Ok let’s be real we all been kids before and kids can be fast I remember sense I was in elementary school kids where talking about sucking D and wanted to get busy with the rest of the kids
She was hyper sexualized as a child and not mentally or physically prepared for what she was experiencing. Her uncle was a sick individual and she is suffering from PTSD and needs counseling. She's very intelligent and attractive even with the poor teeth dentition. I pray she gets the help she needs. BLESSINGS
As a female child that grew up with 5 Uncles and a multitude of boy cousins No one SA me Thats a victory that many females cant claim and it hurts me to my soul 😔
Great Interview. Once she gets her teeth fixed, her life will get alot better almost immediately. Also… her Uncle was definitely in his 30’s when it first started. And what I’m realizing is…. There’s alot more pedophilia and incest going on in our culture and community than we want to acknowledge.
That's doesn't make it okay. Yuck!! her uncle and she can smile and talk about it as if it's fine. Only someone that says this is fine is probably doing the same thing.
She would kill the service industry. Her personality is beautiful. She could make a killer career in the industry. If she really wants a career, she could expand her knowledge and earn upwards of 6 figures. Even some fast food restaurant GMs make almost 6 figures. Here's to wishing her a huge come up at winning life.
She only want peace and it’s hard to find when u r violated. The outside can play hard but the inside is a different type of pain. Geesh I’m beefing my brother now about his father molesting me.😢😢😢
When you hit rock bottom and still can keep a smile, a good attitude toward yourself and life, then you may be someone special. Most people can't do that.
I am beyond GRATEFUL AND BLESSED. I Grew up in a household with uncles, my grand dad and they were all strong black men. I was protected. I was NEVER ABUSED or MOLESTED. No childhood traumas. I am grateful for my Aunts and Grandma being loving and making me feel safe. Not many females can say this. Ive never been raped or dealt with any abuse as a child or adult. My grandma was ole school, however she didnt play. She always said "listen and talk to your children"
@@lailanimessina1473 not to just dismiss her as a person but she's clearly a drug addict... Bless her heart... A horrible life... But I didn't get intelligence from this interview.... Usually that's what white people say when you just can speak as a black person... While really patronizing the person
I grew up with cousins, and some are like 10 years older. One of my female cousins that was my age 10 had a huge crush on one of our much older cousins. He was extremely handsome to her, and I use to find her gross. At ten years old she was in love with him. If he had made a sexual move on her, she would of definitely agreed. That doesn't mean she is fast, she has a childhood crush. It's normal for kids to have crushes. When I was a teenager there were little boys that were like 9-13 that had crushes on me. These children were not being fast. The adults should know that's a child. Kids have crushes on older people all the time, and that's why they need protection. They don't understand what they are feeling. No adult should look at a 10 year old child, and feel sexual towards them. That's disgusting, and people like that need to get help ASAP. Parents need to stop trusting family with little kids.
@@zcam7939 I think it's nasty as well, but my cousin that was my age we didn't know her father and our other cousin's father were cousins, until much later. we thought her and her family were just family friends. My cousin my age and I are family through marriage, but she is blood related to our older cousin she had a crush on. I don't think she would of felt that way at the time if she had known.
That poor girl. Victim always gets blamed. This happened to me from 2-14. I didn't know anything else. My parents were too open and so my brother and his friends thought it was ok to gruum and train me to tolerate all sorts of violent bex acts. I reported it 3 times to officials and I was blamed and silenced each time. Punished. She let my brother and his friends take advantage of me saying boys can't control themselves and it was up to me to say no. I was half their size and autistic from recurring strep. When Planned Parenthood got involved I was told to claim rape so I didn't make them look bad, and then told to lie and say it was all me because their son was one of the offenders. So Instead, he was given Funds for college and moved out. My folks then lost their jobs in the same month. I, on the other hand, had my college grants cashed in, my inheritance signed over to them before I was 18. I was moved away to a new state, introduced to weed, alcohol and opiates to stay quiet and not be a depressed psychopath. We were homeless, so I worked to get a place for us all. Mom filed disability so it was up to me. I was then made to be the caregiver of my mom for another 7 years before I ran out into an abusive relationship. I was on and off homeless for years because I refused to move home. Whwnever I did, within 3 weeks my mother would attack me or attempt to poison me, turn my power nd heat off, raid my room, etc. For years she attempted to ruin my reputation to cover up what happened, saying it was all my fault. All the times this happened when I was 4, 5, 8, 9, being held down by my brother and his friend... she saw it, she heard it, she caught us. But she never got them help. Instead she silenced the loud mouth saying, "this happens all the time. U don't talk about it." For years I couldn't and even refused to defend myself. I became so low, drugged up, sleeping where I could, trying not to give the impression that I was going to sell myself like I was trained to... But not I don't have to worry. These people prayed iwould have died on the street and not recovered... because now my mom's liver is failing and she can't gossip anymore. She doesn't even know where she is. After all that spoiling she did for them, my brother and these other boys don't give two shakes that mom is dying. They are happy about it, blaming her for everything THEY did... taking no accountability. They walked out of the situation scott-free smelling like roses. Meanwhile, I am the only one in the state so I am the one handling the care of this woman. Hospice won't cover anything cuz she did it to herself. Drank herself to death. Now I'm clean and sober with a good job, and she isn't there to cover it up anymore. I am in my 30s and I am writing a book about all this right now called "The Boy I Called Salvation." And everyone involved is shaking in their boots trying to save face, cover up and run and hide! It feels amazing to have so many supporters, old friends who saw what was happening and couldn't speak up either. This was a neighborhood dynamic, many others going through this at home, and so it spilled over from home to home. Many broken families because of it. A very close friend since elementary school also just finished the second showing of a play she wrote about her own story coping with this neighborhood dynamic. "Por Lo Que Soy." By Jordanna Hernandez, showing at The Tank NYC, NY. Good luck to anyone who has ever been through this. God bless! Everything happens for a reason! Your test is a testimony to help someone else!!!
@@Sherryqueenshevisions Working out the details now, about half way through. Caregiving for my mom in her final months has taken a chunk of time. Maisie Grace Freeman is my pseudo. I am writing anonymously due to the nature of the beast. One of the "boys" in question has a 6 figure government job in law, as well as his wife, and are much like my mother was... do anything to cover it up, and they have many times before. The other is well known and respected in his community, an actor and producer/writer for Indy Latin films for 15 years. So I do this anonymously to avoid lawsuit for character defamation or liable for telling their secrets which could paint them poorly and affect their careers. I don't have a legal team, and it is a 20 year old incident, which is past statute in the state. Just publishing could get me in trouble with their legal defense, which has happened MANY times before in history when little guys accuse wealthy citizens of crimes... and it took me long enough to get on my feet after all this. So like Sapphire who wrote Push, and Go Ask Alice, it won't be published under my given name. Got some friends helping me with all this. 😉 Thank you for your kind words. 🙏❤️
This is the most disturbing interview that he has done so far to me. And the questions my God and him saying “I ain’t mad at it” and asking all of these questions like he getting turned on. And he called her “fast” at a young age, she was groomed , a victim and in denial. My heart breaks listening to her. She seems like she is cool and has a nice personality. I pray things work out for her.
Of course I watched how else would I have been able to post my opinion without watching the video. Furthermore, who said I was subscribed? Bc I’m not lol. Move around
@@blacksilverchair3315 since you have a daughter I bet my last dollar this guy is THE LAST PERSON you would want to screen your daughter if she fell under unfortunate circumstances and trauma! If you say otherwise you a liar bruh. She needs professional help not a nigga with a camera with a perverted sense of humor with a cringe laugh.
Literally extremely cringe. Very demeaning and awful interviewing. Constantly cutting off the interviewee mid response. He needs to go back to the drawing board…
Honestly, when you go through that type of situation, you DO start wanting it. It's all you know & your hormones are fresh, so it feels good even though it's wrong. It's a weird phenomenon. It's not that she wanted it with HIM. I think that's what people are not understanding. She wanted it because it felt good. He was just a body that was willing to do it to her. It's a natural desire that's hard to learn to control when you first go through puberty. TMI, but I used to hump my stuffed teddy bear when I first got my period & not know why. Same concept. No one ever talks about it, but I remember discovering things about my body that adults would never feel comfortable talking about with me. If I had a man taking advantage of me, I would have considered myself "fast" as well... because I liked the feeling of it... but that would be terrible because we're not old enough to understand what we're doing at that age or what consequences our actions might produce. We just know it feels good. Luckily, I have a mother that taught me about older men & told me to tell her if someone ever tried to touch me on my privates, so I was able to avoid the ones trying it with me. I have encountered a lot of them though. 2 were even at school.
