HOW TO GRIEVE AFTER LOSING A LOVED ONE

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  • Опубліковано 2 гру 2024

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  • @thebeatagp
    @thebeatagp  4 роки тому +182

    Hey family, it's a sad day for me. Kobe Bryant was my favorite basketball player. I grew up watching MJ and Kobe back to back. I was devastated when I learned that he had passed away on Sunday as I'm sure many of you were. So, I decided to create a video sharing my thoughts on Kobe, Lois Evans (the late wife of Dr. Tony Evans) and how to cope with death and some lessons we can learn from death. I hope this video serves as an encouragement to you all. Blessings,

    • @reactking7093
      @reactking7093 4 роки тому +14

      This was a much needed video. God came right on time.

    • @madisonlivingston5851
      @madisonlivingston5851 4 роки тому +13

      There were other people killed in that crash. After 3 days if Kobe Bryant doesn't rise from the dead stop worshipping him!

    • @NewCreationInChrist896
      @NewCreationInChrist896 4 роки тому +2

      Amen, unfortunately some of the worst things can be said when someone is grieving without even realizing it. It’s important to be quiet and ask God to help you grieve and comfort others.
      John 14:16

    • @jcsaves9725
      @jcsaves9725 4 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/NlERDbFOyP4/v-deo.html
      Tell me what you think!
      God bless!!!

    • @Stepan_Knows
      @Stepan_Knows 4 роки тому +3

      God bless brother Allen 🙏🏻

  • @nanakwameparey4129
    @nanakwameparey4129 4 роки тому +188

    “For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
    Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
    No matter what we go through
    GOD IS FAITHFUL

  • @Angelinesekle
    @Angelinesekle 4 роки тому +106

    Such a great reminder that we’re all in line to die and we don’t know what number in line we are 😔 but I trust the Lord

    • @LoveYourNeighbour.
      @LoveYourNeighbour. 4 роки тому +6

      AGREED! The death rate is one per person!

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 4 роки тому +2

      There is nothing to understand
      Death came by way of Adam and Eve because of rebellion/disobedience
      death goes beyond leaving the body
      It is all about what the catalyst was
      ❤👑🔥💎

    • @marama-va6772
      @marama-va6772 4 роки тому +1

      My husband passed away April 2019. He would always use that phrase when your number is up it is up. I would always get so worried because I would always think of where I would spend eternity. He was a believer but never really served God. He did write a song a few days before he passed repenting of his sins and asking God to forgive him, in the song he said I feel like Jesus is talking to me.

  • @williesmoothcattscott1667
    @williesmoothcattscott1667 4 роки тому +33

    My grandmother just died and we had her funeral this past Saturday. I believe God is shaking things up and getting our attention both believers and non believers!! We need to get right with God while the blood is still running warm in our veins!!

  • @iamhis5580
    @iamhis5580 4 роки тому +94

    I just buried my 25 year old son December 20th, 2019. My heart and soul are in agony. He battled depression and addiction. He lost that battle and I lost my heart💔. He loved the Lord but struggled so bad. Things seemed like they were getting better. I feel lost. Come Lord Jesus

    • @Mosiwomeka
      @Mosiwomeka 4 роки тому +16

      My heart goes out to you.... May the holy spirit console you 🤗

    • @rosevinson8877
      @rosevinson8877 4 роки тому +9

      Sweetie TRUST IN JESUS, HE IS A COMFORTER, A HEALER AND A WAY MAKER. IF YOU HAVE NOT, PLEASE READ HIS WORD IT WILL BRING SOLOIST INTO YOUR LIFE. JESUS WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH THIS STORM WHICH WE ALL HAVE TO GO THROUGH ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT THAT DWELLS INSIDE OF YOU BRING YOU CLOSER TO GOD. GOD BLESS YOU SISTER IN JESUS NAME.

    • @enjoliturner4179
      @enjoliturner4179 4 роки тому +10

      My heart cries out with you and my heart breaks for you. I will be lifting you in prayer.. I'm very sorry that this has happened.🙇‍♂️🙏

    • @robertpopkin1249
      @robertpopkin1249 4 роки тому +10

      I also lost my child and it is the worst thing that can happen to anyone. I understand what you are going through an you have to trust Jesus through all the tears. He will be there for you. I know the hurt is hard but you have to trust in him.

    • @enjoliturner4179
      @enjoliturner4179 4 роки тому +2

      @@robertpopkin1249 I'm very sorry to you as well. Prayers.

  • @davidbermudez7704
    @davidbermudez7704 4 роки тому +133

    I hope and pray Kobe Bryant and those on aboard were saved

    • @JustinHeilman
      @JustinHeilman 4 роки тому +9

      David Bermudez Media is reporting he was a devout catholic and left a Mass just that morning. I am hoping the same my friend.

    • @saiyongdawn7756
      @saiyongdawn7756 4 роки тому +9

      I saw on a vid that he was Catholic and had gone to church with his daughter Gigi before taken the doomed flight to the Academy.

    • @timsetto
      @timsetto 4 роки тому +34

      Being Catholic won’t get you there sadly... unless he truly relied and believing and lived for Jesus Christ & made him his savior ( I believe ) & not the religious way like Mary worship & stuff like that.

    • @poldariser8686
      @poldariser8686 4 роки тому +4

      Amen! That's the priority.

    • @PowerLord83
      @PowerLord83 4 роки тому +6

      @@timsetto There are diffrent Catholic teaching the roman catholic is what you refer to, but the more american or other catholic churches believe in faith alone, and works are only for spiritual growth.

  • @JustinHeilman
    @JustinHeilman 4 роки тому +78

    What a terrible tragedy. Death will always be hard for us to understand but unfortunately it’s inevitable and we will all endure it.

