I spent five years in prison for beating my husband's sidechick, worst mistake ever | Tuko Talks
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- Instead of walking away when she discovered her husband's infidelity, Robby decided to take revenge by mercilessly beating up the woman her husband was cheating with, broke her spinal code and confined her to a wheelchair.
So why does she regret it now?
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today's episode of Tuko Talks.
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Have a great Wednesday na tusiwapate Syokimau mkipigana
Its all well Jesus did it for us .just love yourself and mind your own.siwezi pigania mume heri nitembeze mguu.
I would beat the husband not the side or top chicks . If possible unplug what makes him mess around .
No need of fighting
never
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣syokimau kunakaa kubamba
If another woman steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen.
Thank you dia
Very true 👍
True
Spoken like a sage
True
When I realised I was sharing him with them,I left him for them because I wanted a soulmate not a hotspot
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Tethering inaleta jam ......
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Robby is a good friend of mine, she helped me after losing my job with Corona issues. She is a very generous lady. Hang on there my dear coz all happened with a reason.
This lady is my hero. You have a good soul Mummy. God is faithfully. You are destined for highest heights.
I got married in church after sometime I noticed my husband has changed,,I later find out he has another woman,,it was painful but I try to fight I asked people to help me talk to him the priest and catechist talked to him,, he promising to change but he never did,, after I saw all these was pointless I just took a different turn,, it was painful journey I went through denial for some months,,then I slowly started accepting my situation loving my two kids,,I then got my self-esteem back,,my Peace of mind I started glowing,as I write these today am working abroad my mom is helping me take care of my kids,,,am thankful for God I came out early enough and I know God will make me successful in this life,,
Hugs mummy
@@MaDarlene thanks to you too
Sure God will never leave you the guy will come to realise well it will be too late
Hugs mum....all the best
hapo nimejifunza lesson, badala ya kupigania mwanaume heri nieke hiyo nguvu kwa hustle nijijenge na watoto wangu.
Very true
True
True!
Yes
Kabisa
Like za Lynn she is a simple lady 💞💞💞nakupenda tu bure. One day I will sit that red chair to share my history maybe I will inspire single ladies.
Ebu enda utuwakilishe
Kuja mam tunangoja
Siku ikifika nitaenda
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I can't judge her because I used to fight with my husband sidekick's until one day I decided enough is enough and walked out of my marriage
My ex-husband side shit, called my little son a bastard, so I broke her long nose. She couldn't go to the police, because I had found a letter she wrote to him that I should be killed. Crazy days, long ago. I had a divorce
Pole
Likewise dear, but for now I won't do that shit anymore, am happily single mom❤️
I use to say I'll never fight a side chick if I'm a girlfriend, but I would fight if I'm a wife. Girl when I found out there was a side chick after 13 years of marriage I said fuq it. Fuq anyone who put me in a position to have to fight someone and humiliate myself. I'm happily separated and can't wait for divorce.
The way ur cute wanaume hutafuta nini jamani? Better u walked away usiharibiwe sura na huyo side chick
Thanks alot Lynn ngugi for bringing this story🙏🏼I kept harassing my husband's side chick's for more than 3 yrs but the way I kept fighting his side chick's the more he will cheat... But it reached some point I realised that this person will never change so it's up to me to make decision whether to leave or to stay with him with with his cheatings, but i decided to move out,, and now I'm happily living as a single mum, no depression, no alcers, no sleepless nights and I thank God he could have killed me with stress
Karen
Me too beter to move out
Strong
I did this too. I thought i was trying to save my marriage but All was just in vain. They end up even attacking me both
Congrats
Amira should apply the same concept as per this video...it's very easy to find urself in this situation...
Kukiumana it's better kuondoka....💯💯🔥
Y
@Linda okwaro othis mental health and peace of mind ya mtu is more important than vacations
The reason why I'm still single at my age
I can't fight for love .if man misbehave let him go . healing is your portion in Jesus Christ name 🙏
I agree with you my sister...
