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That’s the first thing my ex said to me, that I needed to open up to him, I thought it was a strange thing to say and thankfully it was something I never did completely.
You know before I even learned about narcissism, l I kept saying man I hate those negative people that always feel like they need to bring somebody else down to raise themselves up.
One of my ex narcs got me to believe i was ugly, useless,Stupid,would never amount to anything,insignificant, couldn't do this couldn't do that. He brainwashed me into believing he was telling the truth. Until i eventually realized it was himself he was really talking about. That was when i discarded the evil Barsteward for good. 😂
They want to control your emotions thats why they be saying cry 😭 sad broken 💔 people really sad hopeless people who are hurting bad on the inside my real friends and family will never fake fake fake
I thought he was genuinely interested in my past.......and yes then it was used against me. But oh how the tables turned when I disguarded him with all his insecurities thrown in his face. There will be no hoover attempt I'm sure!!!! Its the only way I could safe guard myself from being caught in his circle . Wasnt my proudest moment mirroring him for once but once you learn you have to free yourself
My ex narc was such a NARC that when we would argue he would do instagram polls on our arguments for his followers. He loved getting peoples opinions on our issues.He would then use the results against me and say see I told you I was right. These people are sick and manipulative I don’t know why I put up with this mess for one year.
Wow. that's a new one. I'd have gone to reddit sub surviving narcs or Aita n give him a taste of his own medicine. Narc survivors are LEGION and we suppport our own. They have no one but the mirror and flying monkeys, who even the narc knows are fake.
@@peteywheatstraw4970 That’s very true! The narc survivor community is huge and it’s helped with my healing. Those narc demons have nothing, cold and empty transparent souls. My ex narc was a real sicko, I hate the fact that I put up with so much crap.
@@maddy-jp5lh but you'll see the next one coming from a mile away! That's the only thing narcs are good for. Teaching us that if it walks like a duck, but hisses like a snake, it's a narc lol. The community has saved me as well. I'm a year and change LC/NC with both narc parents and it feels so freeing. I have the power now, not them. Even when I just see red flags in guys now, they don't have to be a narc but you can be sure I'm not ignoring my gut anymore either!
@@peteywheatstraw4970 Loool yes we can spot those snakes from a mile away. I went on a date with a guy and he was showing his narc traits already. He was driving and said “clean my glasses” 🥴🥴 I said “have you lost your manners”. He showed so many narc traits on the first date, very condescending and pompous. He wanted to see me again I had to cut it off immediately. When I see red flags I am GONEEE ✌🏽 empaths deserve the best and we will not deal with sorry ass narcs anymore. Wow i’m very proud of you, it’s not easy to cut ties with your parents. I bet you’re flourishing 😬. Yesss! The power is yours no-one can take that from you.
@@alicechained210 Whattttt! The smear campaign is real, they make you look crazy when they are. My ex narc would do Instagram polls on our arguments 😂😂 and would say you see 80% of people said… I wish I left back then that was a big red flag!
The narcissist I was with used to start his sentence with, "trust me". Now I know why he wanted people to trust him, of course he wanted them to trust his manipulation.
I went thru all of this with her....but I stopped reacting to her after while....I say what I meant and meant what I said to her after while, she called me cynical 😂🤣😂🤣....she said that I had became cynical towards her, that's when I knew that she knew I was in control of myself and she could not control me at no point anymore....she was angry from within because I could feel it ...she is so funny🤣😂🤣😂these narcissist CAN NOT BEAT YOU MY PEOPLE even at their best games
@@treelover1050 I took 3 days of clothing last February and never looked back...that cause the biggest narcissist injury because she did not expect that move I made....my clothes are still there even today....my daughter brings them to me because I do not even want to go inside her house anymore, it's to much darkness( evil) in there
I had an interesting journey with this narc and learned many lessons I could write a book about. He was not in control. The way to respond to a narc is to confront them about their unacceptable behavior towards you. Then leave it alone.
