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  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2024
  • 🤎 pre-order your self-love journal prompts here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop - limited amount arriving before Christmas + New Year 🤎
    the fastest way of taking our power back is taking responsibility for the part we play in carrying it on... lets chat about how we overcome situations, people + anything, including ourselves, that threaten to make us feel powerless over some merlot. grab your glass and tune in!
    #findingpurpose #transformtrauma #healing #selfactualization #selflove #takeyourpowerback
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  • @TiffanyTV
    @TiffanyTV  9 місяців тому +2

    good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

  • @indhumathinagarajan9620
    @indhumathinagarajan9620 Рік тому +76

    Girl, I watched your reel on Instagram and came here. My braint just lit up like a christmas tree with every truth bomb you dropped! I'm happy to say I broke out of my cocoon a few years back and discovered the joy of being surrounded by people who value me for my quirks. But it was good to look back and understand why I felt what I felt and why I did what I did to break out of the victim mindset. Thank you for this video. You got yourself a subscriber! ✨

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +1

      this comment made me smile. thank you love + welcome 🥰

  • @christinaelizabeth7225
    @christinaelizabeth7225 10 місяців тому +12

    No because when you said “you’re not supposed to blend in with the crowd” something clicked and legit tears came rolling. Thank you Queen ❤

  • @debclee
    @debclee 11 місяців тому +22

    Girl, I think you found your calling. You are amazing at doing this.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому

      🙏🏾 thank you love

  • @kiraoviedo333
    @kiraoviedo333 11 місяців тому +14

    I really appreciate your videos. I’m 22 and have spent the last 2 years on my journey. I found your channel last week when I felt like I was hitting a “plateau” in healing. It’s hard to be surrounded by people who don’t think like me at all, and this reminds me I’m not crazy lol. Trusting the journey will open me up to what God has planned. Thanks for the reminder to stay disciplined!

  • @kedibonemookisi1441
    @kedibonemookisi1441 Рік тому +21

    Seeing your video while am going through my dark nights. 2 days I decided to delete all social media app except UA-cam as it helping me find myself. Thank you sis 😊

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому

      it was meant to be 😌🤎

  • @ebby181
    @ebby181 Рік тому +14

    My my this here. I’ve hopped off social media so much because it’s too much. I’m 30 yrs old and newly engaged… everything feels so heavy lately! Taking time to find myself again. In a such a loud world, it’s hard to just be okay with you. Thank you ❤

    • @Wildflowerjas
      @Wildflowerjas 9 місяців тому

      This comment is everything!!

  • @MaishPosh
    @MaishPosh 11 місяців тому +10

    I definitely needed to hear this, i know im a kind nice person but Alot of women I meet are very rude once they see me, I say hi and they just ignore me and it’s very frustrating because it’s almost everywhere I go they aren’t welcoming. But it’s obviously something in me I shouldn’t hide but embrace it like you said.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому +2

      I’m sorry to hear this mama. I pray you’re able to find more welcoming spaces to place yourself in so that you can find your people 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @wonderwomannae5700
      @wonderwomannae5700 11 місяців тому +5

      Don’t take it personal sis. There’s a mental health crisis going on right now and a lot of people are walking balls of misery. Keep being you, one day you’ll smile and wave at your new best friend :)

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 Рік тому +27

    I want to tell that i appreciate this content. It is really putting thing's into prospective for me. So thank you beautiful ❤.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +3

      I pray it continues to help my love! please let me know if there’s anything specific you’d like me to touch on. your feedback is always helpful 🤎

  • @w.hamilton3327
    @w.hamilton3327 10 місяців тому +3

    So ya, I am so happy that my beautiful daughter introduced me to your channel. I am 63 and at a crossroads of ending an old life, just starting my journey into discovering and uncovering who I really am and beginning to learn that I can break out of my cocoon! It has been quite a trip so far. Thank you for your wisdom beautiful soul!! Now you’ve helped another generation!! Blessings goddess.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +1

      this made me tear up… thank you for sharing + for being here! I appreciate you 🫂🤎

  • @KelzD22
    @KelzD22 Місяць тому

    I never wanted to fit in, and lately, I've been feeling like if I blend in, if I do what everyone else is doing, I'll be accepted. Yes there are some habits I need to break out from but I'll never fit it. I'll be me,I'll accept me.. Thank you for the vid❤😊

  • @pixiefulani
    @pixiefulani Рік тому +15

    . It feels like perfect timing thank you for the reassurance that it is okay to take my power back and the steps to keep moving forward 🙏