    • @LivingMyBestAlways
      @LivingMyBestAlways 4 роки тому +5

      @IT IS WRITTEN by Justin Heilman A love one dying for me was quite hard. But when I accept the call of The ALMIGHTY FATHER in my heart and mind I now understand about life and death I get new meaning to losing someone. You begin to see clearly on life because of no longer living life on what my eyes can see but how the Holy Spirit guides me.
      I would definitely miss my loved ones that’s already pass but you have a sense of Peace a peace that the world can’t give us. When one truly love the ALMIGHTY FATHER and live a life pleasing to him HE gives us a higher understanding of life than if we’re just living any old way. And he truly protect our hearts it’s like there is a protection shield over your life.

    • @gojobhai2
      @gojobhai2 4 роки тому

      Maybe his not dead he alive and his death is predicted in a cartoon

    • @TOMAS-lh4er
      @TOMAS-lh4er 4 роки тому

      How old was he , He looks young ??

    • @JustinHeilman
      @JustinHeilman 4 роки тому

      TOMAS He was just 41.

    • @TOMAS-lh4er
      @TOMAS-lh4er 4 роки тому

      @@JustinHeilman THANKS

  • @torischuerman3026
    @torischuerman3026 4 роки тому +107

    This literally came to me at the perfect time. We just buried my dad yesterday and its been so hard. We had a rough past but we were just begining to reconcile our relationship when he was taken home on Wednesday the 22nd. He gave his life to Jesus and got baptized a few years ago so we know He's with Jesus❤. Thanks so much for this video 🙏.

    • @widlife3888
      @widlife3888 4 роки тому +2

      Also Kobe Bryant

    • @torischuerman3026
      @torischuerman3026 4 роки тому +1

      @@widlife3888 what do you mean?

    • @widlife3888
      @widlife3888 4 роки тому +1

      Tori Williams he died

    • @torischuerman3026
      @torischuerman3026 4 роки тому +2

      @@widlife3888 yes I know...very heartbreaking...I pray for his family 🙏.

    • @LamarKGibbs
      @LamarKGibbs 4 роки тому +3

      @@widlife3888 idk your heart behind your reply to Tori, but I want to encourage you to be more sensitive. The title of the video mentions Kobe passed, why did you have to mention Kobe too under her post? Tori was just sharing about her dad's passing. There wasn't any acknowledgement of what she shared, and that looks really insensitive. The loss of Kobe has affected many of us, me included. Let's take care in how we respond to each other. Blessings to you!

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 4 роки тому +148

    I want people to remember God not me. I'm nothing I can't save people only Jesus can, I just want people to know Christ.

    • @PROJECT.LUKE.ONE.75
      @PROJECT.LUKE.ONE.75 4 роки тому +7

      Share the gospel with as many as you can!

    • @marytezeno8989
      @marytezeno8989 4 роки тому +6

      Kevin b beutiful words. Blessings🙏

    • @selinaaylin7224
      @selinaaylin7224 4 роки тому +5

      I just talked about this! All I want to be remembered for as well!

    • @octavia77
      @octavia77 4 роки тому +4

      My friend, you are something you are a vessel that can and will use for your good and His glory.🤗🙏🏽

    • @jordangarvin9282
      @jordangarvin9282 4 роки тому +1

      Beautiful

  • @ceejay4911
    @ceejay4911 4 роки тому +38

    When my mom died Allen, I had to go back to work because I couldn’t stand to just be at the house. I kept praying, reading the Bible, and listening to you 😊. I was mad at some folks, but I was never mad at God. I can finally think about my mom and not cry. I realize I will see her when I reach the other shore, but I still miss her. Thank you for the message and God bless.

    • @jessicamdenham
      @jessicamdenham 4 роки тому +3

      Cheryl Jackson beautiful!

    • @ceejay4911
      @ceejay4911 4 роки тому +3

      Jessica Denham Thank you, Jessica. 🙏🏽

  • @c.l.e.a.n.nation
    @c.l.e.a.n.nation 4 роки тому +35

    When my wife told me about the crash, first thing I thought was "Lord is he in your presence right now or in holding waiting for final judgment"...then I heard Tracey McGrady tell a reporter that Kobe would often say he wanted to die young with a better career than Jordan so that he would be immortalized and that really made me think about his spiritual affairs...I mean no disrespect to the Bryant family but people are quick to pour out in mourning over the death of a person of renown that they never even knew but they don't even appreciate their own biggest fans that surround them everyday: a mother, father, brother, sister, a best friend, children...my point is it's ok to admire one for their gifts but be careful to idolize no one or exalt anyone above GOD...being able to do something incredible with a ball is trivial if it bears nothing of eternal value, if it did nothing to serve Christ...one could say if it weren't for "so and so" I wouldn't have been inspired to do this but how many say "it was because I saw GOD in "so and so", that I was led to Christ and was saved..." let us pray for Kobe's family, and those who don't know Christ and let us pray for our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ to be bold and serve with courage to store up treasures in Heaven...I love you guys. May Christ bless you and keep you til Kingdom come.

    • @tomfromeriej4611
      @tomfromeriej4611 4 роки тому +6

      Amen and amen. Perfectly said, God honoring my brother in Christ.

    • @c.l.e.a.n.nation
      @c.l.e.a.n.nation 4 роки тому +3

      @@tomfromeriej4611 May our Holy Father pour out blessings on you friend.