She’s so beautiful inside and out. I feel so bad for her. She thinks that she was the reason for her uncle’s abuse. She doesn’t even realize that she is a victim. I know things will go great for her in the future because she has a good heart and she laughs even though she’s been through so much🩷🩷🩷🩷🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think her parents feel guilty because they did not protect her, so it is easier just to blame her and have nothing to do with her. She clearly was a victim and the sad part is that she doesn't realize it and until she gets therapy and accepts that, I don't think she will ever be able to get herself together.
Dearheart you were not promiscuous at 10 years old. He was wrong, period point blank. It was not your fault or brought it upon yourself. A 10 year old child could NEVER want that.
Since she has that mind frame..do you think its a threat to the young boys who rooms she shares? While being up at all times of night. Hurt people hurt people.
Or does it not matter cause the child is a young horny male and more than likely wants it..then grows to think it's ok..to many cape crusaders allow the obvious to go unnoticed out of being cowards but point fingers at others while there men themselves that have been or know another who has been through the same.
This woman is amazing. She would be a wonderful nurse. Her smile, personality, wit, and intelligence would bring happiness to the most downtrodden patient. She's quite humble and doesn't blame her homelessness on others. I have 23 years on this lovely woman, and she could be my life coach.
That is so sad. She still seems like a child. Her uncle was probably the one who got her into being curious before she can remember, which is why she was so attached and attracted to him by 10/11. Her uncle being with her from a child to an adult proves that her family has more secrets than just her and her uncle’s. May God bless and protect her children
She is an intelligent, attractive young lady. Her childhood experience with her uncle is impacting her choices in men. This isn't coming from a place of judgment...but from a love of my people. I'm praying for her to thrive.
I hate she blames herself I also love that she holds herself accountable when she knew it wasn’t right. I think deep down inside she knows it wasn’t her fault but makes it easier to accept her role in it. Poor baby!!! I love her energy, her spirit and charisma.
@@marshalljulie3676I mean you can look at the scenario in a lot of ways especially being an adult. As a child it doesn't matter; nothing a child does should advertise or warrant for a grown ass male or female to pursue a child in any shape or form; that's nasty. Again, I like that she owned her part
@@truth2powermillions400A 10 year old cannot consent! That is a fact. It doesn't take away from her story. It makes her retelling tragic. She doesn't even realize she was backwashed. That SHOULD be easy to understand.
Stop being ignorant saying a 10 yr old can’t be curious or can not initiate sex but you are watching the young crash and burn by killing each other over clout heavy drug use sex parties and organized crime these are children between 9 and 17. They run the country and yet they don’t know what they are doing
What big beautiful eyes she has and seemingly a big heart to match. She speaks well also. The interviewer sucks. He won’t stop interrupting her to talk about himself. I’d love to hear her just tell her story.
That's why I kept my kids away from family on both sides!!! So my kids don't even know them!!! My husband and I have great relationships with them and ALWAYS spoke on letting them know NO ONE should touch you or talk about anything sexual!! Let us know and we'll take care of it!! They are young adults now and we still say it!! You get so paranoid as parents!! But they they haven't been molested, s*x assaulted!! Not bragging!! Just giving advice to others!! If your kids are around family and their friends, no sleepovers, no leaving them in the house with anyone not EVEN 10 minutes!!! Female/male cousins, uncles aunts, next door neighbors!!
I absolutely think there should be open communication but I also think its a lot of pressure to think that a child who is confused and embarrassed to have to come to an adult and recount their abuse , so to take some of the pressure off every night for 17 years my son and I talk about his day before bed , we talk about what he did ,who he encountered that day and I ask if there was anything that happened that hurt or upset him , so he wouldn't have to try to figure out how to bring it up , thank GOD nothing has happened to him and I also let him know that its not his job to worry about me or his dad because often times abusers threaten to hurt others.
Such an open honest lady. She is very pleasant and hasn't given up on life. I pray she finds a job or goes back to school. I hope she gets her truth fixed, I believe that's all that's holding her back.
Yall going off her light skin, innocent voice, and cute smile. That shit doesn't mean nothing. She will have you butt naked in the street broke and in the rain lol
Her Uncle’s age does not add up! He was NOT in his 20s! She slipped and said he died in his 50s or 60s, which means he was in his 30s or 40s when he started grooming and molesting his own Niece at age 10! 🙄🤮 It’s a very unfortunate and sick mess! She needs extensive healing and deliverance. Blessings to her children and the Grandparents caring for them in safety. 🙏🏾
50 minus 25 (she was 10 and is now 35 so that is 25 years) equals 25. Not that it justifies anything because him crossing that line to begin with is qualifiable of a shortened life anyways, but I was just gettin the math correct on how he could’ve been in his 20’s😊
Damn how could you sleep with your brother or sister's kid 😮😮😮😮that's some crazy sh-t, I don't care how good she looks, find something or someone besides them😮God have mercy on them, 😮
I don't often feel badly for some people in this situation, but her story got to me. I don't know if anyone else can see the pain and sadness in her eyes. People like Parris deserves a second chance at life. I think if given the opportunity, she would do well. Good luck out there for you Parris.
She came from a home with both parents! But was totally violated & brainwashed by someone she thought she could trust!! And for some reason made her think it’s her fault! She was a child. With all she’s been thru, she’s still very positive, speaks well! I pray someone will truly help her mental state to get her back on track! She’s still a light in her darkness! Keep your head up beautiful!! ❤
It’s something about her that I ABSOLUTELY love. Her incredible spirit and tenacity throughout going through her journey is just amazing. Sis I’m praying for you and your continued healing and strength and peace and happiness and prosperity! I want you to know you were a victim of sexual assault. I know you feel like you may have wanted it but it may be Stockholms Syndrome. Not trying to diagnose you at all but just throwing it out there. Unfortunately, we have a similar journey. Much Love. ❤
I can relate to her experience, it’s not easy to live with, I had a female relative that SA me at 7yrs old she was 14yrs same activities. I never told anyone or confronted her when I got older. I was pissed off at one time because I realized how it effected my marriage and other relationships. I had to do a lot of work on myself to get where I am. I’ve forgiven her and moved on from the past. I purpose is to tell this so others will look out for the children out her, and also it doesn’t happens to young girls young boys get effected as well. I congratulate this young woman’s spirit and how she conducted herself in this interview, she is very strong , I send her love and many blessings her way.🙏🏾❤️👊🏽💯👏🏾
It's so sad that she still doesn't realize she was a victim and that it has affected her life negatively, I honestly hope she gets help so she can heal and become healthy 🙏
It's perfectly natural for a man to be attracted to a girl I say at the age of 12 or 13 it is not attractive for a blood relative to be attracted to his blood relative.
@@Pookie_Poo843 Everyone has those certain members in they family that you instinctively know YOU DON'T LEAVE NO KIDS AROUND THEM It's really quite sad
Taking advantage of a 10 or 11 year old is disgusting, but a 10 or 11 year old actively looking for it will find a taker 100% of the time. That’s why I put the responsibility on my children to stay in their lane and take responsibility for their actions regardless of their age.
@@kingwillie206 She didn't go looking for it until he introduced it to her and that is usually how they discover when toddlers who can't even talk have been sexually molested because they start rubbing on themselves trying to re-create that feeling that the abuser produced in their bodies. A 10 year old cannot take responsibility for a grown man bringing her body pleasure to the point that her body craved it and I feel sorry for your children if you think that they are responsible for the actions of an adult who instead of taking advantage of a promiscuous child who is that way because they have been abused, should be reporting it to the authorities to investigate why the child is behaving that way.
@@LL-zw2qb - That’s NOT what she said though. And adults don’t need to introduce anything. A girl named Angela pulled her pants down in front of me in preschool and all I could think about doing was what my body was telling me to do. D*ck was harder than blue steel and we were both 4. We are pre-programmed from birth to procreate and it’s the opposite of what you are claiming. It takes adult intervention to hide it from us and protect us from the responsibility and repercussions of it. Without societal norms taught by the media and our families we would all be experimenting with sex at random ages based on introduction from our peers whether perverts existed or not.
Wow! Marcus, you asked her why do she think she was so fast at a young age??? She was GROOMED and a CHILD! Sometimes, your line of questioning is a bit strange and creepy, with all due respect.
She said she thought she was fast. He asked why she thought that-empathetically even. Like how does a child think that 😌 Wow the man that took that innocence away from her! We really be expecting this man to magically think & be like us as women. I get frustrated listening, can’t imagine being out there, watching your back & having to appeal to the comment section for not perfecting every aspect of every interview. Y’all ever catch they’re usually “working” & this is the common underlying issue.
