Being Trans - Interview with Ash Coyote

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • In this video Ash and I have a discussion around what it means to be trans and her coming out experience. Please check out Ash's UA-cam Channel: / ashcoyote and Twitter: / ashcoyote
    Brief Overview
    Coming out is never easy, everyone in LGBTQ+ has made their unique experience in this regard. For some it's easier and friends and family are accepting and for other's it's the opposite or somewhere in between. In this video Ash and Tirox have a conversation about Ash's coming out and transition experience, how she came out to her husband, friends and family.
    Please note, that everyone's coming out experience is different, so yours will likely be different than the ones discussed in this video.
    Make sure to build a support network consisting of friends and people that can help you. You're not alone.
    Resources
    Reach out to friends, people you trust or check out some of the online resources on Trans and other LGBTQ+ resources:
    * www.glaad.org/...
    * ok2bme.ca/reso...
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    Thanks to my husky who loves, supports and helps me ♥️
    Twitter 🐅🦊:
    / yourtirox
    Twitch 👾:
    / yourtirox
    Music © EpidemicSound 🎵:
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 236

  • @AshCoyote
    @AshCoyote 3 роки тому +522

    Thank you so much for having me on!

    • @chadtv7049
      @chadtv7049 3 роки тому +11

      @THE KID OF LINK AND ZELDA I agree with you she should be verified.

    • @yourTirox
      @yourTirox  3 роки тому +91

      Ash you’re amazing. Thanks so much for for this interview ❤️

    • @rileyjustice1030
      @rileyjustice1030 3 роки тому

      🤷‍♂️

    • @Fdgtbldr
      @Fdgtbldr 3 роки тому +2

      @@yourTirox you forgot le meow

    • @loxy4032
      @loxy4032 3 роки тому +3

      Ash Coyote omg hi!

  • @johntellez7809
    @johntellez7809 3 роки тому +102

    Loved the vid. Thanks for making content like this.

    • @yourTirox
      @yourTirox  3 роки тому +27

      Thanks a lot

    • @B1ologix
      @B1ologix 3 роки тому +4

      @Lyrical Wheat Why would you ever think something like that?

    • @jdbrown2025
      @jdbrown2025 3 роки тому +1

      @@yourTirox I love your fursuit and your videos. I wish I could give you a hug and I am also your biggest fan.

  • @sailor_benny141
    @sailor_benny141 3 роки тому +81

    I’m glad I had the opportunity to hear this from ash because I consider myself uneducated on how to approach trans individuals and I have many trans friends whom I’d hate to offend by being ignorant. Thank you tirox and ash for this learning opportunity!

    • @thatoneboy869
      @thatoneboy869 3 роки тому +1

      If there is any questions, you can ask me. I'm a trans individual and if you have a question, any question, and if you feel like it's rude or something and you don't wanna be rude, lemme know. I'd love to answer any questions you have.

    • @sailor_benny141
      @sailor_benny141 3 роки тому

      @@thatoneboy869 I do have one; if an individual not only changes their gender, but also their name, what are some good ways I can work towards using their current identification. I appreciate any help I can get in this regard

    • @thatoneboy869
      @thatoneboy869 3 роки тому +1

      @@sailor_benny141 alright so you won't always have the right name set in mind. If they choose to change their name then you will have to use it. And if you accidentally call them by a different name, just correct yourself and don't make a big deal. For example, "Allison look- oh I mean Damian" that'll make the situation less awkward. But if you do this "Allison- crap I'm so sorry I meant to say Damian! I'm so terrible I'm such a sucky ass friend. I completely feel terrible and feel like trash" that'll force the other person to forgive you. While just correcting yourself in a less awkward and less dramatic way is easier. If that doesn't answer your question, then think about their name before saying their name. Okay? It gets easier and easier. I promise you.

    • @sailor_benny141
      @sailor_benny141 3 роки тому +1

      @@thatoneboy869 thank you so much! I’ll definitely keep that in mind and put it into practice next time I see one of my friends. I greatly appreciate you!

    • @thatoneboy869
      @thatoneboy869 3 роки тому

      @@sailor_benny141 I'm glad I could help

  • @insignificantrat8992
    @insignificantrat8992 3 роки тому +54

    I wasn't expecting this... But i'm happy.

  • @aikkizthepinkwolf3375
    @aikkizthepinkwolf3375 3 роки тому +170

    This is going to be a cool interview. It’s nice to see trans people in the furry fandom!

