5 signs that He is wasting your time - Marriage is a continuation of dating problems | Joe Wisdom

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 374

  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 роки тому +16

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  • @julianangwira9338
    @julianangwira9338 3 роки тому +197

    1. Communication breakdown
    2. Untimely timeouts
    3. Postponing procedural events
    4. Inability to make important decisions - immaturity.
    5. Unending busy schedules - always having lame excuses

    • @joewisdomtalksrua4365
      @joewisdomtalksrua4365 3 роки тому +6

      Unending busy schedules- Lame excuses....

    • @joewisdomtalksrua4365
      @joewisdomtalksrua4365 3 роки тому +5

      5. Unending busy schedules - Lame excuses...

    • @roseogoti8455
      @roseogoti8455 3 роки тому +11

      Not having a vision or mission of the relationship

    • @felliesweetie
      @felliesweetie 3 роки тому +6

      I left one with unending busy schedules. I am glad I did!

    • @Dohty5406
      @Dohty5406 3 роки тому +5

      I was looking for someone who has made these points... Thankyou

  • @bettybetty8440
    @bettybetty8440 3 роки тому +40

    Mwikali laughter is so infectious plus the way she's responding tells that she has been a victim ,

  • @kammusic22
    @kammusic22 3 роки тому +58

    I stopped proving anything in love.
    I am the only woman who will tell you if you want to go go you are not my oxygen.

  • @divinakeru9469
    @divinakeru9469 3 роки тому +58

    Wish I got this advice years back.

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 роки тому +26

    Instinct that gut feeling from inside.
    Instincts come from God.
    You know and know that this man is playing you.

  • @mwendapoleee
    @mwendapoleee 3 роки тому +59

    Those good looking guys have the worst behaviours!

    • @rispathequeen
      @rispathequeen 3 роки тому

      Very true

    • @marycatherine3857
      @marycatherine3857 3 роки тому +1

      Skuizi hata hao sura Timbuktu have bad manners

    • @claudiamarekia5125
      @claudiamarekia5125 3 роки тому +1

      Walai tena,, and most of them are lazy af

    • @mwendapoleee
      @mwendapoleee 3 роки тому

      @@marycatherine3857lol ati timbuktu ..aki woooiiiyyee tena sikuhizi wanataka wakatiwe na vile hujui ni binadamu ama ubwa mwitu mimi nam scan kwanza mara kwa mara lol

    • @kaonemere1219
      @kaonemere1219 3 роки тому

      i relate

  • @lizmurish7735
    @lizmurish7735 3 роки тому +13

    "The best way to learn is through observation" this has touched me

  • @carolinegonani4291
    @carolinegonani4291 3 роки тому +30

    I love Mwikali’s outfits. They are always on point.

  • @brunos.lukyamuzi
    @brunos.lukyamuzi 3 роки тому +31

    Sharing with my boys from Uganda. Time reveals

  • @Fcamila100
    @Fcamila100 3 роки тому +19

    Can we all give a round of applause to Mwakali...you are phenomenal girl. From one woman to another I am proud of you girl. You ride the waves of this show and pick up from the speakers. Love listening to you girl....Girl power!!!!!!!!

  • @amen3545
    @amen3545 3 роки тому +74

    Last year i met someone who was speaking my exact language but later I realized it was all nouns no verbs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I left immediately!!!

  • @Mercylynn254
    @Mercylynn254 3 роки тому +11

    That is how he started, when I call he is busy or in another call, I'm somewhere with friends, I left him without even goodbye.

  • @terrywaithira6883
    @terrywaithira6883 3 роки тому +22

    I thank God coz i realized early my ex was wasting my time and prayed God to give me strength to done with him now I 'm happily with no stress.

