Dear Women, be your best version always, don't give up your career, passion or Business to be a full time housewife, it hardly pays, it messes with self worth, you will be over used, taken for granted, Don't lose yourself for Marriage and childcare. I no go talk pass like this, thank God Elma got her groove back.
She love motherhood, she loves taking care of her kids. I don't think it's a bad thing but she needs help from her husband. Raising children can't be one person's responsibility. They both made them
My thoughts exactly. There is nothing wrong in enjoying the season of motherhood especially when they are little as they will not always need your presence once they get to a certain age. The man needs to understand that the task and support where necessary.
One thing I like about this was the fact that it was relatable and natural. No overly makeup women and no over skimpy clothes. Just natural everyday women
Sometimes a friend like Oge is all a house wife needs to remind her of her self worth and the need to unwind and take a break. Oma girl, thumbs up... Really interpreted the role of Oge.
Her sister said something a lot of us married women needs to hear. Just because we're married doesn't mean we need to lose ourselves in marriage. Advice taking, this movie was so good ❤🌹
It in this case the woman isn’t the major problem other than the man. I always say it makes no sense that people can’t work together when the person is worth it unless your wife is a dead case or an unreasonable person. Most women don’t just let their original selves go because they want to but because they have to be so many things than themselves. In this movie you can see the guy wasn’t considerate and helpful but he was always living his life while letting the woman slave herself away
I just got here...and i read the comments before watching this movie😊...and i want to say this becuz i experience this when i was married....is not that you dont want to look good, take time to look after yourself ( before you were married) is just that the responsebilities of the family, house kids etc are so much you barelyas time for yourself and when you do, you are sooo tired that you just want to rest or something like that...in most cases ( like mine)...is not that easy task....especially when you dont get the help of your partner in the relationship or marriage.
His wife fits the perfect natural body of a woman who has had 3kids, so natural 😍. I love everything about her. Not like other movies that uses a woman who has had cosmetic surgeries as mum of a newborn. Everything in the movie is genuinely relatable. Kudos to you guys
Hope you know there are women with natural hourglass body even after 3 kids and more. This lady here is beautiful in her own way. There are women that puts in so much work to maintain their natural curves.
God bless you! I love movies that shows things the way they are. Of course, a mum of three can look all sleek and classy but, there's no way you won't know she's an "after three".
I get your point but I’ve seen mothers of two/three that I know that look slim with very flat stomachs, only the stretch marks tell so that’s not even a yardstick, some people are just blessed with that slim figure o with little or no workout
Very nice movie with great lessons. I'm a working class lady and trust me i don't envy those beautiful and strong stay at home moms. They are all doing a great job taking care of their homes. Hope you get appreciated by your husbands.
This Lady, Mimi Chaka, is everything she thinks she is. She is so amazing and you could tell her kind of human from the roles she plays in movies. All round sweetness, this movie.
Loved this movie, I know everyone has reflected and is more focused on Mimi’s growth but we must also remember an active father and an active husband relieves stress and encourages love within the household.
I like how Oge knew what happened and rather than put decisions into her head, decided to treat her out, make her realize she’s still fine asf even after kids while trying in her own way to stop her cousin. That’s a good friend
@@mrshappilymarried1so many people take it the wrong way... especially when you aren't married and the man already has been talking bad about her. Maybe she could have led Mimi to the scene if saying it was difficult.
@@Ms.Baidoo199 and you think saying it or leading her to the scene was the best decision, mam the two parties here are involved, Dera is her sister and the wife is her good friend, you definitely won't understand
Please let give credit to this adorable baby even though she doesn't know what she is doing she is really playing her part well 😊. She is going to be a great actress ❤❤.
can we normalise not somehow trying to blame women for infidelity of a man stepping outside his home.....this movie is subtly showing that she let herself go, so he went out and cheated....women need to understand that nothing they do, can cause a man to cheat....cheating is wholly based on indiscipline and lack of self control from the cheater....SIMPLE!...Know this and know peace
Exactly. And why should forgiveness always end with the lady having to accept the man back into her life. They don't portray that in movies when the woman goes wrong. Stop normalising women having to accommodate every bullshit a man serves
Yes, none of that braid down ready for a wig like most African films. It's fine that the African continent to lead the rest of the black nations to love being natural and black with no weave, bleaching, and overly covered with heavy makeup 😢
I wish more women in African movies would wear their natural hair, even if relaxed and nicely styled and leave out the wigs. These ladies are so beautiful
Kudos to every strong wife out there. We really appreciate your effort in keeping everything and everyone in the house intact. Elma is an angel. Like how she was able to handle the discovery of her husband's infidelity without even mentioning it to him was fantastic. Kudos to great housewives. What you do in the hauz is priceless
I love this movie 200%.Elma, looking so beautiful like a black American woman. So relatable and plenty lessons to learn... every home and their challenges. One has to be intentional not to get carried away. Every husband and wife has their role to play. Nice cast here!
I couldn't click fast enough when I saw one of my favourites from TMC, Mimi 🥰 with another favourite of mine: Daniel. I know this movie is going to be 🔥. Mimi's enunciation and diction are simply unique.
This movie should be on streaming. It's real and has lessons for both married and single persons. I love Mimi Chaka she's gorgeous and interpreted her role wonderfully. Mr Etim....always awesome.
