My wife died 6 years ago. We were together for 40 years. I still miss her. She was an exceptional person. My brother's wife told me not long ago that she woke up crying from a dream that she had about my wife because she misses her so much even now.
Thank you for your honesty and openness Lisa. I hope you and your husband are having a good day today😊 I have to agree about the necessity of the mute button on occasion 😂😂😂😂
I know when I am going to be busy, because my wife says the 4 dreaded words,"I have been thinking". We compromise as well, I wanted 2 children, she wanted 4, so we compromised and had 6. You're right about the TV, which is why I spend the evenings on my tablet while the cop show rerun is on the telly. I am now fully house trained and can cover absences, cooking, washing and occasionally I can vacuum, but I have to put Freddy Mercury on and dream.
Hi Lisa Great Video. You always make me smile. I'm a single male. But all the women in our family are very strong. And so are the rest of my female Friends. I see your strong as well
Although there is some truth to this, there are as many different relationships as there are stars in the sky. Some couples have a different dynamic to the one you’ve described and that’s okay too! 😂👍
This lady shoots from the hip and scores a bulls-eye every time! Very true and wise words. I’ve got a Chinese wife….she’s ok, not too controlling but sticks to her (bizarre?) culture. This occasionally brings problems; sometimes I feel like I’m married to them. But, ultimately, I tend to make the big decisions (which she likes) and I still retain a type of husband ‘strength’.
Husbands are the most troublesome creatures too, it goes both ways :) Personally its my dad that gives my mum the most trouble in their relationship, she is usually the more sensible logical one XD
I would say that relationships in general are troublesome but much better than being on your own! I've been together with my English wife for 19 years and married for nearly 8 years. I would say that my wife is more emotional than me when we argue but im not sure that's true in general - there's a lot of individual variation between people. I know plenty of men who are quick to emotion and illogical in their thinking. E.g. my mum is very logical and rational - i would say my Dad is the emotional one. Both partners should work hard to keep the other happy. For me, it's been all about honesty and communication. Its all a negotiation - the more you work at it the better your relationship gets. I think people nowadays often resort to divorce too quickly. There are obvious reasons to get divorced but often i think people imagine they could just quit the relationship and find the perfect partner. I dont think that's right, all relationships involve work and in many cases you just need to talk more x
😂 This is hilarious. In the best way. I agree with everything you’re saying, Lisa. I am, perhaps, in a strange position… I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still very good friends and I have much love and respect for her. Still, I wouldn’t have married her if I didn’t like/love her. But sometimes I think two people can be the best of friends but that isn’t necessarily a recipe for a successful marriage. Just my personal experience. 😁
Your right happy wife happy life but add in Chinese wife and culture and that brings even more complicated problems, my wife has two birthdays a Chinese one and western one, all though her life growing up birthdays have never been important in her family and i should have kept it that way, but stupidly i decided to celebrate her birthday each year and everything was great until one year i forgot and all of a sudden birthday's are very important to her now!🙄
I disagree I was happily married for 34 years to a wonderful wife who was my very best friend my soul partner a veritable gift from God. Sadly lost her to cancer.
I always take any example and turn it around, if the husband is happy, the wife will be happy, can you imagine women agreeing with this. Most men today just capitulate to the wife's demands....for their 'survival', dreadful attitude. But with 72% of woman filing for divorce in the US, that says it all. With billions and billions of people getting married, obviously millions have to be happy, stands to reason, doesn't make it fun for men though!
The best kind of troublesome. I will tell you though, there is a big difference between Chinese wife and western wife. Totally different kind of troublesome. With a western wife you might might try to argue your point. You will probably lose, but you will try. Maybe this argument goes on for some time. This might happen regularly. With a Chinese wife, you only do this once, and then you never try to do that again. lol Happy wife, happy life.
Some of this I agree with but others I disagree with "She is the mother" Not if you don't want children :) And I do think in general women are more emotional but I don't believe that makes us have any less logic than men, in fact a lot of women I see are more logical. My dad hates to admit when he is wrong and often doesn't think about things when he suggests things, sometimes he has too much pride and is a bit arrogant but usually what my mum is saying is far more logical argument XD
Men eventually learn that the most important words are, “yes dear” and “you know, you’re right!” Peace is the ultimate goal.
You are right up to a point. You also must keep your partner happy or else it's just a matter of time before they will find a replacement for you.
My wife died 6 years ago. We were together for 40 years. I still miss her. She was an exceptional person. My brother's wife told me not long ago that she woke up crying from a dream that she had about my wife because she misses her so much even now.
I’m sorry about your wife.
@@GobbyLisa99 Don't be, she lives in my heart.
Thank you for your honesty and openness Lisa. I hope you and your husband are having a good day today😊 I have to agree about the necessity of the mute button on occasion 😂😂😂😂
Haha . Thank you.
I have been told there is a saying in Mandarin: Three women in the kitchen is a comedy.
Haha.
You always make me laugh...and you speak the truth....
Oh, hell yes! I had one of those once.
Haha
I know when I am going to be busy, because my wife says the 4 dreaded words,"I have been thinking". We compromise as well, I wanted 2 children, she wanted 4, so we compromised and had 6. You're right about the TV, which is why I spend the evenings on my tablet while the cop show rerun is on the telly. I am now fully house trained and can cover absences, cooking, washing and occasionally I can vacuum, but I have to put Freddy Mercury on and dream.
Hi Lisa, Hence the expression that a wife is a ball and chain, haha.
I am married to a Chinese woman in Australia. We have a saying here in Australia.