You nailed my X in this one. Every last bit of this video is TRUE. It's almost SCARY how they all follow the same guidelines out of the hellish book they read and follow💔🚩
I'm nobody's toy or possession about mine?? Or pawn to be used like I've been for the longest time which ultimately messes with my life and now at the age of realisation I got these women claiming how ironic 🤔
They do it for views and likes I do it for the inside not not for views and likes I'm just me can't be like nobody else but me I'm too good at being me I love me they need to go love themselves
This video is 100% word for word pin point accurate . I dont know whats worst,/ being taken for a complete mug or when you realise you,ve been taken for a complete mug. There should be a legal web page designed specifically to name + shame them complete with mug shot of them for purpose of warning others who may be at early stages of relationships with them. Making it , not impossible but more difficult for them to get away with what they do do people.
His life is a diaster yet he always had advice for me. I didn't need his advice. He tried to get me to choose him over my job, retirement and home. He has none of these things.
Just amazing how you hit a home run with this one again...Thank you Narc Survivor.. Word for Word what you said is exactly the Narcissist I was with did. All's I can say is Wow!
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My ex narc also said I should move in with him or he’s going to find another woman. I said I will NOT move in him you. So manipulative and evil! He was broke and clearly wanted to use me as a ladder. He can stay his dusty butt in his cramped room. I’m not anyones come up sorrrry 😂
Hmm that is weird my mum's husband would say that to her if he can not get his own way he will find a woman who would look after him properly. I am not saying that my mum is the greatest person she is not a saint, he wants to be the best. There was an occasion when I walked in the living area, he was laid on the sofa and I sat on the other one, he was watching fishing on the television so I said "Are you watching fishing?" a sound of what can only be described that a cave man would make came out of his mouth I asked "Do you want a cup of tea?" Still he had a cave man sound come from his mouth. I went back up into my room. later on I had walked downstairs and him and my mum was in the kitchen he looked up at me smiled put his hands around my mum's waist and said "Name withheld I think Lisa has a crush on me because she was coming on to me in the living room." Now my mum did not ask the correct questions and get to the bottom line of it she just went with it. Then the following day when I saw him he said "Goodmorning!" I blanked him out over what was said the night before and all hell broke out. I have a toxic trait in me that I do not like that I have engaged in arguments where it has become harmful I had broken mirrors vases booted the door I had nowhere to go, the spotlight is then on me. "Look at what she has done." "Look at what we have to put up with." I am reading a book and it has some triggering content inside it. The man in there has the same attitude as my mum's husband. His wife asked a question and he grunted and stormed out of the house. It is like being hit with a gone off wet fish in the face. I can't say it was narcissisism, but it was toxic. 😔
You have to stand your ground with a narc. You can't be vulnerable with a narc. Do not allow a narc to have the upper hand. This narc is very vulnerable. He falls in and out of love very quickly and can't sustain a long term relationship. He claims he enjoys being alone. But then he's on the internet looking for a new supply.
My excovert physcopath ex husband...used the same line that my nacississtic step mom used when I left her residence. Which was..." if you leave again...you can't come back." 🙄 He's such an unoriginal piece of 💩
But think 💬 God thank God they don't know my real friends and business partner they just met my enemy's so I'm not too mad 😡 he met people I don't talk too anymore are cool with they not my babies out here so he can have them I'm good 👍
Okay three of three I just don't want my heart to hurt so bad.... I just don't want to be so defensive or go the extreme opposite and be passive aggressive or then you know the whole complete new thing you just learned with your ex of two people back ) crazy how we learn things.... you know? Wasn't poling for anything you'veexpect it or when we least wanted...that is .,💀
I'm really not trying to be confirmative or sound nasty or disrespectful in any way but yeah yeah yeah I know the game I know the game I know the games what I cannot control is my stupid heart and I'm already I'm already going to anxiety crazy level.. sure everybody's heard of BTK..
It's crazy 🤣 tho why would be hacking me and telling me they good lol 😂 crazy 🤣 lol I'm like these people still competing with me from a far lol my best friend have a five bedroom house 🏡 and own business we never do that childish stuff are be trying to out shine one another
Wait how you trying to come back and somebody life and make them fuss and fight with you over 20 to 25 year's talking about DNA 🧬 lol 😂 and shoes 👟 lol 😂 OMG really I thought we was grown
Message to of the one apologize I'm just bouncing all over I'm not saying that I'm perfect and then I shouldn't do this and I should bounce along..😰 I don't know what we all do is no it hurts
betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
- I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid.