  • @southernpennsyrailfan8579
    @southernpennsyrailfan8579 3 роки тому +95

    Not me but my cousin is trans and I’m bisexual so that’s why I’m watching this

  • @arianne9645
    @arianne9645 3 роки тому +60

    Aww fuck this is the BEST crossover episode

  • @KamFails
    @KamFails 3 роки тому +4

    Glitch: "I started out gay and then I got a girlfriend!"
    Ash: "I started out gay and then I BECAME the girlfriend!"
    Queen shit

  • @805vio
    @805vio 3 роки тому +55

    yassss we love a trans ally

  • @spudthefluffyfox
    @spudthefluffyfox 3 роки тому +23

    Im gay, my mom was happy to have a gay son, my dad doesn't mind, and my step mom is a little homophobic

    • @AstriaTheFox372
      @AstriaTheFox372 3 роки тому +12

      My stepdad was full homophobic. My mom died before she could know. And my step mom and real dad are very supportive. And my grandma just doesn't understand it

    • @pounderpolizzo7269
      @pounderpolizzo7269 3 роки тому +5

      I told i told my parents i was gay i actually think im bi curious my parents told me the internet screwed up my brain im also autistic

    • @hamee4478
      @hamee4478 3 роки тому +1

      @@pounderpolizzo7269 The internet didn't change anything thats just ridiculous. Only you know yourself the best so keep being you :p

    • @totallydoomed6633
      @totallydoomed6633 3 роки тому

      @@pounderpolizzo7269 the Internet didn't screw ups your brain, the Internet gave you the resources to explore and help you to understand who you are.
      The Internet screwing up your brain is one of the biggest homophobic statments I've ever heard.

    • @totallydoomed6633
      @totallydoomed6633 3 роки тому

      @@AstriaTheFox372 the thing about most homophobics is they're either scared of their own sexuality, or they're been taught by their predecessors that it is wrong for two people born the same sex to share a bed together it such away.
      The main thing is that your real dad is supportive of your sexual orientation and is happy that his child is happy.

  • @dimthecat9418
    @dimthecat9418 3 роки тому +46

    Mr. Peanutbutter: “What is this a crossover episode?”

  • @lornperkins4270
    @lornperkins4270 3 роки тому +2

    Hi tirox. Hi ash. I love you guys and fluke is my favorite fluffy pooch..let him know please and boy can he dance his cute furry fluff butt off....ash you are totally cool I follow your channel..and tirox I love your tesla..what a cool car my nephew knows 2 people that own one..
    If I had the $$, I would buy one 2...woah ash your married...holy
    crap..I never knew..oh well love you guys keep up the terrific work. Look forward to the videos

  • @mr_black_hat999
    @mr_black_hat999 3 роки тому +4

    Wierd youtube recommendation but ok

  • @melodytheyeen
    @melodytheyeen 3 роки тому +36

    i love trans people. they are so valid in every way.

  • @tvollogy
    @tvollogy 3 роки тому +7

    At the start, Tirox sounded like an overexcited fan😂 Great video though

  • @huntingyourbonez952
    @huntingyourbonez952 3 роки тому +6

    Tirox is just a cutie :)

  • @eduardowolf8890
    @eduardowolf8890 3 роки тому +6

    Tirox should make a podcast

  • @sherryrose2645
    @sherryrose2645 3 роки тому +15

    this really helped me, thanks Tirox and Ash for this conversation

  • @danielthespringerspaniel2047
    @danielthespringerspaniel2047 3 роки тому +17

    Can't wait ^w^ I'm still still panicking about telling family I am trans 😔

  • @mr_black_hat999
    @mr_black_hat999 3 роки тому +4

    Tirox showing his face, what

  • @AndrOwO
    @AndrOwO 3 роки тому +6

    Such a sweet Video! Thank you both so much ❤️.
    I learned alot through this ^w^

  • @gublergubler777
    @gublergubler777 3 роки тому +8

    This was a beautiful conversation to watch, and I think it’s very important that these types of conversations continue to happen. People need to know that they are not alone, and that the way they feel truly means something. Thank you Ash for feeling comfortable telling your story to us, it was beautiful, and thank you Tirox for creating this safe space for us to come together and learn and expand our perceptions.

