keep the boy in good hands
that fam must be quite a nice group of people
It's fine to pray for people, but this is too much when you seek out a priest before checking for mental illness and medical treatment.
"You are bullying that boy"
Everyone claps
😂👏
Lol what’s wrong with that kid
Not funny
😂😂this deserve more likes
Everyone is so happy that he is bullying that child.
Dr.Phil: "You are bullying that child, that is bullying."
The Father: "OK"
when he responds like this, I'd say he has no rights to complain about the kid no more.
The father: I know
Jack’s parents are idiots.
I agree izuku
Father be like:🗿
Parents should not record children who are on the spectrums meltdowns it is unfair and disrespectful.
I'm diagnosed with ASD and if thats how my parents talked to me on a regular basis, it would make me want to harm myself
@@atrocity8519 yeah i totally get what your going through man, i can’t say anything on my mind without getting screamed at and blamed for them screaming at me all while being recorded every.single.time. it’s not fun at all but i get through it knowing that one day imma move out and do good for myself without them.
Unfair?
If they are it should be for a professional to be able to tell what the parents should do. It should never be made publicly available.
Parents should be mature enough to know that they’re child isn’t possessed. 😂 God that is such as sad comment to type.
Bullying is bullying you can't defend it when it's on video
is she the mom trying to defend?
@@peasant7214 stepmom
2:46 Dr phil is such a charismatic person, i'm so shocked and also terrified and..i'm speechless im scared he screamed the fact,
😂 right?! I was like “OH JESUS CHRIST”
He always has that calm attitude so seeing him actually yell is amazing
I was like “holy S-t”, never seen Dr. Phil do that before, he’s always so calm.
He he yelled is sounded so simaller
I’m pretty sure that was the point. He was trying to demonstrate how intimidating it is when someone yells in your face, especially when you’re a young child.
As I heard the way that boy cried, I almost cried. One of my kids I keep an eye on is autistic and cries the exact same way when he's overstimulated
@Xyeio What are you talking about?
@Vixien667Oh, so you’re on the father’s side, now, huh? Is that what it is? I’m a high-functional autistic person as well, and I used to overstimulate like that also as a kid. Does that mean that demons are coming out of me?
I’m a person with autism, and for what he has done to his son, is ridiculous.
ok, want a cookie?
@@giannelly2558 yes.
@@just_neeks587 🍪
Me to bro I have aspbugers
@@rokigang3681 ayeee :D
That man ain't going to change. You could see the pride in his eyes when Phil said "you're bullying him". Imagine being proud when someone tells you you're bullying your own son smh
Unfortunately, people like that walk this earth.
@@harrydundee641 yes a bunch of them are out of here bro
"You could see the pride in his eyes..."
There is no 'pride' in that facial expression. It's perfectly neutral.
Exactly gross I hope the same is done to him 😡
@@fishofgold6553 are you blind? He literally smiles and nods
The fact that that woman sits there and justifies a grown man bullying her child abusing her child or even with the one who summoned this into existence in the first place is a f****** crime
That’s not her kid she’s the step mother
When I have a son when I’m older I’d settle his struggles with him by just being calm and talking it out.
Omg thanks for all the likes!!
Honestly talk it out don't think of worst case scenario
I would beat mine
@@gmailugh No don’t do that
@@Nickh1z1 ever heard of a joke before???
@@gmailugh Yeah, wasn’t funny tho.
The poor kid looked so scared of his “parents”.
💔
I was like that too as a kid
@@arsalanalikhan7264 I’m so sorry- I hope that today you are doing better ✨🌞
@@strawberribubbletea I am. Thank You.
your'e bullying that boy
me: that is correct
I had a stroke reading that 'your'e'
“He got down to his level”
Bruh, even Supernanny wouldn’t tell you to get down on this level and scream your lungs out of your throat!
"... and talked to him." she said. Well, actually.. he didn't talk, he screamed. I would think he is the one being possessed!
Yes, I'm familiar with Supernanny too, Jo Frost is her real name.
I worked for that man in Archer city. They had that child running around holding a medicine ball above his head. That child needs love and understanding. I quit soon after because of how he treated that child.
I feel bad for the kid...
I know his pain too well... it's happened to me...
@@DakariKingMykan same
Same
I swear I think I met that kid at my school
1like= 1 harmony for a kid
He’s very obviously having a meltdown/panic attack and what the father is doing is disgusting
My mom is so mean that i black out and cant recall what i did that day.
I feel so bad for this boy :(
Your a kind woman
I wonder how this man feel if that was him and maybe had a parent would treat him like this 😟
This is why conservative Christian parents should not have custody of children with special needs.
