After she was assaulted and she said she wasn’t traumatized, she definitely was. Everyone reacts different to trauma and she acted out. It could have been for various reasons why she continued to sell herself. She was a child and children don’t process situations the same as adults. Bless this young woman. She needs unconditional love.
To someone else it might be trauma to someone else it's not its all about how you look at things . I'm the same way I don't look at bad experiences as traumatic I look at it as a lesson 😊
Yep I dated a girl who was was real sexual and I started talking to her one day and she said she got raped at like 10…. been sexually addicted every since. She wasn’t the only girl i’ve met like that. Also, not to mention most hyper sexual men are the same way. I lead a panel in school where 48 out of 60 guys I was in college with were sexually molested at single digit ages by grown women…. but no one wants to ever get to the root causes of why these people become sexual abusers too…. This is the dangerous of creating narratives that men mostly are only the sexual predators when I bet you women are evenly if not more predators because they can get away with it
Facts! I have a male friend that is hyper sexual. One day he told me he “lost his virginity” at the age of 8 to a 30 year old woman 😢 He didn’t put two-and-two together and see how it affected him. I did. We’ve never talked about it since, but I still wonder if he actually heard me when I told him he didn’t deserve that…
Sexual abusers become sexual abusers because they want to. They know that it is wrong. I was sexual abused several times by several different people, and I am not nor will I ever be a sexual abuser. Do not make excuses for those types of people. Right is right, and wrong is wrong.
@@Twin-1985 Just because YOU didn’t make that choice doesn’t mean that trauma is going to affect the next person differently. That’s a very ignorant way to look at things.
You can look in her eyes and see that she is broken no matter how much she smiles or laughs her eyes tell a different story than her mouth !! May God continue to bless you sis you’ve come a long way focus now on where u are headed and not on where u have been don’t beat yourself up we all make mistakes forgive yourself love yourself and your kids ! You deserve it
I love her transparency ! a person can’t even judge a person like this , being completely honest and taking accountability is the key. God bless her 💛💛 I hope one day she can repair her relationship w/ her kids and continue to do better for herself.
Omg this is what alot of females go through and don't know why they Life is jacked up but by her realizing her predicament and understanding her needs she can hopefully put that energy in the right direction that's why it's so important to mature emotionally and its hard to grow after Trama but can be done
This is so true that's why work with the less desirable or the mentally/physically disabled students because I love people.... I love this lady strength in at least trying 💪💪💪
Thank you He’s a sex freak gets fascinated and gets hyped and who is he helping but himself when he asks did u orgasm doing a sex act (she was 14 and it was rape.) Really? Shameful and he states he has daughters?
you're missing the connection of circumstances contributing to current situations 🤦🏾♂️ I understand sometimes he might seem to get too personal, but, I think there is a method behind the madness.
I’m a Psychotherapist and am inclined to associate the orgasm from the unfortunate horrible experience with what him “taking it” meant to her. It made her feel wanted, accepted, seen, desired, validated, and special. “ He really wanted me” mindset. That was the catalyst for future experiences. Therapy will help her reorganize and see that she can orgasm without abuse or pain. Best wishes to her.
It’s weird how if some women are molested they become sex addicts and prostitution. I was molested and the opposite happened I became sexually nervous and withdrawn and was scared of being touched sexually and non sexually.
@@angieangiel2666Everyone isn’t molested under the same circumstances, some start with a conversation making you feel comfortable so it wont feel like assault.. some people don’t have negative feelings towards their abusers which can make sex a good thing to them.
Yea hearing voices isn't fun. Be careful who you get attached to & stay away from immoral acts... Alot of these sex acts like "Gangbangs" in porn look fun but in real life thats a whole ritual.... Allegedly.... Ijs iykyk....yo no se
First thing I noticed by looking into her eyes was that lil innocent girl that she used to be is still there trapped deep down inside of her! I thank God she was able to get off the streets and pick herself up! Yhe fact she is so transparent and truthful about her past makes me feel she gone be good she is allowing herself to heal! I pray her relationship with her kids get better and they fully open up to her i think thats the last piece to the puzzle of her healing!!! May god bless her! Seeing this makes me wish i could help more! You often times forget how blessed you are until you see storys like this we walk through life taking this for granted it may not be on purpose but we do!
I can’t believe this is brought up right here. Atp the delusion and insecurities within its self is real. Everyone looking the same and to be lightskin is a crime even when doing nothing. The black community fail itself with this division, this girl right here has a completely different look and story and it’s bound to be judged differently, some ppl can’t handle brutal honesty without seeing the person cry, or etc they judge it differently
I really like her. Even with all the stuff she has been through, you can tell there is a certain level of awareness that she has gained...and am I the only one that notices how beautiful her eyes are? Definitely see the sadness in them, but pretty still... Keep your head up girl. You will get through all of your traumas. God willing 🙏🏾
Imma send her a little money, not a whole lot but something. Hopefully it’ll help her out on the financial side of things. I pray for her and her kids. 💖
I definitely appreciate her taking accountability for her decisions. She was so open and honest. I pray that she is blessed abundantly with Gods favor ❤🙏🏾
Probably the most honest woman I have heard speak in over a decade. She is pretty smart and has developed thru her history, appreciation for her TRUE core values and guidelines. She can help a lot of young women out her moving wreckless. She knows more than most girls out here. Shes gonna be a great grandmomma.
This young woman is speaking the truth, she looks him straight in the eyes,she doesn't trip over her words,her answers are straight up and true.She is pure in her heart,I am praying for her everyday from now on.I love you,may Almighty Merciful Allah bless and protect you and your family 🤲🏻
Her violator transferred his incubus/succubus (sex demons) onto her and that trauma caused her to become addicted. Those spirits can and will transfer to anyone if someone comes into sexual contact with a person whether they were violated or not. That's why you have to be careful of who you share your sexual energy with. I hope she gets the counseling she needs or those spirits will transfer to her children until that generational curse of perversion of broken! Sending her prayers and love. This all stems from a toxic ass home environment!