  • @boost3405
    @boost3405 3 роки тому +4

    BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH who is this Tirox boy and why is he so cute

  • @jaxstheshep3529
    @jaxstheshep3529 3 роки тому +1

    my mom might think I am gay I don't know for sure because we was talking about how duck dynasty was cancelled my mom said Phil don't like gay people then my mom said she don't care about if someone is gay or not if she thinks I am gay she is sort of right

  • @fexuinejulliten6607
    @fexuinejulliten6607 3 роки тому +1

    People : Infinity War is the most ambitious crossover
    Furries : Being Trans - Interview with Ash Coyote

  • @Shiroyanagi
    @Shiroyanagi 3 роки тому +4

    Great interview, but you need to borrow the good mic from Fluke for the next one.

  • @brycecomte9992
    @brycecomte9992 3 роки тому +3

    Love your videos and trans people are awesome

    • @brycecomte9992
      @brycecomte9992 3 роки тому +1

      I'm actually married to a wonderful trans person and I love her to death.

  • @Shane-el7wy
    @Shane-el7wy 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this. I'm trans female and it's been hard since I came out to my unaccepting parents.

  • @FluffyDergGaming
    @FluffyDergGaming 3 роки тому +5

    OMG ASH AND TIROX IN A VIDEO THIS IS SO WHOLESOME!!!!!

  • @toenailchomper27
    @toenailchomper27 3 роки тому +2

    I came out as gei this November
    best decision of my life. now I can talk about how hot girls are.

  • @yorkiedatdoggo5983
    @yorkiedatdoggo5983 3 роки тому +5

    Whiskey?

  • @PepperPengu
    @PepperPengu 3 роки тому +4

    Good questions and good answers.

  • @Nick_Ryuson
    @Nick_Ryuson 3 роки тому +5

    This is a great way to help sooooo many people! i know a lot of people who want to transition and i will def show this vid.

  • @mikeyflores3430
    @mikeyflores3430 3 роки тому +8

    Tirox, this was a wonderful interview with ash and I'm so glad I got to watch it. I learned a lot from another perspective and this is so important.

  • @rarity7316
    @rarity7316 3 роки тому +3

    Awwwww, what a beuty video my bb Tirooooox, ILYsm 💜 and Flukyyy will be proud for this. :3

  • @crypt0f0x98
    @crypt0f0x98 3 роки тому +3

    A great interview very well informed people behind this, A+, lol UwU, I am a fox fur, transgender A-sexual, The A-sexual side of me is newer, I was engaged to a Guy who is sexually active, we are still best friends now, but not together romantically, but the people around us all say we still act like a couple, and that is a awesome experience that the guy is still my best friend, During our relationship is how I first thought I was Asexual, what helped me confirm it was another friend who is older, she is a grandmother and is very close to me, and we talked a lot about it, she is the one who helped me feel comfortable confirming ya I am an Ace, I started through that journey of my life at age 24 I am turning 30 this year, so ya it is something that takes a lot of time, and I had that support system of close people in my life that helped me figure out what my identity is, thank you so much for this video cause I do believe this will help so many people who are starting to figure out who they are like I started really figuring out who I was at age 24

  • @Games4Playersfrry
    @Games4Playersfrry 3 роки тому +3

    Who came through the link that Fluke left in his video?

  • @whiskeydcat8134
    @whiskeydcat8134 3 роки тому +2

    Anyone know where yorkiedatdog is I need him edit: I found him ya

  • @figz_126
    @figz_126 3 роки тому +2

    Loved the video! Would be great if you did some more stuff like this! You could call it Tirox talks.

  • @noammatkov3464
    @noammatkov3464 3 роки тому +2

    fluke is that your head in there!?

  • @squirrel_plus
    @squirrel_plus 3 роки тому +3

    This was actually really informative, thanks for doing this Tirox, and you too Ash

  • @shinoumera5958
    @shinoumera5958 3 роки тому +4

    It's amazing to know that your never alone in the Fandom, I wouldn't have had the strength to start without it and my wife's help

  • @alexfilmstudio465
    @alexfilmstudio465 3 роки тому +3

    I love trans people I have two of them as friends and I support them they are so nice and they support me too for being gay

  • @michaelandrews8348
    @michaelandrews8348 3 роки тому +1

    I am Bisexual, it took me until I was 29 to realize and i accepted myself as Bi last year at 30. I came out to my sister and I was so happy I cried a bit, I have not come out to my dad yet. I did come out to my closest friends and they accepted me even though i have an issue about it with my best and oldest friend. He does not think i am Bi due to me wanting to be with women more then men but i know that my male to female attraction ratio is 98% women to 2% men. Being Bisexual does not mean a 50/50 split attraction.

