My boyfriend said If you can't handle period cramps, how do you expect me to build a family with you
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"My boyfriend said, 'If you can't handle period cramps, how do you expect me to build a family with you?
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Okay the fact that she talked about getting comments like "how did you not know you were going to be on your period, you're old enough to know better" really pissed me off!
Not all women have predictable cycles!
Especially if you have something like PCOS, that comes with unpredictable periods AND very heavy bleeding.
Not to mention it turns out she was pregnant, so of course had no way of knowing she'd start bleeding from a miscarriage!
However, even if she hadn't been miscarrying, you can't help when you start freaking bleeding.
"True, my periods never come on time. The cycle always changes."
Bro I was literally about to comment the same. Not only that there is alot that can make a cycle unpredictable. And that's not even the point?? Like the way he treated her was absolutely horrendous, but "oh wahhh she didn't pay attention to when her period was going to come( she still did)"
This. But also the way he treated he in general is not okay. If she is in pain, it doesn’t matter the reason, your partner should try to help and take care of you. Not verbally abuse you for something you can’t control.
This 💯
He literally said “if I had known” she didn’t even know she was miscarrying even so why was that his reaction to his girlfriend in pain. He yelled about his sheets being stained with blood that’s the breaking point. Girl he doesn’t love you like he says he does. The moment something happens that annoys him he’s going back to what he did the day of the miscarriage…
True 💖
Really, I feel like it should be taken as "okay, we're broken up then" the moment you find out someone blocked you on their phone and social media.
Because he wanted her to do exactly what she did, work and grovel for his forgiveness when she didn't actually do anything wrong.
Even if it was just a heavy period instead of a miscarriage, you can't help it if you start bleeding. You can't help if you're in pain.
That's like being mad at someone for having a kidney stone or a nose bleed.
No one needs mental and verbal and emotional abuse. How are women so desensitized to that crap? Abuse escalates, it usually starts with emotional abuse and it slips under the radar.
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She needs to realize that he will NEVER change, that is what he actually thinks and feels and those kinds of people belong in the trashcan. She sounds like a victim of abuse, she tries to justify her boyfriends actions and act as she is going to confront him in some way but still ends up being the one apologizing and never really resolve anything...is she still alive btw? These cases never ends up happy...
She left him , as per last update .
Yeah I feel bad for saying it since she was clearly hearbroken by her miscarriage, but it's probably lucky that she didn't end up having his baby.
Because I doubt he'd treat a child better. Especially if it was a girl. Would he yell at her when she's older if she has difficult or heavy periods?
His twin sister even said that he did similar things to her since they were kids, so this is how he's grown up learning it's okay to treat the people in his life.
There’s no way way people are blaming her for not knowing when her period 💀 some people have fucking abnormal cycle but they don’t seem to have enough brain cells to think about it the fact everyone is different.
True.
Stories like this one make me realize some girlies just can't be saved
You just specked my mind !
It's amazing how many people see something on the internet and immediately assume it's legit and actually happened.