This is a case for Steve Wilkos or Supernanny show and not Dr. Phil
I'm feeling bad too for him,honestly I'm autistic too,very bad. I have a family who is abusing me, all day. An uncle, a mom and 3 aunts. And their husbands. They're not leaving me alone. I'm minding my own business,ok? And suddenly, they are starting to pick on me like animals. All 5. They're the monsters. I'm always running from home, because of them. And they're sending the cops after me. This is not right. This is wrong. This is abusing. May Lord Jesus to care of us.
Just talk to your children. They deserve human decency and conversation.
Where was Dr. Phil when I was a kid...
Fr 😂😂😂
I just seen my childhood in 4 min.
Should I be concerned
Must been pretty easy I would’ve got slap and yelled at and cussed out
This was kind of my Childhood but far worse. Hm let's see, Yelling even at the beginning of being told what to do like a dog being abused, hit everytime I talked back or screamed in terror because they wouldn't stop until I complied, being told I should've been a still born and not my sister who should be alive, and flat out thrown outside for days at a time because drugs or alcohol would effect my parents and turn them into monsters. Overall just a dark and very shittier version of this. (Excuse my language)
i had scenes of extreme confrontation and yelling like this so often during most of my childhood, while in the good interactions they were telling me i was better than everyone else and it wasn't on my level to behave as a child (referring to generally reacting like that when i couldn't cope with something). I'm 35 now, I can't even begin to tell you the layers of anxiety and toxic coping behaviours that i've been trying to solve in the last 15 years.
You alright bro
As an autistic person, I can confirm that there is not a demon living in my body. I can confirm I do not need an exorcism.
Autistic brains work differently, and it’s beautiful in their own unique way.
Pretty sad the boy’s father doesn’t see it this way. He’s the reason for his son’s anxiety, and he needs to wake up and figure that out.
Same here and I’m very proud it’s a shame that some parents don’t want to accept or recognise that their child is gifted with a specialty but society just views it so horribly
I have autism too
I have ADHD so I totally understand. I remember as a kid being yelled at and scared the life out of me.
Same. I pissed on myself from it a lot too. Then got yelled and screamed at for that too.
I do not have ADHD, but loud noises have always scared me-just hearing that man yell made me cringe and want to stop the video!!
These are times I wish murder was legal to a certain degree
As the Riddler said in Batman Forevet: "If you kill him, he won't learn nothing." Besides, there are far worse things than death.
That is not the answer
I can't watch this episode because it's too triggering. My parents used to do the exact same thing to me that that father is doing to that kid.
is the full episode even on the internet?
yeah, i don’t really blame my parents for it. they still don’t fully understand autism, so i have to guide them through it sometimes. they love me and treat me well, but sometimes they treat me in ways that i feel uncomfortable with.
I just want to hold the boy, and love him.
As a person who has difficulty with autism I do have trouble to regulate my emotions too. But Dr Phil has a point, that is bullying when that father verbally intimidated his son, got in his face and pointed at him like that. That was actually quite ugly because that’s pure loss of control.
Same here
Phil is a wise man who knows how to speak and cur off the wrong ones much respect
I wish I could hug that boy so badly
There’s a difference between TALKING TO and TALKING AT. Parents need to learn it.
Some people should not be allowed to be parents
@Owen Edwards Truer words could not have been said
@Owen Edwards factttt
Most people now days
@@venetiaanortrup8514 Agreed
My heart breaks for this child 💔
I had to stop watching it. This video brought up too many memories.
Ugh this is exactly how my parents would "parent" me by yelling and intimidating. This honestly made me feel like crying just brought out my inner child. So many bad memories.
The father need to calmly talk with his son be there, be his rock in the storm and most importantly love him
Children on the autism spectrum do not need "an exorcism", they need a kind open-minded individual to listen to them and understand them
2:47 Best part "DO YOU SEE HOW THIS WORKS!"😂
I'm diagnosed with ASD and if thats how my parents talked to me on a regular basis, it would make me feel horribly overwhelming. I would have either moved, or probably some form of self harm
I’m so sorry you feel that way. You’re not alone.
Same. I self harmed at age 10 from it.
Dr. Phil is one of the concerningly-small group of people who actually know how to parent properly and get a point across without threats
Don't praise Dr. Phil. He sent kids off to camps where they were abused.
*DO YOU SEE HOW THIS WORKS*
fr I've never heard Dr. Phil raise his voice like that.....
@@lincolnmarlboro3740 fr it hit me hard
@@lincolnmarlboro3740 I jumped when he did that
My husband wouldn't be able to speak ever again if he talked to my child like that
well done, glad you think like this. I'm traumatised and can't even stand up for myself. I'm still suffering as an adult man
My mother runs a nonprofit organization for equine therapy, specializing children with autism and other developmental issues….she would attack that father in a heartbeat! She has studied child care and behavior and the one thing she has always said is “children are vulnerable and they know it”.
I just wanted to grab that poor little boy and hold him and protect him! 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Well children with autism are more vulnerable than those without autism, and same for adulthood too.