  • @Lighty_417
    @Lighty_417 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Tirox and Ash for this interview, it was very helpful and educational. Since I've joined the fandom, I've been finding out more about myself with all the LGTBQIA+ support. I know my dad is homophobic and still refuse to see my cousin after he came out as gay, so I can't tell him how I'm feeling about being pansexual or even transgender. The only person I can trust with that is my sister, and I think she might have an idea that I'm pansexual.

  • @noammatkov3464
    @noammatkov3464 3 роки тому +2

    is that flukes head in there?

    • @AutiAuto
      @AutiAuto 3 роки тому

      I just see Tirox's own head.

  • @kylelang1815
    @kylelang1815 3 роки тому +3

    I care deeply for all liveing things on all the different worlds and know that you are loved and you will find Joy i promise you that ❤️

  • @MilkIsSuperior
    @MilkIsSuperior 3 роки тому

    Wait..... He said he’s with someone named chip. And idk anyone in the furry community is ChipFlake!

  • @eldeibit3
    @eldeibit3 3 роки тому

    Im from spain, i think i understanded the video but i think i dont understanded some words 😅. But anyways... Very good video!!!

  • @AndreTheDragon
    @AndreTheDragon 3 роки тому +1

    What is trans like music genre?

  • @VigilTheProtogen
    @VigilTheProtogen 3 роки тому +1

    So I've been subbed to ash for at least a few months now, maybe even a year
    I didn't know she was trans... that's a good thing right?

  • @ThundercatDarklion
    @ThundercatDarklion 3 роки тому

    Pawsome!!!! I am an gay male fur and I watch Ash's UA-cam videos. :) =^.^=

  • @Pop4484
    @Pop4484 3 роки тому +3

    Yay :D

  • @tigress4374
    @tigress4374 3 роки тому

    Congratulations Tirox $1M has just been added to your account.

  • @Rightthinkingfur
    @Rightthinkingfur 3 роки тому

    @Tirox - I am sorry that I haven't been watching your videos at all. I've been focused on Fluke
    But, I hear of you often in his videos.
    Sorry Tirox!
    *Dragon gives nuzzles.

  • @whiskers662
    @whiskers662 3 роки тому

    I'm watching for Tirox, but I support Trans people.

  • @Socksydeeryenaboi
    @Socksydeeryenaboi Рік тому

    I fully support trans people, and anyone else in the LGBTQIA+ community. I am bisexual, i fully support you. And good video Tirox and it was nice to have Ash Coyote on here. It was a good way to learn more.

  • @margaritarodriguez7593
    @margaritarodriguez7593 3 роки тому +3

    If I found out or they tell me I would say ok I respect that.

  • @sharkycutieuwu1703
    @sharkycutieuwu1703 3 роки тому +2

    The part that ash says "I see flukes butt" it makes me laugh alot XD

  • @wolf-qj4ib
    @wolf-qj4ib 3 роки тому +2

    hi'

  • @SmallSmellyToes
    @SmallSmellyToes 3 роки тому +7

    Yay more uploads

  • @Socksydeeryenaboi
    @Socksydeeryenaboi Рік тому

    It’s cool, how Ash made 2 documentaries about the Furryfandom. I watched the first one that was shown alongside the second one. It was really good and I recommend it to other people who are new to the fandom.

  • @zoeystjohn2566
    @zoeystjohn2566 2 роки тому

    Unfortunately my bf broke up with me when I came out after 5 years with him that was the worst thing ever I'm having the worst time recovering from that I dont know what to do anymore

  • @sona11111111
    @sona11111111 3 роки тому +1

    30:37 The first friend I discussed my feelings with was over traditional IRC (furnet). The internet truly is a blessing.

  • @CRAHERS
    @CRAHERS Рік тому

    see where i come from and this may sound disrespentful but its not, but where i come from we call trans ppl a switch. its an actual term i was born to and acustom to. if i say it to ppl i try not to be disrespectful

  • @Lebronzo445
    @Lebronzo445 3 роки тому +1

    I’m straight and I always have felt bad for those that are trans because that’s gotta be very confusing transition or even knowing that you actually are trans

  • @BoomboxHusky
    @BoomboxHusky 3 роки тому +8

    you wanna find the best part ASAP? Here ya go
    23:55

  • @Enchantinglocomotive
    @Enchantinglocomotive 3 роки тому

    Ima watch this even though I’m trans (FtM) lol it’s just gonna be fun

  • @justfox5989
    @justfox5989 3 роки тому

    Tirox are you going to be in a Furry convention in Austria?