SO VERY TRUE... Most females that just give it up A LOT with multiple partners are BROKEN ... Because you have allowed all these different spirits to become 1 with you... And people wonder why they so crazy and toxic...ALL THOSE TOXIC SPIRITS ARE NOW ONE WITH YOURS...z That's why God says in the BIBLE get married and be loyal because once you have sex you become 1... This is real
It’s not crazy that it turned her into a sex addict. That’s what it does to 90% of victims another statistic is that children with childhood trauma who grow up and don’t get it dealt with end up on drugs! I can relate to her!
She was loved, she just didnt love herself. Sounds like she didnt even like herself. That would definitely cause someone to act out, for attention or false sense of love. Young girls have it bad because when theyre having those type of internal struggles they are sooo succeptable to false love and it can be so damaging. Her spirit and personality is great though despite what she has gone through🙏🏾
She’s a strong woman, she didn’t know how to cope with her feelings, she just decided “another one would fix it” looking for something different, i met people like her before who changed early and noticed how their actions affect those around them, this woman in the video is so strong for “be-ing” open about so much, she seems that she really had enough and noticed what she was doing, im happy she’s changed, i really hope she gets better
I wish her luck with her journey, and I want her to know that I am proud of her and she can do anything. She puts her mind to! We are the creators of our own destiny. Don’t let what other people have done to you determine how you live the next 34 years of your life girl! Love yourself more than anything!
Man when you have to laugh to keep from crying. I’m just glad she’s putting everything in rotation now. She have a roof over her and her kids head…etc I just pray she keep moving forward to better herself. She’s still young and there is still more to be done…prayers to her and her kids.
I really enjoyed her interview. She was really honest and open. I hope she can get in a position that she can take care of her children. 12 yrs old seems to be a transformative age.
Authentic and herself. Refreshing from all the fakery. I think ppl are fake though because so many people judge so they worry about how they'll be perceived by others. Real ness is always 🌈💞
Reading these comments and yall mfers weird. Everybody is saying "oh I'm so glad she took accountability". Accountability for what? Being raped, being taken advantage of by a punk and coward who couldn't control himself. Where's the accountability for the demon who took away her innocence?
Thank you but remember we live in a society where children are literally viewed as grown ass women who should know better. That’s why they’re praising her. When they hear about little girls being graped who weren’t being “fast” or doing shit like skipping school watch how quickly they turn and claim she’s lying.
It's so unfortunate how our community has been thru so much trauma! It continues thru to the next generation unfortunately here! She is at least trying to get her life together and kids back. She is a strong woman.
@@DeaconChriss"the good guys" have infiltrated the game & now have just as many murders under their belt that "matches" the pookies. The "good guys" are the ones that cant take "no" & feel that they are OWED someones time & body, simply because they are the " good guys" & not "pookies". They are nurses, drs, teachers, the police, men w/ good jobs & how dare you dismiss them? I'm the prize. Im the man & the good guy. Yea. Foh & google who have been the last few u hinged men who have redrumed their significant others or somene that tried to leave when they saw how the good guy changed. But wait, Women deserved it bcuz they shld have knwn he was truly a pookie w/ a good job & own things. Yea is crystal clear. Its definately the Women all chosing Pookies.🙄
@@helierhefortuneteller yeah, I dont think he intends to be that way but it does come across as a little like blunt and forceful. These are very sensitive and personal things, and it's not funny. For him he should show more compassion and he gentler. You know? Like not so casual
@@helierhefortuneteller 🙂. Yes, when I read your comment I instantly knew what you meant. I'm always a bit word-y 😭but yea its difficult watching these videos and trying to understand what he is trying to do because he could be trying to make objective educational videos which I am guessing he is doing, but you also have to think about it from a humanist perspective and empathize with the interview-ees
Exactly dude need to learn how to ask questions without getting to personal, if they wanna open up let them do that, then that lil slick bs toward the end about her really not wanting her kids smh. Cmon man, dont do people like that. I no u consider yourself keeping it real but you have to b a lil more tactful. Otherwise decent interview i wish the lil sista well, its women like her every town every city unfortunately.
This is so sad but you can't ignore and act like it isn't happening everyday! I have 3 daughters and man!! Even after you do all you know how to do and give all you can, they are still free to make their own choices. Problem is, they don't realize/know what their immature, "in the moment" decisions can lead to until it's too late! Prayers for all of us!
Every mama misses her children. She is struggling with her trauma and addiction, but she’s still Gods child. She has love for her babies. Don’t torment her, help her.
I commend this woman for being totally self aware and accountable!!! Most in better situations than her can’t even articulate their wrongs ! May the most high grant you ease in your life and forgive you for your wrongs ! Keep going baby !
Hypersexuality is often a trauma response to being SA'ed especially when young. A lot of men should be able to relate esp when they brag about their first times being essentially SA with grown wmen.
I feel bad for her. Child hood was messed up from age of 12. Its sad. She needs therapy asap. Wow! Its mind blowing to think being a s... came from that. Thats a lot to take in😢
Not sure why y'all feel Marcus is asking to many personal questions! Marcus has 2 daughters and honestly I think he has a good heart and means well. I think these videos are also for his 2 daughters. He using the videos to reach his girls, basically showing them why they should live right! I also allow my 11 yr old to see how others live! This helps them understand why certain things we tell them are so important!
I respect her she was being very open and honest some young girl is going to watch this and realize that she is about to go down this same path and not do it just about some of the things that she saying MUCH RESPECT TO HER ❤ I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST. AND I PRAY THAT SHE GETS HER LIFE ON TOGETHER AND GET HER KIDS BACK SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE'S A GOOD PERSON❤
Nobody brags on being molested, clearly you can see mentally she's not all there she's snuggling and laughing about being turned out and being raped, and how it felt good and how pain causes her pleasure. Somebody has definitely infiltrated all of their demonic energy into her spirit. I can't even bear to watch anymore cuz I feel it radiating through the screen
I don't think she bragging. She know she on camera so it's better to laugh to keep from crying in this type of situation. Me being molested also I can see where she coming from and the reason behind acting like this.
