Dark Cozy Corner Chat: What was the Fashion Industry like & why did I leave it?

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  • @theheartofthestone
    @theheartofthestone 11 місяців тому +18

    I learned how to sew and crochet because i got so irritated looking at expensive clothes that were almost all acrylic and polyester and i wanted better materials. My first crochet project was a netted alpaca silk blend shawl and it's surprisingly toasty lol
    I'm going to pay one way or another for nicer clothes. Its either going to be monetary investment or a time investment. ❤

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +5

      Whatever we can do to get nice clothes! Also its more special when you made it yourself 🖤

  • @tsg.txt.
    @tsg.txt. 11 місяців тому +25

    Why are all artsy schools so unhinged? I've studied architecture and the amount of all nighters and public shaming that happened was enough to last me a lifetime😂

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +8

      Why is public shaming of the norm at art school 😂 the trauma

    • @Fingerscrossedout
      @Fingerscrossedout 11 місяців тому +4

      Exactly 💯 my bff wants to go to art school and I literally pleaded with her not to. The way you're treated is downright abusive...

    • @trishtells
      @trishtells 11 місяців тому +5

      I also studied architecture and it was exactly the same 😂 over the time the students came up with „good“ and „bad“ professors aka constructive criticism and personal criticism 🤷‍♀️ had no idea it’s an issue at every art school

    • @xTeeak
      @xTeeak 11 місяців тому +5

      yup, I also studied architecture .. after my first year I was practically living on campus between various ateliers trying to haul all the work on time, while almost never getting constructive feedback - now I realize nobody was actually teaching there, they only shamed us for not already knowing everything - I would say that it is because it is such a hard competition in the industry that even the teachers subconsciously feel threatened by the students .. I left after 3 years on the edge of burnout feeling like I will never be a productive member of society :D

  • @JM-pk1ee
    @JM-pk1ee 11 місяців тому +7

    Seeing this video is oddly comforting. Im finishing my fashion design bachelors and am extremely unsure of what to do next. The landscape of the industry is a hellish nightmare between the horific ecological aspects, unethical labour and a lack of appreciation for physical labor in general. What got me into the field is my love for everything you include on your channel- hope I’ll manage to figure out my way out of this rut soon

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +5

      That is actually part of why I started including these topics on my channel - I missed these aspects of the fashion industry even though there's a lot I didn't miss. Just to add a bit of comfort, I have seen people still enjoy the industry whether it was starting their own brand or working on a smaller brand. Congratulations on finishing up your bfa in fashion, as scary as the unknown is I know you'll find your way through, it's all part of the journey!

  • @SweetAsElle
    @SweetAsElle 11 місяців тому +6

    Awww when you mentioned Gordon, I remembered all the tough love from his class but I enjoyed his class the most. He also encouraged me to want to start my own brand instead of working corporate fashion industry jobs, even though I’m still too scared to do that. Maybe one day.
    I’m debating on going back to school but money and mental/ physical health are always the biggest barrier for me now.
    Loved hearing your experience and it’s funny that I thought you were one of the best students in our class because of your illustration skills, but you were/ are still insecure about your garment making skills. I love how far you’ve come, through your teen years to your career and now on your UA-cam channel. Can’t wait to see more from you, Yanga!

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +2

      Aww this all so sweet, thank you Arielle!
      Yes! Gordon's class was my favorite too & I wished he taught design for more than the time we had him - he had a great eye for design. But definitely was not the best in terms of making the garments so I really struggled senior year lol concept, moodboards and illustration was my absolute favorite though
      And definitely take your time going back, your health comes first! And seriously thank you for watching this 🖤