She said it first. Then he asked later on. But she initially said that she wanted it..and uncle was willing. Yeah..unc groomed her into believing she wanted..then had her to believe he was giving her what she asked for.
She will find her way back. She will be phenomenal in whatever path she chooses. Along the way she will be a motivation and inspiration to others. Years from now she will look back at this video and see how far she’s come. I speak this in to existence for her. Sending nothing but love and light her way!!!
Please keep up with her, I really would like to see her progress & WIN! Not only does she have a dynamic personality, she could easily start her own gymnastics classes, even if it starts at rec center or meet ups in a park. Maybe a "Mommy & Me" gymnastics class? If Dianna created "Dancing Dollz", Parris can do the same! I hope she seeing this comment for motivation!
This could very well be the case, but parents deserve to know if she has a significant police record. I’m not saying she doesn’t deserve a chance, but people should know who they are sending their kids too. There’s probably more to her story than she’s telling. Why can’t she find a job? Something else is holding her back.
I hate that she blamed herself, whether she was curious or not its up up to the adult to set you straight and have their own self control.She has a really sweet personality, and was very honest. I hope she gets it together.
what if Im blind folded and some child is giving me head. I completely finish, take the blindfold off and see that it's a child. What do i do next? and why?
The saddest part is the girl seems really sweet and actually well spoken, so it's apparent she had schooling and descent parents to raise her. This young woman could do so much more with her life and I pray she does ❤🙏🏼
How can this kind of elegance be reproduce on a massive scale? I've honestly never seen so much promise, love and selflessness in anyone and at that point where most people would have given up hope, trust LOVE. We argue over the simple question of "What is a woman"? She is a woman she is amazing and I do believe more people would follow that kind of heart and energy. I am truly sadden by any misfortunes that fall upon any beings big and small. I want to learn how to remain pure at heart until the end, I hope I will possess that trait one day soon. Thank you for your testimony, in truly grateful to heart your story.
Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This a crazy story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lord, how did the family not put 2 and 2 together man!!! 20 yr old uncle always hanging out with the 10 yr old niece.
truth be told i low key think he gets off on these videos. Ive seen a couple now and hes always kind of rude and always ask about the sexual stuff. Notice he never tells her she was a victim or none of that remember this comment watch its all gonna come out. Also dont forget he pays them
I live here in Atl and have heard he only gave some $10.00, he takes some back to his home and even had sex with them! I have heard he treat who he want with Respect and even have body guards that are very rude to the people who try and fight back! He is Very Suspect 🤔
Good interview! I hope things turn around for this Sister. She seems accountable and receptive to insight. Hopefully she'll stay positive & find the job that fits her. I wish her the best! 🙏🏾
This was hard to watch as a fellow csa/grooming survivor. She is a good person with a lot of grieving to do and I hope she finds a good therapist and gets the healing and stability and peace she deserves.
*10 year olds can not consent *As a mother she should know better *Adultifying children is socially irresponsible, even if it's yourself Most importantly children shouldn't be left in her care given her thought process.
@@yahya4370it’s definitely a coping mechanism deep down I’m sure she knows what happened shouldn’t have happened at that age it’s practically written all over her face
@@ralphwiggum1982 exactly, and to know he passed away leaving an apology within his will.. He knew what did was wrong.. even if he loved her it wasn’t supposed to be in that way..
She's not blaming other people when she says she trusts people too much. She is saying that she has an issue putting her trust into the wrong people. She's not blaming them she's blaming herself for trusting them in the first place.
Life ain't broke her spirit but With Her attitude and outlook on life she still has a chance to turn it around.Dam Shame the undeserved burdens people go thru
@@ParrisPushingPassI hope you are well and in good spirits. I hope you've read through the comments and understand that no matter how curious and willing you were, it was his job as the adult to push and keep you away. I hope that you understand that nothing that occurred was your fault. I hope you've read through the comments and seen all the advice, how much support, how many people are sending love and prayers your way. And I hope you know your survival story is inspirational because despite whatever pain you may have internally your delivery is full of hope, kindness and raw genuineness. I hope you find a therapist that provides a safe haven so that you can heal. And I pray that you get all the blessings you deserve times two.
She's beautiful. Very articulate. Her eyes are big and gorgeous. It's just her teeth. Glad she's getting them fixed. And that she accepts accountability. Never straying from her part of it
Accountable for what? You are a sick person. She was 10. He groomed her. The hell you talkin about? She needs therapy so she can get back on track. God this world is sick!!!!
Yes and she has Stockholm Syndrome and it kind of seems creepy because the questions that he asked them he never offers them any reference to getting the mental help. He just digs deep and has him relieved the trauma that they experienced. He should have let her know that it was not her fault and that she was a A child and a child under the age of eighteen can never consent to intimate Relations without it being raped or molestation
@@thechroniclesofel4268it’s updates on the channel if you’re being genuine. Some are in their addiction & it’s only so much one man can do. I don’t think he’s a therapist either. Opening the dialogue & being out there, I imagine, could allow you to go out there and offer more help-a more feminine approach. We can all play a part in what we see “unfit” about what others are doing ig 💪🏾🥰 we can offer him a diff way to ask, one that’s somehow universally appealing!
In my whole life, Every female I've ever met has been "SA'd" by a family member, family friend, or even teachers/counselors growing up, myself included & it's sad... It contibutes Allot to the mental instability of our race & keeps us in the downward spiral were can't escape. I pray for Everyone who this has ever happened to 🙌🏽💕✨
@@74WILDCATMEDIA80% of black girls by the time they reach 18 have all experience a form of sexual violence. You niggas never wanna hear the truth… that’s why this nasty cycle continues
This beautiful young lady has an amazing spirit and personality 😊. She is definitely an open book. May God continue to watch over her precious soul 😊🙏💜....
I wish her well. This is why I don't leave my daughter around any men. Family or not, I'm not playing when it come to my daughter. It's also why it's important to have good fathers present in the household, parents notice subtle things other people might miss.
Being homeless sucks n I'm currently going thru it now due to health issues but i keep praying, staying strong, and keep a positive mind so as being kind no matter what. So i wish her the best nothing but the best 🙏🏾💯
I hope she reads these comments. She has a lot of support from so many people, and I truly hope she will be OK. She has a beautiful spirit. Much respect to her.
This gave me chills, she was 10!! She think this was her fault!! Anyway I LOVE her eyes, it’s a lot of pain behind those eyes but her eyes are still beautiful, she’s beautiful as can be
She low-key beautiful. It's in her spirit. Her smile. Her energy. And life does throw stones...just gotta take them as they come and never falter. I felt this video. I wish her the best.
OMG, she's beautiful, intelligent and articulate. She may have come out of a ridiculously bad situation with the uncle, but there's so much here, she's worth so much more than just being stranded on the street, truly hope she gets the right type of help and can get her life going in a better direction.
I feel for her so deeply. She's broken and doesn't realize it. GOD bless her life in the future. She needs deliverance from her past. She needs a home so she can get her kids back hopefully. Help her to find a job. She seems like a sweet, kind soul who has been through hell and back. I hope she knows that GOD loves her. GOD please bless her 🙏🙏
I wish this lady all the best, sometimes things in life come on our paths and derail us...I can tell with the right support and genuine people who love her for her can help her elevate ..she gas a great personality..
I actually met her at a bus stop in Dunwoody Georgia about two months ago. We exchanged numbers and had a few conversations before everything fell off. She's a sweet person. I had no idea about this though.
Yooo I remember her too bro. At the same damn train station at dat. Shawty cool asf and we lost touch but I would look out for her cuz she was dat cool
I admire her honesty. She just needs a support to see her way forward. I think she has a bright future because she went through so much. I pray a new door open for her. Trying so hard against the odds. Good interview.
