I agree with this, I think even woman need to be reassured that there are still good man out there who also go through a lot with woman. And what you are saying will help.
The way she lit up and became happy when started talking about her salvation and ordination. There’s nothing like Knowing the Lord and being known by Him. All the very best sister Lillian. Keep on blessing the Body of Christ. You’re called for such a time as this.
This lady is so hurt that she decided to not allow any man in her life ....this makes me to fear future relationships😭 coz rate of succesful marriages iko 0%
Hallelujah Thank God she survived that bloody fight mmh!! Get yourself together move on and Better yourself. Thank God for her new Life in Christ... God Bless her 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@T C based on your comments, I can sense you're a lady. We Luhya men usually allow women to win arguments. Happy now? Drop a phone number in my inbox we eat some goat.
Very true, women go thru alot in the name of marriage,I wish God cud always try to show us who these men we are marrying are before we actually do get married to them
I am loving this show and so much I am learning about African culture and what women go through which is not easy. Women will Make a huge difference and they will bring good transformation. All up for it.
Yes we go through alot alot am one of the victim since 2008 i separated with the dad of my kids .He brought the lady in our house when i was just burying my dad .it was not easy am still single my girls are big am now in dubai working i don't trust men
Super proud of this strong beautiful woman Lillian, she's what self respect and dignity looks like, i pray God gives you a great man who will respect you.
Sometimes it reaches a point that as a woman you don't trust any man for what someone has gone through. Nobody feels good to be alone/single but according to the experience a lady has gone through makes the desire to love dead.
This Lilian Amissi is very funny,, infact she has made my nyt,, be strong Lilian coz no situation is permanent thanks Tamima for airing this & to God be the Glory
You need to know that a true christian is very comfortable without sex, secondly sex outside marriage is sin . Unless one does not fear God. Sex is but a benefit of marriage so not a big issue.
Laana zita washukia wenye kukata Amuri ya Mungu na Mttume wao. Someni bibilia ;mulielewe na mulifate.(Mila ya Adam na Ibrahim ndio sahihi)niwapi bibilia ina sema muke asiolewe na mume asioe.
@@agathamunyaka5868 I never mentioned death anywhere, but what I know is that people will always pretend that they don't do it when it's not the case. As I stated earlier, going back to the psychological bit of it, it is a basic need. Why did even Paul in the Bible advise people to marry if at all they couldn't contain themselves? I know it's sacred, but living in denial and pretext is what I dispute.
The children courts are unbelievably corrupt.. I have had to deal with my family burden due to my parents separation, where my dad chose to elope with another woman and it was all too hard taking care of siblings and a house mum who found no help from my able dad even after being in and out of childrens court until giving up.
Collins Oloo don't mind them. I believe most of the women watching this are above 18 years and they can make their own decisions. Sometimes most women are misled. Just because one woman's marriage never worked it doesn't mean another one's won't. Some of us are still young, but I know people who have been in marriage for over 35 years. A case study, my parents.
I love Lillian 😁😁😂 I have stayed by myself for 15 years too ...for sure I got a boy and again . .but for sure am feeling secure because still I have my kids . ...waaa let me prepare myself for that loneliness lmao
In most traditional societies it's quite normal as long as both parties agree and you are able to take care of them but today it must be based on consent (though the norm of polygamy is decreasing) otherwise it's cheating
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I see a lot of self love in mama Lilian bless you woman of God
Taminah brings us men who have gone through marital problems and have come out conqueres. Think men also need to be encouraged.
I think father to Ruth Matete is the best person.
Jemimah Wacuka, men do deserve a platform. I agree with you
I agree with this, I think even woman need to be reassured that there are still good man out there who also go through a lot with woman. And what you are saying will help.
Not necessarily. Was heartbroken between 28 to 30 years. Never dated again, I'm 39 now.
No kids either
I fully understand you coz I've walked that path before
Don't torture yourself Khadija, you can find true love.
Hugs ❤️
Mama lilian, we resemble. I am doing BA in theology. Loneliness is there but trust in God.
I agree with you girl women find t it hard to move on. If someone doesn’t love you someone else will.
🙏🙏
The way she lit up and became happy when started talking about her salvation and ordination. There’s nothing like Knowing the Lord and being known by Him. All the very best sister Lillian. Keep on blessing the Body of Christ. You’re called for such a time as this.
This lady is so hurt that she decided to not allow any man in her life ....this makes me to fear future relationships😭 coz rate of succesful marriages iko 0%
Marriages are good and enjoyable, they require honesty,and Gods fear.
Just because break ups are mostly aired it doesn't mean that there are no successful marriages out there. The only solution is to trust in the Lords
There are very many successful marriages.
