Opposite Gender Friendships | Dating, GF/BF, Relationships | Javed Ahmad Ghamidi
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This is called point right through on point. No judgements, no harshness or swinging on extremes, just simple explanation of principles with it's personal and individual scope and preferences ...
Mashallah !! Concise explanation on such an important issue. Stay blessed my teacher 🙏 !!
جزاک اللہ ❤
بہت اعلیٰ ❤
سبحان اللہ. اللہ کرم میں رکھیں.
Very nice explanation..
Jazakallah...
Assalamualaikum Ghamidi Sahib
Great advice.
Jazakallah khairan kaseera
All the respect to Ustaad Ghamidi Sahab. His logic and clarity is on point. And I am in no position to debate with or in any capacity to challenge his intellect and research. Neither am I qualified to educate any person on a religious matter. But I believe, unfortunately for those who have been through a little experience with these things, and who are also trying to understand Deen can testify how dangerous this situation is and what is the potential for problems such as immorality, heartbreak, and suffering that lies on this path.
The guidelines for gender segregation that have been passed down by ulema and scholars has been inferred from the Quran, Sunnah, and life of Sahabah.
With parda, and the limits on gender mixing, it can seem extremist, but indeed it has a lot of hikmah and beauty in it. It protects our izzat and ismat in the best way. I believe we just have to understand, accept and give in to it whole heartedly to understand its benefits.
Indeed Islam doesn't prohibit love and emotions, rather it encourages affection and liking between people going in to a bond of marriage. But one should exercise this wish only through the prescribed way of the shariah, and that is nikkah, and that too immediately and not to be delayed. Delaying it unnecessarily leads to intense confusion and frustration, in many cases. And parents and guardians/wali should be involved right at the beginning of the interest.
Just my two cents on the matter. Coming from a little bit of personal experience.
And in my experience, whenever I have seen myself or people I know deviate from the sayings or suggestions of the prophet Muhammad (SAW), we oppress ourselves. In light of this matter, there is a tradition in which our dear Prophet (SAW) has reported to have advised that a man and woman should not be together in seclusion, as the third one with them at that time would be Shaytan. We think we have control over ourselves and our thoughts, but Shaytan is waiting for us to slip ever so slightly and then it pushes us down a slippery slope which throws us in a pit of shame. So I believe we should hold tightly to this advice, as does a child hold its mother's hand to seek comfort in an unfamiliar place.
Well said . Modernist movement is in full swing . May Allah protect us from fitnas
@@logicalindian9227 Ameen brother
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Islam is a modern religion compared to Hinduism, Buddhism, Judaism and Christianity. Let's leave Islam and adopt one of these , as these are 'older' and Islam is Modern...😂
Muslims complaining about "modern interpretation" don't realise that they are hurting their own case.
What is present in the Qur'an or Sunnah is deen, what isn't, is not. If 'Hijab' or 'parda' was a part of deen, why aren't these words used by Rasoolullah, either in the Quran or in his ahaadees ?
It is a foreign concept to Islam which became mainstream. Just like Christians started worshipping Christ, but he never taught it.
Just as it is very easy to claim divinity for Jesus by reading some lines from the Bible, so too can 'hijab' and 'parda' be easily proven from the Qur'an, if a person *_WANTS_* to do so.
@@DwindlingLamp oldest religion is pantheism.
اعلی جزاک اللہ❤
جزاک اللٰہ
Allah bless Ghamidi sahab
How can one save himself or herself from adultery after being exposed to opposite gender. At least a man couldn't restrain himself from arousal of sexual desire when interacted to a proactive sexy lady.