    • @c.l.e.a.n.nation
      @c.l.e.a.n.nation 4 роки тому +8

      @Chanel Wafuana According to Tracey McGrady...he did say that he changed his attitude about it once he had children...I'm not trying to be insensitive but I'm pretty sure Kobe was Catholic...now, I know there are many people who subscribe to the idea of being a "good person" and that GOD wouldn't punish a "good person" but that is new age theology...I don't mean to speculate the mind of GOD either but GOD is the same today as HE was yesterday and will be tomorrow and although we no longer live under the old covenant, I can't fathom how one could think GOD will give them favor and protection while continually denying HIM...again, I don't mean to be insensitive, I'm just stating that many nations have fallen because of their lack of reverence for GOD, HE smited disobedient nations for arrogance and idolatry...it's sad when people die and I know the position I'm presenting is probably unsettling to some but GOD has a permissive will and a divine will...GOD reveals HIMself to all of man but most want to suppress the truth because GOD is inconvenient for those who want to be the god of their own life...I hope in their final moments Christ delivered them into HIS mercy and grace but that story is written, let us pray for revelation for his loved ones to turn to the True and Living GOD, Jesus Christ...not Allah, not Buddha, not Confucius and certainly not the pope.

  • @Adele1024
    @Adele1024 4 роки тому +15

    Lois Evans homegoing service really moved me, because she left a wonderful legacy, and I started thinking of my own legacy.

  • @judyhahn55
    @judyhahn55 4 роки тому +24

    I Will remember you for the way you have impacted my life with the word of God. Thank you you are such a dedicated man. God bless you and your family.

    • @jessicamdenham
      @jessicamdenham 4 роки тому +3

      Judy Gollihue yes yes. His ministry has definitely helped me as well.

    • @victortaylor7737
      @victortaylor7737 4 роки тому +2

      He is very anointed with teaching God's Word.i like listening to him.

  • @anthonyrodriguez625
    @anthonyrodriguez625 4 роки тому +20

    I've been a laker fan since the shaq and Kobe day's. I was heartbroken when I found out he passed. I cried and even my wife cried. But one good thing I've seen since his passing is that it's brought alot of people together and making us appreciate everyday and that every moment is a gift from god

  • @SoeFoods
    @SoeFoods 4 роки тому +7

    We are definitely not guaranteed tomorrow..RIP to all of them

  • @jerydpeaches2882
    @jerydpeaches2882 4 роки тому +11

    I was pretty shook up about Kobe; being a basketball fan myself. Thank you for this, I pray that they are all with Jesus. God bless you, sir.

  • @ty-the-christian-guy589
    @ty-the-christian-guy589 4 роки тому +26

    Bless your heart man. This video came right on time. Went to a funeral this past Saturday, the young man was 20 years old.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  4 роки тому +6

      Oh man. I am terribly sorry. That is heartbreaking at any age but especially when they are young like that. Just devastating man. So sorry.

    • @LoveYourNeighbour.
      @LoveYourNeighbour. 4 роки тому

      Wow! That's excellent timing!

    • @donnelladams340
      @donnelladams340 4 роки тому +3

      @@thebeatagp I believe in Jesus and got baptized 31 days ago. You are totally correct about forgiveness and I ask Jesus to forgive me daily. I also ask my heavenly father in Jesus name to fill my heart with love righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, and meekness and forgiveness. My greatest achievement is developing a relationship with my eternal Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Ive lost my mother and fiancee within 87 days of each other, but the first thing I did was to thank my father thou art in heaven in Jesus name for allowing me to have those 2 wonderful ladies into my life. I lean on the bible verses especially the verse of do not love this world or the things in it. The reality is that we all have this day coming as everything in this world is temporary. I ask you Mr Parr please pray for me and my family to strengthen our relationships with Jesus as I will also pray for you and your family in Jesus name Amen.

  • @CHETCompany
    @CHETCompany 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Mr. Allen Parr, my dad just passed away sometime this morning. This is exactly what I needed. 🙏

  • @stunnigfactsfr
    @stunnigfactsfr 4 роки тому +9

    Sending love from France! It’s a devastating news even here. Thank you for this video. Just hope that Kobe and everybody knew the lord...

  • @Politixx
    @Politixx 4 роки тому +5

    This is by far the most comforting thing I’ve seen and heard so far. As I’m in constant fear that God will take someone close to me away and that I’ll never be able to get over it and end up hurting myself and dying in sin . Wow . I’m a baby baby Christian. I don’t do my best to please God everyday and I fear that he’ll punish me with death all around me . I’m trying my best . You’ve helped me so much since the first video I’ve watched of yours. I can’t even put into words how you’ve led me to wanting to know God . Thank you .

  • @jeannielautenschleger9984
    @jeannielautenschleger9984 4 роки тому +5

    My granny past away January 7 she was the glue that held our family together. She was a mother a grandmother a sister an aunt but she was also a friend. She is missed and always will be.

    • @jeffouellette9946
      @jeffouellette9946 4 роки тому +1

      Time for you to step up to the plate. You be the glue now.

  • @iryairya2008
    @iryairya2008 4 роки тому +47

    Please pray for my uncle. He has a kidney failure and he is in ICU. Please pray that he get a change of heart so my uncle accept salvation from sin and a saving faith from Jesus Christ alone

    • @kkgoucher9135
      @kkgoucher9135 4 роки тому +3

      Lain Lain if he's conscious or not read the gospel msg to him. Read him John 3:16-18. It's not us who saves Romans 1:16. Eph.2,8-9 Preach Christ crucified.

    • @myachi_art
      @myachi_art 4 роки тому +2

      Lord, you know what this person and their Uncle is going through, and pray that You soften their family member's heart so that he may invite You in. ❤️

    • @iryairya2008
      @iryairya2008 4 роки тому +1

      @Keith Macy thanks. Appreciate it

    • @iryairya2008
      @iryairya2008 4 роки тому +1

      @@kkgoucher9135 i prayed for him and ask him to accept salvation by Jesus Christ alone albeit he is unconscious. Who knows what will happen next

    • @iryairya2008
      @iryairya2008 4 роки тому +1

      @@myachi_art thanks man. My family needs to know that salvation is by Jesus alone

  • @godsgift1319
    @godsgift1319 4 роки тому +16

    Yea man this hurts kobe was one of the greats. This is so tragic i hope he's in heaven with his daughter.Prayers up to his family.

