That example is the exact definition of what I experienced in all 3 of my 20+hours of labor. Problem was my uterus was at an extreme angle, not allowing my babies to come straight out, No matter how hard l pushed.
I'm so sorry that's a very time for a woman specially what you was experiencing because I am sure in your mind at that exact moments you may have thought am I and my unborn baby going to make it through this. Hugs to you and your baby and I am sure glad you both are doing well.
After 30 hours of back pain I was told the good news was that my 9 lb baby was stuck and they were going to do a c section. The bad news was there was a horrible accident on the highway and the only anesthesiologist on duty was in emergency surgery and it would be awhile. I was scary. The nurses were afraid to come near me and hubby said we were never doing this again. I had one more. God has a way of making you forget how bad it was or you would never have another one. LOL
I can't have children but I've watched friends and family members in addtion to videos over the years. So I am just making a joke and you tell me if its funny but true....or not. If God made men and women take turns giving birth there would never be more then two children in a family because a man would never give birth twice...... True or no?
@Virginia Cates My first was 22 hours, and 9.3 lbs..... This is back in 1977. At about twenty hours they inform me he is back down so they had to take their hands and move him. If there was a epidural in those days it was not offered. I did get a spinal block but they give that after they see the head.... Horrible ordeal.......
I had natural child birth with both my children- 9 1/2 years apart, yep that pain you are not eager to experience again. Labor over 24 hours with both. Nope after second child I went immediately after birthing, into surgery to get my tubes cut and carterized. Never again.
Three days. No epidural. Started labor at 10:15 pm December 21,1999. Water started leaking December 22. Broke fully December 23. Gave birth December 24, 1999 10:22 am 7lbs 4ozs 19” long. Yup. Super fun.
DON'T FORGET......Weeks, days or just hours of labor, probing of strangers (painful cervical checks), bleeding, tearing, stitches, recovery in hospital... Starving after 5 pm to 8 am... No where near like labor and delivering... Plus the 6+ weeks of postpartum recovery....
3 days of labour, both kids, no epidermal , no pain killer ,the pain was INCREDIBLE. WHAT MY EX SAID as I was in labour" if you are going to keep yelling I am leaving,,,," yup . First baby 8lbs 4oz, second baby 10lbs 4oz, it ripped me up and down. Doctor says" we should have done a c section for both,,,thanks for that!!!! Doc.
I felt like my whole torso was in a giant charlie horse. These men miss out on the pressure of the weight of the baby plus the burning of ripping or being cut moments before the baby is born. They also miss the placenta coming out.
Labor for me was a nightmare. My baby tried to come at 24 weeks I held her in for an extra week and had contractions the whole time because the meds weren't working well to stop them. It was the worst pain in my life but worth every bit of it at the end.
9lb and 9lb 8oz, both my boys were posterior deliveries,, which is renown for back labour No pain relief. Horrific. 17hrs and around 8-10hrs all up. Good times, they are 14 and 12 now, I would do it again, it’s an experience that you’ll never forget.
believe it or not ive met men who cant be around women when theyre pregnant or they'll suffer from sympathy morning sickness and also their pregnancy cravings. Its funny as hell to see.
Why would he get a safe word? They need to crank that thing up so he gets a small taste of what it's really like. I think any guy who says having a baby "can't be that bad" needs to be hooked up to this and maxed out!!
DON'T FORGET......Weeks, days or just hours of labor, bleeding, tearing, stitches, recovery in hospital... Starving after 5 pm to 8 am... No where near like labor and delivering... Plus the 6+ weeks of postpartum recovery....
18 hours, dude. It ain't even close if you can't do 18 hours of it. No safe wording out, once the doc says "I think you may be pregnant. Let do a test and see." You are committed to doing the whole thing... with swollen feet."
This is like the first 45 minutes. Then they examine you. Then they tell you you are “not in real labour”! (Next you need to put another electrode on the perineum!) After a few hours, they tell you “good, you’re 2cm dilated, this could take you another 10 hours at least”!
You have only simulated the contractions partially & he didn’t get to see what it’s like getting your private parts shredded or torn through to the bowel 😂😂😂
😂 when I first went into labor I just thought I needed the bathroom. I was at the movies. I was in labor for 24 hrs before my waters broke then I realized I was in labor and I was in Walmart when that happened. 🤦♀️ I so wish I had this available for my husband back then. 😂
@@laurenharris2866 I watched it and he did pass out, cried too. This is just a low key muscle contractor, if he had the one on TYPICALTV he'd be pooping his pants.
I've seen other videos and the device they use is different. All the guys felt it and they couldn't take it. One guy actually had a birth coach and she put him thru the ringer for an hour. He literally passed out for a minute from the pain once it was over. He was sweating and cursing a lot.
It was horrible for me. My last child was 9 lbs 2 oz. His shoulders got stuck coming out. They kept yelling push, push, and I'm like I am, I am. It just hurt so bad. They were going to reach up inside and break his collar bone in order to pull him out. But they did 1 last gigantic push & he came out but the cord was clamped. They gave a massage for him. But the cut was huge. I think it almost went off onto my thigh. It dislocated one of my hip bones.
He did his best/bit. However, I had 52 hours of back/dry/sick labour (1st baby). Ended up in theatre having two different types of forceps, because he was stuck! I was knackered, 🥴🥴
I too had 2 different types of forceps. I ended up having over 100 stitches n it took the doctor over 3 hours to stitch me up all the while with my legs up in stirrups. My legs when they put them down were white as snow and numb.