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому

      it’s more than okay love… in order to truly be at peace, it’s necessary. sending you love 🫂🤎🤎

  • @apmg924
    @apmg924 Рік тому +5

    This. I’ve found myself in settings of people who have tried to talk me out of who I am. Especially who I am within the confines of my parenthood. Others within those same spaces, will co-sign or at least entertain the remark, joke or slight made toward me. I’ve learned how to keep my distance… it’s been giving mean girl energy. That feed off behavior is annoying

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому

      I agree with every word sis

  • @Na_alina
    @Na_alina 8 місяців тому

    I don’t why but I like your videos and I love you you’re from those few people who get into your heart without any effort

  • @stephsteph1338
    @stephsteph1338 Рік тому +4

    Tiffany, This was a beautiful video! Excellent! ♥️😊 Thank you!

  • @Nches1
    @Nches1 Рік тому +3

    Tiffany!!! You are God sent. At a point in my life, it felt like my thoughts were out of this world and now I found you!!! Wow!!!! I’m actually not alone. I’ve found a deep new bestie. 😊

  • @757staceyontherocks
    @757staceyontherocks Рік тому +6

    That victim mindset was/is a wild forrest to find my way out of. I've been learning about identifying the drama triangle in my life lately which is basically what youre describing here. Just been focused on a more empowered dynamic in the relationships i have with others and within myself 🧡 great reminders! 🫶🏼

  • @Born2bglamtv
    @Born2bglamtv Рік тому +4

    This video was confirmation to what I already had a conversation with God about ♥️ Thank you for the clarity and confirmation

  • @BCBrowni
    @BCBrowni 7 місяців тому

    I'm late to this video 😬... but I filled out the travel survey! I hope it's still a thing! 😆.... Thank you again for sharing! Always inspired by your work! ❤❤❤

  • @Joshnellyorbe
    @Joshnellyorbe Рік тому +3

    God is speaking through you! Thank you for sharing, you are living in your purpose ❤️🙏

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +1

      this gave me chills. receiveddd 🙏🏾🤎

  • @dawnanderson5611
    @dawnanderson5611 11 місяців тому +1

    This is only the second video I’ve watched but this is the message I needed. I am at a loss for words because I feel like you were personally talking to me. You are truly a blessing

  • @kaishajohnston9040
    @kaishajohnston9040 11 місяців тому +1

    You are literally my favourite person to watch, you come across so genuine and with such wisdom and guidance! Keep showing us what a strong independent woman looks like ❤️ X

  • @TiffanyTV
    @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому +2

    just dropped some self-love, self-awareness prompts + convo starters that I think will really help you guys through these moments 🙏🏾 : www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

  • @EarthQueen-1111
    @EarthQueen-1111 11 місяців тому +1

    This video kept popping up on my feed… it’s a sign for me to watch ❤

  • @camillebelcon8811
    @camillebelcon8811 Рік тому +1

    snap, snap, snap! I have come to all of these realisations myself - stepping into dreaming bigger for myself and ready to release those that don't want to come with me or think I'm incapable. They've had enough of my life - it's mine and I'm going to live it!

  • @kyram123
    @kyram123 11 місяців тому +2

    I am so glad this found me. This is everything I needed to hear ❤
    You have real Queen of cups energy. A lot of people think she is nurturing, and she is, but only because she has strong boundaries and her self love comes first!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @joyce-sipora3909
    @joyce-sipora3909 11 місяців тому

    From France. I THANK U. I FEEL U.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому

      France 🥹🤎 you are so welcome love!

  • @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos
    @ENGLISHIPHOPCampos Рік тому +2

    O love your way of your wisdom

  • @kimchikimchi1251
    @kimchikimchi1251 11 місяців тому +6

    When you talked about being deep that hit me like a brick. I have a heart to teach and share with others what I know and an associate of mine recently said I’m “preachy”. It was hurtful, but after a few hours of self analysis I was like “I’m Judy not for that person and that’s okay.” Thank you for sharing

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому +1

      there will alwayyyysss be people that you’re “too much” for. leave them where they stand. keep being you beautiful 🤎

  • @blessingmurray1605
    @blessingmurray1605 10 місяців тому

    Oh my!! Thank you so much for this video❤❤❤

  • @raniaclaire
    @raniaclaire 10 місяців тому

    I’ve watched so many of your videos in the last 24 hours and have resonated with every single one. Thank you so much for sharing your heart and wisdom with us.