    • @tonycanaris6521
      @tonycanaris6521 4 роки тому +1

      He is. In heaven.

    • @TOMAS-lh4er
      @TOMAS-lh4er 4 роки тому

      @@tonycanaris6521 How old was he , bro.??

    • @giobanni5627
      @giobanni5627 4 роки тому

      @@TOMAS-lh4er Kobe was 41 and his daughter, Gianna, was 13

    • @TOMAS-lh4er
      @TOMAS-lh4er 4 роки тому

      @@giobanni5627 WOW THANKS

    • @kmdunruly
      @kmdunruly 4 роки тому +2

      Tony Canaris we cant know unless he’s a Christian then yes if no then he’s not

  • @cindyneel5231
    @cindyneel5231 4 роки тому +5

    I lost my Sister suddenly in October. She was found dead in bed. While that seems like a tragedy the great tragedy is that she left this world unprepared and that has been a far greater grief! Pray for one another!

  • @c.nicole.n
    @c.nicole.n 4 роки тому +6

    God’s Word is always a comfort, and not too lengthy to hear. Lean in to God. That’s why we tune in. 🙏🏾

  • @hawkenman.549
    @hawkenman.549 4 роки тому +16

    It’s THE most important thing you will ever do in your entire life. My best friend use to say: Just because you wake up and put your shoes on-that doesn’t mean you will be the one to take them off later. Get born again and except Jesus NOW.

    • @aub5020
      @aub5020 4 роки тому

      Rickie Nunez can you explain this ??

  • @AGGSab
    @AGGSab 4 роки тому +1

    THIS VIDEO COULD NOT HAVE BEEN BETTER TIMED
    My best friend died last month on this day just 3 days after Christmas. I miss her so much sometimes I just cry in my room screaming why and every time I even get slightly happy I’m always reminded that she died so young. Only 15. I’ve been reaching out to Christ more than I ever had this month. I’ve been watching all your videos learning more about christianity. It feels good to be apart of the faith and I genuinely hope I feel hope. She was honestly one of the best people I’ve known in my life and I’d know she’d love for me to turn to god in this time of trouble. Whenever you have time please pray for me. Thanks for the video I can’t wait to see more

  • @stacymartin2498
    @stacymartin2498 4 роки тому +5

    Thanks for this message at JUST the right time. I lost my father 2 years ago....2 months after he passed my 44 year old cousin who was like a brother passed away from heart failure, then 8 months after he passed I lost my Nana. I am STILL grieving and the news of Kobe's death brought it all back. I LOVE your 7 points because I am 48 and am trying to prepare myself for the time God appoints for me to leave this side of life everyday and your points have helped me define "how" to better prepare. I am a believer, but sometimes my human flesh takes over and causes me to doubt, worry, stress and be uncertain about my future. I want to live as. FAITHFUL Christian who unwavers in belief that God can and will do ANYTHING. Thanks for this video.

  • @alfonsohayden4877
    @alfonsohayden4877 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Allen Parr!!! I lost my mother at 14 and farther at 17 I'm 24 now with my own place and a great job God bless me with when my mom died I felt free to really seek the lord and when I'm father died I saw who my real father who art in heaven is. My eyes were open I was deeply saddened but I was consistent maybe not as much as I liked but it drove me to seek the lord more!!! I thank God for his mercy and I pray for you family and the family of the hurting, and you have made a impact on my life my teacher I prayed for one and God lead me to you thank you!!!

    • @jimpodolski7871
      @jimpodolski7871 3 роки тому +1

      Amen praise God. My mom died 3 days ago and I hope He may comfort me and my family as He did for you too

    • @alfonsohayden4877
      @alfonsohayden4877 3 роки тому

      You're in my prayers 🙏 ❤

    • @jimpodolski7871
      @jimpodolski7871 3 роки тому

      @@alfonsohayden4877 Thank You 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Achoti7
    @Achoti7 4 роки тому +1

    No need to apologize, what was said was needed. Death is never easy an yes some time to greave or just time needed to take in what's happened is needed . It takes God to heal that's for sure. You had a timely message Bro Parr. God bless & comfort you and your family. ✝️

  • @nlewis1988
    @nlewis1988 4 роки тому +44

    Don't forget about TobyMac's son, who died of accidental overdose.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 4 роки тому

      there is no such thing as an accidental over dose when people partake in them
      ❤👑🔥💎

    • @GiBi-nt3yf
      @GiBi-nt3yf 4 роки тому

      That was unnecessary.

    • @mwn1552
      @mwn1552 4 роки тому

      Wow 😮

    • @matthewmartin7639
      @matthewmartin7639 4 роки тому

      @@mandycote5662 Not all overdoses are due to illegal drugs. Many times it is prescription drugs and the person accidentally takes the wrong medication at the wrong time. Or accidentally mixes medicines together that shouldn't be mixed together.

  • @bertsmith6778
    @bertsmith6778 4 роки тому +128

    Hell is real. Pray they were right with the Lord, or they had enough time to pray. No man knows the day or the hour. Been listening to Charles Lawson's messages on this subject. It is serious business.

    • @micahdh
      @micahdh 4 роки тому +11

      "or they had enough time to pray"... I am beginning to believe that Kobe Bryant his daughter and the others may not have known what happen but went to sleep all of a sudden not knowing or feeling a thing. I hope they loved Jesus.

    • @donnelladams340
      @donnelladams340 4 роки тому +1

      @@micahdh So when we depart this life do we go to sleep or to paradise.

    • @micahdh
      @micahdh 4 роки тому +8

      @@donnelladams340 Ecclesiastes 9:5 KJV Tells us "For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not anything, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten."
      Psalm 115:17 KJV "The dead do not praise the LORD, Nor any who go down into silence."
      Daniel 12:2 KJV "And many of them that sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt."