Out of 100 marrige only 10% is successful marriage the rest ni mateso
You don’t have to fear. The only mistake that lady did is she left her matrimonial home but never left the marriage.You can always move on.
Hallelujah Thank God she survived that bloody fight mmh!! Get yourself together move on and Better yourself. Thank God for her new Life in Christ... God Bless her 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
True mama. Not a poor man. You dont have to suffer at your age. You sffered enough in the past
😂😂
I'm very much supported, actually I was wondering why I became so much lonely and in need of a partner after 13 yes of being a widow.
Bless her soul. My mum remained alone after divorce. This is over 35yrs now
My mum remained alone too after dad died 19 yrs ago.
Same,they divorced when I was 3 months now I'm almost 34 years
Most Luhya women are very hard working and faithful. I saw that from my mum and others.
True ...I usually see it the way my mum does.,she is a luhya too and a faithful woman
@T C well, I'm speaking from my own personal experience, having lived among them. You can speak from your experience too.
@T C based on your comments, I can sense you're a lady. We Luhya men usually allow women to win arguments. Happy now? Drop a phone number in my inbox we eat some goat.
Yes we are strong 💪💪
True
Mama Lillian hv swept my stress away. I cnt imagine hw was her look in her teenager😆😆🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🚶♀️🚶♂️
i have loved Emma's submission 😍😍you can't use your experience on others
i haven't been lucky in love but i know love is beautiful
Not a poor man says Lillian...good one👏🏼👏🏼
Each Child is entitled to Basics 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Difficult unsupportive fathers should be reported to Children’s court...
What if u report him but too poor to raise the child support?
Divine Mercy Is he making effort... is he showing concern? Is he active in his child/children’s lives...? Ama he has abandoned and absent!
Not a poor man 😂😂😂you got me there
😂🤣
Honesty is spiritual power! Lilian is so honest!!
She is so endearing.
Wow she got married before i was even born 🤔 ...wow!! a year before rather....women go through alot in the name of marriage/ love.
Very true, women go thru alot in the name of marriage,I wish God cud always try to show us who these men we are marrying are before we actually do get married to them
I am loving this show and so much I am learning about African culture and what women go through which is not easy. Women will
Make a huge difference and they will bring good transformation. All up for it.
Yes we go through alot alot am one of the victim since 2008 i separated with the dad of my kids .He brought the lady in our house when i was just burying my dad .it was not easy am still single my girls are big am now in dubai working i don't trust men
Pastor mama Lilian be blessed you choose the correct path.no more hurts again
I love you Lilian so honest...
That's my pastor I support you fully not a poor man😂
Super proud of this strong beautiful woman Lillian, she's what self respect and dignity looks like, i pray God gives you a great man who will respect you.
Lillian that was God calling you. May you continue with Your God and He will ashame your enemies by blessing you.
WaAah kweli this things started long tym av passed through alot am also a victim.what God can do nobody can do God is great.
Bunyore girls best sch in Kenya
Pastor Lilian my pastor all the way a strong women
Bravo mama lilian we luv yu🙏🤩🥰blessings from p.mwikali Schmidt Germany
This lady could have looked younger if she had love
Exactly bby. U took my comment 🤣🤣🤣
Not true.she looks younger coz hana mtu wa kumpea stress
Thanks so much lawyer by answering the question about divorce, have been looking for this for a long tym.
Sometimes it reaches a point that as a woman you don't trust any man for what someone has gone through. Nobody feels good to be alone/single but according to the experience a lady has gone through makes the desire to love dead.
Love dead..aa..ur right 🙋♀️🙋♀️🚶♀️🚶♂️
This Lilian Amissi is very funny,, infact she has made my nyt,, be strong Lilian coz no situation is permanent thanks Tamima for airing this & to God be the Glory
Relationships are scam.🙆
100%
Kkkk
I second
100% true.
Hahaaa😂 😂+ marriages
She looks very young n beautiful for her age😍
But luhya men will want to Mary you to take care of his children
And not a poor man😂😂😂. Lord give Lilian a good husband so she can grow old with
You need to know that a true christian is very comfortable without sex, secondly sex outside marriage is sin .
Unless one does not fear God.
Sex is but a benefit of marriage so not a big issue.
Psychologically, it's a basic need.
Laana zita washukia wenye kukata Amuri ya Mungu na Mttume wao. Someni bibilia ;mulielewe na mulifate.(Mila ya Adam na Ibrahim ndio sahihi)niwapi bibilia ina sema muke asiolewe na mume asioe.