  • @lisamungai930
    @lisamungai930 3 роки тому +19

    I decided to be SINGLE. Men can realy drain you 🤣🤣🤣🤣lies lies weeeh I I quit

  • @mercykoks7498
    @mercykoks7498 3 роки тому +26

    I watched this.. The advice was so true... And mwikalis make- up was on point maze

  • @nikitatuo6360
    @nikitatuo6360 3 роки тому +4

    That Bruce quote really got me thanks guys for the show

  • @MathewKenyi18
    @MathewKenyi18 3 роки тому +7

    Mr. Wisdom and Benjamin, you men have really made me very wise.
    Switch Tv, I can say you have set the bar of TV very high. I don't like watching TV and I don't have a TV, but you switch have made me love watching TV.

  • @maggierattz8552
    @maggierattz8552 3 роки тому +13

    There is something divine about Mwikali. Just love her b4 the show

  • @Byronwanjau
    @Byronwanjau 3 роки тому +14

    Nice topic, Thank God i have never wasted someone time.

  • @njeeringugi3702
    @njeeringugi3702 3 роки тому +8

    This is the most raw Candid talk ever....thank you

  • @helen7272
    @helen7272 3 роки тому +15

    The hunter becomes the hunted imenimaliza 👐😂, this man is the best on relationships, thankyou so much Joe Wisdom, your wisdom on relationships is on another level

  • @marilynphillips3204
    @marilynphillips3204 3 роки тому +6

    AMEN that's true
    You take care of what you love
    Pure love from the heart

  • @lynnnamu1196
    @lynnnamu1196 3 роки тому +40

    Why are you speaking to me joe..thankyou..he is out of my life from now

  • @ChrissieGitau
    @ChrissieGitau 3 роки тому +79

    sometimes I prefer someone who will tell you they need a break rather than one who will just block you and come back 3 or 4 months later to say they needed the break

    • @gladysmamatwins1019
      @gladysmamatwins1019 3 роки тому +4

      Ama anaamua kukimya, ukiuliza why the sudden silence? The creature tells you ati anakupima tu...

    • @ChrissieGitau
      @ChrissieGitau 3 роки тому +8

      @@gladysmamatwins1019 very annoying...people lack emotional intelligence. Funny enough whoever put me through that kept telling me "communication is key"

    • @gladysmamatwins1019
      @gladysmamatwins1019 3 роки тому

      @@ChrissieGitau ego

    • @cathythuo8606
      @cathythuo8606 3 роки тому +3

      @@ChrissieGitau the irony of it all! His actions spoke louder then his words. Its torturous though🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @gruendlichmummy4083
      @gruendlichmummy4083 3 роки тому +5

      By the time he blocks me I block him too and when he comes to me I will let him know that I also need a break ☕

  • @rosenelima8618
    @rosenelima8618 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this advise,this is what I'm going through,unending busy schedules,always having lame excuses.

  • @SavedByGrace715
    @SavedByGrace715 3 роки тому +12

    Ladies, build your life with a man who LOVES you, not a man you love ....A man who loves you will be careful with your heart and will do anything to keep you.

  • @Kevin_Nyutu
    @Kevin_Nyutu 3 роки тому +14

    You will always make time for what you love

  • @ruezoeentertainment2439
    @ruezoeentertainment2439 3 роки тому +13

    This is the best show... keep it up..much love from Zimbabwe🇿🇼

  • @emareesther3341
    @emareesther3341 3 роки тому +9

    So glad this came timely
    With love from Nigeria

  • @jacklinemiriti1878
    @jacklinemiriti1878 3 роки тому +7

    Mwikali.. Those shoes🔥🔥🔥
    Pastor Joe.. Have a vision even in the relationship

  • @mumbidee143
    @mumbidee143 3 роки тому +11

    Haki mimi am laughing so hard.....😂😂😂😂 This discussion is so interesting.. Kudos guys

  • @annenyambane4141
    @annenyambane4141 3 роки тому +37

    Mwikali's laughter is infectious!

  • @rebeccarachel1770
    @rebeccarachel1770 2 роки тому +1

    This conversation is a trigger as it has been my decade long trauma in marriage. I'm now divorcing and healing....but all the red flags mentioned to a tee are what I have gone through until I chose to leave and divorce. Thanks for this guys. Going forward, non toxic vybes only. Let me choose me and my babies all the time no ifs, buts or maybes.