    • @donnelladams340
      @donnelladams340 4 роки тому +1

      @@micahdh Thank you

    • @tylique9142
      @tylique9142 4 роки тому +1

      @@micahdh that's old Testament gotta base it off new testament sricpture.

  • @SpenserRameo
    @SpenserRameo 4 роки тому +2

    Idk man, almost everyone I’ve heard talk about Kobe talks about how great of a man and father he was.

  • @lindajelks2921
    @lindajelks2921 4 роки тому +4

    Bro Allen take all the time you need Those that have an Ear to Hear will Listen Patiently God Bless

  • @tara21gage
    @tara21gage 3 роки тому

    Thank you for emailing me back about all this stuff. I miss my Daddy so much, he passed away earlier this month and it feels like it's killing me inside. He was an amazing man, I was given an amazing Earthy father from our Heavenly Father. Apparently God needed him more than we do, but I can't imagine anyone else needing him more than us.

  • @AncientBert
    @AncientBert 4 роки тому +2

    "The Ministry of Presence" is such a wonderful phrase! Lord, lead me in this direction and make me into an effective servant of Your will. Amen.

  • @uclw7183
    @uclw7183 4 роки тому +1

    Just wanted commend you for your time and diligence in proclaiming the word of God. I am humbled yet strengthened by this, Thank you!

  • @ebonyburnette4211
    @ebonyburnette4211 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this video. I lost my only child, at the age of 20 yr old, 2 months ago and it has been very difficult for me to cope. Ironically, I was going to email you for advice. This will help alot because I had started to numb my pain with old habits. God bless and keep you brother.

    • @memeross240
      @memeross240 4 роки тому +1

      Suzy Kale Praying for you I lost my only daughter (17)2 years ago suddenly . My heart goes out to you.

    • @ebonyburnette4211
      @ebonyburnette4211 4 роки тому

      @@memeross240 thank you

  • @rockymountainprincess9078
    @rockymountainprincess9078 4 роки тому +1

    I'm dealing with an unexpected death in my family as I right this comment. I keep asking the Lord, "why"? But I know I may never receive an answer nor do I deserve one. My heart hurts from the loss and the pain my family is going through.
    This message is timely as it helps me, to the best of my ability, put things in perspective and it reminds me that no matter what happens or the magnitude of pain, Jesus Christ is still my Sovereign Lord and He cares. My pain. My family's pain matters to Him. His children matters to Him.
    The loss hurts so deeply. Its devastating. And I still want to know why.

    • @mznekam5612
      @mznekam5612 4 роки тому

      Condolences to you & your family in this time of mourning. May God continue to comfort & strengthen you all each day in Jesus name. Sis, I just experienced a unexpected loss as well before Thanksgiving that I am still dealing with. Everyday is going to be a struggle to figure out how & why it happened. Just know that the best thing to do is find God's peace, comfort & strength. Talking with God is helping me day by day. Things will never be the same & don't let anyone tell you to get over it. I'm praying for you all & take care 🙏♥️

  • @sherlyn1441
    @sherlyn1441 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video Dr. Allen. My mom is always at work (because she has an obsession with money) and for my age, my parents are a little on the older side so I want to spend time with them. I'm 25 but my parents are 63 and 68. I want to show this video to my mom and I hope that she actually listens to what you said in the video.

  • @victortaylor7737
    @victortaylor7737 3 роки тому

    My friend, minister,& potential wife passed overnight July 3rd,no warning.her niece passed the day after Thanksgiving the previous year,her nephew,the previous year a day after his birthday.i knew her for 19 years,& she was closer to me than my own family in a lot of ways.i still have outbursts& cannot be around some people who didn't treat her right,but I thank God for Brother Allen for both practical& biblical points because it resonates with my spirit.God bless you,brother!

  • @longjump08
    @longjump08 4 роки тому +2

    2020 has been a rough start for my family. 2 deaths of people we knew outside the family as well as the loss of a car. I know there are others who have it worse. However and whatever your problems are....to GOD be the glory!

  • @elizablair2816
    @elizablair2816 4 роки тому +1

    I lost my best friend of 21 years to a car accident two years ago and I witnessed first hand what it's like to see her parents deal with the death of their daughter. It was heartbreaking and I see her family as my family! My heart goes out to kobey's family and they are in my prayers!Jesus comfort them! Please, take the time to tell your friends and family that you love them! Go out with your loved ones for coffee or give them a phone call! Because God, could take any of us home at anytime in a instant and it's so hard to get to a place of not regreting that you had one last phone call or time with that person. Life is so short on this earth!

  • @kekemango94
    @kekemango94 4 роки тому +9

    I tell myself all the time, that I don’t want to leave this world until I accomplish what God has put me here to do. The great gift that God has given me today, is the gift of waking up. While other families are planning funerals. We take waking up each other for granted.
    To all those who are struggling with death, I’ll be praying for you. I may not know your name, but the Heavenly Father knows.
    God Bless ❤️

    • @spaceman3611
      @spaceman3611 4 роки тому

      Being dead is better than being alive

  • @memunatusaffa9216
    @memunatusaffa9216 4 роки тому

    Blessings to you too
    Sorry for the loss of your Uncle in-law. May they all rest in perfect peace

  • @evaloveseli
    @evaloveseli 4 роки тому +1

    My life's pains have been deeper than life's joys. I don't live a life of depression by any means but my beloved husband of 36 years & infant nephew passed away the same day, my father a year later, my daughter nlaw six months after that and my mother nlaw shortly thereafter. A very wise man once said, "you must schedule joy & happiness in your life, but pain schedules itself. "So very true. Celebrate family. Live to the fullest. Laugh often. Love deeply.❤️

    • @mznekam5612
      @mznekam5612 4 роки тому

      May God continue to comfort & strengthen you each & everyday. Thank you for your wisdom ❤️ Be blessed in Jesus name 🙏

  • @orabrown3371
    @orabrown3371 4 роки тому

    Love this.. I am a leader of my Grief Ministry at Church , because I had to go through grief and I found out on my journey I tell others if you never grieve you never love. Grief is a journey and with my grief it allow me to view God in a deeper way. And in my grief I developed gifts I didn't know I had who knew God will turn my grief in to a Ministry to comfort those who grieve. God is amazing our loves ones are not in our past they are in our future. And yes your never be normal again, but in time you will develop a new normal where you will take the love they pour in you, for you to pour in others that how you can take them in to your future. People don't need to rush through grief but allow the waves to take you in the moment like you are walking in the ocean . thank you again. blessings

  • @trustjesus9881
    @trustjesus9881 4 роки тому +2

    You're right brother Allen, tomorrow isn't guaranteed. That's why we need to be born again and get right with God now.