Labor cannot be replicated, I had back and front labor, and I was in labor for 48 hours, I didn't get the epidural until I had dilated to ten, I felt the worst labor for 10 hours, my doctor wouldn't do a C-section even though I had a C-section the first baby, they told me I would have a C-section with every baby, but my doctor would not allow it. Subsequently I had to have a hysterectomy five years after my last child. And I couldn't have another baby because of the damage that was done. Making me have my second child natural birth.
I think that because the guy is using the control pad he didn't really get the full experience. This video isn't really giving him the whole labor experience. Sad....... 24 and half hours first time. My daughter in law was in labor for over 48 hours. He got off lightly.
72hrs in labour plus about 8hrs pushing, the baby was stuck but l wasn't doing good to be put under, they literally ripped me open, she pushed her hands in to help pull the baby because they said l was dying .... l have no idea how l held as long as did but l wanted the baby to live even if it took my last breath
I wonder if these were hooked up correctly because way to much laughter on his part he never even really said ouch and as cocky as he was in the beginning He didn’t experience anything near child birth or maybe even period cramps I’ve watched a bunch of these and this is the only one where the male wasn’t phased by the experience
36 hrs,first baby no drugs ,18 hrs second baby, no drugs,GOD blessed me with 2 healthy wonderful girls. Men cant really get its a total body automatically doing its job. Great video
Try 30 hr's hard labor, then be rushed into surgery for c-section... Where they cut you hip to hip across lower abdomen, go inside your body, take the baby out, suture you up... Bring you your gift from God... Oh, but then within 12 hr's they make you get up, get out of bed, and walk. Don't forget, you have to nurse the baby immediately, which will create your body to start contractions again, this time to help your abdominal muscles & uterus get back into original shape/position... This goes on for days! Thank God I was shown major respect for the babies I delivered. I'm grateful for the experiences.. There's nothing like having them bring you the baby, and you first set eyes on the little miracle. Instant deepest ever unconditional love you experience. 💞🙏
Hysterical! I had 6 kids, 48 hrs of 3 minute apart labour pains with the first (natural), 15 hrs with the second, I had her less than 8 minutes after I got to the hospital (natural), 3rd about 17 hrs of labor but I was a serrogate and the couple I was having the baby for couldn't watch me suffer so I caved in and got the epidural. 4th, I went through about 8 hrs of labor, got sent home, went back and when my water broke (about 10 minutes after I got back) I was hemorrhaging (placental abruption) at 5cm, and delivered naturally while waiting for the anesthesiologist. 5th, induced 4 days past due date, 6 hrs of labour and the nurse and my husband delivered him because the doctor didn't get back in time (also natural). 6th, after being induced and 13 hrs of labour my blood pressure crashed and I had to have an emergency c section. I would love to see any man go through any one of my child births, they just aren't built that way. I bet if you let these 14 and 15 yr old girls having babies go through natural child birth they wouldn't be so anxious to do it again, right? God bless! FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE!
Linda Edwards While that is happening, they should have a video of an actual birth playing and asking him to imagine something, in relation to size, pushing out his penis.
A real life labour pain is soo painful I haven't experienced but I want a child when I'm older so I probably will but I can just feel it its like you just want to rip your insides out nobody can explain the pain its like your not even alive pain boys be very very THANKFUL you don't have to go through this because this amount of pain is like nothing you have seen
Oh yeah, the ring of fire. If Johnny Cash really knew how it felt he wouldn't sing about it. He'd try to forget it! Godayum! 2 kids, no meds, 2nd one shot out like a cannon ball & I was only 3 cm dilated. She's 35 yo now & I've been pi@@ing myself ever since!
The only C-sections that have labor pains are not planned, such as emergency. My first was just like that 20+ hours. Back pain during labor......Not a joke. They lost his heart beat 3 time, even with internal monitor placed on his head. They had to stop labor before they could operate. The second and third were scheduled C’s. The recovery is so painful.
Infused labor is even more intense I went through 24 hrs induced labor I literally felt I was going to die Dr finally gave a shot of pain my 1st and in15 min dialated from 1 to 10 3 shifts nurses in there to see
As a woman who’s had 2 kids, and reading the comments of other mums here and their stories, I actually find it pretty insulting when guys like this spend their whole time laughing through it and pretending like it’s not that big a deal and they don’t know what all the big fuss is about… You can see the micro expressions of pain cross his face but he’s so busy trying to act hard/tough/cool and not show it. And this is not even CLOSE to the real thing with the endless internal exams, the perineal pain, the cuts/tears, the stitching afterwards, the endless bleeding and recovery period. They’ve got no idea what we go through… But hey let’s laugh through the video because this is just entertainment. Jackass. “Oo look at my abs I’m such a hard man nothing troubles me until you crank it up to 10 and then oh yes I felt a slight twinge…” Fml 🤦🏻♀️ Imho
I drank a lot of herbal teas so my two babies were both healthy big at 9.5 pounds each. Six years apart. I was 40 second time. Home birth. Each time shoulders got stuck. The first time I didn’t want an episiotomy so the doctor was upset and wouldn’t help me in any way. I couldn’t get up and slap him. Too vulnerable! Men need to take good care of their wives and children. All the pain is hormonally induced so all the joints ache. I never made a sound until I said” Why Why Why !! ?does it hurt THIS bad??!! I Loved pregnancy!! Labor is very close to death. People do sadly actually pass away during labor. I wonder what the statistics are.