This terrible man is nothing but a bully. Big time.
The spectrum and any other mental conditions/circumstances should always be taken seriously and handled carefully. What they’re doing to that kid makes me lose faith in humanity 🤬
This hurts cause I have autism.
@Owen Edwards or any child for that matter, soon as I heard exorcism I knew it was about to be a real good person
As someone with a terrible verbal and emotional abuser of a father, having PTSD anger problems anxiety paranoia and slight symptoms of schizophrenia sure is fun
I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome at 14. Over 25 years later I discover I’m not Autistic at all. I was living with cognitive, emotional, and behavioral issues that were nearly identical to those of Autism Spectrum disorders that were the result of my Narcissistic Abusive family.
The last 25 years of my life have been a goddamn lie which I spent having all kinds of psychiatric drugs pumped into my system that I never needed to begin with. What I needed was a different home environment with entirety different people.
I have a similar issue here. I found this out about my self
Every child deserves a good parent but every parent does not deserve a good child.
This just breaks my heart man. Poor kid will have so much trauma.
I’m slightly autistic and this would terrify me because I struggle with my emotions like that poor little boy. Hope he’s doing better today now. 🥺💔
I am too. It truly is terrifying, this is how my entire childhood was.
2:47 that's enough testing at Phil 💀
I got scared at the last part. Man, I didn’t know Dr. Phil had it in him.😂
I have ASD and ODD and this is how I had been treated my whole life. Intimidated, gaslighted, and manipulated. Didn't realize it until I got older. Seeing him do this to that boy makes me so mad because I know what it's like.
Me too, both disorders at once, and it wasn't our fault for being born the way we were.
@@ericwood2062 exactly
@@chloetayse8745 I have autism, but I don't have ODD, I also have OCD, my little sister was adopted, and she used to have ODD, but not anymore.
As someone who also has autism, this is a very traumatic thing to watch. It takes me back to a time when my mother and step father were always yelling and making me feel down about myself.
I also have PTSD because of all the mental abuse i got from my family and peers.
I really feel bad for that poor boy and i don't want to see him go through the same thing i went through at his age.
Dr. Phil is definitely right, he is indeed bullying that boy. Makes me sick seeing an adult man torturing a child
What's PTSD?
@@ericwood2062 post traumatic stress disorder
@@jai-lnstafford524 I think I might have that too, and I'm sorry it happened.
@@ericwood2062 that's okay. I'm sorry it happened to you too
@@jai-lnstafford524 It's okay, it's not your fault, and you're not the only one who got treated with indignity and disrespect, any examples of how it happened to you?
Parents like these actually piss me off
One of the only episodes where Dr. Phil is speaking straight facts
I agree with everything Dr. Phil said in this segment. Because lemme tell you something, I am a high-functioning autistic adult, and it's like, I have the inability to regulate my emotions daily, cuz sometimes I get in my feelings when people yell at or provoke me. So Dr. Phil, I thank you for stand up for us autistic people when we cannot do it ourselves.
2:48 I really love it when he shouted “do you see how this works?”
I hope it put that man in his place.
I am a Registered Behavioral Therapist and I work with children with Autism. Seeing that boy hunched over just breaks my heart.
I don’t know if he’s Autistic, but regardless it’s hard to see a child with special needs in such a terrified state.
He needs an intervention for his behavior: not as a punishment or because he is “bad.” He needs it as a gift to help him finally flourish.
I cried so hard when I saw this. I wanted to jump in and shield that boy with my body. I know having kids is tough, but when you get that angry you have to walk away! Nothing good is accomplished in anger.
Yep asperges syndrome i have it and it affected me so much when i was young like him i wish i had dr phil to help me
Same, i feel u brother!
Wow I never saw Dr Phil yell, good demonstration! I didn't quite see it as bullying, I saw frustrated parents and a temper tantrum, but yes I can see how yelling is intimidating and quite frankly scary, especially to a child who only has their parents in this world 💕💝💕
What's disturbing is that parents like these think it's "good parenting"
This is what my parents did to me as an autistic kid. Even to people not on the spectrum you don’t yell and scream like that
I have autism myself so I know exactly how this feels
2:12 Do you see how this works?
Stand up
and go to that rock pile
Right now!
Stand up!
Stand up!
I CAN’T!!!!!
As someone that has a fatherly figure very similar to this I have to admit this cycle is probably very hard to break as I’ve caught myself doing it to younger kids around me
When Dr Phil screamed it actually chilled me to the bone!
I'm curious to know if the police got involved. If I was a neighbor who heard and witnessed this, I'd have the police on the phone
Unfortunately, it’s not illegal to bully (emotionally abuse) your children. Police wouldn’t do anything.
@@yoboi13 It is though...