Chill. He just asking her the question in relations to what she said. She has a choice not to answer. Quit being weird or quit coming on his channel. She start the interview talking about “being a Slut bucket” - Did you miss that part?
@@ransomepeterman3483 I heard the initial statement, most likely based from the trauma she experienced! If you continued to listen she said she cried after and she was 14 years old.
Why would he ask her if she … after being molested ? This isn’t the first time he has said some peculiar things, it’s like he’s getting his rocks off by asking females those disgusting questions!
They don't have to answer. Also uncomfortable questions are needed. Even today most adults can't have real conversations. If something is disgusting they ha e the right to nit participate
I remember her… sweet girl. We was in a homeless shelter together. While I had to separate from my children due to homelessness she was there with hers. I remember her walking around with that stroller in 5 points which is where I worked. She was always quiet never thought these things was going through her mind. And I’m glad she found her truth but I wish she would get her children as I did. I wish I could help her get that motivation to get them. It’s probably fear and a change of lifestyle
Coming from someone who spent my childhood being molested by my dad, his son from an earlier marriage, his nephew and plus him passing me around to his drunk friends we refuse to be the victim and give these sick piece of shits power over us!!!! We are the strong who will never be broken crybaby victims!!!! I have so much respect for this lady for her courage to stand with her head high after all she has been through!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I believe most, if not all women especially of black & african origin needs extensive mental therapy by an actual real specified & certified man that is a psychologist. Respect to you ma'am & I'm sorry for your spiritual & emotional traumatic & dramatic experiences that happened unto you. Blessings & tranquility towards you madam.
Marcus why would you ask her about her being molested? That's a touchy subject. It can happen like that. I was raped. You can become promiscuous.I go to therapy.
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - I HAVE 3 GROWN GIRLS & ALL I EVER TRIED TO DO WAS PROTECT THEM & IT WAS HARD BUT I DID IT WITH THE HELP OF THE LORD
Good interviewing skills… This guy understands his audience wants more detail and clarity and he has a way of pulling it out of the people he is interviewing..bravo
@@kjen1516 I already see you the type of person to judge and hang out with people based on their appearances, maybe she might look insignificant to you but she might be the first to enter to kingdom of heaven, while you have a flawed view of self-righteousness infront of God your heart may be Black like and rotten so do not judge and help one another.
@@10commandement yep, judgmental ppl are everywhere and it's so hurtful because ppl judge you on the outside without knowing the life you've lead or your experiences. I'm not perfect but 1 thing about me I never judge, i accept people for everything they are and my love or care is not "conditional ." I'm coming to realise there are very few ppl like this..the world is very cold and harsh. So much judgement and stigma in society it makes it harder for people to open up and reach out for help
I Respect her for being 100% Transparent, honest & Real Despite what anyone has to Say. Also she knows how to Take Accountability which is something Alot of Women don't know how to do.
Another Real one God bless her!! Sir she wants that Bond with her children don’t you understand I get her and I myself is a victim of molestation… Either you are completely turn off by the opposite sex or you are promiscuous it’s psychological thing!! Love you sis continue to hold on to God Unchanging hands!!!
Homelessness is a terrible situation it has became an epidemic here in America there is, so many homeless people roaming around although, I haven't personally experienced it myself once upon a time two years ago, I was on the verge of becoming homeless, but by the grace of God he made a way, for me I can assure anyone homelessness is no joke therefore, I can empathize with them I am glad she is no longer homeless.
I can relate to the baby daddy situation. I kinda lost it when me and my first child’s father broke up but I did keep my son and I fought it out. I been dealing with depression for a while but I had depression before him. I’ve also deal with many childhood dramas and I have demons but I praise God that he has been keeping me. Thank God for a roof over my head and my kids having food in their mouth and clothes on their back. God is so good…❤ he’s the so merciful and loving and forgiving and I pray he keep me as we go through my battles of being a survivor of multiple traumas
If you listen she is not dumb her environment and lack of emotional support put her here but I respect her for this interview cause even to be open with is hard..
Gather your families together to sit around the table at your home 🏡 🏠 to pray and study the Bible Deut 4:9-10; Deut 6:6-9; Deut 11:18-19; Ps 78:1-7; Pr 22:6; 1Ti 4:11. Spend time with your children, get to know them and let the children get to know you. Talk about your childhood, teen years, family & family history to them. Pr 13:24; Pr 23:13-14; Eph 6:1-4; Colossians 3:21...
We should be protecting our black women and this type of digging into a vulnerable woman’s sexual activity background and traumas with no guidance nor resources to help then u have to ask the question “Y.”
What are you doing for black women? You would’ve saw her on the street and done nothing like you already do. Y’all kill me with all that jaw service. like y’all actually do anything for anyone outside yourselves or family. You sit back and complain but everyone know where he at get out there and do something comparable or better with the people. If not you just out here white knighting for likes
@@bigfredbigfred2760 Thank u bro somebody needs to say it. He's just asking pertinent questions to the interview, and keeping it raw. Lets face it, who would watch if he just asked ordinary generic questions. And hes out there helping these ppl by getting their stories out there, ppl know who they are, and hes helping them to possibly get financial help. And like you said what are the ppl posting these comments doing to help? The funny thing is Mark from SWU asks the same type of questions yet they'll commend him for his interviews 🤔.
@@pollyannalight6313 Thank you in total agreement. We have become prisoners of the moment to believe the antiquated statements that getting things off your chest is somehow healing? That is the biggest lie fed to the inner cities to keep us from seeking true professional care from doctors. True healing comes in getting the vulnerable off the streets and into treatment and trauma facilities with care by certified professionals but it has to be a dual diagnostic treatments as these poor thrown away folks have layers of dysfunction and trauma and pain that we could never imagine. Questioning rape victims about if they enjoyed it, in my book abusive and it only satisfies the motive of the one asking the question. It’s depravity and sick and adds to the victims problems.