Woow
Amhere trying to heal..just hard
We are together in this I can't fight for love
True....siwes make..
Am here kama kawaida. Lyn and the entire tuko team your doing a great job.. leteni likes za lyn na tuko
Nikupee likes za Lynn utampea??😂😂nitamuuliza😂😂
That nurse friend from mombasa is all the we need that one person makes a great difference..
When she said my daughter is my hero I felt it.I hope God comes through for you😍
I pray to God that her daughter gets the opportunity to go back to college. How I pray that she gets well wishers towards this cause.
If we join hands together she will go back to school
@@gladysmoraa4818 lets take her back to school
I kindly support this tuko please do something
Her sense of humour is in another level,and her love for her kids is admirable
my bishop JB Masinde may God increase your territory, rest in peace Rev Becky this is what a christian should be about. I have experienced personally this is a true house of God. lynn i hope one day you can interview Bishop
I like the positivty in this lady despite all what she went through, may God keep her strong always.
Ladies let us be keen if a man has decided to be polygamous there is nothing we can do to change character that someone has chosen from his heart.
Ndio maana nowadays pia Hakuna mke au mume WA mtu.
Leave him alone don't share a man. It's not worth it
So true
@Caroline khavere I still value and respect marriages and I cannot be the one breaking it. God will always guide me.... Amen
Ati "there's nothing you can't do?" I guess me and you live in different world....If a man decides to become polygamist I will delete him out of system forever....A polygamist is a man -whore that's according to me...
Sometimes it's better to let go and let God in.
Point taken
really? what's god going to do ? lol
Whatever you ask Elohim. Peace. Comfort.
"Sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem" ~Unknown
I agree
Very true
Thank you for this very sound advice.
Yeah ryt
@@princessmakarudze7078 thanks an eye opner
To my fellow ladies,love yourself. Be smart
Pray everyday. God is always in control. If it's too much walk away. Do not harm
Your hubby is just a stranger, please let love not blind you coz something else will be an eye opener .
Your father in heaven should be the only trusted man on earth😜
😂😂😂😂😂😂²nd lines of your statement r superb ..but the ²nd last lines nkama umesmoke kitu 😂😂😂😂😂
Amen gal
HIV doesn't kill
Stgma does😓💔hugs Mamaa💎
I live in the USA,and love watching your stories.Thank you!
To all home-breakers and those who put asunder what God has brought together, just know 'whatever you sow is what you reap.'
Kabisa
Sure
Kweli
The husband is the homebreaker!
@@evemuhia2 even women why can't you leave that man ukijua ameona since you can't stay months bila kujua
28 out of 36 points is super gifted that's a straight A
I noticed that as well. The interviewer didn't catch it
She did very well!
I'm happy she mentioned our bishop masinde our papa🙏 may God continue using our bishop to impact the lives of less unfortunate
Am proposing a table with a glass of water and tissues for both the interviewer and the interviewee...it gets emotional at times
I was thinking the same
Aki wewe 😄
sure
And time for the interviewee to cry and express themselves. Its healing for them 💛
I'm very inspired by her story. Despite all that she went through she's still came out stronger. I've really learnt alot. Thanks Lynn❤️
When she said her daughter has never even gone for an outing......i cried.
Me too ✋😪
Why cry
😭😭😭😭 me too
Me too
Me too,I felt like she has been robbed of her youth ....I honestly just wish nothing but the best for her even if I don't know her,may God come through for her and her family.
It hurts, but I think anger can make you do things without thinking.Thanks for sharing your story.
Greetings and hugs from Australia 🇭🇲
Anger u can do something that u will regret
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Never fight for a man, unless it's your son who is under 18years,
I love this woman, may you receive healing in Jesus name.
AMEN
My heart goes out to the daughter,it really got to me when the mum said that she has never gone for an outing,she has really been robbed of her youth,I wish we can help her as well.
Bonfire safari should take this girl for a safari. She has gone through a lot since high school and stood by her small brother
This story taught me a lesson. WATCHING from Namibia 🇳🇦.