He was saying kaam k silsilay main
bohat khoob
Excellent reply
❤ماشاء الله تبارك الله
جب دوستی کے جذبات پیدا ہوں گے تو پھر بات آگے ضرور ہی بڑھے گی اسلئے بہتر ہے کہ تعلق رکھا ہی نہ جائے۔ نہ رہے گا بانس نہ بجے گی بانسری ۔
yani janwar ban jain
Aur madrasay main jaa kar bachon say badd faelli karo astaghfirullah
Isi sadd-e-zariya ki rok-thaam k liye parday ka or gender-wise separate gathering ka ehtemam nihayat zaruri hai. Islam ka mizaaj bhi isi liye parday k hawalay se strict maloom hota hai, ye is liye mushkil lagta hai k bohot se logon ki poori ki poori zindagi be-pardegi or be-hijaabi k us environment me guzri jahan grandparents se le ker her taraf ek wild muashirah dekha. Creator ki batai hui boundaries k comparison me to yaqeenan ye wild environment hi hai. Mazeed ye k agar aam logon k ilawa koi showbiz se wabasta hai jahan beauty ko sale kerna hi core job hai to Woh log to aam wild society se bhi do hath (2 levels) neechay giray huye hain. Lihaza jab kisi ko ye ehsas or taufeeq milti hai k us ko apnay Khaaliq / Perverdigaar k taleem-kerda formula k mutabiq zindagi guzarni hai or Jannat kamani (earn kerni) hai to yaqeenan us ko shuru me bohot ajeeb lagay ga or painful bhi lekin jis terha koi bohot buri addiction ko chhornay k shuru me mushkilaat or pereshani hoti hai usi terha se feel hoga kuch arsay me ye pain bhi khatam ho jaye ga Allah ki madad se.
Shart bus yehi hai k purely or honestly is ki koshish kerni hai or ye yaqeen rakhna hai k creator ki aqal se creature ki samajh or aqal ka koi comparison possible hi nahi ho sakta.
Is treatment k dauraan environmental change ki bohot zarurat hoti hai jis se hum ko sudhernay me support or help milti hai. Jis terha drug addict jab quit kernay lagay to us ko baqi Nasha kernay walon ki gathering ko avoid kerna zaruri hai usi terha apnay environment me practising people ki gathering rakhna zaruri hoga.
جو چیز یں شریعت میں ممنوع اور حرام ہوتی ہے تو اسکے ساتھ ان چیزوں کو بھی حرام اور ممنوع قرار دیا جاتا ہے جو اسکا سبب بنتی ہیں
Mobile phone nd internet sabse bara instrument hai ajkal pornography consumption keleye so is lihaz se mobile phone bhe haram aur najaiz hona chaiye lekin yeh fatwa koe nai krta jaari lol
Raha sawal GF or BF (girlfriend or boyfriend) ka to dictionary consult ker lijiye. Presently, in fashion or trend matlab practically ye rishta sexual/romantic hota hai jis me koi marital commitment or intentions bilkul bhi nahi hoti hain. And those who say and consider such relationships as normal relationships, should clearly know that this is just the beginning of a filthy addiction.
Haya or imaan sathi (companions) hain agar in me se ek khatam ho to dusra bhi nahi rehta.
Bhai yeh shadi ki commitment ke saath BHI hota hai mostly, haan casual relations me nahin hoti commitment, but in general hoti hai
Boht zabardast
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The points you are presenting are contradictory to each other
I hate transliteration, particularly when its mixed with English, I’m not sure what the writer’s point is.
What will be the ghamidi sahab's opinion if someone date his daughter.
JAG is person of his words. BTW: The answer is about a situation not as compulsion.
I like Ghamidi sb *but* here he is speaking with some irresponsibility! He forgot to consider that Quran has advised us Muslims to take care of adaab o tehzeeb.
Wo ezzat ki hifazat ki baat kartay hain magar aam loog itni gehri zaban ki samaj Nahi rakhtay.
Adab adaab ki baat ki magar baat hasb e zaroorat marboot tor say Nahi boli.
*विनाश काले विपरीत बुद्धि*
_Vinasha kale, viparith buddhi_
Next video on " Liv in relationship " Please
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Bruh he just said no physical relationship before marriage 💀
When he said badkaari is one of the worst sins and jinsi taluq in any shape is strictly haram so what else do you expect him to say about live in relationships?
Mr Ghamidi, why have you made your own religion?
Love u ghmdi
Hey can we talk ?
@@NitinKhatter sure
Add: if such relations seem to LEAD to badkari, stop.
Plus keep to necessary things, not going out etc.
The point of the question was: if not, how do we find a spouse?
The answer is: West has tried dating and slipped into vulgarity and divorces. So, it doesn't work