To whomever is reading this message, my prayer is that God will prosper you in your tough times, give you an expected end, and evict the enemy off your path. In Christs' name..
I can never forgive a cheat. My father cheated on my stepmom for 25 years and I’ve seen the effect of it. She eventually divorce him after 25 years of chronic cheating. No woman deserves that. What we need to do is teach our children especially our daughters to know their worth.
Hey there. I know the pain and impact of infidelity and I am sorry that you and your Mom had to experience it. What I want you to know is this; do not let unforgiveness ruin you. For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23) and therefore all of us need God's forgiveness. Jesus says in Matthew 6:14-15 "For if you forgive others when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not (refuse to) forgive others their sins your heavenly Father will not forgive your sins. Please make the right choice today.
This was an excellent movie about real life issue. Good story line. Winston was acting, too! Mimi Chaka is a wonderful actor and a beautiful woman. I've never seen her in anything before; what a special treat to see her in this movie. Daniel has long been a favorite actor of mine; he is such an authentic actor . . . very believable performances every single time. This movie was no exception. This movie hit me right in the feels. Thank you.
Every one needs a sister like Elmas, she was so supportive, u can't know the value of what u have unless u loose it, luv how the wife handled the whole situation, with alot of maturity and intergrity, kudos to the cast and crew grt job, the kids were so cute, and intelligent too, wow am impressed, tgx for the upload
Loved the movie! I shouldn't have expected any less from Daniel Effiong and Mimi Chaka anyways. They always deliver astounding performances. And Dera was such an amazing actress also. Kudos to all the cast and crew for a beautiful movie.
Daniel Etim is just wonderful, he is good at any role that can be giving to him to play and that is what make ihm so special . I descover ihm for the first time in Castle and Castle .Good money and. another lesson learned for All those men who take their wife at home for granted 😅
The diction of the actors here is awesome. I love it . Great story line , great delivery. Great production well done everyone . With production like this there is hope for Nigeria.
Shout out to the beautiful baby boy. Yes, the lessons are there. Better to learn through the example of others' experience than to have that bitter medicine to drink yourself. When you give up everything and pour all that is you into the life of another (even your children) , it will not neither be recognized nor appreciated. Your children might come to a realization of your sacrifice later in life when they are in a marriage and have children. But your precious man will disrespect your efforts as long as you allow for it. So have a career ladies, even if it's beading. Make it a grand expression of your creativity and make it marketable so that you won't have an ungrateful husband one day tell you how he makes all the money while you contribute nothing. He'll insist that he likes you at home and dowdy while he flits among the pretty winged butterflies. And when you neglect yourself and lose your curves, he'll hug and caress the curves of another. So be wise while you love and learn your lessons the easy way. When you husband tells you to quit your job and stay home to do whatever, you should do what is good for you, remembering to keep your options open_ just in case. Be like Beyonce, loving, faithful, hard-working, beautiful, and wise. Respect is not blind and unquestioned obedience. Use your beautiful brain. I think her friend did the right thing by trying to rouse her friend to action by self-improvement and self-care rather than just blurting out the horrible truth. That gave her friend some resilience to effectively deal with the shock.Well done everyone.
Let this be a lesson to every single ladies who date married men any time they can leave you and go back to their wives , special thanks to the entire crew big up to you guys 🇧🇪 🇧🇪🇧🇪🇧🇪
The movie showed forgiveness in marriage (this is one thing we really don't come across in Nigerian/Western movies). The morals were apt. Kudos to everyone who played a part in the movie that made it a success.
Which movies have you been watching this is NOLLYWOOD central theme. Glad you like that but these movies use this Trope over and over. Women forgiving men no matter how reprehensible they act. Why behave if you know there will be no lasting consequences. Enough is enough this is bad example for women over and over in these movies they are treated like they have no feelings and in the end they take back the object of the pain
A friend like Oge is worth having and keeping. I love how she subtly reminds her friend that she is losing herself. The wife is also self-aware. Despite the stress from marriage, she still knows her worth and when to put her foot down. It's a beautiful movie with many great lessons.
Most men are naturally born like that.... Is very hard as a man to stay with one woman, that's why even if you caught them, they will still go out tomorrow.... Women never understand it anyway. It takes Grace of God to stay with one woman
@@MeeBestFoods Men can choose to marry 5 wives but you can't marry 2nd husband....if am coming for you and know you have married before ..just know that 98% are coming for fun not to marry you.
@@umeriechibuikevictor 1st. It depends on the culture. Some culture practice polyandry. 2ndly. Everyone can cheat 😂😂 it only take self control and how Africa even the bible condemned women for same sin committed by men. As a matter of fact some can cheat successfully than men. A lot of men are living in their fragile egos you can’t outsmart the one that carried you for nine months 😂😂
@@onomeandrew2492 Can you marry 2 husband the answer is No... But a man can marry 10 if he can be able to take care of them. When I was in Ghana a friend of mine came complaining about the wife cheating on him, I called the wife and asked her why is she cheating on the husband, so she told me that the guy have once cheated on her... Adviced her by telling her not to continue... In cheating level women get tired quickly a man of 70years can still function but not a woman of above 55.... The best thing is to arrange your home and not to cheat back. After my advice to her she continued where she stopped, those men dumped her after having fun with her because they knew she's married, now she came back home and wanted to talk to the husband about stopping and started all over but by then the husband has started bringing different girls home, she cried and came back to me telling me what the husband has been doing, I asked her what did I told her from the beginning.... A man you suppose to keep is now in another woman hand.
