K-drama Multifandom II Child Neglect II "Not Another Trophy"
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2022
- Warning! This video contains scenes of violence.
How often children hear that they are not good enough? They say "try harder", "keep focused", "don't you love me?" etc. A child is not owe its parents anything. A child isn't a trophy.
Did you watch the P&G's commercial about olympics? All of them (London 2012, Sochi 2014, Rio 2016, Tokyo 2020) are amazing. And the message was clear: mothers always stand beside their children as they stand behind their medals and wins and helped them reach all of it. And I'm not arguing about it. When I make my edits I don't do them to say that all parents are bad I only want to show another side of some phenomena.
So I only want to say that sometimes there may be not only love and support as they show us but cruelty and coertion. And sometimes parents not just support theit children in their efforts to do sports or make music but force their children to do it to bring themselves honor and glory. That's why I chose one of the Ludovico Einaudi's compositions, which are used in P&G's commericals, to show contrast. The composition is really beautiful but what you see on the screen isn't.
The second thing I want to discuss. Why I called it "neglect"? When parents set other goals like perfect scores, sport's achivements etc above their child well-being and its emotional condition it is a neglect. I wanted to make it clear.
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All rights are reserved. I don't own any rights.
I don't own anything except the editing.
K-dramas are used (in order of appearance):
• Beautiful World 2019
• Wrestler 2018
• Itaewon Class 2020
• Melancholia 2021
• Twenty Twenty 2020
• Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
• Penthouse: War In Life 2020
• No Breathing 2013
• SKY Castle 2018
• At Eighteen 2019
• Short 2018
• Page Turner 2016
• Fourth Place 2016
• Class of Lies 2019
• Run on 2020
• Love Never Fails 2015
• SKY Castle 2018
• True Beauty 2020
• Law School 2021
• The Great Shaman Ga Doo Shim 2021
• Start-Up 2020
• Thank You, Son 2015
• Uncle 2021
Song: "Experience" by Ludovico Einaudi - Фільми й анімація
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0:01 - 0:08 - Beautiful World 2019
0:09 - 0:12 - Wrestler 2018
0:13 - 0:18 - Itaewon Class 2020
0:19- 0:28 - Melancholia 2021
0:29 - 0:31 Twenty Twenty 2020
0:32 - 0:38 Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
0:39 - 0:44 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
0:45 - 0:47 No Breathing 2013
0:48 - 0:52 At Eighteen 2019
0:52 - 0:54 Beautiful World 2019
0:54 - 0:55 Melancholia 2021
0:55-0:57 Short 2018
0:57 - 0:59 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
0:59 - 1:01 Page Turner 2016
1:02 - 1:04 Beautiful World 2019
1:04 -1:06 At Eighteen 2019
1:07 - 1:07 Short 2018
1:08 - 1:08 Page Turner 2016
1:08 - 1:09 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
1:09 - 1:10 Melancholia 2021
1:10 - 1: 13 Beautiful World 2019
1:13 -1:16 Fourth Place 2016
1:16 - 1:18 Penthouse: War In Life 2020)
1:18 - 1:20 Melancholia 2021
1:20 - 1: 21 At Eighteen 2019
1:21 - 1:24 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
1:24 - 1:26 Page Turner 2016
1:26 - 1:29 Class of Lies 2019
1:29 - 1:30 At Eighteen 2019
1:30 - 1:33Twenty Twenty 2020)
1:33- 1:34 Run on 2020
1:34 - 1:35 Short 2018
1:35 - 1:36 Fourth Place 2016
1:36 - 1:38 Short 2018
1:38 - 1:39 No Breathing 2013
1:40 - 1:43 Wrestler 2018
1:43 - 1:44 Class of Lies 2019
1:44 - 1:45 Page Turner 2016
1:45 - 1:46 No Breathing 2013