THIS IS WHAT TRAUMA LOOKS LIKE. I am a therapist and sexual abuse survivor and I very rarely write comments. I was both deeply saddened by her story and inspired by her resilience. She is doing what many trauma survivors do...she blames herself. She says she was promiscuous. She says she wore leotards all the time. She says she wanted it and so she lies to herself. Its called defense mechanisms. Humans try to make sense of the senseless by blaming themselves. She was and IS innocent. This is one of the most devastating effects of trauma....self-blame, shame, and self-betrayal. A 10 year old only knows about secs if they are introduced to it. He is an abuser and even after his death she still protects him while no one protects her. She sacrificed herself like her family sacrificed her. They shame girls to protect the demon, then tell her to do better because they don't want to face the truth about how her innocence was stolen. I pray that when she learns the TRUTH that her abuse was not LOVE, that she is able to free herself of herself, reclaim her innocence and grieve her lost childhood, and put the accountability on the adults who did nothing to keep her safe all while putting the pieces of her life back together. I send her so much love and gratitude for having the courage to tell her story. ❤️
@walkerenterprise1764 you might need some therapy, because then you'd undertake what it means to be a survivor and that therapist DO NOT GIVE ADVICE, they give tools to help people become better, heal better, and live better. 😊
@ExpertInMind ‘..a ten year old only knows about secs if…’ What.. are you serious? You don’t think their natural curiosity and understanding about how the world works has given them some knowledge if not only by observing nature???? What about having explored their own body by age ten.. and most likely being able to come to terms with and accept the fact that they have genitalia… ?? Now let’s start factoring in kids observing other humans behaviour, couples, parents, grandparents.. male/female affection.. now let’s factor in some truthful answers from adults to their curious questions.. now external factors like school, secs Ed, other kids, media…. absolutely delusional to make a statement like that and call yourself an Expert… I’m not suggesting for a second it’s her fault. I’m suggesting you’re not an expert..
It's not that she's in denial. If you listened clearly she said trusting people is what got her where she is. She knows exactly what changed her course in life she just tries to keep a positive mindset through everything.
1) She's on something. 2) She's trying to defend her image of someone she once trusted or looked up to. Her Uncle. 3) She's trying to provide a "out" for why other adults didn't protect her better. 4) She might have left her own children around that uncle, or saw other kids with him after she was older, and is trying to make it sound less likely that they might have been abused by him also, because she feels guilty for not protecting others.
She wasn’t “fast”. He GROOMED her. That’s how predators work. They gain the child’s trust and make them loyal to them to the point that the child sees everyone else as the enemy. My heart breaks for her and other young girls like her.
Her own words ..did you not hear what she said? Not what you want her to say ..but what she is actually saying out of her mouth....I'm not condoning it ..just actually listening to her statement...it is what it is ..not what you want to make it.
This is sick! She was not fast or promiscuous!! She was a 10 year old child
You’re right! She needs counseling, as she is blaming herself for SA and grooming at 10/11 yr old. He has manipulated her.☹️
Ok let’s be real we all been kids before and kids can be fast I remember sense I was in elementary school kids where talking about sucking D and wanted to get busy with the rest of the kids
She was hyper sexualized as a child and not mentally or physically prepared for what she was experiencing. Her uncle was a sick individual and she is suffering from PTSD and needs counseling. She's very intelligent and attractive even with the poor teeth dentition. I pray she gets the help she needs. BLESSINGS
Yeah for her to say it was her fault and she was a CHILD hurts.
Yep, our family foundation is the problem and it's in all races
I see the beauty in her ... the way she looks, speaks and carries herself. She deserves a chance. Prayers for her elevation and transformation
🙏🏽🙏🏽
I don't understand how she isn't a college professor. She answers all questions clear and concise, and is quite intelligent.
I just said the same thing
You would😮
One day she will phone home 👽
As a female child that grew up with 5 Uncles and a multitude of boy cousins No one SA me Thats a victory that many females cant claim and it hurts me to my soul 😔
This!!!! Bc her saying "I had on a leotard" really bothered me bc why would that matter
so true! thats a blessing
@rosesonly86 right!! It's sick and it's sad she feels she insinuate it
Good thing I’m not one of your uncles…I would have been very naughty 😏
@openranks4519 and every single day I thank God for his covenant, His grace and Mercy
34 and homeless 😢. I wish her the best. She has such a beautiful personality.
Great Interview. Once she gets her teeth fixed, her life will get alot better almost immediately. Also… her Uncle was definitely in his 30’s when it first started. And what I’m realizing is…. There’s alot more pedophilia and incest going on in our culture and community than we want to acknowledge.
Lol. Come on now
Agreed.
Definitely agree and unfortunately it's been going on for a LONG time!
Yep
That's doesn't make it okay. Yuck!! her uncle and she can smile and talk about it as if it's fine. Only someone that says this is fine is probably doing the same thing.
She would kill the service industry. Her personality is beautiful. She could make a killer career in the industry. If she really wants a career, she could expand her knowledge and earn upwards of 6 figures. Even some fast food restaurant GMs make almost 6 figures. Here's to wishing her a huge come up at winning life.
I agree
Yeah right
Facts!
She only want peace and it’s hard to find when u r violated. The outside can play hard but the inside is a different type of pain. Geesh I’m beefing my brother now about his father molesting me.😢😢😢
I can see her pain as she is telling her story.
When you hit rock bottom and still can keep a smile, a good attitude toward yourself and life, then you may be someone special. Most people can't do that.
FACTS 💯
Totally agree
most ppl get left when they hit rock bottom. she did the leaving. kind of like leaving the help.
FACTS!
That smile is probably hiding the tears within.
I am beyond GRATEFUL AND BLESSED. I Grew up in a household with uncles, my grand dad and they were all strong black men. I was protected. I was NEVER ABUSED or MOLESTED. No childhood traumas. I am grateful for my Aunts and Grandma being loving and making me feel safe. Not many females can say this. Ive never been raped or dealt with any abuse as a child or adult. My grandma was ole school, however she didnt play. She always said "listen and talk to your children"
As a Older Brother/Uncle and 1st line of defense..hearing shit like this is sick
First of all, majority of black men do NOT SA their family members. That is a MINORITY.
First of all, majority of black men do NOT SA their family members. That is a MINORITY.
First of all, majority of black men do NOT SA their family members. That is a MINORITY.
@@darrylculbertson8313FACTS! That's That YT People S***.
She is very skilled at answering questions. Very communicable. That’s her gift. I hope she knows
She does! It like it flows so naturally out of her
Agree
She did say she choose to be homeless lol she didn’t say she was uneducated
@@samuelakasam looking around to see how this comment landed here
This is a beautiful comment I hope it finds her
This is an intelligent and articulate lil lady I pray her family sees her and get her off the streets. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Articulate? Or is it that you have low standards
Very! I wish her well
Huh???? You can't tell when drug addicts are lying...
@@CoachQ773I’m like 🤦🏻♀️ Where lol I don’t see anything intelligent here
@@lailanimessina1473 not to just dismiss her as a person but she's clearly a drug addict... Bless her heart... A horrible life... But I didn't get intelligence from this interview.... Usually that's what white people say when you just can speak as a black person... While really patronizing the person
I grew up with cousins, and some are like 10 years older. One of my female cousins that was my age 10 had a huge crush on one of our much older cousins. He was extremely handsome to her, and I use to find her gross. At ten years old she was in love with him. If he had made a sexual move on her, she would of definitely agreed. That doesn't mean she is fast, she has a childhood crush. It's normal for kids to have crushes. When I was a teenager there were little boys that were like 9-13 that had crushes on me. These children were not being fast. The adults should know that's a child. Kids have crushes on older people all the time, and that's why they need protection. They don't understand what they are feeling. No adult should look at a 10 year old child, and feel sexual towards them. That's disgusting, and people like that need to get help ASAP. Parents need to stop trusting family with little kids.
No that's creepy. I have never had a so called crush on a family member. That's not normal
@@zcam7939 I think it's nasty as well, but my cousin that was my age we didn't know her father and our other cousin's father were cousins, until much later. we thought her and her family were just family friends. My cousin my age and I are family through marriage, but she is blood related to our older cousin she had a crush on. I don't think she would of felt that way at the time if she had known.
🧢 tgats very creepy and disturbing you need parents that knows how to watch and control their children simple
Weird to say the least
Right! I remember when I was a kid one of my lil cousins had the biggest crush on me at a family reunion
That poor girl. Victim always gets blamed.
This happened to me from 2-14. I didn't know anything else. My parents were too open and so my brother and his friends thought it was ok to gruum and train me to tolerate all sorts of violent bex acts.
I reported it 3 times to officials and I was blamed and silenced each time. Punished. She let my brother and his friends take advantage of me saying boys can't control themselves and it was up to me to say no. I was half their size and autistic from recurring strep. When Planned Parenthood got involved I was told to claim rape so I didn't make them look bad, and then told to lie and say it was all me because their son was one of the offenders. So Instead, he was given Funds for college and moved out. My folks then lost their jobs in the same month. I, on the other hand, had my college grants cashed in, my inheritance signed over to them before I was 18. I was moved away to a new state, introduced to weed, alcohol and opiates to stay quiet and not be a depressed psychopath. We were homeless, so I worked to get a place for us all. Mom filed disability so it was up to me. I was then made to be the caregiver of my mom for another 7 years before I ran out into an abusive relationship. I was on and off homeless for years because I refused to move home. Whwnever I did, within 3 weeks my mother would attack me or attempt to poison me, turn my power nd heat off, raid my room, etc.