I had 21 hours in labour and the contractions were intense from the beginning, I could not sit down. The first 8 hours were at home as I was only 2.5 dilated. Then a pool at the hospital. Everyone thought ai would be dramatic (I’m an actor and singer) I made no noise just wanted my Husband and Mum’s thumbs to squish 😆 I did the rest with gas and air and loads of water, then after all that an emergency C. But had our BEAUTIFUL boy ❤
30hrs is nothing. Try like me 54 HOURS or other femals like 63 hrs or more You feel like in a trance because of the pain. But not only that my Dr. Broke my water and kept his hand in their until they had me in the operating room for a C section..After that had the nurse stuff my intestines back in with strength since it wasn't painful to her in the first place. Then came 6 to 8 weeks of pain every time to get up to feed the baby and restroom.....you get the pictures....
There are safe words women can say " wear a condom " or " I want an abortion " or " I want to be on the pill " or " I dont want to have sex " Why do you seem so angry?
@Chelsea Raycove Boy, what's your problem? Trying to make guys who bs about how easy it is to labor through birth feel better?Maybe women today can say epidural, please, but not in the past and not in many parts of the world. Listen to his feedback.
@Chelsea rawr I mean in the olden times they also did surgery without anaesthetic. If you opt to have yours without any, ill listen to your bullshit about 'women giving birth without epidural for years and so it's not necessary'. Point is, science has evolved and we have pain alliveaters..you're torturing yourself by not using it. Plus, women in less educated and open countries were they still do nothing other than housework dont get respected like you say. Maybe that's why they are trying to escape when they have a chance. All because they are getting respected, am I right ? Lmao sit your self down and open a book. You really need some iq additions. If you are a woman saying this..I'll be really disappointed. Cause boys dont go through everything we do and so they don't know reality. So I give them a little leeway.
@Chelsea rawr you dont get a choice for c sections. The doctor orders it and its only if there is a significant medical condition. Epidurals also cause pain and can be dangerous because they are inserted extremely close to your spine. C sections are also not "the easy way out" you are in severe pain during the recovery process. NO PART OF LABOR IS EASY OR PAINLESS. Also what about some women who dont get to choose because men try and decide for them. Please dont shame on something you have not experienced. For instance labor without and epidural.
My first daughter I went for a routine check-up on July 2nd, and i was told I was dilating, but I wasn't sure until August 15th. I was having what they called contractions every 20-30 minutes. I called my Dr in the 3rd and told him i lost my plug. So we went back in to get checked. Everything was still ok. I just had to be extra careful. This went in until Aug 10th. My dr ordered another ultrasound to see what was going on. On the 11th, we were told they would either induce or do a c-section on the 12th. I was told i was up to 4 cm and was having good contractions. Same contractions i had been having for 5 weeks. Finally, i asked how much the estimated weight of the baby when the ultrasound was done because i had gestational diabetes. The Dr said, "Momma, I'll read of the report. Baby is off the chart." I came up off the bed and asked what that meant. The weight went up to 10.8 lbs. I said, "Nope, nothing is coming out of there if it is bigger than 10.8. So we went for csection. They did the epidural twice. Started the c-section, and i remember burning . My legs came up from the table, and i heard some noise. The Dr said, "we are going to have to put you completely out. You broke the straps. The next thing i remember was hearing them say get the Dr in ASAP she's hemorrhaging. The Dr came in, and i was having difficulties opening my eyes, but i could hear everything. After two hours of them working on and off to get the bleeding stopped, they finally got it stopped. The Dr explained that i tore down low because he had been stuck and apparently stuck for some time. She was 10.13 lbs. My second baby, i had gestational diabetes and we told the same Dr to plan a c-section from the go. He was due Jan 15th and took by emergency c-section on December 12th and classified as a premie. He had problems with his breathing. He weighed 12.8 lbs. We didn't get to see him for the first 5 hours. Finally, they brought him in hooked up to a tube.
How about adding one of those simulated pregnancy bags too. Having to move around on a table with the extra weight and belly size makes a difference also.
My first baby I started in labor on a Wednesday, she wasn't born til Saturday afternoon. My other three babies came a little faster. Smallest was 8 lbs 2 and a half ozs, biggest was 9lbs 2 and a half ozs. All my labor was in my back each time. I'm 5'1" wt 110 lbs so I'm not a big woman. No epidurals were used back then.
I wish I could experience having a child but can’t had surgery done and found out I had a egg filled with cancer plus my uterus was scarred all over so I had a hysterectomy back in 2000
Draven Toland I know! 12 hours in, surges 4 mins apart, and they tell you “good! Your 3cm dilated! A few more hours and you’ll have your baby!!” 12 hrs later.... 6cm!....FML!
i thought i was going to die when i gave birth the pain is indescribable it feels like your whole body and organs are being torn apart, feels like you have no control over the pain and it just gets worse. feels like your back is broken and much more
For me it was 24hrs but when I was about years old me and my brother was hit by a car and i had a Crack pelvic so both of my boys were high risk and my second baby they left me lying in pain to long with out a upperdearl and did a spineltap in sted mest my back up where's now i live with back pain
I've done natural childbirth twice, 12 years apart. They say the best position is on all fours. NO. They say squatting is good. NO! They say lying on your back is the worst. Well, I had back labor, and lying on my back put pressure on the back labor and made it tolerable. Every woman is different; find what works for you. Both times it was a 13hr delivery.
I went through labor pains pretty much the whole time I carried my last one, I was in bed or hospital ized the whole time.my last one was 5 wks early, back labor , born breech bottom 1st.I had drs from all over come to talk to me.