And by asking them did they orgasm during a traumatic time in their life? This dude is weird asf. The questions he asks and then he laughs at things that aren’t even funny
I love her honesty and how she has grown. She has done self reflection and to do that she has grown and learned about herself. Hopefully she keep reflecting and growing.
I like this broad I can tell she’s a decent person who just had to learn certain experiences the hard way. But you can also tell she uses her troubles as an learning experience, it’s a shame how grown ass men can’t control themselves all the transfers of bad energy & spirits. I just hope one day she can find herself & some peace because that’s no way for any woman or anyone to live. And her level of transparency is very refreshing under the circumstances of the conversation. But beloved seems like she’ll be aite she has a daughter now and is over her addiction i hope can maintain the stability of the process. Peace & blessings reflections💯🙏🏽✌🏽
I love her and pray to God that she will be okay and her relationship with her children will be improved. She has learned a lot and I hope she continues to move forward and upwards.
Poor baby, I can see her become extremely uncomfortable and she tries to self soothe by hugging herself and bouncing. You deserve nothing but happiness baby girl and everyone has their judgment day baby girl. Hold your head up. You deserve nothing but love and peace and softness 😇🥰😇 many prayers
After she was assaulted and she said she wasn’t traumatized, she definitely was. Everyone reacts different to trauma and she acted out. It could have been for various reasons why she continued to sell herself. She was a child and children don’t process situations the same as adults. Bless this young woman. She needs unconditional love.
That’s what I’m thinking
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I know her, she from techwood.
@@latandrac LAWD SHE NEEDS ALOT OF HELP!!!!LAWD I THANK YOU PLACING SOMEONE IN MY LIFE FOR GUIDANCE!!!
To someone else it might be trauma to someone else it's not its all about how you look at things . I'm the same way I don't look at bad experiences as traumatic I look at it as a lesson 😊
Yep I dated a girl who was was real sexual and I started talking to her one day and she said she got raped at like 10…. been sexually addicted every since. She wasn’t the only girl i’ve met like that. Also, not to mention most hyper sexual men are the same way. I lead a panel in school where 48 out of 60 guys I was in college with were sexually molested at single digit ages by grown women…. but no one wants to ever get to the root causes of why these people become sexual abusers too…. This is the dangerous of creating narratives that men mostly are only
the sexual predators when I bet you women are evenly if not more predators because they can get away with it
I had 3 exes that was male that got molested by older women as well
Wow that’s crazy
Facts! I have a male friend that is hyper sexual. One day he told me he “lost his virginity” at the age of 8 to a 30 year old woman 😢 He didn’t put two-and-two together and see how it affected him. I did. We’ve never talked about it since, but I still wonder if he actually heard me when I told him he didn’t deserve that…
Sexual abusers become sexual abusers because they want to. They know that it is wrong. I was sexual abused several times by several different people, and I am not nor will I ever be a sexual abuser. Do not make excuses for those types of people. Right is right, and wrong is wrong.
@@Twin-1985 Just because YOU didn’t make that choice doesn’t mean that trauma is going to affect the next person differently. That’s a very ignorant way to look at things.
You can look in her eyes and see that she is broken no matter how much she smiles or laughs her eyes tell a different story than her mouth !! May God continue to bless you sis you’ve come a long way focus now on where u are headed and not on where u have been don’t beat yourself up we all make mistakes forgive yourself love yourself and your kids ! You deserve it
Well said!..
💯💯💪💙💎🙏 🗣️ that part windows to the soul never lie
Thank you
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - 100% CORRECT
Not sure exactly ....but she appears to have had fetal alcohol syndrome... Wishing her the best.
I really like this girl she not blaming everyone else for her choices
Choices Queen 😁
@@Kelthagreat97 we know that, it wasn’t that important to correct, guess you needed to feel superior hope you got your rocks off.
@Father1st my darn auto correct gets me everytime🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@its.the.bling.for.me.2 I know what you meant and I concur!
@@godslittleprincess5454 thanks Luv😘
You can literally see her growth while she's talking. The power of walking in your truth will transform you everytime.
Powerful statement. Facts!
Well said !!!!
This was probably one of the few times she was able to share her story without judgement.
I love her transparency ! a person can’t even judge a person like this , being completely honest and taking accountability is the key. God bless her 💛💛 I hope one day she can repair her relationship w/ her kids and continue to do better for herself.
Omg this is what alot of females go through and don't know why they Life is jacked up but by her realizing her predicament and understanding her needs she can hopefully put that energy
in the right direction that's why it's so important to mature emotionally and its hard to grow after Trama but can be done
That's right
I’m with you on that ❤❤
This is so true that's why work with the less desirable or the mentally/physically disabled students because I love people.... I love this lady strength in at least trying 💪💪💪
❤ u hit it dead on !! I love her ' she's a hundred with it ' she's a open book that deserves respect
Why is Marcus so fascinated by all his interviews sexual details in depth, creepy 😢
Sad
Thank you He’s a sex freak gets fascinated and gets hyped and who is he helping but himself when he asks did u orgasm doing a sex act (she was 14 and it was rape.) Really? Shameful and he states he has daughters?
@Penny Ruben E You too?
He cant go thru 1 interview and not talk about sex
you're missing the connection of circumstances contributing to current situations 🤦🏾♂️ I understand sometimes he might seem to get too personal, but, I think there is a method behind the madness.
I’m a Psychotherapist and am inclined to associate the orgasm from the unfortunate horrible experience with what him “taking it” meant to her. It made her feel wanted, accepted, seen, desired, validated, and special. “ He really wanted me” mindset. That was the catalyst for future experiences. Therapy will help her reorganize and see that she can orgasm without abuse or pain. Best wishes to her.