  • @Ellzy1
    @Ellzy1 11 місяців тому +10

    So, the best sewing machines are vintage. Old Japanese Kenmores are a good starting place or a vintage Singer. You probably want something with a zigzag stitch and reverse. You want a full metal machine so google your finds first to make sure they aren’t plastic gears. Even the newer expensive machines use cheaper metal. You will pay between $20 and $200 for a machine in good working order. These machines can and will last a lifetime. I’ve got my mums old singer and I’m 63.
    I’ve recently been teaching my 7&9 year old granddaughters how to sew. They have both made a pillow case and the eldest made a reversible bucket hat. I bought them both vintage machines for Christmas (they were in excellent shape, one was $190, the other $150 and came with all the bells and whistles). and they are both enjoying it. How fast/good you get is entirely dependent on how much time you invest. I started sewing when I was a child, I took pattern design and tailoring in high school. I’m an advanced intermediate because I also knit, weave, spin and dye yarn, etc. I can knit anything. I’ve taught classes at college. I have taught probably a couple of hundred people how to spin and maybe 50 how to weave.

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      Completely understandable on the best sewing machine!
      I truly think it depends on the person for how long it takes for one to learn because everyone grasps things differently. I think the hardest for me was less about the sewing and more about constructing/pattern complex garments lol my first blazer was quite the journey

    • @Ellzy1
      @Ellzy1 11 місяців тому +3

      @@silkymochi I believe it! When I was in high school I made a blazer using the Dior method (at least that’s what it was called back then). It took an entire semester to make one jacket, so much hand stitching for every curve, everything lined and interlined.

  • @He_Loves_Horror
    @He_Loves_Horror 11 місяців тому +7

    Alas I would continue to wear your coffin bag & to wear all black. Listen, over two years ago when I went into the Gothic community/sub-culture, I switched to an all black wardrobe. I presume that you're here in North America like me, right? Sometimes, and I don't mean this in a mean-spirited sense, but other locales can be, well more open minded then others. Such as Western Europe, Northern Europe, expat communities in Southeast Asia, or way down under in the commonwealth nations like Australia & New Zealand. Or even Japan ect.
    So just keep on wearing what you're wearing. Remember my friend: We're all only given one life so live if for _YOU_ and you _ONLY_ my dear new friend. We're all here to enjoy our time on our earth. Besides never forget when others label you "weird-o" or this & that, its best to really ignore them. This was another wonderfully articulate video, as per always. Keep 'em up. 🦇👍🦇🖤🐈‍⬛🦇

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +3

      Omg I definitely NEVER stop wearing my coffin bag and only wearing black lol I was just listing what I've heard 😂 I wear whatever I want now, especially at 30 - I truly don't care since my Asian family members are very opinionated, I got used to it 🖤

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +1

      Also thank you for always watching and your kind words!

    • @He_Loves_Horror
      @He_Loves_Horror 11 місяців тому +2

      So sorry for the belated reply my fellow darkly-inclined individual. I had a _TON_ of work last night plus I'm a night owl as it is. First, you're always welcomed for my tuning in. While its not 100% my style, its still interesting to me. You also articulate yourself unusually well compared to a lot of UA-camrs whom has a lot to learn from your superior channel👍It's also cool that you're not gonna let anyone intimidate you or bully you.
      So yeah I'm the same: Forever All In Black & Gothed out. Even in the dead of Summer time here in the South where I am truly a black sheep. Heh heh. Cheers.🦇🎃🐈‍⬛🖤🦇

  • @snormandy3030
    @snormandy3030 11 місяців тому +7

    Very relatable! thank you for sharing. I also transitioned from one creative industry to another. Some of my family are unfortunately harsh and openly judgmental. I taught myself to crochet but I don't make garments, just blankets and simple relaxing projects. I'm looking forward to seeing your knitting project as it progresses 🖤

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for watching! I love that you resonate the career changing story and family part lol kinda nice to find similar stories I find
      And I will definitely be sharing more of my knitting journey 🖤

  • @Sweetinfernalcreature
    @Sweetinfernalcreature 11 місяців тому +7

    This is so informative! Thats something I love about your channel. It’s not just fun, it’s information. I’m not “academic” (My college experience was so heinous I ended up dropping out and never going back) but I love to learn.