  • @joehouston2833
    @joehouston2833 4 роки тому +18

    RIP Black Mamba ⚘⚘⚘

  • @steveparks2976
    @steveparks2976 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this brother. Right now I have a lot of people dying around me and my heart is overwhelmed.

  • @ronnieconstancio2170
    @ronnieconstancio2170 4 роки тому +2

    You've had an impact on my personal walk with God. I've shared your videos with family and friends and even my bible study group. Thank you for that.

  • @dhfuller1
    @dhfuller1 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, Allen. I truly appreciate your words of encouragement and advice. They are very helpful as I work with the loss of my father. Blessings to you and your family!

  • @Judy-hn9dr
    @Judy-hn9dr 4 роки тому +1

    My handicapped son pasted away in the fall of 2018. I know the devastation of losing a child, but I can’t imagine what it would be like to lose my husband and a child at the same time, nor can I imagine what it would be like to lose my father and a sibling at the same time. My heart goes out to Vanessa Bryant and her 3 remaining daughters. I pray they find peace and strength through our Lord and Savior.

  • @CamillesEssence
    @CamillesEssence 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Allen for taking the time to make this video. We all need a reminder of all that you spoke of in this video. I pondered on some of these topics before I watched so I know it was meant for me to watch. I pray that God continues to bless you and your family Amen! ❤

  • @SoPoetIQ37
    @SoPoetIQ37 4 роки тому

    Kobe Bryant was my all time favorite basketball player and this news rocked me to the core, feels like I lost a family member. I was so happy to learn that on that Sunday he passed, he attended the 7am mass at his church and participated in communion. It helped to ease me a bit because before he did anything on his task list that day, he worshiped.

    • @juice2691
      @juice2691 4 роки тому

      Yea but he was a Catholic so it was a false god

  • @holdingupthefallingsky
    @holdingupthefallingsky 4 роки тому +1

    Forgiving others while they are alive is crucial. I let my anger at my aunt keep me from speaking with her for a year. Although I forgave her, I failed to reach back out to her. Now she is gone and I am devastated. Can’t even process that she died. I take comfort in the fact that she knew I loved her but I just wish I had spoken to her one last time. 😔 Don’t make the mistake I made. It’s not worth it.

  • @anabanana7599
    @anabanana7599 4 роки тому +3

    Amen Pastor, thank you for your love and concern for the brethren. Blessings

  • @rr8787
    @rr8787 4 роки тому

    Thanks Allen. Your message came at the right time. Tomorrow is promised to no one. I will be studying and act upon your message about death.

  • @jerryschneider145
    @jerryschneider145 4 роки тому +4

    "The ministry of presence" , Profound brother! I will use that later in my own ministering, with your permission.

  • @MissCandeeMarie1
    @MissCandeeMarie1 4 роки тому

    No need ro apologize for how long the video was, it was GREAT content and spoke to me and I believe everyone who comes across this video, whether a believer or not can leave with a lot of takeaways.

  • @tonycanaris6521
    @tonycanaris6521 4 роки тому +2

    Knowing Kobe went to church before his death with his daughter and him attributing his Religion to coping with his life during hard times. I believe He was a changed Man and Father.

    • @nataliewalters2759
      @nataliewalters2759 4 роки тому +1

      Only having Jesus as your Savior and Lord guarantees heaven. There are people that go to church that don’t have a relationship with Jesus and won’t go to heaven. Jesus gets you in not your works .

  • @richardlafave2556
    @richardlafave2556 4 роки тому +74

    Kobe Bryant is gone, his future has been sealed, nothing we can do for him. Let's all pray for his family. Let's all pray that his family is walking in the light. Let's all pray his family is being comforted by the Holy Spirit. Let's all pray this for everyone. 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️But most of all let's all give glory to God. Praise the God that gives everlasting life. Praise the God that gave his Son. Praise the God who comforts you in good and bad times. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌🙌🏼🙌 God bless.

    • @mgeter1975
      @mgeter1975 4 роки тому +1

      Yes sir!!

    • @kingdomfreedom8323
      @kingdomfreedom8323 4 роки тому +2

      Amen.

    • @BxNcVsper777
      @BxNcVsper777 4 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @lovealways3687
      @lovealways3687 4 роки тому +1

      @ you just don't know peoples hearts, only God knows. Also as the helicopter went down I am sure people were getting right with God.

    • @kingdomfreedom8323
      @kingdomfreedom8323 4 роки тому

      @@lovealways3687 The parable of the workers come from late in the day, the Master paid the same commissioned those earlier. Times God's Will is unfathomable us in mortal distinction. His Ways are Higher than ours.

  • @CC-lm1tw
    @CC-lm1tw 3 роки тому

    My father has been gone since I was 7..I lost my nana amd now my grandfather. Oh Lord I miss them dearly. I hope to see them again

  • @esvinperez3580
    @esvinperez3580 4 роки тому +2

    This one hurts man... I find myself getting shocked by his death every now and then. Its really hard to move forward but if Kobe taught me something is *You gotta keep going*
    Miss you Kob

  • @TedMattos
    @TedMattos 4 роки тому +1

    Very wise words, Brother Allen. Thank you for sharing them with us.