  • @TheTabbym
    @TheTabbym 3 роки тому +8

    mwikalis laughter is contagious, lovely conversation

  • @lukubwelydia8925
    @lukubwelydia8925 3 роки тому +4

    I enjoy this show!it's on point, thanks much watching from Namibia

  • @janemuiruri4420
    @janemuiruri4420 3 роки тому +6

    I love this got a lot of wisdom,Mwikali laughter😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣on another level

  • @colonoscopy4352
    @colonoscopy4352 6 місяців тому

    Noticed this in my past relationship of 6months. I started hearing I'm busy, after 2 days stone walling.. I ended it that same week.
    Dont have time for such silliness.

  • @annewamuti3952
    @annewamuti3952 3 роки тому +3

    Mimi i love the maturity that mwikali carries herself with....nigawie kidogo tu....love the advice soooo on point.

  • @terrywaithira6883
    @terrywaithira6883 3 роки тому +5

    It is very true someone can not eat the beauty of a person

  • @kaiserfitzwanga653
    @kaiserfitzwanga653 3 роки тому +4

    I love myself. If I sense there is no future I opt out to protect myself

  • @elizabethwainaina2887
    @elizabethwainaina2887 3 роки тому +15

    I love the whole conversation..oh my God! Am happy I could afford to hear this..

  • @janemkade3488
    @janemkade3488 3 роки тому +4

    Very powerful, enlightening conversation
    Handsome and beautiful we can't be eaten 🔥🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jennifernzioka81
    @jennifernzioka81 3 роки тому +8

    Ur wisdom Joe is on another level..wow

  • @thehomestead5387
    @thehomestead5387 3 роки тому +10

    After 4 years and 4 kids I have realized this but Im not grieved, it's a lesson to teach others

  • @silungilempofu3956
    @silungilempofu3956 3 роки тому +52

    Ladies turn red flags into pinky flags when in love.

  • @gracemuthoni2687
    @gracemuthoni2687 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Mwikali and Joe. Am always learning something new.

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 роки тому +2

    You have to be found awesome. Being specific with your expectation and understand what is my vision and mission.Where are you heading to.Powerful.Looks is not all.

  • @salyakinyi4011
    @salyakinyi4011 3 роки тому +39

    Wangapi wanasoma comments tukiwatch

  • @lylyanefletcher6958
    @lylyanefletcher6958 3 роки тому +29

    Mwikali facial expression tells it all😀😀we are always victims🤦‍♀️

  • @mercyseremFavoured
    @mercyseremFavoured 3 роки тому +6

    Joe Wisdom, you are full of wisdom for sure

  • @ndutak5690
    @ndutak5690 3 роки тому +9

    Funny how my "knower" told me to stop wasting my time and I told my ex this today..I was sooo heartbroken afterward....but after watching this Nimejipa shughuli 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

  • @mrondieki9514
    @mrondieki9514 3 роки тому +6

    Joe Wisdom 🔥, Mwiks, love ua laughter 🥰

  • @beckyesther8669
    @beckyesther8669 3 роки тому +12

    Blessed to hear Joe Wisdom!

  • @childvoice8007
    @childvoice8007 3 роки тому +2

    Thankyou so much Lord for having this advice now!

  • @washingtonochieng4881
    @washingtonochieng4881 3 роки тому +5

    Mwikali you are just beautiful......all the same Advise is real

  • @jasminewambui6052
    @jasminewambui6052 3 роки тому +5

    If you want to enjoy life save time.

  • @enrietanyongesa8322
    @enrietanyongesa8322 3 роки тому +26

    Sadly so many time wasters around..people especially men nowadays fear responsibilities so as woman we have decided to be our own kind of people.