You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
- I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
They want you to fear them and be angry 😡 and upset and get you to feel like something wrong with you
My last game with the narc: Hide and seek. I hide, you seek. End game: You will NEVER find me!!!!
True, love your comments 😁
You win!
Most had to leave town.
This is the best :D
Ha, ain't that the truth!
That’s the first thing my ex said to me, that I needed to open up to him, I thought it was a strange thing to say and thankfully it was something I never did completely.
You know before I even learned about narcissism, l I kept saying man I hate those negative people that always feel like they need to bring somebody else down to raise themselves up.
One of my ex narcs got me to believe i was ugly, useless,Stupid,would never amount to anything,insignificant, couldn't do this couldn't do that. He brainwashed me into believing he was telling the truth. Until i eventually realized it was himself he was really talking about. That was when i discarded the evil Barsteward for good. 😂
Never react to their mind games, but hold them accountable for it.
No contact it's all a game 🎯 and for show him and his family They know what's up they love drama
They want to control your emotions thats why they be saying cry 😭 sad broken 💔 people really sad hopeless people who are hurting bad on the inside my real friends and family will never fake fake fake
I thought he was genuinely interested in my past.......and yes then it was used against me. But oh how the tables turned when I disguarded him with all his insecurities thrown in his face. There will be no hoover attempt I'm sure!!!! Its the only way I could safe guard myself from being caught in his circle . Wasnt my proudest moment mirroring him for once but once you learn you have to free yourself
Mine so tuned out with what's happening with/in my family it's truly shocking!
Good for you huge respect to anyone who gives one of these monsters a taste of their own medicine…
You might be empathic, so it felt weird or bad. But don't feel badly. Be glad you did it!
My ex narc was such a NARC that when we would argue he would do instagram polls on our arguments for his followers. He loved getting peoples opinions on our issues.He would then use the results against me and say see I told you I was right. These people are sick and manipulative I don’t know why I put up with this mess for one year.
Wow. that's a new one. I'd have gone to reddit sub surviving narcs or Aita n give him a taste of his own medicine. Narc survivors are LEGION and we suppport our own. They have no one but the mirror and flying monkeys, who even the narc knows are fake.
@@peteywheatstraw4970 That’s very true! The narc survivor community is huge and it’s helped with my healing. Those narc demons have nothing, cold and empty transparent souls. My ex narc was a real sicko, I hate the fact that I put up with so much crap.
@@maddy-jp5lh but you'll see the next one coming from a mile away! That's the only thing narcs are good for. Teaching us that if it walks like a duck, but hisses like a snake, it's a narc lol. The community has saved me as well. I'm a year and change LC/NC with both narc parents and it feels so freeing. I have the power now, not them. Even when I just see red flags in guys now, they don't have to be a narc but you can be sure I'm not ignoring my gut anymore either!
@@peteywheatstraw4970 Loool yes we can spot those snakes from a mile away.
I went on a date with a guy and he was showing his narc traits already. He was driving and said “clean my glasses” 🥴🥴 I said “have you lost your manners”. He showed so many narc traits on the first date, very condescending and pompous. He
wanted to see me again I had to cut it off immediately. When I see red flags I am GONEEE ✌🏽 empaths deserve the best and we will not deal with sorry ass narcs anymore.
Wow i’m very proud of you, it’s not easy to cut ties with your parents. I bet you’re flourishing 😬. Yesss! The power is yours no-one can take that from you.
@@alicechained210 Whattttt! The smear campaign is real, they make you look crazy when they are. My ex narc would do Instagram polls on our arguments 😂😂 and would say you see 80% of people said… I wish I left back then that was a big red flag!
Evil but we can heal 🙏
Yes we can 🙏🙏
Everything said is so true. The narc mind games were horrendous. I treat the narc like he doesn't exist. I don't interact whatsoever.
These people have no boundaries or worries of getting caught. I actually fear for my life at this point.