  • @Jyeah89
    @Jyeah89 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Tiffany

  • @makenanjeru8282
    @makenanjeru8282 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤so deeply valuable

  • @wolf-cj1eb
    @wolf-cj1eb Рік тому +2

    It's unbelievable to me to fatham why your videos got less views than there should be
    I wish your thoughts reach to many people as many possible .

  • @Kentasha-lt9fk
    @Kentasha-lt9fk 11 місяців тому +1

    Your videos came right on time with the path I’m taking. I don’t have very many positive people around me, so your channel is my go to💕

  • @goldenari295
    @goldenari295 11 місяців тому

    *I Love You* i’m already having to move around people & things that make me feel ashamed of myself…Thank you for being someone that I actually look up to as a 22 year old. I can’t say that about many people. You are graceful, divinely feminine & beautifully souled ✨🦋🫶🏽

  • @madu5775
    @madu5775 3 місяці тому

    Eu amo seus conteúdos 🥰💚 obrigada

  • @sophiamcmaster694
    @sophiamcmaster694 11 місяців тому

    Everything you said in this video resonates with me. Thank you for all the amazing work you are doing and how much work you are doing and helping others along the way.

  • @MaiaLauryn
    @MaiaLauryn 11 місяців тому

    Your the big sister I've been looking for ❤️ speaking my language and it's exactly what I need to hear for this transition.

  • @MAGICMANPHONESing-bp3cj
    @MAGICMANPHONESing-bp3cj Рік тому +2

    My thought been more strong with mind ,thank you about it

  • @lailas.legacy
    @lailas.legacy 11 місяців тому +2

    You are definitely not alone, I love deep conversations, I live for those. Let's be friends ❤

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace Рік тому +1

    Love this! I’m going to own the things that makes me - me. I’m also going to set more boundaries with others. 💛 Thank you for sharing.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +1

      you deserve it girl 😌🤎

  • @Nosiphiwe-x8o
    @Nosiphiwe-x8o 10 місяців тому

    Thank you my cc from 🥰🇿🇦

  • @audacein5063
    @audacein5063 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @EllenJones-d8g
    @EllenJones-d8g Рік тому +1

    you’re like the sister I never had. I absolutely love your content and feel inspired and brave enough to begin doing some of the self work I’ve put off for so long because of your words. thank you sis 🫶

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому +1

      you’re so welcome love 🤎🤎

  • @toniamoss3975
    @toniamoss3975 10 місяців тому

    Your channel is a blessing. Keep on doing what you do.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      thank you love! 🥰

  • @DorianEyre
    @DorianEyre 11 місяців тому

    Gratitude 🙏🏾 Thank You 💜 for sharing such an empowering message with us
    I'm so keen to binge watch your channel , you're vibe is a cool , calming scenic lake bathed in the radiant light of a sunset

  • @trinitytv7_
    @trinitytv7_ 7 місяців тому

    Definitely subscribing and sent these videos to all three of my very best friends

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  7 місяців тому

      welcome to the family love 😌🤎

  • @mgg270
    @mgg270 Рік тому

    Your videos are heaven-sent! I need this so much. You're an Earth angel

  • @aishabell1009
    @aishabell1009 10 місяців тому

    Tiffany, I love your videos. They are helping me in ways that only God know. I share your videos and like them. You are authentic, loving, caring, inspirational, and motivational. Keep doing what your doing it is very much needed.
    Happy Thanksgiving

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      so late but thank you mamas 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Jadira_Rosko
    @Jadira_Rosko Рік тому

    Oooh you are deep. I'm so blessed to have found your channel. I've been watching prophetic words, how to, narcissistic abuse all of these things trying to learn how to fix my life. Your videos are what I've needed all along. Thank you. God bless your soul.

  • @sparklesdiva310
    @sparklesdiva310 11 місяців тому

    I am absolutely full of gratitude for you. You help me shift my perspective back to what really matters.❤❤

  • @ghettohippie5568
    @ghettohippie5568 11 місяців тому

    You literally appeared at the right time.
    Thank you.