For years she attempted to ruin my reputation to cover up what happened, saying it was all my fault. All the times this happened when I was 4, 5, 8, 9, being held down by my brother and his friend... she saw it, she heard it, she caught us. But she never got them help. Instead she silenced the loud mouth saying, "this happens all the time. U don't talk about it."
For years I couldn't and even refused to defend myself. I became so low, drugged up, sleeping where I could, trying not to give the impression that I was going to sell myself like I was trained to...
But not I don't have to worry. These people prayed iwould have died on the street and not recovered... because now my mom's liver is failing and she can't gossip anymore. She doesn't even know where she is. After all that spoiling she did for them, my brother and these other boys don't give two shakes that mom is dying. They are happy about it, blaming her for everything THEY did... taking no accountability. They walked out of the situation scott-free smelling like roses. Meanwhile, I am the only one in the state so I am the one handling the care of this woman. Hospice won't cover anything cuz she did it to herself. Drank herself to death.
Now I'm clean and sober with a good job, and she isn't there to cover it up anymore. I am in my 30s and I am writing a book about all this right now called "The Boy I Called Salvation." And everyone involved is shaking in their boots trying to save face, cover up and run and hide! It feels amazing to have so many supporters, old friends who saw what was happening and couldn't speak up either. This was a neighborhood dynamic, many others going through this at home, and so it spilled over from home to home. Many broken families because of it.
A very close friend since elementary school also just finished the second showing of a play she wrote about her own story coping with this neighborhood dynamic.
"Por Lo Que Soy." By Jordanna Hernandez, showing at The Tank NYC, NY.
Good luck to anyone who has ever been through this. God bless! Everything happens for a reason! Your test is a testimony to help someone else!!!
When is your book being published? What will the author name be? Good luck with your book. Praying for your continued healing.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@7KVexus So happy you are contacting to heal and survive.
@@Sherryqueenshevisions Working out the details now, about half way through. Caregiving for my mom in her final months has taken a chunk of time.
Maisie Grace Freeman is my pseudo. I am writing anonymously due to the nature of the beast.
One of the "boys" in question has a 6 figure government job in law, as well as his wife, and are much like my mother was... do anything to cover it up, and they have many times before.
The other is well known and respected in his community, an actor and producer/writer for Indy Latin films for 15 years.
So I do this anonymously to avoid lawsuit for character defamation or liable for telling their secrets which could paint them poorly and affect their careers. I don't have a legal team, and it is a 20 year old incident, which is past statute in the state. Just publishing could get me in trouble with their legal defense, which has happened MANY times before in history when little guys accuse wealthy citizens of crimes... and it took me long enough to get on my feet after all this.
So like Sapphire who wrote Push, and Go Ask Alice, it won't be published under my given name. Got some friends helping me with all this. 😉
Thank you for your kind words. 🙏❤️
You are not alone with your testimony. The madness and victim shaming must stop.
This is the most disturbing interview that he has done so far to me. And the questions my God and him saying “I ain’t mad at it” and asking all of these questions like he getting turned on. And he called her “fast” at a young age, she was groomed , a victim and in denial. My heart breaks listening to her. She seems like she is cool and has a nice personality. I pray things work out for her.
But you watched it. You can always unsubscribe you know. Some of us that have daughters are very very interested in these conversations.
Of course I watched how else would I have been able to post my opinion without watching the video. Furthermore, who said I was subscribed? Bc I’m not lol. Move around
@@blacksilverchair3315 since you have a daughter I bet my last dollar this guy is THE LAST PERSON you would want to screen your daughter if she fell under unfortunate circumstances and trauma! If you say otherwise you a liar bruh. She needs professional help not a nigga with a camera with a perverted sense of humor with a cringe laugh.
EXACTLY, I think this guy gets some sick pleasure asking these questions and getting them to talk about.
@@DrShake-wy1dg I agree with you.
Don’t force them to answer a question. Don’t say “you might as well say it”. Let them tell their story on their own time
Yes they be feeling pressure at some point.
Agreed
Literally extremely cringe. Very demeaning and awful interviewing. Constantly cutting off the interviewee mid response. He needs to go back to the drawing board…
Don’t watch the yt channel clown
That's what leads me to say it's creepy and exploitive
You can see the goodness in her. She is a beautiful person I hope she makes it through these tough times.
Her honesty is hard to swallow, but I give her credit for talking about it.
May God Bless her...
He didn't help her when she was 10, why would he help her now?
Clearly she’s blocked out the situation with her uncle and told herself that she wanted it, so that she can mentally deal with being abused.
That's ur opinion. But you heard it from 'the horse's mouth" ..
@@RedemptionPsalmsa child can't consent weirdo u exposing yourself
Exactly because as a family member and an adult, her uncle was dead ass wrong. Period.
Not all abuse feels horrible, point-in-case, but it still abuse. The adult was in the wrong as she was too young.
Honestly, when you go through that type of situation, you DO start wanting it. It's all you know & your hormones are fresh, so it feels good even though it's wrong. It's a weird phenomenon. It's not that she wanted it with HIM. I think that's what people are not understanding. She wanted it because it felt good. He was just a body that was willing to do it to her. It's a natural desire that's hard to learn to control when you first go through puberty. TMI, but I used to hump my stuffed teddy bear when I first got my period & not know why. Same concept. No one ever talks about it, but I remember discovering things about my body that adults would never feel comfortable talking about with me. If I had a man taking advantage of me, I would have considered myself "fast" as well... because I liked the feeling of it... but that would be terrible because we're not old enough to understand what we're doing at that age or what consequences our actions might produce. We just know it feels good. Luckily, I have a mother that taught me about older men & told me to tell her if someone ever tried to touch me on my privates, so I was able to avoid the ones trying it with me. I have encountered a lot of them though. 2 were even at school.
She’s so beautiful inside and out. I feel so bad for her. She thinks that she was the reason for her uncle’s abuse. She doesn’t even realize that she is a victim. I know things will go great for her in the future because she has a good heart and she laughs even though she’s been through so much🩷🩷🩷🩷🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This how you and your friends gone end up if y'all don't stop trying to be city girls
I think her parents feel guilty because they did not protect her, so it is easier just to blame her and have nothing to do with her. She clearly was a victim and the sad part is that she doesn't realize it and until she gets therapy and accepts that, I don't think she will ever be able to get herself together.
I was saying the same thing u can tell she’s gonna be okay…
He took advantage of her and she still thinks it's her fault 💔 if it wasn't her it would've been someone else's child.
@@InTheCarWithKamio11what are you even talking about?
Dearheart you were not promiscuous at 10 years old. He was wrong, period point blank. It was not your fault or brought it upon yourself. A 10 year old child could NEVER want that.
True indeed 💯
Since she has that mind frame..do you think its a threat to the young boys who rooms she shares? While being up at all times of night. Hurt people hurt people.
Or does it not matter cause the child is a young horny male and more than likely wants it..then grows to think it's ok..to many cape crusaders allow the obvious to go unnoticed out of being cowards but point fingers at others while there men themselves that have been or know another who has been through the same.
@@Blee-wc1dg absolutely
@@Blee-wc1dg wot? I don't understand wot u mean
This woman is amazing. She would be a wonderful nurse. Her smile, personality, wit, and intelligence would bring happiness to the most downtrodden patient. She's quite humble and doesn't blame her homelessness on others. I have 23 years on this lovely woman, and she could be my life coach.
That is so sad. She still seems like a child. Her uncle was probably the one who got her into being curious before she can remember, which is why she was so attached and attracted to him by 10/11. Her uncle being with her from a child to an adult proves that her family has more secrets than just her and her uncle’s. May God bless and protect her children
I know of a woman whose hubby sa her kids by making them tou h him. He was putting his mouth on his daughter before she was 1 years old.
@@megamoneyk🤬🤬🤬🥺🥺💔💔💔
Stop making excuses. She did it because she enjoyed it. She said it was consensual.
@@marvelprofessor6324 bro she was 10 when it started wtf
@@liz_loves_cats and?
THIS IS A PERSON THAT HAS A WHOLE LOT OF POTENTIAL. I believe she will be okay.
She is an intelligent, attractive young lady. Her childhood experience with her uncle is impacting her choices in men. This isn't coming from a place of judgment...but from a love of my people. I'm praying for her to thrive.
Huh?
Exactly, she is lost because of him
@ericpowell4350 you don't agree with what he said. Trying to find out what is confusing?