1:46 - 1:46 Love Never Fails 2015
1:47 - 1:48 Penthouse: War In Life 2020)
1:48 - 1:49 SKY Castle 2018
1:49 - 1:50 No Breathing 2013
1:50 - 1:51 Run on 2020
1:51 - 1:51 Short 2018
1: 52 - 1:52 Fourth Place 2016
1:52 - 1:53 No Breathing 2013
1:53 - 1:55 Class of Lies 2019
1:55 - 1:57 Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
1:57 - 2:00 No Breathing 2013
2:01 - 2:04 Short 2018
2:04 - 2:07 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
2:07 - 2:09 At Eighteen 2019
2:09 - 2: 11 True Beauty 2020
2:11 - 2:14 Law School 2021
2:14 - 2:16 The Great Shaman Ga Doo Shim 2021
2:16 - 2:16 At Eighteen 2019
2:17 - 2:17 True Beauty 2020
2:17 - 2:18 Melancholia 2021
2:18 - 2:18 At Eighteen 2019
2:19 - 2:19 Start-Up 2020
2:19 - 2:20 Run on 2020
2:20 - 2:20 No Breathing 2013
2:20 - 2:21 Love Never Fails 2015
2:21 - 2:21 Thank You, Son 2015
2:21 - 2:21 Melancholia 2021
2:21 - 2:22 SKY Castle 2018
2:22 - 2:22 Start-Up 2020
2:22 - 2:23 Run on 2020
2:23 - 2:23 Love Never Fails 2015
2:23 - 2:23 True Beauty 2020
2:23 - 2:23 At Eighteen 2019
2:23 - 2:24 Twenty Twenty 2020
2:24 - 2:25 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
2:25 - 2:25 Thank You, Son 2015
2:25 - 2:26 SKY Castle 2018
2:26 - 2:27 Melancholia 2021
2:27 - 2:28 Love Never Fails 2015
2:28 - 2:29 Start-Up 2020
2:29 - 2:29 Short 2018
2:30 - 2:30 Wrestler 2018
2:31 - 2:31 No Breathing 2013
2:31 - 2:32 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
2:33 - 2:36 Class of Lies 2019
2:37 - 2:52 Run on 2020
2:52 - 2:57 Class of Lies 2019
2:57 - 2:58 Wrestler 2018
2:58 - 3:01 Start-Up 2020
3:01 - 3:02 Fourth Place 2016
3:02 - 3:05 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
3:05 - 3:07 SKY Castle 2018
3:07 - 3:10 Thank You, Son 2015
3:10 - 3:11 Twenty Twenty 2020
3:12 - 3:15 Melancholia 2021
3:15 - 3:16 Class of Lies 2019
3:17 - 3:18 Wrestler 2018
3:18 - 3:19 Love Never Fails 2015
3:19 - 3:20 No Breathing 2013
3:20 - 3:23 Wrestler 2018
3:24 - 3:27 Beautiful World 2019
3:27 - 3:30 Thank You, Son 2015
3:30 - 3:35 Start-Up 2020
3:35 - 3:36 Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
3:37 - 3:38 Start-Up 2020
3:38 - 3:38 Melancholia 2021
3:38 - 3:38 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
3:39 -3:39 Wrestler 2018
3:40 - 3:40 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
3:40 - 3:40 SKY Castle 2018
3:41 - 3:41 Class of Lies 2019
3:41 - 3:42 Page Turner 2016
3:42 - 3:43 Melancholia 2021
3:43 - 3:44 Short 2018
3:44 - 3:46 Wrestler 2018
3:47 - 3:49 SKY Castle 2018
3:50 - 3:52 Itaewon Class 2020
3:52 - 3:53 Thank You, Son 2015
3:53 - 3:56 Run on 2020
3:57 - 4:03 Twenty Twenty 2020
4:04 - 4:10 Melancholia 2021
4:10 - 4:15 Penthouse: War In Life 2020
4:15 - 4:21 Page Turner 2016
4:21 - 4:28 Wrestler 2018
4:28 - 4:31 Beautiful World 2019
4:31 - 4:33 Short 2018
4:33 - 4:35 Run on 2020
4:36 - 4:41 Uncle 2021
4:45 - 4:50 Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
4:50 - 4:51 Run on 2020
4:52 - 4:53 Twenty Twenty 2020
4:53 - 4:55 Short 2018
4:56 - 4:59 Page Turner 2016
5:00 - 5:03 Start-Up 2020
5:03 - 5:04 Melancholia 2021
5:04 - 5:04 Wrestler 2018
5:04 - 5:07 SKY Castle 2018
5:07 - 5:08 Melancholia 2021
5:08 - 5:09 Start-Up 2020
5:09 - 5:10 Love Never Fails 2015
5:11 - 5:17 At Eighteen 2019
Thank you so much ❤️ buddy 👀
The heck that must take a while to do ..ur my hero bro tysm
Ur an angle thankyou so much. 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
Thank you for your time 😘
Thank u so much 💓
*„I‘m not your daughter. I’m your trophy. And now your trophy is broken“* - That line hit so hard😭😭
Hey are you okay
Yeah that line hit hard.. .