Thank you. I now understand what my problem is.
@@brendaking4743 You’re welcome!
best explanation
This is a fully cognizant analysis.
SOOOOO refreshing to come across someone who still thinks for themselves.
She already explained "why" during the interview.
She was so real, can’t do nothing but respect it
It’s weird how if some women are molested they become sex addicts and prostitution. I was molested and the opposite happened I became sexually nervous and withdrawn and was scared of being touched sexually and non sexually.
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Same here
Same here
@@angieangiel2666Everyone isn’t molested under the same circumstances, some start with a conversation making you feel comfortable so it wont feel like assault.. some people don’t have negative feelings towards their abusers which can make sex a good thing to them.
S/o to her for telling her story and being transparent. It’s some young girls out here that need to hear this and be cautious
Sex demons is real. Stay safe y’all ❤️
Yea hearing voices isn't fun. Be careful who you get attached to & stay away from immoral acts... Alot of these sex acts like "Gangbangs" in porn look fun but in real life thats a whole ritual.... Allegedly.... Ijs iykyk....yo no se
Right
So true…. I know from experience…
@@ImSavedByGracetoo May peace be with you
Yeah what do they do so I can know what is wrong with me
At least she holds accountability...respect
Exactly. Gotta respect that
I want to feel a orgasm but I don’t want to be raped.
Hold your head up girl, God has a plan for you❤
Y’all bring God into everything 🙄
@@SolorockinOne if you can come up with someone better. Feel free to share sweet heart.. because your comment thought less..
You do know that you don’t need a plan from God to create your own purpose, right?
@@ashestoglory2319 By the way, your comment is the epitome of what people say when they have absolutely nothing to say. You know, thoughtless.
@@SolorockinOne I was thinking the same thing about yours. Strangely enough we agree on something. Be blessed 😇
She’s so very honest about her actions and her feelings
She reminds me of Shamar, it’s the whole face and jawline that puts me in the mind of him/her
Was just thinking thisssss! 😭
Not SHA-MA 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 all she gotta do is the skip hop dance now
Wheeeeew hell is hot😂 Lord forgive me
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 hell yeah
She's Shamar's twin: looks like him and kind of talks like him a little.
I pray that God bless her with all she needs.
There is no such thing as a god deity which is why you have to pretend.
And stop ✋🏻 praying for goodness sake! It's useless. 😶
First thing I noticed by looking into her eyes was that lil innocent girl that she used to be is still there trapped deep down inside of her! I thank God she was able to get off the streets and pick herself up! Yhe fact she is so transparent and truthful about her past makes me feel she gone be good she is allowing herself to heal! I pray her relationship with her kids get better and they fully open up to her i think thats the last piece to the puzzle of her healing!!! May god bless her! Seeing this makes me wish i could help more! You often times forget how blessed you are until you see storys like this we walk through life taking this for granted it may not be on purpose but we do!
She has beautiful skin. She was honest about where her choices took her. Her story will help young girls.
@jp-vp8hrvirtue signaling.
You see how mean people are to her versus that light skin girl, that’s wrong. She clearly has issues and was abused. Sick
sad Queen. People of Color do tend to judge those with darker pigmentation. 💔
@@sallysharp4126 exactly
@@sallysharp4126 exactly
She's very honest. I pray that God continues to bless her!
I can’t believe this is brought up right here. Atp the delusion and insecurities within its self is real. Everyone looking the same and to be lightskin is a crime even when doing nothing. The black community fail itself with this division, this girl right here has a completely different look and story and it’s bound to be judged differently, some ppl can’t handle brutal honesty without seeing the person cry, or etc they judge it differently
I really like her. Even with all the stuff she has been through, you can tell there is a certain level of awareness that she has gained...and am I the only one that notices how beautiful her eyes are? Definitely see the sadness in them, but pretty still... Keep your head up girl. You will get through all of your traumas. God willing 🙏🏾
Right she still got some childhood innocence about her even though she been through so much
she appears to have fetal alcohol syndrome
Yessss her eyes are so prettyyyyyy ❤
Hypersexual behavior is a symptom of trauma. Prayers for you hun!!
And so many deny it
Yeah....she need a lot of mental health services....
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This is why I am in favor of a total ban on social media.
Hypersexual behavior never heard of
Damn at least she’s being honest
Imma send her a little money, not a whole lot but something. Hopefully it’ll help her out on the financial side of things. I pray for her and her kids. 💖
💪👍😃
And that's what she betted on y'all giving her money she fooled y'all this is my cousin so I know
God bless you ❤
Good deed god will bless you for that
I definitely appreciate her taking accountability for her decisions.
She was so open and honest.
I pray that she is blessed abundantly with Gods favor ❤🙏🏾
Victims either run to it, or from it . Hope things work out for you❤
In Rafiki’s voice in the Lion King… “SO! What are you going to do!??” 😂
Exactly.
An unclean Spirit was transferred to this young lady..
Your discernment is correct.
She hurting. Sending prayers to you..very sweet girl
Absolutely
Yes, that’s exactly what it seems like 😢
Fr fr
Whoever raped her should be charged xtra for raping A mentally disabled person 💯💯🤧
Shawts Fied
This lady is the REALEST I've heard in a while. Bless her on her endeavors
Probably the most honest woman I have heard speak in over a decade. She is pretty smart and has developed thru her history, appreciation for her TRUE core values and guidelines. She can help a lot of young women out her moving wreckless. She knows more than most girls out here. Shes gonna be a great grandmomma.
Glad to see her cleaning her life up. 🙌 God bless her and keep her out these streets
This young woman is speaking the truth, she looks him straight in the eyes,she doesn't trip over her words,her answers are straight up and true.She is pure in her heart,I am praying for her everyday from now on.I love you,may Almighty Merciful Allah bless and protect you and your family 🤲🏻
😮 She Keeps it 200%
Her violator transferred his incubus/succubus (sex demons) onto her and that trauma caused her to become addicted. Those spirits can and will transfer to anyone if someone comes into sexual contact with a person whether they were violated or not. That's why you have to be careful of who you share your sexual energy with. I hope she gets the counseling she needs or those spirits will transfer to her children until that generational curse of perversion of broken! Sending her prayers and love. This all stems from a toxic ass home environment!