Hope she reads these comments and gain some insight.
Well said, well said, she is our sister, no matter what, let us pray for her, because truth be told we all have things we must repent from,
She's a beautiful soul whose been hurt but doesn't acknowledge it. I pray that her path straightens and footsteps be blessed❤
I hate she blames herself I also love that she holds herself accountable when she knew it wasn’t right. I think deep down inside she knows it wasn’t her fault but makes it easier to accept her role in it. Poor baby!!! I love her energy, her spirit and charisma.
You need to be accountable for what you do. Something women must relearn nowadays
A real man and real woman admitted the mistakes and bad decisions they make.This is where change and maturity and growth starts, improving one's life.
@@marshalljulie3676I mean you can look at the scenario in a lot of ways especially being an adult. As a child it doesn't matter; nothing a child does should advertise or warrant for a grown ass male or female to pursue a child in any shape or form; that's nasty. Again, I like that she owned her part
@@gregoryhitchcock5258 I wholeheartedly concur
You should learn from your mistakes and bad decisions from when you are a kid also.
She’s pleasant and speaks very well .Would be great for a customer service Job
Facts
She can make it
Yes! She's so bubbly and personable despite everything
This interview brought me to tears, she's such a beautiful person inside and out. I pray things turn around for her soon. Keep your head up mama.
Initiate sex at 10? Really? That was sexual abuse? A 10 year old cannot consent...this lady is in DENIAL.
She's someone that never got any therapy and she's come to believe all of the nonsense that other simple minded black people have told her.
It's her story
@@truth2powermillions400A 10 year old cannot consent! That is a fact. It doesn't take away from her story. It makes her retelling tragic. She doesn't even realize she was backwashed. That SHOULD be easy to understand.
Yh it sounds like he fully groomed her no way a 20+ year old can be attracted to somebody that young
Stop being ignorant saying a 10 yr old can’t be curious or can not initiate sex but you are watching the young crash and burn by killing each other over clout heavy drug use sex parties and organized crime these are children between 9 and 17. They run the country and yet they don’t know what they are doing
What big beautiful eyes she has and seemingly a big heart to match. She speaks well also.
The interviewer sucks. He won’t stop interrupting her to talk about himself. I’d love to hear her just tell her story.
I agree
Her eyes are beautiful for sure. I hope she gets the help she needs.
That's why I kept my kids away from family on both sides!!! So my kids don't even know them!!! My husband and I have great relationships with them and ALWAYS spoke on letting them know NO ONE should touch you or talk about anything sexual!! Let us know and we'll take care of it!! They are young adults now and we still say it!! You get so paranoid as parents!! But they they haven't been molested, s*x assaulted!! Not bragging!! Just giving advice to others!! If your kids are around family and their friends, no sleepovers, no leaving them in the house with anyone not EVEN 10 minutes!!! Female/male cousins, uncles aunts, next door neighbors!!
Facts.
I m just like u but keeping them from having an extending family is another level dear
I absolutely think there should be open communication but I also think its a lot of pressure to think that a child who is confused and embarrassed to have to come to an adult and recount their abuse , so to take some of the pressure off every night for 17 years my son and I talk about his day before bed , we talk about what he did ,who he encountered that day and I ask if there was anything that happened that hurt or upset him , so he wouldn't have to try to figure out how to bring it up , thank GOD nothing has happened to him and I also let him know that its not his job to worry about me or his dad because often times abusers threaten to hurt others.
Yes keep your babies safe no matter what age they are 💯 getting touched on will literally ruin your life when you get older
Could not agree more. My children do not know my extended family on either side. The generational curse of perversion breaks with my children.
Its gone work out mama... her spirit is so beautiful ❤
Sometime angels go through tough times to earn their wings. She's an angel.
❤
He let his own shock and curiosity get the best of him during this interview.
Fact’z
Totally.💯
On gawd, I thought he was going to ask "Did yall film it".... damn boi
Exactly I didn’t like it
Yes it was very uncomfortable and his spirit was not right
Such an open honest lady. She is very pleasant and hasn't given up on life. I pray she finds a job or goes back to school. I hope she gets her truth fixed, I believe that's all that's holding her back.
If you think she's honest, your discernment is severely lacking.
@@leroygreen9227right 😂😂 she's clearly a habitual liar
Yall going off her light skin, innocent voice, and cute smile. That shit doesn't mean nothing. She will have you butt naked in the street broke and in the rain lol
Her Uncle’s age does not add up! He was NOT in his 20s! She slipped and said he died in his 50s or 60s, which means he was in his 30s or 40s when he started grooming and molesting his own Niece at age 10! 🙄🤮
It’s a very unfortunate and sick mess! She needs extensive healing and deliverance. Blessings to her children and the Grandparents caring for them in safety. 🙏🏾
50 minus 25 (she was 10 and is now 35 so that is 25 years) equals 25. Not that it justifies anything because him crossing that line to begin with is qualifiable of a shortened life anyways, but I was just gettin the math correct on how he could’ve been in his 20’s😊
Late 20’s
Damn how could you sleep with your brother or sister's kid 😮😮😮😮that's some crazy sh-t, I don't care how good she looks, find something or someone besides them😮God have mercy on them, 😮
@@irwinthomas3665how can you find someone good looking at age 10? 🤨
Right
I don't often feel badly for some people in this situation, but her story got to me. I don't know if anyone else can see the pain and sadness in her eyes. People like Parris deserves a second chance at life. I think if given the opportunity, she would do well. Good luck out there for you Parris.
@@eddieh3580 well of course, I am referring specifically to her current situation. Don’t try to make this about me or you for that matter.
You're like her uncle🐷
I'm sorry, but I don't care what y'all think, I love her spirit and energy...it's contagious. That's the kind of energy you love waking up to.
Don't care what you think either
You love to wake up to something like that like her ?
She came from a home with both parents! But was totally violated & brainwashed by someone she thought she could trust!! And for some reason made her think it’s her fault! She was a child. With all she’s been thru, she’s still very positive, speaks well! I pray someone will truly help her mental state to get her back on track! She’s still a light in her darkness! Keep your head up beautiful!! ❤
I so agree. I am a raped survivor my mom's Boyfriend at 8yrs old. I'm 43 now still healing
You're healed just forgive him and you'll be happy with free hearted spirit. Much love for you 🥰🥰❤🥰🥰🥰
@@janicetatum3067You're Blessed and Healed, ok
Having a home with both parents isn't always better either one or both can be abusive.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It’s something about her that I ABSOLUTELY love. Her incredible spirit and tenacity throughout going through her journey is just amazing. Sis I’m praying for you and your continued healing and strength and peace and happiness and prosperity! I want you to know you were a victim of sexual assault. I know you feel like you may have wanted it but it may be Stockholms Syndrome. Not trying to diagnose you at all but just throwing it out there. Unfortunately, we have a similar journey. Much Love. ❤
It is because she still has the spirit of that 10 year old child that her uncle took advantage of.
Femininity
She is awesome. She’ll be fine in the end.
I can relate to her experience, it’s not easy to live with, I had a female relative that SA me at 7yrs old she was 14yrs same activities. I never told anyone or confronted her when I got older. I was pissed off at one time because I realized how it effected my marriage and other relationships. I had to do a lot of work on myself to get where I am. I’ve forgiven her and moved on from the past. I purpose is to tell this so others will look out for the children out her, and also it doesn’t happens to young girls young boys get effected as well. I congratulate this young woman’s spirit and how she conducted herself in this interview, she is very strong , I send her love and many blessings her way.🙏🏾❤️👊🏽💯👏🏾
Good shit, brotha. Glad you’re doing well. That which doesn’t kill us…you know the rest. 💯
@@Greg-xi8yx Appreciate that Brother and I definitely know the rest💪🏾♥️🌎👊🏽
@@MelCrosbyAs A Man I Am Curious To Know How It Effected You
It's so sad that she still doesn't realize she was a victim and that it has affected her life negatively, I honestly hope she gets help so she can heal and become healthy 🙏
It's perfectly natural for a man to be attracted to a girl I say at the age of 12 or 13 it is not attractive for a blood relative to be attracted to his blood relative.
Yeah ok Dr. Jill
So you think It's sad because she doesn't feel like she was a victim ?
@@lionheart4552 She is not a victim, she enjoyed it. Stop trying to create a victim. Shes doesnt need help
@@scripteaze Read my post again.
It’s crazy how you feel like the uncle isn’t responsible for his perversion and taking advantage of a 10 yr old girl.