Happy wife. Happy life.
kindest regards from austria dear Lisa
We have saying in Australia, "if it has tits or tyres, you are going to have trouble" but I want the trouble.
Hi Lisa Great Video. You always make me smile. I'm a single male. But all the women in our family are very strong. And so are the rest of my female Friends. I see your strong as well
Although there is some truth to this, there are as many different relationships as there are stars in the sky.
Some couples have a different dynamic to the one you’ve described and that’s okay too! 😂👍
I've had a Chinese wife for 40 years. I agree.
A man will only forget a wifes birthday once.
I've never forgotten my wife's birthday: I just didn't know that it was 17th August that particular day. I thought it was 15th,
...and yet she will never do anything for yours
This lady shoots from the hip and scores a bulls-eye every time! Very true and wise words. I’ve got a Chinese wife….she’s ok, not too controlling but sticks to her (bizarre?) culture. This occasionally brings problems; sometimes I feel like I’m married to them. But, ultimately, I tend to make the big decisions (which she likes) and I still retain a type of husband ‘strength’.
I’m married to a Chinese woman and she always justifies punching me when she’s angry. Her justification is punch means love. Is that really true?
If it's like the force of boxing, then it's not.
wouldn't know never had a wife but have heard the saying happy wife happy live
It is impossible to disagree with Gobby Lisa. 🙂
😊
Husbands are the most troublesome creatures too, it goes both ways :) Personally its my dad that gives my mum the most trouble in their relationship, she is usually the more sensible logical one XD
It's the best kind of trouble 😊
Nice video ,Lisa
"Women are like drugs" 🤣
As a never-married 72-year-old male, I don't think I'll ever have to worry about these things?
I would say that relationships in general are troublesome but much better than being on your own!
I've been together with my English wife for 19 years and married for nearly 8 years. I would say that my wife is more emotional than me when we argue but im not sure that's true in general - there's a lot of individual variation between people. I know plenty of men who are quick to emotion and illogical in their thinking. E.g. my mum is very logical and rational - i would say my Dad is the emotional one.
Both partners should work hard to keep the other happy. For me, it's been all about honesty and communication. Its all a negotiation - the more you work at it the better your relationship gets. I think people nowadays often resort to divorce too quickly. There are obvious reasons to get divorced but often i think people imagine they could just quit the relationship and find the perfect partner. I dont think that's right, all relationships involve work and in many cases you just need to talk more x
Happyy wife .....happy life.
😂 This is hilarious. In the best way. I agree with everything you’re saying, Lisa. I am, perhaps, in a strange position… I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still very good friends and I have much love and respect for her. Still, I wouldn’t have married her if I didn’t like/love her. But sometimes I think two people can be the best of friends but that isn’t necessarily a recipe for a successful marriage. Just my personal experience. 😁
Thank you. My husband says I am his best friend and psychologist.
Ah… best friend and psychologist! That’s perfect. That’s a great marriage without doubt, 👍🏻😊
WE have a saying our country, happy wife equals happy life. This means that women, or wives are always right when it comes to marital issues.
Indubitably
What a pleasant woman
She the most troublesome when she’s a KTV mistress to another adulterous married man. Trust me, I know. 😢
And the moral of the story is, You will not find a happy rich married man only single ones
My Dad always said she who musted be obayed 😂
OK - OK, yes my wife (from JiLin) is the prettiest and best, but yes she does try to start trouble.
It is possible to own two TVs.
I Agree
😊
I have long concluded that about and the reason why I am not and will never marry. Residential peace is far more valuable.
Yeah that's why I never married 😅
😳😳😂😂🤣🤣
To be honest I don't know because I'm not married.
Your right happy wife happy life but add in Chinese wife and culture and that brings even more complicated problems, my wife has two birthdays a Chinese one and western one, all though her life growing up birthdays have never been important in her family and i should have kept it that way, but stupidly i decided to celebrate her birthday each year and everything was great until one year i forgot and all of a sudden birthday's are very important to her now!🙄
Haha.
Lisa, your becoming troublesome. x
I disagree I was happily married for 34 years to a wonderful wife who was my very best friend my soul partner a veritable gift from God. Sadly lost her to cancer.
U are a Funny Woman But Pretty Right with This Lot
I always take any example and turn it around, if the husband is happy, the wife will be happy, can you imagine women agreeing with this. Most men today just capitulate to the wife's demands....for their 'survival', dreadful attitude. But with 72% of woman filing for divorce in the US, that says it all. With billions and billions of people getting married, obviously millions have to be happy, stands to reason, doesn't make it fun for men though!
I agree. I am happy when my husband happy.
The best kind of troublesome. I will tell you though, there is a big difference between Chinese wife and western wife. Totally different kind of troublesome. With a western wife you might might try to argue your point. You will probably lose, but you will try. Maybe this argument goes on for some time. This might happen regularly. With a Chinese wife, you only do this once, and then you never try to do that again. lol Happy wife, happy life.
Aren’t you going to get into trouble from the wife’s union for telling these secrets?
aw hun, no dont agree lol
lisa like your husband ive lost my hair and money
Haha.
Some of this I agree with but others I disagree with "She is the mother" Not if you don't want children :) And I do think in general women are more emotional but I don't believe that makes us have any less logic than men, in fact a lot of women I see are more logical.
My dad hates to admit when he is wrong and often doesn't think about things when he suggests things, sometimes he has too much pride and is a bit arrogant but usually what my mum is saying is far more logical argument XD
Some I agree with you. But I forgot many women don’t want children. Including me 😄