  • @marchellburton5966
    @marchellburton5966 9 місяців тому

    Tiffany, you're officially my new favourite youtuber ❤ I can relate so well to your content, sometimes it leaves me brushing tear drops. Thank you for being deep. Thank you for sharing your gift. You are love and light through and through. ❤

  • @ranoo9686
    @ranoo9686 11 місяців тому

    Love it

  • @immensebeaute5293
    @immensebeaute5293 11 місяців тому

    Tiffany I ask that you keep these videos coming please 🙏🏾I’m thankful

  • @natalijarajkovic-rs2gp
    @natalijarajkovic-rs2gp 10 місяців тому

    I absolutely love and respect your depths. Keep going🥰

  • @purposed11
    @purposed11 Рік тому

    The deepest part of my soul needed to watch this video! I guess my going through a Dark Night of the Soul. I needed this encouragement! 😢

  • @leylac9064
    @leylac9064 11 місяців тому

    I watch these videos every morning! I love the content girl 🫶🏽

  • @boomboom1258
    @boomboom1258 11 місяців тому

    I'm a new subscriber to your channel after watching two of your videos on gratitude and self trust - before I watch this video, I just want to say thank you for giving your advice in a way that makes sense easily and you being genuine and honest earned you extra brownie points. Love your content so far.

  • @leyladivine
    @leyladivine 11 місяців тому

    Omg I am always like whoa why did I take it so deep…I don’t even realize it until people get taken off guard.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому

      lol same. and now I just lean into it 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @bonemonroe
    @bonemonroe 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤ your a breath of fresh air. It’s like every video you DONT MISS ‼️‼️

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      🥹🙏🏾 thank you love

  • @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810
    @paulaslatersthecreativeint1810 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video, i have so much to say about it, but thank you for making it, you have confirmed a whole lot of things for me❤ much love, and hope your message reach all corners of the earth!

  • @user-dl4cu8vu1s
    @user-dl4cu8vu1s 11 місяців тому

    I haven’t found anyone that sees my value and I still put boundaries on people

  • @shamarahyde22
    @shamarahyde22 Рік тому

    I appreciate your great tips! Continue what you’re doing you’re doing a great job. We hear you

  • @octaviac1541
    @octaviac1541 10 місяців тому

    I needed this so much!! So timely for the transition I’m in right now

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  10 місяців тому

      🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @KeKe19865
    @KeKe19865 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this beautiful message. Much luv ❤

  • @miskyabdillah7451
    @miskyabdillah7451 11 місяців тому

    It's important to have time for urself.🎉🎉

  • @_sweeteststarr
    @_sweeteststarr 3 місяці тому

    I needed and appreciated this video✨🫶🏼 I’ve been skipping over it just watching other videos ( Dont kill me lol ) and it came on after another video and I wasnt in the position to change it. Glad I didn’t 💕

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  3 місяці тому +1

      lol girl no offense taken… the things we need the most, we usually avoid until we can’t… you watched when you were supposed to 😌

  • @celestepillows3711
    @celestepillows3711 11 місяців тому

    Love this may we speak in self reliance and hod being silent ❤

  • @HisPrettyProblemz
    @HisPrettyProblemz 11 місяців тому

    I am hooked this is my 3rd blog for you am watching for the day ❤

  • @G.Suzanne
    @G.Suzanne 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤ I have a 14 yr old daughter and we are going to have discussions around your content. Kids make hher feel weird because of what makes her beautiful! She needs to find her tribe not everyone will think the same. We are here for this!!!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  8 місяців тому

      this made me smile so big! 14 is a hard age. I pray it helps her🤎

  • @Sageandgold
    @Sageandgold Рік тому

    The poking fun at you for being you. I've heard this multiple times and so many of us can relate. I've learned that they've been secretly following me to be just like me.

  • @novaastv
    @novaastv 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful video thank uu for posting this 💕

  • @Bsps99999
    @Bsps99999 Рік тому +1

    This made me cry. Currently in this situation

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому

      sending you all the love + a big hug 🫂

  • @patgrl
    @patgrl 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @selestineshiro3918
    @selestineshiro3918 Рік тому

    Hey dear, thanks for sharing these powerful ideas❤

  • @madrearendse1671
    @madrearendse1671 11 місяців тому

    Tiffany, please speak on claiming your power and setting boundaries in your romantic relationship, when you choose to stay with the person?

  • @zaneaaaliyah
    @zaneaaaliyah 10 місяців тому

    currently going through the dark night of the soul

  • @zerenamafdet
    @zerenamafdet 11 місяців тому

    💯

  • @chalandajones3300
    @chalandajones3300 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful message ❤

  • @naemarie2464
    @naemarie2464 11 місяців тому

    Your video came at a perfect time for me. I broke up with my partner recently to find inner peace and happiness. I felt like I needed to do this journey alone. My emotional side does regret that decision and misses him however I do believe I now have the opportunity to really focus and be myself freely.