I watched my wife give birth twice with no epidural. I have nothing but respect for her. Any husband that talks shit that it’s not that bad are idiots.
I've watched videos where there were birthing experts who put those strips on the man's taint so he got the full experience. That's what he should be getting in this. Bet he wouldn't want his woman to touch him, let alone ask for sex for a whole day or 2. Lol
They have a small, battery operated unit. I use one like it at home and it doesn't compare to labor pain ( I have 2 babies). The machine pulses giving a quick rest, contractions don't pulsate. They need to do this with a bigger unit that plugs in, to make it more comparable to reality.
Try this without an epidural, I had no choice, grin and bear it! After 18 hours of hard labor, finally a forceps birth, and 60 stitches, I developed a very high pain level, NOTHING but nothing was as bad as having that first child. He was suppose to be 6 or 7 lbs, ended up 9 lbs 8 oz, and I was two weeks over due. I did have another child, but it was easy compared to the first. If I could have had an epidural at some point, it would have been welcomed, but back 50 years ago we weren't offered anything, just suffer until the baby is finally born.
I have to say I didn't have any pain after any of my kids. I did however have a surgery after my third and that's what gave me a lot of pain because she had to go to a bigger hospital she wasn't good and all the moving I had to do made my pain worse but trust me I did it all out of love for my little girl.. But ya no other pain . Tired as heck but no pain from giving birth. And all of mine were no pain help all natural . Didn't honestly think about it even when going through labor.
I don't know WHAT they were describing she went through in HER delivery....but I have seen my sister give birth, I have given birth, and worked in a hospital and seen to many labors to count! And I have NEVER seen/heard convulsions when someone is in labor. As well you can't get to a level 10 and then get an epidural. It's to late...you are ready to start pushing.
That wasnt even close. After nine months, you dont have a six pack to take the impact of labor. The labor pains are in your back radiating to the abdomen, down into the sides of the pubis and the groin.
im live a lot of women thats gone through giving birth it's worth the pain of life after we forget some of the pain it's what God made us for all women rule 💯
I have 4 grown children. My first was born in a hospital. Big mistake for me. My next 3 were born at home and I had 2 lay midwives. There is no option for medications. You use breathing techniques. Water births were rare. I had my midwives and 2 friends with me. Yeah, it hurts but right after you get a wonderful high when you have your baby in your arms.
This is bull crap. If it was anywhere near real labor he wouldn’t be smiling and be so calm. He needed to have those pads lower on his body. Near the groin.
Real labor pains are like out of body experience because the pain is greater than reality.
That's a perfect description
Labor pains are equal to fracturing 20 bones at the same time!
Ain’t that the truth. I remember, well, but was I even there? Twice. First child, I actually thought I was dying.
That example is the exact definition of what I experienced in all 3 of my 20+hours of labor. Problem was my uterus was at an extreme angle, not allowing my babies to come straight out, No matter how hard l pushed.
I'm so sorry that's a very time for a woman specially what you was experiencing because I am sure in your mind at that exact moments you may have thought am I and my unborn baby going to make it through this. Hugs to you and your baby and I am sure glad you both are doing well.
After 30 hours of back pain I was told the good news was that my 9 lb baby was stuck and they were going to do a c section. The bad news was there was a horrible accident on the highway and the only anesthesiologist on duty was in emergency surgery and it would be awhile. I was scary. The nurses were afraid to come near me and hubby said we were never doing this again. I had one more. God has a way of making you forget how bad it was or you would never have another one. LOL
I can't have children but I've watched friends and family members in addtion to videos over the years.
So I am just making a joke and you tell me if its funny but true....or not.
If God made men and women take turns giving birth there would never be more then two children in a family because a man would never give birth twice...... True or no?
@@dianneadair1132 👄So very true, but maybe three...the woman would be strong enough to have two.
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@Virginia Cates My first was 22 hours, and 9.3 lbs..... This is back in 1977. At about twenty hours they inform me he is back down so they had to take their hands and move him. If there was a epidural in those days it was not offered. I did get a spinal block but they give that after they see the head.... Horrible ordeal.......
I had natural child birth with both my children- 9 1/2 years apart, yep that pain you are not eager to experience again. Labor over 24 hours with both. Nope after second child I went immediately after birthing, into surgery to get my tubes cut and carterized. Never again.
Three days. No epidural. Started labor at 10:15 pm December 21,1999. Water started leaking December 22. Broke fully December 23. Gave birth December 24, 1999 10:22 am 7lbs 4ozs 19” long. Yup. Super fun.
I can’t tell you how much enjoyment I get out of this!!!!! Turn up the volume!😂
I was in labour for about 36 hours without any drugs. I WISH we had a safe word! 😂
DON'T FORGET......Weeks, days or just hours of labor, probing of strangers (painful cervical checks), bleeding, tearing, stitches, recovery in hospital... Starving after 5 pm to 8 am... No where near like labor and delivering... Plus the 6+ weeks of postpartum recovery....
I was in labor for over 2 days before i had my son. I had an epi but it wore off. There are no words to describe the pain.
Wow, I can't imagine that.
3 days of labour, both kids, no epidermal , no pain killer ,the pain was INCREDIBLE. WHAT MY EX SAID as I was in labour" if you are going to keep yelling I am leaving,,,," yup . First baby 8lbs 4oz, second baby 10lbs 4oz, it ripped me up and down. Doctor says" we should have done a c section for both,,,thanks for that!!!! Doc.
u should have ripped ur ex's nuts off for being such an insensitive prick.