Cecilia kaari NO NO No ... show me anyone who died cos of lack of it
@@agathamunyaka5868 I never mentioned death anywhere, but what I know is that people will always pretend that they don't do it when it's not the case. As I stated earlier, going back to the psychological bit of it, it is a basic need. Why did even Paul in the Bible advise people to marry if at all they couldn't contain themselves? I know it's sacred, but living in denial and pretext is what I dispute.
@Belinda Anyango ::Belinda plz if you're not married; I need 2rd wife.
Amen hallelujah 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽what a testimony
yeees not a poor man
Today I want to advise my parents to separate. I don't know if it's the right decision but I think it's for the better
Mothers usually don't take our advice.
@@teemaro5703 I thought this was my mother's problem only. God but why are our parents like this
Let's hope it will work, give it a try because this is also about mental health
the epitome of self-respect
Great lesson to learn
Lilian you are a strong lady
Can I connect to to my uncle who is a retired prison officer
She's very right and honest and it really happens
I am a single mother of 4kids and i always feel that am old and i don't need a man, now i have changed my mind after listening to Lilian,
Caroline Talam Go for it girl. You will get the man of your life.
@@violeteli31 thank you
What's the meaning of being single if you have kids please?..i thought a single woman or man shouldn't have kids 🤔..just asking please
@@bigben3462 🤔😃😃😃😃😃😃
May God bless you.😘😍
But not a poor man. Mama
I love pastor lilian amisi
The children courts are unbelievably corrupt.. I have had to deal with my family burden due to my parents separation, where my dad chose to elope with another woman and it was all too hard taking care of siblings and a house mum who found no help from my able dad even after being in and out of childrens court until giving up.
🤣🤣🤣🤣it,s better to say the truth,,,not poor
From doha Qatar iwish u all the best
I Like your story but find love. Children are grown.
She doesn’t have to. She a strong woman
🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆😭😭😭😭😭😭😭the things women go thru
Ask for children maintainance
You have encourage me Madam thank you so much ❤
Our children court is the most corrupt. Ave tried to get maintenance since 2011 n nothing worked up till now.
Wanawake upitia mengi pole tujikaze
Good job mum
Mrs. Were's product.
Strong woman 💪
Romans 8:28. All things work together for good. God doesn't waste pain
Strong mama Lilian
I love her honesty
Life's not easy
Wapi likes za single mom please
Sorry mom
Great show.
So sorry dear
What are you teaching these young people...surely....Work hard in your marriages nothing is easy ....
Yea tell them
Collins Oloo don't mind them. I believe most of the women watching this are above 18 years and they can make their own decisions. Sometimes most women are misled. Just because one woman's marriage never worked it doesn't mean another one's won't. Some of us are still young, but I know people who have been in marriage for over 35 years. A case study, my parents.
You did not walk in her shoes. Until then you can talk. Adultery breaks the heart of both man and woman. Trust is gone.
You can't force / safe arelationship/ marriage to stand if one isn't willing 2Love AGAIN
Madam counsellor it's not sex that makes one whole!
Sex is not just sex. Learn that
Amen
Emma , I concur
What happened to coronavirus? y'all are sitting close with no mask
These are recorded before corona virus,,,,,,,,,,,
This was recorded before the pandemic
Maybe they checked the temp, before sitting there butts down, hopefully☺
Ni show ya last year
@I c no I'm American & love African culture😍😍😍 since we don't have beautiful culture like Africana 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Atwoli is rich and up for grabs ooh
I love Lillian 😁😁😂 I have stayed by myself for 15 years too ...for sure I got a boy and again . .but for sure am feeling secure because still I have my kids . ...waaa let me prepare myself for that loneliness lmao
I have stayed alone for over 10years. I have no kids. And I am 39yrs
Khadija Kenya am 49 this year,no kids and isn’t in a relationship and I have no problem with that at all
Not a poor man🤣🤣🤣wanawake na pesa
Pastor of nowdays. Lakini she made me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Very true not a poor man,she had suffered she need somebody to just give her peace coz she hustled alot alone.
Are your culture allowed men to marry more than one wife, please educate, it's a question
In most traditional societies it's quite normal as long as both parties agree and you are able to take care of them but today it must be based on consent (though the norm of polygamy is decreasing) otherwise it's cheating
@@viviangathecha9745 thank you,
We must be loved yawa
Mbona camera man amefocus kwa dem mweupe
Tamima is pregnant
🙈😂😂😂😂
Sooooi
Big up mummy
good job
She look a young because of her make up
Even without make up she's still young.she has maintained herself
She looks very young n beautiful for her age
Inspirational story.
Man friend😂😂😂
I liked her until she behaved like Akothee..not a poor man, I hope it's not what she taught her kids
Being poor is bad I support her 100%poverty is suffering
She's right.
Hahaaaa