@@treelover1050 I've had the police out here soo many times. And someone has been complaining about my dog to my landlord 🙄
@I like sunshine : ) I'm a fairly spiritual person. I worry about my eternal soul. I would hate to see it come to that.
The narcissist I was with used to start his sentence with, "trust me". Now I know why he wanted people to trust him, of course he wanted them to trust his manipulation.
Wolves in sheep's clothing
Yes I went tru this but God set me free
I went thru all of this with her....but I stopped reacting to her after while....I say what I meant and meant what I said to her after while, she called me cynical 😂🤣😂🤣....she said that I had became cynical towards her, that's when I knew that she knew I was in control of myself and she could not control me at no point anymore....she was angry from within because I could feel it ...she is so funny🤣😂🤣😂these narcissist CAN NOT BEAT YOU MY PEOPLE even at their best games
@@treelover1050 I took 3 days of clothing last February and never looked back...that cause the biggest narcissist injury because she did not expect that move I made....my clothes are still there even today....my daughter brings them to me because I do not even want to go inside her house anymore, it's to much darkness( evil) in there
I had an interesting journey with this narc and learned many lessons I could write a book about. He was not in control. The way to respond to a narc is to confront them about their unacceptable behavior towards you. Then leave it alone.
These people hate me because I'm minding my business lol 😂
How they victims and bully's fake fake fake 🤥 sad 😢 sad 😢 sad that's not a friend that's a enemy that's a wolf and sheep clothing
That's crazy 🤣 OMG really they beefing by themselves lol 😂 I'm good lol 😂 cray cray 😜
I had stalking ones so they got information while giving me the silent treatment
Narcissist create fear of loss in their victims
Submit to God..resist the devil ..and He will flee..takes on a whole new meaning..when you apply this to your life..God is Good
You nailed my X in this one. Every last bit of this video is TRUE. It's almost SCARY how they all follow the same guidelines out of the hellish book they read and follow💔🚩
Suppose they dont appear 2 have a guide book?
@@ginacorser2805 maybe they're not a narcissist. They all have the same traits and tricks.
I'm nobody's toy or possession about mine?? Or pawn to be used like I've been for the longest time which ultimately messes with my life and now at the age of realisation I got these women claiming how ironic 🤔
So true i. Was conscious of my movements i was afraid to voice my opinions or my head would be knocked off
Coming over to hurt you after year's and say your crazy 🤣 and bad and you hurt them OMG really lol 😂 Lord help us
The narcissus friends and family are not your friends and family because your real friends and family will never compete with you NEVER
Unfortunately my cousins told the narcissist alot about me I didn't tell narcissist much or if anything
They do it for views and likes I do it for the inside not not for views and likes I'm just me can't be like nobody else but me I'm too good at being me I love me they need to go love themselves
This video is 100% word for word pin point accurate . I dont know whats worst,/ being taken for a complete mug or when you realise you,ve been taken for a complete mug. There should be a legal web page designed specifically to name + shame them complete with mug shot of them for purpose of warning others who may be at early stages of relationships with them. Making it , not impossible but more difficult for them to get away with what they do do people.
His life is a diaster yet he always had advice for me. I didn't need his advice. He tried to get me to choose him over my job, retirement and home. He has none of these things.
Pretty please do a video on how to get rid of the narcissist next I value your teaching greatly.
Submit to God..Resist the devil..and he will flee..trust me it takes time but it works..Praise God
Just amazing how you hit a home run with this one again...Thank you Narc Survivor.. Word for Word what you said is exactly the Narcissist I was with did. All's I can say is Wow!
Mindgames from the 2021 Officaly sanctioned playbook of N.P.D. avaliable on all social media sites and dating services worldwide. Buyers beware!!!! This purchase will cost you dearly...👊
This is exactly what should happen asap
Geez so complicated and we definitely bite off more than we can chew.
No abuse came from a good decent trusting family we don’t know the street ! I was young
It resonated with me 100% thank you so much
My ex narc also said I should move in with him or he’s going to find another woman. I said I will NOT move in him you. So manipulative and evil! He was broke and clearly wanted to use me as a ladder. He can stay his dusty butt in his cramped room. I’m not anyones come up sorrrry 😂
Hmm that is weird my mum's husband would say that to her if he can not get his own way he will find a woman who would look after him properly.