I wish most men appreciated the efforts of women, especially when the children are very young. It's so stressful and alot of support and appreciation can go a long way for the woman.
Love yourself and set the standard during courtship, the respect will flow into marriage! Don't quit everything (job & life) for marriage, cos some days are boring and you'll always need other angles as support!
I love all the real life lessons in this movie,goes both ways,to the husbands;love your wives and treat them with respect that they deserve being a stay home mom is a full time job and not to be taken for granted..wives/moms; take care of yourselves regardless,don’t lose yourself in the process of being a wife and a mom,you still got your own life to live!to the sidechics..you already saw the ending,he will still chose his wife regardless,sexy or not she remains his wife!
Lovely story with several lessons to take away. All the characters were well played, even Baby Winston did an excellent job.. Kudos to the cast as well as the crew, thanks for uploading.
MENNNNNNNN! Now he's worry about coming home to an empty house lol. Smh why do men always get away with this and be forgiven after cheating so easily? If it's was the wife he wouldn't forgive her I'm sure. All these side chicks always entitled asking if he has another babe crying over someone else's husband sad. Glad how it ended. She really handled it well
This clearly shows that it because we give our husbands space that why they occupy themselves with side chicks😅😅.. If we involve them in raising kids they mind will be occupied to think about another woman... We must embrace and look out for ourselves... Self love is the best.... A beautiful masterpiece... Kudos to the lead cast
Sending lots of love,kisses and high fives to the girls. Their performance was so amazing and so surreal. Like they bodies theor roles effortlessly. And most importantly big thumbs up to Mimi and Daniel as well. Y’all killed it as always 😘❤️💯
Such an interesting movie with great lessons to learn, never loose your self because you are married is the amount of love you have for your self that you can give to others,men please don't cheat on your wives
Beautiful storyline! Well-done all the cast... We need to appreciate every role wives play in making sure family are good and never take anyone's sacrifice for granted.
Absolutely It’s like this men marry you and then assumed your a slave. And they have audacity to cheat, claiming you let yourself go. Why turn a woman to a mother and go after a slut? They always go for those that doesn’t have kids
As Dera’s cousin told her did she really not think that since Ralph is married the affair would continue forever? She knew he was married from the start. I can understand her (Dera’s cousin) position being in the middle of your good friend and your cousin, I think that’s why she started taking out Ralph’s wife and leaving her phone in her bag. Now I thought that was a brilliant move and it did work. Dera you’re a fine girl especially in that brown dress, when you went to Ralph office chai. You’ll get your own guy and fast, looking like that just not Ralph eh. Love this movie very educative. 👏💯👌❤️
Great movie y'all😘😘The casts did wonderfully,the twins and the baby... kudos😁Great storyline and I pray we raise our sons better, teach them well👊🏿 I pray men also learn a great lesson from this story. So many homes broken bcuz of unfaithfulness. Thanks to everyone that participated in this wonderfully, well written story...😘😘😘
Nice movie no one should be self-centered in a mariage it would never work. Everything has to BE equal ... Congratulation to Elma...you are beautiful....❤❤❤
I think it should be, husbands should be helpful and indulge in the home chores. If they do, they might realize how difficult it is and the discussion about outsourcing will be easier.
@@ZobsK Best to avoid them via pre-marital counselling. Find out how they intend to run their home. And run if it doesn’t go down well with you. For those already in a tough situation, ask God for the wisdom to deal with it.
O my God, I love this movie, she is naturally beautiful, no heavy makeup, no wig, just simple. Daniel always has a special place in my heart. Congratulations guys ❤
A Caribbean here who absolutely love African movies especially Nigerians. I’ve binge watch their movies since I was a teen. While the movie is filled with the common lesson where wives shouldn’t let theirselves go in their marriage, my question is to married men in particular; what is the notion of resulting to adultery once the marriage hit a turn you don’t like? Does that mean your commitment to your wife, marriage and care for the family is worth throwing away altogether? So the “hard work” that men take pride in was all a waste of time? Was a woman’s look was all that you married her for? If that’s the case why not help her see where she has fallen if you claimed you love her so much? Or was there any love at all? Other than that the glorification of woman becoming Christ in their marriage in Nigerian movies both in Christian films and worldly ones alike are mind boggling to me 😩😩 It’s becoming like an advertisement and an encouragement for men to continue be cheaters in marriages 🫠🫤 because after all your wife is there with the purpose of forgiving. Isn’t it husbands that are to love their wives as Christ loves the church and wives submitting to that authority? 🤔 Is the saying ‘a fact or a false’ that a man doesn’t respect a woman who stays after she’s been disrespected by him abusing her in anyway? Then the twisted reality is that if it’s her who did the cheating he finds it hard to trust her again? Shebi I don’t gets ohh…LOL ( in Haitian accent) 😂😂
Many of these movies are scripted just to tell a story but they're not typical of the real life scenarios. Men take care of their families through thick and thin, they forgive their partners, when they cheat or hurt them, they don't all cheat. There are many good men in reality. Don't believe these movies please, they reflect a scanty but loud population of the society. Christian homes also have it great, loving husbands and happy wives, not all these interesting falsified movie drama.
