How are you so amazing. You literally are God sent. I have observed the moment I surrender to the resistance the resistance drops. Though it takes me a while to realise this . Allow yourself the liberty to suffer the most transformational thing I have heard in a while.
The problem with suffering (illness, bullying, slavery, poverty, impositions, manipulations etc.) is that it takes away the freedom to live, it makes you sad, pessimistic... society seems to be organized to keep you in a state of permanent threat, and that make it impossible to live fully... to me suffering should be very little part of our life but, as this video suggest, it is nowadays a constant predominant.
@@sajafendel So, if we are in a matrix and we know it, should we just don't give a damn to anything anymore so it can simply disappear and we can live in bliss or are we doomed to it anyway? I'm an honest person and I try always to be good to others but I receive exactly the opposite and that makes me really frustrated. Thank you, Saja.
as a kid, when i would cry and cry myself to sleep, or just let myself bawl it out, eventually i wouldn’t understand why i was crying or the crying would feel…forced? there would be peace and calm on the other end of it, and i would wonder why im not feeling the level of sadness im “supposed” to be feeling lol
After one and a half year of my beautiful Manifestation Nonduality Journey I can wholeheartedly say, this is probably one of the best advices I have ever heard. This is so many missing Puzzle pieces at once that I am simply stunned how accurate you explained this. Thank you!❤
Ohh so this is actually the same realization I’ve had and been talking about in my videos.. it’s basically giving yourself the freedom to do and be whatever you want. Because at the end of the day, we only resist because we think it’ll make us happier. But once we realize that resistance isn’t making us happier, we will let go of resistance. And until then, we won’t stop resisting. Why would we? We’re happier resisting. Nothing wrong with that. Right now we’re just happier resisting experience even though maybe we are making ourselves suffer in that way. So what point is there in denying that to ourselves? Just let yourself think and feel and do and believe whatever you want. Not resisting is basically letting yourself be free, because you’ve understood that wishing you and your life were different doesn’t work. Cuz the truth is, yeah maybe your situation isn’t ideal, but you are already doing what you really want to do with your situation, you’re just not admitting it to yourself. That’s where most of the suffering and confusion comes from. You say you wish it to be different, but you don’t. If you did, you would change it. But you don’t. And that’s okay. Why change if you don’t want to change? Just let yourself be free to do whatever you want. You are where you are. And if you want to move toward something else, you can do that. Truth is you’re always naturally doing your best to move towards the most happiness possible according to your circumstances and what you know. So whether you resist or not essentially doesn’t matter. You either believe that resisting your current experience will make it better, or you don’t. Either way is fine. You’re just doing whatever works for you. Realizing that has brought me a lot of relief.
Amazing! I did realize that what "I" was doing wasn't working 3 years ago or so and was absolutely happy. Then it decided to try again the old way, and haven't been able to figure out afterwards how to stop again the suffering. Thanks! :D
this is such sage advice 💜 I feel like this is why Neville Goddard's teachings compliment this so well. Fulfill every desire in imagination and the ego is satisfied!
Love this - I have just found your channel. What would you say about physical pain? Even just minor pain like, at this moment, I have a very uncomfortable side neck pain? Not at all serious, but uncomfortable. The physical body does tend to resist physical pain, doesn't it?
How do I give myself the freedom to suffer? I.e do I embrace the feeling of suffering over my body? Do i let my thoughts of suffering continue to deepen without fighting back? Btw really funny imitations 😂
I don’t know how to help you I’m sorry. I know nothing about you based on this question and I would rather not cause confusion. Unless you wish to join the free community where I can help you personally, I would suggest just ignoring this if it doesn’t resonate 🙏
'give yourself the freedom to suffer'. You can do that can you?! Ha. No. You can't do that. It's a nice idea though. There's no 'you' anywhere in the system capable of doing anything. But. Hang on James. Isn't it a good idea to LIE to the ego and say 'give yourself the freedom to suffer' because in that moment said ego might suddenly dissolve as the thought of not-resisting take hold (complicated sentence but sort of makes sense). Yeah. Maybe. Not convinced.
How are you so amazing. You literally are God sent. I have observed the moment I surrender to the resistance the resistance drops. Though it takes me a while to realise this . Allow yourself the liberty to suffer the most transformational thing I have heard in a while.
you mean just remain detttached from things in outside world
YOU are god sent 💚 thanks for the comment as always Anamika 🌅
@sajafendel thank you 🥹🙏
U deserve a kissy on ur cheek mwah 💋
@@amangurjar9714 That's the opposite of what they're saying
The problem with suffering (illness, bullying, slavery, poverty, impositions, manipulations etc.) is that it takes away the freedom to live, it makes you sad, pessimistic... society seems to be organized to keep you in a state of permanent threat, and that make it impossible to live fully... to me suffering should be very little part of our life but, as this video suggest, it is nowadays a constant predominant.