@@zeandiaz1791 I’ve never seen proof of such laws. You must be aware of laws that I have never seen. I would love to learn these laws against emotional abuse so that I can better advocate for children. Thank you.
@@yoboi13 it counts as abuse towards a child. It comes under abuse laws
@@milliejay1451 that wasn't abuse lmao
this is far beyond what anyone should ever have to go through. this is not parenting. this is simply torture
This kid needs different parents.
What a horrible father to speak to there kids or anyone like that.
IV seen worse unfortunately
I agree with Dr Phil the father is being a bully! And it’s also child abuse, no bad comments please
The child must be taken away this is abuse ! This only what we see on camera enough said !
This looks absolutely abusive and they are filming it?! Why!!! It screams child abuse!
“You are bullying that boy!”
“Okay.”
That’s all that we need to know about that POS.
Wow spot on Dr. Phil
Doctor Phil: Says the word bullying
The crowd: WOOOO! He said the word!!!! WOOO!!!
I'm autistic. Nothing is wrong with this baby! He doesn't need a exorcism, he's different and that's beautiful! I was teased because I was slower than the other kids, I was practically invisible in school. They called me stupid. I'm here to say kids can be cruel.
That happened to me too, and as for adulthood today for me, I'm a member of my local bike club, and I'm physically slow on my ordinary bike because I'm physically unable to keep up with other bike riders even with their ordinary bikes, which is part of being autistic, that's why I'm saving up my money for an electric bike, so that I can go faster, and fair enough that I can keep up with those other riders, but I still don't have enough money for this specific e-bike that most other people aren't familiar with, so until then, I'm stuck with my ordinary bike, and as a result to avoid falling behind from those other riders, depending on how many miles we'd all be given as a group, I have to start one or two hours early, even there were some mornings that I got out on my bike with my sunglasses as well as my helmet before the bright sun could even appear above the horizon.
There needs to be some type of rule in place where narcissists are unable to have children
OMG! My son use to have breakdowns like that. This breaks my heart!
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Every child deserves a parent. But not every parent deserves a child.
this brings back memories....very triggering 😥
I have autism I am glad my mom doesn't be mean to me shes a special ed teacher so I am so happy for that.
I'm on the spectrum, and when I had tantrums, my mom never said "my daughter is possessed, she needs an exorcism." Just saying.
ive worked with kids who have extreme, violent, daily, sometimes hourly episodes of dysregulation, and i have to say, that i understand how a superstitious person would think this is demons
Every trauma, pain, and meltdown I went thru as a child, I do not want any my kids experiencing those same hurt like what this young boy went thru and the father should be totally ashamed of himself. Now imagine how he treats that lil boy off camera and it amazes me soo much that the mother’s just standing there recording for ‘views’ and not tryna even help out and calm the situation down . It’s very heartbreaking and very painful to watch because I can relate till this day I still remember my grandma spanking me in my right jaw with a stick and leaving a couple of bruises and she was lucky that no charges were pressed
Let say father grow up with tough love mentalities, which explains bullying child, the father should of seek help to determine what was wrong and how to deal with it.
That is why I don't have kids. I don't want to repeat the pattern, even unconsciously. Dying childless will guarantee the pattern of abuse is broken.
This is exactly what my father did to me. Over and over and over.
I don’t think the father is 100% correct but my parents used to shout at me and punish me and also joke with me and play with me,
so it is a part of parenting, my parents used to hit me when I do something bad, not beating but kinda like a push or slightly slap on my arm, and I’m very thankful to my parents for doing that.
I don’t know the full story but when u see ur kid doing something wrong as a parent u should do something about it, and it is up to u to decide what ur kid needs to learn however there are some rules, for example u can not beat ur kid to teach them a lesson but u can get angry at them or shout at them if needed.
If you don’t punish ur kids when they do something bad u don’t even love them, because they will keep doing the same mistake over and over. sometimes ur kid gotta learn it the hard way
"You're bullying that boy"
"K"
lmao this guy
He either knows it’s true or he’s got nothing else to say to that truth or perhaps both
I don't know what is worse:
The fact that the father is bullying his possibly autistic son.
Or the fact that the step mom is just allowing him to continue to do so.
I'm autistic myself, and we DO NOT like being yelled at like that!
😠
THANK. YOU. FOR. THIS. EPISODE. Parents are so negligent and selfish
That happened to me more on car rides than at home, and question, are you autistic too?
In Ireland this is classified as not enough bullying
I love dr.phil I wish more "parents" say this clip and im using the word parents so generously I should be able to deduct it from my taxes as a charitable donation
You aren't a parent when your child is on the ground, dragging himself in the dirt, just to get away from you.
Exactly. If your child is scared of you, you aren't a good parent.
As a child with autism, I went through that way more than my non-autistic older brother and at least a bit more than my younger ODD sister.
Okay well at least now i know that if i crouch down to someone's eye level and go off then it's no longer bullying.