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому +1

      + what’s meant to be, WILL be love. taking care of you will make you an even better partner in the future. I’m proud of you girl 🫂🤎

  • @tee7105
    @tee7105 Рік тому +1

    Wow I feel so seen listening to you. Your message is so so empowering and I believe that I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @JasmineNicoleCogdell
    @JasmineNicoleCogdell 11 місяців тому +3

    A fellow deep person 🥹🫶🏽🩷

  • @mirandaalaine
    @mirandaalaine 9 місяців тому

    Oh girl, let's be friends. You think JUST LIKE ME!!!

  • @sararay9370
    @sararay9370 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing! I loved this!

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +1

      thank you for watching love 🤎

  • @royalpriestess3467
    @royalpriestess3467 Рік тому

    Thank you I needed this video today!!! 🙌🏾🧘🏾‍♀️🤍

  • @tamikaradford4326
    @tamikaradford4326 11 місяців тому

  • @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa
    @Andisiwe_Ands_Pikisa 11 місяців тому

    I love this so much 🥺❤️

  • @_b3ll3_ame
    @_b3ll3_ame Рік тому

    I really enjoyed this video from the beginning to end! It has given me new insight into how to go about my healing journey. I appreciate you for this💛
    Can you discuss the topic of letting go people & not going back/chasing?

  • @HealingwithRose
    @HealingwithRose Рік тому

    Listen hunnie if your not speaking to me idk who lol…I just found your channel and I wish I found it sooner your videos are amazing and speak to me on a deeper level love it definitely one of the best channels❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hannaharstories
    @hannaharstories Рік тому

    this was lovely. thank you

  • @modelwhitney
    @modelwhitney Рік тому

    Love your videos so much.

  • @Mindfullyawake
    @Mindfullyawake 11 місяців тому

    Im a deep 20 year old and i feel a lil weird and different so i really love your chanel and that alone time is so nice and those choices we make every day is life but hard realizing we have a choice. we make heaven for ourselves or hell or mediocre life. Anyway thank you

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому

      It was really tough for me in my younger years because I felt different from everyone. I’m here to tell you what I wish someone told me: you are exactly who you’re supposed to be. nurture it. it’s your superpower love.
      you’re absolutely right… you literally choose how you see + navigate the world. mastering all of this at such a young age is going to help you so much along the way. people may not get you, but they don’t need to. look for people who SEE you for you. sending you all the love on your journey mamas.. I’m happy you’re here 🫂🤎

  • @SinesiphoNgubane
    @SinesiphoNgubane Рік тому

    iIhave been feeling like this for a while but did not have the words to articulate what i'm feeling. I now know what to do.

  • @LatriceS
    @LatriceS Рік тому +2

    So many parts of this video resonated with me. It’s been a challenging 12 months for me. But I recognize that they’ve been hard because I made the choice to follow a years-long career dream. And as a result, I’m being forced to grow. I do feel like I’m transitioning in so many areas. And for the times when I have been feeling strong negative emotions, the message to take my power back is received and on time. Thanks for this! P.S., I could not stop staring at your earrings! Might you share the details? I looked on your IG but didn’t see anything about them! 😆

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому +1

      i’m so happy that you found some comfort! I literally share for this reason… because i felt so lost going through it so i help it helps ease some of the transition. also, earrings are in my linktree lol. adding to the bio of this video now 😂🥰

    • @LatriceS
      @LatriceS Рік тому

      @@TiffanyTV Thank you!!

    • @chazity408
      @chazity408 11 місяців тому

      ​@@TiffanyTVhey! I don't see the earrings info. Can you post it again or direct me to where I can find it if I'm overlooking? Thanks!

  • @karenp111
    @karenp111 Рік тому

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @kareerhoden4296
    @kareerhoden4296 11 місяців тому

    Thank you my dear, I feel like you was talking to me😢❤

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  11 місяців тому

      that means it was meant to find you love 🤎

  • @ITSCHANELSWAY
    @ITSCHANELSWAY Рік тому

    Omgggg I needed this 😢

  • @gloriamensah8900
    @gloriamensah8900 Рік тому +1

    This was so needed. Btw I love your earrings? Please where’s it from?

    • @TiffanyTV
      @TiffanyTV  Рік тому

      thank you! they’re linked on my linktree in the caption… “Criana Gold Earrings”