going "ghost mode" is killing your social life
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- Опубліковано 13 чер 2024
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I’m just so burnt out with my daily life, texting feels like such a chore. Even with the people I love, I start resenting the relationship because I have no energy left to keep up the back and forth. In the end I’m left alone and so lonely but I don’t blame the other for pulling away when I don’t put the effort in. I just wish relationships didn’t feel like such work
unfortunately, this is the reality of living in a hyper-capitalists society, especially in America. I don't know you or your personal relationships but I will say, even as an introvert, my most fulfilling relationships don't feel like a chore to keep up with. They energize me and keep me going. Maybe reevaluate those relationships in your life and don't be so hard on yourself for not always getting back. ❤
i relate to this. i think because im more of an introvert and my social battery drains so fast, i need awhile to recharge. my friends are high energy and leave me feeling so drained. love them! but i do be needing a break!
(and the texting part so real. i wish id get more calls instead of texts.)
I recently moved to a big city for work and have been finding it hard to meet people and on top of that friends from uni no longer talk to me so i feel as if i have no close friends anymore except one whos miles away.
Friendships are so important and more so than being in a relationship id say. Friends show up in a different way.
Humans are social creatures, we need each other! Thank you for reminding me of the importance of friendship in all aspects
Been thinking about this topic a lot recently. Thank you for highlighting the importance of (especially female) friendships!
This is so so important, I moved countries to start my first big girl job this year and really miss having those friendships around me! But at the same time it's pushed me to put in more effort to maintain connections with the people who are most important to me as well as venture out of my own comfort zone to build a new support network
I’m 40 and it’s still challenging. However over the years I have learned to maneuver the social scene much better. It definitely takes practice!
This video cured my anxiety.Thank you so much
Thank you for this video. I really needed to hear this. I feel so alone lately. I am ready to move out of my hometown and make new friends. I have no more close friends here. It doesn’t matter if it’s the weekend or not because I have no plans and no one to hang out with. 😢
I recently got abandoned/dropped from my best friend group and definitely fell into the “I don’t need friends” sort of thinking. *trigger warning* Especially considering the way it was done threw me into a major two month long depressive episodes with several skewersidal moments because they meant the world to me and I thought we would grow old together, I didn’t (and still kind of don’t) want to admit to myself I still needed (wanted!) to have platonic female relationships to feel fulfilled. It’s hard to not isolate after that sort of trauma, but it’s only hurting me in the process. *warning end* I’ve made some tentative friends in the mean time and I’m going to try and foster those relationships. Thank you 🙏🏾
I think you are very well-spoken with the script! This is the first video I have seen from you, but it was pretty interesting and you made good points!
Interesting take that influencers are romanticising loneliness as a direct response of society becoming more lonely. Makes me wonder "Is romanticising one's life authentically possible or cope?" Great video
Amazing. Make more videos. I loved the way you speak. I subscribed to your channel.
loved this!!!
now that i've discovered your channel, i'm here to stay! you did a great job ❤
Great insights! ❤
You’ve got a new subscriber 😊salute from JPN!
I love this video so much it made me feel a lot more confident making friends thank you so much
im soooo happy I could help :)
This was very helpful!
I feel embarrassed watching this video bc I valued relationship/being with a man more than friendship and I even told my ex that and he told me that friendship is just as valuable as friendship like... I need a lot of self growth.
Girl I agree 100% 💖 friendships and relationships in general are really important and we need to invite in them and take care of them. 🌸 relaxing and beautiful video by the way. 🫶 Loved it!
thank you! 😊
dead wrong for calling me out like that
This is great ❤🙏
Wish I would of learnt this ages ago
Girl you have such a great voice
omg bae thank youuu
You voice is so beautiful
I loved your articulation here - and I'm so glad you brought up a specific creator example (on instagram) idealizing "being alone." Am already subscribed and looking forward to more videos from you! :)
So glad you are here friend!
you have such a beautiful heart....miss you!!
I miss you!! That means so much
You are very pretty ❤
hey great video HAHA i think random algorithm can read minds, greetings from Chile
i think i'm an INFJ, you sounded like one
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