It's not like i don't want to study and make my parents proud ..i just don't wanna get compared
Same, we all hv dffnt path and we all hv our own time to bloom. It should be the same
This FMV is so underrated, I am in tears...... This brought me goosebumps..... "Every kid needs a parent, but not every parent deserves a kid"
All parents say that they want us to become a perfect student or perfect man/women in future but it's not true they just use us to satisfy their dream through us.
Even tho we don't wanna become someone we don't like.
It hurts cuz when children see their parents tears they feel that it was their mistake and give up on their own hopes . Parents sacrifice for us and we for them . I hope people understand the children also .
Let's promise to our future, we will not be a parents likr this. We will be someone, our kids can proudly say, "i love my parents and if there is a second life i want them to be my parents again "
Me:it's my life mom
My Indian mom: I have given u birth so live according to me
@@ap240and mostly it's too awful when u go through mental torture and manipulation than she plays victim card telling it's for ur good 😔
they will tell u i scarified my carrier for u. but i if i get a chance to speak i will say i sacrificed my happiness, smile ,childhood , a part of myself
Yeah jobless and liablity
Tbh it’s also not their fault they don’t want us to fail in life like they did Ik some times the way they put things and the way they treat isn’t good but they also have this pressure from society n relatives I think we should also some times feel sorry for them they had one life but they couldn’t live to their best cause they also had expectations to meet but they want us to be financially successful so that we can live our life to the fullest unlike them
smells like she's narcissist,i know cause I'm dealing with one.
"The most beautiful moment in my life...was the worst for you."
mom,
i havent seen this life at all. i existed only as your daughter.
---- me
Because of my parent's abuse I don't even remember when was the last time I genuinely smiled.
I'm so sorry that it happens to you but please don't forget that you are much more than their words You are amazing person and you deserve better. I hope you will smile despite their words and actions because your smile are beautiful. You are beautiful. Please stay strong I hope everything will be better soon❤
In the end, thophies are nothing less than a worthless piece of fake gold...
Hell no man. You'll know the worth after you win one
A status symbol
@@dahyunisjypsdad3813 no thophies that are forced you to win are worth it you lose yourself your happiness your dreams your everything
" We all need a someone who gets you like no one " in form of parents which is very rarest case 💔😭
It's embarrassing. I hate my family because of what they do, and I fail at everything. Even when I succeed, it becomes like: Oh, this is what is required of you in the first place. You didn't do anything great..."Your brother is better than you, even if he doesn't study, he gets better grades than you." "You are a disgrace to the family" "Why are you not the first, you have to be the first in everything" Even suicide I failed at
This is the problem of other people if they don't understand that our grades do not show who we are. And you are amazing and you deserve to be loved as every person. Please, stay alive 🖤
Im proud of you, you've fought battle after battle and your still here, whatever path you choose to take, i know you'll do great in it, just follow your heart.
@@bryndenrivers3496 exactly, parents should know that
i hope you are doing well but yet i want to ask how are you doing ?
I don't want to live or die for others , i truly hope that you start giving yourself more importance and live , not for me not for others , but for you . i am never going to meet you and even if i do , i won't be able to know that it's you but still i feel it would be nice to know you
i am not going through anything yet i hope you don't give up , hold on and live like a fighter that you are
and if you found me offensive or intruding, i sincerely apologize to you
have a good day
In a kdrama they can stand up for themselves,but in the reality it's so sad.
I genuinely want to ask everyone do children deserve all of the stuff they are going through
No, they don't. Unfortunately, many of them were stuck with horrible parents.
@@jorienwachukwu466 i wanted to die on my 16 th birthday
As an Indian child I hate parents
Our brains are sick
Bc of our grades , k anyway our grades more important than our mental health. :((
well my brain says if u don't get good marks everyone is gonna hate u
In the end tropies are nothing but a fake piece of gold
Really underrated edit !!this really got me goosebumps!!!