  • @aperxmim
    @aperxmim 4 роки тому +6

    I believe Solomon wants us to get used to experiencing the downside of life and so we are prepared.

  • @Andrew-J316
    @Andrew-J316 4 роки тому

    Thank you Sir! I do pray for the families left here that the Spirit of comfort may be with them and that friends and family may comfort them if not with words but with companionship.

  • @jamiebirdsong395
    @jamiebirdsong395 4 роки тому

    In times like these the world needs an awesome message like this thank you Brother Parr God Bless You!!! Amen

  • @IntentionalityMentor
    @IntentionalityMentor 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing the insight, wisdom, strength, and hope with us.

  • @danielvaughn3893
    @danielvaughn3893 4 роки тому +1

    God Bless Kobe, His Daughter and others who were loss in this tragedy (RIP) . Daily devastation touches our lives in one way or another. We are all apart of one family in God through "Christ" I pray for all those whos lives are cut short in tragic events. God Bless Mr. Allen Parr for sharing his thoughts, and each of you how you expressed your grief. Every day is a gift use it wisely. God Bless

  • @dolapss1
    @dolapss1 4 роки тому

    Thank you for addressing this unfortunate incident biblically

  • @ellbdotmusic3521
    @ellbdotmusic3521 4 роки тому

    Lean into God is what's saving me. Thank you for taking the time to make theses videos. I appreciate your time and service.

  • @rodneylusk4325
    @rodneylusk4325 2 роки тому

    Always missing her smile, she would tell me things would be okay. She hugs me as I cried for my sister who passed away saying we all have to die someday she did die 2/23/22 My sister and Mother are gone to the other side. They both knew Jesus but the sadness of them not continued this journey in life with me hurts. I'm thankful for the all mighty God for blessing me with them for the time I had. Money or any material things couldn't ever compare to loved ones. We all have a season in every area of our lives.

  • @traquilasmith2275
    @traquilasmith2275 4 роки тому +3

    This is sad to hear all the people who passed away on the plane i pray that God give all the families fans and friends love and peace and strength at this sad time. Death is not easy it hurt hard and sad. We all need to forgive ourselves and others enjoy your time with friends and families and we need to take time to spend more time with God first and enjoy our life's every day. I miss and love my dad and grandma they passed they was great parents they raised me and my sister i still cry thinking about them all the time it still hurt me. I know they with me and sister in spirit and in our minds and hearts. Im so loved blessed graceful thankful and spend time with God every day of my life. Thank you God for everything you done and doing in my life. We all have to continue to trust and love God he will strengthen and will never leave nor forsake us no what happens in our life's. God loves us. God bless all.Thank you Allen for this powerful message. 🙏🙏

  • @leonabanks9131
    @leonabanks9131 4 роки тому

    A WORD FROM THE WISE ....FOR THOSE OF US WHO LOVED TO BE ENLIGHTENED. GOOD TALK! PREACH SIR!!!

  • @Cesar-pq2ck
    @Cesar-pq2ck 4 роки тому

    We’re hurting here in L.A. because of Kobe’s passing, brother. I’ve been crying since Sunday. Can’t focus on work or anything else. Kobe was part of our city/county since he was 17yrs old. He took us through highs and lows; I entered adulthood along with him. As of Sunday he was 41 and I’m 42; I feel like I lost a part of me.
    It’s hard. I never understood “celebrity” deaths until now, but the again, Kobe was family.

  • @gwenellw
    @gwenellw 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this message I wish you had this message when my members of my family died especially my mother, I was not into GOD like I am today. I was angry and I carried that angry for 16 yrs. To this day I feel I have not grieved her passing because in my family, who claim to be Christians did not teach about grieving and mourning, once my mother passed away, they were no longer in my life, they stop being in my life I raised my 11 yr old brother at the time of her passing. So, I had a lot of angry towards they and GOD, because I thought GOD was going to heal her not knowing how GOD works, here it is 16 years later, and I am just knowing how GOD works. Thank you for putting this out it is giving me a better look at how GOD works and I am very thankful that GOD loves me and not hate me, I feel more Love from GOD then what my family can ever give me. I have also forgiven them. Thank you.

  • @Aguifu
    @Aguifu 4 роки тому +2

    I don't watch basketball anyone but as a kid I loved Kobe Bryant. RIP🏀

  • @ellaw356
    @ellaw356 4 роки тому

    This was so prevalent in my life today. I have lost two of my beloved fur angels in the last two months much too early for their age. One today. Thank you so much for this message. I really needed to hear this. This was sent from the Lord. May Jesus embrace you all thru your losses as well. 🙏❤️

  • @MsMockingbird06
    @MsMockingbird06 4 роки тому

    TobyMac's son also died near the end of last year. When watching people speak about Kobe, I noticed that when those close to him tried to speak about him as a person, as a father, as a husband, how he spent his time in retirement (with family) sometimes they were redirected to talk about what he did on the court. I also wished Kobe's faith received more attention and relationship with God. Death is so hard to cope with, I personally struggle with regrets regarding relationships with those that I've lost, but keep praying for forgiveness of myself and comfort from the lord. Yes, cherish your loved ones NOW!!! Thank you for this video!

  • @reachingandgathering
    @reachingandgathering 4 роки тому

    Totally true and needed. We definitely need to learn how to grieve because too often we take on this weight of thinking “I have to be strong for everyone else.” I personally don’t believe in that because i found out the hard way, I couldn’t carry that load.
    I wondered the same thing about Pastor Tony Evans. Especially with him dealing with back to back deaths. He had just lost his father back in November as well a sibling and niece. Maybe for him though, continuing to preach is how he copes or he wants to teach his congregation that we must press through even while we suffer. It reminds me of Ezekiel losing his wife. God literally gave him 3 weeks to mourn and he had to get back to ministry. Difference is, Ezekiel did take a break-for grieving.
    All of those families need prayer right now and I know because the world knows Kobe, the focus was more about the loss of his life, but it was even more disheartening to me that the lives of all the others wasn’t as important. Hi could be wrong but those were my initial feelings when it was announced that Kobe along with 8 others died. It immediately became about just Kobe. Ijs.