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - AMEN AMEN & AMEN
This is so real people just don’t know
Truth
SO VERY TRUE... Most females that just give it up A LOT with multiple partners are BROKEN ... Because you have allowed all these different spirits to become 1 with you... And people wonder why they so crazy and toxic...ALL THOSE TOXIC SPIRITS ARE NOW ONE WITH YOURS...z That's why God says in the BIBLE get married and be loyal because once you have sex you become 1... This is real
How are you so sure? Do you have proof of what you are saying?
It’s not crazy that it turned her into a sex addict. That’s what it does to 90% of victims another statistic is that children with childhood trauma who grow up and don’t get it dealt with end up on drugs! I can relate to her!
She was loved, she just didnt love herself. Sounds like she didnt even like herself. That would definitely cause someone to act out, for attention or false sense of love. Young girls have it bad because when theyre having those type of internal struggles they are sooo succeptable to false love and it can be so damaging. Her spirit and personality is great though despite what she has gone through🙏🏾
She’s a strong woman, she didn’t know how to cope with her feelings, she just decided “another one would fix it” looking for something different, i met people like her before who changed early and noticed how their actions affect those around them, this woman in the video is so strong for “be-ing” open about so much, she seems that she really had enough and noticed what she was doing, im happy she’s changed, i really hope she gets better
So being a fucking victim is strong mane hell naw
I wish her luck with her journey, and I want her to know that I am proud of her and she can do anything. She puts her mind to! We are the creators of our own destiny. Don’t let what other people have done to you determine how you live the next 34 years of your life girl! Love yourself more than anything!
Man when you have to laugh to keep from crying. I’m just glad she’s putting everything in rotation now. She have a roof over her and her kids head…etc I just pray she keep moving forward to better herself. She’s still young and there is still more to be done…prayers to her and her kids.
I really enjoyed her interview. She was really honest and open. I hope she can get in a position that she can take care of her children. 12 yrs old seems to be a transformative age.
Once she gets therapy and healing and guidance she could really SAFE LIVES‼️‼️‼️
Her honesty and insight is astounding. She can make it and her children can too. Thank God for her father. He is a true GRANDfather.
I know this girl, and everything she’s saying is true… I never knew she would end up like this…. Lil Bit was no off the chain we grew up together
She was transparent asf.
Very
For real
Very and was not pointing the finger.
Authentic and herself. Refreshing from all the fakery. I think ppl are fake though because so many people judge so they worry about how they'll be perceived by others. Real ness is always 🌈💞
Reading these comments and yall mfers weird. Everybody is saying "oh I'm so glad she took accountability". Accountability for what? Being raped, being taken advantage of by a punk and coward who couldn't control himself. Where's the accountability for the demon who took away her innocence?
Thank you but remember we live in a society where children are literally viewed as grown ass women who should know better. That’s why they’re praising her.
When they hear about little girls being graped who weren’t being “fast” or doing shit like skipping school watch how quickly they turn and claim she’s lying.
Exactly what TF I was thinking.
It's so unfortunate how our community has been thru so much trauma! It continues thru to the next generation unfortunately here! She is at least trying to get her life together and kids back. She is a strong woman.
This is the result of women picking pookies who give them the tingles instead of the good guys that are overlooked. 😊
@@DeaconChriss"the good guys" have infiltrated the game & now have just as many murders under their belt that "matches" the pookies. The "good guys" are the ones that cant take "no" & feel that they are OWED someones time & body, simply because they are the " good guys" & not "pookies". They are nurses, drs, teachers, the police, men w/ good jobs & how dare you dismiss them? I'm the prize. Im the man & the good guy. Yea. Foh & google who have been the last few u hinged men who have redrumed their significant others or somene that tried to leave when they saw how the good guy changed. But wait, Women deserved it bcuz they shld have knwn he was truly a pookie w/ a good job & own things. Yea is crystal clear. Its definately the Women all chosing Pookies.🙄
Dude you just wouldn’t let up on the sexual details. “Side eye…”
Creepy it’s too much
I hate the questions he asks...
I don't like how he asks them. Like an interrogator.
@@helierhefortuneteller yeah, I dont think he intends to be that way but it does come across as a little like blunt and forceful. These are very sensitive and personal things, and it's not funny. For him he should show more compassion and he gentler. You know? Like not so casual
@@Star3marie304 you know exactly what I mean. You explained that perfectly. 💯
@@helierhefortuneteller 🙂. Yes, when I read your comment I instantly knew what you meant. I'm always a bit word-y 😭but yea its difficult watching these videos and trying to understand what he is trying to do because he could be trying to make objective educational videos which I am guessing he is doing, but you also have to think about it from a humanist perspective and empathize with the interview-ees
Exactly dude need to learn how to ask questions without getting to personal, if they wanna open up let them do that, then that lil slick bs toward the end about her really not wanting her kids smh. Cmon man, dont do people like that. I no u consider yourself keeping it real but you have to b a lil more tactful. Otherwise decent interview i wish the lil sista well, its women like her every town every city unfortunately.
This is so sad but you can't ignore and act like it isn't happening everyday! I have 3 daughters and man!! Even after you do all you know how to do and give all you can, they are still free to make their own choices. Problem is, they don't realize/know what their immature, "in the moment" decisions can lead to until it's too late! Prayers for all of us!
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - AMEN
Shes so real, i like her
This was heartbreaking. She was laughing to hide her hurt and discomfort. There are some very dark souls in this world.
Every mama misses her children. She is struggling with her trauma and addiction, but she’s still Gods child. She has love for her babies. Don’t torment her, help her.