Ogeh is the best version of a human being. A God fearing human , who is considerate, despite the side chick being her cousin, she still dredge up the energy and good reasoning to tell her the truth! She is good to the extent of complimenting her friend Elma, despite her friend not looking her best most times, thou, the lead lady is naturally beautiful .
Dear Women, be your best version always, don't give up your career, passion or Business to be a full time housewife, it hardly pays, it messes with self worth, you will be over used, taken for granted, Don't lose yourself for Marriage and childcare. I no go talk pass like this, thank God Elma got her groove back.
Thank you for the advice
Makes sense … God bless you dear
Thanks for your encouragement
Thank you 🙏
Yes oooo
It's important.
She love motherhood, she loves taking care of her kids. I don't think it's a bad thing but she needs help from her husband. Raising children can't be one person's responsibility. They both made them
My thoughts exactly. There is nothing wrong in enjoying the season of motherhood especially when they are little as they will not always need your presence once they get to a certain age. The man needs to understand that the task and support where necessary.
One thing I like about this was the fact that it was relatable and natural. No overly makeup women and no over skimpy clothes. Just natural everyday women
True. That was the most enjoyable part
That’s our Tumini 😃👏🏽👏🏽
Yep I agree! too much prostitute dressing/nudity in many nollywood movies
Exactly
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The wife's natural beauty is sooo amazing 🥰🥰,I love her 😘❤
Y'all should leave my love ooh🥰😍
Mimi Chaka is a total definition of an actress, expressed emotions properly 😍👏🏾
Sometimes a friend like Oge is all a house wife needs to remind her of her self worth and the need to unwind and take a break. Oma girl, thumbs up... Really interpreted the role of Oge.
Her sister said something a lot of us married women needs to hear. Just because we're married doesn't mean we need to lose ourselves in marriage. Advice taking, this movie was so good ❤🌹
It in this case the woman isn’t the major problem other than the man. I always say it makes no sense that people can’t work together when the person is worth it unless your wife is a dead case or an unreasonable person. Most women don’t just let their original selves go because they want to but because they have to be so many things than themselves. In this movie you can see the guy wasn’t considerate and helpful but he was always living his life while letting the woman slave herself away
@@samuellaashley9808 I definitely agree with!
When you have to be so many things in your family and you don’t have a supportive partner then you will definitely loose yourself
I just got here...and i read the comments before watching this movie😊...and i want to say this becuz i experience this when i was married....is not that you dont want to look good, take time to look after yourself ( before you were married) is just that the responsebilities of the family, house kids etc are so much you barelyas time for yourself and when you do, you are sooo tired that you just want to rest or something like that...in most cases ( like mine)...is not that easy task....especially when you dont get the help of your partner in the relationship or marriage.
@@theophilusokwaji9854 right
His wife fits the perfect natural body of a woman who has had 3kids, so natural 😍. I love everything about her. Not like other movies that uses a woman who has had cosmetic surgeries as mum of a newborn. Everything in the movie is genuinely relatable. Kudos to you guys
You mean Onyi Alex playing Mum of 3 abi? Lol, you are correct tho
Hope you know there are women with natural hourglass body even after 3 kids and more. This lady here is beautiful in her own way. There are women that puts in so much work to maintain their natural curves.
God bless you!
I love movies that shows things the way they are. Of course, a mum of three can look all sleek and classy but, there's no way you won't know she's an "after three".
I get your point but I’ve seen mothers of two/three that I know that look slim with very flat stomachs, only the stretch marks tell so that’s not even a yardstick, some people are just blessed with that slim figure o with little or no workout
The girl has no kids n isjxt 23yrs. Body or no body is an amazing actress. Ders nofin lyk dis body is for a woman with kids
Very nice movie with great lessons. I'm a working class lady and trust me i don't envy those beautiful and strong stay at home moms. They are all doing a great job taking care of their homes. Hope you get appreciated by your husbands.
I like your comment.
The reality is family rest on a couple of kind people.
😂😂😂😂working class Lady I salute u😂😂😂😂
Do not agree to be a stay at home mom unless you are being paid! Do not fall for it.
Baby Winston is just the best actor. Guy knows exactly when to throw tantrums 😂
That baby is the best🧡🧡
Exactly 😂😂
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I agree 😂😂😂😂
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This Lady, Mimi Chaka, is everything she thinks she is. She is so amazing and you could tell her kind of human from the roles she plays in movies. All round sweetness, this movie.
I love her
Her skin tone 💯
She’s so beautiful ❤
This isn't just a movie, it's a life changing sermon.
Welldone guys. God bless you Elma and Ralph.
Loved this movie, I know everyone has reflected and is more focused on Mimi’s growth but we must also remember an active father and an active husband relieves stress and encourages love within the household.
I like how Oge knew what happened and rather than put decisions into her head, decided to treat her out, make her realize she’s still fine asf even after kids while trying in her own way to stop her cousin. That’s a good friend
Say it again. She wanted her to take the right approach
I don't like surprises and I would've preferred my good friend yell me what she knew. She wasn't guessing..she emphatically knew he was cheating...