  • @benjaminbaker5061
    @benjaminbaker5061 3 роки тому +1

    ME THINK ASHE WAS SIA FOR A SEC

  • @5C0RP_
    @5C0RP_ 3 роки тому

    Ironic this video is in my recommended well I'm watching it anyway

  • @kinggoldenfursuitter7309
    @kinggoldenfursuitter7309 2 роки тому

    Loved the video my friend and I wish you add me into that call space and uploaded on your UA-cam channel

  • @thatoneboy869
    @thatoneboy869 3 роки тому +1

    As a trans male, this makes me happy

  • @crocsthefrog
    @crocsthefrog 3 роки тому +1

    Hiiiiii

  • @jakefisher4174
    @jakefisher4174 2 роки тому

    I'm a big fan of this channel I hope I can meet them one day

  • @AceAyasaki
    @AceAyasaki 3 роки тому

    Ngl, Human tirox is as cute as Fursuit tirox

  • @sparkdreamers5055
    @sparkdreamers5055 3 роки тому +1

    I love learning about heavy topics like these. Thanks for this great interview.

  • @Magicalwolfgamer
    @Magicalwolfgamer 3 роки тому

    Tirox is so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Tink-lh8dr
    @Tink-lh8dr 2 роки тому

    i love you ash coyote and tirox reply to me soon

  • @finalfrostfall670
    @finalfrostfall670 3 роки тому

    I am watching this while brushing my hair with 4 brushes at the same time

  • @coolguy7303
    @coolguy7303 3 роки тому +2

  • @スアリ-m1f
    @スアリ-m1f 3 роки тому

    Hi I love you so much and flock

  • @razakdaudrazak5284
    @razakdaudrazak5284 2 роки тому

    Helllo tirox whera fluke ????

  • @flasheygirl
    @flasheygirl 2 роки тому

    So that’s what you look like

  • @finecanine376
    @finecanine376 3 роки тому

    I am here from Flukes channel to help you out :3

  • @tannerallen919
    @tannerallen919 3 роки тому

    Tirox face reveal yesssssssss

  • @Charlie59876
    @Charlie59876 3 роки тому +1

    face revealll

  • @Sulva13
    @Sulva13 3 роки тому

    25:00 I mean, I'm biromantically asexual as I can imagine myself with a boy OR girl in terms of a relationship. It doesn't matter what gender anyone is, I don't plan to have sex with them anyway, so to me that doesn't matter. I might even be pan(romantic) to open myself up more, but I admit I don't have much experience meeting trans people or those who don't define themselves as male or female specifically.

    • @justamicrowave2572
      @justamicrowave2572 3 роки тому

      Bi (in terms of bisexual or biromantic) doesn’t mean only attracted to guys and girls, it means attraction to both your gender and other genders, which could include non-binary people.

  • @zalgosentertainment1167
    @zalgosentertainment1167 3 роки тому

    Where the fuck am I at?-

  • @nataliedale5801
    @nataliedale5801 3 роки тому

    im also a tiger fox lol

  • @jeremyude
    @jeremyude 3 роки тому +1

    You did a great job with the interview :)
    It's not as easy as it looks to respond to answers and ask the right questions.

  • @Tink-lh8dr
    @Tink-lh8dr 2 роки тому

    When you can

  • @RandomGuyUKTV
    @RandomGuyUKTV 7 місяців тому

    De donde eres?

  • @Kiirxas
    @Kiirxas 3 роки тому

    Aaaaaaand I just discovered Ash is trans, always nice to know there's more people like me out there :3

  • @ajkiel17
    @ajkiel17 3 роки тому

    Dope

  • @SpottySaber
    @SpottySaber 3 роки тому +1

    This video was very heartwarming to watch

  • @chipbear1942
    @chipbear1942 3 роки тому

    :0 wow!

  • @PinkSaltWarlock
    @PinkSaltWarlock 3 роки тому

    I love Ash, she's my fursuit crush !!! One of them lol

  • @andrewking2193
    @andrewking2193 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much Tirox for doing this video, I've been trying to ask ash to do a video on this. As much I like ash, I'm glad you are the one that made it. Thanks again so much, and I hope to find my way too.

  • @woofiewolf4941
    @woofiewolf4941 3 роки тому

    More VIDS