This man that is interviewing is SO weird! He does not care he just want the sex details so he can get off in his mind. Such a freaking weirdo!
No she don't she a scammer
I respect her and the fact that she speaks the truth. She took accountability for stuff she did. We should all be this way.
Grateful I haven’t seen nobody I know on these interviews 🙏🏾
I commend this woman for being totally self aware and accountable!!! Most in better situations than her can’t even articulate their wrongs ! May the most high grant you ease in your life and forgive you for your wrongs ! Keep going baby !
Hypersexuality is often a trauma response to being SA'ed especially when young. A lot of men should be able to relate esp when they brag about their first times being essentially SA with grown wmen.
I feel bad for her. Child hood was messed up from age of 12. Its sad. She needs therapy asap. Wow! Its mind blowing to think being a s... came from that. Thats a lot to take in😢
Not sure why y'all feel Marcus is asking to many personal questions! Marcus has 2 daughters and honestly I think he has a good heart and means well. I think these videos are also for his 2 daughters. He using the videos to reach his girls, basically showing them why they should live right! I also allow my 11 yr old to see how others live! This helps them understand why certain things we tell them are so important!
Nah this dude is weirdo and it won’t surprise me if some phuck shit comes out about him too.
One of the things I pray for is for us to have more compassion for one another and the next generation.
I respect her she was being very open and honest some young girl is going to watch this and realize that she is about to go down this same path and not do it just about some of the things that she saying MUCH RESPECT TO HER ❤ I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST. AND I PRAY THAT SHE GETS HER LIFE ON TOGETHER AND GET HER KIDS BACK SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE'S A GOOD PERSON❤
I respect the fact that she can come to terms with the choices she made and learn from them
You do the best interviews , very eye opening and interesting.
She will be ok in life. Seems that as she matures in life, the better decisions she makes ✊🏾
Nobody brags on being molested, clearly you can see mentally she's not all there she's snuggling and laughing about being turned out and being raped, and how it felt good and how pain causes her pleasure. Somebody has definitely infiltrated all of their demonic energy into her spirit. I can't even bear to watch anymore cuz I feel it radiating through the screen
I don't think she bragging. She know she on camera so it's better to laugh to keep from crying in this type of situation. Me being molested also I can see where she coming from and the reason behind acting like this.
Sick
Definitely demonic
😱
facts she just sick mentally
SHE IS REAL💯🙌🏾☀️❤️
Did he ask a rape victim if she orgasmed during her rape experience? 🤦🏾♀️ homeboy must be stopped.
Chill. He just asking her the question in relations to what she said. She has a choice not to answer. Quit being weird or quit coming on his channel. She start the interview talking about “being a Slut bucket” - Did you miss that part?
It was a follow-up question based on her statement... rewind to 10:30.
She brought that up first 😂😂
Right?
@@ransomepeterman3483 I heard the initial statement, most likely based from the trauma she experienced! If you continued to listen she said she cried after and she was 14 years old.
This sister is very pretty to me. I like her swag. I hope she gets things in proper order and can get her kids back. Great interview....
Agreed, shes so down to earth🙏
Why would he ask her if she … after being molested ? This isn’t the first time he has said some peculiar things, it’s like he’s getting his rocks off by asking females those disgusting questions!
They don't have to answer. Also uncomfortable questions are needed. Even today most adults can't have real conversations. If something is disgusting they ha e the right to nit participate
They need to show your interviews in schools, so young teens can see the effects of bad choices.
I remember her… sweet girl. We was in a homeless shelter together. While I had to separate from my children due to homelessness she was there with hers. I remember her walking around with that stroller in 5 points which is where I worked. She was always quiet never thought these things was going through her mind. And I’m glad she found her truth but I wish she would get her children as I did. I wish I could help her get that motivation to get them. It’s probably fear and a change of lifestyle
Coming from someone who spent my childhood being molested by my dad, his son from an earlier marriage, his nephew and plus him passing me around to his drunk friends we refuse to be the victim and give these sick piece of shits power over us!!!! We are the strong who will never be broken crybaby victims!!!! I have so much respect for this lady for her courage to stand with her head high after all she has been through!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I believe most, if not all women especially of black & african origin needs extensive mental therapy by an actual real specified & certified man that is a psychologist. Respect to you ma'am & I'm sorry for your spiritual & emotional traumatic & dramatic experiences that happened unto you. Blessings & tranquility towards you madam.
Wow
I RESPECT HER ACCOUNTABILITY
I love her honesty
Marcus why would you ask her about her being molested? That's a touchy subject. It can happen like that. I was raped. You can become promiscuous.I go to therapy.
I tune in from time to time, I notice the topic always comes up. I don't like his approach, how he fires questions at them.
Him asking what type and wanting details is too much. She said molestation and that’s all that needed to be said.
@@litchielitch0323 correct, if she chooses to go into detail. That's her choice.
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - GOOD FOR U MAY GOD BLESS U
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She got me in tears as a father of girls. Pray 🙏 God change your story baby girl
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - I HAVE 3 GROWN GIRLS & ALL I EVER TRIED TO DO WAS PROTECT THEM & IT WAS HARD BUT I DID IT WITH THE HELP OF THE LORD
Good interviewing skills… This guy understands his audience wants more detail and clarity and he has a way of pulling it out of the people he is interviewing..bravo
I peep that as well
I feel bad for her she look friendly
🙄 u messy
@@kjen1516 I already see you the type of person to judge and hang out with people based on their appearances, maybe she might look insignificant to you but she might be the first to enter to kingdom of heaven, while you have a flawed view of self-righteousness infront of God your heart may be Black like and rotten so do not judge and help one another.
@@10commandement yep, judgmental ppl are everywhere and it's so hurtful because ppl judge you on the outside without knowing the life you've lead or your experiences. I'm not perfect but 1 thing about me I never judge, i accept people for everything they are and my love or care is not "conditional ." I'm coming to realise there are very few ppl like this..the world is very cold and harsh. So much judgement and stigma in society it makes it harder for people to open up and reach out for help
She got trauma her problem goes deeper 😢than what see is telling
How can anyone not love this person?