@@mrshappilymarried1so many people take it the wrong way... especially when you aren't married and the man already has been talking bad about her. Maybe she could have led Mimi to the scene if saying it was difficult.
@@Ms.Baidoo199 and you think saying it or leading her to the scene was the best decision, mam the two parties here are involved, Dera is her sister and the wife is her good friend, you definitely won't understand
I love this movie❤❤💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Please let give credit to this adorable baby even though she doesn't know what she is doing she is really playing her part well 😊. She is going to be a great actress ❤❤.
The baby is a boy!
I love the baby so much😂😂😂
What a combination of Etim and Mimi. Both very natural with their acting skills. I wish we could see more of Mimi.
Aswear we need to see more of Mimi. I love the way she acts
Yes l'm here for Mimi...
Can we appreciate Oge . . .She acted so mature. . .thumb up 👍
It may look easy until you do it yourself..women are under rated, men should watch this movie, I ❤ it
We are, and generation after generation
Nothing has changed. That theory still continues.
can we normalise not somehow trying to blame women for infidelity of a man stepping outside his home.....this movie is subtly showing that she let herself go, so he went out and cheated....women need to understand that nothing they do, can cause a man to cheat....cheating is wholly based on indiscipline and lack of self control from the cheater....SIMPLE!...Know this and know peace
Bless you❤️
Well said
Exactly. And why should forgiveness always end with the lady having to accept the man back into her life. They don't portray that in movies when the woman goes wrong. Stop normalising women having to accommodate every bullshit a man serves
Well said. The act of cheating is inborn
You are so right Chi... thanks for sharing
The wife in the movie is so pretty who else agrees😁
So adorable❤❤❤❤
Said same thing
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I agree with you very loving woman
So so pretty 😍
You know what’s worse than a cheating husband? A cheating husband who doesn’t treat his wife well, it’s the audacity for me🤦🏾♀️
Louder plz
Exactly!!! The audacity
Asinnnnn 😕
He doesn’t even want her to get help 🥹🥹🥹.
Olohun! A complete manipulating bastard.
The way Winston started crying when his dad screamed at him to sleep. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 felt so sweet to see Ralph frustrated
😂😂😂 that part sweet me oo
I was howling 😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Me too 😂😂😂
I was really sorry for the dear baby! He didn’t sign up for any of that.
Swears, so sweet😂😂😂
Can we all appreciate Elma's beautiful natural hair??
Yes, none of that braid down ready for a wig like most African films. It's fine that the African continent to lead the rest of the black nations to love being natural and black with no weave, bleaching, and overly covered with heavy makeup 😢
@@mochayelle1💯
I wish more women in African movies would wear their natural hair, even if relaxed and nicely styled and leave out the wigs. These ladies are so beautiful
Everyone delivered their role well, but kudos to baby Winston for frustrating his father at the right moments 😅
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A family should pray together in order to stay together! Great movie enjoyed from America! 👍🏾
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Please add descriptions of the movies in the title section...it helps viewers know what to expect instead of reading countless comments.
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Kudos to every strong wife out there. We really appreciate your effort in keeping everything and everyone in the house intact. Elma is an angel. Like how she was able to handle the discovery of her husband's infidelity without even mentioning it to him was fantastic. Kudos to great housewives. What you do in the hauz is priceless
The BEST ACTOR IN A MOVIE goes to Baby Winston.
The baby knows exactly when to cry 😂
I agree😂
I think so too 🤣🤣
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I love this movie 200%.Elma, looking so beautiful like a black American woman.
So relatable and plenty lessons to learn... every home and their challenges.
One has to be intentional not to get carried away. Every husband and wife has their role to play. Nice cast here!
I said the same thing she looks like a black American woman
We American Black women “are” African descendants so,it stands to reason.
Where do y'all think your ancestors came from? No, not all Black Americans are substantially mixed. African phenotypes are diverse.
I couldn't click fast enough when I saw one of my favourites from TMC, Mimi 🥰 with another favourite of mine: Daniel. I know this movie is going to be 🔥. Mimi's enunciation and diction are simply unique.
I love Oma Iyasara's role here. It takes a lot to know your friend's hubby is cheating and not run your mouth without being careful.
Mehn, Oma is the heroine here for me o. She applied so much sense. Woke the wife up without giving off any details. Protected her friend very well.
When i saw the cover, my mind ran to MEN's CLUB movie😂😂
Nice movie ❤he needed a reset(wife leaving) to come back to his senses
The little baby is the best actress of the century. ❤
This movie should be on streaming. It's real and has lessons for both married and single persons. I love Mimi Chaka she's gorgeous and interpreted her role wonderfully. Mr Etim....always awesome.
I'm glad Elma had the support she needed to find herself. God bless good women. Kudos to the producers
To whomever is reading this message, my prayer is that God will prosper you in your tough times, give you an expected end, and evict the enemy off your path. In Christs' name..
I approve this message! Amen.
Amen!
Amen
Amen
Amen 🙏
I can never forgive a cheat. My father cheated on my stepmom for 25 years and I’ve seen the effect of it. She eventually divorce him after 25 years of chronic cheating. No woman deserves that.
What we need to do is teach our children especially our daughters to know their worth.