I am not saying that my mum is the greatest person she is not a saint, he wants to be the best.
There was an occasion when I walked in the living area, he was laid on the sofa and I sat on the other one, he was watching fishing on the television so I said "Are you watching fishing?" a sound of what can only be described that a cave man would make came out of his mouth I asked "Do you want a cup of tea?" Still he had a cave man sound come from his mouth.
I went back up into my room. later on I had walked downstairs and him and my mum was in the kitchen he looked up at me smiled put his hands around my mum's waist and said "Name withheld I think Lisa has a crush on me because she was coming on to me in the living room."
Now my mum did not ask the correct questions and get to the bottom line of it she just went with it.
Then the following day when I saw him he said "Goodmorning!"
I blanked him out over what was said the night before and all hell broke out.
I have a toxic trait in me that I do not like that I have engaged in arguments where it has become harmful I had broken mirrors vases booted the door I had nowhere to go, the spotlight is then on me. "Look at what she has done." "Look at what we have to put up with."
I am reading a book and it has some triggering content inside it.
The man in there has the same attitude as my mum's husband.
His wife asked a question and he grunted and stormed out of the house.
It is like being hit with a gone off wet fish in the face.
I can't say it was narcissisism, but it was toxic.
😔
@@lisabill8877 Whatttttttt! How can he say you were coming onto him, that’s so sick and wrong. I’m sorry you had to go through such sick accusations.
You have to stand your ground with a narc. You can't be vulnerable with a narc. Do not allow a narc to have the upper hand. This narc is very vulnerable. He falls in and out of love very quickly and can't sustain a long term relationship. He claims he enjoys being alone. But then he's on the internet looking for a new supply.
Ohh you met my narcissist Minoshann. Or maybe your narc anf my narc go to the same club or something. They sound exactly alike.
My excovert physcopath ex husband...used the same line that my nacississtic step mom used when I left her residence. Which was..." if you leave again...you can't come back." 🙄 He's such an unoriginal piece of 💩
OMG YOU ARE SO TRUE THANK YOU
You can never be yourself around Narcists...
14:20 Yes
They seek people who have money. Because they then can play the victim and try to get what they can. They have every trick up there sleeve.
But think 💬 God thank God they don't know my real friends and business partner they just met my enemy's so I'm not too mad 😡 he met people I don't talk too anymore are cool with they not my babies out here so he can have them I'm good 👍
Awesome videos always, thanks
On point NS !
Thank you,
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Aren't they little disgusting little creatures 👻 always watching you in and your business
In our expenses alright anytime they use the manipulation gaslighting blame shift.
It is all from your packet
Okay three of three I just don't want my heart to hurt so bad....
I just don't want to be so defensive or go the extreme opposite and be passive aggressive or then you know the whole complete new thing you just learned with your ex of two people back ) crazy how we learn things.... you know? Wasn't poling for anything you'veexpect it or when we least wanted...that is .,💀
Does the narcissist even have the ability to love?
I'm really not trying to be confirmative or sound nasty or disrespectful in any way but yeah yeah yeah I know the game I know the game I know the games what I cannot control is my stupid heart and I'm already I'm already going to anxiety crazy level.. sure everybody's heard of BTK..
I dont play games !! dont entertain the devil
Is it true that a narcissist will sabotage their own self and blame it on someone else I have heard that I was just wondering if it was true
I wonder who is the crazy one since everyone else is.
It's crazy 🤣 tho why would be hacking me and telling me they good lol 😂 crazy 🤣 lol I'm like these people still competing with me from a far lol my best friend have a five bedroom house 🏡 and own business we never do that childish stuff are be trying to out shine one another
✔️ x 7
And why are you watching me and care and say you don't care lol 😂 crazy 🤣
Wait how you trying to come back and somebody life and make them fuss and fight with you over 20 to 25 year's talking about DNA 🧬 lol 😂 and shoes 👟 lol 😂 OMG really I thought we was grown
Only seven?
Message to of the one apologize I'm just bouncing all over I'm not saying that I'm perfect and then I shouldn't do this and I should bounce along..😰 I don't know what we all do is no it hurts