I felt like my whole torso was in a giant charlie horse. These men miss out on the pressure of the weight of the baby plus the burning of ripping or being cut moments before the baby is born. They also miss the placenta coming out.
I would never know the pure agony of what you’re dealing with😅
Labor for me was a nightmare. My baby tried to come at 24 weeks I held her in for an extra week and had contractions the whole time because the meds weren't working well to stop them. It was the worst pain in my life but worth every bit of it at the end.
9lb and 9lb 8oz, both my boys were posterior deliveries,, which is renown for back labour No pain relief. Horrific. 17hrs and around 8-10hrs all up. Good times, they are 14 and 12 now, I would do it again, it’s an experience that you’ll never forget.
Now introduce a simulation for daily morning sickness
believe it or not ive met men who cant be around women when theyre pregnant or they'll suffer from sympathy morning sickness and also their pregnancy cravings. Its funny as hell to see.
Why would he get a safe word? They need to crank that thing up so he gets a small taste of what it's really like. I think any guy who says having a baby "can't be that bad" needs to be hooked up to this and maxed out!!
Stop putting words in our mouths we do not say that not all men.
Chippy didnt say all men. Chippy said some men who say that. Read before you speak.
Part of the experience is being half naked with people coming in poking and proding.
Rita Price absolutely lol..😂👌🏽
DON'T FORGET......Weeks, days or just hours of labor, bleeding, tearing, stitches, recovery in hospital... Starving after 5 pm to 8 am... No where near like labor and delivering... Plus the 6+ weeks of postpartum recovery....
I was in a teaching hospital so I think there was about 25 people in there!
18 hours, dude. It ain't even close if you can't do 18 hours of it. No safe wording out, once the doc says "I think you may be pregnant. Let do a test and see." You are committed to doing the whole thing... with swollen feet."
Mine was four days, I was in labor for 3 days when they finally gave me pitocin it took another 23 hours
Finally...I only had back labor due to a spinal deformity. Crazy, but I did it three times! God bless Moms...and Dads!
2 of my 4 were back labor. The kids were also born in posterior lie. It made for some interesting pain. My kids were be on at home.
This is like the first 45 minutes. Then they examine you. Then they tell you you are “not in real labour”! (Next you need to put another electrode on the perineum!) After a few hours, they tell you “good, you’re 2cm dilated, this could take you another 10 hours at least”!
😮 damn
You have only simulated the contractions partially & he didn’t get to see what it’s like getting your private parts shredded or torn through to the bowel 😂😂😂
Yes!, AND being prodded around to see how many inches you’ve dialated as you’re having your 40th hours of painful contractions!
I want them to do this test on Andrew tate 😂
Yeah and the rest 😊
guy has a vagina, pretty sure he knows what it feels like
😂 when I first went into labor I just thought I needed the bathroom. I was at the movies. I was in labor for 24 hrs before my waters broke then I realized I was in labor and I was in Walmart when that happened. 🤦♀️ I so wish I had this available for my husband back then. 😂
I dont think this is a proper pregnancy simulator. It's just one of those fitness muscle contractors.
There is a waaay more accurate simulation that includes the taint and passing out on Channel TYPICALTV - birth simulation
G C I think your right.
@@laurenharris2866 I watched it and he did pass out, cried too. This is just a low key muscle contractor, if he had the one on TYPICALTV he'd be pooping his pants.
This is just a TENS/EMS unit ----》Bruce Lee used this as part of his training.
I've seen other videos and the device they use is different. All the guys felt it and they couldn't take it. One guy actually had a birth coach and she put him thru the ringer for an hour. He literally passed out for a minute from the pain once it was over. He was sweating and cursing a lot.
I had 5 children, no epidural, just breathed through them all.
It was horrible for me. My last child was 9 lbs 2 oz. His shoulders got stuck coming out. They kept yelling push, push, and I'm like I am, I am. It just hurt so bad. They were going to reach up inside and break his collar bone in order to pull him out. But they did 1 last gigantic push & he came out but the cord was clamped. They gave a massage for him. But the cut was huge. I think it almost went off onto my thigh. It dislocated one of my hip bones.
OMG I'm so sorry that happened to you.😥😭
That is so terrible! God bless you and your family
He did his best/bit.
However, I had 52 hours of back/dry/sick labour (1st baby). Ended up in theatre having two different types of forceps, because he was stuck!
I was knackered, 🥴🥴
I too had 2 different types of forceps. I ended up having over 100 stitches n it took the doctor over 3 hours to stitch me up all the while with my legs up in stirrups. My legs when they put them down were white as snow and numb.
Labor cannot be replicated, I had back and front labor, and I was in labor for 48 hours, I didn't get the epidural until I had dilated to ten, I felt the worst labor for 10 hours, my doctor wouldn't do a C-section even though I had a C-section the first baby, they told me I would have a C-section with every baby, but my doctor would not allow it. Subsequently I had to have a hysterectomy five years after my last child. And I couldn't have another baby because of the damage that was done. Making me have my second child natural birth.
I think that because the guy is using the control pad he didn't really get the full experience. This video isn't really giving him the whole labor experience. Sad....... 24 and half hours first time. My daughter in law was in labor for over 48 hours. He got off lightly.