Her honesty and bravery are inspiring.
I think she’s going to be ok.
I pray that she get it together, and be a mother to her kids. Her absence is affecting them. Children need their mother in their lives. 🙏
The reason she became “addicted” is because that s when the evil spirit entered into her
I Respect her for being 100% Transparent, honest & Real Despite what anyone has to Say. Also she knows how to Take Accountability which is something Alot of Women don't know how to do.
ANTHONY(TONY)BENTON OF THE BENTON GROUP - AMEN
She kept it real. I hope she gets help.
Another Real one God bless her!! Sir she wants that Bond with her children don’t you understand I get her and I myself is a victim of molestation… Either you are completely turn off by the opposite sex or you are promiscuous it’s psychological thing!! Love you sis continue to hold on to God Unchanging hands!!!
Homelessness is a terrible situation it has became an epidemic here in America there is, so many homeless people roaming around although, I haven't personally experienced it myself once upon a time two years ago, I was on the verge of becoming homeless, but by the grace of God he made a way, for me I can assure anyone homelessness is no joke therefore, I can empathize with them I am glad she is no longer homeless.
I can relate to the baby daddy situation. I kinda lost it when me and my first child’s father broke up but I did keep my son and I fought it out. I been dealing with depression for a while but I had depression before him. I’ve also deal with many childhood dramas and I have demons but I praise God that he has been keeping me. Thank God for a roof over my head and my kids having food in their mouth and clothes on their back. God is so good…❤ he’s the so merciful and loving and forgiving and I pray he keep me as we go through my battles of being a survivor of multiple traumas
If you listen she is not dumb her environment and lack of emotional support put her here but I respect her for this interview cause even to be open with is hard..
I seriously hope someone can take her under their wing and help her. I think she is a very awesome woman she has some real light in her spirit!
I hope these folks are getting help and not just being judged on here. I wonder if they are really being treated for their things... God bless them
If they're homeless, they're not getting help.
@@aaliyah-mz4zh right
Cold world
Gather your families together to sit around the table at your home 🏡 🏠 to pray and study the Bible Deut 4:9-10; Deut 6:6-9; Deut 11:18-19; Ps 78:1-7; Pr 22:6; 1Ti 4:11. Spend time with your children, get to know them and let the children get to know you. Talk about your childhood, teen years, family & family history to them. Pr 13:24; Pr 23:13-14; Eph 6:1-4; Colossians 3:21...
We should be protecting our black women and this type of digging into a vulnerable woman’s sexual activity background and traumas with no guidance nor resources to help then u have to ask the question “Y.”
I have asked and made this same comment on one of his other videos. But the bafunery continues.
instead of focusing on the question, think about the connection on multiple stories😢
What are you doing for black women? You would’ve saw her on the street and done nothing like you already do. Y’all kill me with all that jaw service. like y’all actually do anything for anyone outside yourselves or family. You sit back and complain but everyone know where he at get out there and do something comparable or better with the people. If not you just out here white knighting for likes
@@bigfredbigfred2760 Thank u bro somebody needs to say it. He's just asking pertinent questions to the interview, and keeping it raw. Lets face it, who would watch if he just asked ordinary generic questions. And hes out there helping these ppl by getting their stories out there, ppl know who they are, and hes helping them to possibly get financial help. And like you said what are the ppl posting these comments doing to help? The funny thing is Mark from SWU asks the same type of questions yet they'll commend him for his interviews 🤔.
Marcus you are healing a lot of people by letting them tell there story.... Big ups to you big bruh
@@pollyannalight6313 Thank you in total agreement. We have become prisoners of the moment to believe the antiquated statements that getting things off your chest is somehow healing? That is the biggest lie fed to the inner cities to keep us from seeking true professional care from doctors. True healing comes in getting the vulnerable off the streets and into treatment and trauma facilities with care by certified professionals but it has to be a dual diagnostic treatments as these poor thrown away folks have layers of dysfunction and trauma and pain that we could never imagine. Questioning rape victims about if they enjoyed it, in my book abusive and it only satisfies the motive of the one asking the question. It’s depravity and sick and adds to the victims problems.
Is he really tho?
He ain’t healing shit 😂😂😂😂 this is straight entertainment
And by asking them did they orgasm during a traumatic time in their life? This dude is weird asf. The questions he asks and then he laughs at things that aren’t even funny
I love her honesty and how she has grown. She has done self reflection and to do that she has grown and learned about herself. Hopefully she keep reflecting and growing.
Demons r real. That's why some people don't listen. They r not themselves
God blessings over you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Your such a strong woman Great things is coming stay focused and encouraged 🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😇Praying for you and your family ❤
I like this broad I can tell she’s a decent person who just had to learn certain experiences the hard way. But you can also tell she uses her troubles as an learning experience, it’s a shame how grown ass men can’t control themselves all the transfers of bad energy & spirits. I just hope one day she can find herself & some peace because that’s no way for any woman or anyone to live. And her level of transparency is very refreshing under the circumstances of the conversation. But beloved seems like she’ll be aite she has a daughter now and is over her addiction i hope can maintain the stability of the process. Peace & blessings reflections💯🙏🏽✌🏽
I love her and pray to God that she will be okay and her relationship with her children will be improved. She has learned a lot and I hope she continues to move forward and upwards.
I like how honest and real she seems to be! I wish her well
Poor baby, I can see her become extremely uncomfortable and she tries to self soothe by hugging herself and bouncing. You deserve nothing but happiness baby girl and everyone has their judgment day baby girl. Hold your head up. You deserve nothing but love and peace and softness 😇🥰😇 many prayers
I love her transparency and accountability ☝🏽
Mother taking care of grandmother, sister taking care of her. Generational curses at its finest right there.
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