Hey there. I know the pain and impact of infidelity and I am sorry that you and your Mom had to experience it. What I want you to know is this; do not let unforgiveness ruin you. For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23) and therefore all of us need God's forgiveness. Jesus says in Matthew 6:14-15 "For if you forgive others when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not (refuse to) forgive others their sins your heavenly Father will not forgive your sins. Please make the right choice today.
This was an excellent movie about real life issue. Good story line. Winston was acting, too! Mimi Chaka is a wonderful actor and a beautiful woman. I've never seen her in anything before; what a special treat to see her in this movie. Daniel has long been a favorite actor of mine; he is such an authentic actor . . . very believable performances every single time. This movie was no exception. This movie hit me right in the feels. Thank you.
Omo!!! When she said what's good for the goose...see me screaming is good for the gander...Yessss Yassss. Tumuni I love. A beautiful movie. 😂 😂 😆
😂😂😂 the way I also completed the sentence
Every one needs a sister like Elmas, she was so supportive, u can't know the value of what u have unless u loose it, luv how the wife handled the whole situation, with alot of maturity and intergrity, kudos to the cast and crew grt job, the kids were so cute, and intelligent too, wow am impressed, tgx for the upload
Loved the movie! I shouldn't have expected any less from Daniel Effiong and Mimi Chaka anyways. They always deliver astounding performances. And Dera was such an amazing actress also. Kudos to all the cast and crew for a beautiful movie.
Really lovely
Mimi is such a good actress. Very articulate 👌
Daniel Etim is just wonderful, he is good at any role that can be giving to him to play and that is what make ihm so special . I descover ihm for the first time in Castle and Castle .Good money and. another lesson learned for All those men who take their wife at home for granted 😅
Mimi Chaka my darling you are a star, Daniel as usual you outdid yourselves , Chiney thank you this is one of the best movies and I can't skip
The diction of the actors here is awesome. I love it . Great story line , great delivery. Great production well done everyone . With production like this there is hope for Nigeria.
Interesting storyline, good cast and lovely movie. Cheating is bad and it is wrong for husbands to take their wives for granted
Shout out to the beautiful baby boy. Yes, the lessons are there. Better to learn through the example of others' experience than to have that bitter medicine to drink yourself. When you give up everything and pour all that is you into the life of another (even your children) , it will not neither be recognized nor appreciated. Your children might come to a realization of your sacrifice later in life when they are in a marriage and have children. But your precious man will disrespect your efforts as long as you allow for it. So have a career ladies, even if it's beading. Make it a grand expression of your creativity and make it marketable so that you won't have an ungrateful husband one day tell you how he makes all the money while you contribute nothing. He'll insist that he likes you at home and dowdy while he flits among the pretty winged butterflies. And when you neglect yourself and lose your curves, he'll hug and caress the curves of another. So be wise while you love and learn your lessons the easy way. When you husband tells you to quit your job and stay home to do whatever, you should do what is good for you, remembering to keep your options open_ just in case. Be like Beyonce, loving, faithful, hard-working, beautiful, and wise. Respect is not blind and unquestioned obedience. Use your beautiful brain. I think her friend did the right thing by trying to rouse her friend to action by self-improvement and self-care rather than just blurting out the horrible truth. That gave her friend some resilience to effectively deal with the shock.Well done everyone.
Let this be a lesson to every single ladies who date married men any time they can leave you and go back to their wives , special thanks to the entire crew big up to you guys 🇧🇪 🇧🇪🇧🇪🇧🇪
Also , they never leave their wives ohhhh
Married women too a lot of married women have boyfriend's or dating married men too 😮
The movie showed forgiveness in marriage (this is one thing we really don't come across in Nigerian/Western movies).
The morals were apt.
Kudos to everyone who played a part in the movie that made it a success.
I would like to see a movie where the woman is the one who cheats and forgiven. It's always women forgiving let's spice it up
Which movies have you been watching this is NOLLYWOOD central theme. Glad you like that but these movies use this Trope over and over. Women forgiving men no matter how reprehensible they act. Why behave if you know there will be no lasting consequences. Enough is enough this is bad example for women over and over in these movies they are treated like they have no feelings and in the end they take back the object of the pain
Says who? Do you watch Nigerian movies at all
Almost all Nigerian movies end with forgiving especially the women forgiving I'll mannered husbands
A friend like Oge is worth having and keeping. I love how she subtly reminds her friend that she is losing herself. The wife is also self-aware. Despite the stress from marriage, she still knows her worth and when to put her foot down.
It's a beautiful movie with many great lessons.
If only these men change completely after being caught, this world will be rid of unnecessary divorces
Most men are naturally born like that.... Is very hard as a man to stay with one woman, that's why even if you caught them, they will still go out tomorrow.... Women never understand it anyway. It takes Grace of God to stay with one woman
Just as it takes the grace of God for a woman to stay with one man too
@@MeeBestFoods Men can choose to marry 5 wives but you can't marry 2nd husband....if am coming for you and know you have married before ..just know that 98% are coming for fun not to marry you.