72hrs in labour plus about 8hrs pushing, the baby was stuck but l wasn't doing good to be put under, they literally ripped me open, she pushed her hands in to help pull the baby because they said l was dying .... l have no idea how l held as long as did but l wanted the baby to live even if it took my last breath
Wow...too funny...I had a lot of back pain when I delivered my daughter and I found that more painful...you go guys lol
My mum was in labour for 36 hours and she has reminded me of that since I was a kid 😂😂😂
That’s like the mosquito bite compared to labor
Should be ones in pelvic area and inner thighs
This isn’t a good representation
I have to say thanks to all the brave men who went through this. ❤❤
I have e-stim at physical therapy on both sides of the back of my neck @ 17 for 20 mins. That’s a constant stimulation, no breaks. I love it.
I wonder if these were hooked up correctly because way to much laughter on his part he never even really said ouch and as cocky as he was in the beginning He didn’t experience anything near child birth or maybe even period cramps I’ve watched a bunch of these and this is the only one where the male wasn’t phased by the experience
36 hrs,first baby no drugs ,18 hrs second baby, no drugs,GOD blessed me with 2 healthy wonderful girls. Men cant really get its a total body automatically doing its job. Great video
Try 30 hr's hard labor, then be rushed into surgery for c-section... Where they cut you hip to hip across lower abdomen, go inside your body, take the baby out, suture you up... Bring you your gift from God... Oh, but then within 12 hr's they make you get up, get out of bed, and walk. Don't forget, you have to nurse the baby immediately, which will create your body to start contractions again, this time to help your abdominal muscles & uterus get back into original shape/position... This goes on for days! Thank God I was shown major respect for the babies I delivered. I'm grateful for the experiences.. There's nothing like having them bring you the baby, and you first set eyes on the little miracle. Instant deepest ever unconditional love you experience. 💞🙏
First baby for me 4hrs,second baby 3hrs,3baby 3hrs,4th baby 4 hrs .mine were all quick.thank god .
Hysterical! I had 6 kids, 48 hrs of 3 minute apart labour pains with the first (natural), 15 hrs with the second, I had her less than 8 minutes after I got to the hospital (natural), 3rd about 17 hrs of labor but I was a serrogate and the couple I was having the baby for couldn't watch me suffer so I caved in and got the epidural. 4th, I went through about 8 hrs of labor, got sent home, went back and when my water broke (about 10 minutes after I got back) I was hemorrhaging (placental abruption) at 5cm, and delivered naturally while waiting for the anesthesiologist. 5th, induced 4 days past due date, 6 hrs of labour and the nurse and my husband delivered him because the doctor didn't get back in time (also natural). 6th, after being induced and 13 hrs of labour my blood pressure crashed and I had to have an emergency c section. I would love to see any man go through any one of my child births, they just aren't built that way. I bet if you let these 14 and 15 yr old girls having babies go through natural child birth they wouldn't be so anxious to do it again, right? God bless! FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE!
This is no way close to labor delivery. More like brakston hicks. Imagine giving birth to an 8 pound kidney stone. 😂
Linda Edwards
While that is happening, they should have a video of an actual birth playing and asking him to imagine something, in relation to size, pushing out his penis.
A real life labour pain is soo painful I haven't experienced but I want a child when I'm older so I probably will but I can just feel it its like you just want to rip your insides out nobody can explain the pain its like your not even alive pain boys be very very THANKFUL you don't have to go through this because this amount of pain is like nothing you have seen
They need to figure out a way to simulate the ring of fire. I don't know, maybe take an extra large catheter tube and stick it up the urethra.
Oh yeah, the ring of fire. If Johnny Cash really knew how it felt he wouldn't sing about it. He'd try to forget it! Godayum! 2 kids, no meds, 2nd one shot out like a cannon ball & I was only 3 cm dilated. She's 35 yo now & I've been pi@@ing myself ever since!
The only C-sections that have labor pains are not planned, such as emergency.
My first was just like that 20+ hours. Back pain during labor......Not a joke. They lost his heart beat 3 time, even with internal monitor placed on his head. They had to stop labor before they could operate. The second and third were scheduled C’s. The recovery is so painful.
I was in labor or 30 hours for my first child the pain was unbearable then I had another one a year later natural birth for both (no drugs).
Fool me once
Infused labor is even more intense I went through 24 hrs induced labor I literally felt I was going to die Dr finally gave a shot of pain my 1st and in15 min dialated from 1 to 10 3 shifts nurses in there to see
YES!! I had back labor with BOTH of my 9Lb babies!! I'. 45 minutes of this isn't crap. Trust me!!!i
This wasn't a simulation test.
As a woman who’s had 2 kids, and reading the comments of other mums here and their stories, I actually find it pretty insulting when guys like this spend their whole time laughing through it and pretending like it’s not that big a deal and they don’t know what all the big fuss is about… You can see the micro expressions of pain cross his face but he’s so busy trying to act hard/tough/cool and not show it. And this is not even CLOSE to the real thing with the endless internal exams, the perineal pain, the cuts/tears, the stitching afterwards, the endless bleeding and recovery period. They’ve got no idea what we go through…
But hey let’s laugh through the video because this is just entertainment. Jackass. “Oo look at my abs I’m such a hard man nothing troubles me until you crank it up to 10 and then oh yes I felt a slight twinge…”
Fml 🤦🏻♀️
Imho
I drank a lot of herbal teas so my two babies were both healthy big at 9.5 pounds each. Six years apart. I was 40 second time. Home birth. Each time shoulders got stuck. The first time I didn’t want an episiotomy so the doctor was upset and wouldn’t help me in any way. I couldn’t get up and slap him. Too vulnerable! Men need to take good care of their wives and children. All the pain is hormonally induced so all the joints ache. I never made a sound until I said” Why Why Why !! ?does it hurt THIS bad??!!