Ikr it's so gooddd
What hurts the most I that I feel like this every single day
My parents tell me how are your grades did you study
When I was in elementary I had to read 4 hours a day and study for an extra hour and in middle school was the worst always studying mental health was really bad then I had an anxiety attack the. I had to talk to the counselor every day of the month sitting in a depressing room talking about my feelings which also caused my insomnia to worsen and tbh I haven’t been the same since because in my family you are loved more if you have good grades I used to have straight A’s now I still have some but B’s and get compared to other kids like I don’t deserve to live like this I was also neglected as child also my parents were taught to not show affection and they admit that they messed up on me
( I can’t even ask my parents for anything bc I am to scared that they are going to hurt me)
I'm so sorry. It's so hard to know that so many people have such a horrible experience Parents should be the one who must understand their responsibility for raising a child, be grateful to their kids and not demand this gratefulness for themselves bc sometimes they do not deserve that
It really hurts
I'm so sorry, hope your family gets better, even if barely. I'm crying reading your traumas 😔😢
i understand u. they will never be satisfied.
Me too girl
it's freaking hard to be an average student in middle class Indian family.
every day is a mess, I have mental issues but there is no one who listen.
what I here is 'GET GOOD GRADE OR AFTER12 I WILL GET YOU MARRIED OR I WILL SENT YOU TO AN UNKNOWN PLAE WHERE NO ONE WILL BE THERE FOR YOU'.
I want to say I am trying hard to live and to be a good child:(
I'm so sorry to hear that No one deserves hearing such terrible words. We know and you know that you are trying your best and you are good child, your parents don't deserve such a good child. Please stay strong and remember that you're doing enough. You are enough, even more than enough, you are great!
@@bryndenrivers3496 Thank you for your kind words and you got new subscriber!
My parents are my best teachers they teach me to become stone for this shit world 🗿
Sometimes it is impossible to bear all the pain at all. First is the uncontrollable pain they gives us and want as to be according to what they want us to be ,a winner, a champ, a property and being a robot who quits only at their wish and who starts only at their wish. And second the regret of shouting on them and blame us. Now what is remaining is to suicide to get rid of all the PAIN😢. Still they will say at last, it was for our own good. FUCKING NO!!!!!
IT'S NOT.ITS NOT.ITS NOT.
its for your wish.its for your fulfillment.its for YOU not me.
Really the last line was true😢.we are not their child but a trophy which is now broken(into pieces).😖😖
I'm very sorry to hear all these words. And I'm really sorry if this video caused so much pain. Your words are true, but I made this edit only to remind that we do not live for them, but for ourselves. No matter how much it hurts, we still have to remember that they have no right to do this to us. We are not trophies so we're not broken and we don't need to be fixed because we are not fake pieces of gold (how many of us are mentioned here), we are golden just the way we are 🖤
This edit is so good. It really mad me feel the emotions, it really made my heart ache.
This edit is truly amazing. One of the best I’ve seen :)
Thank you
I cried. All the scenes in this video are so real... It's hurt ... 😢
It so sad that so many of us face this in our life
So true I almost had a panic attack , it felt so real
You know what hurts the most ' It's parents words .'I don't care how other people look at me.And how they judge me .But I care how my family think about me.Everyone think I'm crazy.Because no matter how hard it was I will smile.Even though I'm drowning.I cry when I'm alone.Because I don't want them to know that I'm broken.Because I know no one will care for me.I pretend I'm fine.But my heart is aching.I wanna leave everything behind.I want to say everyone that " Leave Me alone ."But I can't.I'm afraid that everyone will laugh at me.I'm afraid of my parents.I'm afraid of whole world.I'm afraid of myself.
The only thing that matters in this world is you. Don't listen to others. You are important, your feelings are important. It's your life not their So please care for you, love yourself and stay alive 🖤
Amazing edit, you're too underated I swear
Thank you
Im Always getting compared to my brother and no mather how good or bad my grades are my dad is never proud of me-
So sorry to hear that
They don’t know how hard it is to get 2nd and 3rd place
sometimes i feel like no matter what i did they will never be satisfied. If i dont score well or get admitted to a good university , they tell me that i cant even do such small thing . But when i do, they that that is whats required of me , that is what i should be doing and that i shouldnt be too proud of myself for accomplishing such trivial task. Its as if i will never be enough not matter what i do.
It's strange how our own parents can tell such horrible things to their children. No matter what they are saying you should be proud of yourself and what you had achieved. So please stay strong and know that you are enough. Always ❤
Such a masterpiece ❤🫂
Thank you!
Doc Hudson: You see them as... achievement, I see them as... a bunch of empty cups.
really nice edit
The parents are broken themselves 🙂at first i thought so but sadly🙂
May I know what kdrama does this line "The most beautiful moment in my life was the worst for you." appear?