  • @MrJackson2021
    @MrJackson2021 4 роки тому +2

    I too want to be satisfied with my life Heavenly Father before I transition from this place, and help others to do the same thing.

  • @kcollier2049
    @kcollier2049 4 роки тому

    Thank you Allen these were good lessons and reminders of how to cope with death. You know one of the things I thought about was, I hope Kobe was holding his daughter in his arms.

  • @yamilee1354
    @yamilee1354 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this uncut! This death really shook me and opened my heart and eyes to God even more. Thank you for being a man of God and letting the Holy Spirit use you!

  • @jackie.mendoza
    @jackie.mendoza 4 роки тому +2

    Dude I just found your channel, thanks for posting man! We need more channels that spread the love of Jesus! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @angelalala7151
    @angelalala7151 4 роки тому

    Thank you for that. Lost a friend last week and it was tragic and unexpected. I like the points you had because it is important to forgive and cherish those around you. I am still dealing with the grief of loosing my father from years ago that i realize now, i never really took the time to grieve properly. So yes leaning in to God is important. Thanks again

  • @abidingonthestraightandnar5330
    @abidingonthestraightandnar5330 4 роки тому +1

    This all is so heart breaking especially how Kobe and his daughter passed away along with those on board with them. I have never heard of Lois Evans before, I have been blessed by her UA-cam videos that has been posted to youtube since her death, such a beautiful vessel of God. My condolences goes out to everyone. One of Kobe's cousin's did my hair for years when he first got drafted into the NBA. I never met him, but all the talk in her shop, seeing pictures of them together, and endless videos of him playing basket ball showed forth the love, and admiration they had for him. No one knows their time, you can be successful, and living on top of the world, doing good deeds, and serving the LORD, but when the moment comes to meet with God are we really ready? Last year I lost three people unexpectedly, and the last one in November was so hard, because the month prior we were at one of our cousins funeral, and the next month we were funeralizing him. Although we're sad, God's will is being performed, we are not here to stay, and we must be ready at all times, we must be willing to let go of this world while we are yet still here. Kobe's death especially is a eye opener, because it shows that all will one day leave behind this life, it doesn't matter what our life status is, and were all vulnerable to our timely death, not untimely, God knows when the time comes, it's not untimely to Him, many prayers to all those who loved everyone one of these souls.

  • @FOTWC
    @FOTWC 4 роки тому

    Your videos help me understand the Bible more when I read it you explain it so well

  • @smalltalksdevotional
    @smalltalksdevotional 4 роки тому +2

    Great thoughts, Allen!

  • @latoyabenson1
    @latoyabenson1 4 роки тому +2

    amennnnnnnnn and also and on time word from God. God bless you Bro. Allen parr!!

  • @godwillbosama4289
    @godwillbosama4289 4 роки тому +1

    My condolences to you & your wife's family. May you find peace & comfort in the Lord.

  • @YahushaDollie
    @YahushaDollie 4 роки тому +20

    Focus on Jesus only dont make idols of these celebrities. Jesus already said our life is like a vapor. Stay focused because you never know when you will be called to die. Praying for the families of the victims, praying that they turn their lives over to Christ.

  • @jasonbabilonia3037
    @jasonbabilonia3037 4 роки тому

    Thank you brother allen i really needed this, i cant explain it. I never knew kobe but i took it so hard, for two days my worship suffered, im finally coming around, this video help and of course the power of the holy spirit revealed through scripture.

  • @teo2418
    @teo2418 4 роки тому +3

    I needing to hear this. Thank you.

  • @rocksolidwealth
    @rocksolidwealth 4 роки тому

    I hear everyone that talked about Kobe talking about the man he was as well as his excellence on the court. A father, husband, friend, son, and major philanthropist. He was there for people, without seeking attention for it.

  • @patriciarwilliams4223
    @patriciarwilliams4223 4 роки тому

    Thank you for posting this video!!!! It was needed!! God was confirming those true points that you share in this video. It's just what I have been thinking about and talking about with my family. This death thing has been too much for me lately (just as with others). I lost my first grade student in October, 2019 to gunfire; she was sleeping in her home; being hurt for the Evans family's loss and Kobe Bryant, and other celebs and close people. You are so CORRECT when you said to just grieve. I keep crying and feeling blue......but I am so thankful to the Lord's Word...leaning to God for joy, peace and comfort. Drawing close to Him is a beautiful act to do. Job praised God any way. Again, thank you for this video..THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @yungghost5889
    @yungghost5889 4 роки тому

    My grandpa died this morning, I’ve been spiritually attacked, my bank account isn’t looking to good and my dad has been struggling with alcoholism during these trying times... I gave in to temptation today as well I’ve been going through a fiery trial and I’ve been patient but I’ve fallen. This video has helped for sure!

  • @TimothyYi
    @TimothyYi 4 роки тому

    It has definitely been a grieving weekend...thanks for your thoughts on this

  • @iamangela171
    @iamangela171 3 роки тому

    Amen Allen, we do have to do this! I'm in the hospital now and truth be told I'm not guaranteed to make it home, only if it's the Lord's will, but right now I'm just trying to focus on this moment!

  • @p4507775
    @p4507775 4 роки тому

    Allen, true words of wisdom. Words well worth one's time to ponder on. Truly insightful. All done without one flaw in their presentation. Thank you my friend for your ministry. Always a pleasure to hear your take on things. Thanks again. My condolences to you and your wife for your loss. Take care.