I Loved pregnancy!! Labor is very close to death. People do sadly actually pass away during labor. I wonder what the statistics are.
I had 21 hours in labour and the contractions were intense from the beginning, I could not sit down. The first 8 hours were at home as I was only 2.5 dilated. Then a pool at the hospital. Everyone thought ai would be dramatic (I’m an actor and singer) I made no noise just wanted my Husband and Mum’s thumbs to squish 😆 I did the rest with gas and air and loads of water, then after all that an emergency C. But had our BEAUTIFUL boy ❤
Yes!thank you i had most in my back for 2days!
30hrs is nothing. Try like me 54 HOURS or other femals like 63 hrs or more
You feel like in a trance because of the pain.
But not only that my Dr. Broke my water and kept his hand in their until they had me in the operating room for a C section..After that had the nurse stuff my intestines back in with strength since it wasn't painful to her in the first place. Then came 6 to 8 weeks of pain every time to get up to feed the baby and restroom.....you get the pictures....
I was in labor for 30 hrs each time. I had 2 sons 18 mos apart. One weighed 9#s 121/2 ozs, the other weighed 9#s 15 ozs. Long, hard labor! 🙂
Safe word?.... woman cant say Please stop😡
There are safe words women can say " wear a condom " or " I want an abortion " or " I want to be on the pill " or " I dont want to have sex "
Why do you seem so angry?
@Chelsea Raycove Boy, what's your problem? Trying to make guys who bs about how easy it is to labor through birth feel better?Maybe women today can say epidural, please, but not in the past and not in many parts of the world.
Listen to his feedback.
Wow Chelsea a bit pissy aren't we
@Chelsea rawr I mean in the olden times they also did surgery without anaesthetic. If you opt to have yours without any, ill listen to your bullshit about 'women giving birth without epidural for years and so it's not necessary'. Point is, science has evolved and we have pain alliveaters..you're torturing yourself by not using it.
Plus, women in less educated and open countries were they still do nothing other than housework dont get respected like you say. Maybe that's why they are trying to escape when they have a chance. All because they are getting respected, am I right ? Lmao sit your self down and open a book. You really need some iq additions.
If you are a woman saying this..I'll be really disappointed. Cause boys dont go through everything we do and so they don't know reality. So I give them a little leeway.
@Chelsea rawr you dont get a choice for c sections. The doctor orders it and its only if there is a significant medical condition. Epidurals also cause pain and can be dangerous because they are inserted extremely close to your spine. C sections are also not "the easy way out" you are in severe pain during the recovery process. NO PART OF LABOR IS EASY OR PAINLESS. Also what about some women who dont get to choose because men try and decide for them. Please dont shame on something you have not experienced. For instance labor without and epidural.
My first daughter I went for a routine check-up on July 2nd, and i was told I was dilating, but I wasn't sure until August 15th. I was having what they called contractions every 20-30 minutes. I called my Dr in the 3rd and told him i lost my plug. So we went back in to get checked. Everything was still ok. I just had to be extra careful. This went in until Aug 10th. My dr ordered another ultrasound to see what was going on. On the 11th, we were told they would either induce or do a c-section on the 12th. I was told i was up to 4 cm and was having good contractions. Same contractions i had been having for 5 weeks. Finally, i asked how much the estimated weight of the baby when the ultrasound was done because i had gestational diabetes. The Dr said, "Momma, I'll read of the report. Baby is off the chart." I came up off the bed and asked what that meant. The weight went up to 10.8 lbs.
I said, "Nope, nothing is coming out of there if it is bigger than 10.8. So we went for csection. They did the epidural twice. Started the c-section, and i remember burning . My legs came up from the table, and i heard some noise. The Dr said, "we are going to have to put you completely out. You broke the straps.
The next thing i remember was hearing them say get the Dr in ASAP she's hemorrhaging. The Dr came in, and i was having difficulties opening my eyes, but i could hear everything.
After two hours of them working on and off to get the bleeding stopped, they finally got it stopped. The Dr explained that i tore down low because he had been stuck and apparently stuck for some time. She was 10.13 lbs.
My second baby, i had gestational diabetes and we told the same Dr to plan a c-section from the go. He was due Jan 15th and took by emergency c-section on December 12th and classified as a premie. He had problems with his breathing. He weighed 12.8 lbs. We didn't get to see him for the first 5 hours. Finally, they brought him in hooked up to a tube.
It is absolutely nothing like real labor have four children and no pain medication
How about adding one of those simulated pregnancy bags too. Having to move around on a table with the extra weight and belly size makes a difference also.
I had my children natural up to the 3rd .. after 26 hours labor that did a C-section because she was breach.
My first baby I started in labor on a Wednesday, she wasn't born til Saturday afternoon. My other three babies came a little faster. Smallest was 8 lbs 2 and a half ozs, biggest was 9lbs 2 and a half ozs. All my labor was in my back each time. I'm 5'1" wt 110 lbs so I'm not a big woman. No epidurals were used back then.
I wish I could experience having a child but can’t had surgery done and found out I had a egg filled with cancer plus my uterus was scarred all over so I had a hysterectomy back in 2000
Induced labor is hard labor constantly, no epidurals
Exactly I experienced that twice it was the worst pain ever. My goodness. Hot extreme pain all over.
don't forget to give him ice chips 😂
It is so funny to see a man in labor know they know how we feel
I was in labor for 47 hours. And it was painful.