Your comments will not take away the fact that, that was a moment temporarily insanity... It's ok to be furious, to be frustrated, to be angry and it's not a sign of weakness... We are humans with emotions!! Hugs mami🤗
True
It so unfortunate that most of the stories I have heard, women's misery start right after marriage🤔. Before then, they lived an easier life.
Ukweli kabisa unajua wanawake wakiolewa wanajisahau
In some cases
That's true. I wish women can realize this before it's too late
Ni kweli kabisa.
Ukweli wazi
ave been encouraged so much by this story and i kind undestud the story of this lady coz am also in jail bt in foreign country,,,, bt i thank God 4 my family who are always there for my kid, Lyn God bless yu always!!!
She has a sense of humour, she managed to make me laugh and cry concurrently.... Lol
Tuko Talks becoming one of the best Real Talks i can relate kudos de management watching in Diaspora wabee😊😊😊
I bless God for the gift of Bishop Masinde, I am a deliverance church member and he has been an icon to Reckon, Rev Becky was my Preacher woman, I admired her the many times she stood for Kingdom affairs and that alone has made me serve God in ministry all the days may she keep resting, her death almost made me let it loose but God remained faithful
Fighting a side chick is demeaning yourself....You should not fight for a man whose value is not your worth...your value cannot be equated/determined by how someone is treating you... It only defines who they are..!! Men are not stolen, they also have a brain of their own, They do it willingly. It is called character!
Never fight for a man. If things are not fine in your marriage just go in peace to avoid drama. Jane I love your sweater
Lyn
That was obviously a moment of insanity
Marrying the wrong man can really sink a lady's life. May your latter glory exceed your former glory my dear. For us single Christians, we will marry our divinely appointed spouses in Jesus' Name.
Amen
Amen
AMEN
Ameeen!!
Amen😂
God heal this beautiful intelligent woman. Heal her wonderful hard and show her your miracles 😍
This "side chick " thing is becoming so rampant in Kenya! Surely the devil has seriously taken over to destroy families. Women let's always be on our knees
That revelation is of the Holy Spirit. Most women blame men rather than the spirit behind the crisis.
Siamki kwa magoti concerning my home
Why fight for man who is not fight for you🤦🏾♀️
@@bettywamae2000 It is worthy to fight for a man as long as you have confirmed it is God who brought him in your life.
@@paultoday610 we are serving different God’s for sure
Tuko is where u can get motivated every minute n every second my number 1 mentorship platform
Ladies, keep your assets for yourself and your children. Never sell them off to make a man "comfortable". If he is intimidated by your wealth, then he is not for you! Don't dim your light for anyone!
Never move in with the in-laws - those archaic days are long gone! Like, marriage is hard enough. Why would you also sign up for spectators and annoying busybodies?
Also, if you are uncomfortable with a man's income and the level of his ability to provide for a family, then guess what? End the relationship! Don't stay there and disrespect him about his financial shortcomings!
And finally, respect yourself. This ain't the Hunger Games. Why are you fighting another woman for a man? If he's determined to cheat, then allow him - just remove yourself and your children from the equation. AIDS and other incurable STDs are no joke! You don't need marriage to complete you. You are complete in Christ. Move on! Jesus Christ has so much better for you. God bless. 🙏🏽
Amen dada!!!!God Bless u,i luv your points,umenena.👏👏👏
Well Said
Point taken dia
Older women know this. Young ladies don't
Also men invest for you children sio ladies tu.
If the man abandon’s you in a marriage ..God calls for peace let him go ..
This story is so sad 😞 but true Love is long suffering, and that is Gods love for he is still faithful and will one day return to take us to the new heavens and new earth where righteousness dwells.Praying for Madam Robby and women that are suffering in prisons.
Christians we are promised tribulations but take heart, Christ has overcome the world .