Shyyyd, he should be erased if you know what I mean...I have some people on my daddy side that I wouldn't trust around none of my kids
@@Pookie_Poo843
Everyone has those certain members in they family that you instinctively know YOU DON'T LEAVE NO KIDS AROUND THEM
It's really quite sad
Taking advantage of a 10 or 11 year old is disgusting, but a 10 or 11 year old actively looking for it will find a taker 100% of the time. That’s why I put the responsibility on my children to stay in their lane and take responsibility for their actions regardless of their age.
@@kingwillie206 She didn't go looking for it until he introduced it to her and that is usually how they discover when toddlers who can't even talk have been sexually molested because they start rubbing on themselves trying to re-create that feeling that the abuser produced in their bodies. A 10 year old cannot take responsibility for a grown man bringing her body pleasure to the point that her body craved it and I feel sorry for your children if you think that they are responsible for the actions of an adult who instead of taking advantage of a promiscuous child who is that way because they have been abused, should be reporting it to the authorities to investigate why the child is behaving that way.
@@LL-zw2qb - That’s NOT what she said though. And adults don’t need to introduce anything. A girl named Angela pulled her pants down in front of me in preschool and all I could think about doing was what my body was telling me to do. D*ck was harder than blue steel and we were both 4. We are pre-programmed from birth to procreate and it’s the opposite of what you are claiming. It takes adult intervention to hide it from us and protect us from the responsibility and repercussions of it. Without societal norms taught by the media and our families we would all be experimenting with sex at random ages based on introduction from our peers whether perverts existed or not.
Wow! Marcus, you asked her why do she think she was so fast at a young age??? She was GROOMED and a CHILD! Sometimes, your line of questioning is a bit strange and creepy, with all due respect.
Agreed! And well said.
She said she thought she was fast. He asked why she thought that-empathetically even. Like how does a child think that 😌
Wow the man that took that innocence away from her! We really be expecting this man to magically think & be like us as women. I get frustrated listening, can’t imagine being out there, watching your back & having to appeal to the comment section for not perfecting every aspect of every interview. Y’all ever catch they’re usually “working” & this is the common underlying issue.
Totally agree
No respect at ALL. His behind is a pervert!! Black pedophiles are so common that the black community even let SICKOS like this ONE make videos…smh!!
She said it first. Then he asked later on. But she initially said that she wanted it..and uncle was willing. Yeah..unc groomed her into believing she wanted..then had her to believe he was giving her what she asked for.
Praying for this women, God bless her.
She will find her way back. She will be phenomenal in whatever path she chooses. Along the way she will be a motivation and inspiration to others. Years from now she will look back at this video and see how far she’s come. I speak this in to existence for her. Sending nothing but love and light her way!!!
Please keep up with her, I really would like to see her progress & WIN!
Not only does she have a dynamic personality, she could easily start her own gymnastics classes, even if it starts at rec center or meet ups in a park. Maybe a "Mommy & Me" gymnastics class?
If Dianna created "Dancing Dollz", Parris can do the same!
I hope she seeing this comment for motivation!
This could very well be the case, but parents deserve to know if she has a significant police record. I’m not saying she doesn’t deserve a chance, but people should know who they are sending their kids too. There’s probably more to her story than she’s telling. Why can’t she find a job? Something else is holding her back.
I hate that she blamed herself, whether she was curious or not its up up to the adult to set you straight and have their own self control.She has a really sweet personality, and was very honest. I hope she gets it together.
Yes I hope she gets help
what if Im blind folded and some child is giving me head. I completely finish, take the blindfold off and see that it's a child. What do i do next? and why?
Yes, this part!!!!!
The saddest part is the girl seems really sweet and actually well spoken, so it's apparent she had schooling and descent parents to raise her. This young woman could do so much more with her life and I pray she does ❤🙏🏼
How can this kind of elegance be reproduce on a massive scale? I've honestly never seen so much promise, love and selflessness in anyone and at that point where most people would have given up hope, trust LOVE. We argue over the simple question of "What is a woman"? She is a woman she is amazing and I do believe more people would follow that kind of heart and energy. I am truly sadden by any misfortunes that fall upon any beings big and small. I want to learn how to remain pure at heart until the end, I hope I will possess that trait one day soon. Thank you for your testimony, in truly grateful to heart your story.
She has great insight and seems to be an honest person. I enjoyed her interview.
She’s actually really dope! Went through all of that and still positive bro and so transparent! I wish her the best in her journey.
Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This a crazy story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lord, how did the family not put 2 and 2 together man!!! 20 yr old uncle always hanging out with the 10 yr old niece.
There’s something very sweet about this lady. I wish her a lot of luck🙏🏽🤞🏽❤
He was an adult , she was a child. Sometimes I wonder about you, with the type of questions you ask. And you have kids too. You’re suspect
Listen to 17:30-17:32 mark 😮
truth be told i low key think he gets off on these videos. Ive seen a couple now and hes always kind of rude and always ask about the sexual stuff. Notice he never tells her she was a victim or none of that
remember this comment watch its all gonna come out. Also dont forget he pays them
I live here in Atl and have heard he only gave some $10.00, he takes some back to his home and even had sex with them! I have heard he treat who he want with Respect and even have body guards that are very rude to the people who try and fight back! He is Very Suspect 🤔
In one video I heard a chick say “can I get my money now” or something like that so I can confirm that
@@nikib-garrett6578heard, but do you know this for sure? Give us facts. I think he is a pervert but I will not accuse him based on what I heard.
Good interview! I hope things turn around for this Sister. She seems accountable and receptive to insight. Hopefully she'll stay positive & find the job that fits her. I wish her the best! 🙏🏾
This was hard to watch as a fellow csa/grooming survivor. She is a good person with a lot of grieving to do and I hope she finds a good therapist and gets the healing and stability and peace she deserves.
*10 year olds can not consent
*As a mother she should know better
*Adultifying children is socially irresponsible, even if it's yourself
Most importantly children shouldn't be left in her care given her thought process.
Seems like she is stuck at a traumatic stage in her life rather she realizes it or not.
Absolutely. This dude is weird
@@yahya4370it’s definitely a coping mechanism deep down I’m sure she knows what happened shouldn’t have happened at that age it’s practically written all over her face
Facts
@@ralphwiggum1982 exactly, and to know he passed away leaving an apology within his will.. He knew what did was wrong.. even if he loved her it wasn’t supposed to be in that way..
She's not blaming other people when she says she trusts people too much. She is saying that she has an issue putting her trust into the wrong people. She's not blaming them she's blaming herself for trusting them in the first place.
Nicely said. 💯
She blaming herself but she was baby. This sad AF
Life ain't broke her spirit but With Her attitude and outlook on life she still has a chance to turn it around.Dam Shame the undeserved burdens people go thru
She has a super sweet personality. I think she should start her own UA-cam channel and tell all stories. I’ll definitely subscribe to her channel!
Hell yea I wanna subscribe to her throat
Wow 😮 my husband and I went to Tri-Cities too. She graduated with him in 07’ I just showed this to him 😢. Our hearts ❤️ go out to her.
Tell him I said hi
@@ParrisPushingPassHey beautiful
@@ParrisPushingPassI hope you are well and in good spirits. I hope you've read through the comments and understand that no matter how curious and willing you were, it was his job as the adult to push and keep you away.
I hope that you understand that nothing that occurred was your fault.
I hope you've read through the comments and seen all the advice, how much support, how many people are sending love and prayers your way.
And I hope you know your survival story is inspirational because despite whatever pain you may have internally your delivery is full of hope, kindness and raw genuineness.
I hope you find a therapist that provides a safe haven so that you can heal.
And I pray that you get all the blessings you deserve times two.
She's beautiful. Very articulate. Her eyes are big and gorgeous. It's just her teeth. Glad she's getting them fixed. And that she accepts accountability. Never straying from her part of it
Send her money to get them fixed.....
I learned recently that tooth decay and bone issues occuring in women during pregnancy.
Accountable for what? You are a sick person. She was 10. He groomed her. The hell you talkin about? She needs therapy so she can get back on track. God this world is sick!!!!
Omg!!! I'm sad this was my childhood friend! We did gymnastics together! She was a beast in gymnastics! A great soul!! I need to find her!
She is so beautiful and very well spoken. She has the potential to see Greatness beyond her imagination! I pray she gets on her feet!