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +1

      Aww thank you as always! Understandable, as you can tell my college experience had its highs & lows and I don't really miss it lol but learning in other ways are so accessible nowadays!

  • @Maison_Marion
    @Maison_Marion 11 місяців тому +3

    The hate inside fashion schools can be so excessive, and can turn personal! You need to be a strong confident outgoing person by nature to be able to handle that. If not, I highly recommend short (online/local) courses outside of fashion school. I got a lot of negativity from teachers imo, yet they never straight up told me to leave fashion school (In hindsight, I was their income off course...). But on top of that I got a lot of negativity from classmates/teachers as well for not looking fashionable or having a style (wearing heels, make-up, trends etc...). I dressed neutral (maybe boring) and didn't wear make-up etc., because all my energy was taken up by my work. Lidewij Edelkoort stated once in an interview that she wears neutral timeless garments, because she predicts trends, so she has to remain neutral, and that seems to get accepted just fine. Yet, I got so much hate for doing just that, to the point that I broke down on the inside. After graduating I didn't touch my sewing machine for 5+ years. I was so traumatised. I am a strong believer now of "non-aggressive communication", and promote people to look into that, it would make the world a lot nicer.

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +2

      I am with you, I think I tried to hide my hurt in this video because I still haven't touched a sewing machine since I graduated and there are very messed up things professors said about my designs that didn't feel appropriate to put in video; irregardless, I understand. Fashion school was much harsher than even the actual work field and a lot of the trauma felt unnecessary
      I hope you're doing better now 🖤

    • @Maison_Marion
      @Maison_Marion 11 місяців тому

      @@silkymochi I am much better now and knitting and sewing again as a hobby. The DIY sewing/knitting/thrift flipping community on youtube helped a lot with the initial spark of joy again. I hope you will heal too :)

  • @JS-dv9ji
    @JS-dv9ji 11 місяців тому +5

    Yay it's back! Cozy and ready to learn 🖤🤓

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +1

      Cozy and learning and storytimes!

    • @JS-dv9ji
      @JS-dv9ji 11 місяців тому

      Who wouldn't watch until the end?? I also had to decide not to care about judgmental ppl. Good for you! 🥂 Loved the moment you described when you said "I wanna be her every day". I had the same moment last year. Everything becomes so easy and natural from that point on. No more decision fatigue and I feel like myself.

  • @notyourordinaryhousecat
    @notyourordinaryhousecat 11 місяців тому +5

    Loved this video so much! I hope my question about micro bangs will make it into a different video, im so curious about your take on them 🖤

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +5

      Oh absolutely! Debating on making it its own video or tagging it on to a relevant topic

  • @blackorchidwino
    @blackorchidwino 11 місяців тому +1

    Found you on TikTok and you’ve become one of my favorite UA-camrs

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      Aww thank you thank you 🥹🖤 glad you made it here because I feel like I have more fun making content here lol

  • @bryantmonroe7044
    @bryantmonroe7044 11 місяців тому +4

    Nice video, I look forward to the next one.

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      Awww thank you 🖤

  • @NovalinaX
    @NovalinaX 11 місяців тому +2

    Also knitting my first sweater while watching 🖤❤️🖤

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      We're in sync 🥹🖤

  • @aefiniti
    @aefiniti 11 місяців тому +3

    This is a great video! Love the cozy corner vibes 🩷

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому +1

      Aww thank you! More cozy corner vibes to come!

  • @rainyfristoe7682
    @rainyfristoe7682 11 місяців тому

    So informative and fascinating! I love your style transformation.

  • @oekmama
    @oekmama 5 місяців тому

    Did you finish the cardigan?