Draven Toland I know! 12 hours in, surges 4 mins apart, and they tell you “good! Your 3cm dilated! A few more hours and you’ll have your baby!!” 12 hrs later.... 6cm!....FML!
i thought i was going to die when i gave birth the pain is indescribable it feels like your whole body and organs are being torn apart, feels like you have no control over the pain and it just gets worse. feels like your back is broken and much more
What kind of weak tense machine are y'all using? I use these for massages they arent at all anything close to the labout pain simulator!
I was 10 no meds and pushing, had to have a C-section after all that. Loved being pregnant.
Where can I get one of these machines???????
Amazon
For me it was 24hrs but when I was about years old me and my brother was hit by a car and i had a Crack pelvic so both of my boys were high risk and my second baby they left me lying in pain to long with out a upperdearl and did a spineltap in sted mest my back up where's now i live with back pain
I've done natural childbirth twice, 12 years apart.
They say the best position is on all fours.
NO.
They say squatting is good.
NO!
They say lying on your back is the worst.
Well, I had back labor, and lying on my back put pressure on the back labor and made it tolerable.
Every woman is different; find what works for you.
Both times it was a 13hr delivery.
I'm looking up these videos after hearing everybody say the father goes through as much pain and physical changes as the mother during labour
Keep doing it! 👍💓
You guys didn't put the front probes low enough. He's only feeling it in his abdomen.
I went through labor pains pretty much the whole time I carried my last one, I was in bed or hospital ized the whole time.my last one was 5 wks early, back labor , born breech bottom 1st.I had drs from all over come to talk to me.
I watched my wife give birth twice with no epidural. I have nothing but respect for her. Any husband that talks shit that it’s not that bad are idiots.
I've watched videos where there were birthing experts who put those strips on the man's taint so he got the full experience. That's what he should be getting in this. Bet he wouldn't want his woman to touch him, let alone ask for sex for a whole day or 2. Lol
I had 3 babies all natural wouldn't take anything for pain and my last child labor lasted for 6 hours
What's the make and model of that TENS unit or whatever it is?
They have a small, battery operated unit. I use one like it at home and it doesn't compare to labor pain ( I have 2 babies). The machine pulses giving a quick rest, contractions don't pulsate. They need to do this with a bigger unit that plugs in, to make it more comparable to reality.
Adding a moon bump will enhance the experience!
They didn't offer epi in the 1970's. Tougher it out.
“Do you have a safe word?”
Me: ✨Pineapple juice✨ (ifykyk)
Try this without an epidural, I had no choice, grin and bear it! After 18 hours of hard labor, finally a forceps birth, and 60 stitches, I developed a very high pain level, NOTHING but nothing was as bad as having that first child. He was suppose to be 6 or 7 lbs, ended up 9 lbs 8 oz, and I was two weeks over due. I did have another child, but it was easy compared to the first. If I could have had an epidural at some point, it would have been welcomed, but back 50 years ago we weren't offered anything, just suffer until the baby is finally born.
I have to say I didn't have any pain after any of my kids. I did however have a surgery after my third and that's what gave me a lot of pain because she had to go to a bigger hospital she wasn't good and all the moving I had to do made my pain worse but trust me I did it all out of love for my little girl.. But ya no other pain . Tired as heck but no pain from giving birth. And all of mine were no pain help all natural . Didn't honestly think about it even when going through labor.
I don't know WHAT they were describing she went through in HER delivery....but I have seen my sister give birth, I have given birth, and worked in a hospital and seen to many labors to count! And I have NEVER seen/heard convulsions when someone is in labor. As well you can't get to a level 10 and then get an epidural. It's to late...you are ready to start pushing.
His nerves are jumping.
@@shonna479 I wasn't referring to him. I was referring to what they said she went through.
That wasnt even close. After nine months, you dont have a six pack to take the impact of labor. The labor pains are in your back radiating to the abdomen, down into the sides of the pubis and the groin.
im live a lot of women thats gone through giving birth it's worth the pain of life after we forget some of the pain it's what God made us for all women rule 💯
Why did they bother posting this disappointing video?
I have used these electric units before for pain
This is a tens machine....it’s really not the experience of labor. But, watching pain is always good. Lol. 😂
I was 25 hour No epidural and I ripped one and a half inch past my rectum.
He should have been wearing the pregnancy harness over the electrodes so he could really see how it is for a woman in labor.
I’ve never been pregnant or giving birth to babies. Thank you.
I had 3 natural and 2 with a epidural very painful but in the end you get a beautiful baby
If men had to give birth... how many people would be on this planet?
They have no idea what pain is.
I have 4 grown children. My first was born in a hospital. Big mistake for me. My next 3 were born at home and I had 2 lay midwives. There is no option for medications. You use breathing techniques. Water births were rare. I had my midwives and 2 friends with me. Yeah, it hurts but right after you get a wonderful high when you have your baby in your arms.
Can you imagine really big families in the past with like 9 kids or more? Yikes!!
This is the greatest thing on UA-cam other than Jesus!!!!!😅😅
This is bull crap. If it was anywhere near real labor he wouldn’t be smiling and be so calm. He needed to have those pads lower on his body. Near the groin.
I was in labor for 40 hours! I about died! 😵💫
The girl didn't do the machine right she didn't know what she was doing next time leave her out
I was never sure after I had my son. I was ready to go home right after.
I don’t think I should have watched this listening to how bad labor pains are at 33 weeks pregnant with my first lol 😅