In complete humility lam using this situation as a call to pray for this woman's life, and as a call to action to examine my own. Mama remember .. you are loved 🙏🏾
Roby you are an orator...thanks for blessing Lynn for me, this woman is a jewel
True Lynn she's the next president we love tuko very much
I sapport you dia liny is our president of clean contend here and we love her Soo much may her never lack
Saga is a true friend..
A man CAN NEVER BE STOLEN. Men will go where they want to go and to whom they want to be with. Ladies, do not waste your energy and time trying to fight another woman because of the man. You have alot to lose. Jealousy and anger are very real emotions but they are temporary. You can either use them as a fuel to drive yourself out of a relationship that does not honour you or you can let them be the fire that burns your life down.
Sometimes, the side chicks have no idea that these men are even married or in serious relationships. Other times, these men will tell the other woman that they are married but getting divorced!! Yes, they have no problem telling pokies and stringing along every woman they want to sleep with. Remember to love and care for yourself more than you do for that man in your life!! If you put every part of you into him, you will be left broken beyond recognition when he decides you are not good enough any more. Also, always watch a man's actions instead of listening to their words!! Acrions speak louder and they tell a truth so deep.
Well said
Absolutely true
That's true my dear
Mimi naomba Mungu anisaidie nisije nikafanye kosa kama hiyo, I rebuke the spirit to go away in Jesus name Amen
Umeongea ukweli mutupu, womens lazima mtu ajue huyu mwanaume si wako peke yako, you have to know that mwanaume hawa kuangi serious in life.
Strong and resilient is this lady!
It is well Mama.
Lynne, you are blessed!
I hate how men are always ready to abandon their children when they have issues with their wives. Those kids should not have suffered.
God bless Rev Becky in Eternity & D.C Umoja for the good work! This is a true testimony of the church.
What a powerful message! Never fight a sidechick, you will lose your life while your husband continues to cheat!
Never fight for a man he is the one who brought the third wheel in your union he should be the one to be accountable ... Unless you want to do a tournament 😩
Wako akileta I hope you won't change the tune 😂😂😝😂😂😂😂relax unatafutiwa
@@zackzackie. 😂😂😂
@@fedeliamueni8973 😝😝😝😝😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😝😝yy huongea miingi ngoja mpaka atafutiwe atatia adabu 😂😂😂
Very easier said than done. Most women who say this actually are the ones who fight for men.
Very true sweetheart. Looking good as usual
Gonga like kama tuko imekupanua kimawazo! Thank u Tuko
Mi nilifight karibu ntokwe na wazimu but one day my mum alinikalisha chini na akaniabia ntoke kwa iyo doa ama ntaishia jela coz ile vita nilikuaga nayo nikuwa napigana na wanawake tofauti tofauti but today i thank my mum kwakuniogelesha.
I am curious though mbona unapigana na hao wanawake na si bwana yako? Hawakujui na labda pia hao wamedanganywa tu kama wewe?
The story is so encouraging,mama receive healing in the mighty name of Jesus.
AMEN
My Goodness your Story Breaks my Heart mummy. Please keep Almighty Jehova next to your Heart. You are very strong mum
When a man has a side chick leave him God is the best judge. Let her have him because he will mistreat her as well.
True wembe hua ule ule
Have learnt someone from this.Tuko guys keep bringing such stories you'll change this world to be a better place
That's why I always call my mother EXPENSIVE MUM 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.....your daughter is my age mate may she never lack
Amen
Amen!
Wow, Amen!
Brilliant lady.... may God encapsulate you in His heavenly due
Saga May Almighty God bless you, you are a true friend and good neighbor ubarikiwe Mamie 💞❤ kiteleza si kwanguka, kumbuka wafungwa na usibague watu, love them for who they are ❤
Hi Lyn! I m Senorita from Cameroon, honestly i was so touched by her story and i pray God helps her get a sponsor as soon as possible. It s obvious she s a hard working woman and i m sure she can still make it. As for the TUKO TALKS Team, u are just awesome! Thanks for giving these people a plateform on which they air out their stress, each time they talk u can see how relieved the feel. May God mightily bless u all
Ladies learn from this.never never confront the lady who is having an affair with your husband.ladies love yourselves.