@@umeriechibuikevictor 1st. It depends on the culture. Some culture practice polyandry. 2ndly. Everyone can cheat 😂😂 it only take self control and how Africa even the bible condemned women for same sin committed by men. As a matter of fact some can cheat successfully than men. A lot of men are living in their fragile egos you can’t outsmart the one that carried you for nine months 😂😂
@@onomeandrew2492 Can you marry 2 husband the answer is No... But a man can marry 10 if he can be able to take care of them. When I was in Ghana a friend of mine came complaining about the wife cheating on him, I called the wife and asked her why is she cheating on the husband, so she told me that the guy have once cheated on her... Adviced her by telling her not to continue... In cheating level women get tired quickly a man of 70years can still function but not a woman of above 55.... The best thing is to arrange your home and not to cheat back. After my advice to her she continued where she stopped, those men dumped her after having fun with her because they knew she's married, now she came back home and wanted to talk to the husband about stopping and started all over but by then the husband has started bringing different girls home, she cried and came back to me telling me what the husband has been doing, I asked her what did I told her from the beginning.... A man you suppose to keep is now in another woman hand.
I wish most men appreciated the efforts of women, especially when the children are very young. It's so stressful and alot of support and appreciation can go a long way for the woman.
Love yourself and set the standard during courtship, the respect will flow into marriage! Don't quit everything (job & life) for marriage, cos some days are boring and you'll always need other angles as support!
Mimi and Daniel from TMC..yeah!! Want to see more movies with Mimi. She's so talented and gifted.
I love all the real life lessons in this movie,goes both ways,to the husbands;love your wives and treat them with respect that they deserve being a stay home mom is a full time job and not to be taken for granted..wives/moms; take care of yourselves regardless,don’t lose yourself in the process of being a wife and a mom,you still got your own life to live!to the sidechics..you already saw the ending,he will still chose his wife regardless,sexy or not she remains his wife!
Lovely story with several lessons to take away. All the characters were well played, even Baby Winston did an excellent job.. Kudos to the cast as well as the crew, thanks for uploading.
This is the best punishment ever 😂😂 And he doesn’t like nannies 😂😂 you never see anything
Abi o😂😂😂
MENNNNNNNN! Now he's worry about coming home to an empty house lol. Smh why do men always get away with this and be forgiven after cheating so easily? If it's was the wife he wouldn't forgive her I'm sure. All these side chicks always entitled asking if he has another babe crying over someone else's husband sad. Glad how it ended. She really handled it well
This clearly shows that it because we give our husbands space that why they occupy themselves with side chicks😅😅.. If we involve them in raising kids they mind will be occupied to think about another woman... We must embrace and look out for ourselves... Self love is the best.... A beautiful masterpiece... Kudos to the lead cast
All the ladies in this movie are sooooo pretty. I'm blown. Nice story
Baby Winston is a hilarious actor please😂😂😂💔 The crying was the added spice to the scene😂
I don’t think he knows he is supposed to be acting😊
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@@georgiafain3747😂
Sending lots of love,kisses and high fives to the girls. Their performance was so amazing and so surreal. Like they bodies theor roles effortlessly. And most importantly big thumbs up to Mimi and Daniel as well. Y’all killed it as always 😘❤️💯
The part Elma said “there will be a next time oo. I feel very relaxed,very very relaxed”😂
Look at o! 😂🤣💔
Is it my Tumini that they are stressing like this? I go slap person daddy o💔
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Baby Winston is such an adorable child. Seeing him tied on the father's back is just so precious!
That baby is a boy, what's with the pom poms
@@jussiej2573 exactly, why feminize hm?
I've seen boys with pom poms like that. Its a hairstyle used for boys and girls.
what's pom pom?
@@josiahflame7477 the hair style
More of Mimi chaka on screen❤ pure talent you hv got ,she was so natural in the role, effortlessly .
Such an interesting movie with great lessons to learn, never loose your self because you are married is the amount of love you have for your self that you can give to others,men please don't cheat on your wives
Beautiful storyline! Well-done all the cast... We need to appreciate every role wives play in making sure family are good and never take anyone's sacrifice for granted.
Absolutely
It’s like this men marry you and then assumed your a slave. And they have audacity to cheat, claiming you let yourself go. Why turn a woman to a mother and go after a slut? They always go for those that doesn’t have kids
Very true
Jollof noodles 😂😂😂
By the way I don't think Ralph missed his wife I think he missed his nanny
Do you getttt
Agreed 😢
Yop
Agreed
Yes
He missed her doing the chores and caring for the kids
Dating a married man is like driving a government car 🚗 anytime you mess up the government can seize the key 🔑 😅😅😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 girl what?
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂good morning😅
As Dera’s cousin told her did she really not think that since Ralph is married the affair would continue forever?
She knew he was married from the start.
I can understand her (Dera’s cousin) position being in the middle of your good friend and your cousin, I think that’s why she started taking out Ralph’s wife and leaving her phone in her bag. Now I thought that was a brilliant move and it did work.
Dera you’re a fine girl especially in that brown dress, when you went to Ralph office chai.
You’ll get your own guy and fast, looking like that just not Ralph eh.
Love this movie very educative. 👏💯👌❤️
Loved how well everyone interpreted their character, especially Pearl Wats (Dera)
Such a mature way to deal with cheating in marriage....You need the wisdom and grace of God....Lord help us🙌
Love the lead actress, she is so beautiful, wish to see her in more movies, great film and kudos to the entire cast and crew ❤❤.