Goodbye to Goodbye 2018
1:58 blease 😭
no breathing,it's a movie
Hats off to you ❤❤
This is just truly amazing 😢 and can someone pls tell me the name of song used .
Thank you! The song you can find in description - Ludovico Einaudi "Experience"
I AM TRYING 😭😭😭😭😭leave me alone!!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am tr…ying
They know it’s hard they know it’s too much then whyyyyyyyyyy they know they know they smile too yet
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why
Me: why do people think suc**de is the only option when u're depressed and stressed, please don't do that to urself, u r precious😭 . The world is evil, but once u get through hard times u'll meet the right people.
Also me: 🙂 ********************************* i can't anymore, i'm tired
So true I feel that too but please please don't give up. Stay alive🖤
@@bryndenrivers3496 i'm trying hard🙂
المجروح من اهله لا يشفى ابدا:(
Everytime I am reminded how useless i am 😃....no one cares
You're not useless. You are priceless as every person!
I have a 8.6 CGPA. But its not above 9 so its useless.
Can you write all the drama or movies name?
List in the description 👆
Oh thank you
What's the name of the instrumental music in the background
Check the description
Thanks
By which app u edited..?.. It was so good🙂
Sony Vegas 11 Thank you✨
@@bryndenrivers3496 thnks!..
@@bryndenrivers3496 sorry but one more thing.. How u got these clips of diff dramas.. Like sometimes I try to edit any trailor.. I find it hard to have short short so many clips... Screen recording nd then setting is so tough, as well as time taking.. How do u did?
@@ot-7 Actually I did it exactly as you said) And yes... It took a time that's why I made only 2-3 mv's in a year
@@bryndenrivers3496 so how you actually do then?.. Do u too do using that?
2:16 to 2:27 😢
1:29 the boy with the blue hoodie drama name and which episode
1:29 - 1:30 At Eighteen 2019 but I don't remember which ep it is
I am not okay anymore,I thought this was normal and I was the one at fault.......but I'm not...
Definitely, it is not your fault! Never was. Please don't listen to those people who makes you think that way, because they wrong, they just do not see how beautiful you are
@@bryndenrivers3496 thanks alot,your literally the first one to say that!You really made me feel better.
@@seiusido no need to thank me because I'm just saying the truth - you are wonderful person as every hu,an being is and the ones who doesn't see that they are just blind
4.27 name?
Wrestler 2018
Which show is at 1:58 and 2:01
No Breathing 2013
What movie is at 3:13
Melancholia 2021
Being eldest daughter made myself so perfect got 100%in academics got 1st position in debates, because the 4 times chairperson of muns did 15 Ted talks got gold in badminton got gold in abacus got gold in many games but still my parents think i am useless 😭😭 i really can't understand what they wanted a child or the walking and living presentation which should be perfect how much more perfect a person can be i can't help out if i scored 95 in school and came third why can't they understand that it was board exam of 10th and out of 200 kids i was on third position why can't they understand that i wanted to live my childhood but still killed it in the pressure of relatives mann the cousins you are talking about she is completing ger college am just a 12th grader why cab theg see this that i was born 6 years later then they was born i was the youngest in my whole batch everyone was from 2006 i was from 2007 stilll tried mh best why can't they be happy at what i got 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm so sorry dor you. Everything you said, there is no excuse for this. Children try their best to justify their parents, but for some reason this justification simply doesn't exist. I don't know how selfish one can be to demand something from one's child. Parents (by demanding incredible formal success from their child) often try to show people what good parents they are, but in reality it only shows how bad they really are. Because the only thing that matters is the child's happiness.
Gegen Katzen essen ✊
2:43 drama name?
Run 2021
@@bryndenrivers3496 thank you
@@bryndenrivers3496 which episode is this scene from?
@@pinkoreos5602 I don't really remember which episode it is but think (only think) smth around ep 6-7
@@bryndenrivers3496 still can’t really find it but thank you anyways
This is so pitiful
Deama bleas 2:02 🙏🙏
1:58-2.02 is No Breathing 2013 2:02~ is Short 2018
@@bryndenrivers3496 1:34 wht kdrama? which eps and 1:41
@@_sportsnabzzz_5743 1:34 - Run (i think it is second episode but i'm not sure) 1:41 - Wrestler 2018 It's a movie
@@bryndenrivers3496 thank you