Total denial even at her age now, she was violated and sexual assaulted
Yes and she has Stockholm Syndrome and it kind of seems creepy because the questions that he asked them he never offers them any reference to getting the mental help. He just digs deep and has him relieved the trauma that they experienced. He should have let her know that it was not her fault and that she was a A child and a child under the age of eighteen can never consent to intimate Relations without it being raped or molestation
@@thechroniclesofel4268 💯
Children can't consent
@@thechroniclesofel4268it’s updates on the channel if you’re being genuine. Some are in their addiction & it’s only so much one man can do. I don’t think he’s a therapist either. Opening the dialogue & being out there, I imagine, could allow you to go out there and offer more help-a more feminine approach. We can all play a part in what we see “unfit” about what others are doing ig 💪🏾🥰 we can offer him a diff way to ask, one that’s somehow universally appealing!
I know bless her heart. Her uncle was PIECE OF 💩 PEDOPHILE!!!!
In my whole life, Every female I've ever met has been "SA'd" by a family member, family friend, or even teachers/counselors growing up, myself included & it's sad... It contibutes Allot to the mental instability of our race & keeps us in the downward spiral were can't escape. I pray for Everyone who this has ever happened to 🙌🏽💕✨
And what's worse is when they blame us for it happening!
Every Female u ever met huh?…🧢.
@@74WILDCATMEDIA80% of black girls by the time they reach 18 have all experience a form of sexual violence. You niggas never wanna hear the truth… that’s why this nasty cycle continues
Every female you ever met ? Truthfully
Definitely not only our race thing. And ive never been assaulted
Bless her heart! She has a good spirit. I hope she gets her life back on track.
This beautiful young lady has an amazing spirit and personality 😊. She is definitely an open book. May God continue to watch over her precious soul 😊🙏💜....
I wish her well. This is why I don't leave my daughter around any men. Family or not, I'm not playing when it come to my daughter. It's also why it's important to have good fathers present in the household, parents notice subtle things other people might miss.
Don't trust women either😢😢
@@ddlove6531THIS
Right...women...and even some fathers.
Not many men will do that to a innocent child, but I feel you. Better be safe than sorry.
My dad was raped by his babysitter who was a girl. You can't trust anyone
Being homeless sucks n I'm currently going thru it now due to health issues but i keep praying, staying strong, and keep a positive mind so as being kind no matter what.
So i wish her the best nothing but the best 🙏🏾💯
“We’re not a family, family…” we don’t communicate. And this is why I feel people end up in situations like this. 🙏🏾
I hope she reads these comments. She has a lot of support from so many people, and I truly hope she will be OK. She has a beautiful spirit. Much respect to her.
This gave me chills, she was 10!! She think this was her fault!! Anyway I LOVE her eyes, it’s a lot of pain behind those eyes but her eyes are still beautiful, she’s beautiful as can be
Praying for you mama. You’re beautiful, articulate, and your light is bright.
She is very well spoken!
She is such a beautiful soul. 🎉 Shout-out to her for controlling her emotions and being able to be real
God has kept her through all shes endured. May he take her to heights and protect her sweet soul. Ptaying for you sister, much love!!!!
She low-key beautiful. It's in her spirit. Her smile. Her energy. And life does throw stones...just gotta take them as they come and never falter. I felt this video. I wish her the best.
The WHOLE FAMILY AND COMMUNITY failed her. Sending her love and money because she has kept a light in such a dark place. God bless her!
God, I just love her energy and she seems so genuine. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Praying for you, Kayla. This breaks my heart so bad.
OMG, she's beautiful, intelligent and articulate. She may have come out of a ridiculously bad situation with the uncle, but there's so much here, she's worth so much more than just being stranded on the street, truly hope she gets the right type of help and can get her life going in a better direction.
She’s a pretty girl with a sweet soul. Wish the best for her.
Go ahead and smile, you are beautiful! Flaws and all, stay true to yourself sweetheart!
She’s so articulate and got good energy! She was messed up at a young age it’s so sad ! She will get better for sure with her mindset
Her energy is everything. I pray everything works out!
She has great energy. I wish her the best!! Hopefully God lifts her up.
God bless this lady hopefully she finds the help that she needs !!
I feel for her so deeply. She's broken and doesn't realize it. GOD bless her life in the future. She needs deliverance from her past. She needs a home so she can get her kids back hopefully. Help her to find a job. She seems like a sweet, kind soul who has been through hell and back. I hope she knows that GOD loves her. GOD please bless her 🙏🙏
She gone make it! Her personality is everything ❤❤❤❤ Please follow her story 🙏🏽
I wish this lady all the best, sometimes things in life come on our paths and derail us...I can tell with the right support and genuine people who love her for her can help her elevate ..she gas a great personality..
I actually met her at a bus stop in Dunwoody Georgia about two months ago. We exchanged numbers and had a few conversations before everything fell off. She's a sweet person. I had no idea about this though.
Yooo I remember her too bro. At the same damn train station at dat. Shawty cool asf and we lost touch but I would look out for her cuz she was dat cool
@@uptownshawty396 Yes she was. I wish we would've stayed in touch but she had other things going on. Yes, she's a sweetie pie!!!
I admire her honesty. She just needs a support to see her way forward. I think she has a bright future because she went through so much. I pray a new door open for her. Trying so hard against the odds. Good interview.
I like this honest, sweet, very pretty, young lady. Well spoken, educated, and speaks truth.
She does have a nice personality. Sweet woman and I hope everything works out for her. I’d tip her really good as well.
Too nice. People like this get taken advantage of.
THIS IS WHAT TRAUMA LOOKS LIKE. I am a therapist and sexual abuse survivor and I very rarely write comments. I was both deeply saddened by her story and inspired by her resilience. She is doing what many trauma survivors do...she blames herself. She says she was promiscuous. She says she wore leotards all the time. She says she wanted it and so she lies to herself. Its called defense mechanisms. Humans try to make sense of the senseless by blaming themselves. She was and IS innocent. This is one of the most devastating effects of trauma....self-blame, shame, and self-betrayal. A 10 year old only knows about secs if they are introduced to it. He is an abuser and even after his death she still protects him while no one protects her. She sacrificed herself like her family sacrificed her. They shame girls to protect the demon, then tell her to do better because they don't want to face the truth about how her innocence was stolen. I pray that when she learns the TRUTH that her abuse was not LOVE, that she is able to free herself of herself, reclaim her innocence and grieve her lost childhood, and put the accountability on the adults who did nothing to keep her safe all while putting the pieces of her life back together. I send her so much love and gratitude for having the courage to tell her story. ❤️
Sounds like she needs YOU to talk to her.
Dayum, a therapist and survivor... You probably give horrible advice.
@walkerenterprise1764 you might need some therapy, because then you'd undertake what it means to be a survivor and that therapist DO NOT GIVE ADVICE, they give tools to help people become better, heal better, and live better. 😊
@ExpertInMind
‘..a ten year old only knows about secs if…’
What.. are you serious?
You don’t think their natural curiosity and understanding about how the world works has given them some knowledge if not only by observing nature????
What about having explored their own body by age ten.. and most likely being able to come to terms with and accept the fact that they have genitalia… ??
Now let’s start factoring in kids observing other humans behaviour, couples, parents, grandparents.. male/female affection.. now let’s factor in some truthful answers from adults to their curious questions.. now external factors like school, secs Ed, other kids, media…. absolutely delusional to make a statement like that and call yourself an Expert…
I’m not suggesting for a second it’s her fault. I’m suggesting you’re not an expert..
LMFAOOOOOOO
A beautiful sister inside, and out. May THE MOST HIGH bless you sis. This is your brother from Texas.
She’s in denial, having no awareness this situation derailed her entire life!
Yep
Kinda arrogant to think you know more about someone than they know about themself
@@Bonzeaux_BleuxgreneI’m guessing your an uncle who thinks it’s ok to do stuff as long as they want to too 🤔
It's not that she's in denial. If you listened clearly she said trusting people is what got her where she is. She knows exactly what changed her course in life she just tries to keep a positive mindset through everything.
1) She's on something.
2) She's trying to defend her image of someone she once trusted or looked up to. Her Uncle.
3) She's trying to provide a "out" for why other adults didn't protect her better.
4) She might have left her own children around that uncle, or saw other kids with him after she was older, and is trying to make it sound less likely that they might have been abused by him also, because she feels guilty for not protecting others.
She wasn’t “fast”. He GROOMED her. That’s how predators work. They gain the child’s trust and make them loyal to them to the point that the child sees everyone else as the enemy. My heart breaks for her and other young girls like her.
LMFAOOOOO
Her own words ..did you not hear what she said? Not what you want her to say ..but what she is actually saying out of her mouth....I'm not condoning it ..just actually listening to her statement...it is what it is ..not what you want to make it.
@@PETKel-m6n shes just jealous she didnt have an uncle like that lol
you here making troll comments on a SA video, dude go outside lol@@lonewolftrucker3955
Right, and when she got too old for his tastes he wanted to stop 🤢