Yep That’s the matrix 💀
@@sajafendel So, if we are in a matrix and we know it, should we just don't give a damn to anything anymore so it can simply disappear and we can live in bliss or are we doomed to it anyway? I'm an honest person and I try always to be good to others but I receive exactly the opposite and that makes me really frustrated. Thank you, Saja.
as a kid, when i would cry and cry myself to sleep, or just let myself bawl it out, eventually i wouldn’t understand why i was crying or the crying would feel…forced? there would be peace and calm on the other end of it, and i would wonder why im not feeling the level of sadness im “supposed” to be feeling lol
After one and a half year of my beautiful Manifestation Nonduality Journey I can wholeheartedly say, this is probably one of the best advices I have ever heard. This is so many missing Puzzle pieces at once that I am simply stunned how accurate you explained this. Thank you!❤
I really appreciate this comment, thank you so much 🙏💚
@@sajafendel ❤️
Ohh so this is actually the same realization I’ve had and been talking about in my videos.. it’s basically giving yourself the freedom to do and be whatever you want. Because at the end of the day, we only resist because we think it’ll make us happier. But once we realize that resistance isn’t making us happier, we will let go of resistance. And until then, we won’t stop resisting. Why would we? We’re happier resisting. Nothing wrong with that. Right now we’re just happier resisting experience even though maybe we are making ourselves suffer in that way. So what point is there in denying that to ourselves? Just let yourself think and feel and do and believe whatever you want. Not resisting is basically letting yourself be free, because you’ve understood that wishing you and your life were different doesn’t work. Cuz the truth is, yeah maybe your situation isn’t ideal, but you are already doing what you really want to do with your situation, you’re just not admitting it to yourself. That’s where most of the suffering and confusion comes from. You say you wish it to be different, but you don’t. If you did, you would change it. But you don’t. And that’s okay.
Why change if you don’t want to change? Just let yourself be free to do whatever you want. You are where you are. And if you want to move toward something else, you can do that. Truth is you’re always naturally doing your best to move towards the most happiness possible according to your circumstances and what you know.
So whether you resist or not essentially doesn’t matter. You either believe that resisting your current experience will make it better, or you don’t. Either way is fine. You’re just doing whatever works for you. Realizing that has brought me a lot of relief.
Very true man! Yes that would definitely bring a lot of relief 🙏🫶
Amazing! I did realize that what "I" was doing wasn't working 3 years ago or so and was absolutely happy. Then it decided to try again the old way, and haven't been able to figure out afterwards how to stop again the suffering. Thanks! :D
Why did you start doing anything again if you were already absolutely happy? 🤣
Glad it resonated and helped you man. Thanks for the comment! 🫶
Thank you for your Instant help, i haven't wached the Video but the words helped me😂
Haha! I’m glad thanks for the comment man! 💚
this is such sage advice 💜 I feel like this is why Neville Goddard's teachings compliment this so well. Fulfill every desire in imagination and the ego is satisfied!
Thanks for the comment! I like Neville Goddard 🙏
Thank you for bringing this to my awareness 🕊️✌️
For sure! thank you for the comment 🙏🫶
Thank you Saja.
Thank YOU brother 🙏🫶
Hahahaha. Amazing, inspiring, funny! Just.in.time. BRILLIANT! Currently suffering freely❤
Thank you Astrid! You’re great 🙏
I should watch more of your videos! It’s weird how clearly I can understand all that you say or perhaps most of it!! lol
Haha!! Glad you resonate with them Rara 🙏🌅
Thank you so much my bro❤❤❤
Thank you man! 🙏💚
The Buddha called it ‘Tathata’ , acceptance.
Love this - I have just found your channel. What would you say about physical pain? Even just minor pain like, at this moment, I have a very uncomfortable side neck pain? Not at all serious, but uncomfortable. The physical body does tend to resist physical pain, doesn't it?
Other than the perfect message, your impression of Americans is perfect…. And I would know because I’m American.
Hahaha thanks for the confirmation my friend 😂😉
Thanks for making me laugh.
wish this showed up sooner. well better now then never ay?
I guess so! Glad you resonated 🙏🌅
I share the tendency to revert to the classic American southern accent for caricatures. Not bad! 😂
Hahahaha why does it come out? 🥲
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Great video…I think it’s a bit of a crime we don’t learn this in school before we dive head first into suffering. Thank you for teaching us!!
Haha don’t get me started on government crimes 😭🤣
Loud and clear lol 🙄
So overcoming resistance really comes down to allowing whatever arises and tapping into our true eternal essence?
How do I give myself the freedom to suffer? I.e do I embrace the feeling of suffering over my body? Do i let my thoughts of suffering continue to deepen without fighting back? Btw really funny imitations 😂
Well I have no choice but to continue suffering and wait for myself to let my suffering dissolve hopefully by the grace of God.
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This is not what I am necessarily suggesting at all in the video. Hope you know that 🙏🌅
@@sajafendel I do...let go and give it to God, is my surrendering technique.
O gesus ladies et got an answer, dont listen to the words they say make them dance like life depends on it or maybe airon play
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Did you write a book? I (who?) would like some methodology put in this way 🤔
Not yet! I have some stuff packaged in a course In my free community 🙏
haha :D Funny. Thank you :)
Thank you :) 🙏
I don't understand how to let myself suffer ?
I don’t know how to help you I’m sorry. I know nothing about you based on this question and I would rather not cause confusion. Unless you wish to join the free community where I can help you personally, I would suggest just ignoring this if it doesn’t resonate 🙏
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'give yourself the freedom to suffer'. You can do that can you?! Ha. No. You can't do that. It's a nice idea though. There's no 'you' anywhere in the system capable of doing anything. But. Hang on James. Isn't it a good idea to LIE to the ego and say 'give yourself the freedom to suffer' because in that moment said ego might suddenly dissolve as the thought of not-resisting take hold (complicated sentence but sort of makes sense). Yeah. Maybe. Not convinced.
That’s fine man do what works for you