    • @crayfish3629
      @crayfish3629 3 роки тому +1

      It’s both my dear I’m a man and I’m heartbroken 😔

    • @bettybetty8440
      @bettybetty8440 3 роки тому +1

      So true

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 3 роки тому +1

      @@crayfish3629 sorry dear thus life
      But men have gone beyond in doing this

  • @florencewanjiku6715
    @florencewanjiku6715 3 роки тому

    Mummy am in love with ua voice. Hiyo voice ukiipeleka kwa mziki unatetemesha ardhi.

  • @blessedbanda4654
    @blessedbanda4654 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the right words at the right time,I indeed, needed to hear this from someone.

  • @edithmbugua5959
    @edithmbugua5959 3 роки тому +2

    This is on another level 💯

  • @luciamurunga2813
    @luciamurunga2813 3 роки тому +5

    Joe's and Zulu time should be made as 1 so that it can take 1 hour, time zao zinaisha haraka aki😓

    • @thuthula
      @thuthula 3 роки тому +2

      I definitely agree with u. These 2 guys have great wisdom.

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 3 роки тому +3

    Mwikali great shoe there na bwana wisdom, the lady that asked about her hubby not goin to chch I'll request she check her self first, she might be a reason y, this men also are soo absorbent about the God we serve on how we treat them back at home

  • @sarahnamazzi8855
    @sarahnamazzi8855 3 роки тому +1

    THE BEST WAY TO LEARN IS TROUGH OBSERVATION!!!!!👌

  • @adahanunda1229
    @adahanunda1229 3 роки тому +1

    Weee joe, Truth kabisa heve been lying to me over five years ati ooh ntaenda tu kwenu it's corona, it's this and this

  • @joycekabugua153
    @joycekabugua153 3 роки тому +3

    Pastor Joe this is amazing 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂💯

  • @teresagitonga8749
    @teresagitonga8749 3 роки тому +2

    Great wisdom sir, I love the way you are composed in this conversation.

    • @janewangari8729
      @janewangari8729 3 роки тому +1

      Am really loving this😅I feel motivated

  • @lucywambui8072
    @lucywambui8072 3 роки тому +6

    Please Joe and Mwikali, talk about age gaps in relationships. And is the perfect age gap Calculator accurate?

  • @issackabdi7001
    @issackabdi7001 3 роки тому +1

    If you get someone who loves you without condition plz keep that person bcz they are very rare

  • @mantumasibe9455
    @mantumasibe9455 3 роки тому +1

    Watching from South Africa, point taken 👌

  • @joycenasaka3425
    @joycenasaka3425 3 роки тому +3

    You have nailed it,more wisdom

  • @hellengitahi8979
    @hellengitahi8979 3 роки тому +2

    I have enjoyed this show 👏👏👏👏Thank you for sharing.

  • @joystarwatiri1667
    @joystarwatiri1667 3 роки тому +3

    Joe I love how blunt you are

  • @ireneobbayi4277
    @ireneobbayi4277 3 роки тому +3

    Thank God we have advise for our kids.

  • @maurineakinyi2910
    @maurineakinyi2910 3 роки тому +3

    I wish I could have gotten this advice lyk back in 2005 I couldn't have done all this 2 my lyf

  • @wanjikunjeri4630
    @wanjikunjeri4630 3 роки тому +8

    Am also laughing like Mwikali🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the show is on top.

  • @monicanabaasa2345
    @monicanabaasa2345 3 роки тому +1

    In your #Knower you already kno the truth so please don’t waste someone’s time Lol love ❤️💜this. Ugandans 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 where are you?

  • @bewisetv3476
    @bewisetv3476 3 роки тому +1

    Wow so many things to learn from this article thanks for sharing

  • @nobuhlekhumalo1903
    @nobuhlekhumalo1903 3 роки тому +7

    Baby bye..."cut it off immediately...don't waste anymore time..."