Her name is Mimi chaka she is good
I love Mimi Chaka! She's so gracious
Im in love we this Natural dark skin beauty , No make ups, how i wish we African can Embrace our beauty n stay naturally .soooo gorgeous ❤❤❤❤
Aminu would be so angry if he sees Tumini doing all this kind of hard work o
Na wa
🤣🤣🤣 LMAO
😂😂😂😂😂 who be this one
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Tmc lover, team Forest
🤣😅🤣😂🤣😂 from whia to whia??
It is good to see my thick ladies in one movie, love you guys.
Lol as in, it looks like a thick ladies production
Great movie y'all😘😘The casts did wonderfully,the twins and the baby... kudos😁Great storyline and I pray we raise our sons better, teach them well👊🏿 I pray men also learn a great lesson from this story. So many homes broken bcuz of unfaithfulness. Thanks to everyone that participated in this wonderfully, well written story...😘😘😘
I’m here for baby Winston, he’s so cute 🥰
The small buddy played his role well
Am here for Mimi 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 it’s been a while and we miss u💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Yaay, i finally get to see Tumini in a movie. Loved her in the Men's club. She's so natural
Nice movie no one should be self-centered in a mariage it would never work. Everything has to BE equal ... Congratulation to Elma...you are beautiful....❤❤❤
Daniel never disappoints.Real life lessons ❤
Advice from a young lady: don't kill yourself with house chores, outsource as much as you can. Don't lose yourself in marriage.
Yes ooh but there are husbands who won’t let you outsource
@@ZobsK I am telling you
Just like my husband anytime I mentioned it like this is problem
I think it should be, husbands should be helpful and indulge in the home chores. If they do, they might realize how difficult it is and the discussion about outsourcing will be easier.
@@ZobsK then let them do it themselves 😤
@@ZobsK Best to avoid them via pre-marital counselling. Find out how they intend to run their home. And run if it doesn’t go down well with you. For those already in a tough situation, ask God for the wisdom to deal with it.
This just feels like Tumini cheating on Aminu with his friend 😂😅
And she had the audacity to marry him 🤣🤣🤣
TMC lovers❤️
This is really funny 😂😂
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Yh that's how I'm feeling right now
Love it, Powerful lessons indeed. Dress how you want to be addressed 😊
IF you're here for Daniel, gather here let's take a selfie 💃💃💃💃
🥂🥂🥂🥂 Team Etim 😁
@@emperorrstivtv660 🌹🌹🌹
I’m here for the two lead characters 😊😊
Selfie time 😊
Etim Effiong my favorite
O my God, I love this movie, she is naturally beautiful, no heavy makeup, no wig, just simple. Daniel always has a special place in my heart. Congratulations guys ❤
Daniel Etim❤️
Thank you for this upload, you have just made my Sunday night 💃💃🙏🍿🍿
A Caribbean here who absolutely love African movies especially Nigerians. I’ve binge watch their movies since I was a teen. While the movie is filled with the common lesson where wives shouldn’t let theirselves go in their marriage, my question is to married men in particular; what is the notion of resulting to adultery once the marriage hit a turn you don’t like? Does that mean your commitment to your wife, marriage and care for the family is worth throwing away altogether? So the “hard work” that men take pride in was all a waste of time? Was a woman’s look was all that you married her for? If that’s the case why not help her see where she has fallen if you claimed you love her so much? Or was there any love at all? Other than that the glorification of woman becoming Christ in their marriage in Nigerian movies both in Christian films and worldly ones alike are mind boggling to me 😩😩 It’s becoming like an advertisement and an encouragement for men to continue be cheaters in marriages 🫠🫤 because after all your wife is there with the purpose of forgiving. Isn’t it husbands that are to love their wives as Christ loves the church and wives submitting to that authority? 🤔 Is the saying ‘a fact or a false’ that a man doesn’t respect a woman who stays after she’s been disrespected by him abusing her in anyway? Then the twisted reality is that if it’s her who did the cheating he finds it hard to trust her again?
Shebi I don’t gets ohh…LOL ( in Haitian accent) 😂😂
Woooosh its the Haitian accent for meeeee
Many of these movies are scripted just to tell a story but they're not typical of the real life scenarios. Men take care of their families through thick and thin, they forgive their partners, when they cheat or hurt them, they don't all cheat. There are many good men in reality. Don't believe these movies please, they reflect a scanty but loud population of the society. Christian homes also have it great, loving husbands and happy wives, not all these interesting falsified movie drama.
You raised a valid point
I agree with you.
@@mayowaedgarunfortunately mostly women are living this reality especially in west Africa.
Aw the little baby boy they have is ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE 🥰
I love Oge too. God knows She's a good friend. She was still protective. She would tell her friend but it was time. Cause behind her back she was good
I don't normally watch recent Nollywood movies cz I'm old school😂 but I'm here for my girl Mimi Tchaka. ❤❤
i can recommend for you oh
Brilliant movie. You lose when you date a married man. I hope this serves as a lesson to all the single ladies out there
Men’s club fan here for “awa” people!!!
Ogeh is the best version of a human being. A God fearing human , who is considerate, despite the side chick being her cousin, she still dredge up the energy and good reasoning to tell her the truth! She is good to the extent of complimenting her friend Elma, despite her friend not looking her best most times, thou, the lead lady is naturally beautiful .
Movies with Daniel is always a vibe to learn from its nice seeing you in the movie Chinney. Kudos to the entire production team💕