Thanks Lynn for such an educative story,, young ladies let's surrender our marriages to God coz the battle belong to him.
Wow, the support from the church cannot be underrated. Deliverance church Umoja, good job. Helping the helpless
Thax Lynn for bringing dis story, am high tempered too but I have learned something
Saga,,may God reward you,,,you saved a life,,
AM HAPPY TO SEE SAGA LADIES ON TUKO COZ YOUR STORY WILL HELP MANY WOMEN.ASANTE SAGA STORIES FOR BEING COCOURAGEOUS. GOD IS WITH YOU.GOD WILL OPEN YOUR ALL YOUR DOORS AND HEAL YOU. HE NEVER FORGETS YOUR WORSHIP IN LANGATA. YOU ARE A BLESSED/RESPECTABLE WOMAN WHO WILL SAVE MANY LIVES.
Thanks so much Lyn please jela iwe inaruhusu watoto was wafungwa wtembelea wazazi .God bless this mama
Both women came out with injuries and possibly Hiv. The man walked around scot free. What a waste. Watu waachane na people's husbands. No matter what the side chick got injured for a man who remarried.
True,
Thank you Lynn for what you're doing when someone has a testimony it is to Glorfy God it's Awesome
This Lady is very upright just from listening to her, I truly believe it was a short lapse in judgement. I mean she has suffered in that marriage for years!
Nevertheless, she accepted the consequences gracefully and served her time honorably. That speaks a lot of her.
May both the ladies affected by this crime be completely healed.
Indeed
The side chick is not and can never 👎🏿 be a victim ,let us as society stop this silly rationalization of what is wrong ,yes it wasn’t good for Ruby to attack her and harm her ,but her choices brought her those consequences,may God heal Ruby and her kids they are the real victims here ,Lynn You are a gem 💎
You are a strong woman, thank you for sharing your story so that other women can learn. Glad you've picked your pieces together one by one.
Roby...I have always seen a gift of hospitality deep seated in you. May you realise your full potential in Jesus Name ...Amen!!
It is hurt but sometime is better to let go man who bring another woman it's her choice not mistake
This has really touched me. God bless and strengthen her and her family and the other women in prison. God's grace God's grace.
As always, Lynn with her polite and kind heart and listening ear......be blessed, sister Lynn!!
Such a great woman. May God remember her. Ad heal her
Totally and immensely, unfathomably and remarkably, beautifully and abundantly loved.
Why are men so precious? Who decided that it is normal for men to cheat?
Soo sad and sickening
Trust me,they are not and if they tend to think so,they are mistaken.Things have changed and am glad nowadays women have been enlightened kidogo.
Her last message touched me. Lynn is touching lives. Me here in south africa I feel touched t8hough this
I love how she's acknowledging saga in every sentence,,,keep winning ladies
Robi you are a hero and God will surely see you through all you have gone through. May He manifest in your life and in your children's. Continue encouraging more and more people
Interesting learning Kiswahili from Tuko talks interesting stories. Thank u Lynn
I already love your daughter,she dedicated her life to you,May all the blessings you have bestowed on her be fulfilled in her life,I declare and speak breakthrough in her life
This is a very sad story. May God keep you and protect you and proper you. Amen.
I really love this show. Am watching all the way from Tanzania. God bless you Lynn for what you're doing.
Your prayers for your daughter will be answered in Jesus name.
Amen
The fact that you sold all your valuables to go settle with that man simply because of the societal expectations. We all want to feel complete 😭
I felt this!!
This has completely changed my life.
We all need that one saga friend in life, it shall be well mama❤️
Saga God will expand your boundaries, church of pst Masinde you are an example to follow may God give you more grace.
I remember watching saga's story and just loving her,kumbe she has a heart of gold ❤️❤️❤️
Saga is a true friend,if your marrige is not working,just work out,and start your own life