  • @reckydee7267
    @reckydee7267 3 роки тому +2

    aki I just feel like crying coz you people are actually talking about my relationship right now I love the guy soo much and i feel he don't care anything about me am soo much afraid to step out

    • @jody-jk8nd
      @jody-jk8nd 3 роки тому +2

      When you feel the feelling of love for him, afraid to be alone, fear ,sadness Just kill the feelling in your heart. Make your heart like hard Stone to kill these feellings and while doning that think at the same time of the things hé did wrong to you and the things you deserve . Think you deserve a man that loves you the same way you do. You have to be daring to choose for your self.
      Choosing for your self is a painfull journey but after that IT is a blisfull gift. You Will be Proud of yourself.
      You fight fight for your self. Its your self walking with you. Your self is letting you do daily things. When your alone is with yourself. Your self is asking you bagging you love me not him.
      Hé does not deserve you.
      We all want to be with someone and feel boring alone with ourself. We have to be ashame at ourself not to be alone with our self. I was there where you are now. Learn to have and but boundries for giving love.

    • @reckydee7267
      @reckydee7267 3 роки тому

      @@jody-jk8nd THANK YOU i hope i get the courage

    • @stacianduta4079
      @stacianduta4079 3 роки тому

      Step out

    • @tesh8176
      @tesh8176 3 роки тому

      Dear Gal just walk away you will find a person who truly love you

    • @reckydee7267
      @reckydee7267 3 роки тому

      @@tesh8176 thank you am already out now

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 3 роки тому +5

    I have experienced time wasting once. Now every guy I go out with I think is he one too?🤔

  • @janegitau5146
    @janegitau5146 3 роки тому +3

    I was really going thru this but I Thank God alifanya nikatoka apo

  • @amywaweru7347
    @amywaweru7347 3 роки тому +7

    Mwikali's laughter just makes my day

  • @gladysmamatwins1019
    @gladysmamatwins1019 3 роки тому +27

    I feel like tagging someone or sending this video to the creature

  • @jesintahwanjiku2412
    @jesintahwanjiku2412 3 роки тому +2

    Waaah joe maukweliii aty atalima, ataumiria..... Great episode

  • @lovelyshix8425
    @lovelyshix8425 3 роки тому +1

    I had to pause ikiwa half to break up with my boyfriend 1st now am back to finish 🤪 i know i have made the right decision coz i have just realised i have been in that now relationship alone

  • @monicamwove637
    @monicamwove637 3 роки тому +6

    Oh yes, I like Mwikalis laughter...deep

  • @nitawilliams9726
    @nitawilliams9726 3 роки тому

    yes, a mentor(my pastor) and my big brother😊

  • @graceonyango160
    @graceonyango160 3 роки тому +2

    This came in at the right time

  • @chaisemuringe7143
    @chaisemuringe7143 3 роки тому +4

    This gym is explain well and clear...Thumb up Joe 😘

  • @CaroLina-qq1hl
    @CaroLina-qq1hl 3 роки тому +7

    I wish I saw this before!

  • @nancynganga6731
    @nancynganga6731 3 роки тому +1

    Waaaaaa alaaaaa this topic has opened my eyes omg 😢😢😢😢😢🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @annnumi2623
    @annnumi2623 3 роки тому +2

    Very informative. Good job Joe.

  • @pattyray328
    @pattyray328 3 роки тому +2

    I am calling myself for a Meeting

  • @mwongelikyalo3555
    @mwongelikyalo3555 3 роки тому +1

    following.......this is just awesome.....am learning much mwikali and joe

  • @AtDorry
    @AtDorry 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you,I needed this.

  • @puritytianta5560
    @puritytianta5560 2 роки тому

    Mwilkali your laughter is contagious

  • @lydiahdollah5356
    @lydiahdollah5356 3 роки тому

    Reality,,wish the talk could be longer
    Thanks for the topic

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka6624 2 роки тому

    Funny thing is that u will always know yo dealing with a wrong man, I mean u real feel it, only that we tend to ignore d red flags n fall for d excuses

  • @susannyangala9229
    @susannyangala9229 3 роки тому +2

    I really like the show, very true