  • @allieF714
    @allieF714 11 місяців тому +4

    Hey. I loved all these topics. I myself work in an environment that is very much cliques and mean girl vibes. Which sucks. I wish we could all just have fun at work.
    Also when I was young I always loved the past and the styles the women wore. I keep going backwards. I dresses very vintage even in high school and some family were mean and in college people were mean. This was a time in the 90s and early 2000s that rockabilly vintage was not cool. I was even told I look like a whore bc I wore red lips. I could not believe the nerve of some people. Luckily my parents always loved how I dressed and they did not care. They didn’t even care that I thrifted instead of using my money to do drugs and drink. Thrifting back then was not as cool as it is now. I love the 40s but I do love the way all black outfits look and just looks classic. I am so glad I found your channel it is great! 🫶🏻🖤♥️

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      We love pretty much the same styles 🖤🖤🖤 I'm glad you resonated with this!

    • @He_Loves_Horror
      @He_Loves_Horror 11 місяців тому

      Hey there Allie. So you dress Vintage/Neo-Rockabilly? Interesting. A decade ago, around 2012, I was a modern day Greaser/Neo-Rockabilly rock car. I dressed in Stray Cats t shirts; cuffed my jeans daily; wore creeper loafers & regular loafers every day. Had Cramps shirts and I put pomade in my hair. Listened to a lot of '50s rock 'n roll (original Rock 'N Roll) and a lot of Rockabilly. Was active in that whole "online Greaser" UA-cam channels such as Ask Tom The Greaser and had an entire iPod full of Rockabilly, revival, some Psychobilly as well as oddities (like vintage Halloween songs cause I was always a darker-edged person to be honest). I checked out pomade reviews monthly. Mostly I used Xtreme Wetline Styling Gel, though.
      While I'm a Goth now for the last three years and have finally sort of "found my calling" (sub culture) and I only went to one Viva Las Vegas Weekend in my life, keep at it!! Never let no one bully you. Its all cool. If you wish to remain Vintage forever than, hey, its your own personal business. Its the same with me. I won't lie that whole sub culture wasn't for me; _FAR_ too much in fighting. Entire channels disappeared. So after almost four years of being a 'modern greaser' or a modern Rockabilly cat, I called it quits. However, it really seems for you from your post. So yeah keep at it. Rock those Bettie Page brunette bangs and just have fun. If you're not hurting anybody & are happy, then keep at it.🦇🎃🦇

  • @juliahaighwood5645
    @juliahaighwood5645 11 місяців тому +1

    In the beginning you talked about sewing and the cost of a Mannequin :) i saw this Mannequin DIY Tutorial: ua-cam.com/video/voFRL-BSvwY/v-deo.html . I will try it out and I LOVE making clothes myself. I am too busy at the Moment but as a student i got second Hand clothes and made new stuff from that fabric.

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      Thats so interesting, thank you for sharing! Love a good diy when something can be quite costly

  • @Carrie-sgda
    @Carrie-sgda 6 днів тому +1

    Just re-viewing your older videos , yes why do strangers care so much about your look ,why are you on their mind even 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 you look amazing in black and if I looked that good in black I would wear it every day. Do they ask karl largerfeld why he wears so much black or why Vivienne Westwood stood out of the crowd with her punk, creative and in ways quirky style. The people that make these comments are insecure and ignorant to life , art and creativity. In life there are creatives and realists , only other creatives can appreciate and understand the beauty of creativity , uniqueness ,and diversity of style etc , realists see your standing out and that highlights their insecurity of standing out ,or see your style and think I don’t like that. Realists see the world in black and white and creatives see the world in colour. Little do the realists know that not being able to look past their own noses hinders them from seeing the world in colour

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  6 днів тому +1

      Aww thank you for watching my old stuff 🥹🖤 and I couldnt agree more

  • @aflake8366
    @aflake8366 11 місяців тому +4

    I love the knitting 🧶 🖤 that’s on my list of things tos to do

    • @silkymochi
      @silkymochi  11 місяців тому

      Its so fun! You'll love it when you get to it!